1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: My husband is acting like a child, but I gave 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: him a bedtime put him to sleep. I'm twenty three 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: female and my husband is twenty five male. But the 4 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 1: last year and a half we have been living in 5 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: my parents and it's been a living nightmare, and he 6 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: won't do anything to help me. Somehow I got stuck 7 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: leaning up after five grown adults and four cats. We 8 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: got married in April. Right before the wedding, I found 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: out I was pregnant. Got one in the oven. That 10 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: was very sincere. Wow, very shocked. Congratulations, by the way, 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: congratulate dry replacement forty nine to fifty five because they 12 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: wrote the story and put it on our slaves. 13 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 2: Okay, storytime replacement? 14 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: What is that? 15 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 2: Who knows? 16 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 3: Get a gloss over that? 17 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: And I know that's dry replacement. I hear that. 18 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: From the start of our marriage something was wrong. I 19 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: knew married life was hard, but our husband's really supposed 20 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: to do absolutely nothing but going to work, and this 21 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: is the first job he's actually kept longer than six months. Well, 22 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: I stopped working when we found out I was pregnant. 23 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: With all the nausea and things I was going through, 24 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: it was just too much and we agreed that since 25 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: he was making a decent amount of money, I would 26 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: be a stay at home mom. Well, right after we 27 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: got married, everything steamed ball a part He wasn't interested 28 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: in anything, stopped taking the trash out of his gaming room, 29 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: doctor wanting to spend time with me. 30 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 2: And held spicy sleep. 31 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: He was just a jerk, very rude, and would constantly 32 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: make fun of me and tell me my deodorant makes 33 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 1: me smell like an old man. 34 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 3: Dang, Yeah, that's what I want a partner. Yeah, that's 35 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: the kind of partner I want. 36 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: You know, when we had j Anthony and I started 37 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: to clowny for dear toyodoran. 38 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 3: No, that was a tough spot for us. But you 39 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 3: know what I told you how I felt. Yes, and 40 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: I said, I don'tlike when you say I smell like gramps, 41 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 3: that's right. 42 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: And I didn't listen and I kept going and j 43 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: Anthony will never talk to me ever again. 44 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 3: I secretly filed for a divorce. 45 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you were right. You know you were right 46 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: to do that. 47 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: I have a sweating disorder and it's the only thing 48 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: that works for me. 49 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: She's probably so so self contest. 50 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: Come on, even with perfume on perfume andiodorant, making just 51 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: hateful comments similar to this one, commenting about my belly 52 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: and how I don't look like a normal pregnant woman. Dude, 53 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: bro is dude talking about your pregnant wife like that. 54 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't look so great with our child in 55 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 3: your stomach, right, you know it's not really a good 56 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: look for you. 57 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: I have a b belly because I was plus sized 58 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: before I got pregnant. I don't know what that means, 59 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: but comments please do get me. I am five to 60 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: two two hundred pounds. Comments about my weight gain even 61 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: though I've lost twenty five pounds since I became pregnant. 62 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: He just makes me feel horrible about myself. And I 63 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: even go buy a new dress to try and get 64 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: his attention and said, hey, do you like my dresses, 65 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: pointing out the obvious and he just said. 66 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: Eh, or I don't really like that color on you. 67 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: I always feel like there's other women and he hates 68 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: me looking at his phone, but the two times I 69 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: did snoop, I found nothing, but after the last time 70 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: he put a password on it. At this point, all 71 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: my boundaries he seen. He doesn't care and. 72 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 2: Just completely ignores. 73 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 4: Why is everyone checking through phones? 74 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 3: What's the deal? 75 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: It is checked the phone season right now? Whatever this 76 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: season is, people are taking into check the poll in 77 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: the chat. Is it ever okay to check somebody's phone 78 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: without asking them? 79 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: Is there a reason? 