1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all. 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 2: Is Laurena Rosa with the latest with Laurna Rosa on 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 2: Black Effects and I cannot wait to see you guys 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: at the fourth Annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. Okay, we're 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 2: coming back to Atlanta, Georgia on Saturday, April twenty fifth 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 2: at Palman Yards and it's hosted by me alongside DJ 7 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: MV and charlottagnea God. We got drink chances of Noriega 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 2: and Djafing. 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He's No, I ain't spanking your thick 30 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: ass bitch. 31 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 3: It was a little thick and you want to be 32 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 3: a spade. 33 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: The way the donkey Okay, donkey, ain't that shrink? 34 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 4: That's all because you know what I was trying to say, 35 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 4: but I can't think of the line. 36 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: What's up? 37 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 5: Y'all's show girl lex p any show girl's writing a call? 38 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 5: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine. 39 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: Where a line speaks soberthright. 40 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 5: We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't gotten a 41 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 5: gift today. 42 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 1: And first things first, let me say the tie is 43 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: still here? Goddamn it? Please baby? Yeah, I mean may 44 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: be about to have a fit. 45 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: No, like we have to go through three by every 46 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 2: World War three and it's bag. 47 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 48 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: Well I went over the weekend and somebody at TSA 49 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 2: was like, I'm watching you tonight, I was like, be 50 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: nice in the comments. I'm not gonna be there. My 51 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 2: homegirl is doing it, but y'all gotta be nice to them. 52 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: I mean maybe in the comments, where can people take 53 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 2: a vacation? 54 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 1: Do y'all get PT? Can she get a little time off? Right? 55 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: Somebody says she could take Ptoh, but not too much. 56 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: Now that they said, I my girl be needing a 57 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 2: break to be kind Okay, be understanding. People have things 58 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: that they need to do, and my girl be books 59 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:17,399 Speaker 2: and busy as well. 60 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 61 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 2: Multiple business owners stop playing with hood, So what's TA? 62 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what is t I'm trying to think. Hmmm, oh, 63 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: existing being happy. 64 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: As you should, blissful. I have a story, Okay, I 65 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: got something. I got something. Well, it's not my story. 66 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: Y'all know. I'm an avid TikTok scroller. 67 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 5: You are and people are because people are constantly tagging 68 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 5: me and stuff. So I like to interact and you know, 69 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 5: do the things. I got tagged. Some people kept tagging 70 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 5: me in this post and it was nineteen minutes long. 71 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 5: I was like, I'm not watching this, like I'm not 72 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: watching it, but like somebody was like, oh my god, 73 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 5: at LEXP, You're a blessing. And I'm like, let me 74 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 5: see what this is. It was late at night. I'm 75 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 5: watching my you know, fruit AI videos. I'm watching the 76 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 5: Fruits are You. I was like, let me make a 77 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 5: little time, so I put it on two times speed 78 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 5: and I want to give this god shout out. I'm 79 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 5: not gonna tell the whole story because it's a long story, 80 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 5: but shout out to him because he's a good storyteller. 81 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: His name is at Himbo. 82 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 5: Poppy and he is a truck driver and he was 83 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 5: telling a story about how when you are a truck driver, 84 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 5: they will overwork you. 85 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: If you know you allow it or things like that. 86 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 5: And he was like he how he almost fell asleep 87 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 5: at the wheel and he was like, I almost lost 88 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 5: my life. He said, LEXP saved my life because I 89 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 5: was listening to Poor Minds and she screamed and it 90 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 5: woke him up. 91 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: He said he was steering off the road and. 92 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 5: He said, I literally he was like, I was listening 93 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 5: to Drea and lex P. He was like, I was 94 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 5: listening to them and I was like, okay, it kept 95 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 5: me entertained. Then as a story went on, he was 96 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 5: like I fell asleep again. He was like, and it 97 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 5: was a moment on the podcast where she screamed and. 98 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: It woke me up. 99 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 5: And mind you, the way he's telling the story, it's 100 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 5: very funny, but it kind of made me emotional a 101 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 5: little bit because it's little things like that that just 102 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 5: happened that It was like, Okay, it's not your time 103 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 5: right now, so things just happen in place. So it 104 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, friend, it was such a 105 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 5: good story. So long story short. If you listening to 106 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 5: poor minds, we'll save you. 107 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: Like Min's is out here saving lives. Okay, don't play 108 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 2: with us. We're living in our purpose. Yeah, and our 109 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 2: purpose is to save y'all clearly. 110 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 5: And somebody in the comments said lex P and the 111 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 5: P is for protector. I said, my hooton hollering is 112 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 5: here for something. 113 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 3: I'm born to be a protector. Yeah, word to be Yonce. 114 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, protecting folks. 115 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: It's good, you know. 116 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 5: And honestly, like I said, maybe it was because I 117 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 5: was just sleepy, but it was just really emotional because 118 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 5: he was like, he's a great storyteller. 119 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: Mind you. 120 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 5: It was a nineteen minute video I put it on 121 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 5: two time speed, but I ended up just listening to 122 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 5: it because it was a good story. I love good storytellers, 123 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 5: and I think that's things. 124 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: That we need. 125 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 5: Mini, though is crazy, but I put it on two 126 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 5: times speed and I was entertained. 127 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: So it ended up being ten minutes. 128 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 3: You know, you could have shortened it a little bit. 129 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 2: He could have put it on, he could have about 130 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 2: him none. 131 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: He put it on two times. I did. 132 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 5: That's what I said. It was ten minutes because I 133 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 5: put it on two times. It was nineteen. I put 134 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 5: it on two times, and I ain't gonna lie. He 135 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 5: shutting that shut up. But it was a It was entertaining. 136 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 5: Though I wasn't mad at it. I wasn't mad at it. 137 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: Got him to shut up. 138 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 2: He was almost permanently sulick pick but shout out to him. 139 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: It was a good story, though. He an amazing story. 140 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 2: You made it to tell the story. He made it, 141 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: and that's the most important part. Never would have made 142 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 2: it without me. He never would have made it without you. 143 00:06:54,560 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: Craziness. That's how you're No. I'm not talking about way screaming. 144 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: You know it's true. Okay, y'all we all here. 145 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 3: Doing the Lord's work. 146 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 5: Though, Can we talk about Christina Aguilera talk about way 147 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 5: because people were dragging me and they thought I never 148 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 5: said she couldn't sing right, and I need that to 149 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,559 Speaker 5: be just put out there from my words, from my mouth, 150 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 5: I think she can sing. I grew up listening to her, 151 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 5: you know. But no, I wasn't doing it again. I'm 152 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 5: talking about Come On Over. When Come On Over dropped, 153 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 5: it was a pop record that we were like, oh 154 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 5: my god, this is good and it was kind of 155 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 5: like that pop music that had. 156 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: An R and B. 157 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 5: Hey boy, don't you They had an R and B 158 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 5: flair to it. So I wasn't doing it again. I 159 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 5: was just giving an example of what she did for 160 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 5: the black girlies. 161 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 3: Exxina had the heads. 162 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: She is beautiful and yeah, every single way she had 163 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: plenty hiss and she can really sing, like I feel 164 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: like she could sing like she just sing with salt, 165 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: like she seemed like the British. 166 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 5: People, well this is the thing, okay, so white. I 167 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 5: think that a lot of times people get it. They 168 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 5: get mad because she she she does a lot of 169 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 5: runs and sometimes the runs may be unnecessary, but she 170 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 5: can sing. Now, I wouldn't compare her to like the 171 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 5: British singers. I wouldn't say she's soulful. She's not soulful 172 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 5: to me. 173 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: She's just. 174 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 5: One with a powerful voice. She has powerful vocals. I 175 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 5: wouldn't say she's so, she's not. That's not soul to me. 176 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. 177 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 3: It's a little soulful to me. She was on Mulan Rulee. 178 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 3: She was well, it was her hand. 179 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 2: Pink, they both, okay, exactly what sr and Pink have 180 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 2: the same they do. 181 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 5: Put her and Pink in the same category. I would too, 182 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 5: and neither are soulful. Pink is not soulful, Pink is 183 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 5: not so. No, and her and Christina sing alike. To 184 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 5: mea gives me more diva she get, Yeah, I'll give 185 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 5: her diva like the Whitney's and Mariah's like she okay, 186 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 5: stretching it. 187 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: Okay, you look at them. It's all right. I'm gonna 188 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: have the dollar back. 189 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: Well, you know, I just don't understand why on the 190 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 2: internet they're always trying to put bad beaches against each other. 191 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: The great we are all bad. 192 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: Beaches in this room, and Christina is a bad beach too, 193 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 2: and we love her and we would love for her 194 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: to come on the show. 195 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 3: I do hope I didn't help me calling. 196 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 5: Her a bad beaches not no, she knows she's a 197 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 5: bad she's a bad bit dirty. 198 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like, we love Christina. We are millennials, 199 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: like that. 200 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: Was our era. 201 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: We grew up on Christina and Brittany and Backstreet Boys. 202 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: And anythinc like that was our era. 203 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: Mandy Moore come on Nova, that. 204 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: Was OK, but you was. I'm craving for you, missing you. 205 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: Maybe don't maybe any of the way I think I do. 206 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 5: Y'all don't know many Candy. 207 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 2: I don't know that song. Wow, do you know Eric 208 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 2: carter do? Eric carter Bean died. He died a few 209 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: years ago, and I was torn up. 210 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: They told me from the left to the right, make noise. 211 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 1: I was me in school. I just. 212 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: We're losing our legend. We are losing we are losing 213 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 2: our legends. And that's why I feel like it is 214 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 2: imperative this year that I go to as many concerts 215 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: as I can because I. 216 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: Just don't know if it's gonna be their last. 217 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Everybody keep dying, and I'm like, why is so many 218 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: people is dying? 219 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 3: And have never died before. It be stressing me out. 220 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: And I know it's we all know it's coming, you 221 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 2: know what I mean, everybody got, everybody's gonna every dog will. 222 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: Have their day. 223 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, it's just it 224 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: be fucking me up. It be fucking me up that 225 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 2: our legends are dying. Like I One person that I 226 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 2: was really like distraught that I couldn't go see in 227 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 2: concert was Frankie Beverly. 228 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: He just he ain't have no business dying. 229 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 2: Before I went to a concert and put got to 230 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 2: put my white linen suito. 231 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: He didn't have no business dying. And that really fucked 232 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: me up. 233 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 5: Like he had he was in. 234 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: The neighborhood of the business. You mean he was a 235 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: little older. 236 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: No, it wasn't his business, No, but he was not 237 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 2: in the neighborhood of the business. I knew, like when 238 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 2: people if you dying, because I think he was in 239 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: his seventies time, Okay, I was gonna say, can Tom 240 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: tell us how old Frankie Beverly was. If he was 241 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: still in his seventies, he was not in the business, Okay, 242 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: that's fair. 243 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: He was seventies seven years old. 244 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: He had about a good ten more years. 245 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. 246 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: Now when people be in the eighties and nineties and 247 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 2: people be like, oh my god, I can't believe they died, 248 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: I'd be. 249 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: Like, can you not? It was about that talk. 250 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 2: It's okay, okay, But like people be thinking people supposed 251 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: to live forever. Like I think, if you get to 252 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: be in your eighties, that's a ripe old age. 253 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 3: Like my daddy was ribbed of his life. 254 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: My dad was in his sixties. He didn't even make 255 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: it to seventy. 256 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 2: And the funny thing, he was about to turn seventy 257 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 2: that year, but he died before his seventieth birthday. Like 258 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 2: I feel like he was like he could have lived 259 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: another twenty something year. He could have gave us some 260 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: hot twenty He could have gave us another twenty Like 261 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 2: I feel like when people say, oh, they die young 262 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: or they died too soon, it'd be them type of situations. 263 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 2: Or like when somebody is in the twenties, somebody is 264 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 2: in their thirties. 265 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: When Niggas is eighty nine one, Yeah, she lived a 266 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: very long time. She did. The last Golden girl left. 267 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: Are we are we shocked that she passed? 268 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 2: It was just because it was like on New Year's 269 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 2: it was she could have she barely made it to 270 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 2: the Naght. 271 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, barely got out, never would have 272 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 3: made it. 273 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: But I just feel like, yeah, I don't know, like 274 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: I just it just be having me scared because I'm like, damn, 275 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 2: the only person that we have left that I really 276 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: do want to see in concert from like the baby 277 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: boomer generation is Petty Leville. I he was gonna say 278 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 2: it because she's the only one left. 279 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 1: Well, I've seen Anita, so I'm good on that. 280 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, I never seen Anita, but you know, shout out 281 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: to unt. I'm gonna keep it cute because. 282 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna slap the fuck out of you if. 283 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 3: She can catch me. 284 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: Oh she might if she. 285 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 3: Can catch me. 286 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,719 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying so, I'm not about to say 287 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 2: nothing negative. I was like people been saying, well, I've 288 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: seen people say that, like, you know, it's not the 289 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: same as it used to be when you see her, 290 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 2: and it's a good It was good. 291 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. I think because. 292 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 5: Baby Face opened for her and he is he puts 293 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 5: on the show bitch. It was he was cutting up 294 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 5: and he was icy, as fuck that bigga had. 295 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: On a cuban. I remember that. 296 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 5: Yes, So I think that's what people are probably compared 297 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 5: it to because they saw a baby face first and 298 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 5: then she came out. 299 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 1: But what if she popped out with a qban on period? 