WEBVTT - Second Date Update: I Got Cheesecaked 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.680 Its breaking Jeffrey in the morning, and you found the 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:03.880 Second Date podcast, and today we've got a. 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:05.800 Brand new one with a lot on the line. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:08.920 I would say, since the guy actually flew out for 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:12.560 an entire weekend for a first date, that's a commitment. 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:13.720 Okay, big moves. 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:15.440 Yeah, and obviously it didn't go well because he's on 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:17.119 the phone with us, so we're going to get the 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:18.400 details on that in a second. 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:21.639 But first, we love reviewing and seeing and loving on 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:23.160 your comments. Alexis. 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:27.360 Yeah, m E said, that was a fantastic episode. I 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:30.200 can understand why you've won so many awards for excellence 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.720 in radio broadcasting, which, for it is a lot like 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:37.480 being the Tannis scientist in Antarctica or the smartest person 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:39.760 to ever have to repeat your senior year of high school. 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:42.680 Yeah, congrats, we did, right. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:44.920 I always say, what do they call a doctor that 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.080 graduated last in his class? 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:51.080 That's right, Josey. All right, we're gonna get your brand 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:52.479 new Second Date started right now. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:55.240 Second Date update. 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.480 I've heard you can always trust people who have a 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:06.680 five letter first name. Tyler Mason Vince the slap Chop 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:12.200 guy before he got arrested. I really trust him. You 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:15.240 just feel safe talking to somebody with five letters in 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:16.000 their first name. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:18.040 It's Vincelapchop. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:21.880 Yeah, you could always trust him. 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.720 That's why I get a really cozy feeling knowing our 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:27.280 listener on the phone right now has a five letter 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:31.520 first name, a guy named Corey C O R E Y. 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:32.320 Corey. 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.759 Your name alone means you have a lot to live 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:36.640 up to here. But welcome to the show man. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:37.920 How you doing, Thanks? 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:38.960 How are you? 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:40.920 Does the girl that you met have a five letter 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:41.800 first name too? 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:45.640 No? No, sadly, I did know that. 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:48.160 Jeff was like so into this five letter thing. Nobody 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:49.680 on this show has a five letter name. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:51.840 Yeah, And that's how you know we're all pieces of garbage. 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:54.640 Alexis has the same amount of letters as I. 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:58.360 Do, almost Jeffy Jeffy has five letters in it. So 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:02.200 I'm trust worth. Then you can trust me with your story, Corey. 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.160 Go ahead. What's the name of this girl that you met? 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.360 Her name is Alfon Alison. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.640 Let's call her Ali A L L I E so 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:18.400 that I can approve that way. Well we do today, 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:21.040 So tell us about Alison. Where did you meet her? 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:21.640 Well? 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:24.880 I met her on a dating app and I haven't 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:25.680 had the best of luck. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:27.360 Like, I've been on the dating apps. 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.600 For a long time and it's just it's been a 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.880 while since I made a real connection with anybody. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:33.760 Yeah, we hear that a lot about the apps. I 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:35.200 don't think you're alone in that at all. 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.960 Yeah, But Alice and I we like really hit it off. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.400 And the only problem is she doesn't live in my town. 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:46.880 She was like a couple hours away by driving, you 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:48.240 got a big radius on that app. 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.239 A couple of hours is a commitment. 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:53.840 Yeah, that's something you're willing to do. 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.200 Yeah, it would have to be worth it, and I 0:02:56.280 --> 0:03:00.679 decided that it absolutely would be. She seems into it too, 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:02.440 So we were like, how how do we do this? 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:05.160 And I had a pre weekend. I'm like, I'm free 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.000 next weekend. What if I fly up there? 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:07.919 Whoa? 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:08.440 Oh fly? 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.000 I like how You're like, I'm not driving a couple 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:13.239 hours get me out of place. 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:16.160 I know, but it takes the same amount of time 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:17.640 at the end, by the time you have to go 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.799 to the airport, check in, do all the stuff, it's 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:21.799 the same amount of time. 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:24.359 I mean, that's her seeing all the effort that you're 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.000 willing to put in just to meet up. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:26.320 With her. 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:28.359 Did you like get a hotel or did you expect 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:29.520 to stay with her for the weekend. 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.680 I didn't have expectations. I was like, you know, I 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.600 was prepared for it, but no, I got a hotel. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.920 Okay, okay, but I didn't. 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.840 I didn't have the hotel already booked. I was like, 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:40.560 I'll get one when I need one. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.320 Because you can't like cancel day of Also, your name 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.320 is Corey with five letters in it, so she felt 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:50.000 safe just being around you, knowing that in itself she 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:50.520 can trust. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:51.920 Yeah. I mean I didn't. 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.280 Hopefully I didn't make any expectations that I was going 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.040 to stay. 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:56.360 With her or whatever. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.680 Hopefully she registers that. How did the meetup go? 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:02.000 So we're like, let's just go to a restaurant, and 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:06.400 she suggested a chain restaurant, which is fine, it's probably 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:07.800 it's not the rest of I would have picked. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.080 He's disappointed. 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:14.400 Yeah, that's great. The conversation flowed. There was lots of laughter. 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:17.480 We were playing this game where it was like, let's 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.240 look at the people around us and try to. 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:24.920 Guess what jobs that they would have. She was so funny. 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.960 She kept saying like uber driver, like she ran out 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:29.880 of Getzu. She just kept dousing the same thing. 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:36.080 Yeah joke. 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.839 He wasn't like super great at the game, but we 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:40.680 had to laugh about it. 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.239 Was there more than just a restaurant, I would assume, 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:44.720 because you're there all weekend. 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:45.000 Right, Yeah. 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:47.839 Yeah, So we were like, you know, dinner was over 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:49.960 and there was a cheesecake factory next door. 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:52.520 This is like the chain mecca. 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.400 So it's like, let's get some dessert there, and we 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:57.280 were going to take it to go. 0:04:58.040 --> 0:04:59.600 Where were you going to go? What was the plan? 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:02.159 We're just going to go to the park and just 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:02.960 hang out more. 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:04.920 At night. 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.400 Yeah, romantic, but I mean. 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:10.400 I was floored by the prices actually at cheesecake factory. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:15.839 Be honest, restaurants just right now are so expensive, you know, 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.040 the prices have gone up so much. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.000 And so we were just like it's got one and 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:21.680 we split it. 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:22.200 Okay. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:25.200 So we went to the park and we ate the cheesecake, 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:29.360 have more good conversation, and then then it was like, okay, 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:30.360 let's split up. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:33.279 Oh okay, So she didn't invite you back to her place. 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:34.080 She did not. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:37.800 I would flying back the next night, and so in 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.200 my mind it was like, let's go to bed and 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.279 we can wake up early and you know, spend the 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:44.320 next day with each other. 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.960 May would you like brunch or something like? 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:47.360 Before you leave a lot of time with someone you 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:48.160 don't know though. 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:49.919 But also that's a good thing because you go to 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:51.960 the hotel in the morning, you text her say hi, 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:53.679 good morning, would you like to do something? 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.800 And if she says no, then then you know. 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:56.120 It's a no. 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:58.640 There's freakentel, no breakfast, so the lobby. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:01.360 Up the waffle bar. 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.200 I mean, it's no chain restaurant, but it'll do. So 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:07.680 what happened the next day. 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:08.760 Well, so I did that. 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:11.080 I texted her like let's hang out and she didn't 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:13.200 say no, but she was just like, sorry, I have 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.840 this my grandma has this thing, and I can't hang 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:16.360 out today. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:17.839 I kind of. 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:21.440 Sound maybe not, Maybe it was just a miscommunication, Like 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:25.200 how good were you at being direct when you're coming 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.159 in like, hey, I want to see you both days. 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:29.880 I wasn't really because I didn't want to put any 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.600 pressure on her. But I was super disappointed though, because 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.320 we had hit it off and like I flew up. