Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Hi we're back. Wah wah wah.
Speaker 3: We've got a mouthfi depression.
Speaker 2: One million percent.
Speaker 4: It's kind of like a I was telling you on
Speaker 4: the plane, where it just feels it was so much anticipation,
Speaker 4: you know, the wedding and the honeymoon and and just
Speaker 4: I mean all of it, and then so then when
Speaker 4: it's just done, it just feels kind of like in
Speaker 4: a way and not not depressed, but just like a bummer.
Speaker 2: But it's all done.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we'll come back to clothes. Yes, four
Speaker 5: or five days as well, which doesn't help, No, not
Speaker 5: at all.
Speaker 4: It's been so cloudy and I mean the sun is
Speaker 4: not peaked out yet in like five days. So it's
Speaker 4: just adding to the jet lag the tiredness. And we
Speaker 4: haven't really been able to connect from being back either.
Speaker 5: No, I've went from spending every single minute with each
Speaker 5: other too, arrived back with the kids to deal with
Speaker 5: romans jet like.
Speaker 3: He's new tooth coming through.
Speaker 5: And I was in Chicago yesterday, So I feel like
Speaker 5: I've not seen you for four days.
Speaker 4: I mean, we really haven't because we've been so tired too.
Speaker 4: By the time we go to bed, it's eight o'clock
Speaker 4: and we're like, we're exhausted, and just you know, unpacking
Speaker 4: everything and just getting trying to get back into the
Speaker 4: rhythm of things has been I think a little difficult.
Speaker 2: For real least.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And there's also so I think I mentioned that
Speaker 5: when we were in Italy that you know, when you
Speaker 5: go somewhere and then you're in it, so you sometimes
Speaker 5: don't appreciate it or and then when you come back
Speaker 5: you think, but you think back and you reflect, you
Speaker 5: think that was so special. I think this has been
Speaker 5: even more difficult because we realized during the honeymoon how
Speaker 5: incredible and special a place it wasn't how incredible a time.
Speaker 3: It was together.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I think the anticiap it's not even.
Speaker 3: I don't want to call it.
Speaker 5: It's like a cloud the word depression, yeah, either because
Speaker 5: it's a strong word. Yeah, but that cloud. Now that
Speaker 5: we're okay, we've had to leave that special place in
Speaker 5: our special honeymoon and reality jetlag, screaming kids, teething problems,
Speaker 5: but it was the most amazing experience ever.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: No, I mean it's true though, what you said, because
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of times. And I know
Speaker 4: in past trips that I've taken, I don't really soak
Speaker 4: it in, but I mean every moment was soaked in.
Speaker 4: It was and we were grateful for every moment, every meal,
Speaker 4: every every piece of every piece of the cacha, every
Speaker 4: you know, I mean the gelato. I still I mean
Speaker 4: the amount of sounds that I made eating the food,
Speaker 4: Like last week, if I.
Speaker 5: Could have put gelato on for caca, well it's with
Speaker 5: some pasta on.
Speaker 4: I know, it's it's crazy too because the food there
Speaker 4: I'm not eat pretty we both eat very good. I'm
Speaker 4: pretty much gluten free, pretty much dairy free minus like
Speaker 4: the random you know, cheat days. But in Italy I
Speaker 4: was like, you know, I'm just I'm not going to care.
Speaker 4: I'm just going to eat whatever I want to eat.
Speaker 4: And it's totally fine. How I came back five pounds
Speaker 4: less because fills. I know that's I want to move
Speaker 4: to Italy now because of that, because I've never enjoyed
Speaker 4: my life more eating all those carbs. I mean, we
Speaker 4: had we had bread at every meal, with pasta, with
Speaker 4: pizza with the katcha, then followed by ice cream, and
Speaker 4: I had the flattest stomach ever, and I was happy
Speaker 4: eating all that food. It's crazy and I come back
Speaker 4: here and I'm like, I'm my gut hurts again. I've
Speaker 4: had skin problems like my two weeks away did like
Speaker 4: wonders for my just everything.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've Capri and a maufy coast must be one
Speaker 5: of the most famous locations for fresh food in the
Speaker 5: quality of food.
Speaker 3: Italy in general with food and wine is world renowned,
Speaker 3: doesn't it.
Speaker 5: But that particular part of the country is like it's
Speaker 5: almost on like a different level from anything else in
Speaker 5: terms of how special it is and the quality of everything,
Speaker 5: like even like the color of the ocean, like and
Speaker 5: how it contrasts with the cliffs. And it's just the
Speaker 5: whole place is the whole place is just like heaven
Speaker 5: on Earth.
Speaker 2: It really is.
Speaker 4: And I think that's why. I mean, you've known me
Speaker 4: for a couple of years now, When have I ever
Speaker 4: wanted to stay longer on a trip? Usually it's how
Speaker 4: soon can we get out?
Speaker 3: How can we change our flight to get away earlier?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Normally what you do always because I want to get
Speaker 4: back to the kids, or I want to take the
Speaker 4: earlier flight, or I just want to get out and
Speaker 4: I wanted to stay.
Speaker 2: I mean I was crying.
Speaker 5: Cried the night before, You cried on the boat the Naples,
Speaker 5: you cried on the transfer to the airport.
Speaker 3: You try you cry in the airport.
Speaker 4: Because it was truly the most magical special time spent
Speaker 4: with you. I mean it was a week of just
Speaker 4: soaking up every of everything and just having such I
Speaker 4: mean we had the most beautiful time personally together too,
Speaker 4: just all the laughs we had and just the connection.
Speaker 4: And I don't think there was one thing like, Okay,
Speaker 4: so let's well, we'll we'll chat with because the girls
Speaker 4: are going to come burst this wedding post wedding suite
Speaker 4: in a little bit a few minutes actually, so I
Speaker 4: guess before they come, what's like a moment for you
Speaker 4: that was the most special.
Speaker 3: The most special moment. So there's a couple. But I
Speaker 3: for I have to really.
Speaker 5: If I really to define the whole trip, Like I
Speaker 5: knew the first hotel in Ravelo, the Belmont Curuso. I
Speaker 5: knew that it's sitting at the infinity Pool where you
Speaker 5: can you almost feel that you're in the mountains, but
Speaker 5: you can see the ocean and you're so high up.
Speaker 5: I can't remember. I can't remember how many thousand feet
Speaker 5: up were, but it's almost but it's almost like it
Speaker 5: gives you the peace and tranquility just to reflect and
Speaker 5: plan ahead. And that's not very often, I know what
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm always going from one thing to the next.
