Speaker 1: Its breaking Jeffrey in the morning, and you found the
Speaker 1: Second Date podcast, and today we've got a.
Speaker 2: Brand new one with a lot on the line.
Speaker 1: I would say, since the guy actually flew out for
Speaker 1: an entire weekend for a first date, that's a commitment.
Speaker 2: Okay, big moves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and obviously it didn't go well because he's on
Speaker 1: the phone with us, so we're going to get the
Speaker 1: details on that in a second.
Speaker 2: But first, we love reviewing and seeing and loving on
Speaker 2: your comments. Alexis.
Speaker 3: Yeah, m E said, that was a fantastic episode. I
Speaker 3: can understand why you've won so many awards for excellence
Speaker 3: in radio broadcasting, which, for it is a lot like
Speaker 3: being the Tannis scientist in Antarctica or the smartest person
Speaker 3: to ever have to repeat your senior year of high school.
Speaker 2: Yeah, congrats, we did, right.
Speaker 1: I always say, what do they call a doctor that
Speaker 1: graduated last in his class?
Speaker 2: That's right, Josey. All right, we're gonna get your brand
Speaker 2: new Second Date started right now.
Speaker 4: Second Date update.
Speaker 5: I've heard you can always trust people who have a
Speaker 5: five letter first name. Tyler Mason Vince the slap Chop
Speaker 5: guy before he got arrested. I really trust him. You
Speaker 5: just feel safe talking to somebody with five letters in
Speaker 5: their first name.
Speaker 2: It's Vincelapchop.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you could always trust him.
Speaker 5: That's why I get a really cozy feeling knowing our
Speaker 5: listener on the phone right now has a five letter
Speaker 5: first name, a guy named Corey C O R E Y.
Speaker 4: Corey.
Speaker 5: Your name alone means you have a lot to live
Speaker 5: up to here. But welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: How you doing, Thanks?
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 5: Does the girl that you met have a five letter
Speaker 5: first name too?
Speaker 6: No? No, sadly, I did know that.
Speaker 1: Jeff was like so into this five letter thing. Nobody
Speaker 1: on this show has a five letter name.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's how you know we're all pieces of garbage.
Speaker 2: Alexis has the same amount of letters as I.
Speaker 5: Do, almost Jeffy Jeffy has five letters in it. So
Speaker 5: I'm trust worth. Then you can trust me with your story, Corey.
Speaker 4: Go ahead. What's the name of this girl that you met?
Speaker 7: Her name is Alfon Alison.
Speaker 4: Let's call her Ali A L L I E so
Speaker 4: that I can approve that way. Well we do today,
Speaker 4: So tell us about Alison. Where did you meet her?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 7: I met her on a dating app and I haven't
Speaker 7: had the best of luck.
Speaker 6: Like, I've been on the dating apps.
Speaker 7: For a long time and it's just it's been a
Speaker 7: while since I made a real connection with anybody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we hear that a lot about the apps. I
Speaker 2: don't think you're alone in that at all.
Speaker 6: Yeah, But Alice and I we like really hit it off.
Speaker 7: And the only problem is she doesn't live in my town.
Speaker 7: She was like a couple hours away by driving, you
Speaker 7: got a big radius on that app.
Speaker 2: A couple of hours is a commitment.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's something you're willing to do.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it would have to be worth it, and I
Speaker 7: decided that it absolutely would be. She seems into it too,
Speaker 7: So we were like, how how do we do this?
Speaker 7: And I had a pre weekend. I'm like, I'm free
Speaker 7: next weekend. What if I fly up there?
Speaker 2: Whoa?
Speaker 4: Oh fly?
Speaker 1: I like how You're like, I'm not driving a couple
Speaker 1: hours get me out of place.
Speaker 2: I know, but it takes the same amount of time
Speaker 2: at the end, by the time you have to go
Speaker 2: to the airport, check in, do all the stuff, it's
Speaker 2: the same amount of time.
Speaker 5: I mean, that's her seeing all the effort that you're
Speaker 5: willing to put in just to meet up.
Speaker 4: With her.
Speaker 1: Did you like get a hotel or did you expect
Speaker 1: to stay with her for the weekend.
Speaker 7: I didn't have expectations. I was like, you know, I
Speaker 7: was prepared for it, but no, I got a hotel.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, but I didn't.