80 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: Is there ever a reason be done? Please let us 81 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 3: know an unwarranted phone check. 82 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: Acquiring minds want to know. 83 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: Well, now, I'm eight months pregnant and for the past 84 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: few weeks I've been getting no sleep because he wants 85 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: to be up until two am playing his video games 86 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: and then have me wake him up at six am 87 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: for work. Hey, there's this, there's this crazy invention. It's 88 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: called an alarm. 89 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 3: It's good, it's crazy. 90 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: It's mine vending technology. 91 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 3: You say something like that in front of Anthony. 92 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: About time. 93 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 94 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: I used to be a gamer and started off on 95 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: a PC when I was about six or seven with 96 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: the World of Warncraft and Your Escape, and at seventeen 97 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: changed the PlayStation until about a few months ago. 98 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: So I get it. 99 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: Not Maddy's gaming, even though that's all he does anymore, 100 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: and he does not like to spend time with me, 101 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: like from the time he comes home until he goes 102 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: to bed all days on the weekend. We don't even 103 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: eat dinner together anymore. Bro just walks in the door. 104 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: Game game game, game, game game. 105 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: You know those videos where people take like the gaming 106 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: system and like run over it with a lawnmower or whatever. 107 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 3: Might I suggest a quick lawnmower remed me. 108 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: Throw a little old pools in the pool. 109 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 3: That'll really spice things, dude. 110 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: Honestly, the videos with like the kids like. 111 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 3: It's like the thirty five year old like hermit guy who's. 112 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 5: Like seventy six percent of people say no, you can 113 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 5: seventy unwarranted look at. 114 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 4: The phone on war. 115 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: I mean thirty that's not twenty twenty four say it's 116 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: a big ongoing topic of on the show. 117 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 3: Expose exp yourself. Hey, thanks moo. 118 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: Don't say your reasons why in the comments. 119 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's playing it. I can imagine one might think 120 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 3: that if you were to be one of those twenty 121 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: four percent, you would think anyway, just. 122 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 2: Plead your case. We want to see a Quirwinds won't know. 123 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 6: Well. 124 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: I finally got tired of it. I tried going to 125 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: bed at nine thirty, and he came up at one 126 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 1: point thirty, throwing his stuff around, being all mad and 127 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: being loud. Dude, if you're a grown man with your 128 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: pregnant wife trying to sleep and you're throwing your game controller. 129 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 3: I can't believe I just lostow game. Oh can't believe 130 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 3: I just lostoaw game. 131 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: I gave I give birth to my freaking, my freaking 132 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: Fortnite skins. 133 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 2: Bro, I can't lose them. Yeah, ok, Fortnight skins. 134 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: When I told him I would be sleeping to keep 135 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: it down, and he woke me up, telling me he 136 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: was coming to bed and demanding I have alarm set 137 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: for him in the morning. You have thumbs, chose them, 138 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: you use them for games. 139 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 2: Use it. 140 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna play this crazy game. It's called setting it alarm. 141 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 3: You know, here's a crazy thing. You don't even have 142 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 3: to use your thumbs. Oh my god, show it up, Siri. Hey, 143 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: could you wait to see up instead of Hey? Why? 144 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: Hey? Siri said, you don't even have to bother her, 145 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: And you know what you win getting up on time, 146 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: Karen having a productive life. 147 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: Hey, you know who's not pregnant? Oh, Siri. 148 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 2: Got him. 149 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: So I started staying up more and more and it's 150 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: messing with my health and I'm having more pain in 151 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 1: my hips and back and find myself struggling the day 152 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: on four hours of sleep. She's carrying a whole child 153 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: in her and he will not do anything. And once 154 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: my body gets on a schedule, I can't change it. 155 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: My body won't allow me to sleep during the day. 156 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 1: I can lay in bed as long as I want, 157 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen. Well, last night he comes in 158 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: doing the same thing, and I had fallen asleep. He 159 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: woke me up four times last night demanding him. I 160 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: get him food, water, sleeping men. 161 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:56,239 Speaker 2: Who is this man? My damn? 162 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 7: Destroy him? What actually imagine waking? I'm right, live, right 163 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 7: waking somebody up, no matter who they are, to say, 164 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 7: give me some food? 165 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 2: Who are you some water? Give me some food? Were like, 166 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: let alone your wife. I have a call to action. 