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Speaker 2: Four.

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Speaker 1: You listening to mess.

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Speaker 2: Wow, new episode, new episode episode.

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Speaker 1: We got a new episode, new episode, new episode, new car,

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Speaker 1: smell new new new And this is the newest thing

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Speaker 2: Right, newborn baby episode. This is like, I'm straight off

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Speaker 2: the table, new body, new body. Right, you slept with

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Speaker 2: the old bodies. This is the new body, new body,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Now I did mention the pit the last time

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Speaker 1: we talked about we were on this.

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Speaker 2: You did ask.

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Speaker 1: But the other day I saw an episode of a

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Speaker 2: It's a good show. It was crazy. But after you

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Speaker 2: give birth, then you gotta get birth to the placenta. Yep. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: There are so many things they don't tell us about

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Speaker 3: giving birth. They to get us to give birth. And

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Speaker 1: There's a girl with a list on TikTok. I mist

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Speaker 1: up all the things that go wrong gave birth, you

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Speaker 1: know all that stuff that people like that list. I

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Speaker 1: don't need none of that list. I've seen the people

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Speaker 2: Holding your new baby feels terrifying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're fragile, piney the head is like, you know

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Speaker 2: All I do is drop stuff. All ideas.

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Speaker 3: I feel like your like instincts to not harm a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I can't do anything else. I can't.

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Speaker 1: Like when I see when I used to see pictures

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Speaker 1: Ivy in the snow, it was like, eirl, but you

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Speaker 1: got Julius right there. But Julius is there to protect Fyance. No,

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Speaker 1: he's protecting Blue Ivy. Two girls stopping now. Sure, but

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Speaker 1: like I'm holding a bit. First of all, if I

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Speaker 1: I'm in a platform at at most. You know what

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you. But you see Rihanna and she

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Speaker 1: Pregnant's what I'm saying. I'm gonna wear those heels because

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Speaker 1: But I'm telling y'all photos of them holding their kids

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Speaker 2: That's listen, friend, I hear that. For her it might

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Speaker 1: There's no way I'm not wearing six inch eels heels

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean as a regular person. I'm not jinxing

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Speaker 1: Said, Oh, you basic bitches. Y'all talking about what y'all

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Speaker 2: Just see. You know what I'm trying to have to

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Speaker 2: be home. Let me bring you in, Well, how much

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Speaker 2: money you think you need to have a baby? A

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Speaker 1: I gotta have a million dollars in my account before

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Speaker 2: Not everybody needs that. They make it? Do they make it?

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Speaker 2: Listen for thirty K and under listeners. I'm here for you.

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Speaker 1: you need something, I got you. I got you for

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Speaker 1: the month of Black History Month if you're black, but

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Speaker 1: I after you're black, after after, after February, after February.

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Speaker 2: You know, the last day. I don't need to tell

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Speaker 1: As a picture, I can here's Rihanna at nighttime in

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Speaker 2: I would have to take the glasses off and the shoes. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so the skirt up. You need to send the picture.

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Speaker 1: He's a professional, uh you guys hear from the from

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Speaker 1: the Shadows of Mess and Las Culturistas and probably Stradio Lab.

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Speaker 2: I mean you are the producer for all producers.

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Speaker 1: At big money. Please, we're coming into our non white producer.

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Speaker 2: Give it up for Becca Ramos.

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Speaker 3: She's thank you, Yes, I'm not why and you know

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Speaker 3: this is one of many messes I have because obviously

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Speaker 1: Would consider yourself what are you though I am? Why

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Speaker 2: Because people think I'm white because I always so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's yeah, yeah, we're like Rebeccarea Ramos.

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Speaker 2: Any relation to Anthony Ramos? You know what?

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Speaker 3: It's funny that you say that because technically no, but

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Speaker 1: That's a great question I can ask you. Really, I

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Speaker 2: I don't either. I've never been with a little Latin

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: I I think growing up in Texas, I was considered whitewash.

