1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to Stefan 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: Never Told your production of iHeart Radio. 3 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: And welcome to another edition of Feminists around the World. 4 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: And for our Pride Month edition, we are talking about 5 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 2: indigenous two spirited dancer and activists Charente Michitotian Harris. And 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: Harris is from the US. But you know, we always 7 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 2: love to bring in people from the US as well 8 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: because they often don't get enough credit as in like 9 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 2: even though they're in the US, we don't know about 10 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 2: them what So today we were talking about Harris, who 11 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: is a member of the indigenous and the Organztt tribe 12 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: in Rhode Island and has been a part of the 13 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: traditional dance world. We're a chunk of their lives. Their 14 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: family is made up of dancers with championships and global 15 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: tours under their names. Their mother even danced at the 16 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: second inauguration of President Bill Clinton, and their father is 17 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 2: a world champion Eastern War dancer, the highest honor given 18 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,960 Speaker 2: at the largest First People's gathering. And yes, if you notice, 19 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 2: we are using them pronouns here, but they do have 20 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 2: I think they go by all including she and he. 21 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 2: But we're gonna stick with them just to be safe. 22 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: So the War Dance is a dance that tells the 23 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: story of hunting among the first peoples, and their mother 24 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: performs the Fancy Shaw Dance, which is a modern dance, 25 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: and as they explain it in an interview with Milk 26 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 2: Makeup dot com, quote fancy Shawl dance is a dance 27 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 2: of liberation and continuation, and the dances are representative of 28 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: an quote active connectivity. They continue in that same interview, saying, 29 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: when we dance, we're living as individuals but tapping into 30 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 2: this feeling of oneness that is the truth behind the 31 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: illusion of us being separate. When we dance, we dance 32 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: in a and with no end and no beginning. 33 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: And it was the inspiration and love of dance that 34 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: helped them to become whom they truly are and embrace 35 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: and advocate for themselves and those like them. It was 36 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: when they were watching the women perform the Fancy Shaw 37 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: dance they realized they were too spirited. They told glad 38 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: dot Org in an interview about their love of dance 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: and what it means to them now. When I dance, 40 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: I have always felt an obligation to dance for my people, 41 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: but now I feel an obligation to dance for two 42 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: spirit people as well. But I really identify first and 43 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: foremost as being near a dancet. And they also talked 44 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: about how the dances gave them the opportunity to express themselves. Quote, 45 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: I think that fancy shaw dancing was my first opportunity 46 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: to make a public statement about who I was. Dancing 47 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: in the style of dance traditionally done by women. Was 48 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: my opportunity to be seen in a way that I 49 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 1: otherwise would not be. 50 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: And with the ability to dance and share their love, 51 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 2: they know that it comes with responsibilities. They explain so 52 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 2: much of my work, my scholarship, my artwork, my writing 53 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: is all in the forefront of my mind. But if 54 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 2: I'm not out there in the circle dancing fancy shawl 55 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 2: sometimes taking on the abuse that comes from homophobic and 56 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: transphobic people, then that means that I'm leaving it to 57 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 2: another young person to have to carry the weight of 58 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 2: that by themselves. So in twenty nineteen ted X talk, 59 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: they said, this dance is a dance of liberation, not 60 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 2: just for me, but for the entire LGBT community. And 61 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 2: for that reason I have gone out and danced in 62 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 2: the face of those who feel that I should not. 63 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: And for the indigenous community, many of these traditions are 64 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: traditions of storytelling coming from the Turtle clan. They stress 65 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: the importance of storytelling as a way to preserve their culture. 66 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: They told NBC news dot Com Grandmother Turtle is the 67 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 2: oldest and wisest of all of the creatures, and therefore 68 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 2: she carries the traditions of our people on her tongue. 69 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: And they continue, these are the histories that have been overlooked, 70 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: have been intentionally forgotten or rewritten over Our invisibility is 71 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: one of the most pernicious things that has a lot 72 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: us to remain under the heel of oppression. And they're 73 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: specifically talking about two spirited peoples in this part. 74 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: And they go on talking about the interconnectedness of the 75 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: world and how a basis of naraganstant worldview is that connectedness. 