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Speaker 2: Ooh uh ouch, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It depends. You know what a friend did to you?

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Speaker 1: myself again. I've been trying to talk myself out of

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Speaker 1: the breakup the whole night, also apologizing for my formatting.

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Speaker 1: I'm a mobile user. Okay. Basically, my fiance and I

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Speaker 1: met eight years ago. Eight years ago, my fiance and

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Speaker 1: his best friend became business partners as well. Okay, when

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Speaker 1: our relationship started off, it was great. John was a

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Speaker 1: a princess. Spicy. Was great, and he was seriously the

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, my fiance male twenty seven Sean and his

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Speaker 1: other more and more. Ace would pick him up in

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Speaker 1: After all, it was only sometimes on the weekends, and

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Speaker 1: It was harmless. Well, then it started to be during

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Speaker 1: I'm so shocked what. I explained the Reddit post and

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Speaker 1: stayed up until three am talking about how Seawan doesn't

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Speaker 1: I chose him, if I made him choose. He's actually

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Speaker 1: referred to Ace as his life. You're in love. You're

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Speaker 1: making it harder for literally everyone. He told me that

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Speaker 1: I was never a bad fiance and he loved me

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Speaker 1: throughout everything, and it was nothing I did. He just

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Speaker 1: But we'll never know. He wouldn't admit it regardless of

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Speaker 1: how he did. The conversation got so thanks Reddit, My

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Speaker 1: He said that he'll pay for the full apartment while

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Speaker 1: the lease is running up, but he'll stay with Ace

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Speaker 1: for now so I don't have to stay at my parents.

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Speaker 1: Why am I not surprised? Like I'll say, with Ace

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Speaker 1: is totally fun. On all, It was a pretty healthy conversation,

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Speaker 1: Ace was almost suffocating. I have no idea what that means,

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Speaker 1: he was in the closet this whole time to put

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Speaker 1: my mind at ease, and he said that he's very

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Speaker 1: changed when Ace walked into his life. I can't make

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Speaker 1: but I'm going to choose me. I'm excited to start

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Speaker 1: a new chapter of my life without Sean and Ace,

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Speaker 1: and there is a little update to finish us off.

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Speaker 1: Please don't be by phobic in the comments by people

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Speaker 1: exist the comments being mature and explain explaining how bi

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Speaker 1: crisis works are great. Happy Pride Month. I added that

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Speaker 1: that was I'm not angry at either of them. If anything,

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Speaker 1: I am kind of wishing the best. John described Ace

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Speaker 1: how I describe Sean, and even though it makes me

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Speaker 1: tear up thinking about it, Sean deserves the world. Jewn

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Speaker 1: deserves that kind of love and attraction, even if he

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Speaker 1: thought he had it for me. I'm only upset that

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Speaker 1: maybe he couldn't trust himself. Bang, and that is the

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Speaker 1: A big thing to note is that everything in our

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Speaker 1: Take it all when I leave. You know, when I

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Speaker 1: make it even harsher on him. Should I be telling

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Speaker 1: I being petty? I am anxious about his reaction. I'm

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Speaker 1: don't tell him anything. Otherwise he doesn't need to know

432
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: as long as if you're both on the lease, as

433
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: long as you're paying for the rest of your lease

434
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: or whatever, then it doesn't matter. Tim facts. But that

435
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: is the end of that story, but not the end

436
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: of the stream.

437
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy though.

438
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is crazy, and I don't Yeah, I know

439
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: that sounds like a horrible relationship to be in, and

440
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: I'm glad that she's on her way to getting out

441
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,400
Speaker 1: of it.

442
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: What's this next story though?

443
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: What's this next story?

444
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 2: Yeah? Also, Katie P three, thanks for the five bucks.

445
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: Nothing to say, just got on and wanted to support

446
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 2: smiley face emoji. Oh my gosh, thanks you for having

447
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: You'll get another one.

448
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: Michael Carlin Perez, thank you for the five bucks. She

449
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: needs to leave that bumb She needs to take everything

450
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: while he's at work, so he comes back to an

451
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 1: empty house. Maybe also changed locks, change his locks, but

452
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: she's moving. That's that's crazy, that's funny. Or maybe change

453
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: the place like the new logs that she's going to. Yeah,

454
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: jac says, ask a friend, if you can crash while

455
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: you're waiting for your place, take your stuff and leave.

456
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: Do not tell him. As soon as you get out,

457
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: block him and move on. Talk to the office and

458
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: give them a heads up. Yeah. Yeah, but let's get

459
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: into this next story. Boyfriend says, I'm too close with

460
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: my mom, so I broke up with him on the spot.

461
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? So blooming Onion fifty nine

462
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: or four says, this is sort of long, but I've

463
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: tried my best to contense it. My twenty five female

464
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: boyfriend twenty six male and I have been together for

465
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: two years. We were very close. Oh, we are very close,

466
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,239
Speaker 1: and I've talked about a future, moving in together, if

467
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: we want kids, what we want to do career wise.

468
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 1: We both are currently in university. I am pursuing a

469
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,199
Speaker 1: PhD and he is pursuing a bachelor's as he is

470
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: also in the military. Because of him being in a

471
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: military and also going to university, he is pretty busy

472
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 1: and has already been on two deployments of ten plus

473
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: months each.

474
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

475
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: Granted that those aren't terribly long in comparison to many others.

476
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: I am in UNI full time and also have a

477
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: full time job, so I'm also busy, but not in

478
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: the same capacity as him. We both have met each

479
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: other's parents countless times, and everything seemed to be going flawlessly,

480
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: or so I.

481
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 3: Thought, Oh no, no, or so two weeks ago, I

482
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 3: went to my parents on a scheduled leave as I

483
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 3: was getting my IUD changed and needed to recover after

484
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 3: that as I get put under for it to do

485
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: for it due to end oh, so they also remove

486
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 3: any lesions or growth.

487
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 1: They offered have me over. This is Opie's parents, and

488
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: I said yes because it meant home cooked meals. I

489
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: live on campus at my UNI as it is cheaper

490
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 1: than renting an apartment in the area, so I eat

491
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: on campus the majority of the time since it includes

492
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 1: is since it's included in my tuition. Four days into

493
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: my two week leave, my boyfriend asked to stay a

494
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: few days as he had the work of the week

495
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,479
Speaker 1: off and wanted to spend time with me and my parents.

496
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: They said, of course, and I of course did too.

