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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi we're back. Wah wah wah.

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Speaker 3: We've got a mouthfi depression.

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Speaker 2: One million percent.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like a I was telling you on

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Speaker 4: the plane, where it just feels it was so much anticipation,

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Speaker 4: you know, the wedding and the honeymoon and and just

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Speaker 4: I mean all of it, and then so then when

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Speaker 4: it's just done, it just feels kind of like in

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Speaker 4: a way and not not depressed, but just like a bummer.

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Speaker 2: But it's all done.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we'll come back to clothes. Yes, four

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Speaker 5: or five days as well, which doesn't help, No, not

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Speaker 5: at all.

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Speaker 4: It's been so cloudy and I mean the sun is

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Speaker 4: not peaked out yet in like five days. So it's

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Speaker 4: just adding to the jet lag the tiredness. And we

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Speaker 4: haven't really been able to connect from being back either.

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Speaker 5: No, I've went from spending every single minute with each

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Speaker 5: other too, arrived back with the kids to deal with

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Speaker 5: romans jet like.

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Speaker 3: He's new tooth coming through.

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Speaker 5: And I was in Chicago yesterday, So I feel like

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Speaker 5: I've not seen you for four days.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we really haven't because we've been so tired too.

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Speaker 4: By the time we go to bed, it's eight o'clock

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Speaker 4: and we're like, we're exhausted, and just you know, unpacking

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Speaker 4: everything and just getting trying to get back into the

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Speaker 4: rhythm of things has been I think a little difficult.

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Speaker 2: For real least.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And there's also so I think I mentioned that

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Speaker 5: when we were in Italy that you know, when you

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Speaker 5: go somewhere and then you're in it, so you sometimes

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Speaker 5: don't appreciate it or and then when you come back

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Speaker 5: you think, but you think back and you reflect, you

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Speaker 5: think that was so special. I think this has been

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Speaker 5: even more difficult because we realized during the honeymoon how

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Speaker 5: incredible and special a place it wasn't how incredible a time.

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Speaker 3: It was together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I think the anticiap it's not even.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to call it.

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Speaker 5: It's like a cloud the word depression, yeah, either because

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Speaker 5: it's a strong word. Yeah, but that cloud. Now that

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Speaker 5: we're okay, we've had to leave that special place in

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Speaker 5: our special honeymoon and reality jetlag, screaming kids, teething problems,

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Speaker 5: but it was the most amazing experience ever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean it's true though, what you said, because

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of times. And I know

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Speaker 4: in past trips that I've taken, I don't really soak

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Speaker 4: it in, but I mean every moment was soaked in.

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Speaker 4: It was and we were grateful for every moment, every meal,

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Speaker 4: every every piece of every piece of the cacha, every

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Speaker 4: you know, I mean the gelato. I still I mean

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Speaker 4: the amount of sounds that I made eating the food,

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Speaker 4: Like last week, if I.

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Speaker 5: Could have put gelato on for caca, well it's with

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Speaker 5: some pasta on.

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Speaker 4: I know, it's it's crazy too because the food there

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Speaker 4: I'm not eat pretty we both eat very good. I'm

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Speaker 4: pretty much gluten free, pretty much dairy free minus like

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Speaker 4: the random you know, cheat days. But in Italy I

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Speaker 4: was like, you know, I'm just I'm not going to care.

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to eat whatever I want to eat.

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Speaker 4: And it's totally fine. How I came back five pounds

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Speaker 4: less because fills. I know that's I want to move

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Speaker 4: to Italy now because of that, because I've never enjoyed

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Speaker 4: my life more eating all those carbs. I mean, we

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Speaker 4: had we had bread at every meal, with pasta, with

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Speaker 4: pizza with the katcha, then followed by ice cream, and

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Speaker 4: I had the flattest stomach ever, and I was happy

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Speaker 4: eating all that food. It's crazy and I come back

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Speaker 4: here and I'm like, I'm my gut hurts again. I've

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Speaker 4: had skin problems like my two weeks away did like

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Speaker 4: wonders for my just everything.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we've Capri and a maufy coast must be one

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Speaker 5: of the most famous locations for fresh food in the

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Speaker 5: quality of food.

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Speaker 3: Italy in general with food and wine is world renowned,

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Speaker 3: doesn't it.

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Speaker 5: But that particular part of the country is like it's

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Speaker 5: almost on like a different level from anything else in

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Speaker 5: terms of how special it is and the quality of everything,

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Speaker 5: like even like the color of the ocean, like and

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Speaker 5: how it contrasts with the cliffs. And it's just the

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Speaker 5: whole place is the whole place is just like heaven

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Speaker 2: It really is.

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Speaker 4: And I think that's why. I mean, you've known me

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Speaker 4: for a couple of years now, When have I ever

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Speaker 4: wanted to stay longer on a trip? Usually it's how

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Speaker 4: soon can we get out?

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Speaker 3: How can we change our flight to get away earlier?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Normally what you do always because I want to get

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Speaker 4: back to the kids, or I want to take the

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Speaker 4: earlier flight, or I just want to get out and

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Speaker 4: I wanted to stay.

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Speaker 2: I mean I was crying.

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Speaker 5: Cried the night before, You cried on the boat the Naples,

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Speaker 5: you cried on the transfer to the airport.

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Speaker 3: You try you cry in the airport.

