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Speaker 1: Its breaking Jeffrey in the morning, and you found the

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Speaker 1: Second Date podcast, and today we've got a.

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Speaker 2: Brand new one with a lot on the line.

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Speaker 1: I would say, since the guy actually flew out for

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Speaker 1: an entire weekend for a first date, that's a commitment.

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Speaker 2: Okay, big moves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and obviously it didn't go well because he's on

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Speaker 1: the phone with us, so we're going to get the

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Speaker 1: details on that in a second.

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Speaker 2: But first, we love reviewing and seeing and loving on

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Speaker 2: your comments. Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, m E said, that was a fantastic episode. I

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Speaker 3: can understand why you've won so many awards for excellence

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Speaker 3: in radio broadcasting, which, for it is a lot like

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Speaker 3: being the Tannis scientist in Antarctica or the smartest person

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Speaker 3: to ever have to repeat your senior year of high school.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congrats, we did, right.

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Speaker 1: I always say, what do they call a doctor that

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Speaker 1: graduated last in his class?

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Speaker 2: That's right, Josey. All right, we're gonna get your brand

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Speaker 2: new Second Date started right now.

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Speaker 4: Second Date update.

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Speaker 5: I've heard you can always trust people who have a

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Speaker 5: five letter first name. Tyler Mason Vince the slap Chop

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Speaker 5: guy before he got arrested. I really trust him. You

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Speaker 5: just feel safe talking to somebody with five letters in

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Speaker 5: their first name.

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Speaker 2: It's Vincelapchop.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you could always trust him.

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Speaker 5: That's why I get a really cozy feeling knowing our

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Speaker 5: listener on the phone right now has a five letter

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Speaker 5: first name, a guy named Corey C O R E Y.

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Speaker 4: Corey.

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Speaker 5: Your name alone means you have a lot to live

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Speaker 5: up to here. But welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 4: How you doing, Thanks?

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 5: Does the girl that you met have a five letter

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Speaker 6: No? No, sadly, I did know that.

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Speaker 1: Jeff was like so into this five letter thing. Nobody

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's how you know we're all pieces of garbage.

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Speaker 2: Alexis has the same amount of letters as I.

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Speaker 5: Do, almost Jeffy Jeffy has five letters in it. So

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Speaker 5: I'm trust worth. Then you can trust me with your story, Corey.

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Speaker 4: Go ahead. What's the name of this girl that you met?

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Speaker 7: Her name is Alfon Alison.

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Speaker 4: Let's call her Ali A L L I E so

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Speaker 4: that I can approve that way. Well we do today,

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Speaker 4: So tell us about Alison. Where did you meet her?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 7: I met her on a dating app and I haven't

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Speaker 7: had the best of luck.

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Speaker 6: Like, I've been on the dating apps.

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Speaker 7: For a long time and it's just it's been a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we hear that a lot about the apps. I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, But Alice and I we like really hit it off.

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Speaker 7: And the only problem is she doesn't live in my town.

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Speaker 7: She was like a couple hours away by driving, you

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Speaker 2: A couple of hours is a commitment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's something you're willing to do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it would have to be worth it, and I

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Speaker 7: So we were like, how how do we do this?

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Speaker 7: And I had a pre weekend. I'm like, I'm free

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Speaker 2: Whoa?

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Speaker 4: Oh fly?

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Speaker 1: I like how You're like, I'm not driving a couple

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Speaker 2: I know, but it takes the same amount of time

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Speaker 7: I didn't have expectations. I was like, you know, I

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Speaker 5: Because you can't like cancel day of Also, your name

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Speaker 7: So we're like, let's just go to a restaurant, and

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Speaker 7: We were playing this game where it was like, let's

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Speaker 6: Guess what jobs that they would have. She was so funny.

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Speaker 6: She kept saying like uber driver, like she ran out

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Speaker 2: Was there more than just a restaurant, I would assume,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So we were like, you know, dinner was over

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Speaker 7: We're just going to go to the park and just

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Speaker 7: So we went to the park and we ate the cheesecake,

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, So she didn't invite you back to her place.

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Speaker 6: She did not.

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Speaker 7: I would flying back the next night, and so in

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Speaker 4: May would you like brunch or something like?

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Speaker 2: Before you leave a lot of time with someone you

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Speaker 5: But also that's a good thing because you go to

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Speaker 4: And if she says no, then then you know.

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Speaker 2: There's freakentel, no breakfast, so the lobby.

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Speaker 6: Well, so I did that.

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Speaker 7: I texted her like let's hang out and she didn't

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Speaker 7: I wasn't really because I didn't want to put any

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Speaker 4: There, yes and now and now she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 7: I was texted a few times, but like it feels

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Speaker 6: I have no idea what's going on.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if Alison really wants to go to her

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Speaker 1: So it was an activity with her alive grandma, is

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Speaker 5: She should have been more clear, should have been more

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Speaker 4: This second date update.