167 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: If you are an incredibly good gamer, or if you're 168 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: a internet sleuth, internet sloth, find this person, incredibly good gamer, 169 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: find Op's husband and play him every single time and 170 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: just destroy him. Then find a way to hack into 171 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: his computer. Here we go and take it all away, 172 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: take it all the way. The lead hisscounts, lead his 173 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: account somehow, belead him anyway. 174 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: You know what I wish they could delete their marriage. 175 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 2: Let's se if I ty. 176 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 3: Can somehow smoothly get out of. 177 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: It, we'll see about that. 178 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: So the last and then the final time saying that 179 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: we're going to live with my parents so I can 180 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: find a job as soon as our son's born. But 181 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: I can understand how he feels. He woke her up 182 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: to tell her I'm not going to work anymore. We're 183 00:07:58,520 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: gonna live at. 184 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: Your parents house, so you can see how it feels. 185 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 3: To have everything like paid for and like provided for you. 186 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: And we're gonna see how you like that. 187 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, dude. Frand Wade says, throw them. 188 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: Away, throwha away. I like that. 189 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: So Sophia Collen says, your your mom gave you legs. 190 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: Use him, use him, and walk out the door. 191 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 3: Why isn't the dishwasher making preach? 192 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: So even though the first two years of our relationship, 193 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: I was the provider, he could not keep a job 194 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: and I was paying his. 195 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: Child support, which they're not together. 196 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: Does he have another kid? Yeah, this is a little confusing. 197 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: Maybe we'll get a little more context. And that completely 198 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: goes against our agreement. I don't mind to work, but 199 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: if I do, my insurance goes away, free diapers and 200 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: formula will go away, and my entire paycheck will be 201 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: going to daycare and the rest probably to pay his 202 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 1: child support. 203 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 2: Again, what just happened? 204 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 3: So he must have another. 205 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if a flash forwarding he I 206 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: think op is saying, like, okay, so she was, she 207 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 1: was like the breadwinner and provider for the first two 208 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: years of the relationship. He could remember earlier, she said, 209 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: he could. He's never had a job longer than six 210 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: months before. Maybe when she's saying his child support like 211 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: his share of yo. 212 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 4: We have evidence of what he is spending his money on. 213 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: D tell please, oh my god, new information you you 214 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: went to the reddit there? 215 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, there's soda. Is this the end? 216 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: We're not at the end yet, We're to the end, okay? 217 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 1: And then Sophia Collen said he's a dad already. He 218 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: has another kid. Of course he does. Sofia, is that 219 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: from something early in the story that we missed. Please 220 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: let us know in the chat chat if that's what 221 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: the case is, because it seems like that. 222 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 3: But it's confusing. 223 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 2: By the way, what's it never confusing is we're live 224 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 2: every WEEKDA at three pm. 225 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:42,479 Speaker 3: Not confusing. 226 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 2: Simple at all, So taper profile and join us. 227 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: But I'm worried. I'm worried that he will not work 228 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: if I am working. So finally, this morning I sent 229 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: him a message telling him I agree to pick up 230 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: part time, but nothing more. From now on, I'm going 231 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: to bed and locking the door at a eleven PM 232 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: if he's not there, and he's just gonna have to 233 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: sleep on the couch for that night. 234 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: When you have to lock your partner out of your room, 235 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: someth's wrong. It's not really a bedtime. 