1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: The Sunday Hang is brought to you by Chalk Natural 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: Supplements for guys, gals, and nothing in between. Fuel your 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: day at Chalk dot Com, Bold reverence, and occasionally random. 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 2: The Sunday Hang with Playing Fuck podcast starts now we're moving. 5 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: So the Laura Travis Halloween party that has been in 6 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 3: existence for the last decade or so is not happening 7 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 3: in normal fashion. But I suspect that my wife will 8 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 3: have something that she has planned for us to be wearing. 9 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: As you know, she gives out I think I've talked 10 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 3: about this before on the air. Every Halloween in my neighborhood, 11 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 3: all this I mean, I don't know. There's probably a 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 3: thousand kids that are sure or treating in my neighborhood. 13 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 3: It's super packed. Parents also walk around and some houses 14 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 3: give out parent treats, and a parent treat might be 15 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: alcoholic in nature. We have for the last decade or so, 16 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: Buck given out fireball shots on the Travis front porch 17 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 3: were twenty one parents. Parents. Yeah, we are not getting kids. 18 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 3: We're not getting eight year olds wasted. No, this is 19 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 3: parents only. And occasionally my wife will will request an 20 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: ID because there are sometimes teenagers that will that will 21 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 3: decide to be taking around their their nieces, nephews or 22 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: maybe little brothers or sisters and try to try to 23 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: take advantage of the largess here. But I believe that 24 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: will be going on. And usually my wife is dressed 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 3: up when she's passing that out. So yes, look, I 26 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 3: think Halloween is one of the most fun times a year. 27 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: Fall October. If you made me power rank my months, 28 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 3: I think October is the best month of the year. 29 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 3: That would be my power ranking. I don't know what 30 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 3: month you would go to. 31 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: Overall. 32 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 3: I just think I'm a sports guy. October is the 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 3: best sports month, weather treat, leaves changing, Halloween's my favorite 34 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: month of the year. 35 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: May a second, by. 36 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 3: The way, all my power rankings uh so, but but 37 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 3: but my favorite month of the year. And yes, there's 38 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: a lot of reason for optimism across the nation right now. 39 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: As a New Yorker, I would back your October. But 40 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: just because I love fall and the temperature and the leaves. 41 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: I can't say that it's because I watch much of 42 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: the football, but as not just. 43 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: The football, buck. 44 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 3: You got the World Series and the Major League Baseball 45 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 3: Playoffs going on, and so it's kind of like everything 46 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 3: coming together. 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad to learn of those things. Yeah, but also 48 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: because I had forgotten that the World Series was going on. 49 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: But then there's as a Floridian, you gotta love January 50 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,239 Speaker 1: the most. 51 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 3: You gotta love you and cocky Floridians because you just 52 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 3: want to how much time do you spend now that 53 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 3: you live in Miami on your iPhone just occasionally flicking 54 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 3: over to check and see what the weather is in 55 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: New York when it is January. This is what Floridians 56 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 3: love to brag about, like, oh, what's the temperature where 57 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 3: you live right now? 58 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: Not just weather Clay. I go through Instagram and I 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: check out all these shmos all over the country. Don't 60 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: live in South Florida in mid January with a big, 61 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: itchy wool sweater and a ski parka and a hat 62 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: with maybe another hat trudging through snow. That's when Florida 63 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: feels like a magical place. That's when all of a sudden, 64 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: So January is the best month in Florida. I would say, 65 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: I can't say December because I don't like our Christmas 66 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: celebrations down here as much as I cause snow and. 67 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 3: Every year to be like super warm and have like 68 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 3: snow globes out and stuff. 69 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, you get, you get. The lights around the palm 70 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: trees is not as exciting to me as the stuff 71 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: you'll see in the colder parts of the country. So 72 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: I have to give the month of December to the 73 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: more temp the you know, the seasonal places across the country. 