76 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: Quote all our beloved relations a translation from naraganstant view, 77 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: which means quote all of creation is a family and 78 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: Earth is the mother of all things. Harris explains, when 79 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: you recognize everything in the world around you as your relation, 80 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: you treat it as if it is inextrictly connected. To you. 81 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 1: It is part of you. That is traditionally the role 82 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: that two spirit people played within our communities to remind 83 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: people that even the most seemingly distance of things, light 84 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: and darkness, the day and the night, men and women, 85 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,559 Speaker 1: that we are all connected. And the two spirit person 86 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: embodies that. And they did receive backlash when they started 87 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: to perform for the public and competitions at the age 88 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: of sixteen. They told Thrillist dot com they had thought 89 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: about quitting altogether. Quote. I was being called such he 90 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: things to my face by strangers, and all I wanted 91 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: to do was be able to speak to my people, 92 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 1: to tell my story, to understand why they hated me 93 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: so much, And no one wanted to talk to me. 94 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it wasn't just words and harassment, but during 95 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 2: an actual competition, there was calls for some of the 96 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: judges to not even watch or judge them as part 97 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: of the competition. Harris said about that moment, the point 98 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 2: at which they finally saw me was when the judges 99 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 2: walked off saying that what was happening to me was wrong. 100 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: When a huge protest happened while I was dancing, and 101 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: when people saw what was happening to me, and they 102 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: no longer saw me as an idea or a confused person, 103 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 2: or as queer or as transgender. They saw me as 104 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: a human being, and they found themselves within me. And 105 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 2: though it took some time for them to be able 106 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 2: to get support from the public, Harris has always had 107 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: the support of their family and from those around them. 108 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: They said, I had a guidance counselor who I had 109 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 2: seen my entire life, and when I was thinking of 110 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: switching schools, she told me, Sharinte, you're at a place 111 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: where you have two paths ahead of you. No matter 112 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,559 Speaker 2: which path you take, you're destined for greatness. That really 113 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: liberated me. If I stayed in my old school district 114 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 2: and in the closet, I don't think I would have 115 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: been accepted into a dual degree program at Brown University. 116 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: I don't think I would be a presidential scholar or 117 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: an LGBT History Month icon. I likely would not have 118 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: done any activism work for my two spirited community. 119 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: And they continue to compete and advocate for both the 120 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: queer and their indigenous communities. They were featured in a 121 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two documentary title Being Thunder, which tells Harris's 122 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: story struggles and passions. They told Glad that they hoped 123 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: that quote the name of the Narragansett will be remembered again. 124 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: I mean to go from being the most powerful people 125 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: in the region to having under three thousand citizens at 126 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 1: this point in our tribal community. It is of the 127 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: utmost importance that we are seen when people watch the film, 128 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: I want them to see that we are still here. 129 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: I want them to reconsider the ideas that they have 130 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: around gender and two spirit people, and if they open 131 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: their perspective to other cultures, they would see just how 132 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: vast and diverse human experience is. So I hope it's 133 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: a learning opportunity. The documentary also only shows the tiniest 134 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: of glimpses of what Narroganstic people are like. There is 135 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: so much more to us beneath the surface, and I 136 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: hope that glimpse makes them want to learn more about us. 137 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 2: Right and when asked what they would tell young people today, 138 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: Harris said, we view our future and our past is connected. 139 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: All of this has happened before, and all of it 140 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: will happen again. There's peace in knowing that whatever injustices 141 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 2: you might face, and despite the pain you may know, 142 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: so intimately work to find peace. You might not be 143 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: able to, but nothing is forever if you can endure 144 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: through that journey, nothing is forever. Once that pain has 145 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: left you, I pray that you can regard it with 146 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: peace and respect for the role it has played in 147 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: your story. For our story would be terribly dull and 148 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 2: pointless if we did not all have our own battles. 149 00:07:55,800 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, as always, I can't wait to look into this more. Yeah, yes, 150 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: and come back to it later, I'm sure. But as 151 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:11,679 Speaker 1: always to listeners, if you have any suggestions for this segment, 152 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: please write in. You can email us at Stephanie and 153 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: mom Stuff at iHeartMedia dot com. 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