497
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: He came over and everything was fine until the two

498
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: days later. My mom and I are very close, as

499
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 1: in no topics are off limits close to keep it brief,

500
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 1: we talk about literally everything, including very personal things like

501
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: medical issues and explicit topics. I know explicit topics may

502
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: raise some red flags, but let me explain as it

503
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: was what caused the issue with my boyfriend, so bear

504
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: with me, and this might get a bit personal, but

505
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: I will try to keep it clear but controlled. As

506
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 1: I said, I recently got my eyud replaced. I've had

507
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: one since I was an early teen, but this time

508
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: I've changed brands as the previous ones started to give

509
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: me issues. I was sitting at the island in our

510
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: kitchen while my mom was washing dishes at the sink.

511
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: She had asked how I was doing with a new brand,

512
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: and iud insertion, and I told her how my outer

513
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 1: region is super sore and hurts when I stand, and

514
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: then it feels like someone is pummeling my cervix. He

515
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: nodded and sympathized with me, and mentioned that I shouldn't

516
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 1: make it worse and to keep my huha off limits

517
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,479
Speaker 1: until the six week mark, which is when my doctor

518
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: said things can enter again. I laughed, and she continued

519
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: with telling me how when she gave birth to my brother,

520
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: who was quite the large baby, she needed stitches, and

521
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 1: she said how my dad was forbidden from entering her

522
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: child portal until she was ready.

523
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: Child.

524
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: Wow, and this isn't even the worst conversation we have had.

525
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: But I digress. Okay, before we get on, we move on.

526
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with that conversation. I

527
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: think that is a mother trying to help her daughter

528
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: with medical stuff.

529
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: People talk like this.

530
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:56,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially moms and daughter. I mean like especially you know,

531
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, like you relate on

532
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: a like you have that biological relation where you're understanding

533
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: things that your other parent might not understand. So I

534
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: feel like there's nothing wrong with this conversation at all.

535
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: And Nicole Hadden said it sounds like a normal mother

536
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: daughter conversation. Yeah. My boyfriend was apparently in the next

537
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: room with an earshot. I didn't know this, as he

538
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: said he has to go out and pick up a

539
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: package from an Amazon locker at Walmart, so I guess

540
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: he got back and then sat down in the living room.

541
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: My mom's and I conversation changed subjects because I had

542
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: forgotten to ask her about a recipe I wanted. But

543
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: after about thirty minutes it ended, and so I got

544
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: up and went to the living room to wait for

545
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. But as I mentioned, he was already there.

546
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: He looked appalled and asked to talk to me outside.

547
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no. He told me how it was

548
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: disgusting that I was talking about my private area with

549
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: my mom and how it was even more discussed that

550
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: she told me about her and my dad's situation after

551
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: the birth of my brother. It wasn't even explicit.

552
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: I feel like that's cool.

553
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: Oh so you have a bad relationship with your parents, Yeah,

554
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: because your parents are lame. What Don Mayflower says, this

555
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: convo is fabulous. This is an open, honest convo, female

556
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: to female talking about but JJ issues, meds and pain

557
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: totally normal. All piece fella needs to grow up? Is

558
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 1: this giving very like middle school? Like you you're talking

559
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: about menstruation, about periods.

560
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: I love talking about my wee problems with my dad.

561
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's like who Okay I was. I

562
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: was a big supportive if you want to do it.

563
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: But especially medical issues, like your parents are the first people,

564
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: like they're the most usually. I mean, obviously everyone has

565
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: different relationships with their parents, but like in a good

566
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: parents relationship, they have been there from the start helping

567
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: you with medical issues. And they're like the person that

568
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: a lot of people feel you know they can rely

569
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: on for those questions and feel comfortable with that. And

570
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: this who is this guy to say you can't talk

571
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: to your mom like that because it makes me uncomfortable.

572
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: What you aren't even part of the conversation you just overheard.

573
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it gets worse. Uh. He told me

574
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: that he can't look at me the same now knowing

575
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: that my mom knows all of my business and that

576
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: she should be a verbatim on a registry or list

577
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: or something, because that's effing disgusting and inappropriate. Okay, what

578
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,959
Speaker 1: like he's saying, like you should What I don't know,

579
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: Like he's talking about like a like a like a

580
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: spicy sleep offender list. Is that what he's saying? Is

581
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: that crazy? That is doesn't make sense?

582
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: Funny, He's like beauty e cuties.

583
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is wild. I told him that since he

584
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: feels that way, he doesn't have to ever see her

585
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: see her again because we're done.

586
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: Nice.

587
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: Lay. She just said, okay bye, My mom is way

588
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: more important than you are. Leave love her. I love her. Pee. Yes,

589
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: he didn't say anything and left bye. You didn't need

590
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: to say anything, just leave. Yeah. Ever since then, he's

591
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: been blowing up my phone, apologizing too late and asking

592
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: if if we can talk, if he can have another chance,

593
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: and that he wishes he had never said what he did,

594
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: but he still thought it. Now I know that not

595
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,479
Speaker 1: everyone has a good relationship with her mom, and that

596
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 1: not everyone who does is this close with her. We

597
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: are close enough that if anything ever did cross the line,

598
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: we would make it known. I also know that some

599
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: people may talk take us talking about our gentitals in

600
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: a weird way, but everyone has them and it's not

601
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: weird or gross to us, so we aren't embarrassed to

602
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: talk about our struggles, especially as women. I'm not judging

603
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: anyone who isn't comfortable with talking about that, so please

604
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: don't judge me for being comfortable with it. I don't

605
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: expect everyone to be on my side because I do

606
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: realize our closeness is probably abnormal, as I've been told

607
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: that many times. But a lot of the friends in

608
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: our friend group have been bombarding me with texts about

609
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: how cold and insensitive for I was for immediately breaking

610
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: up with him on the spot. No, he deserved it,

611
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: He deserved it.

612
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 2: He was he was story because he told it first.

613
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was telling Yeah, he was telling her that

614
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: her mom has to go in a registry. If anyone

615
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: said that about my mom, like and especially in like

616
00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: this scenario, I'd be like bye bye. I would have

617
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: been fine with him with his stance if he had

618
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: just approached it politely or probably literally any other way

619
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: that he did considering he said, my mother should be

620
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: on a registry or a list, exactly my point. I

621
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: mentioned that to our friends, and they all said that

622
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: he was just caught off guard and that anyone would

623
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: have reacted emotionally in his situation. What that is not true.

624
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: He wasn't even a part of the conversation, like he

625
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: had time to think about his you knowing how he

626
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: could bring this up, and he decided to immediately bring

627
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: it up in the most aggressive way possible. Am I

628
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 1: wrong for breaking up with him? Oh wait, sorry, two

629
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: of her friends are on my side and say that

630
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: they would have done the same. Am I wrong for

631
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: breaking up with him? I am about ninety percent convinced

632
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: that I did nothing wrong, but that ten percent has

633
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: been in the front of my mind for a while.

634
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: Any advice or thoughts are a pre shaded.

635
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: It really is hard to throw away. How long were

636
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: they together? A while? Two years to throw away to

637
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 2: your you know, relationship like that, and plus he goes

638
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: on two deployments.

