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Speaker 1: You are now a what I call her yeey.

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Speaker 2: It is way up with Angela Yee, Angela yee and

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Speaker 2: Happy Monday.

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Speaker 3: Woo man. Listen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got in from Houston this morning, so you

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Speaker 2: know what it is. I was at the Honey Lamb

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Speaker 2: Festival and I'll talk about that more and about last night.

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Speaker 2: And it was the first time they've done it. That

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Speaker 2: was like a food, drinks and music festival. It was

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Speaker 2: outdoors and if you're in that era, you know it

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Speaker 2: was raining yesterday. Dan, my producer's here. Yes, Dan, you

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Speaker 2: look like you're about to jump out of your seat

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Speaker 2: and your MIC's not a Okay, there we go. Good morning,

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Happy Monday. We do have some great guests

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Speaker 2: joining us today. The Invisible Ache is the name of

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Speaker 2: the book, Courtney B. Vance and doctor Robin Elsmith, you

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Speaker 2: know doctor Robin from Oprah and Courtney B. Vance actor.

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Speaker 2: And now the Hollywood strike is over, so we recorded

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Speaker 2: this interview just in all transparency, and so at that

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Speaker 2: time he wasn't allowed to.

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Speaker 3: Promote what he has going on.

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Speaker 2: But we'll discuss it ahead of him, all right, But

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Speaker 2: in the meantime, let's spread some love and positivity. Eight

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Speaker 2: hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty. Shine a light

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Speaker 2: eight hundred two nineteen fifty one fifty and guess what,

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Speaker 2: let's all live your life. It's Ti and Rihanna. It's

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Speaker 2: way up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 4: I'm a shine turn your lights on, y'all, light spreading

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Speaker 4: love to those who are doing greatness.

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Speaker 3: Shine a light on, shine a light on. It's time

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Speaker 2: It is way up at Angela yee. Happy Monday, and

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Speaker 2: let's spread some love and shine a light. I want

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Speaker 2: to shine a light today on bun b.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I was in Houston over the weekend and I was

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Speaker 2: there for the Honeyland Festival and at a lot of

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Speaker 2: that is about food. And he had his Chiro Burger's

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Speaker 3: That bumby was there.

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Speaker 2: I love when somebody is the face of a business

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Speaker 2: and it's their business, but they also are very present

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Speaker 3: Right Dan, you're shaking your head.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, yes.

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Speaker 2: And I actually got to try the veggie Trio Burger.

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Speaker 3: It was amazing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, show, this isn't me, but shout

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Speaker 2: out to you, bumby for doing doing a thing. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And now who do you want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred two nine fifty Liomi, how are you hi?

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Speaker 6: Everily? How are you the one good?

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Speaker 2: I love your energy already? You just made me perk up?

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Speaker 2: Put do you want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 7: I want to try the light out to my man.

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Speaker 7: That's not my man, but that's my man, Okay. I

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Speaker 7: want to try a lot on him because he's always

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Speaker 7: helping everybody out around him, me included. I just shot

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Speaker 7: my car, my own car, but he's been lending me

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Speaker 7: his car for like almost a whole year while I

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Speaker 2: I like that, and I like that you can acknowledge

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Speaker 2: like sometimes we take people for granted, but that is

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Speaker 8: Exactly, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 9: I mean he's not a perfect.

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Speaker 7: At all, a mess, but she's so good, so exactly.

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Speaker 7: I gotta be honest. I gotta be honest.

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Speaker 9: I gotta be honest.

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Speaker 3: Here, mess girl, but that's my mess.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's my mess by. I appreciate every little bit

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Speaker 3: All right, Well that was shine a light.

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred ninety fifty is a number in case you

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Speaker 2: a yea tea and let's talk about Drake and j Cole,

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Speaker 3: This way up with Angela, yee yea t is next.

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Speaker 4: They say in the rooms from industry shade to all

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Speaker 2: Way up with Angela, yea, I'm Angela. Ye's time for

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Speaker 2: some yet and shout out to Tim. She performed at

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Speaker 2: Honeyland Festival over the weekend too, the first ever Honeyland

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Speaker 2: getting to the money, by the way, and it's all

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Speaker 2: a blur tour, big as the What and Jay Cole

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Speaker 2: It kicks off January eighteenth and Denver, Colorado. Now feel

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Speaker 2: on the dates, like my producer Dan. Yeah, I'm you're sad,

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Speaker 2: Dates, if you're in Belmont Park, New York, if you're

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Speaker 2: in State College, Pennsylvania, Sunrise, Florida, Birmingham, Alabama, unfortunately for you,

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Speaker 2: J Cole will not be on those dates.

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Speaker 3: But I'm sure everybody's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Lined up to go see Drake, and I'm sure he'll

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Speaker 2: fill it in with somebody else. Right, All right, Now,

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Speaker 2: let's get into a Little Scrappy and Erica Dixon. The

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Speaker 2: it looks like now Little Scrappy and Erica Dixon may

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Speaker 2: potentially be rekindling their flames. If you watch Love and

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Speaker 2: Hip Hop, you know how we did not anticipate this happening,

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Speaker 2: this spinning of the black. But here's what the two

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Speaker 10: I'll be mad because me and my baby daddy, can

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Speaker 10: call parent and get to the money. I'm sorry you

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Speaker 10: can't get to the money with your baby daddy.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. He's not around.

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Speaker 10: I mean, step out, game up, say your frame up, sir.

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Speaker 10: Don't be mad at me.

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Speaker 5: I want my baby Mamado be mad at you. I

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Speaker 5: want my baby mama.

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Speaker 9: Though.

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Speaker 2: All right, now, this is also different because Bambi broke up.

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Speaker 2: Bamby and Scrappy broke up, and I'm sure she feels

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Speaker 2: And here's what Bamby had to say to Leah Henry

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Speaker 11: Did he give you any indication when y'all were in

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Speaker 3: Thing, because it's looking very comfortable to me.

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Speaker 12: No, No, he never did. And then the thing about

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Speaker 12: it is, honestly, I have completely moved on. But it's

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Speaker 12: like now looking back, when you've heard someone say the

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Speaker 2: All right, In addition to that, Chaotic has weight and

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Speaker 2: it feels like he's making a joke. But he posted

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Speaker 2: Scrappy and Erica eloped, y'all, that's why they ain't take

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Speaker 2: me to Vegas with them because Scrappy got a new

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Speaker 3: So don't know what's really.