Speaker 7: I didn't have the hotel already booked. I was like,
Speaker 7: I'll get one when I need one.
Speaker 5: Because you can't like cancel day of Also, your name
Speaker 5: is Corey with five letters in it, so she felt
Speaker 5: safe just being around you, knowing that in itself she
Speaker 5: can trust.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean I didn't.
Speaker 7: Hopefully I didn't make any expectations that I was going
Speaker 7: to stay.
Speaker 6: With her or whatever.
Speaker 4: Hopefully she registers that. How did the meetup go?
Speaker 7: So we're like, let's just go to a restaurant, and
Speaker 7: she suggested a chain restaurant, which is fine, it's probably
Speaker 7: it's not the rest of I would have picked.
Speaker 2: He's disappointed.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's great. The conversation flowed. There was lots of laughter.
Speaker 7: We were playing this game where it was like, let's
Speaker 7: look at the people around us and try to.
Speaker 6: Guess what jobs that they would have. She was so funny.
Speaker 6: She kept saying like uber driver, like she ran out
Speaker 6: of Getzu. She just kept dousing the same thing.
Speaker 8: Yeah joke.
Speaker 7: He wasn't like super great at the game, but we
Speaker 7: had to laugh about it.
Speaker 2: Was there more than just a restaurant, I would assume,
Speaker 2: because you're there all weekend.
Speaker 6: Right, Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So we were like, you know, dinner was over
Speaker 7: and there was a cheesecake factory next door.
Speaker 2: This is like the chain mecca.
Speaker 7: So it's like, let's get some dessert there, and we
Speaker 7: were going to take it to go.
Speaker 2: Where were you going to go? What was the plan?
Speaker 7: We're just going to go to the park and just
Speaker 7: hang out more.
Speaker 2: At night.
Speaker 6: Yeah, romantic, but I mean.
Speaker 7: I was floored by the prices actually at cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: Be honest, restaurants just right now are so expensive, you know,
Speaker 1: the prices have gone up so much.
Speaker 6: And so we were just like it's got one and
Speaker 6: we split it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: So we went to the park and we ate the cheesecake,
Speaker 7: have more good conversation, and then then it was like, okay,
Speaker 7: let's split up.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So she didn't invite you back to her place.
Speaker 6: She did not.
Speaker 7: I would flying back the next night, and so in
Speaker 7: my mind it was like, let's go to bed and
Speaker 7: we can wake up early and you know, spend the
Speaker 7: next day with each other.
Speaker 4: May would you like brunch or something like?
Speaker 2: Before you leave a lot of time with someone you
Speaker 2: don't know though.
Speaker 5: But also that's a good thing because you go to
Speaker 5: the hotel in the morning, you text her say hi,
Speaker 5: good morning, would you like to do something?
Speaker 4: And if she says no, then then you know.
Speaker 8: It's a no.
Speaker 2: There's freakentel, no breakfast, so the lobby.
Speaker 4: Up the waffle bar.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's no chain restaurant, but it'll do. So
Speaker 5: what happened the next day.
Speaker 6: Well, so I did that.
Speaker 7: I texted her like let's hang out and she didn't
Speaker 7: say no, but she was just like, sorry, I have
Speaker 7: this my grandma has this thing, and I can't hang
Speaker 7: out today.
Speaker 4: I kind of.
Speaker 1: Sound maybe not, Maybe it was just a miscommunication, Like
Speaker 1: how good were you at being direct when you're coming
Speaker 1: in like, hey, I want to see you both days.
Speaker 7: I wasn't really because I didn't want to put any
Speaker 7: pressure on her. But I was super disappointed though, because
Speaker 7: we had hit it off and like I flew up.
Speaker 4: There, yes and now and now she's not calling you back.
Speaker 7: I was texted a few times, but like it feels
Speaker 7: like a little different maybe, And so I can't figure
Speaker 7: it out.
Speaker 6: I have no idea what's going on.
Speaker 5: I mean, if Alison really wants to go to her
Speaker 5: grandma's funeral over like spending more time with you, I
Speaker 5: think that's a big red flag for her.
Speaker 1: So it was an activity with her alive grandma, is
Speaker 1: how I read it.
Speaker 5: She should have been more clear, should have been more
Speaker 5: clear about that, And we're gonna hold her feet to
Speaker 5: the fire when we come back, call her and get you.