74 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: But once January hits and you're done with your New 75 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: Year's celebration and the Christmas and the Hanakah holidays and 76 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: everything else, are you walking around in sandals because US 77 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: Floridians are. 78 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: How about August? 79 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: I really, you know, it's not as good. If you 80 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: like melting all the time, it's fantastic. If you like 81 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: the constant feel of your clothing being wet, then South 82 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: Florida in August is great. 83 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 3: So I will say there are very few feelings better. 84 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: I don't like cold weather, and I understand a lot 85 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 3: of you live in cold weather. My wife likes. My 86 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 3: wife grew up in Detroit, so there are very few. 87 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 3: I always say, it's not a vacation unless you put 88 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 3: on fewer clothes when you get off the plane than 89 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: you had on when you got on the plane. Right, 90 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 3: I always have ski right well, but I don't. I'm 91 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: not even a ski guy, right. Yes, I understand people 92 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: like that and ski villages can be fine. But if 93 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 3: you told me, hey, you can go to a warm 94 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 3: beach or a ski village, I'm picking warm beach every time. Now, 95 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: my family doesn't always agree, so sometimes we end up 96 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 3: out there. Look, I'm a Goodletsville, Tennessee kid. Nobody around 97 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 3: me knew how to ski, like, so you know I'm not. 98 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm just scrolling through and catching up on Twitter, 99 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: and I see that they shared my I was all 100 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: in an optimistic mood, and then I find out that 101 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 3: my senior class photos have just been shared by the 102 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 3: Clay and Buck Twitter feed. 103 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: Here and have you seen this yet? 104 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 3: I'm thirty minutes behind on social media and this thing 105 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 3: is going to go everywhere. 106 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: Oh oh, Clay's hair if you haven't seen it, Clay's 107 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: hair was very much what I was describing as the 108 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: worst nineties haircut for men, which was very common. I 109 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: cannot lie. I think my older brother had it for 110 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: a while. There was a period of time, so it's 111 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: fun to take a little. 112 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 2: Throwback Sunday Hay with Clay and Buck. 113 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 1: Been a long time since I've seen The Pink Panther 114 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: or say Ocean's Eleven, a much more recent movie. But 115 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: if you were paying attention to the news over the weekend, 116 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: you might have seen that there was a stunning heist 117 00:05:54,920 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: at the Louver in Paris. Paris on Sunday. It was 118 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: open for business, tourists flocking in, probably getting close to 119 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: the Mona Lisa, where they realize they're in a very 120 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: packed room and it's a small painting, and it's behind 121 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:20,239 Speaker 1: like ten inches of bulletproof, bombproof, nuclear bomb proof glass, 122 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: and it's not as exciting as you're hoping it's going 123 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: to be. Sorry, I'm just telling you the facts, but 124 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: there are all these tourists jamming in there, and some 125 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: guys dressed in construction worker garb managed to steal over 126 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: the course of about this is nine thirty am Sunday, 127 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: France time. They got on an electric ladder mounted on 128 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: a truck. They got to the second floor, the Apollo Gallery. 129 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: This houses Clay France's Crown Jewels, yes, the actual Crown Jewels, 130 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: and these guys used power tools broke in and a 131 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: couple of burglars broke into the most famous museum in 132 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: the world. And still the most priceless jewels that France 133 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: has eight pieces of jewelry, sapphire tiara necklace, earrings, royal 134 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: emerald necklace belonged to Empress Eugenie, the wife of Napoleon 135 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: the third Clay. What the heck is going on here? 136 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: I thought this was a made up story. I thought 137 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: to myself. Surely, surely France could stop people from stealing 138 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: things from the louver in Tom twenty five, France could 139 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: stop people from stealing the Crown. 140 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 3: Jewels like jewel if this movie came out. I was 141 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 3: talking about this with my wife. If this movie came out, 142 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: it sounds crazier than an Ocean's eleven. Like I would 143 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 3: I would not believe that they could steal the French 144 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 3: Crown jewels in a movie. I would say, this is 145 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 3: too unbelievable. How does this happen? 