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Speaker 1: It's The Fread Show. Hey Teddy, good morning, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the program. How are you? I'm doing all right? How

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Speaker 1: are you doing doing? Okay? Man? What's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman? Lisa? It's waiting by the phone. We're trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out if you've been ghosted. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: maybe you have, but we need the backstory. How did

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Speaker 1: you Meetles? Tell us about it, any dates you'd been on,

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Speaker 1: and then where things are now?

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Speaker 2: So we met on Hinge and I asked her out

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Speaker 2: to dinner and we went out. She was even hotter, funnier,

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Speaker 2: hit in person than she was when we were texting.

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Speaker 2: We had a great time, I thought, and we were

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Speaker 2: planning date number two, but then she just sort of disappeared.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know why. Okay, and you look back

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Speaker 1: on this date, I ask everybody, but you look back

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Speaker 1: on this date and everything went well. I mean you

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Speaker 1: left the date feeling pretty good about where things stood. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm we're going to go out again, Like I'm going

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Speaker 1: to reach out and she's going to be interested. The

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Speaker 1: chemistry was there, the conversation was there, and everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, like I said, she was funny. I

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Speaker 2: was actually really laughing a lot, and I was having

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Speaker 2: a great time and she seemed like she was too.

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Speaker 1: Okay because the mood's light, you know, So then what

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Speaker 1: could possibly have gone wrong? I've said that many times too,

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Speaker 1: and then and then I find out But okay, well, Teddy,

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Speaker 1: let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll call Liza.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions on

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Speaker 1: your behalf, and you know, the hope is that we

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Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on. It's possible that she

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Speaker 1: has something on her end and we can straighten things

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Speaker 1: out and set you guys up on another date that

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Speaker 1: we pay for. Sound good, Yeah, sound good? Hey, Teddy? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Lisa. You guys met, you went

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Speaker 1: on a date. You thought the date went great, tals

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Speaker 1: so old at time, but you have not heard from

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Speaker 1: Lisa since the date, and you're puzzled. You're disappointed. You

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Speaker 1: want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. I mean I've reached out to her, but

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call Lisa and see if we can

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Speaker 1: get her on the phone and figured this out. Good luck, Teddy. Okay, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is Lisa. Yeah, Lisa, Hi, good morning. It's Fred.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can reach

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Speaker 1: out for just a second. Okay, all right, well, thank you?

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Speaker 1: That was Yes, I like it. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 1: of a guy named Teddy, and he reached out to

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Speaker 1: us so that I guess you guys matched on an

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Speaker 1: out to you since the date and you haven't responded.

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Speaker 1: He's puzzled. Why is why are you not responding to uh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is awkward, I mean, Teddy is Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: not I'm just not interested, all right, I'm justing.

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Speaker 1: Ah, but there's more to this story, though, there's more

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Speaker 1: to this story. Well, why are you not interested? Like,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. Maybe I don't know if you've ever

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Speaker 1: of wants some closure if you're not going to go

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: So Teddy basically asks his mom for permission to do

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Speaker 1: Okay, well what does that mean? Like, give me an example? Okay?

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Speaker 4: All right, So when we first matched, he he and

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Speaker 4: I started talking. It felt cool, and then I remember

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Speaker 4: And he's like, you know what, I need to call

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Speaker 4: I was just I was like, all right, in truth sting,

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Speaker 4: but okay, kind of cute, like he wants to call

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just was like all right. Then when we were

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Speaker 4: before we're committing to anything. And I'm like, okay, I mean,

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Speaker 4: that was that. So I didn't really say anything. And

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Speaker 4: and then my final straw was when we were on

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Speaker 4: following week, and I don't know if you wanted to

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Speaker 4: You know what, I just need to run by.

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Speaker 1: My mom really first. So this dude, he actually it

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Speaker 1: was a good date, like you you were going to

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Speaker 1: overlook that and go out with him again. So he

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Speaker 1: didn't actually fumble necessarily. But it turns out that the

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's one thing to have a great relationship

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Speaker 1: But I also, you know, I don't need to ask

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Speaker 1: and if I can go to a concert next week.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a.