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Speaker 2: Going on with the two of them, but apparently they've

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Speaker 2: spinning the block all right. Meek Mill has reacted to

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Speaker 2: first week sales projections for his joint project with Rick

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Speaker 2: Ross Too Good to be True. It looks like it's

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Speaker 2: estimated to do between thirty and thirty five thousand units

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Speaker 2: me and Rick rorels on Pace to sell thirty five

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Speaker 2: be rapping in a controlled music environment. That's why we

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Speaker 2: drop in music on Fridays. It doesn't make sense. Now

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Speaker 2: we all own our music. We get in the tech

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Speaker 2: buil to put people on our own musical subscriptions, and

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Speaker 2: we're gonna let direct to consumers see if rap is

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Speaker 2: doing well, and he said the streets loved this album too.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna use every drop of my talent now. I

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Speaker 2: that's what Meek Miil had to say about those numbers.

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Speaker 2: He also said that he never wanted to be on billboards.

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Speaker 2: And he also talked about the dangers of staring at

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Speaker 2: where I'm from. Big Papa is way up last night?

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Speaker 5: So about last night?

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Speaker 11: Last night?

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Speaker 5: Last night I went down.

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Speaker 2: It's way up with Adela Yee. I'm Angela Yee. Happy Monday,

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Speaker 2: and it's time for about last night.

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Speaker 10: Now.

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Speaker 3: Dan is here, yes, ma'am. We had some headphones sitting

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Speaker 3: here for Mayno. I don't know what happened to him.

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Speaker 2: Today because he's usually very excited for tell us a secret,

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Speaker 2: as you guys should be too. But for about last night. First,

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about my guy, Donelle Rawlings. Right

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Speaker 2: on Friday, he filmed his Netflix special. Of course Dave

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Speaker 3: It was really really good.

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Speaker 2: he taped one and this was in Charlotte. This was

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Speaker 2: it's good that he redid it, he said. Dave told him, Eh,

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Speaker 2: type of critique from somebody who wants what's best for you,

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Speaker 2: because it's also Dave's name on it too, so he's

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Speaker 2: not just saying that. And Donnelle said, at first he

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Speaker 2: so this one was amazing, So shout out to him.

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Speaker 2: I invited. I told Donelle I'm bringing I brought like

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Speaker 2: fifteen people with me because that's my guy.

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Speaker 3: I love Donnelle.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't understand like I've known Donell since before the

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Speaker 2: Chappelle Show.

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Speaker 3: He used to live in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 2: I used to go to all his stand up and

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Speaker 2: so he talked about that too, you know, being at

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Speaker 2: great time, my friend. There was an after party too.

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Speaker 2: By the way, my friends were very very lit at

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Speaker 3: A little stuffy?

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Speaker 5: Need some rest?

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Speaker 3: I need some rest, But we keep it moving guys.

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Speaker 3: And you know why.

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Speaker 2: It's on Monday, and so why don't you entertain me

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Speaker 2: with tell us a secret. Some people be thinking it's

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Speaker 2: hear and I'm not going to judge you. Eight hundred

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Speaker 2: once again. That's eight hundred two fifty one fifty is

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Speaker 5: This is a judgment free zone. Tell us a secret.

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Speaker 2: It's way up. Angela ye, I'm Angela yee. Happy Monday,

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Speaker 2: and it's time to tell us a secret. You guys

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Speaker 12: Hey, I'm good.

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Speaker 6: How are you Angelas?

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Speaker 3: I'm a good Thank you. You want to tell us a secret?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, dude had been hitting me up basically trying to

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Speaker 9: Months, uh huh, and I have been denying him.

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Speaker 6: So I basically told him that if he paid me

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Speaker 6: not get it up. But what I did do is

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Speaker 6: He's like, move in this position, do this, do that,

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Speaker 2: But I got some und Now why seven hundred dollars?

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Speaker 2: What made you pick that number?

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Speaker 11: You know?

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Speaker 6: I tried to like arguing with him first. I wanted

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Speaker 14: That was kind of the.

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Speaker 6: Most that I could get him to like break his bank,

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Speaker 3: You spoken to him since you.

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Speaker 6: Know, yeah, he wanted to do like a second try,

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Speaker 6: but I'm like, Rice is fun?

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Speaker 3: He said, no, Realiz, baby, it didn't work.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, read, no, I don't think I will do

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Speaker 6: I got in the situation. It was like, Okay, it

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Speaker 3: You didn't have to do anything. I could have been

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I wish Mayna was there so I could tell him.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm sure he's gonna I'm sure he's

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Speaker 3: And I don't know if you wish he was here

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Speaker 6: Know, yeah, he can't be a little judging.

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Speaker 3: What did you for sharing?

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Speaker 2: That was the easiest seven hundred dollars you ever made.

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Speaker 6: I think you are not judging me.

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Speaker 3: That's the whole point of this. It's no judgment or exactly.

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Speaker 6: So keep doing you and I appreciate all that you

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Thank you for calling. Hey, what's up,

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Speaker 3: anonymous caller? How are you? I'm good.

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Speaker 2: You want to tell us a secret? I wear Oh

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Speaker 2: you wear a lyft in your shoes. Okay, How tall

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Speaker 3: Okay? You're my height? Okay? And with the lyft, how

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Do you normally date taller women?

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Speaker 9: Small?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So why do you wear the lift? You just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like a walking around without them.

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Speaker 6: It feels like super weird.

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Speaker 2: It's like kind of like when we wear wait trainers

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Speaker 3: It's like a padded bra for your feet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well thank you for sharing. All right,

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Speaker 2: Well that was tell us a secret eight hundred two

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Speaker 2: nine fifty. In case you couldn't get through, you could

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Speaker 2: still leave a message. And when we come back, we

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Speaker 2: have your yee t and Finesse two times who would

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Speaker 2: will tell you what happened. Is way up at Angela

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Speaker 2: yee yo.

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Speaker 4: She's about to blow the lead ab off this butt.

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Speaker 4: Just get it angelus building that yeete, Come and get

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Speaker 2: All right, it is way up with Angela yee. I'm

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Speaker 2: Angela yee and it's time for some yet so Finess

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Speaker 2: two times has decided after being in a polygamous relationship

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Speaker 15: You know, I'm gonna put nagaminent like I like, I

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Speaker 3: But they know about each other.

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Speaker 5: Guy know we stay together.

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Speaker 3: Oh how many women?