300 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 5: As you said, she a bad bitch still, and that's 301 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 5: what I want to talk about too, a lot of 302 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 5: our legends. 303 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 304 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 5: Back to Christina, Okay, whatever she got done, bitch is tea. No, 305 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 5: she literally looks so good. I saw a picture of her. 306 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 5: It's that type of work, and you're like, this is something. 307 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: Not normal. What did you get done? Like what it? 308 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: She looks so good? Bro? She looks so good? Yes 309 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: she do. 310 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 2: She looks really good. I think money, I mean it's 311 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 2: having money. Like when you have money, aging is not 312 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: something that you're worried about. I think it's only something 313 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: that like people be worried about who don't have the resources, 314 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: I guess, but like if you have the resources, yes 315 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 2: you're gonna look good. 316 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: She looks damn good. 317 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 2: Or when you don't take care of yourself, because also 318 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: sometimes resources is not the issue. People just don't take 319 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 2: care of their bodies. People don't take care of themselves. So, 320 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: and it's even people with money, some people with money 321 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 2: who prioritize health and well needs and any some people 322 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 2: with money who they want to go out and drink 323 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: every day and eat bullshet. So it's like they're not aging. 324 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 2: It's graceful, agreed. It's also about that people don't think 325 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 2: about that type of stuff. 326 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 3: And it's also genetics. 327 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 5: A big, big, big factor is genetics. A big factor 328 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 5: is genetics. People don't like to talk about that, but 329 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 5: I mean you can't fight it. You can to a 330 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 5: certain extent, you know what I mean. Well, I know 331 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 5: some niggas that was born old. 332 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 2: Not Benjamin, but yeah, some niggas like, never mind, he 333 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 2: was young, but he was old. 334 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was born and he wass he was like 335 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: a four. He looked like Pennie. 336 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, but when he was born he looked old. 337 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: I know a lot. I know some people like. 338 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 3: That, except they not reversing it. 339 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: That shit getting worse. 340 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, they started off old and he keep progressing. 341 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 5: I'm telling you it is the nets that can't do 342 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 5: nothing about it. Some people just look older. 343 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 3: Do you think that's some bullshit? 344 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: When people be saying like, oh, we black, we don't 345 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 2: need sunscreen. We don't need botox, we don't need uh 346 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 2: night creams and all this. I just used vassline. I 347 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 2: just use Duve soap and vassline. That's all I need. 348 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: Beap. We can tell, babe, we can tell. And that's okay. 349 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 2: Vassaline was a lubri camp back in the day, Back 350 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 2: in the day, if you still using vassoline and twenty twenty, 351 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: Ice said, Lord, why ain't actually said that too? What? 352 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 2: Because you know we just had Regina on the show. 353 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: He said, if you don't like your nigga, fuck you 354 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: know vasseline. 355 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: That's what Ice Q said. I did that. 356 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: Nigga dirty niggas was using vasseline back in the day. 357 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: But I can do what you know for what you 358 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: what are you ask it? I literally just said what 359 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: Lil Wayne said in the song. 360 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: Okay, if you don't. 361 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 2: Like it, nigga, fuck you know vasseline. So that means 362 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: it's gonna be. 363 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 1: Wrong, but that hurts his dick, tayl. So we both 364 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: gonna be in pain, no pain. 365 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 2: No game, Okay, taking up another lassing that died that 366 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 2: we'll never go to see it. 367 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: Betty right, Betty go bro. Nobody told me nothing. 368 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: Betty ben died to wish she died, Betty right, no pain, 369 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: no game. 370 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 3: No, that's a different song, damn. But I think Betty's 371 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 3: son clean up woman. 372 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 2: That's recent of Miami Dade County legend. 373 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's recent. I don't like that. 374 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 5: No boy told me that that's too that's too recent 375 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:51,199 Speaker 5: for me. 376 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 3: That was six years ago. 377 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: That's that's recent. 378 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 2: That wasn't longs go, but it's what it was long 379 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 2: ago for you to have found out about it. 380 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know what's up with you? What you mean 381 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: because I'm just like, what are you talking about? Some 382 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: of that's recent now? 383 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 2: Will? 384 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 4: I mean? 385 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 5: I feel like if you have died in the past 386 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 5: twenty years, that's recent. 387 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 2: If somebody had a baby baking twenty twenty, that baby 388 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 2: six now, that baby is in first grade, that was 389 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 2: not reading. 390 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 5: That's recent. Peani's still my baby. That's still my little nugget. 391 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 5: So no, still still recent news. Yeah. 392 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 3: I'm just like, I don't know. 393 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 2: I know this conversation is just all over the place, 394 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:35,360 Speaker 2: but I just am so sad that I missing people. 395 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 2: Concerts like Battery Boys had a residency in the baby 396 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 2: and I'm missed it and. 397 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:42,919 Speaker 3: I'm hoping that they do something again. 398 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 1: Do you remember that song incomplete? They had? 399 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 2: It was that makes me think of the only incomplete 400 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 2: I acknowledge is Cisco. 401 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 5: No but incomplete, but it's not as good as Cisco's 402 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 5: incomplete first of all. 403 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: But it was a good song because how do we 404 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 1: go come? 405 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 5: And you know what, people like to sleep on AJ, 406 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 5: but AJ could really sing one thing. 407 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: I will say. I want Justin Timberlake to get it 408 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: together too. You know what he do? 409 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 5: You know that footage came out and he's like, I'm 410 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 5: gonna miss the Tour's is just gonna fuck. 411 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: Up the tour. But he was funny. 412 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 5: He was like drinking and driving and then the cop 413 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 5: they brought him in and they had his information filled out. 414 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 5: They he said white. Yeah, he said I'm a whigger. No, 415 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 5: he didn't say that, but he was like white, I'm 416 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 5: just kidding because the cop. I think the cop was 417 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 5: playing on his top though. 418 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: He was like, I don't Justin Timberlake, I don't know 419 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: who you. 420 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 5: Are, but I think that's what they kind of have 421 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 5: to do, is police. And then his friend assistant showed up. 422 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 5: She was like and in honor of like sexy Back, 423 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 5: Can you just let him go? 424 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: Bro? 425 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 3: She was making it worse in our sixty she said. 426 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 5: In honor of like sexy Back, and she named another 427 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 5: song bye Bye Bye. It was just like, oh God, 428 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 5: but I love Justin Timber like I do. I don't 429 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 5: a legends. He said, why period pool the original Beab. 430 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: But I did see that, but I don't know why. 431 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 3: I thought that was a long time ago. 432 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 5: It was oh so again, somebody from TMZ paid somebody 433 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 5: enough money and they released it. That's why I say 434 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 5: a lot of that stuff. Yeah, but shout out to 435 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 5: Justin Timber. Like in all our legends, I think that 436 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 5: a lot of times we don't realize a lot of 437 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 5: these people's youth and things were robbed and they're still 438 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,959 Speaker 5: probably adjusting to life. Life looks a lot different for them. 439 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 2: And then she'd just be moving fast because everybody eating old. 440 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 2: I just be like, damn, niggas is really old now, 441 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 2: Like it was somebody I seen. 442 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: The other day. I know who it was, but I 443 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: won't say me, but they was looking real fucking old. 444 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 2: And I was just like, so I put it and 445 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 2: I was just like, you're not aging well and it's 446 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 2: pissing me off. Tell me right here, M M telling 447 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 2: you wow mm hmmm, because you're gonna laugh and you're 448 00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 2: gonna make it. 449 00:20:58,960 --> 00:20:59,919 Speaker 3: You're gonna make a parody. 450 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: No, I'm not. 451 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 3: You are like a parody of it because you do. 452 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 1: I promise, I'm not watch y'all. I promise. Okay, that's understandable, No, Ben, 453 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: I know, but that's okay. 454 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 2: Though it makes me say though, it just really be 455 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 2: like reminded me of the reality that like these. 456 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 1: People were ten, fifteen, twenty years old. 457 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 2: That's when we were kids, and so now that we're 458 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 2: in our thirties, they're like in their forties. 459 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 3: And fifties, and like it's just. 460 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,679 Speaker 2: So sobering to watch people get older. I'm just like, 461 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 2: this is nuts. 462 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 5: But you know what, I honestly say, though, I am 463 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 5: happy to see them age because we didn't get to 464 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 5: see nipsy A. 465 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: I know. 466 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 5: I don't mean to get deep. We didn't get to 467 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 5: see Nipsy age. We didn't get to see pepsi A. 468 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 5: I really enjoy seeing the girls get older, the guys 469 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 5: get older, Like we didn't get to see Whitney Houston be. 470 00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: Old, old old. 471 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying so honestly, it is kind 472 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 5: of like damn, but it is a blessing to see 473 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 5: these people get older, you know what I'm saying, Like 474 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 5: it's like damn, but they're not the same people no more. 475 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 5: But like good, Like I love seeing bun Be going 476 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 5: wrong hating people burgers me too. That is the cutest 477 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 5: shit ever. 478 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: I love. I won't burger because it's just so wholesome. 479 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 5: It is because that's what you get your life right. 480 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you invested, you know, you take care of your family. 481 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,880 Speaker 5: I have never never heard one bad story about Bummy ever. 482 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 2: People a way to look at it though, absolutely absolutely 483 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: to me, Like I love like how his family has 484 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,199 Speaker 2: grown and we're watching them, Yeah, and making music with 485 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 2: his kids. So he's still in the studio making music 486 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: and still being of influence, a positive influence, especially in Atlanta. 487 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: Like to me, that is just so beautiful. 488 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 5: It's a beautiful thing, same thing with two change. I 489 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:56,199 Speaker 5: think it's it's beautiful. It's beautiful. I hope people look 490 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 5: at me like that. They're like, they go, that girl 491 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 5: to be talking about sucking dick all the time. 492 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: Look at how just old and happy. You're not old yet? 493 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 5: Though, but I'm getting there. I'm getting there. I'm gonna 494 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 5: be forty. I'm about to be fourty, and I ain't 495 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 5: mad about it. You still got three years, but that 496 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 5: ain't a long time. And honestly, once I hit forty, 497 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 5: I'm damn near fifty. No, and then the fact that 498 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 5: I'm almost dead. Bitch. 499 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 2: No, but that's what I'm saying, the life ExPASy. You 500 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 2: should live to be a ripe old eighty five. 501 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you're right, you right, eighty five. 502 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: You still got a lot more time if you ain't 503 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: even lived half your life yet. 504 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: Okay, you're right. 505 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 3: That's how I'll be looking at it. 506 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I hope I get to live to be 507 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 2: all longevity due running my family. 508 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 1: Though you don't run in my bitch. You gotta get hot. 509 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: Five with it, bitch, you about to turn up now, 510 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: we gotta. 511 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 1: Get this deal. You got a hot five. 512 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 3: You gonna be like these bitches is more. 513 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 1: The craziest she But no, for real, though, I do 514 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 1: be like, yeah I feel like we No, yeah, yeah 515 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: we are, but I do. 516 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 5: I take care of myself a lot better than people 517 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 5: in my past half. 518 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 3: So yeah, then like older family, Yeah. 519 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 5: For sure, for sure, and my aunt is moving, so 520 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 5: I'm really not gonna be. 521 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: Going to Orange no more. Damn I know, yeah, she's moving. 522 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 5: Me Marie shout out to everybody in the four o 523 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 5: nine that still represent people. 524 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 1: You're not gonna go back and BZ, I feel like Orange. 525 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,199 Speaker 3: What about the nostalgia there? 526 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 5: There's not a lot of nostalgia there because I don't 527 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 5: know why it's not. I don't know. I don't know. 528 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 5: But I do love my I always say I love 529 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 5: my city. I love being from there. I feel like 530 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 5: people from Orange they love They A lot of people 531 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 5: in Orange watch the show, which I was unaware of, 532 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 5: and I've just been noticing that a lot more so now. 533 00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: So I love my Maybe I will go back on 534 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 1: day and do something. 535 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 5: Maybe I might do like a turkey something you your city. 536 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 5: No the fuck, I'm not, bitch, hold on, hold on, bitch, 537 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 5: No the fuck I'm not. 538 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:20,120 Speaker 1: You got me fucked up? Hell? Hell no? You want tah, 539 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 1: She's cooked. I'm not. Why would you say no, I'm not. No, 540 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm not. I told you I'm not. It's that other man, 541 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: oh football player. 542 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 2: But you are close second though, honestly though, you are. 543 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 2: I mean, like it's not many people to name. 544 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 1: I'm the biggest boss that you've seen thus fall. You're 545 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: the biggest boss Orange scene far, not me. 546 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,360 Speaker 5: If I brought you to Orange, oh my god, they're 547 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 5: gonna bring the whole city no Orange. 548 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: Wat My mama died. I'm just talking about. 549 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 5: Let's turn off. 550 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna bring you the Orange and 551 00:25:58,680 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: we gonna have a. 552 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 2: Good old We should the party, Well, what's the popping club? 553 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: It used to be Spanky. 554 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 3: It's only one. 555 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 1: That's all I know about. 556 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 2: We should house the party. Maybe we hosted in Beaumont. 557 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. Off a little dangerous, I've 558 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 2: been there before. 559 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 1: You better run on nine streets. 560 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 5: But honestly, I got asked the book a party to 561 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 5: host a party in Beaumont. But I gave him my 562 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 5: rate and it was a discounted rate. They ain't hit 563 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 5: me back, no for real. I mean I just think 564 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 5: like what we and I'm not trying to be funny. 565 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 5: I think what we charge is kind of out, but 566 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 5: you have to make it make sense. Like I have 567 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 5: to fly into Houston get a rental. I'm not driving, 568 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 5: somebody gotta drive me. Yeah, because I'm not saying. I'm 569 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 5: not saying I'm not driving. I'm not a good driver. 