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Speaker 4: Because it was truly the most magical special time spent

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Speaker 4: with you. I mean it was a week of just

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Speaker 4: soaking up every of everything and just having such I

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Speaker 4: mean we had the most beautiful time personally together too,

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Speaker 4: just all the laughs we had and just the connection.

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Speaker 4: And I don't think there was one thing like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so let's well, we'll we'll chat with because the girls

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Speaker 4: are going to come burst this wedding post wedding suite

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Speaker 4: in a little bit a few minutes actually, so I

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Speaker 4: guess before they come, what's like a moment for you

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Speaker 4: that was the most special.

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Speaker 3: The most special moment. So there's a couple. But I

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Speaker 3: for I have to really.

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Speaker 5: If I really to define the whole trip, Like I

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Speaker 5: knew the first hotel in Ravelo, the Belmont Curuso. I

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Speaker 5: knew that it's sitting at the infinity Pool where you

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Speaker 5: can you almost feel that you're in the mountains, but

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Speaker 5: you can see the ocean and you're so high up.

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Speaker 5: I can't remember. I can't remember how many thousand feet

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Speaker 5: up were, but it's almost but it's almost like it

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Speaker 5: gives you the peace and tranquility just to reflect and

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Speaker 5: plan ahead. And that's not very often, I know what

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm always going from one thing to the next.

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Speaker 5: But it was almost like I could sit there and

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Speaker 5: capture the mountains and capture the ocean, capture a vision

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Speaker 5: of the rest of our lives together. So for me

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Speaker 5: being able to have that vision every day at the

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Speaker 5: on that. Okay, we were in the boat and we

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Speaker 5: were in the ocean, and we jumped in the ocean,

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Speaker 5: and as incredible as it was, but being that high

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Speaker 5: to like, okay, I can actually see the future.

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Speaker 3: I can't see the future, but.

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Speaker 4: I was like, tell me more, what's happening in our future?

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Speaker 5: But that that was like a really special moment. And

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Speaker 5: then there was times where we would share those moments together,

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Speaker 5: on times where you would go on your own and

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Speaker 5: look at the the view and I would go on

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Speaker 5: my own. And so I think for me that that

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Speaker 5: vision of the mountains and the ocean together being so

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Speaker 5: high up was and you need to people listen to

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Speaker 5: this and be like, well, I don't understand what it means.

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Speaker 5: You have to be there to experience it.

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Speaker 4: It's almost like when I was in Ireland at the

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Speaker 4: Cliffs of Moair, it was like, you can't A picture

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Speaker 4: doesn't do an injustice. Like we can show a photo

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Speaker 4: of this beautiful scenery that we're talking about, but to

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Speaker 4: feel what we felt there, it's like you have to

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Speaker 4: just be there to see it, you know. That's how

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Speaker 4: always say too, Like when I talk about the cliffs,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, it's the most magical thing. Like it's like

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Speaker 4: a photo. Pictures don't do it justice. Like evenh we

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Speaker 4: were taking photos, we kept saying, this just doesn't do

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Speaker 4: it justice. Like take look at our photos on Instagram

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Speaker 4: and then multiply it by a million, and that's like

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Speaker 4: how it is there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hear you, and yours.

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Speaker 2: For the honeymoon, I would say, I.

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Speaker 3: Thought we were only talking about the honeymoon.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's okay, you know, I mean, yeah, well

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Speaker 4: we've kind of gone backwards, but we'll go We'll start

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Speaker 4: the wedding recap with when the girls come. But for

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Speaker 4: the honeymoon, I I mean, I definitely agree with you.

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Speaker 4: Just staring out and having so many moments where I

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Speaker 4: just kept saying thank you, thank you to God, thank

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Speaker 4: you to my Grandpa's thank you to just like how

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Speaker 4: life has changed in a way that I never thought

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Speaker 4: it would and how beautiful life is. And it's just

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Speaker 4: I just kept being just so many moments of thankfulness.

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Speaker 4: Just I just kept saying thank you over and over,

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Speaker 4: like thank you for this, like thank you for this

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Speaker 4: road that I would have never even known was a

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Speaker 4: possible road to walk down. So I think those moments

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Speaker 4: walking down those roads with me, you know, it's just

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Speaker 4: like it's just a I don't know, it just was

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Speaker 4: like a very sentimental yet and then having this experience.

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Speaker 4: I've never had a honeymoon. We've got to experience this

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Speaker 4: together and it's just beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so the wedding, what was your favorite moment?

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Speaker 4: I feel like we need the girls to kind of

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Speaker 4: recap everything first and then I'll tell my favorite moment

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Speaker 4: from there because it was not as expected. You know what,

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Speaker 4: why don't we just take a break and then we'll get.

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Speaker 2: The girls on. Okay, the girls are here.

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Speaker 4: We so we were just talking about the honeymoon and

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Speaker 4: just kind of how we've come back and it's been

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Speaker 4: really gloomy here. It's been hard to kind of get

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Speaker 4: in the the rhythm of jet lag, wanting to sleep

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Speaker 4: all day, wanting to know not or not being able

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Speaker 4: to sleep, Like, isn't that it's gloomy?

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Speaker 2: And ye waking up at like the.