639
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: But maybe that's why maybe, you know, maybe their relationship

640
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: was already a little bit weak from him being absent

641
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: a lot, and then you know, he comes back. Literally,

642
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: this is like one of the first times he's come

643
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 1: back and visited, and this is what he says. I'd

644
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm actually not that attached

645
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: to this relationship at all.

646
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

647
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Like I don't know. I feel like I

648
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: feel like to say, oh, it's an over exaggeration to

649
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: break up for some of these things. I'm like, well,

650
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: if they want to break up because this hurts them,

651
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: do it.

652
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. Dang, that's crazy though.

653
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's an edit. I thought it was implied,

654
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 1: so I apologize for not being clear by this. He

655
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: knew my mom and I were close, to quote one

656
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: of my replies to a comment, He's heard me talk

657
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: about personal things with her before. For example, about a

658
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: month before the IUD conversation, I talked to her on

659
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: the phone about my wild Battel movements and issues with

660
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,479
Speaker 1: my colon thanks to the ENDO while we were sitting

661
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: in my dorm. Granted, this is the first time he's

662
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: first hands saw or heard me talk about reproduction reproductive issues.

663
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: I've mentioned to him about how I've talked to her

664
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: about things like in my period and other health problems,

665
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: but this is the first time he has heard a

666
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: conversation in person. All normal things to talk to a

667
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: parent about. These are all health issues that you know. Man, Yeah,

668
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: Lydia rose Arba says, shows so much immaturity on his part,

669
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: and Tracy Eisen says, we are pretty open in our house.

670
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: These conversations are normal. And Nikki Orndoff's my mom normalized

671
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 1: talking with sex and medical things at a young age.

672
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: I think it's really important to have that kind of

673
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: line of communication, especially for medical issues with your child

674
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: from a young age, because you want your child to

675
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: come forward when they are experiencing pain or when they're

676
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: experiencing discomfort, so that you can catch these issues and

677
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: these medical issues immediately so that they don't develop into

678
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: something worse. And if they don't, if a child doesn't

679
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: have that outlet, they just bottle it up, or if

680
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: they're made to feel like it's wrong to talk about it,

681
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 1: then the issues stay there and they get worse. Forget Yeah,

682
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: it reminds five dollars. Thank you for the five bucks forgetful, Sophie.

683
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: He says, reminds of the girl. Reminds you of the

684
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: girl Wait Where to Go? Who called her boyfriend a

685
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: what's the word that I can say?

686
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: Pedo?

687
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I wasn't sure if I could say that when

688
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to think about a new word, a

689
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: way to say it, and you're like say it. For

690
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: helping his sisters with periods, Oh yes, yes, I remember

691
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: that story wild he was their guardian. Loved the Sophie

692
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: and Riley Rogue episodes. Let's go part of the Rogue class,

693
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: matd Hatter girl, Thank you for the ten bucks. I

694
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 1: did not know this was eighteen hundred eight century. We're

695
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: talking about anything like this would be considered blasphemy, Like

696
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,479
Speaker 1: would you rather your child be open to you about

697
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: their sex life or do it behind your back? Yeah? Yeah,

698
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 1: but that is the end of that story. Shilotte Roder says,

699
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: he's the one making sexual she's talking about a medical issue.

700
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: What would he do if she had a baby and

701
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: her mama to take care of her, like help her

702
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:39,839
Speaker 1: bathe because she was deployed. Yeah, yeah, doesn't doesn't add up.

703
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm glad that she's not with this guy anymore. But

704
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: that was the end of that story. Well, do we

705
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: have another story that we can do? Move to? Am

706
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,439
Speaker 1: I the a hole for telling my dad? I'll cut

707
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: him off if he misses my graduation? Yeah, we have

708
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: read a similar story. It's not the same story.

709
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: With all these dads miss graduations.

710
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: Why are they all missing graduation? So just come on

711
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 1: go to graduation unless you have I don't know, unless

712
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: you're dying. Uh so quiet satisfaction three fourteen says. So,

713
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm eighteen, male and I have a half brother who

714
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 1: is the same age as me. We'll call him Cameron.

715
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: Our dad got two women pregnant around the same time.

716
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 1: I'm older by six months. My dad chose Cameron's mom

717
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: over mine, and they're married.

718
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 2: Now, Oh, you were the practice family.

719
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: That's rough. Cameron is his parent's only child anyway, So

720
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: I've always felt like I was just a backup son

721
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: for my dad. I know he does love me, but

722
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: not as much as Cameron.

723
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 2: Off.

724
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 1: Ah, I live an hour and a half away from him,

725
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: but he would always make the drive to come see

726
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: me when I was younger, and still does to this day.

727
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 2: That's nice.

728
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 1: If I ever need anything, he'll make sure I get it.

729
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: He took me on trips all the time with just

730
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: me and him, but still I felt like an outsider.

731
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: He would constantly put me second to Cameron. If we

732
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: both had sports games on the same day, he would

733
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: always go to Cameron's with his wife. Oh boy, Once

734
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 1: when I had an award ceremony, he couldn't come because

735
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: Cameron was sick. It was just a cold beat, dumb

736
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,720
Speaker 1: When I wanted him to teach me how to drive,

737
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: he said he couldn't because he promised Cameron he would

738
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: teach him first, but that he'd help me after Cameron

739
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 1: got his license. Why why are you making these promises

740
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: of like who gets to go first? Just that doesn't Also,

741
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: Opie's six months older.

742
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah she should be first.

743
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense. I could list off a bunch

744
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: of other examples. My dad would show up to my stuff,

745
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: but if Cameron had something going on at the same time,

746
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: he wouldn't come. Cameron and I aren't friends. We get

747
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: along fine if we're together, but neither of us is

748
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: going out of the way to talk towet to the other.

749
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: I think he's spoiled and obviously our dad's favorite. Our

750
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: dad and his mom did him no favors because his

751
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: grades are bad and his wife has no direction.

752
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: Oh man, funch of.

753
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: Them those, it's one of them. He didn't apply to

754
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: any colleges and he won't even get a part time job. Fix.

755
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: We're both graduating high school this year. His school district

756
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: released their graduation schedule after mine, and of course our

757
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: graduations are on the same day at the same time.

758
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: Oh put an icee you in the comments if you

759
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: know where this is going. We live an hour and

760
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: a half apart, so obviously our dad can't make it

761
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: to both. He's known my graduation date for weeks before

762
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: Cameron learned his. We already had plans for him to

763
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: come and spend the day here. But I knew as

764
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: soon as I saw that schedule he was got a flake.