146 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: They took them ten minutes? 147 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 3: How it would be in the Crown jewel room for 148 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 3: ten minutes and they can't catch you? 149 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: Like I went? 150 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 3: And why I read all about this because I was 151 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 3: traveling up here late last night and I just I 152 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: was reading every article on my airplane flight, because I 153 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: watched all the videos. They just pulled that. First of all, 154 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 3: how can you? I got so many thoughts on this. Everybody, 155 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 3: by the way, is reacting. Everybody thinks it's as crazy 156 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 3: as you and I do. 157 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 1: Buck. 158 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 3: It's an embarrassment to France that they could steal the 159 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 3: Crown jewels. If somebody could go in and steal this 160 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: sounds like a Nicholas Cage movie. Because it is the 161 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 3: Declaration of Independence or the Constitution, I would say, yeah, 162 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 3: we really blew it here. I would guess that's probably 163 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 3: the top thing that could be stolen in America. The 164 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 3: French Crown jewels just being stolen is embarrassing. As part 165 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 3: of all my reading about the French Crown Jewels being stolen, 166 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 3: I forgot. You know, they stole the Mona Lisa in 167 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 3: the early nineteen hundreds. So if you were France and 168 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 3: you had had previously the Mona Lisa stolen out of 169 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 3: the same museum one hundred years ago, don't you think 170 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 3: you would have said, hey, let's make sure that none 171 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 3: of our priceless artifacts ever get stolen again. And yet 172 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 3: France somehow allowed this to occur. And to your point, Buck, 173 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 3: it was the middle of the day. They just pulled 174 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 3: in a lift, they went in through the second floor window. 175 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 3: They were there for I've seen different reports seven to 176 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 3: ten minutes, which is a really long time time to 177 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: be in the most secure museum in your country. 178 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: It should be. 179 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: And then they left on motorcycles and now they have 180 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 3: no idea where they are. And you mentioned, you know, 181 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 3: it's hard to sell these, and I think that's probably true. 182 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 3: But my expert knowledge from the very high end television 183 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 3: show Outer Banks, one possibility would be that they just 184 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: melt this down for the jewels. 185 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: But that doesn't seem like such a good move because 186 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 1: of the problem is value. You can't you can't. You 187 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: can't melt the jewels. These are diamonds and emeralds, so 188 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: you're not gonna melt those down right, You got to 189 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: keep them whole. Can you you melt diamonds? I don't 190 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: think you can. 191 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 4: Know. 192 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 3: Well, I think you melt the gold and then you 193 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 3: isolate all of the diamonds for the value. 194 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 1: But out these diamonds and these emeralds are going to 195 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: be so big, Like you're you're not going to go 196 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: on the on the open market. You're like, hey, I 197 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: just happened to have this twenty carrot emerald that I found. 198 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 3: You know, I am simultaneously impressed by the hutzpah of 199 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: the robbers because I mean, they decided we're gonna steal 200 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,839 Speaker 3: the French crown jewels and they managed to do it. 201 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 3: I would imagine that they have been preparing for this 202 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 3: for some time, although the report is they dropped one 203 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: of the most valuable assets, like the one of the 204 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 3: crowns I think or something, and so it was left 205 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 3: behind and damaged. But I wonder, do you think this 206 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 3: is some insanely wealthy person who funds this, because what 207 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 3: is the motivation here other than embarrassing the French government, 208 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 3: Because I can't imagine that it pays actually that well 209 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 3: unless there's some super rich billionaire who just decided he 210 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 3: had to have the Impress's the Impress's necklace. 