570 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 5: I'm not staying in Bonont. 571 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 2: I need a chauffeur. I'm not driving from Houston to Orange. 572 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: Watch your tone, bitch. No, I don't mean it like that. 573 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 5: I'm just saying I said Beaumont. Oh, that shit is 574 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 5: still far. But Bauma is closer than Oranges. 575 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,479 Speaker 2: It's closer, but he's still a drive. What is it 576 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 2: like an hour in forty five minutes? 577 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: It's about an hour. 578 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 5: It's about an hour twenty once you hit Orange, about 579 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 5: an hour forty five Yeah. 580 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: Once you hit Louisiana. Oh you cook bitch. 581 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's still a little decent drive or whatever. Because 582 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 2: we used to drive to Bow when when I was 583 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: in colleague. 584 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I would host the party in Beaumont thought, But 585 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 5: I do want to give back something to Orange. 586 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: So if anybody is Orange is watching. 587 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 5: Me watching, I would like to do like a turkey 588 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 5: drive or some toy drive or something. Maybe I'll do 589 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 5: that this year, to give back and do something. Me 590 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 5: and Ty were talking about that earlier, doing better traditions. 591 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 5: I don't like to go to Orange because it reminds 592 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 5: me and my mom Yeah, maybe that's something I could 593 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 5: do to start a new tradition to make me happier 594 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 5: and going home. 595 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, just doing something where you're giving back and it 596 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 2: like it's making you feel fulfilled in a way and 597 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 2: it's not just like bad not to say bad memories, 598 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 2: but I get what you're saying, because it's not bad memories. 599 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: But when you go to certain places, like when you 600 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 2: lose a parent, and then you go to certain places, 601 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 2: it just remind you of them, and you don't always 602 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 2: want to be reminded of that. Because I'm the same way. 603 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,120 Speaker 2: When they come to my mama house. I barely ever 604 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 2: go to my mama house in Houston. 605 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 1: Yes, I don't. 606 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 3: I don't be fucking around because it's just weird. 607 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: It's so weird. 608 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,479 Speaker 5: Because I was telling her my boss used to be 609 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 5: so full of lying. 610 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so much. 611 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 5: Oh my god, people coming in and out, food being cooked, 612 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 5: music getting played, and now it's just dead. 613 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: It's so dead. 614 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 5: How many toys can I buy with fifty dollars? Y'all 615 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 5: think I could do a toy drive fifty. 616 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: Dollars if you go to the dollar tree, probably not 617 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 2: a toy drawer. 618 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 3: Probably can give it to two children. 619 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I don't know, I don't know about it. 620 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: It's gonna it's gonna be a to scooter, yeah, a 621 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: toy scoop. Yeah. 622 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what you're gonna be able to do 623 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: with a hot feed crying. 624 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do. I'm gonna do. So, Okay, let's 625 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: get into these topics. Yes, what's up y'alls? 626 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 3: Your girl expin and it's schu girl tray and the cold. 627 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 5: And this is the business spotlight. And y'all know we 628 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 5: love highlighting entrepreneurs women in the space and we have 629 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 5: a great business today. 630 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: I'm excited, Yes we do. 631 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: So today's business spotlight is Fancy Homebody. We have Vanessa 632 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 2: Buie in the building, who is the founder and owner. 633 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: Give it up for y'all. 634 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, sock yay, thank you for having me. 635 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming. 636 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 3: We are so excited. So let me give a little background. 637 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 2: What started as an Instagram community during a season where 638 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: she was spending more time at home has grown into 639 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 2: a multi million dollar brand focused on helping women feel cute, confident, 640 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 2: and put together even in their everyday moments. Fancy Homebody 641 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 2: is all about every day luxury with loungewear, sleepwear, and 642 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 2: home essentials. They give you comfort, quality and style without 643 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 2: the crazy price saves. 644 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: I love I love it too, And let me just 645 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: add a little bit on there because this is my 646 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: first time. 647 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be honest to get you an honest review. 648 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 5: This is my first time putting on it because I'm 649 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 5: a fancy homebody myself about a home and I think 650 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 5: something about my girls who like to be at home. 651 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: It's something about putting things on at home. 652 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, that look good, that make it feel good just 653 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 5: walking around, and I'm a tall girly. 654 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: It hit my ankles back. 655 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 5: Thank you for thinking of us because I'm tall and 656 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 5: I'm thick and it hits the bottom. 657 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: Love it. 658 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 5: So what was your inspiration just outside of being a 659 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 5: person who likes to, you know, be a fancy homebody. 660 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 2: Yes, it was really just a mindset shift for me personally, 661 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 2: Like I had just gotten out of the trenches of 662 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 2: having two babies under two, yes, working my corporate marketing job. 663 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,719 Speaker 2: So it was like right before COVID hit and I 664 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 2: was just always in the house. Me and my husband 665 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 2: had just bought our first home, and I was really 666 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 2: consumed with that and I feel like a lot of 667 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: women getting those types of situations where you kind of 668 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 2: lose your sense of self a little bit, lose that 669 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 2: hush about you. And it's not that I wanted to 670 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 2: be outside or all of that, but I was still 671 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 2: like maybe twenty nine thirty, and I still felt like 672 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 2: that girl, but I didn't have those opportunities to necessarily 673 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 2: go out and all that like. 674 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: Some of my other peers. 675 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 2: So I felt like there was a season where I 676 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 2: had a little bit of fomo and like watching some 677 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 2: of my kidless friends go out and even on social 678 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 2: media at that time, it was all about like the 679 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 2: lunches and the brunches and the. 680 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: Girls, girl power brunts. 681 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and so it was like a part of 682 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 2: me kind of felt like, well, that's not really me either, 683 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 2: But I don't necessarily want to just be looking crazy 684 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 2: in the house. I always used to wear at my 685 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 2: husband's big white teas and his basketball shorts, and I 686 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 2: kind of got away from being the fashion girly that 687 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 2: I once was, so I just kind of tapped into 688 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 2: what I liked, which was home decors and talking about 689 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 2: being an introvert. 690 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,479 Speaker 1: And I just started a new Instagram page. 691 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 2: So it was in twenty nineteen where I started the 692 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 2: Instagram page and it was like a lot of winning 693 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 2: started to follow me. So I did get a nice following. 694 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 2: But of course I never even thought of it like 695 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 2: a business at that point. But you know, I was 696 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 2: clearly building a community. I'm like, well, something is here, 697 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 2: so I'm like, you know what, why not? And in 698 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 2: February of twenty twenty, so it was literally right before 699 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 2: all he disaster, we launched and it was just with 700 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 2: a couple of sweatshirts and T shirts and lug. 701 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: And nothing spectacular. 702 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 2: But at that time I was looking at it from 703 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 2: like a creative outlet, hobby for me. But I also, 704 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 2: because I was in marketing, looked at it from a 705 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 2: business sense of there's a whole tapped mark, untapped market 706 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 2: of women like me, like millennial women who at that 707 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 2: time I love sets, Like I'm a two piece set. 708 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: I need something. 709 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 3: I need something easy, okay, like. 710 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: Love a nice bag, love an ice shoe accessory, but 711 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: two set. 712 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 5: I need to set. 713 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 3: I need everything to be real easy. 714 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 2: And so I felt like at that time and still 715 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,719 Speaker 2: there are a lot of sets and that sort of 716 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 2: thing from you know, the fashion novas and you know, 717 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 2: the boohoos and that sort of sites that they would 718 00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 2: kind of cater to uh body type that I necessarily 719 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 2: didn't have anymore. I had a mom pouch, Yeah, that 720 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 2: I haven't cut off yet. 721 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm still gonna cut it off one day, but right right. 722 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 2: And I felt like there has to be other like 723 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,479 Speaker 2: young popping girls who might have a mom pouch, who 724 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: might have stretch marks on their stomach and don't necessarily, 725 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:24,280 Speaker 2: you know, gravitate to those sorts of sets and easy 726 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 2: options that are like really body kinne. So I was like, 727 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 2: you know what, like we can make some relaxed fit sets, 728 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 2: real cute and still have you feeling confident with what 729 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 2: you're either lounging around the house in or simply you know, 730 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 2: running the target or whatever. 731 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:43,240 Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead. 732 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 2: No, I was just gonna say, I love that because 733 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,919 Speaker 2: I am that type of girl, like I love something 734 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:48,760 Speaker 2: where I can still. 735 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 3: Feel comfy and feel cute. 736 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 2: But then you know, we're still giving fashion at the 737 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 2: same time. And I love the quality of this. It's thick, 738 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 2: it's good material. You can tell you ain't cutting no corner. 739 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes, thank you. And that's another thing about 740 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 2: just my target audience, and I was wanting to just 741 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 2: put myself in my customer's shoes, Like I'm not a 742 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,760 Speaker 2: girl who necessarily wants to have like the flimsy fast fashion, 743 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 2: even though there's nothing. 744 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 1: Wrong with that from time to time. 745 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 2: But I also didn't necessarily want to be paying one 746 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty dollars for a sweatshirt if it's just 747 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 2: kind of like a normal basic sweatshirt. I'm like, it 748 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 2: has to be something in between that still gives the 749 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 2: quality for a grown woman like me, but also is 750 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 2: affordable in that nice middle ground where I felt like 751 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 2: I wasn't breaking the bake or being irresponsible. 752 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 5: So let me say a few things. Like I said, 753 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 5: I'm giving you a real live review right now. So 754 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 5: this set now, mind you, I do. I had surgery 755 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 5: thirty six thousand time period, so I have a larger butt. 756 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: In a smaller way. 757 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 5: One thing about it, when I order rompers, I'm always 758 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 5: scared of rappers because it's always that gap. Ain't no gap, 759 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 5: But it's not quishing my booty either, Yes, you know 760 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So this without the jacket, I know 761 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 5: I got about three outfits I can put on right now, 762 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 5: even with the jacket by yourself, I got another three 763 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 5: fits I can put right now. I think we need 764 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 5: to talk about capsule closets, like it's good to have 765 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 5: staple pieces that you can dress up that are quality, 766 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 5: that lasts, will last, that lasts a long time. Because 767 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm used to like 768 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 5: a certain type of material. I don't even know what 769 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:27,360 Speaker 5: material is here, what materials is? 770 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: So that's our East Move collection. 771 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 2: Okay, so it is mostly cotton, but it does have 772 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 2: a little bit of poly for a stretch. Okay, but 773 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 2: I love the brushed material on there. It's yeah, this 774 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: is life giving sway, but not right way. But that's 775 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 2: one of our best selling collections. 776 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 3: And then what material is this? 777 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 2: So it's the same, it's it's the science that East 778 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 2: Move you have on the East Move jumpsuit you have 779 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,760 Speaker 2: on the East Move Wi Lake Cargo and Cruisi. 780 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 3: Okay, cool, well let me I'm a stand up. 781 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 2: Stand let's get the let's go, yes. 782 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 1: Because I feel like, what's all that back? 783 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 3: Now? 784 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:25,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I like that curve. Yes, it looks absolutely amazing. 785 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 5: Okay, So outside of you know what inspired to this 786 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,400 Speaker 5: for you? To start your brand, because obviously this is 787 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 5: what you do full time now. But I think outside 788 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 5: of you know, this is an amazing brand and we're 789 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 5: gonna get in the cameras in the second. But I 790 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 5: want to talk about you having a nine to five 791 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 5: and starting the brand doing that and eventually crossing over 792 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 5: because I think we live in a society now where 793 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 5: people just be like. 794 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,000 Speaker 1: Quit your job and go all in. 795 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 5: But I want to talk about how you did your 796 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 5: nine to five and your business and you eventually was like, okay, 797 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 5: now I can quit and do this full time. 798 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,760 Speaker 1: Yes. No, that's such a good point. 799 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 2: So, like I said, when I started, wasn't really taking 800 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 2: it too serious. I once I started the Fancy Homebody page, 801 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 2: I was just calling myself fancy Homebody. 802 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: Then I was like, let's get a logo made, you know. 803 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 2: And so I was still working in corporate marketing in 804 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:18,240 Speaker 2: the pharmaceutical sector, and I had been working from home 805 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 2: for like four years. So I was working from home 806 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 2: before it was cool to work from home. 807 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 3: Yes, so I did. 808 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 2: Have a little bit more flexibility than say other people. 809 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, of course, like, yeah, I'm working on 810 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,280 Speaker 2: that report, but I'm really looking at that tabricks and stuff. 811 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 2: So my situation was a little different because I was 812 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,399 Speaker 2: able to kind of navigate working from home and doing that. 813 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie. The pandemic is like the pandemic. Yeah, 814 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 2: people were spending money. So we launched in February. I 815 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 2: quit my job in September. Oh wow, because everybody was 816 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,880 Speaker 2: at home when you were lounge with exactly, and I 817 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:06,840 Speaker 2: felt like everybody in their mama was pivoting and going 818 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 2: towards loungewear that. But it might not have felt natural, 819 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 2: but I felt like I have already been talking about 820 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,879 Speaker 2: like I don't know where I'd be in the house, 821 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 2: like for real, I'm living my wraps. So I felt 822 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 2: like it was a little bit more authentic. And the 823 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 2: fact that I was really just growing that community and 824 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 2: taking that community of just girls I woul kicky with 825 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 2: in the DM to really being my target customer. And 826 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 2: so a lot of women asked me all the time, 827 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 2: you know how I should get started, I have a 828 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 2: job and that sort of thing. And while my situation 829 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,439 Speaker 2: was a great blessing that I was able to quit 830 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 2: so quick, I was also able to quit because I 831 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 2: did have a nice amount of sels going in that 832 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 2: I will have a cushion put up. That is very important. 