236 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: It's a choice. If you want to stay up, that's fine, 237 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: but you're not gonna wake me up and demand me 238 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: around like I am a sleeve. Well, he called me 239 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: on his lunch break, cussed me out and said, oh, 240 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: look at what all he's done for me, and how 241 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: much my stuff belongs to him because he paid for it, 242 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 1: and talking about how I couldn't survive one day at 243 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: his work. I hung up on him and he said 244 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: he's not coming home tonight. 245 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 246 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: I feel really bad, but I'm tired of being walked on. 247 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for finally putting my foot down? 248 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,559 Speaker 1: We have some relevant comments and stuff I think Riley 249 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: has dug up. Yeah, yeah, this is like some good 250 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: stuff from OPI very good. No, not the a hole. 251 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: This is insanity. Who is this man? 252 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 3: Who raised? Who raised? 253 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: Who raised him? 254 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 3: Who raised this person? 255 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 1: Also notice right between the lines, he was like, well, 256 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: go live at your parents' house? 257 00:10:59,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: Why not his parents? 258 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: I think that's where they are no right now, because 259 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: his whole thing was we'll live at your parents' house 260 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: and see how that feels. I think it's because he's 261 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: been he's been the provider and breadwinner for like the 262 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: last few months or longer. 263 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 2: I think I think they're living. They're still on their own. 264 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 2: You could be right, they're twenty three and twenty five. 265 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 3: I think he was saying that because it's like, you 266 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 3: don't know what I'm You're correct. 267 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: For the last year and a half, we've been living 268 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 1: with my parents. It's been a living nightmare. Ah. 269 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 3: So he's like, imagine not living with your own family, right, 270 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 3: you know? And yeah, yeah, yeah, I deserve more. I 271 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: don't know. 272 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yea, But I mean, this guy's a piece of 273 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: stinking dookie. 274 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 3: Should work, heyshia work for sure. 275 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: Like my guy waking up his pregnant eight months pregnant 276 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: wife to get him water, to get anything like low key? 277 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: Is it not more energy to go to your wife? Yeah, 278 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: wake her up, wait for her to wait, then wait 279 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: for the food and then or wait for whatever it is. 280 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: But he was gonna sit there. 281 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 5: He's like, yeah, dude, wait, do you see his budgeting breakdown? 282 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 4: The way he budgets his stuff? 283 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 3: Dude, I can't wait to live it until we get 284 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 3: into it. 285 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 4: John's gonna love it, dude. I know John's gonna love 286 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 4: every single cent of it. 287 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 3: Here we go, so ope, He says, he's some relevant 288 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 3: I love fran Wait, boring character, rich in audacity. That's 289 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 3: a bar, dude, brand, that is a bar. 290 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: Fran Wade for the wind Rand Wade for so Opie 291 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: says he wasn't like this before I married him. I 292 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: didn't know about the job situation. I paid three hundred 293 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: and eighty five towards his child support, which is half, 294 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: because he would lie to me and tell me that 295 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: his work messed up his paycheck. I believed him once 296 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: and started paying rent and groceries, and he took care 297 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: of all of his bills. But to do that, he 298 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: only had to work three weeks to be able to 299 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,679 Speaker 1: afford it. I didn't known till after we got married 300 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: about him not keeping a job. But now I feel 301 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: like I have to stay because things he says like, well, 302 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: you get to tell our son why he doesn't have 303 00:12:54,440 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: a dad, and that I could never make it without Ah. Well, 304 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: we have the supplemental information from OP. Apparently it's the 305 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: deats here we go. 306 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 6: Okay. 307 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: I have asked him. 308 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: We have been here for a year and he hasn't 309 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: saved a dime in a year. I did some budget 310 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: this morning to figure out where all his money was going. 