211 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: Right, It's like you're going on Thomas Crown affair. Like 212 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: maybe there's somebody out there who's just so board with 213 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: his life he's like, you know what I'm going to do. 214 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to steal the French crown jewels out of 215 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: the louver. So I don't know, I wonder if some 216 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: Middle Eastern shake or that's kind of my thought, Wonder 217 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: wants so badly to have the French crown jewels in 218 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: his in his safe that he would, but that's I 219 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: gotta run in high risks here. If that's true, it's 220 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 1: not the you know, Middle Eastern ruler. 221 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 222 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: Also, just there's more fun thing like go buy yourself 223 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: a European soccer team or something. You know what I mean, 224 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 1: do what all the other super rich foreign guys do. 225 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: I mean the crown jewels. I don't know what you 226 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: do with them. 227 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 3: My thought is, if it's true that it was some 228 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 3: Middle Eastern shake or something that says, hey, go get 229 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 3: the the Empress Josephine's you know, necklace, this is kind 230 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 3: of the Middle Eastern shake equivalent of when Kobe bought 231 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 3: his wife the twelve million dollar ring after he got 232 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 3: caught cheating on her, like one of those Middle East 233 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: her cheeks did something really bad and he's like, she's like, 234 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,559 Speaker 3: the only way I'll stay with you is if you 235 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 3: get me the Impress Josephine's necklace. And he's like, all right, 236 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 3: I guess we got to get the Impress Josephine's necklace, right, 237 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 3: Like do you remember Kobe when he got caught actually 238 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:19,319 Speaker 3: was the woman accused him of raping her, yes, right 239 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 3: of rape, and his wife stayed with him after the 240 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: rape accusation. But they had a press conference and she 241 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 3: showed up with a diamond that was like a twenty 242 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 3: carrits like twenty somebody look up how big the diamond? 243 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 3: It was like four carrots Clay, I don't think it was. 244 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 3: I think carrots is like is like a football. I 245 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 3: think she basically showed up with a with a flashlight 246 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: sized diamond. I mean like it blinded everyone at the 247 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 3: press conference. They were like, why did you decide to 248 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 3: stay with Kobe? And she like raised her hand and 249 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 3: four people lost their eyesight when they caught the reflection 250 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 3: from the diamond. 251 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: Eight it was eight. So we kind of sput the 252 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 1: difference between us. I said four, You said twenty is 253 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: eight E twenty carrot ring would be like a baseball. 254 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 3: Eight carrot ring is a ridiculous ring. And this was 255 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 3: pre all the fake diamonds, right, like the diamond industry has. 256 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: On a second, they're not fake diamonds you're talking about necessarily, 257 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: there are such things as fake diamonds. You're talking about 258 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: lab dim and I know some people in the jewel business, 259 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: and they're real diamonds. They're just made under laboratory conditions. 260 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, much less expense. Basically natural diamonds, and no 261 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: one's hands get chopped off in in Africa by the 262 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: warlords who are trying to mind them. You know, the 263 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: blood diamonds stuff. Yeah. 264 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 3: No, it's basically destroyed the diamond industry because they're able 265 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 3: to produce the synthetic diamonds. I think is the technical 266 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 3: term that instead of fake. Uh that people to a 267 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 3: large extent can't tell the different lab. 268 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: I believe lab dimond is synthetic is at a right 269 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: rod too. I don't know, by the way, until that's 270 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: probably accurate. But I'm just saying that they're usually diamonds. 271 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: Is how lab grown diamonds. I think. I remember this 272 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: from when I was buying carry her engagement ring and 273 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: people were I did not go LAB. I probably should 274 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: have gone LAB because that was I told her this 275 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: the most expensive thing I ever bought in my life ever, 276 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: because I didn't own a home, was was my wife's 277 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: engagement room. 278 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 3: Well this is also where you didn't get married till 279 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 3: after you already made money. See, I didn't have any money. 