765
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,959
Speaker 1: This is so sad. At first, he said he wasn't

766
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: sure what he was going to do. He's been avoiding

767
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: the topics for a week for weeks, but our graduations

768
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: are on the twenty ninth, so he has to decide. Well,

769
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: yesterday he took me to dinner. He told me that

770
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: he was going to go to Cameron's graduation. He said

771
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: it was because Cameron's grandparents weren't going to be able

772
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: to make it, and Cameron would only have his mom. Well,

773
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: I have my mom, stepdad, siblings, and grandparents all coming

774
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: to mine and not an idiot. It was just an

775
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: excuse that I knew would be coming. He tried to

776
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: soften the blow by promising me he'd make it up

777
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: by taking me on a graduation trip anywhere I wanted

778
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: to go, even though he had already promised me that

779
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: months ago. He's taking his wife and Cameron on a

780
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: family trip to Hawaii in June. It's supposed to be

781
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 1: Cameron's graduation trip, but he promised he and I would

782
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 1: have our own trip. Now, all of a sudden, that

783
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: trip is supposed to be also a makeup for missing

784
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: my graduation. So I told him, Okay, I want to

785
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: go this one weekend event that is on the same

786
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: week he's going to Hawaii. He told me he can't

787
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: because that's when they're going to Hawaii. I didn't actually

788
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: want to go to this event. I was just proving

789
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: a point. I told him to postpone his Hawaii trip

790
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 1: so he can take me to the event. He said

791
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: he can't because everything is already paid for and none refundable.

792
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: I told him that he's missing my high school graduation.

793
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: The least he can do is make me the priority

794
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: when it comes to the graduation trips. He said, I'd

795
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: have to pick a different weekend. I told him it

796
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 1: doesn't Actually, he doesn't actually care about making it up

797
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: to me. He's only okay with what I want so

798
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: long as it doesn't interfere with his real family. He

799
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: denied it and told me to try to understand the

800
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: position he's in. Uh. Yeah, yeah, this father is so

801
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: the able.

802
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: The position is you chose the other family. Yeah, you

803
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 2: always have.

804
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, like from day one, you've chosen.

805
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: He needs to accept that.

806
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

807
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, when I think this is great that op

808
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: is seeing this and realizing this, because I'm like, when

809
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: do you stop reaching out to.

810
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, when do you stop trying to have a relationship

811
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: with a person who's actively not placing you as a priority?

812
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 2: Exactly?

813
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is very sad. Oh boy. I told him

814
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: straight up that he always chooses Cameron over me. For once,

815
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: I want to be the first choice. So I said,

816
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: I'll have a ticket ready for him, but that if

817
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 1: he doesn't come, I'll know where I stand in his life.

818
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: I don't care about a makeup trip. Either he shows

819
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: up and we still have a relationship or I'm just

820
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: done with him. He told me that I was being unreasonable,

821
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: and maybe I am, but I am standing on my ground.

822
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,479
Speaker 1: I already know he's not going to come even after

823
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: my ultimatum. So am I the a hole for throwing

824
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: away our entire relationship over this?

825
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: You put a line in the sand. It was about time.

826
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:05,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, like this dad sucks and he's

827
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: not doing anything to Yeah, he's not doing any And

828
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't even think it's like an ultimatum that OP

829
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 1: actually is. It's not really an ultimatum for OP. It's

830
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: just proof of something that he already knows. Yeah, he's like,

831
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 1: I already know how this ends. I just don't want

832
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: to have that relationship with you anymore. And this is

833
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: just a way for you to get like, for you

834
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: for me to cut it off a little bit simpler,

835
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: Like it's not just like I stopped talking to you.

836
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: It's like I'm already done with the relationship. You have

837
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: one more chance, and that's it. Yeah, I agree, not

838
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: the ahole at all. Relevant commenters. One commenter who was

839
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 1: downvoted says, well, I don't think you're an a whole.

840
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 1: I do think you're being eighteen, young and self centered.

841
00:45:54,200 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: I disagree. I disagree your dad has a he needs

842
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: to prioritize in order to have a peaceful and happy home.

843
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: His wife would be really pissed off if she had

844
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: to go to graduation alone because her husband as is

845
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: at a graduation with his ex lover.

846
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 2: I think this person read she's at.

847
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: A graduation for his son, not his ex lover's graduation.

848
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: What what his wife would be? It sounds like your

849
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: dad loves you, does it? I suspect your life would

850
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: be less rewarding with him shut out. Does it really

851
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: sound like it loves him? I feel like we've read

852
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: the wrong things of different things. Opie says, I guarantee

853
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 1: you that she wouldn't be there alone. My dad is

854
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: the kind of person who will tell the most obvious

855
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: lies and really think they sound believable. Cameron's grandparents will

856
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: be there. One of his aunts, who is super family

857
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: oriented will oriented, will be there. I'm sure my dad

858
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: was just lying to try to make his decision more unteresting.

859
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: Another commoner says, there's a middle ground where you just

860
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: stopped making any effort yourself and let the relationship with her.

861
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: I've done this with a couple of friends when I

862
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: realized I was the only one putting effort in. Eventually

863
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: there was a conversation where they lamented about how we've

864
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: lost touch and wonder what happened, And the answer I

865
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 1: gave was I stopped calling you.

866
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 2: Mmmmm wow.

867
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sometimes you realize that you're you know, you're doing

868
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: every like you're the one maintaining the relationship. The one

869
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 1: about teaching you to drive was the one that stuck

870
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,720
Speaker 1: out to me, since you're six months older and naturally

871
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: we'll get your driver's license first, but he made you wait.

872
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: That's the one to throw in his face if you're

873
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: looking for one. There's no plausible excuse, and OPI responds

874
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: that one incident. That's one incident that really pissed me off.

875
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: A few weeks after he told me that I had

876
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 1: to wait on learning, he wanted to meet to pick

877
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: me up to spend the weekend at his house. I

878
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: told him no because my stepdad was gonna give me

879
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 1: driving lessons that weekend. All of a sudden, my dad

880
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: acted like he was planning on supprise with lessons if

881
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: I came liar, liar. He really thinks I'm that stupid

882
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 1: that I can't tell when he's making things up on

883
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: the spot. And when he did give me a lesson,

884
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: he brought Cameron. We could teach literally any other day

885
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: of the week with us, so he could practice being

886
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: behind the wheel too. I had my stepdad give me

887
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 1: the rest of my lessons and take me driving up nice. Yeah,

888
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: oh boy, Commetri replies, not the ahole. I'm a petty bee.

889
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: If I were you, I would take plenty of photos

890
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 1: with stepdad and post them on social media with a caption.