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Speaker 4: Broadcast man exactly. I was like, this is you know

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Speaker 4: what now, Dude like absolutely if you need to go

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Speaker 4: to the bathroom to check with your mom, Like no, no, this.

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Speaker 1: Is a lot, This is a lot. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention Lisa that Teddy is here and Teddy's been very

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Speaker 1: quiet through Teddy, what's it? Why do we Why are

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Speaker 1: we asking mom, you know, for permission to go out?

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Speaker 1: Like we're grown ups. We don't have to do that anymore.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So just to be clear, I don't need my

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Speaker 2: mom's permission. Like, I'm not asking for her permission. I

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Speaker 2: just I like to get her opinions. What do you talk?

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Speaker 4: You ask her for anything, all her opinions before you

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Speaker 4: do anything?

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Speaker 1: Do you not?

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Speaker 2: So what that's not weird?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it is weird. It is weird, like at

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Speaker 1: some point you have to make decisions for yourself because

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Speaker 1: you were a grown up. I mean I don't. I

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Speaker 1: can't remember the last time I called mom to ask her,

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Speaker 1: you know, if I can go to a concert next week.

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Speaker 2: So you don't consult your mom on anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm not on No, not as it pertains to you know,

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Speaker 1: life issues and decisions that I need to make for myself. No,

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Speaker 1: Like my schedule is my schedule. You know what I

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Speaker 1: do with my daisy my call right? It's you know

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Speaker 1: you don't at your momd with the calendar invite? Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean yes, but that doesn't mean that doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: if she gets a vote. I mean she is the

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Speaker 1: right to know where I am at all times. But

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Speaker 1: other than that, you know, a couple facetimes throughout the date.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, No, that's crazy, Teddy, Come on, man,

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Speaker 1: you're grown up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, she I checked in with her before

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Speaker 2: I even did this. She thought it was a good

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Speaker 1: Out your mom told you to come on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well in that case, you know, Mama's always round.

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Speaker 1: We love Mama. Get out of here, d I mean,

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Speaker 1: there is a difference between having a close relationship and

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Speaker 1: being a full on mama's boy. And I think this

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Speaker 1: might be beyond that, This might be another level above

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Speaker 1: and beyond just mama's boy. I mean, because this is like,

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Speaker 1: this is like you need permission, This is like she

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Speaker 1: still runs your life. And I think, yeah, again, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't I'm not asking for permission. Sometimes she says something's

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Speaker 2: just like to get her input.

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Speaker 1: But why can't you on her own anything like that's

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Speaker 1: not an attractive quality? And why are you telling maybe

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Speaker 1: this is something you do in you know, in your

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Speaker 1: private life. But I don't know that I would tell

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Speaker 1: everybody that, because again, I think women want a confident,

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Speaker 1: doesn't need to ask for permission to do basic things.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I'm realizing that now I mean,

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Speaker 2: I again, I'm not asking for permission. It's just an opinion.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're you're asking all the time.

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Speaker 2: This is weird checking in, It's just checking in. It's

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Speaker 2: a lot of whatever.

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, next time you're going to ask if

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Speaker 4: we should have sex?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: What would Ma say about that? Do you think you

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Speaker 1: think Mom would be in favor?

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Speaker 2: I mean my mom. She's very encouraging of using protection.

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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that Mom says it's okay sex protection.

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Speaker 1: She's very strange. All right, Look, Lisa, I'll ask the question.

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Speaker 1: I know the answer is rhetorical. Would you like to

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Speaker 1: go out with Teddy again? And we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask mom for just didn't clear it all with her.

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Speaker 1: This is way too excessive for me. Absolutely not weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not going to work out. Hey, Teddy, Look again, I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you have a good relationship with your mom.

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Speaker 1: That's a nice thing. I might not tell everybody that

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Speaker 1: I have to ask for her permission to use the

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Speaker 1: bathroom and and that I run every decision by her.

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Speaker 1: I might not share that. I might maybe consider not

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Speaker 1: doing that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hear you. I think I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: not I'll just say I need to think about it.

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Speaker 1: Right, and then you got to go do it anyway, Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well, hey, whatever floats your boat, I guess

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Speaker 1: Teddy