833 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 2: You don't just want to be raising now just jumping 834 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 2: out the window. And also a lot of people don't 835 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,320 Speaker 2: talk about drop shipping. So when I first first started, 836 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 2: I was drop shipping those T shirts and sweatshirts, so 837 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 2: I didn't have to buy inventory. Okay, okay, So that 838 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 2: was another way of not having to come out of 839 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 2: my pocket to buy a lot of inventory. 840 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 1: So that was great. That was great for me. 841 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,760 Speaker 2: And it's not sexy at all to talk about drop shipping, 842 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 2: but it. 843 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 1: Is an option for people who just kind of want 844 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: to get. 845 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 2: Your brand name out there, Like it was just fancy 846 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 2: homebody sweatshirts. But I knew that eventually I wanted to 847 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 2: do things like this, so I was able to, you know, 848 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 2: save up the money that I got from these those 849 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 2: sorts of like basic teas to then find my manufacturer 850 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 2: and really start going in on our designs. 851 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: We did drop shipping look for to so we know 852 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 1: all about it. Yeah, but if you do it right, 853 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,840 Speaker 1: it can be very and then I want to store. 854 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 2: Well, I wanted to ask a question. I wanted to 855 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,240 Speaker 2: ask you, so, like when did you make the pivotal 856 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 2: decision that you wanted to just go from loungewear and 857 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 2: sleep wear to selling home essentials. So I felt like 858 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 2: it was always in the back of my mind that 859 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 2: fancy homebody is more than just clothes. And I felt like, 860 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 2: just based on what I like to talk to my 861 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 2: community about, we talked about what y'all, what y'all making 862 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 2: the kids for dinner this week, and that sort of thing, 863 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,760 Speaker 2: like we share things like that and like my question box. 864 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 2: So I felt like I really wanted to be in 865 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 2: the home a little bit more and not necessarily just 866 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 2: focused on clothes. So I've always wanted to do fragrance. 867 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,960 Speaker 3: I am a big, big candle girl. 868 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:51,600 Speaker 2: So we finally launched our candle line last year and 869 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 2: I love to say that they are hand poured by 870 00:41:54,600 --> 00:42:00,120 Speaker 2: a black woman in Chicago. Yeah, so we're not like 871 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,399 Speaker 2: mass producing them right now, because again, just trying to. 872 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 1: Be a smart business wise. 873 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 2: You know, bread and Butter is clearly still our clothing 874 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,920 Speaker 2: and this is just such a fun passion project for 875 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 2: me that we're starting to introduce candles. So also being 876 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 2: able to help a small business in that way has 877 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:20,720 Speaker 2: been really great. 878 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 5: And I think that's a good point to make, like 879 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 5: Home to courd because I just started like my little 880 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,839 Speaker 5: series online and I didn't know it's they love it. 881 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: The girls love. 882 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 5: Home to Court And I think a lot of times 883 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,839 Speaker 5: we don't realize being at home and your mental health 884 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:41,360 Speaker 5: is one in one. So being at home and feeling sexy, 885 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 5: feeling pretty, putting on something even if you're not going nowhere, 886 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 5: just being able to wake up, put on something that 887 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,720 Speaker 5: feels good, lighting a candle that can literally change the 888 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,799 Speaker 5: trajectory of your entire day. 889 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because. 890 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 5: I think we deal with a lot as women society 891 00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 5: pressures looking good, feeling good, and I'm like, that's at home. 892 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 6: It does? 893 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 1: You know? It does? 894 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 2: I feel like that's definitely all encompasses what a fancy 895 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 2: homebody is. It's not necessarily you know, oh I'm ja 896 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 2: Ja Gabor and walking. 897 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: Around with dimons and that sort of thing. 898 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 2: It's all about the mindset and just being comfortable with 899 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 2: where you are right there. Again, it came out of 900 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 2: a place for me feeling insecure that I wasn't able 901 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 2: to go to all the events and all that kind 902 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 2: of stuff, And I'm like, it has to be other 903 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 2: girlies that might have just a lot of other responsibilities 904 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 2: on their plate where they feel like they might be 905 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:34,680 Speaker 2: missing out. 906 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 3: And I want girls and women. 907 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:41,760 Speaker 2: To feel comfortable and beautiful at home and simple moments 908 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 2: and not look crazy in the carpool line, embarrassing your 909 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 2: cheer during and all that kind of stuff. 910 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 1: Okay, put together, no one too really does make. 911 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 2: You feel better and it will affect you your mental 912 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:54,919 Speaker 2: health at. 913 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: The endency Yes, I agree. Well, I just want to say, 914 00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,399 Speaker 1: the candles smell so good. 915 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 2: You can smell right it's wrong and yes, and this 916 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 2: is a pretty big space too, so it feels up 917 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:06,800 Speaker 2: the room pretty quickly. 918 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, thank you. 919 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,360 Speaker 2: So I do want to ask you, like, what's next 920 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,440 Speaker 2: for a fancy homebody, because I know you said you're 921 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 2: really into fragrancies, So do you feel like you're going 922 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,480 Speaker 2: to get into you know what is it called, like 923 00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,320 Speaker 2: the when they be spraying. 924 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 1: The bed sheets and the you know what bed perfume 925 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 1: like I don't know the proper. 926 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 2: We actually already have been testing those out with like 927 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 2: so we did it at. 928 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: A pop up. 929 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So I let the Chicago girliest test out the 930 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 2: room sprayce and they were hit. Okay, so we're also 931 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 2: thinking about adding that to the Fragrance line. But as 932 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:53,520 Speaker 2: far as Fancy Homebody, we're really loving the fact that, 933 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:57,319 Speaker 2: you know, with all the growth, having everybody kind of 934 00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 2: experience our best sellers from our robes and different sets, 935 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 2: really expanding those best selling collections instead of like, oh, 936 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 2: just hopping on every little trend, I just really want 937 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 2: to continue to put out quality products that everybody's gonna 938 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 2: have for years to come, and not necessarily chase the 939 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 2: new trends of clothing and that sort of thing, but 940 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,319 Speaker 2: always wanting to expand our color ways and that sort 941 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,240 Speaker 2: of thing. So you know you'll see these. 942 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,319 Speaker 3: And yeah, a couple more colors this year. 943 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,359 Speaker 5: Okay, period, now let me know, because you know I'm 944 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,160 Speaker 5: doing my house up, so whatever. 945 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,759 Speaker 3: You mean, we can in a blanket. We have a 946 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 3: really good foot love a blanket. 947 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:42,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. 948 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,439 Speaker 5: Now, So if somebody is like Vanessa, what is your 949 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 5: favorite piece from Fancy Homebodies? 950 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,280 Speaker 1: Somebody wants to know what is the. 951 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 5: CEO's favorite thing, and they want what you love from 952 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:56,919 Speaker 5: your line, what would you tell them to go about 953 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 5: right now? If they got the budget for one thing 954 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 5: or a set, ever can what would you tell them 955 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 5: to go by? 956 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 2: I would tell them to buy our soft sleep long robe. 957 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: Now. 958 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 2: I know that we push a lot of our everyday 959 00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 2: essentials that you can like leave the house in. A 960 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,839 Speaker 2: woman needs a good role and I feel like that's 961 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,040 Speaker 2: like that fancy homebody starter kid. Okay, you gotta get 962 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 2: you the soft sleep long rope. 963 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:24,440 Speaker 1: And we did give y'all. 964 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 5: I like to push off my truck. I have my 965 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 5: robe on. This morning, I watched the kids get off 966 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 5: the bus. 967 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 1: How you doing? That's me? 968 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 3: And so we just released the. 969 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 2: Chocolate deep chocolate brown truffle. So you guys both have 970 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 2: the truffle. 971 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:41,439 Speaker 1: Oh I can't. 972 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 3: Oh. 973 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,280 Speaker 2: And I love that I've been really into brown Lady, 974 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 2: like a deep chocolate brown color. 975 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: I love that. 976 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,280 Speaker 3: People have been wearing it with butter yellow. 977 00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And I like, you know, the fashion girlies 978 00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 2: like mix it up. 979 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,439 Speaker 1: And I was like, that's I'm telling you you can. 980 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 5: But it's a cute little Yes, I'm telling you you're 981 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,279 Speaker 5: gonna be surprised what I put this fit on. I 982 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 5: gots I got a little something something fugging now hold 983 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 5: on now. 984 00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:08,640 Speaker 1: So where can people shop follow you all that good stuff? Yes? 985 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 2: You can shop at Fancyhomebody dot com. We are on 986 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 2: Instagram our shop Fancy Homebody page. My page is Fancy 987 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:22,080 Speaker 2: Homebody on Instagram. And yeah, all your social networks you 988 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 2: can find us. 989 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:29,200 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you so much much. Yes, home and open 990 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: my little goodie baby. 991 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 5: Yes, opind of like that candle, so good, yes girl. 992 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 5: And I'm just now started on my primary bedroom, so 993 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 5: I'm so excited. 994 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 1: What colors you got it? 995 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 3: So I'm doing chocolate of course. 996 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:41,800 Speaker 1: Yep. 997 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 5: Literally this is like the color of my bedroom. I'm 998 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,239 Speaker 5: getting my Wayne scotting and stuff actually done right now 999 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 5: as we speak, and then I'm getting it painted this weekend. 1000 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 5: So I have I am a scent girl, so I 1001 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 5: have like a certain set that's like downstairs, a certain 1002 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,720 Speaker 5: set that's like on my first floor. 1003 00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 1: So I'm like, what is my set gonna be for? 1004 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 2: Like y'all like manly your sense or are y'all more 1005 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 2: I b but I do like more masculine okay for 1006 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 2: the home Okay, so it hasn't come out yet, but 1007 00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:14,360 Speaker 2: it's called Brownstone okay, So all the candles are named 1008 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 2: after different house types of the Brownstone is our manly okay. 1009 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 5: Because I got I got a townhouse that's close. 1010 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 3: Get in Georgia. 1011 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,360 Speaker 1: Exactly. Thank you so much, Vanessa. 1012 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 5: Y'all make sure y'all go to fancy homebody and audio sets, 1013 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 5: audio candles and all that good stuff. 1014 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, what's the first top at home on? Let 1015 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:40,879 Speaker 1: me okay? Yeah? 1016 00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 2: The first topic is are people over complicated relationships? How 1017 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 2: can we bring the fun back in relationships? Movies always 1018 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 2: show us the fun and romantic love stories. Do you 1019 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 2: think it's impossible to have those type of stories in 1020 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 2: real life or do you think it's really sick? 1021 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,760 Speaker 5: I think that it is possible if you have somebody 1022 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 5: who has the same mindset as you. 1023 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 1024 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,919 Speaker 5: I think there are a lot of people who take 1025 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 5: life seriously, and that's okay. I think there are a 1026 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,719 Speaker 5: lot of people who live in La la land and 1027 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:13,879 Speaker 5: they want to have fun, They want to go out, 1028 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,799 Speaker 5: they want to romanticize everything, like if you're the type 1029 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,399 Speaker 5: of woman who wakes up or the type of man 1030 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 5: who wakes up and romanticizes your life, like everything is. 1031 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 5: I'm gonna get dressed, I'm going brush my teeth, I'm 1032 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 5: cooking breakfast. Oh my god, the sun is coming in 1033 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,840 Speaker 5: I'm making my coffee. You need to be with somebody 1034 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 5: who's like that as well. I think if you're a 1035 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 5: kind of person that's just like get up, go to work, 1036 00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 5: go take your lunch break, come back, go to the gym, 1037 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 5: go home, that's fine as well too, but you need 1038 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 5: to be with somebody like that. I think you can 1039 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,880 Speaker 5: have whatever you want in this life, and that's something 1040 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 5: that I have learned. So I think a lot of 1041 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 5: times when people tell other people life is not a fantasy, 1042 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 5: you have to be realistic, that's just because you have 1043 00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,000 Speaker 5: never made anything in your life come true. Yeah, And 1044 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:57,879 Speaker 5: we need to stop telling people that you can't have 1045 00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,080 Speaker 5: what you want in life. 1046 00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:01,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it's possible. 1047 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 3: I don't know, I just I guess. 1048 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,839 Speaker 2: I look at it like, y'all ain't having fun in relationships, 1049 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 2: y'all staying with people, y'all ain't having fun. 1050 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,760 Speaker 3: With yuck e yuck? 1051 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 7: Like what? 1052 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1053 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 2: Like, what's the point in being in a relationship with 1054 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,640 Speaker 2: somebody that you're not having fun? And to me, that's 1055 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:21,399 Speaker 2: grounds for a break up if it's just too stuffy and. 1056 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,720 Speaker 3: Too serious all the time. We don't ever have fun together. 1057 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,000 Speaker 2: We're not laughing together, we don't go and do things 1058 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 2: like because where's the joy where? 1059 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:30,279 Speaker 1: To me? 1060 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 5: I will understand a woman or a man staying in 1061 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 5: a relationship if they're having fun more than somebody. You 1062 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,439 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like because they're having so much 1063 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 5: fun and maybe this is not their ideal part, but 1064 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:42,320 Speaker 5: they be having fun. 1065 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 1: I can give you. I'll be like, I get it. 1066 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,959 Speaker 5: Girl, it's hard because you having a ball, but you're 1067 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 5: crying every day. 1068 00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 1: You said, you upset, you this, you that. 1069 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,799 Speaker 5: And I also think that a fan, what do we 1070 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,320 Speaker 5: say fun? 1071 00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:58,719 Speaker 1: Fun is what you make it? Though? What's fun to you? 1072 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 1: Y'all need to start. 1073 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,240 Speaker 5: I'm looking at what other people to think is fun, 1074 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:09,000 Speaker 5: like fun this person maybe just staying in Netflix ordering 1075 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,439 Speaker 5: some piece of hood fun to this girl. Maybe going 1076 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 5: to Miami fun to this girl, maybe going to Chanelle. 1077 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,840 Speaker 5: You need to know yourself and stop letting society decide 1078 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,839 Speaker 5: what is fun. So I think that people definitely over 1079 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 5: complicate relationships because of social fucking media. Yes, one thousand percent, 1080 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,840 Speaker 5: relationships really don't got to be that hard. Be loyal 1081 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,799 Speaker 5: and like the person you with because y'all be dating people, 1082 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:37,000 Speaker 5: y'all don't even fucking. 