891
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: Couldn't ask for a better family. Oh that's so, that's clever,

892
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 1: Opie responds, maybe I will. My dad gets weirdly jealous

893
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 1: and mad when I do anything with my stepdad. Why

894
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 1: you're not prioritizing Opie at all. But my stepdad is

895
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 1: the one who's never made me feel less than my

896
00:48:55,480 --> 00:49:00,439
Speaker 1: little brother and sister. It's his kids with my mom says,

897
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: I think you need to drop the step and call

898
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: him dad. I thought I was about to say drop

899
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: the step dad. I was like, why, Yeah, Opie says,

900
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: we have kind of an odd relationship. I call him

901
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 1: by his name when he's just me and him, but

902
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 1: in front of my siblings, I'll refer to him as dad,

903
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: not directly calling him that, but I'll say, like, go

904
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: as dad if you can come to the store with me.

905
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: It was just easier on my siblings were younger, and

906
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: I didn't want to confuse them. Now they're older and

907
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: they know that I have a different dad than them.

908
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: But it's just a habit I still have. I guess

909
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: sometimes I wish he was my bio dad, but I

910
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: don't know if we'll ever have a super close father

911
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: son relateship.

912
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 2: Oh this is yes.

913
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah this guy?

914
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 2: Oh wow, dang, Yeah that's sad.

915
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 1: I think you could make like a little bit of

916
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: an effort to like, you know, know him that you

917
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: want to have the relationship.

918
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could definitely do that.

919
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. K Bax agrees Opie needs to really pour that

920
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,919
Speaker 1: love he's wanting into his stepdad and realize that he's

921
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: been the father he wanted. All Yeah, I think they

922
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: could work on that.

923
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:04,879
Speaker 2: The grass is green where you water it.

924
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, commenter says I would ask him why does he

925
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: even pretend to love you? Truly? His wife is your stepmother,

926
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: and Cameron is your stepbrother. Why does he not also

927
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: take you on the family trip since you were family?

928
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: Or are you not invited because you're not family to him?

929
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: Just responsibility, Opie responds. He does love me, trust me.

930
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: I have no problems calling out my dad's many shortcomings,

931
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 1: but not loving me isn't one of them. The problem

932
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: is he loves Cameron a lot more. There's not a

933
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: single doubt in my mind that he'd give up his

934
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: life to save mine if he had to. But if

935
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 1: he had to choose between saving me or Cameron, this

936
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: is so tough. Oh for Ope, I might as well

937
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: just start calling my family to say my goodbye. That's

938
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: so sad about the trip. I wouldn't even go even

939
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: if he did invite me. Cameron and I can tolerate

940
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: each other well enough, but I don't want to spend

941
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: a whole week with him, and I'm sure the feeling

942
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: is mutual. And my dad's wife likes to pretend I

943
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: don't exist. Ah, If my dad told her about the

944
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: ultimatum I gave, I'm sure she was celebrating in her

945
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: head that she won't have me at her house or

946
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: I have to deal with my dad traveling to visit

947
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: me anymore. M cass says this is heartbreaking, and I

948
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: agree comment ERSA. Another commenter says, definitely don't invite him

949
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: to your college graduation, even if it's clear that you

950
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 1: would be the only son he will get to watch.

951
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: Cameron will probably get promoted to head cashier somewhere and

952
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: he will have to go to that ceremony, or he

953
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 1: will get another cold good luck. Celebrate with your real family.

954
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: Don't let him ruin your day, not the a hole.

955
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: Stand your ground and let's just get on to the update.

956
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't think that's ali, but there's an update twelve

957
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,479
Speaker 1: days later.

958
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 2: Oh so after the graduation.

959
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: The graduation, because it was the twenty ninth. Yeah, so

960
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: we're about to find out what went down. Who did

961
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: Opie's dad choose? I think we all know.

962
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 2: We all know also real quick.

963
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: Yes, oh Spiffy too. Thank you for the ten gifted membership.

964
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 2: We appreciate you.

965
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 1: Woo thanks Joe, so appreciation nice baby ge baby Godzilla,

966
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 1: thank you for the five buck tip. Sophia, I say

967
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: pdf file to replace that word p it sounds Oh,

968
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: it's sound similar. That's a pdf file. That's that's very smart,

969
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 1: Mad hatter GW thank you for the twenty bucks. I

970
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 1: can relate to OPI my father used to do this

971
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: with me when I was a child. Would make plans

972
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: with me, and I would get already and excited to

973
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: spend time with my dad, only to be disappointed at

974
00:52:58,120 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: the end of the day.

975
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 4: It's yeah, my dad was adopted to and like his

976
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 4: dad would be like oh, and always felt bad for

977
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 4: my dad whenever he teld me those stories yeah, where

978
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 4: his dad would say he didn't even call him.

979
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 2: I just sit there waiting for him. I'm like, oh, dude, dang,

980
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 2: that's sad. My dad never did that. Yeah, because he's

981
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 2: my dad.

982
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's your dad.

983
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:22,839
Speaker 2: I don't know.

984
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:30,479
Speaker 1: Okay, but let's get in to supdate. Some people wanted

985
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: an update to my post. My graduation was on Wednesday,

986
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: surprising everyone, especially me. My dad actually chose me and

987
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: my graduation what not at first? But he did what Wow?

988
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 2: I am shocked.

989
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 1: Wow. I did not expect that. WHOA, what a twist. Well,

990
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: now we have to see if this is actually what, like,

991
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: IFOP actually meant what he said about the ultimatum, or

992
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: if this was just kind of a away for him

993
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: to like cut off contact, We'll have to see if

994
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: he actually wants to maintain that contact. What if this

995
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 1: was enough to save the relationship. So what happened after

996
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: I gave him the ultimatum was he kept trying to

997
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: talk to me as if nothing was wrong. He was

998
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: asking me to spend time with him a lot and

999
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: asking when I was free, basically either feeling guilty or

1000
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: trying to compensate for choosing Cameron. I never met with him.

1001
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: Cameron messaged me to tell me to stop being an

1002
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: a hole and to get over it, because apparently our

1003
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: dad was dressed out over the whole thing. I just

1004
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: blocked Cameron and moved on shut up Cameron up. On

1005
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 1: the day of my graduation, my dad told me he

1006
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 1: was coming down to spend the day with me before

1007
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: he had to go home to Cameron's graduation. At first,

1008
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: I told him not to bother because there's no point

1009
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: in showing up here if you're going to leave before

1010
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: the actual ceremony, But he ended up coming anyway. We

1011
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: had a small get together at my house with my

1012
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: mom's side of the family. My dad was there acting

1013
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 1: as if nothing was wrong. It was annoying. I refuse

1014
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: to take pictures with him because I told him I'm

1015
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 1: taking pictures at my graduation. If you want pictures with me,

1016
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: you can show up. A few hours before the ceremony,

1017
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: he said he had to head out. I said goodbye forever,

1018
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 1: and he pulled me aside to talk. He was trying

1019
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: to justify his decision again. I told him I was

1020
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: serious about what I said. I will not talk to

1021
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 1: him ever again. I made it clear that this isn't

1022
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: something I'm going to be mad around about for a

1023
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: bit and then get over. I'm not going to call

1024
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,399
Speaker 1: him crying in a few years saying I'm sorry. He

1025
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: asked why I was being like this, and I just

1026
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: let it all out. I told him I'm sick and

1027
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:43,959
Speaker 1: tired of being second place all the time. My entire life.

