WEBVTT - Happily Ever After PART ONE 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.400 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:13.360 Hi we're back. Wah wah wah. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:19.400 We've got a mouthfi depression. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:21.360 One million percent. 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.840 It's kind of like a I was telling you on 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:30.840 the plane, where it just feels it was so much anticipation, 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.080 you know, the wedding and the honeymoon and and just 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:37.400 I mean all of it, and then so then when 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:41.400 it's just done, it just feels kind of like in 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:45.360 a way and not not depressed, but just like a bummer. 0:00:46.080 --> 0:00:46.880 But it's all done. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:51.239 Yeah, and then we'll come back to clothes. Yes, four 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.479 or five days as well, which doesn't help, No, not 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:53.800 at all. 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.840 It's been so cloudy and I mean the sun is 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.040 not peaked out yet in like five days. So it's 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:03.280 just adding to the jet lag the tiredness. And we 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:07.720 haven't really been able to connect from being back either. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:11.280 No, I've went from spending every single minute with each 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:16.760 other too, arrived back with the kids to deal with 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:18.080 romans jet like. 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:20.959 He's new tooth coming through. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.960 And I was in Chicago yesterday, So I feel like 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:25.480 I've not seen you for four days. 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:28.039 I mean, we really haven't because we've been so tired too. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.520 By the time we go to bed, it's eight o'clock 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:34.200 and we're like, we're exhausted, and just you know, unpacking 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:38.120 everything and just getting trying to get back into the 0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:41.880 rhythm of things has been I think a little difficult. 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:42.880 For real least. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.440 Yeah, And there's also so I think I mentioned that 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:48.680 when we were in Italy that you know, when you 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:54.080 go somewhere and then you're in it, so you sometimes 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:57.360 don't appreciate it or and then when you come back 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:59.400 you think, but you think back and you reflect, you 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:02.400 think that was so special. I think this has been 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:08.440 even more difficult because we realized during the honeymoon how 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.639 incredible and special a place it wasn't how incredible a time. 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:12.200 It was together. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:17.320 Yeah, So I think the anticiap it's not even. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.040 I don't want to call it. 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:23.640 It's like a cloud the word depression, yeah, either because 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:26.720 it's a strong word. Yeah, but that cloud. Now that 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:30.280 we're okay, we've had to leave that special place in 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:35.680 our special honeymoon and reality jetlag, screaming kids, teething problems, 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:41.440 but it was the most amazing experience ever. 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:42.639 Yeah. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:44.400 No, I mean it's true though, what you said, because 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:47.360 I feel like a lot of times. And I know 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:51.560 in past trips that I've taken, I don't really soak 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:54.320 it in, but I mean every moment was soaked in. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:58.160 It was and we were grateful for every moment, every meal, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:02.720 every every piece of every piece of the cacha, every 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:08.560 you know, I mean the gelato. I still I mean 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:11.320 the amount of sounds that I made eating the food, 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:13.480 Like last week, if I. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:21.320 Could have put gelato on for caca, well it's with 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:22.120 some pasta on. 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:29.360 I know, it's it's crazy too because the food there 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:33.000 I'm not eat pretty we both eat very good. I'm 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:36.720 pretty much gluten free, pretty much dairy free minus like 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:40.120 the random you know, cheat days. But in Italy I 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.160 was like, you know, I'm just I'm not going to care. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.080 I'm just going to eat whatever I want to eat. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:47.400 And it's totally fine. How I came back five pounds 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:52.880 less because fills. I know that's I want to move 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:55.440 to Italy now because of that, because I've never enjoyed 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.720 my life more eating all those carbs. I mean, we 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:00.280 had we had bread at every meal, with pasta, with 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:03.080 pizza with the katcha, then followed by ice cream, and 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:06.280 I had the flattest stomach ever, and I was happy 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:10.360 eating all that food. It's crazy and I come back 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:14.480 here and I'm like, I'm my gut hurts again. I've 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:18.720 had skin problems like my two weeks away did like 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.039 wonders for my just everything. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:27.200 Yeah, we've Capri and a maufy coast must be one 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:30.359 of the most famous locations for fresh food in the 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:31.320 quality of food. 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:36.040 Italy in general with food and wine is world renowned, 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:36.440 doesn't it. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.440 But that particular part of the country is like it's 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:42.960 almost on like a different level from anything else in 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:46.640 terms of how special it is and the quality of everything, 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:50.000 like even like the color of the ocean, like and 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.800 how it contrasts with the cliffs. And it's just the 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:56.080 whole place is the whole place is just like heaven 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:56.599 on Earth. 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:57.520 It really is. 0:04:57.560 --> 0:05:00.719 And I think that's why. I mean, you've known me 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:02.440 for a couple of years now, When have I ever 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:06.039 wanted to stay longer on a trip? Usually it's how 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:07.520 soon can we get out? 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:10.040 How can we change our flight to get away earlier? 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:10.400 Yeah? 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:12.600 Normally what you do always because I want to get 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.320 back to the kids, or I want to take the 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.480 earlier flight, or I just want to get out and 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:17.960 I wanted to stay. 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:19.080 I mean I was crying. 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:22.000 Cried the night before, You cried on the boat the Naples, 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.160 you cried on the transfer to the airport. 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.200 You try you cry in the airport. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:32.000 Because it was truly the most magical special time spent 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:34.960 with you. I mean it was a week of just 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:39.479 soaking up every of everything and just having such I 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:42.000 mean we had the most beautiful time personally together too, 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:44.039 just all the laughs we had and just the connection. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:48.760 And I don't think there was one thing like, Okay, 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.520 so let's well, we'll we'll chat with because the girls 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:55.360 are going to come burst this wedding post wedding suite 0:05:55.680 --> 0:06:00.640 in a little bit a few minutes actually, so I 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:04.520 guess before they come, what's like a moment for you 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.080 that was the most special. 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.840 The most special moment. So there's a couple. But I 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:12.839 for I have to really. 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:19.479 If I really to define the whole trip, Like I 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:25.159 knew the first hotel in Ravelo, the Belmont Curuso. I 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.719 knew that it's sitting at the infinity Pool where you 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:31.159 can you almost feel that you're in the mountains, but 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:33.560 you can see the ocean and you're so high up. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:35.960 I can't remember. I can't remember how many thousand feet 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:43.240 up were, but it's almost but it's almost like it 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:49.479 gives you the peace and tranquility just to reflect and 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:53.159 plan ahead. And that's not very often, I know what 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.359 I'm like, I'm always going from one thing to the next. 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:57.479 But it was almost like I could sit there and 0:06:57.560 --> 0:07:01.239 capture the mountains and capture the ocean, capture a vision 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:05.919 of the rest of our lives together. So for me 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:10.640 being able to have that vision every day at the 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.960 pool and just like and I knew I would reflect 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.440 on that. Okay, we were in the boat and we 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.280 were in the ocean, and we jumped in the ocean, 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:21.240 and as incredible as it was, but being that high 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:24.000 and having the mountains in the ocean, just being able 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.480 to like, okay, I can actually see the future. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:28.960 I can't see the future, but. 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:32.679 I was like, tell me more, what's happening in our future? 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.760 But that that was like a really special moment. And 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.200 then there was times where we would share those moments together, 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.000 on times where you would go on your own and 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.080 look at the the view and I would go on 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:45.920 my own. And so I think for me that that 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.280 vision of the mountains and the ocean together being so 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:53.640 high up was and you need to people listen to 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.480 this and be like, well, I don't understand what it means. 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.320 You have to be there to experience it. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:01.040 It's almost like when I was in Ireland at the 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.600 Cliffs of Moair, it was like, you can't A picture 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.560 doesn't do an injustice. Like we can show a photo 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.640 of this beautiful scenery that we're talking about, but to 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:12.080 feel what we felt there, it's like you have to 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.640 just be there to see it, you know. That's how 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:16.160 always say too, Like when I talk about the cliffs, 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.080 I'm like, it's the most magical thing. Like it's like 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.360 a photo. Pictures don't do it justice. Like evenh we 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.760 were taking photos, we kept saying, this just doesn't do 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:27.120 it justice. Like take look at our photos on Instagram 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:30.000 and then multiply it by a million, and that's like 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:31.119 how it is there. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.559 Yeah, I hear you, and yours. 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:38.600 For the honeymoon, I would say, I. 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:40.319 Thought we were only talking about the honeymoon. 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.240 Yeah, yeah, that's okay, you know, I mean, yeah, well 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:45.920 we've kind of gone backwards, but we'll go We'll start 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:49.640 the wedding recap with when the girls come. But for 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:54.880 the honeymoon, I I mean, I definitely agree with you. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.480 Just staring out and having so many moments where I 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:01.000 just kept saying thank you, thank you to God, thank 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:04.640 you to my Grandpa's thank you to just like how 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:08.880 life has changed in a way that I never thought 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.560 it would and how beautiful life is. And it's just 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:15.840 I just kept being just so many moments of thankfulness. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:17.959 Just I just kept saying thank you over and over, 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:21.080 like thank you for this, like thank you for this 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:24.120 road that I would have never even known was a 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:27.320 possible road to walk down. So I think those moments 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:32.440 were just really like beautiful. And then to have you 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:34.440 walking down those roads with me, you know, it's just 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.160 like it's just a I don't know, it just was 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:42.079 like a very sentimental yet and then having this experience. 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.959 I've never had a honeymoon. We've got to experience this 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.160 together and it's just beautiful. 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.160 Okay, so the wedding, what was your favorite moment? 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:54.080 I feel like we need the girls to kind of 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:57.560 recap everything first and then I'll tell my favorite moment 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:03.480 from there because it was not as expected. You know what, 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:05.080 why don't we just take a break and then we'll get. 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:19.920 The girls on. Okay, the girls are here. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:27.120 We so we were just talking about the honeymoon and 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.160 just kind of how we've come back and it's been 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.679 really gloomy here. It's been hard to kind of get 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:38.600 in the the rhythm of jet lag, wanting to sleep 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:42.079 all day, wanting to know not or not being able 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.880 to sleep, Like, isn't that it's gloomy? 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:45.760 And ye waking up at like the. 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:52.000 Tan Russells are here Italian sun Kissed Russells party too. Well, 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.240 that's what we were saying. I'm like, I've I want 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.760 to go back to Italy, like yesterday it was the 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:04.520 most magical time we've ever ever ever, So should we 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:06.960 recap the rest of the honeymoon or should we. 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:09.319 Start from the beginning. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:14.200 Well, it depends for the girls want to hear about 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:15.160 the honeymoon or not. 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:19.280 Well. I actually facetimed in on the honeymoon, you too, 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:21.760 I did. I felt like we all lived together for 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:23.440 like four days and it was like ooh, I just 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:25.160 felt like very like college, and all of a sudden, 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:26.959 everybody went their own way and I was like, well, 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:29.760 this doesn't feel cozy, And I was like, Hi, what 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:35.319 you doing? And where was I laying in a chair 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:40.000 looking gorgeous in the sun. It was wonderful. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.160 Face colored and for catcha crumbs. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:46.200 Yes, all right, so then we'll just start with the 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:50.079 honeymoon then, so for those that because they wanted to know, 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:53.120 you know, where we went. So we went to Ravello. 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:57.400 So I originally really wanted to do post Aitana because 0:11:57.520 --> 0:11:59.800 I under the Tescan Son is one of my favorite movies. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:06.199 I wanted to do Tescany in Positano, and uh, we start. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.360 I've never worked with the travel agent before, but we 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:11.120 got her information and I'm like, you know what, we 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.080 should probably hire someone because I don't know anything or 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:16.840 like what that area and you were we weren't really. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:20.520 Like not being testly, but I've never been to Yeah, So. 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.120 We just wanted someone that had like the knowledge of 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.240 where we were going. And she was like, you do 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:28.440 not want to go to post Aitana in July. And 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:31.000 I'm so glad that we talked to her because we 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:34.439 almost booked six nights in Postana. Remember, there was like, oh, 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.360 there's a honeymoon, sweet deal. I'm just going to book 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.880 it at this hotel thing. It was called Hotel Poseidon 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:44.199 and She's like, if you want something relaxing, you do 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.000 not want to go to Postana. It's hot, there's a 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.600 ton of people, and I'm like, everyone says how much 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:50.840 they love it though, And then we. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.720 Went and we had also a bit strange. 