Speaker 5: But it was almost like I could sit there and
Speaker 5: capture the mountains and capture the ocean, capture a vision
Speaker 5: of the rest of our lives together. So for me
Speaker 5: being able to have that vision every day at the
Speaker 5: pool and just like and I knew I would reflect
Speaker 5: on that. Okay, we were in the boat and we
Speaker 5: were in the ocean, and we jumped in the ocean,
Speaker 5: and as incredible as it was, but being that high
Speaker 5: and having the mountains in the ocean, just being able
Speaker 5: to like, okay, I can actually see the future.
Speaker 3: I can't see the future, but.
Speaker 4: I was like, tell me more, what's happening in our future?
Speaker 5: But that that was like a really special moment. And
Speaker 5: then there was times where we would share those moments together,
Speaker 5: on times where you would go on your own and
Speaker 5: look at the the view and I would go on
Speaker 5: my own. And so I think for me that that
Speaker 5: vision of the mountains and the ocean together being so
Speaker 5: high up was and you need to people listen to
Speaker 5: this and be like, well, I don't understand what it means.
Speaker 5: You have to be there to experience it.
Speaker 4: It's almost like when I was in Ireland at the
Speaker 4: Cliffs of Moair, it was like, you can't A picture
Speaker 4: doesn't do an injustice. Like we can show a photo
Speaker 4: of this beautiful scenery that we're talking about, but to
Speaker 4: feel what we felt there, it's like you have to
Speaker 4: just be there to see it, you know. That's how
Speaker 4: always say too, Like when I talk about the cliffs,
Speaker 4: I'm like, it's the most magical thing. Like it's like
Speaker 4: a photo. Pictures don't do it justice. Like evenh we
Speaker 4: were taking photos, we kept saying, this just doesn't do
Speaker 4: it justice. Like take look at our photos on Instagram
Speaker 4: and then multiply it by a million, and that's like
Speaker 4: how it is there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hear you, and yours.
Speaker 2: For the honeymoon, I would say, I.
Speaker 3: Thought we were only talking about the honeymoon.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's okay, you know, I mean, yeah, well
Speaker 4: we've kind of gone backwards, but we'll go We'll start
Speaker 4: the wedding recap with when the girls come. But for
Speaker 4: the honeymoon, I I mean, I definitely agree with you.
Speaker 4: Just staring out and having so many moments where I
Speaker 4: just kept saying thank you, thank you to God, thank
Speaker 4: you to my Grandpa's thank you to just like how
Speaker 4: life has changed in a way that I never thought
Speaker 4: it would and how beautiful life is. And it's just
Speaker 4: I just kept being just so many moments of thankfulness.
Speaker 4: Just I just kept saying thank you over and over,
Speaker 4: like thank you for this, like thank you for this
Speaker 4: road that I would have never even known was a
Speaker 4: possible road to walk down. So I think those moments
Speaker 4: were just really like beautiful. And then to have you
Speaker 4: walking down those roads with me, you know, it's just
Speaker 4: like it's just a I don't know, it just was
Speaker 4: like a very sentimental yet and then having this experience.
Speaker 4: I've never had a honeymoon. We've got to experience this
Speaker 4: together and it's just beautiful.
Speaker 3: Okay, so the wedding, what was your favorite moment?
Speaker 4: I feel like we need the girls to kind of
Speaker 4: recap everything first and then I'll tell my favorite moment
Speaker 4: from there because it was not as expected. You know what,
Speaker 4: why don't we just take a break and then we'll get.
Speaker 2: The girls on. Okay, the girls are here.
Speaker 4: We so we were just talking about the honeymoon and
Speaker 4: just kind of how we've come back and it's been
Speaker 4: really gloomy here. It's been hard to kind of get
Speaker 4: in the the rhythm of jet lag, wanting to sleep
Speaker 4: all day, wanting to know not or not being able
Speaker 4: to sleep, Like, isn't that it's gloomy?
Speaker 2: And ye waking up at like the.
Speaker 4: Tan Russells are here Italian sun Kissed Russells party too. Well,
Speaker 4: that's what we were saying. I'm like, I've I want
Speaker 4: to go back to Italy, like yesterday it was the
Speaker 4: most magical time we've ever ever ever, So should we
Speaker 4: recap the rest of the honeymoon or should we.
Speaker 2: Start from the beginning.
Speaker 3: Well, it depends for the girls want to hear about
Speaker 3: the honeymoon or not.
Speaker 2: Well. I actually facetimed in on the honeymoon, you too,
Speaker 2: I did. I felt like we all lived together for
Speaker 2: like four days and it was like ooh, I just
Speaker 2: felt like very like college, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: everybody went their own way and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: this doesn't feel cozy, And I was like, Hi, what
Speaker 2: you doing? And where was I laying in a chair
Speaker 2: looking gorgeous in the sun. It was wonderful.
Speaker 3: Face colored and for catcha crumbs.
Speaker 4: Yes, all right, so then we'll just start with the
Speaker 4: honeymoon then, so for those that because they wanted to know,
Speaker 4: you know, where we went. So we went to Ravello.
Speaker 4: So I originally really wanted to do post Aitana because
Speaker 4: I under the Tescan Son is one of my favorite movies.
Speaker 4: I wanted to do Tescany in Positano, and uh, we start.
Speaker 4: I've never worked with the travel agent before, but we
Speaker 4: got her information and I'm like, you know what, we
Speaker 4: should probably hire someone because I don't know anything or
Speaker 4: like what that area and you were we weren't really.
Speaker 3: Like not being testly, but I've never been to Yeah, So.
Speaker 4: We just wanted someone that had like the knowledge of
Speaker 4: where we were going. And she was like, you do
Speaker 4: not want to go to post Aitana in July. And
Speaker 4: I'm so glad that we talked to her because we
Speaker 4: almost booked six nights in Postana. Remember, there was like, oh,
Speaker 4: there's a honeymoon, sweet deal. I'm just going to book
Speaker 4: it at this hotel thing. It was called Hotel Poseidon
Speaker 4: and She's like, if you want something relaxing, you do
Speaker 4: not want to go to Postana. It's hot, there's a
Speaker 4: ton of people, and I'm like, everyone says how much
Speaker 4: they love it though, And then we.
Speaker 3: Went and we had also a bit strange.
Speaker 5: We are so strange, intend not to like the things
Speaker 5: that everyone else likes.
Speaker 4: But the fact that we both are the same is great.
Speaker 4: That's what we said over pizza.
Speaker 1: So you like a lot of people, No, that's I
Speaker 1: think where they're going. They did not like a lot
Speaker 1: of people.