311 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: We were supposed to be out six months ago. He 312 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: moved out of the parents' house, and we have the 313 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: budget right here in front of us. So we have 314 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 1: flying J who know what that is? Forty two dollars 315 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: unidentified flying J What after that means forty two dollars 316 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: for that PlayStation, five hundred and fifty nine dollars and 317 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: eighty three cents. Insurance one hundred and forty two dollars, 318 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: forty nine cents, car payment one hundred and fifty eight 319 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: dollars and sixty eight cents. 320 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 3: I think we get we I think we under gas 321 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: phone bill, fast food, vape. 322 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh vape one hundred andy six other. 323 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 4: Gas four hundred. 324 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 5: That's four hundred, four hundred and five dollars see iuess 325 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 5: vishing car and your child support is five hundred and 326 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:03,319 Speaker 5: sixty eight. 327 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so we got a lot of stuff fast food. 328 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: It is bro buying a PlayStation every month? 329 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: Other is that part of his monthly budget to buy 330 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: a new PlayStation. 331 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 2: Guys, we have to spend let's see, wait wait wait 332 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 2: wait wait wait, we have. 333 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: To spend basically the same amount on child support as PlayStations. 334 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: That's very important part of the budget. 335 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 4: No, you have to make you have to spend more 336 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 4: on PlayStation than child support every month. 337 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: That's true. We need to change it. 338 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 3: And Flying Jay is a gas station, thank you chat 339 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: forty two. 340 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: Dollars at a gas station, probably buying like he probably 341 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: drives a fair amount for work. 342 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 3: It seems like four dollars in gas a month and 343 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 3: the gas station stuff. 344 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: He's definitely driving a lot, hopefully for work. But oh god, 345 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: so sorry for my horrible handwriting. He makes roughly fourteen 346 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: hundred to seventeen hundred every two weeks, and we are 347 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: in a small southern town, so that's quite a bit 348 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: to us. My parents will always have a home for me, 349 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: but not for him. I fear he is just using 350 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: me and them. He doesn't pay rent, and they pay 351 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: for all of our groceries, and he refuses is to 352 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: even mows a lawn. 353 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 2: Or weed eat we you know what weed eating is? 354 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 2: I don't. 355 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 4: You don't know what weed eating is? 356 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 2: Like pulling, pulling the weed? 357 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 4: Do you know what weed eating is? 358 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 3: Weed eating? 359 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: What? 360 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 5: Oh my, you little Californian boys don't know what weed 361 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 5: eating is? 362 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: Weed eating? 363 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 364 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: Weed weed eating? Heard of weeding? Okay? 365 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 5: We right, these guys have not done landscaping. Okay, soap 366 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 5: is you can just call it something different. No, okay, 367 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 5: here does you lo mo? And then whenever there's weeds around, 368 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 5: like the house or whatever that's hard, you can't get it. 369 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 5: The what you take, you get a weed eater, and 370 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 5: you get a and you and you get around it. 371 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 4: Weed eat whacker, no weed eating. 372 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 3: We just call it a weed whacker engine. It's got 373 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 3: a long pole and it's got the orange plastic thing 374 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 3: that spins around. It's a weed whacker. My brothers and 375 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 3: I had a landscaping business. 376 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 2: I'm with you on I'm with you on weed whacker. 377 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: You that's the East coast thing, and we call it 378 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 2: weed eating in the South. 379 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 3: I guess. 380 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: It's east Northeast. Yeah, Northeast. I'm just I'm just alone 381 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: in Florida. We're just weird. The heck weed eater gosh, 382 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: it ain't eating him, it's whacking. 383 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's more whacking. 384 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 4: Weed eaters get in there. 385 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 3: That's all like hungry hippo. 386 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: It's just whacking them, Henny, who oh my god. 387 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: But well, the final sentence of the story also, as 388 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: of when he got off work, the PlayStation is now 389 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: six hundred eighty four dollars, therefore becoming the most expensive expense. 390 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: On this body. 391 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: Sixty weed eating sixty seven. Wow, sixty nine I'm Florid. 392 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: Seventy giants milk Massachusetts. 