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Speaker 4: Tan Russells are here Italian sun Kissed Russells party too. Well,

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Speaker 4: that's what we were saying. I'm like, I've I want

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Speaker 4: to go back to Italy, like yesterday it was the

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Speaker 4: most magical time we've ever ever ever, So should we

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Speaker 4: recap the rest of the honeymoon or should we.

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Speaker 2: Start from the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Well, it depends for the girls want to hear about

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Speaker 3: the honeymoon or not.

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Speaker 2: Well. I actually facetimed in on the honeymoon, you too,

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Speaker 2: I did. I felt like we all lived together for

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Speaker 2: like four days and it was like ooh, I just

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Speaker 2: felt like very like college, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: everybody went their own way and I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: this doesn't feel cozy, And I was like, Hi, what

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Speaker 2: you doing? And where was I laying in a chair

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Speaker 2: looking gorgeous in the sun. It was wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Face colored and for catcha crumbs.

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Speaker 4: Yes, all right, so then we'll just start with the

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Speaker 4: honeymoon then, so for those that because they wanted to know,

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Speaker 4: you know, where we went. So we went to Ravello.

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Speaker 4: So I originally really wanted to do post Aitana because

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Speaker 4: I under the Tescan Son is one of my favorite movies.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to do Tescany in Positano, and uh, we start.

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Speaker 4: I've never worked with the travel agent before, but we

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Speaker 2: Are there any shot about our driver? Say yes, make

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Speaker 4: I will jump in the middle of the ocean. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I jumped on the course of the courst.

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Speaker 4: And where we differ as I had a noodle because

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Speaker 2: They call it posita because it is Italy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but there was one place I didn't use the

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Speaker 3: Hotel was beautiful, Yeah, lovely, this little small boutique. It

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Speaker 2: Yeah, super cute.

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Speaker 2: And we had a little tell us what those eyebrows me?

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Speaker 5: And we didn't know that Capria was going to be

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Speaker 5: So it'd be polite, yeah, I mean, you just didn't

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Speaker 5: We did we do this that? But we I wasn't

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Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, and really it wasn't an issue. No. The

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Speaker 4: Then I just had to change my mindset to going, Okay,

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Speaker 3: With Capri and the hotel was amazing.

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Speaker 4: They were so sweet. Yeah yeah, and ended up and

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Speaker 3: Room pretty sure. The stuff he is, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Sure if you're welcome back, but you wouldn't go back

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Speaker 4: got it, that makes sense, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: I called the airlines to see and they were like

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Speaker 1: When all the flight stuff was happening, I was like,

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Speaker 1: she changed her flight sooner, that's what you usually did.

443
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Speaker 4: Tried and they're like it will be this much, and

444
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 4: I was like no, so and then we almost missed

445
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Speaker 4: our flight or we still don't have our bags, but it.

446
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Speaker 2: Was still don't know no, wow.

447
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Speaker 4: No, I did go get in a razor because finally

448
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 4: I was like, I have to shave. It's been no

449
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Speaker 4: a week.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing. So did you ever have your bags? We did.

451
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Speaker 4: So the problem was is we went from Naples to

452
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Speaker 4: oh sorry we were We had to stop because we

453
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Speaker 4: had to go obviously, go pick up the meatball. So

454
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Speaker 4: this is one of the questions on Instagram is howd

455
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Speaker 4: the kids get home? So Jolie and Jase flew with my.

456
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Speaker 3: Heard the kids go home.

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Speaker 2: It's a fair.

458
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Speaker 4: Question, Okay, so some people really like logistics. Yeah, and

459
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Speaker 4: I logistically handled it well. So I flew because we

460
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 4: knew we wanted to go to Italy post but we

461
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Speaker 4: didn't want to have to all fly back to then

462
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Speaker 4: fly back. So we had Joli and Jase fly home

463
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Speaker 4: with my dad and his wife, and then they spent

464
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Speaker 4: some time in Michigan. I then flew Mike up to

465
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Speaker 4: Michigan to get the kids. A few days later. Mike

466
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Speaker 4: then flew them back and then Roman stayed in Scotland

467
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Speaker 4: with Alan's mom and dad, and so we had to

468
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Speaker 4: then after Italy go back to Glasgow to go pick

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Speaker 4: up via Frankfurt and Edinburgh. So at Edinburgh I learned

470
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Speaker 4: the same Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we've all are just Edinburgh corrected American this wedding Edinburgh. Uh.

472
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Speaker 4: So then we were leaving h Naples and it's a

473
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Speaker 4: matt house at that Naples airport.

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Speaker 2: There's so many people, it was so small.

475
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Speaker 4: They were lovely though, because I was that frantic person

476
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Speaker 4: every time it kept getting delayed. I'm like, we have

477
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Speaker 4: a connection and it's not that long. Do you think

478
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Speaker 4: we'll make it. She's like, you'll be fine, You'll be fine, Like,

479
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Speaker 4: you'll be absolutely fine. And then it delayed even more

480
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 4: and she's like, you're not gonna make it, You're fine,

481
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Speaker 4: And I'm like, because at this point I knew there

482
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Speaker 4: was then now no options to get home. It was

483
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Speaker 4: going to be like Thursday or Friday to get us

484
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Speaker 4: on like and it would be like a massive change

485
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Speaker 4: because it's some different airlines or whatever. So we would

486
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Speaker 4: have had to it would have been it would have

487
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Speaker 4: been crazy. Anyways, So we land and the I will

488
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Speaker 4: say the fledgends were lovely in Frankfurt because they knew

489
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Speaker 4: that we had we were the only ones that had

490
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Speaker 4: that the type the connection. Yeah, So we landed in

491
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Speaker 4: Frankfort at the time our other flight was taking off.