1083 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 2: Like and prioritize actual dates. Yes, well, I think that's 1084 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,720 Speaker 2: the problem with a lot of people. People don't prioritize 1085 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 2: going on dates on a regular basis, even when you 1086 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 2: get in a relationship. I don't know why people think 1087 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,919 Speaker 2: dating is reserved for like when you're trying to vet 1088 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,319 Speaker 2: and figure out who you want to, you know, be 1089 00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 2: in a relationship with. No once you get in the 1090 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,919 Speaker 2: relationship with the person, y'all see, you need to date 1091 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 2: each other. 1092 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 1: Y'all. 1093 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 2: Still need to plan things, y'all still and sometimes not 1094 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,839 Speaker 2: even playing things. You still need to be spontaneous sometimes 1095 00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 2: and surprised the person. And I just think, I don't know, 1096 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,520 Speaker 2: people have lost that for some reason, and I think 1097 00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,719 Speaker 2: that's the reason why maybe people don't think dating gets 1098 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,800 Speaker 2: fun anymore. But I can't be in our relationship where 1099 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 2: we just be seeing around looking at each other. 1100 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:24,960 Speaker 1: But I think just a climent. 1101 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 3: I can do that by myself and look in the mirror. 1102 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 5: But I think just the climate of everything, like life 1103 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 5: is so serious now, So I try to give people 1104 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 5: a little bit of a break because everything is so 1105 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 5: serious now, like everything is, but I mean it kind 1106 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 5: of has to be. But I feel like you need 1107 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:47,919 Speaker 5: a little escape. Yeah, and if I'm spending seventy five 1108 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 5: percent of my time with you, like, can we please 1109 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 5: just have a good time? Like, I don't know, life 1110 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 5: is a lot more serious, I feel like now than 1111 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,759 Speaker 5: it was in our younger years. Like I feel like 1112 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,480 Speaker 5: when I was in my twenties, maybe because I didn't 1113 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 5: have any real responsibilities, but I don't know. 1114 00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:09,160 Speaker 1: Everything is just so serious now. Do you feel that way? Yeah? 1115 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 1: I do. 1116 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,839 Speaker 2: I feel like shit is definitely very serious these days. 1117 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 2: When we was in our twenties, we was having. 1118 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 1: A ball last Yeah, like everything is so about life. 1119 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 5: Like girls be like I can't go out with him 1120 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 5: because he didn't girl, go have fun? 1121 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 1: Like, just go have fun? Are you? 1122 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 5: Is he gonna be my husband or or Niggas be like, 1123 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,319 Speaker 5: man if she not, and I don't know if she 1124 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 5: gonna do. 1125 00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 1: Just go have a good time and vibe. Just vibe 1126 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 1: twins what they say, that's what the kids say, Just 1127 00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 1: vibe twin. 1128 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like god, damn god, mother fucking damn. 1129 00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, they losing the plot. 1130 00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,400 Speaker 5: They losing the plot of having fun. And I hate 1131 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 5: that for my for my youngest and I know a 1132 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,480 Speaker 5: lot of people will be like, well, that's why. That's 1133 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,239 Speaker 5: why y'all old, cause y'all didn't single because y'all didn't 1134 00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 5: take shit seriously. But I feel like God is right 1135 00:53:58,520 --> 00:53:59,480 Speaker 5: on time in my life. 1136 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,840 Speaker 3: That is, I feel like you could take shit serious 1137 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 3: and still be single. 1138 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 2: That don't mean shit because it showed on It don't 1139 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 2: mean shit, be cause it's like you could take somebody 1140 00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 2: serious in your twenties and then you you could, like 1141 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 2: you could be in serious relationships throughout your whole twenties 1142 00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,040 Speaker 2: and still not get married because you might be with 1143 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,600 Speaker 2: men who just don't want to marry you. And not 1144 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,200 Speaker 2: only that, I have a lot of friends that are 1145 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:24,400 Speaker 2: divorced now, and that's what I was gonna say too. Yeah, 1146 00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:27,160 Speaker 2: it's the divorces as well, Like you can get married 1147 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,799 Speaker 2: young and then y'all not compatible as you thought y'all were, 1148 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,479 Speaker 2: And now you twenty seven and divorce and you gotta 1149 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,440 Speaker 2: get back in the streets, and then you don't find 1150 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 2: somebody again till you thirty two. 1151 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, hmmm. People love to try to 1152 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 3: say bullshit to other people, but they be projecting. 1153 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: In my opinion, Yeah, I definitely think they're projecting. And 1154 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:49,839 Speaker 1: I think we are. 1155 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,879 Speaker 5: Another thing about the fun is we're depending on our 1156 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,120 Speaker 5: partners too much. 1157 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 1: To make us happy. 1158 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 5: I wake up every more happy regardless. 1159 00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what people got. 1160 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 5: And that comes with you have to be a little 1161 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 5: selfish and that's okay. 1162 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 1: Yes, And people, what are you doing? 1163 00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,799 Speaker 5: Where are you at? Gotta talk to their partner all day. 1164 00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 5: They can't go out have fun. You have to have 1165 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 5: a life outside of your partner. I again, let me 1166 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 5: bring up the TikTok streets. There was a girl that 1167 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 5: went viral like two or three months ago, and she 1168 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:24,040 Speaker 5: was talking about how I can't go on on girls trip. 1169 00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 5: My husband's not there, my kids aren't there. Y'all are single, 1170 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,759 Speaker 5: I'm not going. But guess what if your husband got 1171 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,080 Speaker 5: invited on a guy's trip, Nine times out of ten, 1172 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 5: he's gonna go. I'm not talking about her in particular, 1173 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,239 Speaker 5: but have a life outside of your spouse, y'all. Don't 1174 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 5: be having nothing to do outside of being a husband, 1175 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,759 Speaker 5: a wife, a mother, a father. Like it's okay to 1176 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 5: have balance, and I think that's a lot of times 1177 00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,560 Speaker 5: the fun is sucked out because when you get home, 1178 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 5: that's a job. You should be rushing home but you're 1179 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:55,799 Speaker 5: not rushing home because you have to make this other 1180 00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,799 Speaker 5: person happy and oh he didn't fix you or he. 1181 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: Didn't call you. Eat it. It'd be too much pressure. 1182 00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:05,640 Speaker 1: The pressure is getting worse up. I don't like it. Yeah, 1183 00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 1: sometimes you. 1184 00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 2: Do gotta apply pressure, though, because then I feel like 1185 00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:10,800 Speaker 2: y'all just be in a great area. 1186 00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: It's a fine line. Yes, I agree. I do agree. 1187 00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 5: You do have to apply pressure, but not to the 1188 00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 5: point to where it's running you thin and running you drop. 1189 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 1190 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, just they people get to know them, and if 1191 00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 2: you like them, just have fun. 1192 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:27,640 Speaker 1: Have fun. 1193 00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,400 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know when somebody's trying to I 1194 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:30,719 Speaker 3: don't know. 1195 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:33,759 Speaker 2: Maybe people discern me and be off, but I know 1196 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 2: when somebody's trying to take advantage of me, or when 1197 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,279 Speaker 2: I feel like they want something our situation and they 1198 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:43,200 Speaker 2: not like being genuine or we don't want the same things. 1199 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,359 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I feel like men be doing 1200 00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,360 Speaker 2: little stuff, like they be like making comments all the 1201 00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:53,359 Speaker 2: time about how fine you are, like about sex and 1202 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:57,160 Speaker 2: insinuating that they want to have sex, or trying to 1203 00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:00,160 Speaker 2: do like intimate things, or they're like very to she 1204 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,520 Speaker 2: feeling Alie. I feel like you could tell early on 1205 00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:06,000 Speaker 2: because a man who really likes you, especially if you're 1206 00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:09,000 Speaker 2: a woman who said boundaries with men on the first 1207 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 2: few days, because you're not just trying to be out 1208 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 2: here just giving it out with the hill. Then I 1209 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,919 Speaker 2: think that then I think that men understand that. Men 1210 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 2: who respect you understand it and they respect your boundaries 1211 00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:24,320 Speaker 2: versus men who just trying to like. 1212 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,160 Speaker 3: Get something from you. 1213 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 1: Same thing with women. 1214 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,880 Speaker 2: I think men should have that discernment to know whether 1215 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 2: or not a woman is really into you, Is she 1216 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 2: really like you, or is she just trying to, like 1217 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 2: see what you can do for her, see if she 1218 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,320 Speaker 2: can get like some free lobster's tills and some free 1219 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,880 Speaker 2: krab legs on a Tuesday night bottomless. 1220 00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 1: But she's trying to get free krab legs. 1221 00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 3: Not the King Crab. 1222 00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 5: King Crab, ain't she Kan Crab is not fucking It's 1223 00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,840 Speaker 5: not and it's really not even that tasty. 1224 00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: I like you. I do not like King Crab. I 1225 00:57:57,800 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 1: like it, but. 1226 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 2: I feel like you gotta get it from right restaurants 1227 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,960 Speaker 2: and it has to have the right accompani. 1228 00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:08,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, like I like stuff that if it's good Solo 1229 00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 5: then I can ask stuff when I feel like when 1230 00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 5: I eat King Crab by itself, it don't make me 1231 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 5: feel like. 1232 00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:14,720 Speaker 1: Oh this is so good. 1233 00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,360 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. It doesn't shiver me timbers. Okay, 1234 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,680 Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. Uh, I like, I like 1235 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 5: it if I'm like dipping it in some butter or 1236 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 5: I'm eating it with other things like you said. But 1237 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 5: I've never been like, ooh, I'm craving like now, do 1238 00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 5: I crave a little crab lad from juice to crab. 1239 00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 5: I'm craving that ship right now too, A fucking bitch up, 1240 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 5: making I fucking bitch up for some crawfish right now. 1241 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, but that King Crab. 1242 00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,080 Speaker 5: But certain holes like U hos is twenty one requesting 1243 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,200 Speaker 5: King Crab, I agree. 1244 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 1: And literally ducking niggas, But I mean, I mean, ain't 1245 00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:57,160 Speaker 1: nothing little. 1246 00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,640 Speaker 3: King Crab, ain't nothing wrong with it? 1247 00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,200 Speaker 2: Like if you butt into a at twenty one, if 1248 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,440 Speaker 2: he's taking you to a fancy restaurant, like if he 1249 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 2: taking you to steak forty eight. Oh yes, yes, if 1250 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 2: mad strolls on the first day, you should be able 1251 00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:11,880 Speaker 2: to order what you own and if you want a 1252 00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,040 Speaker 2: little king crab leg with, maybe he shouldn't have took 1253 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 2: you to mad Stros, maybe he should have took your 1254 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:17,920 Speaker 2: ass to Longhorn. 1255 00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:22,439 Speaker 5: Now agreed, But the thing is you ain't. You're right, 1256 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,520 Speaker 5: but the girls are getting asked out to Longhorn and 1257 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:26,160 Speaker 5: that's okay. 1258 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:29,400 Speaker 1: Go get your little plumpergan crushed U lamb chopped. 1259 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:31,200 Speaker 2: No, I'm not saying thating is wrong with it, but 1260 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, stay in your tax breaking like 1261 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,000 Speaker 2: men be trying to over. 1262 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, be trying to over impress it. It be mad with 1263 00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 1: what you order, what order to be here. You're the 1264 00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:44,080 Speaker 1: one who. 1265 00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,200 Speaker 2: Brought me to Noble and you mad that I order 1266 00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 2: the A five wagu Let me tell you why upset 1267 00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,760 Speaker 2: about that. If you didn't want me to order that, 1268 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 2: you should have took me somewhere where it. 1269 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 1: Was not an option. 1270 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,400 Speaker 5: Damn, I can't even think of the restaurant went to Miami. 1271 00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 5: It was just two of us. That's had was six 1272 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 5: hundred dollars. Yes, you can ate it all. 1273 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 1: No to go boxing bits, good time. 1274 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:06,040 Speaker 2: I just feel like you can't be mad at somebody 1275 01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 2: when you take them somewhere and they order what they want, 1276 01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 2: and then I feel like that's kind of tacky as 1277 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,160 Speaker 2: a man, am I being to like set limitations on 1278 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,200 Speaker 2: what could be ordered, especially on the first day. 1279 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:16,600 Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about it. 1280 01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:20,640 Speaker 3: You over there sweat and. 1281 01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:23,800 Speaker 1: Bullets because you ordered another I'm ordering another lemon drop. 1282 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,040 Speaker 3: I don't like the I don't like it. 1283 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 1: You ain't no leader, bro. 1284 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 3: You should have took me somewhere that didn't have drinks. 1285 01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm went to the park, No, because you ain't going 1286 01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:33,720 Speaker 1: to no park. I want. I want a dray and 1287 01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:35,280 Speaker 1: the cold. So what can I do? 1288 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:35,960 Speaker 3: Nothing? 1289 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,280 Speaker 2: You ain't trying to buy If you ain't trying to 1290 01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:40,640 Speaker 2: buy away good, I don't know. 1291 01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,240 Speaker 1: So I don't know what to tell you. 1292 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:48,280 Speaker 5: But uh not you today? Say you were twenty one 1293 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,640 Speaker 5: right now in twenty twenty six. What can a man 1294 01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:52,920 Speaker 5: do Because there's some girls out there who are twenty one. 1295 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,520 Speaker 5: He feel like I'm a drain of coal. I'm a 1296 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,000 Speaker 5: drain of cole on the making. What can a twenty 1297 01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:58,080 Speaker 5: one year old draina call? 1298 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 1: Like? What is an acceptable date for a twenty and 1299 01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 1: she's getting asked out by another twenty? 1300 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like Atlanta is a cute place. 1301 01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:07,480 Speaker 2: I was just speaking on like Atlanta, Okay, cool. Atlanta 1302 01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:09,400 Speaker 2: is a cute place. Like it's a lot of like 1303 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,960 Speaker 2: cute little local restaurants and stuff that you can go to. 1304 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,760 Speaker 2: And nobody is saying that it has to always be 1305 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,680 Speaker 2: a steakhouse. People need to think outside of the boxing. 1306 01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:18,680 Speaker 2: You gotta go to Eddie B's and stuff all the time. 1307 01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,439 Speaker 2: You could take a girl to like Biesu, you could 1308 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 2: take her to Pasha or something that. Like, Yeah, like 1309 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:29,480 Speaker 2: that's a cute little first day and it's not gonna 1310 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,520 Speaker 2: be as extensive, you know what I mean as like 1311 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 2: some of the places that we were just talking about. 1312 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 3: I think it's more about the connection. 1313 01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,440 Speaker 1: When I was younger, I used to go on dates 1314 01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:43,960 Speaker 1: to Papositos. If I'm being really I love Yeah. 1315 01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 2: Being from Texas, we love papaos and papasitos. Like I 1316 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,200 Speaker 2: used to go on a hot date to Papasitos all 1317 01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 2: the time. 1318 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 1: The one off of sixteen. 1319 01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:54,520 Speaker 3: That was my fight. 1320 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:01,600 Speaker 1: That's what we call it in Houston. 1321 01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 5: Girl. 1322 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 2: Everybody know like that because it's a little hood. 1323 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:09,880 Speaker 1: And that's funeral. I swear. 1324 01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:11,160 Speaker 3: Did they have the repast? 1325 01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: No they didn't. 1326 01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,120 Speaker 5: I went there, but it was a few people that 1327 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,240 Speaker 5: were at the people and you know, we had a 1328 01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:16,600 Speaker 5: good time. 1329 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:17,920 Speaker 3: I had all own repasts. 