393 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 394 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's the end of the story. Dump this man, 395 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: get out of there. 396 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 3: Get him out of if you're at your house, which 397 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 3: I think we figured out at their house, at her 398 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 3: leather parents house, just kick him out. 399 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: Take a weed eater, slash whacker, and you will get 400 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: to tell your kid this is why you don't have 401 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: this man as your father. 402 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 403 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 3: Hopefully you find somebody new, yes, and you fall in 404 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 3: love and have a great life and then you can 405 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 3: tell him, Yeah, we ditch that man because absolutely because 406 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 3: he sucks. 407 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: Donum jeez, yeah this guy. Wow, it is I mean, 408 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: this is this because like zero redeeming? Is there any 409 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: redeeming quality about this man? 410 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 2: Call of duty? 411 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: Though he comes up set, you don't really come in 412 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: up set if you're performing. 413 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 2: Well, that's true, that is so true. 414 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 3: Wow. 415 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 2: Well, guys, that's it for this episode and this whole stream. 416 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 4: We got some donuts we need to read. 417 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 2: We got some donas we need to read. Here we go, 418 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 2: let's see it there. We got a mad hatter gal. 419 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: I do have a small update. We did read that one. 420 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: We did read that one as well. 421 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 3: I didn't like them because that was a. 422 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: Story everyone's But you know what's some sad, heavy news. 423 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: It's over you me, j Anthony, It's no more. 424 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: Guys. 425 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: It's been a great stream, a fantastic stream at that. 426 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: So beautiful, but sadly, I have to bid you ad 427 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe because we 428 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: love you. 429 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 2: And see it. 430 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: Right. 431 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 6: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 432 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 2: Time for okop rewash. 433 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 8: Today, I afked up by accidentally getting my wife to 434 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 8: admit to an affair, but what she said next made 435 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 8: it ten times worse. 436 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 1: I admit to ten affairs. 437 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 6: You were the. 438 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 8: Product of an affair, and I of your mother. That 439 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 8: would be a red of story. God, there you go, 440 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 8: all right, Here we go, Here we go. So on 441 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 8: Christmas morning, we were both up early. She was about 442 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 8: to do some last minute shopping. We had a mutual 443 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 8: couple that we were friends with and they broke up. 444 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 8: And so I reply back with, well, maybe if they 445 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 8: would have been honest with their partner, they wouldn't have 446 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 8: broken up. I actually thought this was me tipping my 447 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 8: cap to say that I know something. Oh So she 448 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 8: looks at me with a lot of sadness and sincerity 449 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 8: and says, yeah, I guess you're right. I'm sorry. At 450 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 8: this point, I'm like, yeah, right, okay whatever. She then responds, no, 451 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 8: I'm tired of lying. At this moment, I'm in utter disbelief. 452 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 8: She proceeds to tell me everything. Oh God, I'll spare 453 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 8: the details for anonymity's sake. But I'm laying on my 454 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 8: sister's couch currently at one AM. I have an apartment 455 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 8: I'll be moving into within the next two weeks. It's 456 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 8: been rough. We've talked since then, as we have a 457 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 8: child together. Damn, I see my little girl every day. 458 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 8: There's no chance of reconciliation because this isn't the first, second, 459 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 8: or third time it's happened on her end. 460 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 6: Oh my god, but it will be the last. 461 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 2: Oh fire, that's. 462 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 8: A bar update though. Oh yes, I'm sure the child 463 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 8: is mine. 464 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: Read it. 465 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 8: There was a for herd to test. Keep in mind, 466 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 8: her best friend had died around the time this last 467 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 8: affair started. She also refused to go to therapy because 468 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 8: it doesn't work for her. 469 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know. It's always telling me like, don't 470 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: cheat on your partner. 471 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, she has a quirky coping mechanism, but instead of therapy, 472 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 8: she fucks dude. 473 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: Dude, she's so low, like sd random, Like it's like, 474 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 2: one day. 475 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 6: I'll be with you crazy. I'm just so crazy. 