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Speaker 5: Three?

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Speaker 3: All right? So he did it on point have three women.

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Speaker 2: But now he posted on social media, I'm focusing on

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Speaker 2: FNG sugar only. I don't need two to three women

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Speaker 2: no more. I got kids. That is ain't what up?

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Speaker 2: And now this ain't about no baby mama. Ish on

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Speaker 3: Give him some applause for that again.

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Speaker 2: I mean, good for you, all right now, money bag

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Speaker 2: I'm just listening. Oh okay, I'm not waiting in on

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Speaker 2: to Bobby's Storm. She's a Grammy nominated singer. Really excited

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Speaker 5: Can you please answer my question? Are you willing and

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Speaker 11: Right now?

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Speaker 5: I'm doing what the Lord is sound. I'm asking me

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Speaker 13: I need you to follow my instruction, my instruction tree

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Speaker 13: to answer my question, are you.

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Speaker 5: What do you if you're not able to be to

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Speaker 5: follow my instruction.

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Speaker 1: You will not be.

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Speaker 3: Taking this flight all right now.

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Speaker 2: Since then, she posted on social media, at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day, God is glorified, Temmy, how are you

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Speaker 2: choosing love on purpose? Blessings to you are from your

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Speaker 2: nominated album Also and here is what she had to say,

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Speaker 2: because Delta did reach out after this.

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Speaker 3: My thoughts are you know?

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Speaker 2: I fly a lot, and Dan and I had a

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Speaker 2: What if you're a different religion and it's being forced

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Speaker 2: nominated for two Grammys. That's really exciting. If I could sing,

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Speaker 2: I would have sang too. For a hot second, what

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Speaker 2: do you think Dan?

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Speaker 5: I get it?

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Speaker 13: And I also feel like it's not what you say,

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Speaker 13: it's how you say it. But on the flip side,

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Speaker 13: like I don't know, I write public transportation all the time.

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Speaker 13: When people start singing, I can't stand it, just like,

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Speaker 13: let me alone. It's nothing personal. It's no I have

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Speaker 13: no issue with you, like congratulations, y'ah, bless you, but le.

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Speaker 2: And maybe for me, I'm a New Yorker and I

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Speaker 2: it doesn't really bother me because I'm used to it.

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Speaker 2: You're going to you could ignore it, you know, or

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Speaker 2: you could not, or you could just be like, congratulations

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Speaker 3: Here's what you had to say about Delta reaching out

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Speaker 3: After Delta, they did reach out to me.

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Speaker 16: I don't want this man to be reprimanded where he

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Speaker 16: loses his job. I simply want us to keep in

445
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Speaker 16: mind how to treat each other. There was no rules

446
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Speaker 16: being broken, and it was just me spreading my joy

447
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Speaker 16: with people after they gave me the go to do so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so she was just spending some joy. And I

449
00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:42,959
Speaker 2: do feel like the way he talked to her was

450
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Speaker 2: a lot. You know, she's singing. She got nominated like

451
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Speaker 2: I would have been like, congratulations.

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Speaker 3: That is so dope.

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Speaker 2: Listen, you know, just out of respect for the other

454
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Speaker 2: people on the flight, if you could not sing on

455
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Speaker 2: the you know, you did your thing. Girl, congrats, but

456
00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:57,640
Speaker 2: let's keep it moving.

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Speaker 13: It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah so, but congratulations to you. Bobby's storm. That's a

459
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Speaker 2: huge deal. All right, Well that is your yet. And

460
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Speaker 2: when we come back, we have under the radar, and

461
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,840
Speaker 2: these are stories that are not necessarily in the headlines.

462
00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,200
Speaker 2: They are flying under the radar. You know what, Let's

463
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Speaker 2: talk about somebody else. A Starbucks worker. He actually gave

464
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Speaker 2: up all these different recipes. He's not working there anymore,

465
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Speaker 2: and he wants people to boycott. We'll give you a

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Speaker 2: full story. But when we come back again and under

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Speaker 2: the radar, right now, let's do some hate it or

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Speaker 2: love it.

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Speaker 3: It's a game feature in fifty cent. It's way up

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Speaker 3: that relates to you.

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Speaker 4: These stories are flying under the radar.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela ye. I'm Angela Yee, and

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Speaker 2: it's time for under the radar. We got to start

475
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Speaker 2: with this because we always want to make sure we

476
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Speaker 2: are doing our service to everybody. Krispy Kreme is giving

477
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Speaker 2: away free boxes of donuts.

478
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Speaker 3: It's World Kindness Day. So today that's the promotion.

479
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Speaker 2: Now, only the first five hundred guests that visit each

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Speaker 2: Krispy Kreme store that's participating, we'll get a free box

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Speaker 2: of donuts.

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Speaker 3: And it's taking place only in the United States. That's dope.

483
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Speaker 3: I'm here for it, all right.

484
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Speaker 2: So make sure you guys go get your krispy Kreme donut.

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Speaker 2: Krispy Kreme, you do, all right. Now, I want to

486
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Speaker 2: see what you guys think about this. The We Work founder,

487
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Speaker 2: we all know We Work as filed for bankruptcy.

488
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Speaker 3: Adam Newman.

489
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Speaker 2: He has a new house in Miami as the company

490
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Speaker 2: that he started that he's the founder of is going bankrupt.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people out of jobs, out of work.

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Speaker 2: They said, morale is horrific at we Work. But in

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Speaker 2: the meantime, Adam Newman is doing just fine. He's actually

494
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Speaker 2: worth about one point seven billion dollars and he's living

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Speaker 2: right by Jared Kushner and Ivanka Trump with their kids.

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Speaker 3: It's you know, that's a hard.

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Speaker 2: One because people hate to see you flaunch your wealth

498
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Speaker 2: while the people who worked at your company got burned

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Speaker 2: the way that they have.

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Speaker 3: But what can you do? That's his personal.

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Speaker 5: That's tough.

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Speaker 3: Why you say it's tough.

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Speaker 13: Because all those people just lost everything. Let's say, you know,

504
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Speaker 13: all those people that were at high in ranking positions

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Speaker 13: in that job, they just lost it, and here he

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Speaker 13: is living.

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Speaker 2: But you know, so that's why people start companies, and

508
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 2: it doesn't a lot of times it doesn't affect your

509
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Speaker 2: personal wealth.

510
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Speaker 3: Your company can go bankrupt.