Speaker 5: We went to Positive Tunnel, so the Mouthi Coast, the
Speaker 5: most famous part of their Maufi Coast is probably Positive
Speaker 5: Tunnel degree.
Speaker 2: I agree, well, my knowledge of it.
Speaker 3: The most widely recognized place. Millions of people.
Speaker 5: Either we go there and we're like, we say to
Speaker 5: the driver, okay, well give us two hours and we'll
Speaker 5: be back. We got there, I hadn't even driven through it,
Speaker 5: like we might be back here in forty five minutes.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I instantly felt my throat clothes. When we got out
Speaker 4: of the car.
Speaker 2: I was like, so are you going to stay here
Speaker 2: in this area because there's just people everywhere, right.
Speaker 3: But it's so steep for the he crowded, and so.
Speaker 4: I knew that once we're going down, we're going to
Speaker 4: have to come up with all these people too. And
Speaker 4: I mean there's just and it was hot. It was
Speaker 4: like one hundred degrees and so and you're in these
Speaker 4: like crowded little streets going down and I'm like, I
Speaker 4: just thinking we're going to have to go up and
Speaker 4: this is not going to be good. And he even
Speaker 4: looked at me and he was like, are you okay?
Speaker 4: Are you are you feeling claustrophobic? But I didn't want
Speaker 4: to say yes, even though my whole body was.
Speaker 5: Like the telltale sign was Our plan was okay, go
Speaker 5: walk around for a little bit, get a pizza, and
Speaker 5: then go back. We got we got to the pizza
Speaker 5: restaurant and she's like, can we get this.
Speaker 3: To go.
Speaker 5: Just calmed down by the ocean. But even then it
Speaker 5: wasn't like we were looking onto the ocean.
Speaker 3: It was so crowded.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know when you see those images from like
Speaker 5: of beaches in the fifties and sixties and they're just
Speaker 5: rammed with people, And that's what that's what it was like,
Speaker 5: wasn't it. Yeah, it was almost like a step back
Speaker 5: in time. With this, loads and loads of people in
Speaker 5: a small area. But we had we stayed strong.
Speaker 2: Instant, we did it.
Speaker 3: We had a pizza and we walked back.
Speaker 2: And he only returned the pizza once for too much cheese.
Speaker 1: As much as say, how do you even eat pizza?
Speaker 2: It's a huge tomato fan too, right, so like, oh
Speaker 2: you do? So do you do?
Speaker 4: Put?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Like the tint but of mozzarella?
Speaker 4: She would. I took a video and you'll say there's
Speaker 4: some zero's on that. The guy's like less and I'm
Speaker 4: like he means less, like like nothing, Just put like
Speaker 4: one literally.
Speaker 2: To make it an official pizza. So one little shred.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But we stayed in Ravello for three nights and it
Speaker 4: was the biggest blessing because it was so peaceful and quiet,
Speaker 4: and the little town in Ravela was adorable. We would
Speaker 4: walk down there and get gelato and it was just
Speaker 4: it was not swarmed with a bunch of people. You
Speaker 4: can still go to post Atano and do all those
Speaker 4: things on a day trip if you want, but I'm
Speaker 4: glad that we did not stay there. How far is
Speaker 4: the drive if you do that, like ai ftew minutes?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, yeah, So it's like, I have a
Speaker 2: drive is geographical reference in my brain? Wear anything crazy?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're going to want to hire a car? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: because there's just I wanted to take a scooter.
Speaker 2: O god, that would have been amazing.
Speaker 4: Desk and he said no, and I'm we actually met
Speaker 4: someone in Capri that their scooter brakes didn't work, and
Speaker 4: so she was all red, like, I mean he fell off.
Speaker 2: That's too terrifying. Yeah, and he's like, thank goodness. My
Speaker 2: wife was like yeah.
Speaker 4: So then we left Ravello. We did a boat trip
Speaker 4: from Ravello to Capri as they call it, and that
Speaker 4: was a magical day. And it was funny because what
Speaker 4: was the first thing he said, got on the boat?
Speaker 2: Are there any shot about our driver? Say yes, make
Speaker 2: oh lord joined and it's like a welcome aboard on
Speaker 2: the way he did me too obvious.
Speaker 4: Otherwise it was pretty funny that we said it. He's like,
Speaker 4: should you thank Mike for driving us around? But the
Speaker 4: boat trip was so beautiful. We went just you two
Speaker 4: on the boat. It was just us too. He took
Speaker 4: us around to just different caves and.
Speaker 2: Hey, are you guys, I forget this? Are you big?
Speaker 2: Like water ocean people? Like in the water. Like I'm
Speaker 2: a solid beach goer and I love to be on
Speaker 2: a boat and look at water, but I don't like
Speaker 2: to be in.
Speaker 4: I will jump in the middle of the ocean. Okay,
Speaker 4: he was more, I will jump in at the course.
Speaker 3: I don't like. I don't like not knowing what's underneath me.
Speaker 2: Same human Okay, I wondered.
Speaker 3: I jumped on the course of the courst.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And where we differ as I had a noodle because
Speaker 4: I'm not the.
Speaker 6: Strongest swimming in the middle of the with a night
Speaker 6: that I was going to be my next question.
Speaker 2: They call it posita because it is Italy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but there was one place I didn't use the
Speaker 4: noodle in that beach club because no one else was
Speaker 4: and I was like, well, I can't be the.
Speaker 3: Only one ten feet from the rocks.
Speaker 2: True. Yeah.
Speaker 4: But we got to Capri and that was it. We
Speaker 4: had to we had to switch our mindset a little
Speaker 4: bit because it was a different vibe.
Speaker 3: Hotel was beautiful, Yeah, lovely, this little small boutique. It
Speaker 3: was like if Ralph Laurn made the hotel.
Speaker 2: Yeah, super cute.
Speaker 4: Our room, though, was above a public beach, so like
Speaker 4: you can hear kids screaming from like in your room.
Speaker 2: So it's just like you had. I had to go
Speaker 2: a little taste at home.
Speaker 4: But I had a little moment of like, oh wait, wait,
Speaker 4: this is not peaceful to me.
Speaker 2: And we had a little tell us what those eyebrows me?
Speaker 2: And Alan? I want to hear his version. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean I almost feel like we need a little Alan
Speaker 2: Russell run down something good.
Speaker 5: But I think it'd been edited until that point. And
Speaker 5: we were in a tranquil spot in the mountains.
Speaker 2: I mean the mouse tranquill.