1330 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, it was a good it was a good time. 1331 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 1: Resting peace to my dog. Yeah. So yeah, Nigos is 1332 01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: always a good time. It is. 1333 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 2: I mean, it's great. It's a great time. Actually the 1334 01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 2: ball will behaved. But it's a little hood, you know, 1335 01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 2: depending on what you into. Now, if you into that, 1336 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 2: that's a good first in Houston, Texas that. 1337 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 1: Popodoles and Smirm and Marietta, that's a little. 1338 01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,680 Speaker 2: It's a little it's a it's a little it's a 1339 01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:45,200 Speaker 2: little nigga. 1340 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:48,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, a little bit. Though, it's a little nigga. When 1341 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:52,400 Speaker 5: I walk in and be like, I'm they. 1342 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:57,600 Speaker 2: Know that I always sit at the ball. But yeah, 1343 01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 2: I just feel like it doesn't matter, like when you're 1344 01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,720 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying about being young, Like I feel 1345 01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,040 Speaker 2: like I've elevated to the points to be able to 1346 01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:07,960 Speaker 2: like care about a lot of stuff that I care about. 1347 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that. 1348 01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:10,800 Speaker 2: And even when we were younger, I know, we used 1349 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:12,960 Speaker 2: to say certain stuff on the show, but it was 1350 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 2: kind of sometimes unrealistic, you know what I mean, And 1351 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 2: it was stupid. I was dating dudes who was doing it. 1352 01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:22,520 Speaker 2: So I don't feel like it was unrealistic in that 1353 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,640 Speaker 2: way because it was what was really happening in my life. 1354 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:30,640 Speaker 2: But I do think that setting certain standards, you're closing 1355 01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 2: yourself off from a whole nother group of men that 1356 01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: might be good for you and might not have it, 1357 01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:37,720 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 1358 01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,400 Speaker 1: And I just feel like that's kind of fucked up. 1359 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,560 Speaker 5: And then a lot of times the men that you 1360 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,560 Speaker 5: have to deal with, because in my situations it was 1361 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 5: like it was a lot of bullshit too, you know 1362 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,160 Speaker 5: what I'm saying, So you have to be dealing with 1363 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 5: some bullshit, and like I said, it's just more fun 1364 01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,080 Speaker 5: to just have fun. And maybe, like if I had 1365 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 5: to choose to go twenty one year old me, ooh, 1366 01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,200 Speaker 5: I told this story before I did go to Eddie 1367 01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 5: V's as a twenty three year old girl, and this 1368 01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 5: man had money. 1369 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:06,760 Speaker 1: I didn't. 1370 01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,400 Speaker 5: I didn't know how to eat an oyster, bitch. I 1371 01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:12,200 Speaker 5: put so much what's that stuff called horse ready? Ooh, 1372 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:13,760 Speaker 5: I put so much fucking horse rad. 1373 01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 1: Oh, bitch. I didn't know what because I didn't know 1374 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:21,480 Speaker 1: what I was doing, and I was so embarrassed. He 1375 01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,280 Speaker 1: was like, you straight, bab you straight. 1376 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 5: He was a street pharmacist, so he did. He had 1377 01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 5: been there a few times, and I'm just trying. 1378 01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:30,919 Speaker 3: To mistake in life, right, But if I was. 1379 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 5: There, I remember like going on dates with my younger 1380 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:35,920 Speaker 5: boyfriend at the time, and we were both just you know, 1381 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:39,560 Speaker 5: when we had money, Like we worked at TGI Friday together, 1382 01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,880 Speaker 5: so like we would go to like a nice steakhouse 1383 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 5: and it would be funny, be like, oh, let's what 1384 01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,280 Speaker 5: it is because we got our money together and it 1385 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 5: was like fun experience. But I remember being on that 1386 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 5: day and being just like horrified because I felt like 1387 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 5: I had to. 1388 01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,240 Speaker 1: But it taught me a lot. I didn't never ate 1389 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:55,320 Speaker 1: horse Rader since then. 1390 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to go on dates to a lot 1391 01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,200 Speaker 2: of places, like I don't even be trying. I'm not 1392 01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,000 Speaker 2: never gonna try the front, like because when I was younger, 1393 01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 2: I didn't care like I used to like good food, 1394 01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,280 Speaker 2: Like I don't went on dates to Chili's when I 1395 01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:10,160 Speaker 2: was in and stuff. I don't went on dates to 1396 01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,640 Speaker 2: Cheddars all of these places. Who it's places that I 1397 01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 2: don't think are in Georgia. 1398 01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:18,360 Speaker 5: By the way, Well I think Cheddars is like on 1399 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 5: the outskirts, but we do have the Chili's is definitely 1400 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:21,120 Speaker 5: out here. 1401 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:21,960 Speaker 1: Something chilis. 1402 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, but chaedds. What's that restaurant that we have in Texas? 1403 01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:27,440 Speaker 2: To salt Grass? 1404 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,520 Speaker 5: They got think we got here. 1405 01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 2: But I used to go on dates to Salks talk Grass. 1406 01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 2: I used to go on dates to. 1407 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 5: Oh the Mexican place, them them fahitas, bitch. 1408 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 2: I mean nigga could take me anyway. Yeah, that's what 1409 01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm the fun time like, we don't have. 1410 01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 3: Exactly. 1411 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:58,200 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie. I went and sat down at 1412 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,240 Speaker 5: a piece of hood. It wasn't too long ago, and 1413 01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 5: we had a ball, bitch. We wasnt that fucked up? 1414 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,760 Speaker 5: And that pizza was so buttery them them pepperonis was 1415 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:07,840 Speaker 5: cupped and crispy. 1416 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,720 Speaker 1: Oh, we had a ball, bitch. 1417 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:14,240 Speaker 2: Let's said, as long as I get my own person deal, 1418 01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:18,200 Speaker 2: as long as I can get my own right. 1419 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 5: Come on now, Hey, I ain't mad at it. The 1420 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,800 Speaker 5: time was had, but I think that that's what fun is. Though, 1421 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 5: we need to get back to having fun. I think 1422 01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 5: the world is too serious right now. Y'all be worried 1423 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,720 Speaker 5: about getting mortgages and shells and this and that. 1424 01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 1: Man, just let's go back to having fun. We took 1425 01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:36,880 Speaker 1: shit too far, and we took shit too far. 1426 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,840 Speaker 2: I agree, and still to this day, like Grannie, Yes, 1427 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,520 Speaker 2: I love a steakhouse, like I love to go eat 1428 01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 2: at a fancy restaurant, and I will go with my men, 1429 01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,680 Speaker 2: I will go on my own, I will go with 1430 01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:48,640 Speaker 2: my homegirls. 1431 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 3: But sometimes i'd be cool. We're going to Edgewood Pizza. 1432 01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:57,040 Speaker 5: Now you put me on Edgewood Pizza and that motherfucker, 1433 01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 5: I'm fucking garlic bread. 1434 01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:02,080 Speaker 1: That garlic bread, Oh my god. 1435 01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:02,960 Speaker 3: Like I still be. 1436 01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:05,440 Speaker 2: I'm a very down to earth person, Like I'm still 1437 01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 2: every date, every time we hang out, because sometimes that's 1438 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 2: the thing realistically, when you're in a relationship or when 1439 01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:15,280 Speaker 2: you're dating somebody serious, sometimes shit is gonna be impromptu. 1440 01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:17,680 Speaker 1: We not always gonna good words. 1441 01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:20,200 Speaker 2: Yes, it's sometimes cause it's just spurred the moment. They 1442 01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,040 Speaker 2: might be already out and they call you be like, hey, 1443 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 2: you hungry, you want to go. 1444 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 1: Somewhere and eat? 1445 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:27,439 Speaker 2: You not. I'm just saying you're not gonna always get 1446 01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 2: dressed up, you know what I mean to go out 1447 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:30,240 Speaker 2: to eat. 1448 01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:33,040 Speaker 3: It's not always giving on. 1449 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you walk into a little. 1450 01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:38,720 Speaker 2: Spike, grab some food, get a drink and have a ball, 1451 01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:41,360 Speaker 2: and I'll be pulling up like this sometimes. But with 1452 01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 2: my fancy homebody on and my new balances. 1453 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 1: Those are cute. You not hood with it. 1454 01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:50,959 Speaker 3: I'm hood at. 1455 01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 5: Hard at heart, know what I'm saying, But you don't 1456 01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:56,680 Speaker 5: look it's a little different. So because you're very well 1457 01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:59,840 Speaker 5: polished and put together. So it's never gave hood. 1458 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:01,000 Speaker 1: On the inside. 1459 01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 3: Cream cream on what cream on the inside, fags. 1460 01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 5: Clean on the outside, cream on the inside, clean on 1461 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:20,080 Speaker 5: the outside. 1462 01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 2: But but also I meany to say, like I feel 1463 01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,519 Speaker 2: like I'm still hood at heart. I'm poly you're born. 1464 01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,160 Speaker 1: Down to earth and people would expect you know. I 1465 01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:35,759 Speaker 1: love a good naw hood time. 1466 01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:38,760 Speaker 2: We know that barn that we used to go to 1467 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,080 Speaker 2: all the time from when I lived in my old building. 1468 01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:44,439 Speaker 2: Remember that fucking barny like cigarettes in there. We used 1469 01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:47,120 Speaker 2: to always go in there all the time and party 1470 01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 2: and turn Yes, bro, we used to have a fucking 1471 01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:51,680 Speaker 2: ball in you. 1472 01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:55,000 Speaker 1: I should have punshed that nigga ran overrom that night. 1473 01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:56,599 Speaker 2: But we had a good time and we would always 1474 01:08:56,640 --> 01:09:02,600 Speaker 2: see that basketball player, they retired basketball player. Oh, he 1475 01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:04,600 Speaker 2: was always in there, which was so random because it 1476 01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 2: was so dusty. So it was like, out of all 1477 01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:10,040 Speaker 2: the places in the city, this where you always come 1478 01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:11,200 Speaker 2: to on your free zimee. 1479 01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,760 Speaker 1: Damn, we always just running into bdbs. 1480 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 2: It's on us, it's in us, not on us, Oh 1481 01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:25,800 Speaker 2: my god. But we used to have a ball in 1482 01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:29,400 Speaker 2: that little hole in the wall. Let's go, baby, but 1483 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:33,000 Speaker 2: a hole in the wall. So there's a So you 1484 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:34,479 Speaker 2: need to go to the best time. 1485 01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,160 Speaker 5: You need to go to the Mexican spot around the 1486 01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:39,679 Speaker 5: corner from there though, no from yours. 1487 01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:40,799 Speaker 1: There's mine. 1488 01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, from it's around the corner from that spot. It's 1489 01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:47,680 Speaker 5: in the opposite direction, and it's so good. We went 1490 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:53,599 Speaker 5: to Zola. Okay, you're right, let's move on. You want 1491 01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:54,519 Speaker 5: to get on top of two. 1492 01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:56,400 Speaker 1: Or looking out the bed top. 1493 01:09:56,520 --> 01:10:02,439 Speaker 5: Okay, it's time to get into a bow a bow 1494 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:07,040 Speaker 5: the b Well, first, do we want to do the drink? 1495 01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:10,160 Speaker 1: Will we drinking? Let's go ahead. 1496 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:16,240 Speaker 2: I'm actually gonna call this bring back fun, bring that back, 1497 01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,719 Speaker 2: running back. So I did have a little fun playing 1498 01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 2: and crafting this one. This is gonna be a gin 1499 01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:24,400 Speaker 2: based cocktail, and then I use some driver mooth in it. 1500 01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,200 Speaker 2: If anyone likes dry martinis. That's kind of like one 1501 01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:28,800 Speaker 2: of the loo cores that we use in that. So 1502 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,200 Speaker 2: we have some gin, some driver mood, a little bit 1503 01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,080 Speaker 2: of lime juice, some past shods bidders, So this one 1504 01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,880 Speaker 2: is a little bit more boozy on the taste. And 1505 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,759 Speaker 2: then I added some rose syrup and then for Drea's 1506 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,360 Speaker 2: I topped it with a sparkling rosett So it's just 1507 01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:45,000 Speaker 2: giving us some effervescence there. And then we did a 1508 01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:48,120 Speaker 2: simple garnish like kind of like a Cosmo style. So 1509 01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 2: we have a skewerd lime wheel for this one. So 1510 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,439 Speaker 2: this is bring back fun, bring back the mother. 1511 01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:55,400 Speaker 5: Shut out. 1512 01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:57,639 Speaker 1: Shout out to Utah. 1513 01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:59,240 Speaker 5: I got a message the other day somebody was like, 1514 01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 5: how can we book time for events? So can you 1515 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:03,120 Speaker 5: let them know how they can book you? 1516 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely thank you for that. You can go to www 1517 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 2: dot somixy dot com. You can also follow us on 1518 01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:12,600 Speaker 2: Instagram or TikTok and or TikTok so mixy s O 1519 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,760 Speaker 2: M I x x Y. That inquiry link will be 1520 01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:19,280 Speaker 2: in our bios. So go ahead and book us period now. 1521 01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:24,719 Speaker 3: Check yah because she playing we have a minimum exacts. 1522 01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:26,559 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, period. 1523 01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:28,679 Speaker 3: Don't come if your money is funny. 1524 01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,880 Speaker 1: We ain't talking, xp fuddy, we ain't even talking. 1525 01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:34,160 Speaker 3: He ain't even funny, no noise. 1526 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I tried. Man, shut up girl. It gives it though, 1527 01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:40,000 Speaker 1: it gives what. 1528 01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 3: It ain't funny no more. 1529 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:45,479 Speaker 1: How he keeps you look at my shoe. You can't. 1530 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:50,280 Speaker 1: She can't. She can't. What are y'all talking about? 1531 01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:52,640 Speaker 3: You can't give it your money? It's funny no more. 1532 01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,160 Speaker 1: Just don't give that no more. I thought I was 1533 01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:58,280 Speaker 1: being relatable. No, I'm down with the calls. 1534 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think that you're not relatable. Well, I 1535 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 2: think you are still relatable. But it's apparent that you 1536 01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 2: that you that's why you I think you know it. 1537 01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:07,559 Speaker 2: That's why you don't say that three dollars joke no more. 1538 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:09,000 Speaker 2: You know no one is gonna believe it. 1539 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,639 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll let you get that one little thing off. 1540 01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:16,760 Speaker 1: I'll let you get it your shit off. You ain't 1541 01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,000 Speaker 1: said that in a long time, and we know why. 1542 01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:19,760 Speaker 2: Why. 1543 01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,439 Speaker 1: No, it's not because I think sometimes I will run 1544 01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:23,519 Speaker 1: a joke into the ground. 1545 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,519 Speaker 5: I'm a type of bitch. If you laugh at my joke, 1546 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:27,680 Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell about thirty more times. That's that's who 1547 01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:30,120 Speaker 5: I am. So it's not that I said. I'm not 1548 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,320 Speaker 5: saying it no more because I got more than three 1549 01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:37,280 Speaker 5: dollars allegedly. I just don't say it no more because 1550 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:41,040 Speaker 5: I don't said it enough. Yeah, I said it enough. 1551 01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 5: Y'all know I got three dollars. 1552 01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:48,120 Speaker 3: They know you got that time seen. No, No, you're 1553 01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:48,840 Speaker 3: about thirty. 1554 01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,080 Speaker 1: No, I don't know. Moving on. 1555 01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:58,160 Speaker 5: Have you ever been shocked by someone's sexual personality versus 1556 01:12:58,240 --> 01:13:01,880 Speaker 5: how they act and realize the quiet, shy person who 1557 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:05,800 Speaker 5: turns into a completely different personality behind closed doors, or 1558 01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:09,120 Speaker 5: the super confident, loud person who ends up being way 1559 01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:13,200 Speaker 5: more reserved than expected in bed in. 1560 01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:17,040 Speaker 1: Bed, I've been shocked, be shocked. 1561 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:21,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like that's why you can't underestimate people, 1562 01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:23,880 Speaker 2: because they'll always shock you. 1563 01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,120 Speaker 1: They'll throw you for a loop. 1564 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,160 Speaker 5: I don't say honest because I have a story to 1565 01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,560 Speaker 5: tell and I don't know if I'm it. 1566 01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:34,040 Speaker 3: Why are you smiling like this? 1567 01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:36,080 Speaker 5: Because I have a story and I probably shouldn't tell it, 1568 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:38,559 Speaker 5: but I think I am gonna tell it just because 1569 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:43,479 Speaker 5: I can't. I'm not mysterious. I was dating this guy 1570 01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:49,639 Speaker 5: for a little bit, and this is because y'all y'all 1571 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:51,880 Speaker 5: like to search my name with niggas names. Is nobody 1572 01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:53,840 Speaker 5: that anybody ever knew because they do that shit all 1573 01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 5: the time. 1574 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,280 Speaker 2: Okay, it's some rumor going around about me right now 1575 01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:59,680 Speaker 2: with somebody. Oh, I'm not gonna say who it is 1576 01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 2: on me tell. 1577 01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:08,360 Speaker 1: Me in my ear. Yes, I wouldn't. Yes, somebody said 1578 01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:09,880 Speaker 1: the thing, so I would want to be a fly 1579 01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 1: on the wall to the thing. We can go back 1580 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:16,639 Speaker 1: to old times with that one. 1581 01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:19,320 Speaker 3: I gotta tell tie off camera. 