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Speaker 4: And at this point I've already processed where we've missed it,

493
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Speaker 4: and I've already processed that we're going to most likely

494
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Speaker 4: have to take a flight to where.

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Speaker 3: At this point you've deviated to wolst case scenarios.

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Speaker 4: Well, because the flight was taking off was always a chance.

497
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Speaker 4: Come on, you knew that flight no no before this though,

498
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Speaker 4: like we knew we were taking off and it was

499
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Speaker 4: still on time.

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Speaker 5: But the captain dead states is, don't make any assumptions

501
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Speaker 5: until we get on the air and we can update you.

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Speaker 1: Right that captain should write as if is going to listen,

503
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Speaker 1: don't make any assumption.

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Speaker 4: Other flight was still on time, and he said the

505
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Speaker 4: flight our time is going to be this many hours.

506
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Speaker 4: So we were landing at the time our other flight

507
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Speaker 4: was taking off. So would you not assume you're going

508
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Speaker 4: to miss that flight?

509
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Speaker 3: I feel.

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Speaker 5: If I thought we were going to miss a flight,

511
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Speaker 5: I wouldn't have sprinted Oh my god.

512
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Speaker 2: Well obviously because it went okay.

513
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Speaker 4: Anyways, so we're having a couples intensive. Well yeah, because

514
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, we clearly had missed we were missing that flight.

515
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 4: So I had already processed we're missing that flight. The

516
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 4: only there was like two options. We either got a

517
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Speaker 4: flight from from Frankfort to Manchester was that it, and

518
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Speaker 4: then drive to Scotland, getting in at like two am,

519
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Speaker 4: then getting the meatball and then getting on our eight

520
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Speaker 4: am eight thirty flight.

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Speaker 2: I traveled the same way though, like I would rather

522
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Speaker 2: just go Okay, if it happens, we have a plan,

523
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Speaker 2: and if we can catch it, excellent, But most likely

524
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Speaker 2: my brain was like there's no possible way, right, Like

525
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Speaker 2: we are literally landing when it takes off. So while

526
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Speaker 2: we're taking off, we get a notification that our flight

527
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Speaker 2: is thirty minutes delayed, and I'm like, I've already in

528
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Speaker 2: my brain again processed I've missed this flight. Don't do

529
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Speaker 2: this to me, because the worst feeling.

530
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Speaker 4: In the world is running to an airplane gate and

531
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Speaker 4: then you're seeing your plane and telling and then them

532
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Speaker 4: telling you you can't get on, like then having that

533
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 4: feeling of like missing that flight, I was just like

534
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to, Like, I just I

535
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 4: can't deal with that. So when we landed in Frankfurt,

536
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 4: the sweet guy and girl that were like, hey, so

537
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 4: your plane has not taken off yet and they haven't

538
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 4: started boarding yet, so run and we I could have

539
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 4: like split up blood I ran.

540
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Speaker 2: I was so out of shape that too, like eating pizza,

541
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 2: car overload, like gelato, really regretting a lot of those choices.

542
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Speaker 4: I stopped and was like I'm in a puke and

543
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 4: we ran and we made it, but our bags didn't.

544
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Speaker 5: Love story shortcase, so that's that suitcases didn't.

545
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 4: But long story short and made the flight and that's

546
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Speaker 4: the logistics. We got meatball then when and then went

547
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Speaker 4: from Glasgow to London, London then too Nashville. So we've

548
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 4: made it home. But how about we take a break

549
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 4: and then let's start from the beginning. Okay, So where

550
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 4: do we even start?

551
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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: Okay, probably the.

554
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 4: Travel too, Yeah, okay, because no one knows that piece

555
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 4: of it. So I was telling my therapist the other day.

556
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Speaker 4: I was like, what part do you want to hear first,

557
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 4: the good or the bad?

558
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: What did she say?

559
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Speaker 4: She was like, I want to hear it all, and

560
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Speaker 4: I want you to share as much as you want

561
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Speaker 4: to share.

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Speaker 2: Response.

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Speaker 4: It's a great theramist, tell me more and because we

564
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Speaker 4: know too. Like when I was talking to her, I said,

565
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Speaker 4: one of my biggest things was, you know, I just

566
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: I want it to be perfect and I'm afraid and like,

567
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: what if people get sick or.

568
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: You know, what if they do? Cramer, what if they do?

569
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Speaker 4: And so but I was like, I'm they're fine, I'm

570
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 4: I've you know, I got pumped with IV's a couple

571
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 4: of times I've been filling the kids up with stuff

572
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Speaker 4: like everything's going to be great. The flight was seamless,

573
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Speaker 4: they were amazing. A last minute I upgraded and I'm

574
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 4: so glad we did. It just made me feel better

575
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 4: and everyone got to sleep. The kiddos slept great, Romans slept.

576
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 4: We did not, but that's fine.

577
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 2: Uh.

578
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Speaker 4: And then we land in Scotland and I'm not again,

579
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Speaker 4: I will not. This is not your this is not

580
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 4: your dad's fault. I'm just going to start.