1028
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: I've been told that he can't show up for me

1029
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: because Cameron needs him, or he promised Cameron first. Yet

1030
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: the one time I had my graduation date set and

1031
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: planned first, he still cancels on me for Cameron. I

1032
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: asked him to give me one good reason why he

1033
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 1: has to go to Cameron's graduation over mind specifically, No,

1034
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 1: this is a tough situation. I can't be in two

1035
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: places at once, et cetera, he said, because if he

1036
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: doesn't go to Cameron's graduation, he has to deal with

1037
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: a pissed off wife and his entire home life will

1038
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 1: be in tense. I asked him, why can't his wife

1039
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: and Cameron ever be the one he apologizes to and

1040
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:23,399
Speaker 1: asks to try to understand? What a great point? Why

1041
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: do I always have to be purposely handed the short straw?

1042
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: He didn't have an answer. I told him, I hope

1043
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 1: Cameron gets his life together, because right now he's on

1044
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 1: a nosedive trajectory that ends with him still living at home,

1045
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: rent free in his thirties, with a girlfriend he can't

1046
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: afford to give a ring to, let alone a wedding,

1047
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: and three kids who are being raised by my dad's wife.

1048
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: I didn't care anymore at that point. It's true Cameron's

1049
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: a loser, and I told my dad good luck, because

1050
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: he's the one that takes care, that's taking care of

1051
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: you when you're old. I'm out. I guarantee Cameron's takes

1052
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 1: Cameron takes their money and puts his parents in the

1053
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: absolute cheapest nursing home he can find. They failed him

1054
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: by spoiling him and treating him like he's perpetually five

1055
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: years old. Dad still ended up leaving anyway.

1056
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,759
Speaker 2: Wait, what dang, but he can't he came that day?

1057
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I was confused because OPI said that he came

1058
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: to the.

1059
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's another flip.

1060
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: Oh No, Dad still ended up leaving anyway. I refused

1061
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: to hug him and told him I'm done with him.

1062
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: That kind of ruined my mood. But once I got

1063
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: to school and started hanging with my friends, I decided

1064
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: to let it go. I wanted to enjoy my grad

1065
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: night and just forget all the bs. Oh. After the ceremony,

1066
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: I was shocked to see my dad walking towards me. Well, okay,

1067
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: so flip again. What I was positive he was going

1068
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 1: to Cameron's graduation like, gun to my head, get this answer, writer,

1069
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: you die? Well, I guess I'd be dead because I

1070
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: was one hundred percent sure he would choose Cameron. He

1071
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: already did, but I guess he turned around and came back.

1072
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: So he hugged me and told me that he's sorry

1073
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: for everything and how he's treated me and how he's

1074
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: treated me, and that he does love me just as

1075
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: much as Cameron, even if he's bad at showing it.

1076
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't really believe that last part, but he showed up,

1077
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 1: so that's what I'm focusing on. Cameron was pissed, of course,

1078
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: and messaged me from a different number to whine at me.

1079
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: He was calling me a cry baby and selfish. Why

1080
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: are you not the selfish one? OPI had the date

1081
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: set before. I hate this family saying dad only went

1082
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 1: to my graduation because I threw a fit. He doesn't

1083
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: understand that it wasn't me having a tantrum. He was

1084
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 1: a last straw situation for me. I just sent him

1085
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: a picture of my I just sent him a picture

1086
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: of me and our dad at my graduation and told

1087
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: him to get over it. Then I blocked that number two.

1088
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: If him, I'm glad he knows what it's like to

1089
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: be a second choice, just once. I'm sure our dad

1090
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 1: is already bending over backwards to make it up to

1091
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: Cameron anyway, so he'll live. Our joint graduation party is

1092
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: going to be awkward, but hopefully we'll just keep our

1093
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 1: distance from each other. Hmm. Interesting ooh ooh oh, And

1094
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: don't worry, I'm not delusional. I know my Dad is

1095
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 1: just gonna go back to the same old routine. And

1096
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: now if he ever brings up his affair unfairness again,

1097
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: he'll always be able to throw in my face that

1098
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: he came to my graduation over Cameron's. It'll probably be

1099
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 1: his trump card. Not gonna lie. I did feel good

1100
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 1: to have everyone crap on my dad with me in

1101
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: the last post, because I was pissed off at him

1102
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: when I posted. I know that he does love me,

1103
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: though still, I think I'm gonna take some advice I

1104
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: got in that post. I'm not cutting my dad off,

1105
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna stop trying. I have a lifetime of

1106
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: him awarding me the silver medal no matter how well

1107
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: I did, and I'm tired of it. Cameron can be

1108
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,439
Speaker 1: his favorite son uncontested. From now on. I'm just gonna

1109
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: live my life and keep my dad at an arm's length.

1110
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna try to force him to prove his

1111
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 1: love for me.

1112
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that definitely has a lot of work to do.

1113
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 1: Yeah good, this was good. This was the first start.

1114
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 1: But I am worried, just like Ope, that this was

1115
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: just He was scared about the ultimatum, and so he

1116
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: came because of that and not because he actually wants

1117
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: to make lasting changes in the relationship.

1118
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 2: But hopefully he can pay for college.

1119
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, maybe I'll go for all college and it'll

1120
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: be a little bit better. But right now it doesn't

1121
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: seem like the relationship is is stable enough yet. I

1122
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: think there's still a lot of actions that the dad

1123
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: needs to take before they've made any progress. Oof. But

1124
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 1: that is the end of the story and the end

1125
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 1: of the stream. However, we did reach a wheel spin goal.

1126
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 2: You guys just want to read another story?

1127
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: Well, should we spin the wheel? I don't really like

1128
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: I do the Will we jeopardy the jeopardy?

1129
01:00:56,680 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 5: Yeah? May wait out the yet spin spin spend that wo.

1130
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: Novertyveryday? Swap spop to Jeopardy swap. Ok fine, I'll ask

1131
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: you jeopardy questions. All right, Okay, you're swapping. Also, man

1132
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: a Pandon think for the one forty five and so

1133
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: we can go on the family trip at jeopardy.

1134
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: You know what, We'll just do jeopardy, Okay, I I

1135
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 2: don't know any questions.

1136
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:40,520
Speaker 1: All right, let's do jeopardy. Okay, I'm ready.