511
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Speaker 2: And they did oust him from the company, so he

512
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Speaker 2: hasn't been there for a while. But he's also launching

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Speaker 2: something new, right So right now he has a company

514
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Speaker 2: called Flow.

515
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Speaker 3: It's his latest startup.

516
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Speaker 2: He got a three hundred and fifty million dollar investment

517
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Speaker 2: already for that company, and there are mega investors. It

518
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Speaker 2: has a one billion dollar valuation as of August of

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty two, and it hasn't even launched yet. They're

520
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Speaker 2: going to build rental communities that will farster a feeling

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Speaker 2: of ownership and community. Another another project, all right, could

522
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Speaker 2: be interesting, I don't know, But that's just a tough

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Speaker 2: one to see somebody just thriving in that way and

524
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Speaker 2: you're like, eh, all right, and now let's talk about Starbucks.

525
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Speaker 2: Starbucks worker has encouraged people to boycott, and in the

526
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Speaker 2: midst of doing all that, he went on TikTok to

527
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Speaker 2: expose some drink recipes before he quit.

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Speaker 3: And this's got a whole lot of views.

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Speaker 2: Wants you to boycott, but he wants you to be

530
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Speaker 2: able to make these drinks you love at home.

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Speaker 3: Here's what he said, welcome back.

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Speaker 12: To my series where I show you how to make

533
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Speaker 12: all the different Starbucks drinks as somebody who's about to

534
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Speaker 12: leave the company, So you can participate in your boycott and.

535
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Speaker 5: Still be able to drink all of the drinks in.

536
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Speaker 2: The world too, all right, And the context of all

537
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Speaker 2: of this is he is upset about the ongoing conflict

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Speaker 2: between Starbucks corporate and their union and their stance on

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Speaker 2: the Israel Palestine conflict in the Middle East, and so

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Speaker 2: he wants people to boycott, but make these.

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Speaker 3: Drinks at home.

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Speaker 5: Sounds like a lawsuits.

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Speaker 2: Oh that he gave out that information. Yeah, there's an

544
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Speaker 2: NDIA and you're not allowed to do that. It does

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Speaker 2: sound like what Yeah, but if he doesn't have anything,

546
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Speaker 2: then it wouldn't matter if he's not. You know, when

547
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Speaker 2: you get sued if you don't have the money, then what.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well that is your under the radar, and you know

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Speaker 2: we got that way up mixed at the top of

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Speaker 2: the hour on a Monday. Plus, we have special guests

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Speaker 2: Courtney B. Vance and doctor Robin L. Smith joining us

553
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Speaker 2: about their book The Invisible Eche black Men, Identifying their

554
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Speaker 2: Pain and Reclaiming their Power.

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Speaker 3: It's way up with Angela Yee, just.

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Speaker 2: Like the tut like they Angela Jean like they Angela

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Speaker 2: Jean Man.

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Speaker 4: She's spilling it all.

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Speaker 3: This is yet way all right. It's the way you

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Speaker 3: put the Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee. Happy Monday. Let's

561
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Speaker 3: get into some ye t all right.

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Speaker 2: Dave East was on the My Expert Opinion podcast and

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Speaker 2: one of the things that he talked about was not

564
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Speaker 2: drinking Lean anymore. And I love when people give up

565
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Speaker 2: Lean because honestly, I haven't seen her do anything positive

566
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 2: and we've seen so many different people really struggle with

567
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Speaker 2: that and even die from it. So here's what Davi's

568
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Speaker 2: had to say, Draja and.

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Speaker 5: Test us up. Dehydrate shit body. That used to scare

570
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Speaker 5: me because I could be chilling sipping and go to

571
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Speaker 5: sleep and wake up with the putting me on the floor,

572
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Speaker 5: real pain.

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Speaker 17: And I went through that getting off this in my

574
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Speaker 17: mind while I was having some m if this is

575
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Speaker 17: the pain I'm gonna feel every time I don't got this.

576
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Speaker 3: I can't do this, all right?

577
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Speaker 2: And then he also shared that when he asked uh

578
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Speaker 2: most of his friends and loved ones, they hated it,

579
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Speaker 2: and they revealed that he actually lost one of his

580
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Speaker 2: close friends who also abused the substance, and so he

581
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Speaker 2: said his death scared him while reflecting on what would

582
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: have become of himself if he continued to keep on

583
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Speaker 2: drinking that lean. So you got to make sure, Yeah, Dan,

584
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Speaker 2: you were going to say something.

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Speaker 13: No, I mean, it's it's great to hear when people

586
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Speaker 13: open up about why they left, why they stopped doing that, and.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully that will discourage people from even starting. And also

588
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: for people who are listening and maybe already indulging, that

589
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 2: might encourage you to be like, I do need to

590
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Speaker 2: stop doing this too. I remember Paul Wall talking about

591
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Speaker 2: it before and the weight that he had gained from it,

592
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Speaker 2: and how it slows down your metabolism, so much of it,

593
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Speaker 2: when I said, and having to really kick that habit,

594
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Speaker 2: all right, Keiki Palmer oh Man, her ex Darius Jackson.

595
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Speaker 2: Jackson is denying these abuse allegations against him, and TMZ

596
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 2: has some new information. Now I guess he's attempting to

597
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Speaker 2: put out messages between himself and a phone call that happened,

598
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Speaker 2: and we're going to explain this all. So here's the

599
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Speaker 2: phone call. So this is Keiki Palmer's mother who is

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Speaker 2: talking to.

601
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Speaker 3: Him, watch out with a bullet in your.

602
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: All right, So he's saying that Kiki's Pama's mother threatened

603
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Speaker 2: to put a bullet in his head. And then there

604
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 2: were some messages between Kiki's mom and Darius's mother.

605
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Speaker 3: It says, hello, Sharon, how are you.

606
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Speaker 2: I've tried not to get involved in my son's personal business,

607
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Speaker 2: but I heard that you were going to put a

608
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Speaker 2: bullet in my son's head. Well, then now we have

609
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Speaker 2: to involve the authorities because you don't respect or value

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Speaker 2: yourself and I can see not my son's life. You

611
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Speaker 2: might have to kill all of us. I will follow

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Speaker 2: a police report on you now, all right. Now, There

613
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Speaker 2: is also an update to that on TMZ. It says

614
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Speaker 2: a source close to Keiki Palmer says Darius Jackson made

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Speaker 2: his way into her home that Sunday, began to cuss

616
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Speaker 2: Keky out as.