280 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 3: I don't think. By the way, Kobe's ring was valued 281 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 3: at four million dollars twenty years ago, so this is 282 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 3: probably close to a ten million dollar ring in modern 283 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 3: you know, the way that Biden inflation has gone. I 284 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 3: didn't have much money when I got engaged. In fact, 285 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 3: I think I had. I certainly had a negative next war, 286 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 3: a negative net worth and when I got engaged, So 287 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 3: it was a lot of money to meet, but it 288 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 3: wasn't a lot of money in the larger context. You, 289 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 3: on the other hand, you get married, you're already you 290 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 3: had to you had to produce a good ring because 291 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: you got real money. Now, so well they do this 292 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 3: thing of three months of salary that's great, which is insane. 293 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 3: But guys, all right, I'm gonna tell you said, right, 294 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 3: for all the game, we don't have a lot of 295 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 3: unmarried guys listening who are still want to get married. 296 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 3: We have, we have some, but you know, I think 297 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 3: a lot we we we specialize our audience is overwhelmingly 298 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 3: gonna be people who are married or have been married, right, 299 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 3: I think that that's true. We don't have a lot 300 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 3: of guys in their twenties and thirties in particular who 301 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: are like looking to get married. 302 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: But for any of you out there, we'll tell you 303 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: a few things. Do not go into debt for uh, 304 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: for diamonds, for vacations, or for anything that that that. 305 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 3: You know, weddings do not go in debt for weddings 306 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 3: or rings. 307 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: This is the next thing I was gonna say, right 308 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: because you brought up like, yeah, I'd already had, I'd achieved, 309 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: you know, a little bit of professional success when Karen 310 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: and I got married and and we I mean, I'll 311 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: tell you, like, our wedding costs less than it basically costs, 312 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: like the national average, but we're doing it in New 313 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: York City and Miami Beach costs less than a heard 314 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: of what the average wedding would cost. Because I don't understand, 315 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 1: you know, in those places, because you know, why are 316 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: people spending all this money on this stuff? I think 317 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: this is crazy, the pressure you get. You know, you 318 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: shouldn't have to get Napoleon's Empress Josephine Crown jewels for 319 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 1: a lady to love you. You know what I mean? 320 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: This is come on now, No, it's totally true. 321 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 3: Look, I would tell everybody out there, and I know 322 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 3: there's a lot of dads and moms nodding along right now. 323 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: I would I. 324 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 3: Would encourage you have way less of a wedding, way 325 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 3: less of a ring, and use money to try and 326 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 3: buy a place like somewhere to live for you. Put 327 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 3: that into the house fund instead. I'm gonna tell my 328 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 3: kids this. I don't even know what the rules are now. 329 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 3: I've got three boys. It used to be the dad paying. 330 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 3: You're not paying for any wedding. By the way, technically 331 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 3: I'm paying for all the weddings. I bet that's probably. 332 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 3: That's that's probably I'm gonna end up paying for a 333 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 3: lot of the weddings. But I'm telling my boys, hey. 334 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 1: You should. They're gonna go to your new house and 335 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 1: thirty and be like, you know what, Clay, I'm gonna 336 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: let you. I'm the father of the bride here, but 337 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you pay for the wedding. Buddy. I 338 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: think I think I can see Mexico from here. Yeah, 339 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you can almost see Mexico. Get up 340 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: there pretty high. 341 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 3: You know what I've learned, Buck rooftop pool there, the 342 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 3: bugs don't get that high. It's a problem I didn't know, 343 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 3: Like the the bugs get in the pool when you're 344 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 3: down low. The higher up in the sky you go, 345 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: the bugs. Bugs don't fly that high. But it's something 346 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 3: that I've learned. There's no bugs in the pool the 347 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 3: high Like if you got a high level pool, there's 348 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 3: no bugs. It's like everything gets better. But I'm gonna 349 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: end up paying. But I'm gonna tell my kids now 350 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 3: I've already talked to him. Hey, weddings are great, it's 351 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 3: fun to celebrate them, but I will I would rather 352 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 3: help give you the money that I would spend on 353 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 3: the wedding to be in part of your house fund, 354 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 3: which actually benefits you and as a good investment, then 355 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 3: just throw a crazy extravagant wedding, which, by the way, 356 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 3: just to be fair, of weddings don't last. The marriages 357 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 3: don't last. 358 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: That long, all right. 