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:56.800 We are so strange, intend not to like the things 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:57.839 that everyone else likes. 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:01.280 But the fact that we both are the same is great. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:03.559 That's what we said over pizza. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.920 So you like a lot of people, No, that's I 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.080 think where they're going. They did not like a lot 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:10.520 of people. 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:14.280 We went to Positive Tunnel, so the Mouthi Coast, the 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.840 most famous part of their Maufi Coast is probably Positive 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:17.760 Tunnel degree. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:20.360 I agree, well, my knowledge of it. 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:24.600 The most widely recognized place. Millions of people. 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:28.080 Either we go there and we're like, we say to 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:31.520 the driver, okay, well give us two hours and we'll 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.320 be back. We got there, I hadn't even driven through it, 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.440 like we might be back here in forty five minutes. 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:38.400 Yeah. 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:41.000 I instantly felt my throat clothes. When we got out 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:41.320 of the car. 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:42.760 I was like, so are you going to stay here 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.640 in this area because there's just people everywhere, right. 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.880 But it's so steep for the he crowded, and so. 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:50.760 I knew that once we're going down, we're going to 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:52.280 have to come up with all these people too. And 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:54.000 I mean there's just and it was hot. It was 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:57.240 like one hundred degrees and so and you're in these 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.760 like crowded little streets going down and I'm like, I 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:03.079 just thinking we're going to have to go up and 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:04.600 this is not going to be good. And he even 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.559 looked at me and he was like, are you okay? 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:08.679 Are you are you feeling claustrophobic? But I didn't want 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:14.960 to say yes, even though my whole body was. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:16.200 Like the telltale sign was Our plan was okay, go 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:20.160 walk around for a little bit, get a pizza, and 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:23.080 then go back. We got we got to the pizza 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.640 restaurant and she's like, can we get this. 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:26.120 To go. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:32.720 Just calmed down by the ocean. But even then it 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:34.320 wasn't like we were looking onto the ocean. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:35.440 It was so crowded. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.040 Yeah, you know when you see those images from like 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.320 of beaches in the fifties and sixties and they're just 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:44.720 rammed with people, And that's what that's what it was like, 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:46.920 wasn't it. Yeah, it was almost like a step back 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:49.600 in time. With this, loads and loads of people in 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:52.720 a small area. But we had we stayed strong. 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:54.640 Instant, we did it. 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.360 We had a pizza and we walked back. 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.720 And he only returned the pizza once for too much cheese. 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:01.360 As much as say, how do you even eat pizza? 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:05.520 It's a huge tomato fan too, right, so like, oh 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:06.640 you do? So do you do? 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:06.960 Put? 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:08.880 Yeah? 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:14.800 Like the tint but of mozzarella? 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.880 She would. I took a video and you'll say there's 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.600 some zero's on that. The guy's like less and I'm 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.320 like he means less, like like nothing, Just put like 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:24.720 one literally. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:27.360 To make it an official pizza. So one little shred. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:28.640 Yeah. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.520 But we stayed in Ravello for three nights and it 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.760 was the biggest blessing because it was so peaceful and quiet, 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:36.520 and the little town in Ravela was adorable. We would 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.960 walk down there and get gelato and it was just 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.720 it was not swarmed with a bunch of people. You 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:43.760 can still go to post Atano and do all those 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:45.880 things on a day trip if you want, but I'm 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:47.840 glad that we did not stay there. How far is 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:49.720 the drive if you do that, like ai ftew minutes? 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:51.680 Oh okay, okay, yeah, So it's like, I have a 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:55.880 drive is geographical reference in my brain? Wear anything crazy? 0:15:56.000 --> 0:15:58.280 Yeah, and you're going to want to hire a car? Yeah, yeah, 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:02.160 because there's just I wanted to take a scooter. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.760 O god, that would have been amazing. 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:10.080 Desk and he said no, and I'm we actually met 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:14.480 someone in Capri that their scooter brakes didn't work, and 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.600 so she was all red, like, I mean he fell off. 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.760 That's too terrifying. Yeah, and he's like, thank goodness. My 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.960 wife was like yeah. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:25.800 So then we left Ravello. We did a boat trip 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:31.800 from Ravello to Capri as they call it, and that 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.200 was a magical day. And it was funny because what 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:37.800 was the first thing he said, got on the boat? 