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Speaker 3: She was on the phone with Sharon, her mom, and.

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Speaker 2: We're told that she made the third about the bullet

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Speaker 2: because she fared for her daughter's safety and couldn't be

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Speaker 2: there in person to protect Kiki. So the messages that

621
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Speaker 2: he put out was really just that's what happened behind

622
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Speaker 2: the scenes. He went into the house, was threatening her

623
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Speaker 2: at Kiki's mom couldn't do it. I think any mom

624
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Speaker 2: would say that about their child, I'll put a bullet

625
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Speaker 2: in your head.

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Speaker 3: Not that you you know, would do.

627
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Speaker 2: That, but in defense of your child, and knowing that

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Speaker 2: there's a baby in the house, that's the type of

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Speaker 2: conversations that could take place. It's just sad to see

630
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Speaker 2: all of this playing out while they have an infant

631
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Speaker 2: son and that they have to go through this. And

632
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Speaker 2: I'm sure for Kiki having given birth to a baby,

633
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Speaker 2: this is not easy to have All of this public.

634
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Speaker 13: Happened so quickly too.

635
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: When day you're in love and you know, people talk

636
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Speaker 2: about the warning signs. They hated what he had to

637
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: say when she was at the Usher concert and he

638
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: told her, you know you're a mom, you shouldn't be

639
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 2: that was for people a red flag, and then all

640
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 2: of this is happening, and so I feel like she's

641
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 2: constantly try to keep things private when it comes to

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Speaker 2: her relationship, but unfortunately this is spilling over, and you know,

643
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Speaker 2: we'll see as everything plays out.

644
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Speaker 3: We just want to show our supports, all right, nas.

645
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Speaker 2: His audition tape for Paid and Full has appeared online.

646
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Speaker 2: I love watching these audition tapes. Somebody just recently had

647
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Speaker 2: one that was that was pretty good, awesome. I'm trying

648
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Speaker 2: to remember who it was, but anyway, here's his audition tape.

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Speaker 5: Yo. Ways right, shure yo.

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Speaker 14: This new ful fitty got the dual gold rims with

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Speaker 14: the golden sitting off front. He's got the tour on

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Speaker 14: the hood right living.

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Speaker 2: You know, I feel like they should they be allowed

654
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Speaker 2: to put these things out because sometimes it's a little embarrassing,

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Speaker 2: Like you're doing an audition tape. You don't think the

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Speaker 2: world is going to see it. It's supposed to be

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Speaker 2: just for somebody to see.

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Speaker 13: But you know, have you ever done an audition tape.

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Speaker 2: I've auditioned for things, so I'm sure there's tapes that exist. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I didn't make it myself, but yeah, I'm sure I

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Speaker 2: don't even remember it was probably so, you know, I

662
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 2: don't know if I really have. I'm trying to think

663
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: if I've ever liked audition. People have asked me to

664
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: do things and they've been like, come in and read

665
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: for this, so yeah, so yeah, definitely.

666
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 3: And I also want to talk about this movie, the Marvels.

667
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: It debuted with forty seven million dollars and they're saying

668
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 2: that's like a low yeah for Marvel Marvels. But I

669
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 2: do want to note that it was a strike going on,

670
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 2: so normally people were and you know, I hate this

671
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: because a woman, a black woman, actually directed this, Yeah,

672
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 2: Nia DaCosta. So I just hate that for her because

673
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 2: it's not that it was a difficult time to put

674
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: out a movie when people could not promote.

675
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 3: And it was also led by women too.

676
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 13: So yeah, Marvel always puts so much into their.

677
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: Yes, marketing, yeah, and promotions, so it just kind of

678
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: was like a bad timing for something like that to happen.

679
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 3: So go and support.

680
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 2: All right, Well that is your yee tee and when

681
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 2: we come back, we have asked yee eight hundred two

682
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: nine two fifty one fifty any question.

683
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: You have when you are here to help. Its way

684
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 3: up with Angela.

685
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 4: Girl, whether it's relationship or career advice, Angela's dropping.

686
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 11: Facts, you should ask what's up?

687
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 3: Its way up at Angela Ye.

688
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: I'm Angela yee, and it's time for ask ye eight

689
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 2: hundred and two ninety two fifty one fifty anything you

690
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: have going on, I'm here to help.

691
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 3: What's up? Candice? How are you?

692
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 11: I'm blessed?

693
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 16: How are you?

694
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 3: Oh? I'm blessed too. In that case, what's your question today?

695
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 11: I was in an abusive relationship for over eight years

696
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 11: and I've been out of it for years now, and

697
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 11: what I'm asking is how do I get back out

698
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 11: there in the dating world because I ugly myself up

699
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 11: so I can't attract guys or women, and now I

700
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 11: want to get back out there.

701
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: All right, Well, first of all, I think before you

702
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: even date, you got to learn to love yourself again.

703
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 3: And trust me, I know that's not easy.

704
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: After coming out of an unhealthy relationship where this person

705
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: was abusive towards you. First of all, you got out

706
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: and some people don't even do that. So, like you

707
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 2: said that, you are blessed and you deserve happiness. You

708
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: deserve love. But now the important part is building yourself

709
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 2: back up again. Have you ever gotten help from anybody?

710
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 11: So I'm getting my mind back, Okay, my body, but

711
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 11: now it's like I want my heart.

712
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 2: Yes, and be patient with yourself because it does take

713
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 2: time to heal from your past. Now, one thing I

714
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: always say about relationships that's a positive thing is that

715
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 2: when you go through something like that, you know what

716
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: to look for in the future and what those signs

717
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: are and what you don't want.

718
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 11: Being in an abusive relationship. Sometimes you don't see the

719
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 11: red signs until it's too.

720
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Speaker 2: Late, right, But I think now moving forward, like trust

721
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: yourself and your instincts and it's okay for you discuss

722
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 2: your past relationship. I think going to therapy that's going

723
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: to be an ongoing thing. You definitely have PTSD from

724
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 2: your past traumatic situations, and.

725
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 3: So you know with that that's going to be a constant.

726
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 2: You making sure that you're speaking to someone being open

727
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 2: and honest, being able to communicate and anybody you do

728
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: decide to give a chance to and talk to, just

729
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: make sure that somebody that you can communicate with and

730
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 2: be open with about things that you've gone through. So

731
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: that if something triggers you or reminds you of any

732
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: type of behavior that you've experienced in the past, you

733
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: can let them know right away. I think it's important

734
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 2: to know what you're looking for, too, like what is

735
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: it that you want in a person, and that might

736
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 2: mean that you decide those things and then perhaps a

737
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: matchmaker might be something good if you're serious about that.