359 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 3: Well, let's imagine if you were a dad and a 360 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 3: mom and you spend one hundred k on a wedding 361 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 3: and two years later your kids are getting divorced. I 362 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 3: would want a refund on my hundred k. 363 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: I was one to a I was a plus one 364 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 1: to a very extravagant wedding in Long Island that lasted. 365 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: They were married six months? So I what do you 366 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: think the wedding cost three grand? Probably so, Matt, I mean, 367 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 1: this is insane. Imagine that you and and not even 368 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 1: for the people who throw it on. I think you 369 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: should have to return the gifts and get your money back. 370 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: You only last six months, I mean, whatever wedding register 371 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 1: you got, like why why should you not get your 372 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: money back on the gift too? But I'll just tell 373 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 1: you for all that for the guys out there, if 374 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: you if you give the ring and you get any 375 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 1: sense or you know, you say William Barry me, you 376 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: get any sense that the ring itself is some kind 377 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 1: of issue, and or you hear via the grapevine that 378 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 1: like the ring, like the answer is a yes, but 379 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: the ring is disappointing. Don't do it, boys, you need 380 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: to do don't do it. Run It's not good you really, Yeah, 381 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: you need to know, you need to know. And I 382 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,239 Speaker 1: wonder if some of the ladies are gonna wigh on 383 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: this one. They know, they know we've got We've got 384 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: a lot of wise ladies who listen in here, and 385 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 1: they know that I felt the same way on the ring. 386 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: Would you rather have an expensive ring or a husband? 387 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: Who is going to be thinking about the long range 388 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: future here, and he's trying to think of a place 389 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: to buy. He wants to start a house fund. I've 390 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: said this before. I do think it's funny for girls 391 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 1: out there, if you got daughters, if you got granddaughters. 392 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: Knowing a guy's credit rating, I think is almost more 393 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: valuable than anything else I'm talking about. If you're getting 394 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: married to a guy who's twenty eight or thirty two 395 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: or thirty four, you know, in that range, does he 396 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: have a decent credit rating? That's where That's what I 397 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: would want to know. 398 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 3: The job matters, but also is he capable of understanding 399 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 3: basic finance such that his credit rate is going to 400 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 3: be able to help get you a mortgage? That's what 401 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 3: i'd want to know. If I was a chick, I'd 402 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 3: be like, Okay, it's great. You know you're six foot, 403 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 3: you got a decent s out. What's your credit rating? 404 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: Clay is what we would call a hopeless romantic, So 405 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: there you go. He's like, hey, baby, what's your credit rating? 406 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: I want to know. 407 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 2: Sundays with Clay and Buck. 408 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 1: Ken in Michigan wants to talk about wedding stuff. Ken 409 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 1: By all means, sir. 410 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 5: Hey love listening to you guys. When my two daughters 411 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 5: have got married, when they were planning their wedding, my 412 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 5: wife and I sat down with them and our potential 413 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,919 Speaker 5: son in law and negotiated a fair, a nice but 414 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 5: fair wedding cost. And when we got done, I said, Okay, 415 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 5: you're going to get half the money up front, you 416 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 5: get the other half on your wedding day, and anything 417 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 5: that's left over you can keep. And boy did they 418 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 5: change their tune and start cutting back on costs and 419 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:56,880 Speaker 5: they kept them balanced. 420 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: For avice, I love this. I love that advice. 421 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 3: I mean, if you got rational kids that are getting 422 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 3: married out there, if you're the kid that is listening 423 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 3: to us right now who is going to get married 424 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 3: one day, financial issues gonna sound like an old man now. 425 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 3: Often derail marriage is more than almost anything, right. Couples 426 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 3: fight over money. There's very strong chance that you and 427 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 3: your spouse may have different standards of expenses or understanding 428 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 3: of how money should be allocated. And so starting off 429 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 3: with something that is a common goal, being able to 430 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 3: build a home and not starting off in debt, my goodness. 