1582 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1583 01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:23,639 Speaker 3: But like I was like, but it's like apparently a rumor. 1584 01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:28,719 Speaker 5: I'm gonna start it. I'm about to create a fake page. 1585 01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:29,920 Speaker 5: So he'll be like, who is this? 1586 01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:33,040 Speaker 2: Somebody already started it, they left it, No worry. 1587 01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:40,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I got love lex P breaking news whole ass niggas. Okay, 1588 01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:42,040 Speaker 5: it's time to get it started. 1589 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:42,519 Speaker 1: Okay. 1590 01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:46,640 Speaker 5: Anyways, I was shocked because this man was like so 1591 01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 5: fine to me. He was successful, he was just all 1592 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,680 Speaker 5: these things that I just you know, I thought I 1593 01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:55,240 Speaker 5: wanted and I liked and sexually, you know, we had 1594 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:57,719 Speaker 5: messed around a few times and it was amazing. 1595 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:01,120 Speaker 1: And one night we were in. 1596 01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:05,640 Speaker 5: A hotel room and you know, he was getting undressed 1597 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:07,880 Speaker 5: and now he was getting undressed. 1598 01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: And y'all he he had on one of those briefs 1599 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,599 Speaker 1: that was like a phone. But it wasn't a speedo though. 1600 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:21,120 Speaker 1: It was like, but the ass was out chaps? 1601 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:25,120 Speaker 5: What is that? What's it called when the athlete chaps? No, 1602 01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,840 Speaker 5: it wasn't chaps though. It was like underwear because chaps 1603 01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:31,560 Speaker 5: go all the way to the floor. Yes, it was 1604 01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 5: an ass list phone. And I was so fucked up. 1605 01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:37,720 Speaker 1: Don't let me tell y'all something. When I get drunk, I. 1606 01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:39,360 Speaker 3: Get fucked shorts. 1607 01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:42,800 Speaker 1: It wasn't shorts. It was like, you don't have the 1608 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 1: strippers wear? Those things had cuffed the booty. 1609 01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:46,200 Speaker 3: He had on a strap. 1610 01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:49,439 Speaker 1: I don't It was like a jock strap. It looked 1611 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:49,720 Speaker 1: like that. 1612 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:51,960 Speaker 5: Yes, that's what it looked like. And when I get 1613 01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:54,160 Speaker 5: fucked up, I get fucked up when I. 1614 01:15:54,200 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 1: Tell y'all, yes, that's what it was. I looked up. 1615 01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:02,880 Speaker 1: I said, what the fuck you? I said, what the 1616 01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:06,720 Speaker 1: fuck do you have on? Bro? Job? 1617 01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:06,920 Speaker 2: Oh? 1618 01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,439 Speaker 1: I sold it up quick than a bitch, cause what 1619 01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:11,479 Speaker 1: the fuck do you? What the fuck? 1620 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,280 Speaker 5: Why is your ass sitting up like two basketballs? Who 1621 01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:15,200 Speaker 5: ass nigga. 1622 01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 1: Better than men? That's the big thing his cornbras, Oh 1623 01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,519 Speaker 1: my god, cause why do you have that? 1624 01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:27,720 Speaker 5: Nah? I ain't gonna lie to you, and I don't 1625 01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:31,160 Speaker 5: like to shame people. And but I was like, I 1626 01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:33,280 Speaker 5: promise you. I was cool on him after that. 1627 01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,720 Speaker 1: Cool. What was his reasoning for wearing that? 1628 01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:37,560 Speaker 5: I don't know if maybe it was something that he 1629 01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:39,320 Speaker 5: had on and he didn't want a panty line. 1630 01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:41,439 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what I chalked it up to in my head. 1631 01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:46,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, and I don't like 1632 01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:49,439 Speaker 1: to judge people. I don't. You just can't be in 1633 01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 1: my life. 1634 01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:53,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, it turned me off so bad. 1635 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 5: It turned me off, and it surprised me because like, 1636 01:16:56,439 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 5: I would never guess M that you would have you 1637 01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:00,680 Speaker 5: got that on? 1638 01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:01,000 Speaker 2: Bro? 1639 01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:03,720 Speaker 1: Why is you a bad bit? But did they tell you? 1640 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:08,080 Speaker 1: I went, I was drunk as fuck, and I was like, 1641 01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 1: why the fuck you got? Never mind? 1642 01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:10,360 Speaker 2: Bro? 1643 01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: I went to sleep. I woke up. 1644 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:16,000 Speaker 2: I called my own uber remember that song looking like 1645 01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:20,360 Speaker 2: a stallion and Dan like he was looking like as 1646 01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:22,800 Speaker 2: off and like I would have expected him to. 1647 01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:25,360 Speaker 3: He was looking like a stallion and fucking like a pro. 1648 01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:27,880 Speaker 5: He wasn't fucking ship that night. I went to sleep, 1649 01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:29,600 Speaker 5: you know how bad it is. If I go to 1650 01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:30,639 Speaker 5: sleep on no dick. 1651 01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:38,000 Speaker 2: I like the fuck, hey man, why did But he 1652 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:41,000 Speaker 2: never gave you a in. I never asked you're tripping. 1653 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:41,760 Speaker 1: I would have asked. 1654 01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:43,760 Speaker 3: I straight up would have been like, why the fuck 1655 01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 3: you got that on? 1656 01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,120 Speaker 1: I was like, what, I do you wash it? 1657 01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,439 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie like I remember because I was 1658 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,120 Speaker 5: kind of drunk, I was like, what's going on? I 1659 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:54,320 Speaker 5: was like, bro, why you got that own? I did ask, 1660 01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:55,599 Speaker 5: but maybe he did answer. 1661 01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 1: Maybe he was just kind of being like, you trippy. 1662 01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:01,559 Speaker 1: I don't know, bro, I don't know. But never talk 1663 01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:02,599 Speaker 1: to that man again. 1664 01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:09,240 Speaker 5: Before this is a long time ago. Before y'all get 1665 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:12,800 Speaker 5: it was a long time ago. But yes, that shit 1666 01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 5: surprised the fuck out of me. 1667 01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:15,040 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1668 01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:16,800 Speaker 2: I think a lot of the time people be more 1669 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:19,519 Speaker 2: than what meets THEA like you just always be shocked 1670 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,040 Speaker 2: when you get down to the needy. 1671 01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:28,400 Speaker 5: Greedy Yeah what people get sold fay? Oh my god, bro, 1672 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,160 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. That's why I said I'm okay with vanilla 1673 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,519 Speaker 5: sex and vanilla things. I don't need all that. It 1674 01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:36,639 Speaker 5: really don't take. I'm an emotional connection. 1675 01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:40,600 Speaker 1: Girl. You don't gotta fly from the ceilings. Pick me 1676 01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:41,800 Speaker 1: up by my toe. 1677 01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:44,080 Speaker 5: Most thing I like a little nigga to do is, 1678 01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 5: you know, push my legs behind my head, maybe suck 1679 01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:47,920 Speaker 5: a little toe. 1680 01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:51,760 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll give you a little dirty purple mat. That's it. 1681 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 1: I don't like to get do too much. 1682 01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:57,520 Speaker 5: Y'all be getting too motherfucking freaky. 1683 01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:58,799 Speaker 3: People be too freaky. 1684 01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:00,439 Speaker 1: Why. I don't know. 1685 01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:04,240 Speaker 2: I do be thinking once I get like a lot 1686 01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:07,400 Speaker 2: of me. I do think I'm gonna have like a 1687 01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:09,320 Speaker 2: sixth room in my house. 1688 01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:11,280 Speaker 1: But that's okay. I think a sex room is okay. 1689 01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:14,320 Speaker 1: I think I will have one, like like how Candy 1690 01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:15,519 Speaker 1: does gonna be my gungeing? 1691 01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:17,640 Speaker 5: Like Candy has a sex room in her house. She 1692 01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 5: has a done she has But I don't think. I 1693 01:19:19,479 --> 01:19:22,479 Speaker 5: think Candy is freaky. But it's not nothing that's like, 1694 01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:24,760 Speaker 5: oh my god, well nothing that she's let us know, 1695 01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:27,000 Speaker 5: because she's very open about what she likes in the bedroom. 1696 01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:29,000 Speaker 1: But it's never been nothing. I'm like, oh my god, Candy, 1697 01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:31,960 Speaker 1: you're into that now. It's never been nothing crazy, Like 1698 01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:35,439 Speaker 1: she's been very open from what I heard, like women 1699 01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:38,960 Speaker 1: or things like that. That ain't nothing. Crazy toys, crazy toys. 1700 01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,320 Speaker 5: You know, she had the swing that she was selling 1701 01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:44,840 Speaker 5: like that's nothing, but like, y'all be doing some weird 1702 01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:45,479 Speaker 5: ass shit. 1703 01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:49,120 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, like, what's the weirdest thing got 1704 01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:53,800 Speaker 2: ever had somebody do? It'sbody gonna be just thank them? 1705 01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:59,320 Speaker 1: What's he thinks? No, I ain't spaking your thick ass bitch. 1706 01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:02,320 Speaker 1: It was a little thick he wanted. 1707 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:09,760 Speaker 2: And he wanted to me the spade the way the 1708 01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:29,320 Speaker 2: donkey Okay, donkey, ain't that shrink? 1709 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:32,719 Speaker 1: That's all because you know what I was trying to say, 1710 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,920 Speaker 1: but I couldn't think of the line. Sorry, y'all b 1711 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:44,000 Speaker 1: came in here, but no, yes, and like with a paddle, 1712 01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:48,920 Speaker 1: Oh you didn't say that? Yeah, like with a paddle spank? 1713 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:51,640 Speaker 1: Did you do it? Yeah? Yeah, I know you did it. 1714 01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:54,880 Speaker 3: I love to do ship for the plights just so 1715 01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:55,160 Speaker 3: I can. 1716 01:20:56,120 --> 01:21:00,080 Speaker 5: Was that ask like, oh my god. 1717 01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:00,960 Speaker 3: Go ahead, daddy. 1718 01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:04,800 Speaker 1: Did you continue to suck him after that? 1719 01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 2: No? 1720 01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:10,519 Speaker 5: Okay, because that's how it be though to like try 1721 01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:13,320 Speaker 5: it and you be like, uh, get you get the ick. 1722 01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:15,040 Speaker 1: It's cool for the moment, but. 1723 01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,200 Speaker 3: You do get the it and you do Wow, why 1724 01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:18,120 Speaker 3: do you want to get spain? 1725 01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:23,320 Speaker 1: Too freaky for me? He liked it. Though, do you 1726 01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:25,759 Speaker 1: like getting spanked? Not with no paddle? 1727 01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:31,559 Speaker 2: That's like some frat stuff like that's lingering from maybe 1728 01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:34,000 Speaker 2: but he would no, but he wasn't No. 1729 01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:35,920 Speaker 5: That was like a rumor that was going around when 1730 01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:37,680 Speaker 5: I was in college at the frat. Like one of 1731 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:39,919 Speaker 5: the things that they would do was like eat donuts 1732 01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:42,320 Speaker 5: off of their That was going around at my school too, 1733 01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:43,639 Speaker 5: So maybe that was true. 1734 01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:47,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, because how would travel from tsu to 1735 01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:53,440 Speaker 2: neckadoe cheese. I don't know's. 1736 01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,519 Speaker 1: Eating us up, you bitch, eating us up? 1737 01:21:58,600 --> 01:21:59,879 Speaker 3: Like they was eating them donuts. 1738 01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:08,400 Speaker 1: See it's not me this episode, And I'm glad. I'm 1739 01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:10,760 Speaker 1: glad I kept it cute. So y'all know I did 1740 01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:12,759 Speaker 1: keep c We're kidding. 1741 01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:17,280 Speaker 2: Allegedly they was eating ship Lee's off the deg eating 1742 01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,920 Speaker 2: off to me too, ain't gonna lie. 1743 01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:21,040 Speaker 1: I was like, that doesn't sound. 1744 01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:24,720 Speaker 2: Because if you ever had ship LEAs before, I know, 1745 01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:28,320 Speaker 2: you know Koalachi's I eat a little boot and off 1746 01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:28,800 Speaker 2: there too. 1747 01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:31,280 Speaker 1: I've also eaten worse off of it. 1748 01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:37,640 Speaker 5: So a little lashi Okay, Okay, we gotta we gotta okay, Uh, 1749 01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:41,280 Speaker 5: somehow it's time to get into the bie. 1750 01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: Okay. 1751 01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:49,840 Speaker 5: So I'm gonna do a throwback for this bop of 1752 01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:51,840 Speaker 5: the week when I tell y'all, I had such a 1753 01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:55,800 Speaker 5: grand time driving to the studio today. I think a 1754 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:57,360 Speaker 5: lot of times I talk about who I used to 1755 01:22:57,360 --> 01:22:59,000 Speaker 5: be in high school on my personality, A lot of 1756 01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:00,639 Speaker 5: people don't understand it. I was like, oh my god, 1757 01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:02,439 Speaker 5: I cannot believe I forgot about this woman. 1758 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:04,799 Speaker 1: This is who I was. Fefee Dobson. 1759 01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:07,439 Speaker 3: Y'all a little too young for Feefee Dobson. 1760 01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:11,600 Speaker 5: Feefee Dobson was the first like black girl that we 1761 01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:16,800 Speaker 5: saw really get into like the rock songs and things 1762 01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,720 Speaker 5: like that. The whole album that she had it was 1763 01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:23,400 Speaker 5: her self titled album, Fefee Dobson. But the song that 1764 01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:26,719 Speaker 5: I listened to was Rocket Till You Drop It. I'm serious, 1765 01:23:26,760 --> 01:23:30,120 Speaker 5: everybody right now, download Rocket Till You Drop It by 1766 01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:34,240 Speaker 5: Feefee Dobson. It is like such a good song. And 1767 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,240 Speaker 5: when I listened to her whole album on the way here, 1768 01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:39,960 Speaker 5: she take Me Away. You remember that song take Me Away? 1769 01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:41,400 Speaker 4: You know that. 1770 01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:42,519 Speaker 1: I know you know that because I was on the 1771 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:43,639 Speaker 1: MTV Morning Jams. 1772 01:23:43,680 --> 01:23:46,360 Speaker 5: But her whole album was actually good Bye Bye Boyfriend, 1773 01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:50,880 Speaker 5: Give It Up. We went for a Ride album was 1774 01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:54,080 Speaker 5: ten out of ten, and I hate that. I feel like, 1775 01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:57,120 Speaker 5: in twenty twenty six, more black women are accepted in 1776 01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,479 Speaker 5: different genres and things like that, and she was so 1777 01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 5: ahead of her time. I feel like if she could 1778 01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,800 Speaker 5: drop Rocket Till You Drop It right now in twenty 1779 01:24:04,840 --> 01:24:07,280 Speaker 5: twenty six and it would go platinum, it would go crazy. 1780 01:24:07,640 --> 01:24:10,400 Speaker 5: So shout out to VF. Dobson, still a major fan 1781 01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:12,200 Speaker 5: of yours. Rocket Till You Drop It, VF. 1782 01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:13,799 Speaker 1: Dopson. That's my bother for the week period. 1783 01:24:14,840 --> 01:24:16,400 Speaker 3: What you got, I'm gonna do it? 1784 01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:17,639 Speaker 1: Throw two Okay. 1785 01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:23,440 Speaker 2: So you know I love when people execute remakes Flawlessleep 1786 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:27,040 Speaker 2: and a good remake that I was listening to the 1787 01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:29,280 Speaker 2: other day and I don't know if it's I think 1788 01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:32,040 Speaker 2: it had just came up on like my play leads 1789 01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:34,719 Speaker 2: or whatever, like I had it looping or whatever. 1790 01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 1: But when not looping, but you know what I mean, like. 1791 01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:43,120 Speaker 2: Shuffle, yeah, shuffle. So thank God I Found You by 1792 01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:47,599 Speaker 2: Mariah Carey, Joe and I. It was on Joe's album 1793 01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:49,840 Speaker 2: like way back in the day. I just feel like 1794 01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:52,639 Speaker 2: that was just such a good remake of the Keith 1795 01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:54,320 Speaker 2: Sweat song Make It Last forever. 1796 01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:57,320 Speaker 1: It's so good. It's so good. 1797 01:24:57,360 --> 01:25:01,880 Speaker 2: From Na's verse to Mariah's vocal to Joe's vocals, it's 1798 01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:03,680 Speaker 2: just a vibe. I'm gonna listen to it again when 1799 01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:04,800 Speaker 2: I get in a goddamn card. 1800 01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:09,640 Speaker 5: Actually remax back then, you had to. You couldn't just 1801 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:11,799 Speaker 5: remake it and just do anything. 1802 01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 3: You couldn't. 1803 01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:16,519 Speaker 5: Remixes were actually remixes. It sounded like a completely different song. 1804 01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:21,200 Speaker 5: Listen to No, No, No, two different songs, different songs. 1805 01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:23,639 Speaker 5: They don't do that no more. When you did a remake, 1806 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:25,200 Speaker 5: you had to make it your own. 1807 01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. What's the song by Whitney Houston that she redid 1808 01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:30,439 Speaker 1: from Chaka Khan? I'm every woman? 