Speaker 5: Let's just see what she has to say when we
Speaker 5: do your second date update right after.
Speaker 4: This second date update.
Speaker 5: It is not a good sign when you fly out
Speaker 5: of town for a first date and the person decides
Speaker 5: to hang out with their grandma over here.
Speaker 2: Sign.
Speaker 5: Well, that's what kind of happened to our listener, Corey.
Speaker 5: He traveled by plane to meet up with a woman
Speaker 5: named Alison. They had dinner and cheesecake one night, but
Speaker 5: the next day she told them, Oh, sorry, I actually
Speaker 5: can't see you again. I'm chilling with my Graham Graham today.
Speaker 5: So naturally, Corey's wondering, is this because I did something
Speaker 5: wrong on her date? Or is her Grandma really just
Speaker 5: that cool? Brook, Please reassure Corey and tell him.
Speaker 4: He's cooler than a granny.
Speaker 6: Here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure that's what it is. My Grandma's always
Speaker 2: gonna come first. Grandma will come first. But Grandma's didn't
Speaker 2: take all day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like there should even Corey if it was like, hey,
Speaker 1: can I just meet you.
Speaker 2: For coffee before I fly out? Did you can I
Speaker 2: bring my grandma on our coffee? Did you ask that?
Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, I guess I should have offered that.
Speaker 7: I really I didn't think of that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I mean maybe that's all it is.
Speaker 7: I'm still holding out hope that this is gonna work out. Okay,
Speaker 7: so I really appreciate you all doing.
Speaker 6: This for me.
Speaker 5: Well, I also thinking maybe it's sunk in too that
Speaker 5: you had to get on a flight like this.
Speaker 4: Long distancing may not work.
Speaker 1: It's hard for long term relationships to be long distance,
Speaker 1: let alone starting a brand new one longest.
Speaker 5: I've never heard that. I've heard long distance is easy.
Speaker 5: Let's hope that Alison agrees.
Speaker 4: I'm going to call her right now. Hopefully she has
Speaker 4: some answers. But here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Allison?
Speaker 2: Yes? Who is this?
Speaker 5: Hey, you don't have to be afraid. We're a radio show.
Speaker 5: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Don't ever start with you don't have to be.
Speaker 5: That.
Speaker 4: Don't be scared of us.
Speaker 5: We're a really friendly group of male and female hosts
Speaker 5: on the radio.
Speaker 2: Why do I not want to be lumped in with you?
Speaker 4: Space here? Alison? Hello, are you still there?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Hi, okay, sorry for phrasing it that way, but uh,
Speaker 5: you're on the radio right now, and we're doing a
Speaker 5: segment it's called a second Date Update. We're trying to
Speaker 5: get some help for one of our listeners that you
Speaker 5: went out with recently, a guy named Corey.
Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, yeah.
Speaker 4: I was quick. You know who exactly Corey is?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean talk about someone who has no self awareness? Yeah,
Speaker 8: I know, Corey no self awareness.
Speaker 1: Oh that would explain why he has no clue why
Speaker 1: you're not calling him back.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, clearly he's not aware of what he did wrong.
Speaker 5: Because we heard the story from him about your hangout.
Speaker 5: We didn't pick up any red flags based on what
Speaker 5: we heard from him.
Speaker 8: That's laughable.
Speaker 5: Oh my, will help enlighten us because we're just trying
Speaker 5: to help Corey figure out what he did wrong.
Speaker 8: I mean, I don't know, he needs like a chivalry
Speaker 8: class or like social basics, like interactions one on one.
Speaker 4: But he was so rude, Like wow, what he was
Speaker 4: rude to you?
Speaker 8: Yeah, like our first conversation, I sit down and he
Speaker 8: notices my nose ring and he's like, oh, how long
Speaker 8: have you had that? And I said a couple of years.
Speaker 8: I was like why and he says, oh, because I'm
Speaker 8: trying to understand how many daddy issues you have?
Speaker 1: Whoa gosh from a nose piercing exact no associates daddy
Speaker 1: issues and nose pills.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, clearly, clearly Coy does.
Speaker 1: Was he trying to make a joke and it just
Speaker 1: didn't land right? Like, maybe that's no.