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.720 There, yes and now and now she's not calling you back. 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:43.159 I was texted a few times, but like it feels 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:46.080 like a little different maybe, And so I can't figure 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:46.280 it out. 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.000 I have no idea what's going on. 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.839 I mean, if Alison really wants to go to her 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:53.520 grandma's funeral over like spending more time with you, I 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.640 think that's a big red flag for her. 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:59.279 So it was an activity with her alive grandma, is 0:06:59.279 --> 0:06:59.960 how I read it. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.120 She should have been more clear, should have been more 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.279 clear about that, And we're gonna hold her feet to 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:08.080 the fire when we come back, call her and get you. 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:11.600 Let's just see what she has to say when we 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:13.400 do your second date update right after. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.000 This second date update. 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.560 It is not a good sign when you fly out 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:22.120 of town for a first date and the person decides 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:24.320 to hang out with their grandma over here. 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:27.239 Sign. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.680 Well, that's what kind of happened to our listener, Corey. 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:32.000 He traveled by plane to meet up with a woman 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:35.160 named Alison. They had dinner and cheesecake one night, but 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.400 the next day she told them, Oh, sorry, I actually 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:41.880 can't see you again. I'm chilling with my Graham Graham today. 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.720 So naturally, Corey's wondering, is this because I did something 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:49.200 wrong on her date? Or is her Grandma really just 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:52.760 that cool? Brook, Please reassure Corey and tell him. 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:53.640 He's cooler than a granny. 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:53.800 Here. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.960 Yeah, I'm sure that's what it is. My Grandma's always 0:07:56.960 --> 0:08:00.280 gonna come first. Grandma will come first. But Grandma's didn't 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:01.000 take all day. 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:04.920 Yeah, like there should even Corey if it was like, hey, 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:05.920 can I just meet you. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:09.160 For coffee before I fly out? Did you can I 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.960 bring my grandma on our coffee? Did you ask that? 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:14.480 I mean, I guess, I guess I should have offered that. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:15.600 I really I didn't think of that. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:17.800 Okay, Yeah, I mean maybe that's all it is. 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.120 I'm still holding out hope that this is gonna work out. Okay, 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:22.960 so I really appreciate you all doing. 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:23.160 This for me. 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.520 Well, I also thinking maybe it's sunk in too that 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:27.000 you had to get on a flight like this. 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:28.400 Long distancing may not work. 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:31.480 It's hard for long term relationships to be long distance, 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.040 let alone starting a brand new one longest. 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:37.080 I've never heard that. I've heard long distance is easy. 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:39.600 Let's hope that Alison agrees. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.400 I'm going to call her right now. Hopefully she has 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:52.880 some answers. But here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Allison? 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:56.400 Yes? Who is this? 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:59.960 Hey, you don't have to be afraid. We're a radio show. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:01.520 We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.000 Don't ever start with you don't have to be. 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:04.839 That. 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:07.120 Don't be scared of us. 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:10.800 We're a really friendly group of male and female hosts 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:11.360 on the radio. 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.040 Why do I not want to be lumped in with you? 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:17.240 Space here? Alison? Hello, are you still there? 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:19.200 Yeah? 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.840 Hi, okay, sorry for phrasing it that way, but uh, 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.600 you're on the radio right now, and we're doing a 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.480 segment it's called a second Date Update. We're trying to 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:29.480 get some help for one of our listeners that you 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.840 went out with recently, a guy named Corey. 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:39.280 Oh my gosh, yeah. 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:39.080 I was quick. You know who exactly Corey is? 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:44.080 Yeah, I mean talk about someone who has no self awareness? Yeah, 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:46.119 I know, Corey no self awareness. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:49.080 Oh that would explain why he has no clue why 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:50.040 you're not calling him back. 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:53.400 Yeah, Like, clearly he's not aware of what he did wrong. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:56.160 Because we heard the story from him about your hangout. 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.560 We didn't pick up any red flags based on what 0:09:58.640 --> 0:09:59.400 we heard from him. 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:01.280 That's laughable. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:05.959 Oh my, will help enlighten us because we're just trying 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:08.079 to help Corey figure out what he did wrong. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.400 I mean, I don't know, he needs like a chivalry 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:17.000 class or like social basics, like interactions one on one. 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.679 But he was so rude, Like wow, what he was 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:21.680 rude to you? 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:25.720 Yeah, like our first conversation, I sit down and he 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.560 notices my nose ring and he's like, oh, how long 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:30.960 have you had that? And I said a couple of years. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.680 I was like why and he says, oh, because I'm 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:38.000 trying to understand how many daddy issues you have? 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:45.520 Whoa gosh from a nose piercing exact no associates daddy 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:46.760 issues and nose pills. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:51.480 Yeah, yeah, clearly, clearly Coy does. 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:53.680 Was he trying to make a joke and it just 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.599 didn't land right? Like, maybe that's no. 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:59.440 I mean, if that had been the only thing, fine, 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.600 But I was like, Okay, maybe he's nervous. Maybe he's 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:05.319 like we just don't get each other's humor. But then 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.000 we're like playing this game where we're like picking out 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:11.599 the jobs for people around us, and it's like, fine. 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:15.360 Yeah, we heard about that everyone was uber drivers, right right? 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:19.120 Yeah, I mean that came after what he said my 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:21.319 job was. So I was just kind of in shock. 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:23.800 Wait, wait he picked out a job for you. 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.160 He picked out a job for me, and he goes, 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:28.560 I have a job for you, and I was like, 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:33.400 oh okay, and he's like it would be groupie what groupy. 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:35.960 Like you'd be some desperate woman following a band around as. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.160 A job exactly. And I was like a good joke. 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.319 Really yeah, maybe he meant it in like you seem 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:44.920 like a fun type of girl. 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:46.920 I don't think a group is ever a good thing. 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:53.800 It's a good thing for the band usually people. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.120 It was so weird. Woy would you tell someone that? 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.760 And I told him that's offensive and he's like, oh, 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.760 just based on your nose ring, you know, based on 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:05.040 how you're dressed. 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:07.240 Based yes. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.640 I was like, okay, I'm done. But we left the 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.839 restaurant and then I was already over it. And then 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.880 he was like, oh, this cheesecake. Let's go to cheesecake factory, 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:21.520 which he suggested, and I was like, okay, yeah, that's fine, whatever, 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.120 let's see how this goes. And he asked what the 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.600 price is and looks at me and he goes, oh, 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:28.520 so are you going to get. 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:29.120 Your card out? 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:33.080 What he asked you to get your card out to pay. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:37.320 Yeah, And I'm like, what you asked me on a date? 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:41.000 You suggested cheesecake. If this was breaking your bank, why 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:42.280 did you say come in here? 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:42.960 Yeah? 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:45.679 Well you are the host because he's the one flying 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.160 in town. So a lot of times the host is 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:50.120 supposed to pay for stuff like meals. 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.880 But I don't know, it seems like a little. 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.040 Bit of a stress that is more than a little 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:54.760 bit of a stretch. 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.920 Jeff, again, what she said. He suggested going to cheesecake. 0:12:58.040 --> 0:12:59.400 He's the one that asked her out. 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:01.080 He paid, Yeah. 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:04.880 Then he we got like one piece and we split it, 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.439 which he ate mostly. And I'm like, this. 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:08.320 Is so weird. 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:13.400 That's your red flag worse than the offensive comments. 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:15.520 He's probably a guy that wouldn't share. 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:21.199 His fries, right, So, no doubt there's some questionable stuff 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:24.040 being said by him, But there's always two sides to 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:27.040 every story. We should at least at a minimum, hear 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.080 what Corey has to say about it, because he is 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:32.040 on the other line right now waiting to talk to you. 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:35.920 No way, actually he is, and I'm sure he just 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:37.120 wants to apologize. 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.839 Alison. I just feel like I feel like you just 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:40.959 left out all the good parts. 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.000 Oh good parts, Well. 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:45.680 You left at all the good parts, and you just 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.360 said all the stuff that you have problems with. I 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.040 didn't even know you had problems with because you didn't 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:49.800 say anything about it. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:53.000 She told you was offensive. Is Alison even still there? Yeah? 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.320 What do you mean you didn't know I had a problem? 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.280 I said, that's offensive. When is calling anyone a groupy 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.960 a positive interact? 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:00.120 She? 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:02.480 I mean, it was kind of like a joke, but 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:08.640 also it's just kind of like your vibe, right, like 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:10.319 like a fun but like a fun vibe. 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:13.719 You know you like me, but I'm the groupie. 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:19.200 I didn't mean any disrespect, like that movie almost famous, 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.840 like the Penny Lane, Like she's like her. 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.240 It was a really bad cycle that she was in 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.960 if you watch the whole movie. But it sounds like 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:28.640 you're really. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:32.200 Defensive and you didn't expect that she was offended. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:34.120 No, No, I wasn't expecting that. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.240 So I think, maybe just take a deep breath and 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:39.920 use this opportunity to apologize and own. 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.040 Some of that. I apologize. I don't know what she's 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:42.600 mad about. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.360 You told her she had daddy issues. Corey, You've got 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:46.400 to apologize. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:48.960 Maybe I didn't say no, I didn't say she had 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:52.200 daddy issues, all right. It's just like my personal experience 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:55.240 is that usually girls with those rings usually have some 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.000 kind of daddy issues. And it's not even I'm not 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:58.000 even saying like it's bad. 0:14:58.040 --> 0:14:59.000 It's like it's just a thing. 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.680 What wo, you had a lot of issues? 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:04.440 What are you okay? 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.440 Issues aside, it is interesting that you didn't tell us 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:11.080 Corey that you asked Alison to pay for the cheesecake. 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.040 I'm supposed to pay for everything. 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.600 Well, why just because you were the one who suggested 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:19.760 getting the cheesecake. Alison, tell Corey how you felt during 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.760 that moment when he asked you to pay for the dessert. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:29.160 I was like, Wow, this guy is a loser. 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.160 Whatever, I'm a loser. But what you want me to 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.040 just take care of you like I'm your daddy. Sound 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:35.120 like you've got daddy issues. 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.640 I want you to never take care of me. I 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:43.280 want you to never talk to me. That's why you 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:44.120 didn't hear from me. 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:44.800 Thank you. 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:46.600 I wish you just told me that in the first place, 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:47.880 instead of stringing me along. 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.040 I didn't string you along. I made up a lie 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:51.920 about my grandma. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:53.240 I didn't string you along. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:57.360 Oh wait, you lied there. There was no hangout with 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:58.600 your grandma on the next day. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.480 I was trying to be but like I didn't know 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:04.280 he was going to call a radio station and air 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:05.120 out that he was. 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.760 I thought that we had daddy issues, but apparently it's 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:12.000 granny issues that we've got going on. So before we 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.800 let you go do that, we have to we offer 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:17.480 you a chance to meet up one more time, and 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.520 we will pay for the second date for at least 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:19.920 the dinner. 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:20.800 Absolutely not. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:24.680 Didn't even let you finish your sentence. 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.440 Wow, so rude. 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.080 We're being sarcastic, Allison. Sorry, had to go through that. 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:33.840 What about me? I just can like drag through the mud. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.160 Yeah, I know you feel that way, buddy. 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:40.480 That was That was your own dragging though the buddy comment. 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:42.800 Looking down on your. 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.080 So Corey, it's not going to be another date with Allison. 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.240 It's a no from her obviously. 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:53.520 Fine, but good news. You're back on to the dating apps. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:57.680 Just where you want to be great, catch more awesome. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:02.400 Don't have to match with those girls. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:03.360 Jeff in the morning. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:06.840 I know we're arguing a lot about groupies there for 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:09.160 a second, but it is interesting that none of us 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.600 said groupie isn't technically a profession. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.479 I know that's because we've watched too many reality shows 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:16.880 people say. 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:18.280