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Speaker 5: It is not a good sign when you fly out

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what kind of happened to our listener, Corey.

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Speaker 5: He traveled by plane to meet up with a woman

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Speaker 5: So naturally, Corey's wondering, is this because I did something

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Speaker 5: that cool? Brook, Please reassure Corey and tell him.

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Speaker 4: He's cooler than a granny.

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Speaker 6: Here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure that's what it is. My Grandma's always

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like there should even Corey if it was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: For coffee before I fly out? Did you can I

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, I guess I should have offered that.

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Speaker 7: I really I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 7: I'm still holding out hope that this is gonna work out. Okay,

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Speaker 7: so I really appreciate you all doing.

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Speaker 6: This for me.

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Speaker 5: Well, I also thinking maybe it's sunk in too that

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Speaker 5: you had to get on a flight like this.

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Speaker 4: Long distancing may not work.

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Speaker 1: It's hard for long term relationships to be long distance,

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Speaker 1: let alone starting a brand new one longest.

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Speaker 5: I've never heard that. I've heard long distance is easy.

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Speaker 5: Let's hope that Alison agrees.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to call her right now. Hopefully she has

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Speaker 4: some answers. But here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Allison?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Who is this?

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Speaker 5: Hey, you don't have to be afraid. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 5: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Don't ever start with you don't have to be.

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Speaker 5: That.

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Speaker 4: Don't be scared of us.

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Speaker 5: We're a really friendly group of male and female hosts

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Speaker 2: Why do I not want to be lumped in with you?

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Speaker 4: Space here? Alison? Hello, are you still there?

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Speaker 5: you're on the radio right now, and we're doing a

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Speaker 5: segment it's called a second Date Update. We're trying to

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Speaker 5: get some help for one of our listeners that you

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Speaker 5: went out with recently, a guy named Corey.

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Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was quick. You know who exactly Corey is?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean talk about someone who has no self awareness? Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I know, Corey no self awareness.

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Speaker 1: Oh that would explain why he has no clue why

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, clearly he's not aware of what he did wrong.

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Speaker 5: Because we heard the story from him about your hangout.

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Speaker 5: We didn't pick up any red flags based on what

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Speaker 8: That's laughable.

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Speaker 5: Oh my, will help enlighten us because we're just trying

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Speaker 5: to help Corey figure out what he did wrong.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I don't know, he needs like a chivalry

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Speaker 4: But he was so rude, Like wow, what he was

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like our first conversation, I sit down and he

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Speaker 8: notices my nose ring and he's like, oh, how long

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Speaker 8: have you had that? And I said a couple of years.

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Speaker 8: I was like why and he says, oh, because I'm

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Speaker 8: trying to understand how many daddy issues you have?

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Speaker 1: Whoa gosh from a nose piercing exact no associates daddy

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, clearly, clearly Coy does.

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Speaker 1: Was he trying to make a joke and it just

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Speaker 8: I mean, if that had been the only thing, fine,

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Speaker 8: But I was like, Okay, maybe he's nervous. Maybe he's

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Speaker 8: like we just don't get each other's humor. But then

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Speaker 8: we're like playing this game where we're like picking out

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Speaker 8: the jobs for people around us, and it's like, fine.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we heard about that everyone was uber drivers, right right?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that came after what he said my

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait he picked out a job for you.

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Speaker 8: He picked out a job for me, and he goes,

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Speaker 8: I have a job for you, and I was like,

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Speaker 8: oh okay, and he's like it would be groupie what groupy.

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Speaker 2: Like you'd be some desperate woman following a band around as.

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Speaker 8: A job exactly. And I was like a good joke.

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Speaker 5: Really yeah, maybe he meant it in like you seem

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Speaker 2: I don't think a group is ever a good thing.

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Speaker 5: It's a good thing for the band usually people.

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Speaker 8: It was so weird. Woy would you tell someone that?

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Speaker 8: And I told him that's offensive and he's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: Based yes.

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Speaker 8: I was like, okay, I'm done. But we left the

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Speaker 8: he was like, oh, this cheesecake. Let's go to cheesecake factory,

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Speaker 8: which he suggested, and I was like, okay, yeah, that's fine, whatever,

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Speaker 8: let's see how this goes. And he asked what the

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Speaker 8: so are you going to get.

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Speaker 7: Your card out?

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Speaker 4: What he asked you to get your card out to pay.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, And I'm like, what you asked me on a date?

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Speaker 8: You suggested cheesecake. If this was breaking your bank, why

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Speaker 8: did you say come in here?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well you are the host because he's the one flying

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Speaker 4: But I don't know, it seems like a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit of a stress that is more than a little

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Speaker 2: Jeff, again, what she said. He suggested going to cheesecake.