431 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 3: I just the choices that people make. Can you imagine 432 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 3: Bud getting married and owing fifty K to help pay 433 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 3: off your wedding. 434 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: I would I were the guys, we're here to help 435 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 1: you out with this not worth it, you'd have a 436 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: not my actual wedding we had twenty five people. Yeah, 437 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: my actual wedding. We had twenty five people. Basically, I 438 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: think that was the number. Carry my correct meess you 439 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 1: would know better than it was something like that. And 440 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: we love that. It was perfect. It ever had a 441 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: great time. So you know, it was in the church, 442 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 1: it was our families and that was it and that 443 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 1: was all we needed. Now, we threw a big party. 444 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: But when you're just throwing a party without all the 445 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: wedding stuff, you know, Clay, you came to that. Yeah, 446 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: that's We had one hundred and eighty people at a party, 447 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: but the expense wasn't that much because it was it 448 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,199 Speaker 1: was a three hour party. That's right. It's not the 449 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: thing with weddings is you get into all this other 450 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: stuff and it gets all all Yeah. 451 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 3: They play up on everybody's insecurity by saying, well, you 452 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 3: could choose not to do this, but most people do. 453 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: You know, and look, if. 454 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: You are fortunate enough to have the money as a 455 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 3: dad or mom. And you want to throw a big party, 456 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 3: that's fine. You could spend money however you want. 457 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 1: It exactly anyone who has the money to burn. We're 458 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: not telling you what to do with that. I'm just 459 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: saying it's not worth it to go into debt, yes, 460 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 1: which people do, which is bonkers. It's not going to 461 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: debt for a vacation. How do you enjoy your vacation 462 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: when you're running up a twenty thousand dollars credit card 463 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: debt on it? 464 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 3: It's nuts, It's nuts. And again I would echo what 465 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 3: Buck said. If the girl is going to be upset 466 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 3: about the size of the ring, you need to run 467 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 3: in run other directions. 468 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: Not gonna get It's not gonna get better, guys, it's 469 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 1: not gonna get better. 470 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 3: And by the way, maybe you end up having success 471 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 3: in life and you want to give your wife a 472 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 3: bigger ring somewhere down as a testament to the success 473 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 3: you've had together. I think that's a cool idea. 474 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: But I have a deal with Carrie, because you know 475 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: she she quit her job to take care of speed 476 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 1: and to uh, you know, run the household. I can 477 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: get her gifts and things for Christmas, like, you know, 478 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: things like we're a little jewelry and stuff like that. 479 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: But she's like, well, if I get you a gift, 480 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: isn't it just with your money? And I'm like, yes, 481 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: that's why. Don't do it. Just keep being a great wife. 482 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: And I mean it. You know, don't don't get me 483 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: a Rolex. I don't need a Rolex. I don't even 484 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 1: want to wear a fancy watch. I'm fine. I only 485 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 1: shop at Costco, so I don't even know what i'd watch. 486 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: The Sunday hang is brought to you by Chalk Natural 487 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: Supplements for guys, gals and nothing in between. Fuel your 488 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: day at Chalk dot Com. 489 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 2: Sunday Drop with Clay Buck. 490 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 3: Judy on the podcast Listening. Oh, I got two funny 491 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 3: comments Buck. One a friend, UH sent this through my wife. 492 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 3: I'm listening to yesterday show. Please tell Clay he's right 493 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 3: on weddings, also, you, Buck, My two sisters and I 494 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 3: all three got married in less than two years, three 495 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 3: huge weddings my dad paid for. He's still pissed about 496 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 3: how much they cost to this day. Listen to this Buck. 497 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 3: He actually made us sign a contract that if each 498 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 3: of our marriages did not last at least five years. 499 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 3: We had to pay him back for what the wedding cost. 500 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 3: Completely true story, Valerie, how this right. 