1809 01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:30,960 Speaker 2: M hm. 1810 01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:34,320 Speaker 5: Chaka Khan made it a hit. Whitney Houston made it 1811 01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:37,960 Speaker 5: a hit. It sounds like two completely different songs. The kids, 1812 01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:39,000 Speaker 5: y'all need to go back. 1813 01:25:39,439 --> 01:25:41,040 Speaker 3: They do, they need to go back. 1814 01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:44,400 Speaker 2: They starting to remakes right, they're not doing them right, 1815 01:25:44,600 --> 01:25:45,639 Speaker 2: not doing them right nomore. 1816 01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,280 Speaker 1: So yes that is you know who did do a 1817 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:51,439 Speaker 1: remake right this year? This emotion ball you cannot get 1818 01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,479 Speaker 1: in you. That was my neck my bag? 1819 01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:58,000 Speaker 5: Oh yeah yeah, donjo Ill dream bad bitches love it 1820 01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:00,479 Speaker 5: change like a lush. 1821 01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:04,080 Speaker 3: You know some songs. We'll be running low on songs save. 1822 01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:13,240 Speaker 1: I just realized was a remake, said that I didn't 1823 01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:17,800 Speaker 1: emotions the Uh what is it not the Beatles of 1824 01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:20,200 Speaker 1: the Begs? Yeah, I did not know. 1825 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:22,840 Speaker 2: That was not her original song. And it came up 1826 01:26:22,880 --> 01:26:25,360 Speaker 2: on the playlist. And even though it was word for word, 1827 01:26:25,439 --> 01:26:28,479 Speaker 2: bar for bar, run for run, she still ate it up. 1828 01:26:28,960 --> 01:26:32,800 Speaker 5: That's how you had to remake a song. Though, literally 1829 01:26:32,920 --> 01:26:33,639 Speaker 5: a lot of songs. 1830 01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:35,960 Speaker 1: I think that we grew up. We didn't learn until 1831 01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:42,240 Speaker 1: later on. Proud Mary is a remake. Yeah, yes, probably it. 1832 01:26:42,320 --> 01:26:45,000 Speaker 5: Was a well, I don't I can't remember it's the song, 1833 01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:47,760 Speaker 5: it's Proud Mary. I can't remember the original band's name. 1834 01:26:48,040 --> 01:26:49,400 Speaker 5: But Proud Mary is a remake. 1835 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:50,640 Speaker 3: It was music before that. 1836 01:26:54,080 --> 01:26:58,720 Speaker 1: H Credence Clearwater Revival. 1837 01:26:58,560 --> 01:26:59,200 Speaker 3: In the studio. 1838 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,680 Speaker 1: Yes, it was a song. And it's a group of 1839 01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:06,120 Speaker 1: white men on this. Yes, it was a white band. Yeah, 1840 01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:08,439 Speaker 1: Proud Mary was not originally Tina's. 1841 01:27:08,520 --> 01:27:12,400 Speaker 3: No, it was not Lauren Knew every Day. Why are you. 1842 01:27:14,120 --> 01:27:18,920 Speaker 1: Saying is there music before then? It's crazy because the brothers. Oh, 1843 01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:22,200 Speaker 1: but that was around the same time though, But can 1844 01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:22,800 Speaker 1: I do one more? 1845 01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:25,719 Speaker 3: I guess I meant like it was music before the sixties. 1846 01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:28,519 Speaker 1: Well, I guess it was like blue yes, jazz before 1847 01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:32,240 Speaker 1: the sixties. Yeah, we can't canceled. That's okay. Though, we're 1848 01:27:32,280 --> 01:27:34,400 Speaker 1: gonna bounce back. We're gonna bounce. We're gonna bounce back 1849 01:27:34,439 --> 01:27:34,640 Speaker 1: from me. 1850 01:27:34,800 --> 01:27:36,960 Speaker 3: We're not because realistically have. 1851 01:27:42,320 --> 01:27:47,160 Speaker 1: Realistically speaking though like I wasn't listening to me. You 1852 01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:52,519 Speaker 1: weren't born exactly, but you know your history. Don't do that, dred. 1853 01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:53,559 Speaker 1: You was being funny. 1854 01:27:56,720 --> 01:28:00,120 Speaker 5: Beside note, Ronald Issley dropped the song recently tied the 1855 01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:03,479 Speaker 5: Sign has a project that's out. Ronald Isisley has been 1856 01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:08,400 Speaker 5: making music since my grandfather was a baby. Yes, so 1857 01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:11,880 Speaker 5: music was for this song is Soga. It's called Nobody 1858 01:28:11,960 --> 01:28:13,680 Speaker 5: Has to Know, And it was a remake of. 1859 01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:19,400 Speaker 1: And he does that on the song. It's so he 1860 01:28:19,479 --> 01:28:20,519 Speaker 1: did the lot. He did it. 1861 01:28:22,840 --> 01:28:25,160 Speaker 2: He did it on the song, but on some real shit. 1862 01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:28,680 Speaker 2: Now we did the first song come out like the 1863 01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:29,439 Speaker 2: first song ever? 1864 01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:33,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like cave men, Yeah, like they were chanting. 1865 01:28:33,760 --> 01:28:36,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the first recorded song. 1866 01:28:37,960 --> 01:28:46,280 Speaker 2: Oh now you mustn't get a skinfulcause not fucking Disney. 1867 01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:51,200 Speaker 1: I don't know when the first I don't know. 1868 01:28:51,400 --> 01:28:53,840 Speaker 3: It was a long time ago when was the first 1869 01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:54,679 Speaker 3: song recorded? 1870 01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:57,960 Speaker 5: But yeah, shout out to Ronald Eisley, He's still making music. 1871 01:28:58,080 --> 01:29:01,360 Speaker 5: Alex Isisley his niece. Just drop the album and it's fire. 1872 01:29:01,560 --> 01:29:03,760 Speaker 5: It's fire. But tdd dallas Son is literally one of 1873 01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:06,960 Speaker 5: my favorite artists and his project is so good. He 1874 01:29:07,000 --> 01:29:09,519 Speaker 5: has a song with Leon Thomas on there that's so amazing. 1875 01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:11,920 Speaker 5: So again, I just wanted to talk about that because 1876 01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:13,479 Speaker 5: I forgot that was my other bop of the week 1877 01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:16,519 Speaker 5: as well. But Ronald Eisley has literally been making music 1878 01:29:16,600 --> 01:29:19,639 Speaker 5: since I want to say nineteen fifty something. I think 1879 01:29:19,680 --> 01:29:22,040 Speaker 5: that's when they first released their music. So to be 1880 01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:25,080 Speaker 5: making music in nineteen fifty something in twenty twenty six, 1881 01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:27,439 Speaker 5: you still making music. Hush because youre gonna make her laugh. 1882 01:29:27,600 --> 01:29:29,679 Speaker 5: And this is the moment I'm trying to give Ronald 1883 01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:30,719 Speaker 5: Isasley his flowers. 1884 01:29:30,800 --> 01:29:31,439 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 1885 01:29:31,680 --> 01:29:33,760 Speaker 2: I know he was making music in the fifties, that's 1886 01:29:33,800 --> 01:29:36,960 Speaker 2: when they had them chrumpsall. 1887 01:29:40,240 --> 01:29:43,000 Speaker 5: Shut out to Ronal Aisley, Man, I want to have. 1888 01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,840 Speaker 1: Him on the show. I think we could. I think 1889 01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:51,640 Speaker 1: we could because that album Beautiful She is she was 1890 01:29:51,640 --> 01:29:52,519 Speaker 1: a singer. 1891 01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:58,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, The first non recording of a human sing 1892 01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:02,799 Speaker 2: is a snippet of the French folk song are Claire 1893 01:30:03,360 --> 01:30:07,720 Speaker 2: de la Looon, recorded on April nineth, eighteen sixty by 1894 01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:12,960 Speaker 2: Edward Leon Scott's the Martinville. He used a device called 1895 01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:17,599 Speaker 2: a phone autograph to each sound waves onto suits blackened paper, 1896 01:30:17,680 --> 01:30:20,280 Speaker 2: but it was not played back until two thousand and eight. 1897 01:30:23,600 --> 01:30:24,960 Speaker 3: I wonder what this she's sound like. 1898 01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:29,519 Speaker 1: I don't know. Remember that song that people said was 1899 01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:32,439 Speaker 1: an a song? She was like, well, you didn't need 1900 01:30:32,600 --> 01:30:37,559 Speaker 1: my bus and I'll suck your neck rub good right 1901 01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:40,840 Speaker 1: on my clar y'all remember that song. 1902 01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:44,880 Speaker 3: I feel like that's some shit you made. 1903 01:30:45,040 --> 01:30:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, exclusive, that is a lot of composition the fun. 1904 01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:55,639 Speaker 5: Seriously, in the comments, y'all gonna know what I'm talking about. 1905 01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:58,200 Speaker 5: Somebody in the comment's gonna know I didn't make that. 1906 01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:04,240 Speaker 2: That was an original comp I mean, you fucking lying, bro, 1907 01:31:05,720 --> 01:31:07,360 Speaker 2: because it sounds like your voice. 1908 01:31:10,120 --> 01:31:10,240 Speaker 1: Bro. 1909 01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:17,800 Speaker 5: I'm finna go man, let's move home. It's a real song. Easy, Yes, 1910 01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,600 Speaker 5: I'm gonna find it. 1911 01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:19,160 Speaker 3: Okay. 1912 01:31:20,080 --> 01:31:22,439 Speaker 2: Now it someths to get into our favorite sigma of 1913 01:31:22,520 --> 01:31:24,519 Speaker 2: the show, which is pour your heart out. You know, 1914 01:31:24,560 --> 01:31:26,280 Speaker 2: if you have any questions. Send them to ask for 1915 01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:29,680 Speaker 2: Minds at gmail dot com. That's ask pou r in 1916 01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:34,880 Speaker 2: my IDs at gmail dot com. Heylex Andrea. I'm a 1917 01:31:34,960 --> 01:31:38,160 Speaker 2: thirty three year old mel and I'm dating. I recently 1918 01:31:38,200 --> 01:31:40,720 Speaker 2: rekindled a relationship with my ex, who has cheated on me. 1919 01:31:41,160 --> 01:31:42,840 Speaker 2: I have my doubts, but she has put in an 1920 01:31:42,840 --> 01:31:45,439 Speaker 2: effort to show me that she is remorseful. I want 1921 01:31:45,520 --> 01:31:47,800 Speaker 2: to trust her, I really do. I just still have 1922 01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:50,840 Speaker 2: questions of what she's doing when I'm not around. She 1923 01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:53,640 Speaker 2: is very beautiful and I'm not insecure, but I have 1924 01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:56,360 Speaker 2: the habit of wondering what attention she isn't getting from me. 1925 01:31:56,920 --> 01:31:59,719 Speaker 2: It's just been hard to trust due to our history 1926 01:31:59,800 --> 01:32:01,080 Speaker 2: and my doubts of infidelity. 1927 01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:01,920 Speaker 3: I want to know. 1928 01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:04,200 Speaker 2: Is it possible to forgive and forget? Do you guys 1929 01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:07,080 Speaker 2: really believe in forgiving someone you feel is your soulmate? 1930 01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:12,880 Speaker 2: Or am I simply delusional and or assume men are 1931 01:32:12,960 --> 01:32:14,799 Speaker 2: known to be cheaters and are not forgiving. 1932 01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:17,879 Speaker 3: Should women also have space to be forgiven? 1933 01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:20,439 Speaker 1: One? 1934 01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:20,800 Speaker 2: Yes? 1935 01:32:21,120 --> 01:32:22,479 Speaker 1: But I also think like. 1936 01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:28,120 Speaker 5: This is when discernment comes in as well, And I 1937 01:32:28,200 --> 01:32:30,360 Speaker 5: think a lot of times we talk about women always 1938 01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:32,720 Speaker 5: forgiving men, and I think certain situations just like this, 1939 01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:35,400 Speaker 5: like a man wants to forgive, you know, his woman, 1940 01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:38,000 Speaker 5: But I will say, you can't have a relationship without trust. 1941 01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:43,200 Speaker 5: So you have to ask yourself, am I really ready 1942 01:32:43,320 --> 01:32:47,080 Speaker 5: to put my guard down and trust this woman? Because 1943 01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:50,160 Speaker 5: if you say no, then you're gonna be miserable. It 1944 01:32:50,200 --> 01:32:53,040 Speaker 5: doesn't matter how honest, how faithful she's being. If you 1945 01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:56,000 Speaker 5: don't trust her, you don't have anything. So it's not 1946 01:32:56,200 --> 01:33:00,320 Speaker 5: about what she's doing. It's about can you allow her 1947 01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:03,080 Speaker 5: to still be her and live her life and trust 1948 01:33:03,160 --> 01:33:04,680 Speaker 5: her to do that because. 1949 01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:05,919 Speaker 1: If not, you're gonna be miserable. 1950 01:33:07,800 --> 01:33:08,280 Speaker 8: Mm hmmm. 1951 01:33:09,080 --> 01:33:09,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1952 01:33:10,040 --> 01:33:12,479 Speaker 2: I don't know how I will feel about continuing today. 1953 01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:16,280 Speaker 2: Somebody that I know cheated on me. To be honest, 1954 01:33:16,360 --> 01:33:18,720 Speaker 2: I just think, yeah, you can forgive people, but you 1955 01:33:18,960 --> 01:33:21,840 Speaker 2: just never forget what somebody did to you. And it's 1956 01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:24,600 Speaker 2: almost kind of like a mental I don't want to 1957 01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:26,559 Speaker 2: say mental prison that you're. 1958 01:33:26,520 --> 01:33:28,200 Speaker 1: In, but kind of ye. 1959 01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:32,840 Speaker 2: It is because she's moving on and she probably thinks 1960 01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:35,840 Speaker 2: she is good because you forgave her and y'all are 1961 01:33:35,880 --> 01:33:38,960 Speaker 2: back together, but in your mind, you're just constantly replaying 1962 01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:41,880 Speaker 2: the same scenario over and over, or like you said, 1963 01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:44,840 Speaker 2: like when she's not in your presence, you wondering what 1964 01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:49,200 Speaker 2: she doing, whereas in a new relationship, you not gonna 1965 01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:51,679 Speaker 2: be thinking about those things because y'all don't have no history. 1966 01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:52,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 1967 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:56,240 Speaker 2: The person hasn't already had like a transgression against you, So. 1968 01:33:57,800 --> 01:33:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. 1969 01:33:59,160 --> 01:34:01,160 Speaker 5: I used to think he was a deal breaker until 1970 01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,840 Speaker 5: I went through it, and then I realized, oh, I 1971 01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:04,680 Speaker 5: can't ever. 1972 01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:06,960 Speaker 1: I don't care how much you're showing up. I can't 1973 01:34:07,000 --> 01:34:08,280 Speaker 1: do it no more. I can't get over it. 1974 01:34:08,439 --> 01:34:10,240 Speaker 5: I used to think, Oh I can get over it, 1975 01:34:10,439 --> 01:34:12,680 Speaker 5: oh a little look, because who you gonna have that's 1976 01:34:12,720 --> 01:34:13,120 Speaker 5: better than me? 1977 01:34:13,680 --> 01:34:16,160 Speaker 1: No, cheating is a one deal breaker. I can't do 1978 01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:16,519 Speaker 1: it now. 1979 01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:18,800 Speaker 5: I'm never gonna tell somebody not to forget somebody because 1980 01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:19,679 Speaker 5: everybody is different. 1981 01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:21,360 Speaker 1: Different people can handle different things. 1982 01:34:21,680 --> 01:34:24,640 Speaker 5: So if you can get that trust back, cool, but 1983 01:34:24,760 --> 01:34:26,720 Speaker 5: you have to be able to get that trust back 1984 01:34:26,920 --> 01:34:29,560 Speaker 5: for me. I agree, it's cooked. I'm not telling you 1985 01:34:29,640 --> 01:34:31,679 Speaker 5: to leave what I'm saying. You need to ask yourself 1986 01:34:31,760 --> 01:34:33,400 Speaker 5: that you know what I'm saying. 1987 01:34:33,640 --> 01:34:37,280 Speaker 3: I agree, I agree. So yes, y'all, this has been 1988 01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:38,040 Speaker 3: a great episode. 1989 01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:41,400 Speaker 2: Make sure y'all go to Muse beautycollection dot com get 1990 01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:48,479 Speaker 2: your lip glasses, Matt Liquali lipsticks, lipliners, Mascaras, eyeliners, jelly blushes. 1991 01:34:48,479 --> 01:34:50,439 Speaker 2: I'm starting to run like I be forgetting because we 1992 01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:54,080 Speaker 2: just have so many products now. So yeah, but you 1993 01:34:54,200 --> 01:34:56,080 Speaker 2: know what I was gonna say is like a really 1994 01:34:56,200 --> 01:34:59,880 Speaker 2: good testament to how good of a products used products are. 1995 01:35:00,560 --> 01:35:02,400 Speaker 3: We be talking our ass off. 1996 01:35:02,439 --> 01:35:04,680 Speaker 2: We do not be shutting the fuck up for a 1997 01:35:04,880 --> 01:35:08,880 Speaker 2: long ass hour two hour long episode, and we do 1998 01:35:09,040 --> 01:35:11,360 Speaker 2: not get that white ring. Let me tell you what 1999 01:35:12,479 --> 01:35:15,360 Speaker 2: that people be getting with the lips for a long 2000 01:35:15,400 --> 01:35:17,559 Speaker 2: time and they get that ring right here. 2001 01:35:17,920 --> 01:35:21,200 Speaker 3: I couldn't find my front y. Don't never see that 2002 01:35:21,240 --> 01:35:22,760 Speaker 3: with the music liplus. 2003 01:35:22,360 --> 01:35:24,240 Speaker 5: I couldn't find my music beauty. It was one episode 2004 01:35:24,280 --> 01:35:26,400 Speaker 5: of love XP I did. When I tell you, I 2005 01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:28,479 Speaker 5: was so fucking mad when I finished, because I was like, 2006 01:35:28,520 --> 01:35:30,000 Speaker 5: why the funck y'all ain't telling me I had this 2007 01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:32,160 Speaker 5: white ring around my mouth? I said, but that's why 2008 01:35:32,200 --> 01:35:33,479 Speaker 5: I get, But now. 2009 01:35:33,800 --> 01:35:35,280 Speaker 3: That's what you get fing I staying Lewis. 2010 01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:37,200 Speaker 5: I couldn't help, but I had to go. I was 2011 01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:38,519 Speaker 5: one of late that's all I could find. 2012 01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:41,960 Speaker 1: We ain't never saw that. Well, I ran You didn't 2013 01:35:42,000 --> 01:35:43,280 Speaker 1: sell out, but I ran out. 2014 01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,439 Speaker 2: It's like you need to place your order in evance. Queen, 2015 01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:48,920 Speaker 2: shut up girl. 2016 01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:52,960 Speaker 5: But yeah, muses beauty because we be chatting it up. Also, 2017 01:35:53,400 --> 01:35:55,200 Speaker 5: one thing about me, my eyes water a lot, not 2018 01:35:55,320 --> 01:35:57,479 Speaker 5: even being funny. I don't know if this is the 2019 01:35:57,479 --> 01:35:59,960 Speaker 5: two mask girl or whatever. I have really watery eyes. 2020 01:36:00,600 --> 01:36:01,880 Speaker 5: Messkar don't ever run no more. 2021 01:36:02,560 --> 01:36:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie the music, yes, and let them 2022 01:36:05,280 --> 01:36:06,720 Speaker 1: know how easy it is to wash off. 2023 01:36:06,760 --> 01:36:11,040 Speaker 2: It's like, well, I don't be wanting to say that 2024 01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:13,240 Speaker 2: because I don't think it's to be messcared, but. 2025 01:36:13,280 --> 01:36:16,519 Speaker 3: You do just slide flies off. Yeah, it's really to 2026 01:36:16,600 --> 01:36:16,960 Speaker 3: come off. 2027 01:36:17,479 --> 01:36:19,639 Speaker 1: And then with my you know, y'all know I wear falsees. 2028 01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:21,479 Speaker 5: All wear strip lashes, so I always put it on 2029 01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:24,280 Speaker 5: like the base and it's really easy to clean off. 2030 01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:26,360 Speaker 5: I don't know my eyes water all the time. There 2031 01:36:26,439 --> 01:36:28,400 Speaker 5: was an episode of Poor Minds where I was laughing 2032 01:36:28,439 --> 01:36:31,360 Speaker 5: and my makeup was really running. But yeah, my my 2033 01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:34,240 Speaker 5: eyes been watering today. But you can't tell because I'm 2034 01:36:34,240 --> 01:36:37,400 Speaker 5: a bad bitch that wear amused beauty. Y'all tune into 2035 01:36:37,439 --> 01:36:40,840 Speaker 5: Love legx P every Monday morning, ten am. We're going 2036 01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:44,080 Speaker 5: up so southex Oh yeah, no, go ahead, because I 2037 01:36:44,080 --> 01:36:45,720 Speaker 5: hope the tour tickets out by dow y'all leave me 2038 01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:47,240 Speaker 5: to hell that. 2039 01:36:47,400 --> 01:36:50,800 Speaker 2: Too, Yes, next year, y'all watch Love Legs tea every 2040 01:36:51,000 --> 01:36:54,960 Speaker 2: fucking Monday, okay, and the tour tickets is out now, 2041 01:36:55,560 --> 01:36:57,559 Speaker 2: and so meet dot com. 2042 01:36:59,120 --> 01:37:01,040 Speaker 1: Next week by y'all. 2043 01:37:08,080 --> 01:37:27,360 Speaker 6: Y yeah, I think every day it's so odd. It's 2044 01:37:27,479 --> 01:37:27,960 Speaker 6: odd me. 2045 01:37:30,280 --> 01:37:36,880 Speaker 1: It's hard to breathe now, and then I. 2046 01:37:37,080 --> 01:37:38,360 Speaker 6: Get an xicule. 2047 01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:50,800 Speaker 1: Another thing. I'm sush. I am beautiful no matter what 2048 01:37:51,120 --> 01:38:00,800 Speaker 1: they say. Why can you bring me down? I am 2049 01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:09,160 Speaker 1: beautiful in every single way. Yes, where can bring me down? 2050 01:38:13,280 --> 01:38:16,080 Speaker 3: So don't you bring me down today? 2051 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:20,760 Speaker 1: You can't bring me now. And Nigga he's routed though 2052 01:38:20,960 --> 01:38:22,920 Speaker 1: he did, and they're gonna try to get. 2053 01:38:22,840 --> 01:38:26,720 Speaker 3: In again then, and I'm like. 2054 01:38:28,560 --> 01:38:32,760 Speaker 6: To ug your friends, your deios. 2055 01:38:33,479 --> 01:38:42,520 Speaker 1: So consumed and iilm do. Yeah, I'm trying hard. 2056 01:38:42,920 --> 01:38:44,880 Speaker 6: To feel the afting down. 2057 01:38:45,920 --> 01:38:47,200 Speaker 1: The piece is gone. 2058 01:38:48,880 --> 01:38:55,240 Speaker 7: Let the potto u. And that's the way it is beautiful, 2059 01:38:56,280 --> 01:39:00,120 Speaker 7: no matter what they say. You at home where it 2060 01:39:00,360 --> 01:39:10,439 Speaker 7: can bring you, you are beautiful. And then singing away. 2061 01:39:11,720 --> 01:39:20,120 Speaker 9: Yes, West can bring you down, So don't you bring 2062 01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:22,280 Speaker 9: me down today? 2063 01:39:22,960 --> 01:39:28,560 Speaker 1: No man, no matter what we do, no matter what 2064 01:39:28,840 --> 01:39:48,840 Speaker 1: we say, we're going this song will because you are beautiful. 2065 01:39:49,840 --> 01:39:56,120 Speaker 1: No matter what they say, what do bring us? Dam? 2066 01:40:00,200 --> 01:40:13,559 Speaker 1: Don't you bring me down today? What's god? Dam? Don't 2067 01:40:13,600 --> 01:40:20,639 Speaker 1: you bring me down today? M hm. 2068 01:40:23,479 --> 01:40:40,240 Speaker 8: Oh that was weaky, mommy yo, don't you bring me down? 2069 01:40:42,160 --> 01:40:44,360 Speaker 1: Oh today? 2070 01:40:46,720 --> 01:40:47,320 Speaker 9: Ah ha ha. 2071 01:40:50,880 --> 01:40:53,519 Speaker 1: That was I don't give a about a seconds. 2072 01:41:01,800 --> 01:41:02,360 Speaker 2: It is 2073 01:41:05,600 --> 01:41:06,160 Speaker 5: It is