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Speaker 2: He's the one that asked her out.

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Speaker 5: He paid, Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Then he we got like one piece and we split it,

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Speaker 8: which he ate mostly. And I'm like, this.

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Speaker 2: Is so weird.

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Speaker 1: That's your red flag worse than the offensive comments.

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Speaker 2: He's probably a guy that wouldn't share.

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Speaker 5: His fries, right, So, no doubt there's some questionable stuff

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Speaker 5: being said by him, But there's always two sides to

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Speaker 5: every story. We should at least at a minimum, hear

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Speaker 5: what Corey has to say about it, because he is

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Speaker 5: on the other line right now waiting to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: No way, actually he is, and I'm sure he just

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Speaker 6: Alison. I just feel like I feel like you just

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Speaker 6: left out all the good parts.

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Speaker 4: Oh good parts, Well.

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Speaker 7: You left at all the good parts, and you just

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Speaker 7: said all the stuff that you have problems with. I

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Speaker 2: She told you was offensive. Is Alison even still there? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: What do you mean you didn't know I had a problem?

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Speaker 8: I said, that's offensive. When is calling anyone a groupy

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Speaker 6: She?

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Speaker 7: I mean, it was kind of like a joke, but

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Speaker 7: also it's just kind of like your vibe, right, like

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Speaker 6: You know you like me, but I'm the groupie.

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Speaker 7: I didn't mean any disrespect, like that movie almost famous,

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Speaker 2: It was a really bad cycle that she was in

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Speaker 2: if you watch the whole movie. But it sounds like

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Speaker 2: you're really.

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Speaker 1: Defensive and you didn't expect that she was offended.

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Speaker 7: No, No, I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 1: So I think, maybe just take a deep breath and

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Speaker 6: Some of that. I apologize. I don't know what she's

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Speaker 2: You told her she had daddy issues. Corey, You've got

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Speaker 7: Maybe I didn't say no, I didn't say she had

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Speaker 7: daddy issues, all right. It's just like my personal experience

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Speaker 7: is that usually girls with those rings usually have some

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Speaker 6: It's like it's just a thing.

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Speaker 8: What wo, you had a lot of issues?

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Speaker 6: What are you okay?

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Speaker 5: Issues aside, it is interesting that you didn't tell us

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Speaker 5: Corey that you asked Alison to pay for the cheesecake.

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Speaker 6: I'm supposed to pay for everything.

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Speaker 5: Well, why just because you were the one who suggested

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Speaker 5: getting the cheesecake. Alison, tell Corey how you felt during

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Speaker 8: I was like, Wow, this guy is a loser.

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Speaker 6: Whatever, I'm a loser. But what you want me to

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Speaker 8: I want you to never take care of me. I

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Speaker 8: want you to never talk to me. That's why you

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: I wish you just told me that in the first place,

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Speaker 8: I didn't string you along. I made up a lie

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Speaker 8: about my grandma.

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Speaker 6: I didn't string you along.

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, you lied there. There was no hangout with

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Speaker 8: I was trying to be but like I didn't know

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Speaker 5: I thought that we had daddy issues, but apparently it's

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Speaker 5: granny issues that we've got going on. So before we

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Speaker 5: we will pay for the second date for at least

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Speaker 8: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Didn't even let you finish your sentence.

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Speaker 4: Wow, so rude.

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Speaker 2: We're being sarcastic, Allison. Sorry, had to go through that.

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Speaker 6: What about me? I just can like drag through the mud.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you feel that way, buddy.

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Speaker 1: That was That was your own dragging though the buddy comment.

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Speaker 4: Looking down on your.

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Speaker 5: So Corey, it's not going to be another date with Allison.

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Speaker 5: It's a no from her obviously.

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Speaker 4: Fine, but good news. You're back on to the dating apps.

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Speaker 7: Just where you want to be great, catch more awesome.

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Speaker 3: Don't have to match with those girls.

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Speaker 4: Jeff in the morning.

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Speaker 5: I know we're arguing a lot about groupies there for

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Speaker 1: I know that's because we've watched too many reality shows

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Speaker 2: Anything as a profession anymore.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if I were her, I would have said,

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't be offended. It's just inaccurate.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it would have been a lot of I mean,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're kind of missing the point of

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Speaker 2: But sure, Jeff, Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 4: But there was no good match happening between the two

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Speaker 5: It's just too bad Corey had to fly out in

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Speaker 4: He takes it as a.

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Speaker 5: Learning experience for what not to do and what not

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Speaker 5: to say and what body piercings. Not to draw dumb

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because he sounds like a guy who's really

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So if you if you need help with your dating life,

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Speaker 5: you can always email the show. We'll call that person

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Speaker 5: who's not calling you back and go check out all

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Speaker 5: of our second dates. Wherever you get your podcasts, they're

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Speaker 5: up at Brook and Jeffrey