581
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: I'm going to start nothing. No, nothing starts a healthy argument,

582
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: quite like, I just want to say at all.

583
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 4: I just want to say it's not though, because it's not.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't solely him that was coughing. There was people coughing.

585
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Speaker 2: On I mean a lot of people cough.

586
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Speaker 4: There was a lot of people coughing on the airplane

587
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 4: to exactly Glasgo. There was a lot of people coughing

588
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 4: at the airport waiting like that one lady that was like, Joelie,

589
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 4: please go stand over there because I'm like, and I'm

590
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 4: very conscious of a cough right because i just don't

591
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 4: want the kids to get sick at this point, because

592
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Speaker 4: I've done such a good job trying to keep everyone.

593
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Speaker 3: Healthy, conscious of power, anod both.

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Speaker 2: Equally equally will own. So we.

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Speaker 4: Sendy just a lot of people cough they do like

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Speaker 4: they exactly a lot of people is a human thing. Yes,

597
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Speaker 4: and your dad does cough a lot like I feel

598
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Speaker 4: like old older people, like they have a lingering cough

599
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 4: all the time.

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Speaker 2: He does, right, for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there was a little something different to this coough

602
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Speaker 4: when I got into the car, so we had a

603
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Speaker 4: little Europeans don't believe in big cars, so we had

604
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Speaker 4: to take two cars to your parents' house or to

605
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Speaker 4: the where we were, to your aunt's house where we

606
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 4: were staying, and there was you know, we're just having

607
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 4: some delays or whatever. So I was like, well, I

608
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 4: got to go home and feed, I got to go

609
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: get roman fed. And everyone just kind of situated. So

610
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 4: why don't I take the kids with your dad when

611
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 4: some of the luggage and then you meet us there.

612
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 4: So then we take it the thirty minute trip with

613
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Speaker 4: your dad and he is, i mean hawking up along

614
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 4: and I was just like, oh, Julie, did you say

615
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 4: it's hot in here?

616
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 3: Honey?

617
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 4: So I'm like just like and in my mind I

618
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 4: was like, oh, dear God, please know. Like, but then

619
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Speaker 4: I'm thinking it's fine, it's all good. And then your

620
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 4: dad says that he has a fever like the next day,

621
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 4: and again, I'm not putting this on your dad whatsoever,

622
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 4: because I think there are so many chances that they

623
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 4: could have gotten it from anybody else.

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00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: Having said that, the next.

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Speaker 4: Day, I heard it from Jolie and I was like, oh,

626
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 4: here we go. And then one hundred and four fevers later,

627
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 4: all three kids were sick. Yeah, and uh with they

628
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 4: had croup and COVID.

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Speaker 2: COVID.

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Speaker 4: Well, my dad tested positive and my mom after they

631
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 4: were with the kids, so I'm pretty sure it was COVID.

632
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: Oh they both got Wow. So I'm pretty sure. So everyone,

633
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: And how are you feeling, Katie?

634
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 4: I feel great, and I does negative and I feel excited. Okay,

635
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 4: So it was the I mean, I will say here

636
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 4: and this is what I kind of told my therapist.

637
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 4: I said, as I look back, it was the kids

638
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 4: were coming in in the middle of the night, suffering

639
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 4: to breathe because they had that croup, wheezing. We were

640
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 4: able to just get some of the things that we

641
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 4: knew that we needed for them.

642
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 3: You got creative we got.

643
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 4: Creative with getting some things like I knew they needed

644
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 4: like albutle and hailers and all that and some antibiotics

645
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 4: and but it it was difficult because you know, they

646
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 4: were sick, and a piece of me was I still

647
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 4: wanted them to make awesome memories. So when we went

648
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 4: to that one castle, I mean, they were running one

649
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 4: hundred and three fevers, but we you know, gave them.

650
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 4: We were rotating between tyle and hall and motrin, and

651
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 4: when they were feeling up to it, I'm like, and

652
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 4: their fevers broke for a few hours. I was like,

653
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 4: all right, let's go, and they wanted to you know,

654
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 4: like there was moments of times when they.

655
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Speaker 5: Well there's nothing, That's what I said to you, there's

656
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 5: nothing that would have really changed. They just said it

657
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 5: not feeling as good as they should have felt.

658
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: I know, but that broke my heart. Is like it wasn't.

659
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 5: Stolen Castle has been quarantined for two weeks now, no

660
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 5: one else has been allowed.

661
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 2: Then is that true?

662
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 3: It's been quarantined stolen Castle?

663
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: Oh stop it. Like I didn't even understand that one

664
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 2: right now. I fell for it.

665
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 4: No, But I mean, like I still like got them

666
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 4: out because I just when they were still you know,

667
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 4: they they wanted to too, Like we didn't go to

668
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 4: Edinburgh with you guys because I was like that would

669
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 4: be too much of a journey for them feeling sick.

670
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 4: I always think, is Yeah, So like, you know, we

671
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 4: did the zoo thing, which we were in the car for

672
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 4: and you know, we weren't around a bunch of people,

673
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 4: and the Stirling Castle was outside, and so we did

674
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 4: things that and that was the day they were really bad.