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:43.640 Are there any shot about our driver? Say yes, make 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:51.440 oh lord joined and it's like a welcome aboard on 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:59.520 the way he did me too obvious. 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:01.960 Otherwise it was pretty funny that we said it. He's like, 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:07.960 should you thank Mike for driving us around? But the 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:12.360 boat trip was so beautiful. We went just you two 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:15.240 on the boat. It was just us too. He took 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:25.600 us around to just different caves and. 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:23.960 Hey, are you guys, I forget this? Are you big? 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:26.840 Like water ocean people? Like in the water. Like I'm 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.000 a solid beach goer and I love to be on 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:30.679 a boat and look at water, but I don't like 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:31.040 to be in. 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:33.280 I will jump in the middle of the ocean. Okay, 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:36.640 he was more, I will jump in at the course. 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:40.520 I don't like. I don't like not knowing what's underneath me. 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:42.720 Same human Okay, I wondered. 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:46.639 I jumped on the course of the courst. 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:47.679 Yeah. 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.320 And where we differ as I had a noodle because 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:50.760 I'm not the. 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:54.919 Strongest swimming in the middle of the with a night 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:56.440 that I was going to be my next question. 0:17:57.440 --> 0:18:00.000 They call it posita because it is Italy. 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:04.280 Yeah, but there was one place I didn't use the 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:07.240 noodle in that beach club because no one else was 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:08.280 and I was like, well, I can't be the. 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:10.480 Only one ten feet from the rocks. 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:13.280 True. Yeah. 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:19.840 But we got to Capri and that was it. We 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:21.640 had to we had to switch our mindset a little 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:23.480 bit because it was a different vibe. 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:30.560 Hotel was beautiful, Yeah, lovely, this little small boutique. It 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:33.400 was like if Ralph Laurn made the hotel. 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:35.400 Yeah, super cute. 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:40.359 Our room, though, was above a public beach, so like 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:42.520 you can hear kids screaming from like in your room. 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:44.080 So it's just like you had. I had to go 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:45.320 a little taste at home. 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:48.240 But I had a little moment of like, oh wait, wait, 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:49.240 this is not peaceful to me. 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:54.560 And we had a little tell us what those eyebrows me? 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:58.800 And Alan? I want to hear his version. Yeah, I 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:03.480 mean I almost feel like we need a little Alan 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:07.520 Russell run down something good. 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:10.919 But I think it'd been edited until that point. And 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:13.840 we were in a tranquil spot in the mountains. 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:15.400 I mean the mouse tranquill. 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:17.280 And we didn't know that Capria was going to be 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:22.159 slightly different, although very classy and and nice. But the 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:25.879 beach and to be fair, the first night was the 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:26.680 noisiest night. 0:19:27.280 --> 0:19:29.400 But I mean we have a balcony on the beach 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:31.320 and at ten thirty at night, they're having a party 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:32.920 at the beach and so it just wasn't we can't 0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:35.119 we couldn't even use our balcony because it was just 0:19:35.160 --> 0:19:37.160 it was so loud. It was was not relaxing. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:43.200 So it'd be polite, yeah, I mean, you just didn't 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:45.639 feel at peace. So we were thinking, did we change hotels? 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:50.200 We did we do this that? But we I wasn't 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:53.679 too bothered by it, but you were more bothered than 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:56.439 I was. But we managed to come to a solution 0:19:56.600 --> 0:19:59.399 where we blocked out the noise. 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:01.399 And we stayed. 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:03.800 Yeah, because the last thing I want to do is move. 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:05.560 I just had to change my mindset. 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:07.920 Well. Also, like I would say this objectively, and I 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:09.600 think a lot of people listening would feel this way, 0:20:09.640 --> 0:20:11.879 like you've planned this like once in a lifetime trip 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:12.600 and you're. 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:17.200 Spending a lot of money ocean balcony view that I'm 0:20:17.200 --> 0:20:20.600 not now using because it's so loud and crazy. 0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:22.280 I had a similar experience when we checked into our 0:20:22.280 --> 0:20:25.199 hotel at Scotland. Actually, oh really yeah, okay, I had 0:20:25.240 --> 0:20:27.280 a moment uh huh where I was like, no, no, no, no, 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:30.080 this is one in the lifetime right right, yeah, so 0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:32.800 you can kind of see, yeah, I'm like, this is 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:35.200 not what was described. 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:37.919 Sure, and I might have changed a room or had 0:20:37.920 --> 0:20:39.640 a different room if it was like if I knew 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:41.800 it was right above a public beach. And now that 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:44.280