738
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: Even online dating, so you can talk to somebody before

739
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Speaker 2: you even take those steps to meet in person.

740
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Speaker 11: That's something to think about.

741
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Speaker 5: I didn't even think about.

742
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Speaker 8: It like that.

743
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Yeah, like just getting Yeah, no, listen, it's

744
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 2: scary no matter what, because you know, dating today.

745
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 8: Is really beautiful.

746
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 11: For so many years, I've ugly myself up and it's like,

747
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 11: oh my god, I'm beautiful, but I don't know how

748
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,719
Speaker 11: to do that now.

749
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Speaker 3: Can this date yourself first?

750
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 2: Like, do some things really positive for yourself, you know,

751
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 2: go and do what you need to do, get that

752
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 2: make over, get that new haircut, whatever it is that

753
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: you need to do to feel better about yourself, because,

754
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 2: like you said, you are beautiful and you can't let

755
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 2: somebody else's pass what they've done dictate you moving forward

756
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: in the future because you don't want that to continue

757
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: to have a hold on you. What you can say

758
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 2: is I learned from that situation. I survived it, and

759
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 2: now I'm ready to learn.

760
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 3: I've learned.

761
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Speaker 11: I've survived, And I talked to other women that I

762
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 11: see is going through things, and that was the biggest

763
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 11: thing for me. I didn't think about, Okay, why is

764
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 11: this happening to me? I thought about, okay, now, what

765
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 11: can I do to help someone else?

766
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 14: Right?

767
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 11: See the signs and not have to go through this.

768
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Speaker 3: So I talk to women and I tell women and men.

769
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 11: Yeah, I was an abusive relationship.

770
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 3: And this is what it does.

771
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: And talk to yourself too, you know, and prioritizing yourself

772
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: and your self care and making sure that you are

773
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 2: at your back, you know, whether that's thinking about like

774
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: what you're eating, because sometimes even just changing our diet.

775
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: I was talking about this over the weekend.

776
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: Just sometimes certain things make us feel more energetic, better

777
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: about ourselves, making sure we're getting the proper nutrients. But

778
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: then also, like you said, physically putting yourself together the

779
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 2: way that you know, you know, you fly all right,

780
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 2: so get back.

781
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 11: To try to But you know what though, what keeps

782
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 11: me knowing on fly is listening to you every day,

783
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 11: and that's what made me get the seriously, that's what

784
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 11: made me get the courage to actually call in and

785
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 11: tell you.

786
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Speaker 3: You know, and for your advice, well, thank you, Kennie.

787
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: And listen.

788
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 2: Group settings, I think that's always a great thing. Do

789
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: you have friends and family, like a support system of

790
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 2: people around you.

791
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 11: I have a small support system because it's again hard

792
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 11: for me to trust. So some friends that I had

793
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 11: that were really, really truly good friends with what I

794
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 11: was going through, I kind of pushed them away and

795
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 11: alienated them because I was afraid of them and made

796
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 11: it really right. So now now that I'm starting to

797
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 11: get out there more, I started to reach out and

798
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 11: I started to be honest with how my friends what

799
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 11: I was going through.

800
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: That's right, this is not going to have a control

801
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: over you anymore. So I just want to say, like, even,

802
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: don't put that pressure on yourself, right, just get back

803
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: to you. But group settings, going out with your friends,

804
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: just even being outside again, just having conversations with people,

805
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: all of that so that you could feel a little

806
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 2: bit more comfortable and pay attention to your instincts still,

807
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: you know, And so now you know and and just

808
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: go outside like it's there's people out there, there's I

809
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: believe there's more good people than bad people in this world. Okay,

810
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 2: and that's a fact. And everybody don't got to be

811
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: a potential mate. It could be just you know, a

812
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:46,879
Speaker 2: potential friend.

813
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 6: Want right now?

814
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 11: Yeah, I just want friends and just let whatever happened

815
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 11: is supposed to happen.

816
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 5: But now I'm more aware.

817
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 3: Okay, well, ken this, I look forward to you being

818
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 3: back outside. Thank you so much. What should have been

819
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 3: in here Detroit?

820
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh okay, you know I love the d I'm

821
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: gonna be out there December second and December seventeen, so

822
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna look for you.

823
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 3: Hit me up, dm me you know what.

824
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 11: I thank you and I appreciate you.

825
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: Maybe we'll go do some hot yoga anything.

826
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 5: I would greatly appreciate it.

827
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Speaker 2: LCD Studios, all right, hold on the line, okay, yes, ma'am. Okay,

828
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 2: all right, Well that was ask ye. And when we

829
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: come back, we have very special guests joining us, Courtney B.

830
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: Vance and doctor Robin L. Smith with their book The

831
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: Invisible Ache, Black Men Identifying their Pain and Reclaiming their Power.

832
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela. Ye doan you said, let's

833
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 3: kidd let's go.

834
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 5: Way up with Angela. He is back to set off

835
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 5: your workday.

836
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,240
Speaker 3: What's up? It's way up with Angela.

837
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 5: Yee.

838
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 3: I'm Angela yee. My guy Mano is all right.

839
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 2: And we have Courtney B. Vance and doctor Robin el

840
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 2: Smith here talking about this book, The Invisible Ache. The

841
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: lot of this book is about black men identifying their

842
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 2: pain and may know, I feel like it's somebody that

843
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: hasn't tapped into.

844
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 15: That I tapped in understandable that as a black man

845
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 15: that there's a lot of issues that we haven't addressed.

846
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 15: I spent a lot of years in prison, you know,

847
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 15: you couple that with just being in the type environment

848
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 15: that I grew up in. Did is a lot of

849
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 15: things that we haven't dealt with and you don't know

850
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 15: until later on. I went through a period of time

851
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 15: while I was getting a lot of therapy because I

852
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 15: had needed it at that time. But I think therapy

853
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 15: is you can continue to get it. I don't think

854
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 15: you can get it for a time a certain time

855
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 15: and then stopped.

856
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's why we're here, That's what the Invisible

857
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 3: Way is about. And let me just say something.