675
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 4: Was that Wednesday? Uh but and then Thursday, but I

676
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 4: mean all three of them. And Thursday that's when Roman

677
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 4: spiked his really high fever of one of four. And

678
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 4: it was just that piece was so stressful and I

679
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 4: regret at that moment not having help because it was

680
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 4: just us and in the middle of the night, you know,

681
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 4: it's I'm wanting all of us to get sleep, and

682
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 4: now I'm not getting sleep because now I have anxiety

683
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 4: that I'm going to get sick and I'm going to

684
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 4: be sick for the big wedding day and then the honeymoon.

685
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 4: And so I then became like this insomniac for the

686
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 4: rest of the vacation because I just would wake up

687
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 4: with anxiety and then like a pool of sweat that

688
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 4: one morning. That one night I asked a like, I

689
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 4: need to go because I took ivermect him.

690
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 3: You took I woke up.

691
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like clammy and sweating like profusely.

692
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 4: I was like in a puddle. I don't know if

693
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 4: I was like cleansing like cause, because at that point

694
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 4: I texted Nate and said, Okay, I have like this

695
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 4: medical emergency kit with me. What can I take in

696
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 4: here to like help me not get sick, you know?

697
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 4: And he was just like, if you have ivermectin, take it.

698
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 4: So I took one. And then that night I woke

699
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 4: up in like a puddle of sweat. I was cold,

700
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 4: I was clammy. It freaked me out.

701
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but anxiety can make you.

702
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 4: For sure, and it might have been that too, but

703
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 4: I've never woken up in a puddle of sweat. And

704
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 4: I continued that for like four days. And so that

705
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 4: was that was the piece of the trip that I

706
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 4: felt bad for the kids. They weren't feeling good. But again,

707
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 4: looking back, like they don't they don't remember that. They

708
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 4: remember the castles, they remember, you know, all the fun stuff.

709
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 4: I just it was so stressful because when everyone was

710
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 4: checking into the castle on Thursday, I was like constantly,

711
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 4: you know, making sure that the kids are okay and

712
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 4: taking temperatures and doing id beprofen than talent, all the

713
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 4: medicine and this and that, and then making sure like

714
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 4: they're good. And then I'm like, all right, well, you

715
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 4: know now I need to Like when you guys were

716
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 4: playing that game night that night, I'm like, I would

717
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 4: have loved to have stayed and done that, but I'm like,

718
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 4: I need to try to get some sleep because I

719
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 4: know that sleep is going to help me stay healthy.

720
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 2: And and for reference, thursdays when we check in and

721
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: Saturday's the wedding. Yeah, so this isn't like you have

722
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,839
Speaker 2: like a lot of days to right run the risk

723
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 2: or yeah, and not having that help was too hard,

724
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 2: like we I mean it was, I thought it was.

725
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 4: That's the one regret that I have is not bringing

726
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 4: help to help us.

727
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 2: Do you agree? Disagree? What are your thoughts?

728
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 3: I mean up with being easier?

729
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I think we managed, but who

730
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 4: knew like that the kids were going to get sick,

731
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 4: you know, I just I felt so bad for that.

732
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 2: I also think no matter what. Kids just want their parents.

733
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: So even if you had, specially when they're sick.

734
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think more like not that I wouldn't help

735
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 4: them when they were sick, but like that way, like

736
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 4: I could have enjoyed even just like sure everything more,

737
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 4: you know, and just you know, for example, the Thursday

738
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 4: to actually eat dinner instead of being feeding Rome, you

739
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 4: know what I mean, like just having like, hey can

740
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 4: you feed Roman?

741
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 2: Someone feed Roman?

742
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, instead of okay, and then in the middle leaving

743
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 4: the group of dinner going to bathe Roman, you know

744
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 4: right right, stuff like that, Yeah, would have been a

745
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 4: little bit more helpful having.

746
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: Trying to relieve you from here when I have to

747
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 2: say your kids were troopers for being sick, Yeah, I

748
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: mean they were. Yeah, nobody was in such great spirits.

749
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: I was like, my kids are not, like they're more

750
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: down and out, Like I was very impressed with how

751
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: well they handled everything and being sick, like I thought.

752
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 2: Melt down. I thought they were graving. Yeah, I mean

753
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:53,879
Speaker 2: we did a good job.

754
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 4: I think keeping them on like that's huge, the ibuprofens

755
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 4: than tile and also.

756
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: That when they go down, yeah, where's off?

757
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean they were angels. But that just

758
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 4: that piece just made me so sad. Because I was

759
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 4: telling her Amy yesterday in therapy. I'm like, she's like

760
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 4: what is She's like, what's the problem that they were Like,

761
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 4: why is it such a big deal that they were sick?

762
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 4: I was like, because I just want them to have

763
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 4: the best memories. And she's just like, they did have

764
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 4: great memories. Like kids aren't going to remember that they

765
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 4: were sick. They're going to remember the castle or that

766
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 4: mommy and Alan got married and then they were a

767
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 4: flower girl, and so she's like that's what they're going

768
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 4: to remember. It all came back on like me though,

769
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 4: because I'm like, well I didn't have the best memories.

770
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 4: She's like, this is about you then.

771
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 2: Not about your kids. Yeah you know.

772
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

773
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 4: So I was like I know, which is why I've

774
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 4: come back now. And we've made a memory.