476 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 2: I'll be with you and that'll be another guy. That's 477 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 2: why I'm so random. 478 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 8: I know, Yeah, literally random. I will select any of 479 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 8: your friends at random, invite them over to our bed. 480 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: Forget a friend, just like a person on the street. Yeah, 481 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 1: you're looking delandum street man, Yummy. She's been taking no 482 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: medication for her depression or anything. But she's carried a 483 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: perfect online persona that allows her to master flaws, so 484 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: everyone only sees what she wants them to see. This 485 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 1: isn't to disrespect her, but it is who she is, 486 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: and she has stated as such. 487 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 6: Wow there's another update. 488 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 489 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 8: She claims it's only an online thing and it's just 490 00:20:58,800 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 8: for mental stimulation. 491 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 6: The mental stimulation, yeah, exhibst. 492 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 1: This is This is the U sexual cheating version of 493 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: intrusive body. 494 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I know. 495 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 3: Sorry. 496 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 6: I was just letting the intrusive thoughts win for a 497 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 6: little bit. Baby. You know, I only went on tender 498 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 6: a little bit. 499 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 2: Oh god. 500 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 8: Someone mentioned the polyamory thing, and she tried to get 501 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 8: me on board with this, deciding I could do the same. 502 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 8: But baby, I'm old fashioned, but I want us to 503 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 8: be old together forever, couple. I wanted that for us, 504 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 8: not a whole group. You unprogressive pig. 505 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 6: How dare you? 506 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 2: How dare you? 507 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 6: Update? Three? Oh my god. 508 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 8: So last night I come by after work to spend 509 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 8: a little time with my daughter, help her with homework, 510 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 8: et cetera. Right, her mom asked me what my game 511 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 8: plan was for the night. I tell her I've really 512 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 8: got to go find some documents for work that I've 513 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 8: seen to have misplaced, but I can come back if 514 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 8: she would like to talk about the separation and make 515 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 8: heads or tails of this entire thing. It's about a 516 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 8: half hour later and I go back, and I knock, 517 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 8: and then proceed to walk into the house and she 518 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 8: is video chatting this guy having foe. 519 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 6: In front of me. 520 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 2: Oh my god, bro. 521 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 8: I couldn't do anything but laugh and turn around and say, whoops, 522 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 8: hope it works out for you, and proceed to leave. 523 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 8: Please stay left, broh, there's a situation that you don't need. 524 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 2: I would have been like, hey, good luck, buddy. 525 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, hey, you were the other twelve food. She's thought 526 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 8: letting those intrusive thoughts win. 527 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: Dicks when dude, I mean they're intruding a lot. They're 528 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: all the horses and all the King's men could not 529 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 1: get her vagina together again? Man, wowow the piece of work, man, 530 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: you know. And I also love how this just came 531 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: from like the most random thing, which is like, oh, 532 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: like totally just like totally just look at this saying 533 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: oh that's crazy. 534 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, we should really be honest with each other. Yeah, 535 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 8: and then she's like, all right, finally I can tell him. 536 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 8: I was waiting for you to say that we could 537 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 8: be honest with each other. Whole time. I thought this 538 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 8: relationship was built on lying. You never specifically said to 539 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 8: be honest. 540 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: Come on, come on, gotta be clear about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 541 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: you want me to tell you the truth? Oh no, 542 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: can you please spell that out? 543 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 6: For all of my. 544 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 8: Relationships are built off lies. That is my love language, lying. 545 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,919 Speaker 8: But Sam, you know what my love language is. 546 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 6: What's your love language? 547 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: People sending stories to r slash okop show. 548 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 8: Every time I see a new one of your stories, 549 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 8: I get rock hard. O my god, please help me 550 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 8: not need a subscription for viagra, and keep sending stories. 551 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 2: Send them through guys for reading them.