Speaker 5: And we didn't know that Capria was going to be
Speaker 5: slightly different, although very classy and and nice. But the
Speaker 5: beach and to be fair, the first night was the
Speaker 5: noisiest night.
Speaker 4: But I mean we have a balcony on the beach
Speaker 4: and at ten thirty at night, they're having a party
Speaker 4: at the beach and so it just wasn't we can't
Speaker 4: we couldn't even use our balcony because it was just
Speaker 4: it was so loud. It was was not relaxing.
Speaker 5: So it'd be polite, yeah, I mean, you just didn't
Speaker 5: feel at peace. So we were thinking, did we change hotels?
Speaker 5: We did we do this that? But we I wasn't
Speaker 5: too bothered by it, but you were more bothered than
Speaker 5: I was. But we managed to come to a solution
Speaker 5: where we blocked out the noise.
Speaker 3: And we stayed.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because the last thing I want to do is move.
Speaker 4: I just had to change my mindset.
Speaker 2: Well. Also, like I would say this objectively, and I
Speaker 2: think a lot of people listening would feel this way,
Speaker 2: like you've planned this like once in a lifetime trip
Speaker 2: and you're.
Speaker 4: Spending a lot of money ocean balcony view that I'm
Speaker 4: not now using because it's so loud and crazy.
Speaker 2: I had a similar experience when we checked into our
Speaker 2: hotel at Scotland. Actually, oh really yeah, okay, I had
Speaker 2: a moment uh huh where I was like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: this is one in the lifetime right right, yeah, so
Speaker 2: you can kind of see, yeah, I'm like, this is
Speaker 2: not what was described.
Speaker 4: Sure, and I might have changed a room or had
Speaker 4: a different room if it was like if I knew
Speaker 4: it was right above a public beach. And now that
Speaker 4: I looked at reviews, I'm not the only one. I
Speaker 4: had an issue with that room.
Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, and really it wasn't an issue. No. The
Speaker 3: next two nights will actually fairly quiet, and we relaxed.
Speaker 4: Then I just had to change my mindset to going, Okay,
Speaker 4: now we're in a different place, it's a little more lively,
Speaker 4: and let's go out and let's you know, because like
Speaker 4: when are we really in the rooms anyways? Minus So
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, instead of going back to the room
Speaker 4: and having a chill, let's go out and get a
Speaker 4: drink in town or let you know. So it's like,
Speaker 4: let's change the vibe, which we did and we we
Speaker 4: rocked it with that, and I fell in love.
Speaker 3: With Capri and the hotel was amazing.
Speaker 4: They were so sweet. Yeah yeah, and ended up and
Speaker 4: I would go back there with the different.
Speaker 3: Room pretty sure. The stuff he is, I'm not.
Speaker 2: Sure if you're welcome back, but you wouldn't go back
Speaker 2: and wait, there are other different rooms that aren't.
Speaker 4: There's like farther away rooms from the actual and it
Speaker 4: was a private on the beach with their higher so
Speaker 4: like the rooms would be little. So we're like right there,
Speaker 4: got it, that makes sense, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like it's there's a.
Speaker 4: Higher room a little bit more over where there's not
Speaker 4: as much.
Speaker 2: Noise, just a lively public beach. Yeah, interesting until late right,
Speaker 2: that's Grandma's do you agree with that?
Speaker 5: Changes and put us into the penthouse. But our room
Speaker 5: was actually better than the penthouse. So we're like, no,
Speaker 5: we'll leave it. Yeah, but she can put your plugs in,
Speaker 5: we'll be good.
Speaker 2: I did, and I did. I put my air plugs in.
Speaker 4: So I think having said all of that, it was
Speaker 4: like so beautiful. I tried to stay longer you did.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 4: I called the airlines to see and they were like
Speaker 4: that I know, that's what I was saying.
Speaker 2: I know, I'm a little shot.
Speaker 3: Thought.
Speaker 1: When all the flight stuff was happening, I was like,
Speaker 1: she changed her flight sooner, that's what you usually did.
Speaker 4: Tried and they're like it will be this much, and
Speaker 4: I was like no, so and then we almost missed
Speaker 4: our flight or we still don't have our bags, but it.
Speaker 2: Was still don't know no, wow.
Speaker 4: No, I did go get in a razor because finally
Speaker 4: I was like, I have to shave. It's been no
Speaker 4: a week.
Speaker 2: That's amazing. So did you ever have your bags? We did.
Speaker 4: So the problem was is we went from Naples to
Speaker 4: oh sorry we were We had to stop because we
Speaker 4: had to go obviously, go pick up the meatball. So
Speaker 4: this is one of the questions on Instagram is howd
Speaker 4: the kids get home? So Jolie and Jase flew with my.
Speaker 3: Heard the kids go home.
Speaker 2: It's a fair.
Speaker 4: Question, Okay, so some people really like logistics. Yeah, and
Speaker 4: I logistically handled it well. So I flew because we
Speaker 4: knew we wanted to go to Italy post but we
Speaker 4: didn't want to have to all fly back to then
Speaker 4: fly back. So we had Joli and Jase fly home
Speaker 4: with my dad and his wife, and then they spent
Speaker 4: some time in Michigan. I then flew Mike up to
Speaker 4: Michigan to get the kids. A few days later. Mike
Speaker 4: then flew them back and then Roman stayed in Scotland
Speaker 4: with Alan's mom and dad, and so we had to
Speaker 4: then after Italy go back to Glasgow to go pick
Speaker 4: up via Frankfurt and Edinburgh. So at Edinburgh I learned
Speaker 4: the same Yeah.
Speaker 2: So we've all are just Edinburgh corrected American this wedding Edinburgh. Uh.
Speaker 4: So then we were leaving h Naples and it's a
Speaker 4: matt house at that Naples airport.
Speaker 2: There's so many people, it was so small.
Speaker 4: They were lovely though, because I was that frantic person
Speaker 4: every time it kept getting delayed. I'm like, we have
Speaker 4: a connection and it's not that long. Do you think
Speaker 4: we'll make it. She's like, you'll be fine, You'll be fine, Like,
Speaker 4: you'll be absolutely fine. And then it delayed even more
Speaker 4: and she's like, you're not gonna make it, You're fine,
Speaker 4: And I'm like, because at this point I knew there
Speaker 4: was then now no options to get home. It was
Speaker 4: going to be like Thursday or Friday to get us
Speaker 4: on like and it would be like a massive change
Speaker 4: because it's some different airlines or whatever. So we would
Speaker 4: have had to it would have been it would have
Speaker 4: been crazy. Anyways, So we land and the I will
Speaker 4: say the fledgends were lovely in Frankfurt because they knew
Speaker 4: that we had we were the only ones that had
Speaker 4: that the type the connection. Yeah, So we landed in
Speaker 4: Frankfort at the time our other flight was taking off.