858
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Speaker 18: I love what you just said about being in prison,

859
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 18: not that you were there, but everybody's in prison, whether

860
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 18: they know it or not. Some people are locked up,

861
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,720
Speaker 18: which is different than the prison we have in our minds,

862
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 18: and is that prison that many black men, black boys,

863
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 18: and black people do not realize that just because we

864
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 18: are no longer enslaved does not mean there are not

865
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 18: shackles on our thoughts, on our minds, that we are

866
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 18: not living into lies instead of the truth about who

867
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 18: we were destined and born to be.

868
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Speaker 2: The way you guys put this book together is very unique.

869
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 2: We have doctor Rabin, who we've all seen and very

870
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 2: acclaimed therapists psychiatrists from OPRAH, and then of course Courtney

871
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: b Vance, who, by the way, besides being just an

872
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: extraordinary actor, but you guys came together to do this book,

873
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 2: and Courtney you shared a lot of things about yourself

874
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 2: that also led to you seeking out therapy. And then

875
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 2: doctor Rabin you also explained in these chapter as he

876
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: was talking about things from his childhood and his adulthood

877
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 2: that led to you guys kind of coming to get

878
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 2: her to do this.

879
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 3: What made you decide this was necessary?

880
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 17: Well, it's necessary for me because I was in I

881
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 17: was shackled and didn't realize it until my mother asked

882
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Speaker 17: my sister and I after we spend a month getting

883
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Speaker 17: my mother's affairs together. After my thought that passed away,

884
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Speaker 17: she challenged us as we were about to leave. She said,

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Speaker 17: I want you to get some therapy, find a therapist, and.

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Speaker 18: Courtney because Doty Vance died by suicide, so you didn't

887
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Speaker 18: just pass away by suicide.

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00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 3: So that's what mommy said.

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Speaker 11: We're going do.

890
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: We got to do this right now, Mano and I

891
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: are talking to actor Courtney B. Vance and doctor Robin L.

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Speaker 3: Smith. I have like twenty questions from what you just said.

893
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Speaker 2: Number one from the book, you talked about even getting

894
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Speaker 2: a therapist the right person. That's important to discuss, right

895
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Speaker 2: because sometimes you can be turned off if you haven't experience.

896
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 2: You're going to talk to somebody you had that experience

897
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 2: where it just wasn't the right fit. Sometimes we feel

898
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Speaker 2: like our therapist has to look like us, right, and

899
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: you know, do I need to have a black person?

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Speaker 2: So I want you to discuss the process of finding

901
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Speaker 2: the right therapist for you and if you don't have

902
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Speaker 2: the right person, to make sure that it's like dating

903
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 2: kind of you have to find somebody that you're compatible with,

904
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Speaker 2: So can you talk about that?

905
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Speaker 17: Which is why you've got to be ready for the journey.

906
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 17: You've got to say I'm doing this for me and

907
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 17: I'm in it for the long haul. There's so many obstacles.

908
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Speaker 17: Even when you find a therapist, it's like, oh, it's

909
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Speaker 17: my therapy night.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 17: You know, there's so many reasons to say I'm not

912
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Speaker 17: going to do it. But I had gotten to the

913
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Speaker 17: place where I was at the end of my rope,

914
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Speaker 17: but not the end of my hope.

915
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Speaker 18: You know, when we talk about how to find the

916
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Speaker 18: right therapists, people will say maybe the person needs to

917
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Speaker 18: be black because I'm Black, they need to be Christian

918
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 18: because I'm Christian. And so I will ask people when

919
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Speaker 18: you go for if you have to have heart surgery

920
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Speaker 18: or eye surgery, do you ask for a black surgeon?

921
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 18: Do you know what you want to know is can

922
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Speaker 18: you get me off the table alive a little bit right?

923
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Speaker 3: And so many of us miss out.

924
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Speaker 18: And I understand why Courtney and I talk about this

925
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Speaker 18: because we as black people have.

926
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Speaker 3: Been experimented on.

927
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Speaker 18: There's no question that our suspicion makes sense, and it's

928
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 18: our responsibility to understand that that's just another way to

929
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Speaker 18: keep us out of the game of our own lives,

930
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Speaker 18: meaning to make us afraid, so afraid that we don't

931
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Speaker 18: go to doctors. And black men you know, who are

932
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 18: dying and get this dying more of prostate cancer but

933
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 18: diagnosed because they're not diagnosed because they don't go. So

934
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Speaker 18: we get it less, but we die more. We get

935
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 18: breast cancer less, Black women, but we die more. What

936
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Speaker 18: we see now with suicides is Black children are dying

937
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Speaker 18: at a higher rate of suicide than any other population

938
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Speaker 18: in this country.

939
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Speaker 3: All right, we have Courtney B.

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Speaker 2: Vance and doctor rabin El Smith here with us discussing

941
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 2: their book The Invisible Ache, black Men identifying their pain

942
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 2: and reclaiming their power.

943
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 3: Really powerful conversation for anybody listening.

944
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: May show you tune in eight hundred two nineteen fifty

945
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Speaker 2: one fifty if you want to leave a message there.

946
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Speaker 3: Here we have more when we come back. It's way up.

947
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Speaker 16: It's good.

948
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Speaker 5: With Angela. Heu is back to set off your work.

949
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Speaker 12: Dad.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

951
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 2: Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee, and

952
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: Mana was here with me and we are talking to

953
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: Courtney B. Vans and doctor Robin L. Smith about their

954
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 2: book The Invisible Ache, black Men, identifying their pain and

955
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: Reclaiming their Power. I definitely wanted made her to be

956
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 2: here for this interview. So, mano, you have a question

957
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 2: in the world that.

958
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Speaker 15: We live in having responsibilities, you know, being a black

959
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 15: man and having so many responsibilities, it's almost I felt

960
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Speaker 15: like I don't even have the luxury to be able.

961
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Speaker 3: To not be okay, not be okay.

962
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Speaker 15: I've dealt with so much and I deal with so

963
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 15: much that it's like a numb I don't ignore things,

964
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Speaker 15: I deal with them. But I feel like I don't

965
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 15: have the luxury of not being okay. I don't have

966
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Speaker 15: the luxury of being able to just, you know, say

967
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Speaker 15: all right, I just want to take this time off

968
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Speaker 15: to deal with with me or self care, like I

969
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Speaker 15: don't think and that's.

970
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Speaker 17: Fine, but I think we're talking about little bitty starting small.

971
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Speaker 17: Last night, I was just in my in the hotel room.

972
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Speaker 17: I need to go get some there just for me.