Speaker 8: I mean, if that had been the only thing, fine,
Speaker 8: But I was like, Okay, maybe he's nervous. Maybe he's
Speaker 8: like we just don't get each other's humor. But then
Speaker 8: we're like playing this game where we're like picking out
Speaker 8: the jobs for people around us, and it's like, fine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we heard about that everyone was uber drivers, right right?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that came after what he said my
Speaker 8: job was. So I was just kind of in shock.
Speaker 2: Wait, wait he picked out a job for you.
Speaker 8: He picked out a job for me, and he goes,
Speaker 8: I have a job for you, and I was like,
Speaker 8: oh okay, and he's like it would be groupie what groupy.
Speaker 2: Like you'd be some desperate woman following a band around as.
Speaker 8: A job exactly. And I was like a good joke.
Speaker 5: Really yeah, maybe he meant it in like you seem
Speaker 5: like a fun type of girl.
Speaker 2: I don't think a group is ever a good thing.
Speaker 5: It's a good thing for the band usually people.
Speaker 8: It was so weird. Woy would you tell someone that?
Speaker 8: And I told him that's offensive and he's like, oh,
Speaker 8: just based on your nose ring, you know, based on
Speaker 8: how you're dressed.
Speaker 4: Based yes.
Speaker 8: I was like, okay, I'm done. But we left the
Speaker 8: restaurant and then I was already over it. And then
Speaker 8: he was like, oh, this cheesecake. Let's go to cheesecake factory,
Speaker 8: which he suggested, and I was like, okay, yeah, that's fine, whatever,
Speaker 8: let's see how this goes. And he asked what the
Speaker 8: price is and looks at me and he goes, oh,
Speaker 8: so are you going to get.
Speaker 7: Your card out?
Speaker 4: What he asked you to get your card out to pay.
Speaker 8: Yeah, And I'm like, what you asked me on a date?
Speaker 8: You suggested cheesecake. If this was breaking your bank, why
Speaker 8: did you say come in here?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well you are the host because he's the one flying
Speaker 5: in town. So a lot of times the host is
Speaker 5: supposed to pay for stuff like meals.
Speaker 4: But I don't know, it seems like a little.
Speaker 1: Bit of a stress that is more than a little
Speaker 1: bit of a stretch.
Speaker 2: Jeff, again, what she said. He suggested going to cheesecake.
Speaker 2: He's the one that asked her out.
Speaker 5: He paid, Yeah.
Speaker 8: Then he we got like one piece and we split it,
Speaker 8: which he ate mostly. And I'm like, this.
Speaker 2: Is so weird.
Speaker 1: That's your red flag worse than the offensive comments.
Speaker 2: He's probably a guy that wouldn't share.
Speaker 5: His fries, right, So, no doubt there's some questionable stuff
Speaker 5: being said by him, But there's always two sides to
Speaker 5: every story. We should at least at a minimum, hear
Speaker 5: what Corey has to say about it, because he is
Speaker 5: on the other line right now waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 1: No way, actually he is, and I'm sure he just
Speaker 1: wants to apologize.
Speaker 6: Alison. I just feel like I feel like you just
Speaker 6: left out all the good parts.
Speaker 4: Oh good parts, Well.
Speaker 7: You left at all the good parts, and you just
Speaker 7: said all the stuff that you have problems with. I
Speaker 7: didn't even know you had problems with because you didn't
Speaker 7: say anything about it.
Speaker 2: She told you was offensive. Is Alison even still there? Yeah?
Speaker 8: What do you mean you didn't know I had a problem?
Speaker 8: I said, that's offensive. When is calling anyone a groupy
Speaker 8: a positive interact?
Speaker 6: She?
Speaker 7: I mean, it was kind of like a joke, but
Speaker 7: also it's just kind of like your vibe, right, like
Speaker 7: like a fun but like a fun vibe.
Speaker 6: You know you like me, but I'm the groupie.
Speaker 7: I didn't mean any disrespect, like that movie almost famous,
Speaker 7: like the Penny Lane, Like she's like her.
Speaker 2: It was a really bad cycle that she was in
Speaker 2: if you watch the whole movie. But it sounds like
Speaker 2: you're really.
Speaker 1: Defensive and you didn't expect that she was offended.
Speaker 7: No, No, I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 1: So I think, maybe just take a deep breath and
Speaker 1: use this opportunity to apologize and own.