Speaker 4: And at this point I've already processed where we've missed it,
Speaker 4: and I've already processed that we're going to most likely
Speaker 4: have to take a flight to where.
Speaker 3: At this point you've deviated to wolst case scenarios.
Speaker 4: Well, because the flight was taking off was always a chance.
Speaker 4: Come on, you knew that flight no no before this though,
Speaker 4: like we knew we were taking off and it was
Speaker 4: still on time.
Speaker 5: But the captain dead states is, don't make any assumptions
Speaker 5: until we get on the air and we can update you.
Speaker 1: Right that captain should write as if is going to listen,
Speaker 1: don't make any assumption.
Speaker 4: Other flight was still on time, and he said the
Speaker 4: flight our time is going to be this many hours.
Speaker 4: So we were landing at the time our other flight
Speaker 4: was taking off. So would you not assume you're going
Speaker 4: to miss that flight?
Speaker 3: I feel.
Speaker 5: If I thought we were going to miss a flight,
Speaker 5: I wouldn't have sprinted Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Well obviously because it went okay.
Speaker 4: Anyways, so we're having a couples intensive. Well yeah, because
Speaker 4: I'm like, we clearly had missed we were missing that flight.
Speaker 4: So I had already processed we're missing that flight. The
Speaker 4: only there was like two options. We either got a
Speaker 4: flight from from Frankfort to Manchester was that it, and
Speaker 4: then drive to Scotland, getting in at like two am,
Speaker 4: then getting the meatball and then getting on our eight
Speaker 4: am eight thirty flight.
Speaker 2: I traveled the same way though, like I would rather
Speaker 2: just go Okay, if it happens, we have a plan,
Speaker 2: and if we can catch it, excellent, But most likely
Speaker 2: my brain was like there's no possible way, right, Like
Speaker 2: we are literally landing when it takes off. So while
Speaker 2: we're taking off, we get a notification that our flight
Speaker 2: is thirty minutes delayed, and I'm like, I've already in
Speaker 2: my brain again processed I've missed this flight. Don't do
Speaker 2: this to me, because the worst feeling.
Speaker 4: In the world is running to an airplane gate and
Speaker 4: then you're seeing your plane and telling and then them
Speaker 4: telling you you can't get on, like then having that
Speaker 4: feeling of like missing that flight, I was just like
Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to, Like, I just I
Speaker 4: can't deal with that. So when we landed in Frankfurt,
Speaker 4: the sweet guy and girl that were like, hey, so
Speaker 4: your plane has not taken off yet and they haven't
Speaker 4: started boarding yet, so run and we I could have
Speaker 4: like split up blood I ran.
Speaker 2: I was so out of shape that too, like eating pizza,
Speaker 2: car overload, like gelato, really regretting a lot of those choices.
Speaker 4: I stopped and was like I'm in a puke and
Speaker 4: we ran and we made it, but our bags didn't.
Speaker 5: Love story shortcase, so that's that suitcases didn't.
Speaker 4: But long story short and made the flight and that's
Speaker 4: the logistics. We got meatball then when and then went
Speaker 4: from Glasgow to London, London then too Nashville. So we've
Speaker 4: made it home. But how about we take a break
Speaker 4: and then let's start from the beginning. Okay, So where
Speaker 4: do we even start?
Speaker 2: Guys?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Okay, probably the.
Speaker 4: Travel too, Yeah, okay, because no one knows that piece
Speaker 4: of it. So I was telling my therapist the other day.
Speaker 4: I was like, what part do you want to hear first,
Speaker 4: the good or the bad?
Speaker 2: What did she say?
Speaker 4: She was like, I want to hear it all, and
Speaker 4: I want you to share as much as you want
Speaker 4: to share.
Speaker 2: Response.
Speaker 4: It's a great theramist, tell me more and because we
Speaker 4: know too. Like when I was talking to her, I said,
Speaker 4: one of my biggest things was, you know, I just
Speaker 4: I want it to be perfect and I'm afraid and like,
Speaker 4: what if people get sick or.
Speaker 2: You know, what if they do? Cramer, what if they do?
Speaker 4: And so but I was like, I'm they're fine, I'm
Speaker 4: I've you know, I got pumped with IV's a couple
Speaker 4: of times I've been filling the kids up with stuff
Speaker 4: like everything's going to be great. The flight was seamless,
Speaker 4: they were amazing. A last minute I upgraded and I'm
Speaker 4: so glad we did. It just made me feel better
Speaker 4: and everyone got to sleep. The kiddos slept great, Romans slept.
Speaker 4: We did not, but that's fine.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 4: And then we land in Scotland and I'm not again,
Speaker 4: I will not. This is not your this is not
Speaker 4: your dad's fault. I'm just going to start.
Speaker 2: I'm going to start nothing. No, nothing starts a healthy argument,
Speaker 2: quite like, I just want to say at all.
Speaker 4: I just want to say it's not though, because it's not.
Speaker 4: It wasn't solely him that was coughing. There was people coughing.
Speaker 2: On I mean a lot of people cough.
Speaker 4: There was a lot of people coughing on the airplane
Speaker 4: to exactly Glasgo. There was a lot of people coughing
Speaker 4: at the airport waiting like that one lady that was like, Joelie,
Speaker 4: please go stand over there because I'm like, and I'm
Speaker 4: very conscious of a cough right because i just don't
Speaker 4: want the kids to get sick at this point, because
Speaker 4: I've done such a good job trying to keep everyone.
Speaker 3: Healthy, conscious of power, anod both.
Speaker 2: Equally equally will own. So we.
Speaker 4: Sendy just a lot of people cough they do like
Speaker 4: they exactly a lot of people is a human thing. Yes,
Speaker 4: and your dad does cough a lot like I feel
Speaker 4: like old older people, like they have a lingering cough
Speaker 4: all the time.
Speaker 2: He does, right, for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was a little something different to this coough
Speaker 4: when I got into the car, so we had a
Speaker 4: little Europeans don't believe in big cars, so we had
Speaker 4: to take two cars to your parents' house or to
Speaker 4: the where we were, to your aunt's house where we
Speaker 4: were staying, and there was you know, we're just having
Speaker 4: some delays or whatever. So I was like, well, I
Speaker 4: got to go home and feed, I got to go
Speaker 4: get roman fed. And everyone just kind of situated. So
Speaker 4: why don't I take the kids with your dad when
Speaker 4: some of the luggage and then you meet us there.