501 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: No problem, No problem with that at all, No problem 502 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 1: with that at all. You're gonna you want all the 503 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 1: bells and whistles if you're not gonna make this a 504 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: real union that goes to test that last the distance. 505 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: You got to pay that money back. 506 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 3: I am team Dad. I've never heard of any dad 507 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 3: that did this before. But he had three daughters and 508 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 3: he had to pay for all of them within two years. 509 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 3: And Dad just said, hey, if they don't last five years, 510 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,680 Speaker 3: you're on the hook to pay back for this. 511 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: I don't have a daughter. You don't have a daughter, 512 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: but you know we're still trying, so maybe we'll get 513 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: a daughter here over at over in Team Buckland. And 514 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: I would just say this, Clay, if I was in 515 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: that situation, you know, let's say twenty years down the 516 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: line after having a baby, girl, I would I would 517 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: take the let's sit down. I'll give you a budget. Yeah, 518 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: and the budget is twofold. It's a wedding budget and 519 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: a down payment on your house budget. Yep. 520 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 3: Allocate the resources as you see fit, exactly you get. 521 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: To make the determination. But I think that that puts 522 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: it very you know, especially you get a lot of 523 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: people out of millennials priced out of expensive member the 524 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 1: price out of expensive markets. People can live in the 525 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: Tulsa suburbs in a nice place, no problem. But everybody 526 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: that's complaining about this, the millennials, they want to live, 527 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: you know, at the like you know, the Navy Yard 528 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 1: in DC, or they want to live in well Beacon 529 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: Hill in Boston. I don't know where do fancy people 530 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: in Boston live. I just don't want to say the 531 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: Upper Eastide in Beverly Hills because those are only fancy 532 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: neighborhoods that come. 533 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, look in Nashville, there are tons of places you 534 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 3: can live very affordably. All the kids want to live 535 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 3: in the Gulch, they want to live in Music Row, 536 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 3: they want to live in twelve South right, and you 537 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 3: could live very cheaply in Gallatin right. By and large, 538 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 3: you could live very cheaply in lots of suburban areas. 539 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 3: But I love your idea. Hey, let's sit down. Here 540 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 3: is your budget. If you're fortunate enough to have resources 541 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 3: to be able to help with the down payment on a. 542 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,120 Speaker 1: Home, make a smart, rational decision. 543 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 3: But Dad there was like, Hey, if this don't go 544 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 3: find if this doesn't go five years, you're gonna have 545 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 3: to pay me back. Judy is weighing in. AA let's 546 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 3: see what she had to say. 547 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 4: So I've never actually called the talk show before, but 548 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 4: I did just listen to Clay talk about the fact 549 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 4: that he didn't get to watch any football and that 550 00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 4: his Tennessee volunteers loss. I'm really sorry to see this, but. 551 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 1: Roll tide gude they did. Was she spiking the football 552 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 1: right in your heart? Clay's what happened? 553 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 3: She was, now I got to watch some football, but 554 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 3: I was saying that I spent six hours because my 555 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: Alabama fan son of all, dropped his phone in the 556 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 3: toilet and we had to go get the Evidently, eventually 557 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 3: we found out we had to replace the battery that 558 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 3: was wired out or buzzed out or whatever it did. 559 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 3: And so I unfortunately did watch Alabama beat Tennessee. 560 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: But yes, we were in ancient Rome. They would say 561 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 1: that this was an omen and that his dropping of 562 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: the phone was like dropping the vall's hopes. On that day, 563 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: I thought that that would actually be the case, except 564 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 1: he is an Alabama fan, and so he both tormented 565 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 1: me by having me spend six hours getting his phone fixed, 566 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: and then as soon as the game was over, I 567 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: picked him up where he had been hanging out with 568 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: a bunch of his friends and he said, roll Tide, Dad, 569 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: Tennessee sucks and I was like, dude, I spent six 570 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: hours getting your phone repaired.