Speaker 6: Some of that. I apologize. I don't know what she's
Speaker 6: mad about.
Speaker 2: You told her she had daddy issues. Corey, You've got
Speaker 2: to apologize.
Speaker 7: Maybe I didn't say no, I didn't say she had
Speaker 7: daddy issues, all right. It's just like my personal experience
Speaker 7: is that usually girls with those rings usually have some
Speaker 7: kind of daddy issues. And it's not even I'm not
Speaker 7: even saying like it's bad.
Speaker 6: It's like it's just a thing.
Speaker 8: What wo, you had a lot of issues?
Speaker 6: What are you okay?
Speaker 5: Issues aside, it is interesting that you didn't tell us
Speaker 5: Corey that you asked Alison to pay for the cheesecake.
Speaker 6: I'm supposed to pay for everything.
Speaker 5: Well, why just because you were the one who suggested
Speaker 5: getting the cheesecake. Alison, tell Corey how you felt during
Speaker 5: that moment when he asked you to pay for the dessert.
Speaker 8: I was like, Wow, this guy is a loser.
Speaker 6: Whatever, I'm a loser. But what you want me to
Speaker 6: just take care of you like I'm your daddy. Sound
Speaker 6: like you've got daddy issues.
Speaker 8: I want you to never take care of me. I
Speaker 8: want you to never talk to me. That's why you
Speaker 8: didn't hear from me.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 7: I wish you just told me that in the first place,
Speaker 7: instead of stringing me along.
Speaker 8: I didn't string you along. I made up a lie
Speaker 8: about my grandma.
Speaker 6: I didn't string you along.
Speaker 5: Oh wait, you lied there. There was no hangout with
Speaker 5: your grandma on the next day.
Speaker 8: I was trying to be but like I didn't know
Speaker 8: he was going to call a radio station and air
Speaker 8: out that he was.
Speaker 5: I thought that we had daddy issues, but apparently it's
Speaker 5: granny issues that we've got going on. So before we
Speaker 5: let you go do that, we have to we offer
Speaker 5: you a chance to meet up one more time, and
Speaker 5: we will pay for the second date for at least
Speaker 5: the dinner.
Speaker 8: Absolutely not.
Speaker 2: Didn't even let you finish your sentence.
Speaker 4: Wow, so rude.
Speaker 2: We're being sarcastic, Allison. Sorry, had to go through that.
Speaker 6: What about me? I just can like drag through the mud.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you feel that way, buddy.
Speaker 1: That was That was your own dragging though the buddy comment.
Speaker 4: Looking down on your.
Speaker 5: So Corey, it's not going to be another date with Allison.
Speaker 5: It's a no from her obviously.
Speaker 4: Fine, but good news. You're back on to the dating apps.
Speaker 7: Just where you want to be great, catch more awesome.
Speaker 3: Don't have to match with those girls.
Speaker 4: Jeff in the morning.
Speaker 5: I know we're arguing a lot about groupies there for
Speaker 5: a second, but it is interesting that none of us
Speaker 5: said groupie isn't technically a profession.
Speaker 1: I know that's because we've watched too many reality shows
Speaker 1: people say.
Speaker 2: Anything as a profession anymore.
Speaker 5: I mean, if I were her, I would have said,
Speaker 5: that's not a job for like one, you have to
Speaker 5: guess you need to pick again.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't be offended. It's just inaccurate.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it would have been a lot of I mean,
Speaker 5: it has purse, but you're not on a payroll.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're kind of missing the point of
Speaker 1: what she was upset about.
Speaker 2: But sure, Jeff, Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 4: But there was no good match happening between the two
Speaker 4: of them.
Speaker 5: It's just too bad Corey had to fly out in
Speaker 5: order to figure that information out.
Speaker 4: He takes it as a.
Speaker 5: Learning experience for what not to do and what not
Speaker 5: to say and what body piercings. Not to draw dumb
Speaker 5: conclusions from.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because he sounds like a guy who's really
Speaker 1: open to change.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So if you if you need help with your dating life,
Speaker 5: you can always email the show. We'll call that person
Speaker 5: who's not calling you back and go check out all
Speaker 5: of our second dates. Wherever you get your podcasts, they're
Speaker 5: up at Brook and Jeffrey