Speaker 4: So then we take it the thirty minute trip with
Speaker 4: your dad and he is, i mean hawking up along
Speaker 4: and I was just like, oh, Julie, did you say
Speaker 4: it's hot in here?
Speaker 3: Honey?
Speaker 4: So I'm like just like and in my mind I
Speaker 4: was like, oh, dear God, please know. Like, but then
Speaker 4: I'm thinking it's fine, it's all good. And then your
Speaker 4: dad says that he has a fever like the next day,
Speaker 4: and again, I'm not putting this on your dad whatsoever,
Speaker 4: because I think there are so many chances that they
Speaker 4: could have gotten it from anybody else.
Speaker 2: Having said that, the next.
Speaker 4: Day, I heard it from Jolie and I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: here we go. And then one hundred and four fevers later,
Speaker 4: all three kids were sick. Yeah, and uh with they
Speaker 4: had croup and COVID.
Speaker 2: COVID.
Speaker 4: Well, my dad tested positive and my mom after they
Speaker 4: were with the kids, so I'm pretty sure it was COVID.
Speaker 2: Oh they both got Wow. So I'm pretty sure. So everyone,
Speaker 2: And how are you feeling, Katie?
Speaker 4: I feel great, and I does negative and I feel excited. Okay,
Speaker 4: So it was the I mean, I will say here
Speaker 4: and this is what I kind of told my therapist.
Speaker 4: I said, as I look back, it was the kids
Speaker 4: were coming in in the middle of the night, suffering
Speaker 4: to breathe because they had that croup, wheezing. We were
Speaker 4: able to just get some of the things that we
Speaker 4: knew that we needed for them.
Speaker 3: You got creative we got.
Speaker 4: Creative with getting some things like I knew they needed
Speaker 4: like albutle and hailers and all that and some antibiotics
Speaker 4: and but it it was difficult because you know, they
Speaker 4: were sick, and a piece of me was I still
Speaker 4: wanted them to make awesome memories. So when we went
Speaker 4: to that one castle, I mean, they were running one
Speaker 4: hundred and three fevers, but we you know, gave them.
Speaker 4: We were rotating between tyle and hall and motrin, and
Speaker 4: when they were feeling up to it, I'm like, and
Speaker 4: their fevers broke for a few hours. I was like,
Speaker 4: all right, let's go, and they wanted to you know,
Speaker 4: like there was moments of times when they.
Speaker 5: Well there's nothing, That's what I said to you, there's
Speaker 5: nothing that would have really changed. They just said it
Speaker 5: not feeling as good as they should have felt.
Speaker 2: I know, but that broke my heart. Is like it wasn't.
Speaker 5: Stolen Castle has been quarantined for two weeks now, no
Speaker 5: one else has been allowed.
Speaker 2: Then is that true?
Speaker 3: It's been quarantined stolen Castle?
Speaker 2: Oh stop it. Like I didn't even understand that one
Speaker 2: right now. I fell for it.
Speaker 4: No, But I mean, like I still like got them
Speaker 4: out because I just when they were still you know,
Speaker 4: they they wanted to too, Like we didn't go to
Speaker 4: Edinburgh with you guys because I was like that would
Speaker 4: be too much of a journey for them feeling sick.
Speaker 4: I always think, is Yeah, So like, you know, we
Speaker 4: did the zoo thing, which we were in the car for
Speaker 4: and you know, we weren't around a bunch of people,
Speaker 4: and the Stirling Castle was outside, and so we did
Speaker 4: things that and that was the day they were really bad.
Speaker 4: Was that Wednesday? Uh but and then Thursday, but I
Speaker 4: mean all three of them. And Thursday that's when Roman
Speaker 4: spiked his really high fever of one of four. And
Speaker 4: it was just that piece was so stressful and I
Speaker 4: regret at that moment not having help because it was
Speaker 4: just us and in the middle of the night, you know,
Speaker 4: it's I'm wanting all of us to get sleep, and
Speaker 4: now I'm not getting sleep because now I have anxiety
Speaker 4: that I'm going to get sick and I'm going to
Speaker 4: be sick for the big wedding day and then the honeymoon.
Speaker 4: And so I then became like this insomniac for the
Speaker 4: rest of the vacation because I just would wake up
Speaker 4: with anxiety and then like a pool of sweat that
Speaker 4: one morning. That one night I asked a like, I
Speaker 4: need to go because I took ivermect him.
Speaker 3: You took I woke up.
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like clammy and sweating like profusely.
Speaker 4: I was like in a puddle. I don't know if
Speaker 4: I was like cleansing like cause, because at that point
Speaker 4: I texted Nate and said, Okay, I have like this
Speaker 4: medical emergency kit with me. What can I take in
Speaker 4: here to like help me not get sick, you know?
Speaker 4: And he was just like, if you have ivermectin, take it.
Speaker 4: So I took one. And then that night I woke
Speaker 4: up in like a puddle of sweat. I was cold,
Speaker 4: I was clammy. It freaked me out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but anxiety can make you.
Speaker 4: For sure, and it might have been that too, but
Speaker 4: I've never woken up in a puddle of sweat. And
Speaker 4: I continued that for like four days. And so that
Speaker 4: was that was the piece of the trip that I
Speaker 4: felt bad for the kids. They weren't feeling good. But again,
Speaker 4: looking back, like they don't they don't remember that. They
Speaker 4: remember the castles, they remember, you know, all the fun stuff.
Speaker 4: I just it was so stressful because when everyone was
Speaker 4: checking into the castle on Thursday, I was like constantly,
Speaker 4: you know, making sure that the kids are okay and
Speaker 4: taking temperatures and doing id beprofen than talent, all the
Speaker 4: medicine and this and that, and then making sure like
Speaker 4: they're good. And then I'm like, all right, well, you
Speaker 4: know now I need to Like when you guys were
Speaker 4: playing that game night that night, I'm like, I would
Speaker 4: have loved to have stayed and done that, but I'm like,
Speaker 4: I need to try to get some sleep because I
Speaker 4: know that sleep is going to help me stay healthy.
Speaker 2: And and for reference, thursdays when we check in and
Speaker 2: Saturday's the wedding. Yeah, so this isn't like you have
Speaker 2: like a lot of days to right run the risk
Speaker 2: or yeah, and not having that help was too hard,
Speaker 2: like we I mean it was, I thought it was.
Speaker 4: That's the one regret that I have is not bringing
Speaker 4: help to help us.
Speaker 2: Do you agree? Disagree? What are your thoughts?
Speaker 3: I mean up with being easier?