973
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Speaker 17: When I come back, I know I feel better because

974
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 17: I just I know what it does for me. You

975
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 17: need what you know, what you need to do for yourself,

976
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 17: and sometimes after everybody else is taken care of, I'm

977
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 17: gonna go for a black ride and they know that

978
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 17: about me. Daddy's gonna get on the bike and he's

979
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 17: gonna and I'll be back. And if you need me,

980
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 17: you know how to get me. M M, text me,

981
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 17: call me whatever. But I need to go do for me,

982
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 17: just something for you, something.

983
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Speaker 18: And so this is this is what when you said,

984
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 18: you don't, you know, have the luxury, and I said

985
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 18: to you, you don't have the luxury, not to do

986
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 18: it small things because the issue of worthiness, I mean

987
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 18: really of black boys and black men feeling that they

988
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 18: are worthy of being cared for and that they are

989
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 18: worthy of caring for themselves in even if the people

990
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 18: around them mothers, fathers, women, whoever, even if someone in

991
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 18: a society that sees you as a threatened danger. There

992
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Speaker 18: is something about rewiring your own brain.

993
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 15: Right, That's the that's the thing. We don't grow up

994
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 15: feeling that we can show true, honest emotion. Yes, we

995
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 15: shy away from them.

996
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 3: It could be dangerous. Literally, people lose their lives.

997
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 15: Yeah, right, So it's it's it's so many different elements

998
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 15: you know, in this world that helps to prevent us

999
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 15: from being able to be as vulnerable.

1000
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 18: You know, but if that's my superpower, right, but we

1001
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 18: have to learn that, right, right, we do that. But

1002
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 18: wouldn't that be just like the system to want me

1003
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 18: to not claim what will make me even more?

1004
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 12: Right?

1005
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 5: Right?

1006
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 11: Right?

1007
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 18: I feel we're saying to say, so that's part of

1008
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 18: the thing. It's it's to keep us thinking I can't afford, right,

1009
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 18: it's to keep me fan right that that I better.

1010
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 18: I better show nothing.

1011
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 1: You know.

1012
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 18: I always say where it says never let them see

1013
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 18: you sweat, and I'm like, that's good for a commercial,

1014
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 18: but it's not good for a soul.

1015
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 3: Well there, you guys so much for coming through the

1016
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 3: invisible ache. Courtney B.

1017
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 2: Vans and doctor Robin L. Smith just amazing to have

1018
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 2: been able to read this. I highly recommend black men

1019
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: identifying their pain and reclaiming their power. In particular Mana,

1020
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: who is a very close their friend of mine. I

1021
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 2: wanted to make sure, thank you so much he was

1022
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 2: here for this. I could already tell it.

1023
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 3: Men a lot to you. Yeah, now, I appreciate you.

1024
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 15: I really believe in this, you know, with my background

1025
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 15: and not having outlets or not feeling vulnerable enough to

1026
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 15: even look for outlets to deal with some of the

1027
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 15: things that's going on.

1028
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 17: But see when you come through this and look, I'm

1029
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 17: gonna speak pathetically, it's already done.

1030
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 5: What a ministry. You have to be able to talk

1031
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 5: to people that know you and be able to say

1032
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 5: this is what I was, is what I came through.

1033
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 5: Come on, you can come with can you do it?

1034
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 5: You know?

1035
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 17: I mean, it's that's that's why I said, for me

1036
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 17: thirty years ago, I was in prep for today.

1037
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Speaker 8: You know.

1038
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 17: So our children are eighteen and if I hadn't done

1039
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 17: the work, I wouldn't have met Angela.

1040
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 5: But you know, so I'm I'm you in prep work

1041
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 5: for what's about that age?

1042
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Speaker 9: Yeah?

1043
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 17: You know so that's that's why I said, it's life work.

1044
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 17: You have to do it, you know, because you know

1045
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 17: you don't know what he's got planned for you. You

1046
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 17: got some you got to get ready.

1047
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 3: You got Angelo. That's what I heard.

1048
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 5: I appreciate you.

1049
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 4: I appreciate you more.

1050
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 3: All right. Thank you so much to Courtney Bevince and

1051
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 3: doctor Robin L. Smith for joining us.

1052
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 2: You can pick up their book The Invisible Ache if

1053
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 2: you want to see the full interview. It's on my

1054
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: YouTube channel at Way Up with You and when we

1055
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 2: come back, of course, you guys have the last word.

1056
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 3: It's Way up.

1057
00:46:58,960 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 5: Get your voice heard.

1058
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 3: The word gives the last word on Way Up with

1059
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Speaker 3: Angela Yee.

1060
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Speaker 2: What's up as Way Up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela

1061
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 2: Yee and Happy Monday. Next week is the holiday, so

1062
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 2: make sure you guys are prepared for all of that.

1063
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 2: I got to get my house cleaning in effect and

1064
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 2: get that done because.

1065
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Speaker 3: It is a mess. Guys.

1066
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Speaker 2: All right, well, thank you to Courtney B. Vance and

1067
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Speaker 2: doctor Robin L. Smith for joining us. You can pick

1068
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Speaker 2: up their book, The Invisible Eight. You can watch that

1069
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: full interview on our YouTube channel at Way Up with

1070
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 2: ye It is an amazing conversation and of course we'll

1071
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Speaker 2: be back tomorrow with more Way Up with Angela Yee.

1072
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Speaker 2: You guys, have a safe rest of your day, and

1073
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:35,760
Speaker 2: let's hear your last words.

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Speaker 9: My secret is when I was sixteen seventeen inch years old,

1075
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 9: ye're living with my mother. I did not want to

1076
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Speaker 9: get in trouble staying out too late with the boy,

1077
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Speaker 9: and I faked a whole like being abducted and kidnapping.

1078
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Speaker 9: I know it's so horrible, but I did that. I

1079
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Speaker 9: drove some miles from home as if I was taken

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Speaker 9: and left there writch my clothes and everything.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Angela Yee, this is a call from book friends.

1082
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Speaker 8: I am calling because when I am on the train

1083
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Speaker 8: in the morning, I do not want anyone yelling, especially

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Speaker 8: in the morning on my way to work. I just

1085
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Speaker 8: want to read my book quietly. When I get on

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Speaker 8: the train in the afternoon, I don't want to hear

1087
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Speaker 8: anyone banging on drunks because again, I want to read

1088
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Speaker 8: my book quietly.

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Speaker 5: I'm going way out with Angela Yee.