1137
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 2: Did you get that?

1138
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh boy, I'm very tired, are you? I have

1139
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: gotten no sleep for the past week and a half

1140
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: because people keep having parties at our house.

1141
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 2: Dude, I have a story about the.

1142
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: Party.

1143
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 2: This one kid had a box of cereal and it

1144
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 2: was filled with Elmer's glue, what and cheerios at our house,

1145
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 2: at our house, and he brought it to the sink

1146
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 2: and he was like, gonna pour down the sink and

1147
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: try to clean the spoon. And I said, what the

1148
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 2: eff are you doing? Like, oh, I'm trying to do

1149
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, throw it in the trash. We're gonna

1150
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 2: go throw it in the trash outside. Everyone wants another story.

1151
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: Okay, they can give you another story.

1152
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can do another story.

1153
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: I didn't see your chat. We'll do another story. He

1154
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 1: was calling me. Good. I got a spam call here.

1155
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 2: Well, it said swap, so I can swap and read

1156
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 2: the story.

1157
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: We have another story. Yeah, do you want to read

1158
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: the last story?

1159
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just read their last story.

1160
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we're swapping. We're swapping mix where we were swapping.

1161
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 1: We give you what you want.

1162
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 2: Oh boy, hello everyone with this. I think I need

1163
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 2: a haircut.

1164
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 1: Your hair looks really nice. Actually I noticed it this morning.

1165
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I was like, Wow, looks so nice.

1166
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. We have a we have a

1167
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 2: monitor that we can see right here, so if you

1168
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: ever see Sophia's eyes over here, we have one monitor

1169
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 2: here and one monitor here. Yeah, here's a good spot. Like,

1170
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 2: if you want to talk to me, you can like

1171
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 2: just stare at the screen and it looks like you're

1172
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 2: looking at me.

1173
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, ta spawn that wheel and we're doing

1174
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: some swap swappage and Ley reading a story? Is this?

1175
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 2: Why do I have to read this one?

1176
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: I don't know which one you're reading.

1177
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 2: You don't have to no, but I am.

1178
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 1: Hold on which one is it? I don't know which

1179
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: one it is?

1180
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 2: S two? Yes, big protein. Oh, I need to move

1181
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,439
Speaker 2: that chat to this. Would it be better if I flipped.

1182
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 1: The Oh it's not it's not bad.

1183
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh yeah, all right, here we go. M all right,

1184
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 2: here we go, am Ael for calling out my sister

1185
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 2: in law in front of everyone for making comments about

1186
01:03:54,640 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 2: my body. So good luck, babe, says I. I'm twenty

1187
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 2: four female, a very short woman. Huh seven twenty seven?

1188
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 2: Oh twenty seven? All twenty seven year olds look like

1189
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 2: twenty four to men, very short woman four nine under

1190
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 2: one hundred pounds. I don't want to complain about being small,

1191
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 2: But there are a lot of people out there, especially

1192
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 2: other women, who will not make will not take us seriously,

1193
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 2: our judgmental make side comments, assume attraction to us is nefarious,

1194
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 2: et cetera, A lot of comments that imply we're not

1195
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: real women, et cetera. Because you're little doesn't mean you're

1196
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,160
Speaker 2: not a real woman. Yeah, no, that's very weird. They

1197
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 2: couldn't be making those comments. You're an adult. Oh hey, mom,

1198
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: you're gonna be on my good behavior.

1199
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: Oh boy.

1200
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm used to it and usually let it roll off

1201
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 2: my back. But there's a new one that has picked

1202
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: up momentum. I guess stems from a TV show where

1203
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: a girl is putting a childish act and she says,

1204
01:04:54,040 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 2: I'm a very sexy baby in a cutesy voice. And

1205
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 2: there's a lot more to do with that. You can

1206
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 2: just google it. Wait what is this? You're looking it up?

1207
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm a sexy bab, I'm a very

1208
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 2: sexy baby or is it just like I don't know,

1209
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 2: is there a national thing? I don't know, it's like

1210
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 2: a TV thing. You guys might know what it's talking

1211
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 2: about Wait, Hannah Rose, so I get the short thing

1212
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 2: for eight? Are you four? Eight? Wow? I thought I

1213
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 2: thought my mom was short, but I just have a

1214
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 2: really tall dad. My mom's five five, my dad's like

1215
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 2: six eight. So what are you typing?

1216
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 1: Oh?

1217
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm like, what are you looking up over there?

1218
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: Okay?

1219
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 2: My sister in law, Cassie has picked this up and

1220
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 2: has been using it against me. I can't wear a

1221
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: cute outfit without her coming down on me and challenging

1222
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:51,919
Speaker 2: me for buying, for buying into the whole sexy baby thing.

1223
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 2: When I'm just wearing an outfit.

1224
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 1: I'm just wearing an outfit that's so annoying.

1225
01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to be me. God for I wear

1226
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 2: a shorter skirt or bows or anything I think it's cute. Wow,

1227
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 2: dang that that does sink. It's like I'm not allowed

1228
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 2: to wear cute or sexy things because I'm petite, and

1229
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm automatically seen as trying to be a sexy baby

1230
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 2: when I'm not. I think this is just in Cassie's head.

1231
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 2: She just put this whole thing in her head and

1232
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: now she's putting on you.

1233
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like I think she's jealous.

1234
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 2: You didn't even bring this up.

1235
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, Like Elfie was just living and her sister

1236
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: in law was like, oh, you're trying to be a

1237
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 1: sexy baby. It's very telling, like.

1238
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 2: This is crazy. People are wild.

1239
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1240
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 2: I've asked Cassie to stop it or drop it, and

1241
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 2: she maintained, maintains that the one opening up myself to

1242
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 2: judgment and I should dress my age, dress, dress her

1243
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 2: age or her high? Like which one do you want

1244
01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 2: her to do? I think I think she's like dressed,

1245
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 2: you're high. I don't think she made to say dress Yeah,

1246
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 2: her age interesting.

1247
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 1: Because I feel like she maybe she's wearing like you know,

1248
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: some like like short skirts or like stuff that's you know,

1249
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 1: more like sexy stuff because she's a woman and she's

1250
01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 1: allowed to. And her sister loves like, well, you can't

1251
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: wear that because you're under your four eleven, because you're

1252
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 1: under five foot, you can't dress. You have to be

1253
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: you have to be this tall to ride this round.

1254
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 2: Wow, that's funny. Uh. This came to a head last

1255
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: weekend when we were at in my Auntie's backyard at

1256
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 2: the pool. I took off my wraps so I could

1257
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 2: hang with my feet in the pool with your cousins,

1258
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 2: and Cassie Mentley said you're a very sexy baby at

1259
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 2: me and twirled imagery imaginary imaginary pigtails. Oh yeah, interesting,

1260
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:51,480
Speaker 2: this bit's not funny, Cassi.