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I think we managed, but who
Speaker 4: knew like that the kids were going to get sick,
Speaker 4: you know, I just I felt so bad for that.
Speaker 2: I also think no matter what. Kids just want their parents.
Speaker 2: So even if you had, specially when they're sick.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think more like not that I wouldn't help
Speaker 4: them when they were sick, but like that way, like
Speaker 4: I could have enjoyed even just like sure everything more,
Speaker 4: you know, and just you know, for example, the Thursday
Speaker 4: to actually eat dinner instead of being feeding Rome, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, like just having like, hey can
Speaker 4: you feed Roman?
Speaker 2: Someone feed Roman?
Speaker 4: Yeah, instead of okay, and then in the middle leaving
Speaker 4: the group of dinner going to bathe Roman, you know
Speaker 4: right right, stuff like that, Yeah, would have been a
Speaker 4: little bit more helpful having.
Speaker 2: Trying to relieve you from here when I have to
Speaker 2: say your kids were troopers for being sick, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean they were. Yeah, nobody was in such great spirits.
Speaker 1: I was like, my kids are not, like they're more
Speaker 1: down and out, Like I was very impressed with how
Speaker 1: well they handled everything and being sick, like I thought.
Speaker 2: Melt down. I thought they were graving. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 2: we did a good job.
Speaker 4: I think keeping them on like that's huge, the ibuprofens
Speaker 4: than tile and also.
Speaker 2: That when they go down, yeah, where's off?
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean they were angels. But that just
Speaker 4: that piece just made me so sad. Because I was
Speaker 4: telling her Amy yesterday in therapy. I'm like, she's like
Speaker 4: what is She's like, what's the problem that they were Like,
Speaker 4: why is it such a big deal that they were sick?
Speaker 4: I was like, because I just want them to have
Speaker 4: the best memories. And she's just like, they did have
Speaker 4: great memories. Like kids aren't going to remember that they
Speaker 4: were sick. They're going to remember the castle or that
Speaker 4: mommy and Alan got married and then they were a
Speaker 4: flower girl, and so she's like that's what they're going
Speaker 4: to remember. It all came back on like me though,
Speaker 4: because I'm like, well I didn't have the best memories.
Speaker 4: She's like, this is about you then.
Speaker 2: Not about your kids. Yeah you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I was like I know, which is why I've
Speaker 4: come back now. And we've made a memory.
Speaker 2: Wall in our room of all the fun memories. So
Speaker 2: like these were fun memories, right, because I just think
Speaker 2: that's all Like we aim for excellence. There's also like
Speaker 2: the standard we set in our brain when we spend
Speaker 2: so much money or we plan so much in advance,
Speaker 2: like the expectation, Yeah, that is like a fair letdown
Speaker 2: to like for it to not be like seamless. Hm.
Speaker 2: But I also think it's like you'll look back, even
Speaker 2: probably already and go like, we teamworked so well and
Speaker 2: that's really like I love when people celebrate a marriage
Speaker 2: over a wedding, and I feel like, you guys married
Speaker 2: well even in the wedding week.
Speaker 4: Well so, And I'll say that too, like because he
Speaker 4: was even saying when we were there, like, You're like,
Speaker 4: this has been so stressful the leading up to the honeymoon,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry leading up to the wedding, and I just
Speaker 4: kept saying, I'm like, but this is what it is,
Speaker 4: you know, Like we have to be on somewhat of
Speaker 4: a schedule with Roman and we have to you know,
Speaker 4: but we managed to do it and we still had
Speaker 4: fun even though they were sick, and that was important
Speaker 4: to me, like going, Okay, it's not perfect. How do
Speaker 4: we still steal moments of joy out of this? As
Speaker 4: a guest, where are you smiling?
Speaker 5: No, You're right, Like I think the first couple of
Speaker 5: days we tried to squeeze too much. And also and
Speaker 5: like I said, let's just stop doing things to tick
Speaker 5: a box and actually just take the time and experience them.
Speaker 5: And if Roman doesn't go to bed when he's supposed
Speaker 5: to go to bed, then it's fine. You will go
Speaker 5: to bed thirty minutes later or forty minutes later. The
Speaker 5: schedules were all messed up anyway, So I think in
Speaker 5: the end up we did a good job of not
Speaker 5: just ticking boxes. We did a lot, but actually were
Speaker 5: present when we did them and enjoyed them and still
Speaker 5: kept them on a schedule.
Speaker 3: So all worked out.
Speaker 5: It was stressful because the ill and you're in someone
Speaker 5: else's house as well. You don't have your own space.
Speaker 5: Like my aunt's house is a big house and it's
Speaker 5: it's a really nice place, but if you've got three
Speaker 5: kids and someone else's house, you're almost like they're putting
Speaker 5: up with us rather than hosting us.
Speaker 2: Do you know that?
Speaker 3: Oh they were amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel that way, though I don't stay well
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 5: So that was that was more from my side of, yeah,
Speaker 5: we don't have our own space to deal with the
Speaker 5: kids being sick, and would envy that someone's house and
Speaker 5: everyone's sick, So it was more of a like, it's
Speaker 5: more like, just get me out of here, let's just
Speaker 5: go somewhere. But we're on we're own, we can isolate
Speaker 5: the kids. But it was fine because they were amazing.
Speaker 2: They were truly amazing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it all walked out and then when we
Speaker 5: got to we got to the castle, it was it
Speaker 5: was perfect.
Speaker 4: Well, and that's what I was telling Amy too. I
Speaker 4: was like, the only thing that I could say about
Speaker 4: the trip was, you know, I feeling terrible that the
Speaker 4: kids were not feeling well, But once we got into
Speaker 4: the castle, I just felt like it was from my
Speaker 4: point of view, Yes, there were moments where I said
Speaker 4: it to her, like I wish I was more present
Speaker 4: in certain areas, like you know, being able to stay
Speaker 4: and do the game with you guys at night time,
Speaker 4: and I wish, I wish I let my brain. I
Speaker 4: wish I was able to sleep. Like that insomnia thing
Speaker 4: really mess with me because I would literally get up
Speaker 4: at two in the morning and toss and turn pretty
Speaker 4: much cry until five in the morning, and then sleep
Speaker 4: for another two to three hours. And it was when
Speaker 4: he was a missed. I was like, I want to sleep.