775
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 2: Wall in our room of all the fun memories. So

776
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 2: like these were fun memories, right, because I just think

777
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: that's all Like we aim for excellence. There's also like

778
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 2: the standard we set in our brain when we spend

779
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 2: so much money or we plan so much in advance,

780
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: like the expectation, Yeah, that is like a fair letdown

781
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 2: to like for it to not be like seamless. Hm.

782
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 2: But I also think it's like you'll look back, even

783
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 2: probably already and go like, we teamworked so well and

784
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: that's really like I love when people celebrate a marriage

785
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 2: over a wedding, and I feel like, you guys married

786
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 2: well even in the wedding week.

787
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: Well so, And I'll say that too, like because he

788
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 4: was even saying when we were there, like, You're like,

789
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 4: this has been so stressful the leading up to the honeymoon,

790
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 4: I'm sorry leading up to the wedding, and I just

791
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 4: kept saying, I'm like, but this is what it is,

792
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 4: you know, Like we have to be on somewhat of

793
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 4: a schedule with Roman and we have to you know,

794
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 4: but we managed to do it and we still had

795
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 4: fun even though they were sick, and that was important

796
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 4: to me, like going, Okay, it's not perfect. How do

797
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 4: we still steal moments of joy out of this? As

798
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 4: a guest, where are you smiling?

799
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 5: No, You're right, Like I think the first couple of

800
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 5: days we tried to squeeze too much. And also and

801
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 5: like I said, let's just stop doing things to tick

802
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 5: a box and actually just take the time and experience them.

803
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 5: And if Roman doesn't go to bed when he's supposed

804
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 5: to go to bed, then it's fine. You will go

805
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 5: to bed thirty minutes later or forty minutes later. The

806
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 5: schedules were all messed up anyway, So I think in

807
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 5: the end up we did a good job of not

808
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 5: just ticking boxes. We did a lot, but actually were

809
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 5: present when we did them and enjoyed them and still

810
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 5: kept them on a schedule.

811
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 3: So all worked out.

812
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 5: It was stressful because the ill and you're in someone

813
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 5: else's house as well. You don't have your own space.

814
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 5: Like my aunt's house is a big house and it's

815
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 5: it's a really nice place, but if you've got three

816
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:45,760
Speaker 5: kids and someone else's house, you're almost like they're putting

817
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 5: up with us rather than hosting us.

818
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 2: Do you know that?

819
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 3: Oh they were amazing.

820
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel that way, though I don't stay well

821
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 2: with you.

822
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 5: So that was that was more from my side of, yeah,

823
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 5: we don't have our own space to deal with the

824
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 5: kids being sick, and would envy that someone's house and

825
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 5: everyone's sick, So it was more of a like, it's

826
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 5: more like, just get me out of here, let's just

827
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 5: go somewhere. But we're on we're own, we can isolate

828
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 5: the kids. But it was fine because they were amazing.

829
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: They were truly amazing.

830
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it all walked out and then when we

831
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 5: got to we got to the castle, it was it

832
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 5: was perfect.

833
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 4: Well, and that's what I was telling Amy too. I

834
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 4: was like, the only thing that I could say about

835
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 4: the trip was, you know, I feeling terrible that the

836
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 4: kids were not feeling well, But once we got into

837
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 4: the castle, I just felt like it was from my

838
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 4: point of view, Yes, there were moments where I said

839
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 4: it to her, like I wish I was more present

840
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 4: in certain areas, like you know, being able to stay

841
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 4: and do the game with you guys at night time,

842
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 4: and I wish, I wish I let my brain. I

843
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 4: wish I was able to sleep. Like that insomnia thing

844
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 4: really mess with me because I would literally get up

845
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 4: at two in the morning and toss and turn pretty

846
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 4: much cry until five in the morning, and then sleep

847
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 4: for another two to three hours. And it was when

848
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 4: he was a missed. I was like, I want to sleep.

849
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 4: It was the first time I've ever dealt with them

850
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 4: like I've never experienced like wanting to go to sleep

851
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 4: but can't go to sleep. I also just need to

852
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 4: mention this because it's really worth mentioning. Like you just

853
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 4: had a baby, not really, but like according to like

854
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 4: science and our bodies, like you still have a there's

855
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 4: like an underlying level of like that anxiety. There's still too,

856
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 4: like you're not completely leveled out either. So add all

857
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 4: those things pleasure getting married, and you spent all this

858
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 4: money and all this time and all this planning, and

859
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 4: you want it to be magical, like I would be

860
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 4: the same way that stuff all sneaks in, you know.

861
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wanted it to be perfect.

862
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 4: I'm like, I've waited so long for this, like fairy tale,

863
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,240
Speaker 4: and it's it's here, and I'm afraid like that it's

864
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 4: going to just be terrible or every everyone's going to

865
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 4: be just sick. And meanwhile your guests are like living

866
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 4: I know. But like I said to Amy, like the

867
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 4: we had them, it was the most magic coal time ever,

868
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 4: you guys, the group of people you moved.