1261
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: It's not funny. No one's laughing at your stand up bit.

1262
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:55,480
Speaker 1: Go workshop your material.

1263
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, when you get that woman from the beginning and bring.

1264
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 1: Her back, She's like, actually a mechie reel is not

1265
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 1: funny at all, but your stage presence is there?

1266
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly. I raised my voice and said that's

1267
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: a really weird thing to say, and to keep saying.

1268
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 2: What is your problem with me? Oh my god? Sorry,

1269
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 2: why would you keep bringing this up? That I'm small? Yeah,

1270
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 2: if I'm back, She started to turn red, and she

1271
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 2: yelled back again that I'm the one choosing to walk

1272
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 2: around again at me, like the sexy sexy baby.

1273
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: She's so pressed for no reason? Leave here alone? Like,

1274
01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: why is Cassie so so pressed?

1275
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 2: What this is? I? Okay? I said that I'm literally

1276
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 2: just wearing a bathing suit at one piece heather halter.

1277
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, a halter top is like it's like when it

1278
01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 1: goes around the neck instead.

1279
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So.

1280
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:03,040
Speaker 1: It's not like two straps one strap that goes around.

1281
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 2: Wow, I know what that means. Now, next, I'm gonna

1282
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 2: see a halter. I'm going to compliment it.

1283
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: Type of it's a type of cut, like a cut

1284
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,440
Speaker 1: to a dress or a and anything.

1285
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 2: Or noted noted she's wearing a one piece halter, and

1286
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 2: I and asked her what I should be wearing instead

1287
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:26,240
Speaker 2: of instead of which is a problem. Yeah, it's a

1288
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 2: halter like that doesn't just a bathing suits. Oh my gosh.

1289
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 2: She yelled back that I should dress like a grown

1290
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 2: adult and stop trying to cause a scene in front

1291
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 2: of everyone. I said whatever and just tried to ignore her.

1292
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 2: Later on, we ended up inside at the same time,

1293
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 2: and she came down on me for calling her out

1294
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 2: in front of everyone, and I told her to stop

1295
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 2: trying to make me feel bad for being small and

1296
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 2: that I didn't choose this body. She rolled her eyes

1297
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: and told me to grow the f up, and that

1298
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,639
Speaker 2: trying to start crap and I'm trying to start crap

1299
01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 2: with her is even more proof. Keep talking about she's

1300
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 2: just defending herself.

1301
01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 1: You're starting at Cassie.

1302
01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm at a loss there, and I'm starting to

1303
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 2: just not want to be around my family because of her.

1304
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:17,799
Speaker 2: It's not enough that I get she shite from women

1305
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 2: at work, at the gym, basically anywhere, and that it's

1306
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 2: my family and am able for calling out or eat

1307
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 2: or even for just I don't know, existing my own body.

1308
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 1: Edit.

1309
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm eady this in here because I can't respond

1310
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 2: to every comment. But it's my brother's wife. I see,

1311
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 2: she doesn't he doesn't care. We've never been close, so

1312
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 2: I's gotten along. He's always taken her side. Other people

1313
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 2: in my family are very hands off, soash handle your

1314
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 2: business yourself just the way they are. Also, Cassie, Cassie

1315
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,480
Speaker 2: isn't fat, she's average, hyped.

1316
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: Horrible.

1317
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Cassie was like people were like, oh, she

1318
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 2: must be fat, that's why she's doing it. But she's average.

1319
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, she's just being mean. She's not a girl's girl.

1320
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 2: She's not a girl's girl. What dude, what the heck

1321
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 2: is up with this? That is just some wacky whack whack.

1322
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 2: Tell me you're whack without telling me you whack.

1323
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 1: So true. Also where I'm so annoying that the brother's

1324
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:15,839
Speaker 1: not doing anything.

1325
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it doesn't seem like he's carried. Also the family.

1326
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 2: No one in the family's saying anything either.

1327
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone's just taking Cassie side and that sucks.

1328
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not saying if you don't say anything, you

1329
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 2: were taking Cassie sat side. Wow, exactly. And it does

1330
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 2: seem like whatever Cassie in her head's like dress your age.

1331
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:36,720
Speaker 2: It sounds like whatever Cassie wants to dress like she is,

1332
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 2: she's trying to halt her.

1333
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 1: Right, like presumably like she's just wearing a bathing suit.

1334
01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 1: She's just wearing a bathing suit at a pool party.

1335
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 1: Why is this the topic of conversation?

1336
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh MX Wormy's start making fun of how tall

1337
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 2: she is.

1338
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like you're your freaking elephant. You're a freaking

1339
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: you know, a drafte. Yeah.

1340
01:11:58,840 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 2: And I hate this for this girl.

1341
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:00,680
Speaker 1: She gets it.

1342
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 2: She's getting shy everywhere left and right.

1343
01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1344
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 2: Man, if I were you, what would I do?

1345
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 1: Man?

1346
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 2: Because she's not at like little people Mark, you know,

1347
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 2: he's just like a small person, right, um, a little person.

1348
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: No. Actually, I actually learned a bunch randomly. It came

1349
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 1: up on my TikTok page and I was talking about

1350
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 1: like the how to distinguish between like little person and

1351
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: just a short person. Uh, and I think like the

1352
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 1: cutoff is I could be wrong with it. I think

1353
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: it was like four to ten. Oh, but you can

1354
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: have someone who is technically like doesn't meet the height

1355
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 1: requirement but is not a little person because it's also

1356
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 1: like the way that you're like your limbs ratio is gotcha? No,

1357
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 1: she probably it doesn't seem like she is.

1358
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:55,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, kickstart films. We're still so you're taller than her,

1359
01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:56,120
Speaker 2: and then fire.

1360
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: Back, that's what you wanted from me?

1361
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 2: Is this what you want?

1362
01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 1: It? So?

1363
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 2: Worst? Tilts, that's I would take that advice. Riley, call

1364
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 2: your mom? What what do you mean he called my mom?

1365
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. But that's that's the end of that story.

1366
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for coming to the stream, guys, little seek

1367
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 2: your stream. I would say there might be another one,

1368
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 2: but we don't know. We'll just Usually when the boys

1369
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 2: on around, we get bored and that is what we do.

1370
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:28,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, wait is this streaming on YouTube?

1371
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: Where is this stream? Thing? Trying to find the greatest.

1372
01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 2: We'll get to we'll get to it. Just just go

1373
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:39,439
Speaker 2: to the starting scene thing, the starting scene, yes, and

1374
01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 2: then I'll close it off. But yeah, if you love us,

1375
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:46,480
Speaker 2: make sure to subscribe and see you tomorrow.