Speaker 4: It was the first time I've ever dealt with them
Speaker 4: like I've never experienced like wanting to go to sleep
Speaker 4: but can't go to sleep. I also just need to
Speaker 4: mention this because it's really worth mentioning. Like you just
Speaker 4: had a baby, not really, but like according to like
Speaker 4: science and our bodies, like you still have a there's
Speaker 4: like an underlying level of like that anxiety. There's still too,
Speaker 4: like you're not completely leveled out either. So add all
Speaker 4: those things pleasure getting married, and you spent all this
Speaker 4: money and all this time and all this planning, and
Speaker 4: you want it to be magical, like I would be
Speaker 4: the same way that stuff all sneaks in, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wanted it to be perfect.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I've waited so long for this, like fairy tale,
Speaker 4: and it's it's here, and I'm afraid like that it's
Speaker 4: going to just be terrible or every everyone's going to
Speaker 4: be just sick. And meanwhile your guests are like living
Speaker 4: I know. But like I said to Amy, like the
Speaker 4: we had them, it was the most magic coal time ever,
Speaker 4: you guys, the group of people you moved.
Speaker 2: Into estates, I loved it. Like I will say, I
Speaker 2: was a little nervous. I just don't do well living
Speaker 2: with people that I don't make or marry, and so
Speaker 2: I thought, I'm not so sure about this, Like whole
Speaker 2: real world takes over Scotland moment that we're about to
Speaker 2: have so much fun. So like you, guys, and I've
Speaker 2: always said this about you, truly to everybody, but like
Speaker 2: you have this way of collecting human beings and making
Speaker 2: it so fun, Like you've collected fun people everywhere, like
Speaker 2: I know, Sarah Bryce because of you. You know, I
Speaker 2: just lived my best life. Like we had all these
Speaker 2: fun people. We had roommates, we had alan playing games
Speaker 2: like it was that was so fun. My cheeks literally
Speaker 2: hurt from like laughing. I'm like, what have I got
Speaker 2: myself into? Though?
Speaker 1: Instead of you, seeing as you missed out on it,
Speaker 1: I'm seeing.
Speaker 2: That happen over here. But I do think you.
Speaker 1: I think for us as your friend, really great night
Speaker 1: for us to spend with him and his friend.
Speaker 2: Because we don't ever get to be with him, we don't,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I don't want you to see it as like
Speaker 1: just a negative It was a great night.
Speaker 2: And not spending time with me.
Speaker 6: No, you hear what you wanted to hear out of that,
Speaker 6: I'm saying that it was normally we we don't hang
Speaker 6: out with him without you, sure, and we probably won't
Speaker 6: ever really, you know, but like it was a night
Speaker 6: to truly see Alan and him having fun and his
Speaker 6: friends and having fun with them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So it was it was it was a cool experience
Speaker 1: for us too, and that right, and that was.
Speaker 2: By the way, I'm thinking, he knows what I'm thinking,
Speaker 2: Like an hour and a half, ever play games with me?
Speaker 3: Yes, well let's do it right now. But it wasn't.
Speaker 3: It wasn't. It wasn't a.
Speaker 2: Games. Do you want to play drinking games?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I had a blast plane you gir with Alan and
Speaker 2: would you play drinking games? You know? They answered exactly.
Speaker 3: It's so funny.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was really fun. But even beyond
Speaker 2: that night, like its just cool.
Speaker 3: Everyone play a game.
Speaker 1: We're going to play this drinking game and you're going
Speaker 1: to play because.
Speaker 2: You felt I've never played a drinking game. Well these
Speaker 2: are best. I didn't even really drink with. I didn't
Speaker 2: really drink because I just can't right now, like I'm
Speaker 2: just I need to. And yeah, when you're competitive enough
Speaker 2: that I won't drink, you don't have to drink. It's
Speaker 2: so funny to watch. We should show we should I
Speaker 2: have some good footage so funny, like I drink a bit,
Speaker 2: but I didn't like I was chugging beers or like
Speaker 2: you don't have to, you just want to.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I'm glad you guys had fun while of
Speaker 4: my nightmare Dungeon.
Speaker 5: It was almost like you haven't I explained that to you.
Speaker 5: It was almost like, so when you're a profession sports person,
Speaker 5: you've got a big event coming up, you get insomnia.
Speaker 3: Yeah, performance insomnia.
Speaker 5: And I explained to you, like two nights before a
Speaker 5: match is the most important night for sleep.
Speaker 3: So I used to always I need.
Speaker 5: To sleep on a Thursday because that's the most important
Speaker 5: night before a Saturday match. And I would get insomnia
Speaker 5: on Thursdays because I placed so much importance on sleeping
Speaker 5: on a Thursday. So I would toss and turn and
Speaker 5: tossing turn and tossing tourn And it's almost like you
Speaker 5: had that for like five nights of I've got this
Speaker 5: big event coming up, it needs to be perfect. It's
Speaker 5: like almost like a performance insomnia type thing, which is
Speaker 5: which is normal.
Speaker 2: Absolutely very normal. I've just never experienced that before.
Speaker 4: Like usually I sleep and I sleep well, and that
Speaker 4: was just I mean, the marriage.
Speaker 5: Was like playoff final, the Super Bowl performance anxiety.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't remember when we talked about this before
Speaker 1: we left, and you're like, the only thing I'm anxious
Speaker 1: about is not sleeping because I have to have.
Speaker 2: My slate, and it was in my brain.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you literally talked about it before you like, that's
Speaker 1: the only thing I'm worried about. Your expectations were so
Speaker 1: like everyone. I mean, everyone has expectations, right, and so
Speaker 1: it just that was in your head already. I remember
Speaker 1: you specifically saying that.
Speaker 5: This is where you need to like, you're so incredible
Speaker 5: with planning, and this is where you need to trust
Speaker 5: yourself a little bit more because everything you do walks out.
Speaker 5: And I told you that there's a lot of planning
Speaker 5: and it will all come together, it'll all be perfect.
Speaker 5: And it was like, there's nothing that would change from
Speaker 5: the moment we arrived at the castle to the moment
Speaker 5: we left, the moment we arrived in the honeymoon to
Speaker 5: the moment left. I would not change a single thing
Speaker 5: apart from you getting more sleep and.
Speaker 4: The kids not being But yeah, but you're right, you
Speaker 4: did say that You're like even so like they were
Speaker 4: great and they had fun and they had with lots
Speaker 4: of moments of fun. No I know, I know, I yeah.
Speaker 5: Nothing that would change apart from the Americans when in
Speaker 5: the shooting cleave pigeons.
Speaker 4: So it was Scotland versus USA involved in almost anywhere
Speaker 4: there could be a competition. Okay, that is all we
Speaker 4: have for this week, but we have even more fun
Speaker 4: of wedding details coming next week in Part two.
Speaker 2: Stay tuned.