869
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: Into estates, I loved it. Like I will say, I

870
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 2: was a little nervous. I just don't do well living

871
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: with people that I don't make or marry, and so

872
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 2: I thought, I'm not so sure about this, Like whole

873
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 2: real world takes over Scotland moment that we're about to

874
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 2: have so much fun. So like you, guys, and I've

875
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: always said this about you, truly to everybody, but like

876
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 2: you have this way of collecting human beings and making

877
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 2: it so fun, Like you've collected fun people everywhere, like

878
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 2: I know, Sarah Bryce because of you. You know, I

879
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 2: just lived my best life. Like we had all these

880
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 2: fun people. We had roommates, we had alan playing games

881
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,720
Speaker 2: like it was that was so fun. My cheeks literally

882
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 2: hurt from like laughing. I'm like, what have I got

883
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 2: myself into? Though?

884
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: Instead of you, seeing as you missed out on it,

885
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: I'm seeing.

886
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: That happen over here. But I do think you.

887
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 1: I think for us as your friend, really great night

888
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: for us to spend with him and his friend.

889
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 2: Because we don't ever get to be with him, we don't,

890
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

891
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: So I don't want you to see it as like

892
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: just a negative It was a great night.

893
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: And not spending time with me.

894
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 6: No, you hear what you wanted to hear out of that,

895
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 6: I'm saying that it was normally we we don't hang

896
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 6: out with him without you, sure, and we probably won't

897
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 6: ever really, you know, but like it was a night

898
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 6: to truly see Alan and him having fun and his

899
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 6: friends and having fun with them, you know what I mean.

900
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: So it was it was it was a cool experience

901
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,359
Speaker 1: for us too, and that right, and that was.

902
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 2: By the way, I'm thinking, he knows what I'm thinking,

903
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 2: Like an hour and a half, ever play games with me?

904
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 3: Yes, well let's do it right now. But it wasn't.

905
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 3: It wasn't. It wasn't a.

906
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: Games. Do you want to play drinking games?

907
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:03,919
Speaker 5: Yeah?

908
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: I had a blast plane you gir with Alan and

909
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 2: would you play drinking games? You know? They answered exactly.

910
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 3: It's so funny.

911
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was really fun. But even beyond

912
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:16,959
Speaker 2: that night, like its just cool.

913
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 3: Everyone play a game.

914
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: We're going to play this drinking game and you're going

915
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 1: to play because.

916
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 2: You felt I've never played a drinking game. Well these

917
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: are best. I didn't even really drink with. I didn't

918
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 2: really drink because I just can't right now, like I'm

919
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 2: just I need to. And yeah, when you're competitive enough

920
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 2: that I won't drink, you don't have to drink. It's

921
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: so funny to watch. We should show we should I

922
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 2: have some good footage so funny, like I drink a bit,

923
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 2: but I didn't like I was chugging beers or like

924
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 2: you don't have to, you just want to.

925
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I'm glad you guys had fun while of

926
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 4: my nightmare Dungeon.

927
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 5: It was almost like you haven't I explained that to you.

928
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 5: It was almost like, so when you're a profession sports person,

929
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 5: you've got a big event coming up, you get insomnia.

930
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, performance insomnia.

931
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 5: And I explained to you, like two nights before a

932
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 5: match is the most important night for sleep.

933
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 3: So I used to always I need.

934
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 5: To sleep on a Thursday because that's the most important

935
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 5: night before a Saturday match. And I would get insomnia

936
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 5: on Thursdays because I placed so much importance on sleeping

937
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 5: on a Thursday. So I would toss and turn and

938
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 5: tossing turn and tossing tourn And it's almost like you

939
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 5: had that for like five nights of I've got this

940
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 5: big event coming up, it needs to be perfect. It's

941
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 5: like almost like a performance insomnia type thing, which is

942
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 5: which is normal.

943
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 2: Absolutely very normal. I've just never experienced that before.

944
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 4: Like usually I sleep and I sleep well, and that

945
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 4: was just I mean, the marriage.

946
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 5: Was like playoff final, the Super Bowl performance anxiety.

947
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't remember when we talked about this before

948
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: we left, and you're like, the only thing I'm anxious

949
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 1: about is not sleeping because I have to have.

950
00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 2: My slate, and it was in my brain.

951
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you literally talked about it before you like, that's

952
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: the only thing I'm worried about. Your expectations were so

953
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: like everyone. I mean, everyone has expectations, right, and so

954
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: it just that was in your head already. I remember

955
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: you specifically saying that.

956
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 5: This is where you need to like, you're so incredible

957
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 5: with planning, and this is where you need to trust

958
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,879
Speaker 5: yourself a little bit more because everything you do walks out.

959
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 5: And I told you that there's a lot of planning

960
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 5: and it will all come together, it'll all be perfect.

961
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 5: And it was like, there's nothing that would change from

962
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 5: the moment we arrived at the castle to the moment

963
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 5: we left, the moment we arrived in the honeymoon to

964
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 5: the moment left. I would not change a single thing

965
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 5: apart from you getting more sleep and.

966
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 4: The kids not being But yeah, but you're right, you

967
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 4: did say that You're like even so like they were

968
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 4: great and they had fun and they had with lots

969
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 4: of moments of fun. No I know, I know, I yeah.

970
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 5: Nothing that would change apart from the Americans when in

971
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 5: the shooting cleave pigeons.

972
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 4: So it was Scotland versus USA involved in almost anywhere

973
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 4: there could be a competition. Okay, that is all we

974
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 4: have for this week, but we have even more fun

975
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 4: of wedding details coming next week in Part two.

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Speaker 2: Stay tuned.