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Speaker 3: but I also don't have like a heavy Puerto Rican

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Speaker 1: You have a business, a business with what you have

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Speaker 3: And people take that as white, which is like fucked

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Speaker 2: So calling Becca white? Take it back, and everybody I

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Speaker 3: I guess I say I consider myself very lutina because

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Speaker 2: And I've seen you wear braids, so you definitely know

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Speaker 1: It's not giving one nails are and you always come

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Speaker 2: You Oh my god. Yeah, you know what, Send me

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Speaker 2: because I'm ready to find do pons for you too.

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Speaker 2: I know that's what I want. I want the persons. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's miss. It is mess, but I love you. Kryla Claus. No,

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Speaker 2: she is a long time. I mean, this was not

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Speaker 2: What was she giving you new fingers? It was like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was a crazy set. It was like

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Speaker 1: You know, she did like and we see that. We

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Speaker 1: four hours. Yes, Sydney's right, I should have brand new fingers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. How much did that set cost?

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Speaker 1: This one?

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Speaker 2: You know you know that one was two fifty Oh

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Speaker 2: that's not that beast that yeah.

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Speaker 3: For and the quality of work, I mean the nail

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Speaker 3: stay they're good quality, like I always was.

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Speaker 2: Corilla Claus and Instagram clause.

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Speaker 1: You might have to give us like a little discount.

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Speaker 1: Now we were doing a little promo, putting doing we're

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Speaker 1: doing a pro bo promo Corilla clause, many referrams. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, okay, so maybe it's two fifty for yous,

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's right, right, right, right, right, right,

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Speaker 2: right right. She's for the girls.

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Speaker 1: She's for the girls, okay, and she's with them, bills them,

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Speaker 2: Be fair, she's doing laborer's work. It's hard. It's not

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to need to go back to cities,

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Speaker 2: LIKEOK, but they're growing, they're getting healthy there. Please I

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Speaker 3: I was off of my nails because I had to

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Speaker 3: and I'm not rich for work. I was numbing it out,

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Speaker 3: I can't be on camera with my nails.

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Speaker 2: Look in this busted. Wow. No mine, okay, no, my

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Speaker 2: nails were ripping. Your nails are healthy. My nails were

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Speaker 2: ripping it. But they look better now. Yeah, they launched

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Speaker 2: mine were like like it was. It was fast. Everything

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Speaker 2: that that that like looks good bad for us.

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Speaker 1: I know that.

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Speaker 2: Well say that about people. They look good, but they're

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Speaker 2: bad for us. We can't say that. We got that.

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Speaker 2: So I think that there are people who can probably

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Speaker 2: say that about us. I don't know, so it's such

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Speaker 2: a thing. But speak for yourself. Okay, well then I'll

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Speaker 2: take that looks good but bad for us. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: you talk about ours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know your mess yet. And my my

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Speaker 1: mess is, uh, you know, I I tried to plan

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Speaker 1: a little thing for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: I tried to do that. My mess is I don't

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Speaker 2: want to do any of that. That's not my thing.

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Speaker 2: And you know, you know, like you're doing that's very

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Speaker 2: air sign of you, but she's not. She's a water sign.

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Speaker 2: No Aquarius is are air signs is.

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Speaker 1: In the world.

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Speaker 2: I always feel like she's a fish.

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Speaker 3: No, Aquarius are air signs. You're both air air signs,

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Speaker 2: He's great, so fun. No, I love your brother. I

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Speaker 1: If this is a hangout, it's not a party.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Carolina text me yesterday, what are you wearing the

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Speaker 1: Sydney's Birthday? I said, Babe, I don't even know what

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Speaker 2: We're gonna let me. Let me take it one step

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Speaker 1: I said, dress nice. Yeah, And people would say be

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna have my digital camera out and yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: Martin was bonsoring the pod. Maybe Okay, years are knee high.

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Speaker 2: didn't realize they were my smurf shoes. What these little

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Speaker 3: These are my smurf shoes and I don't have I

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Speaker 2: Between the sidewalk and the street, a lot of like rivers,

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Speaker 2: Above some of the school. You need to shoe your ankle.

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Speaker 3: Instead or Leno got me uh, you got me those

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Speaker 1: No, I mean if I could wear these baggy ass docks,

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Speaker 2: Okay, no, Breca, you've been doing this pod for how long?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how about this.

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Speaker 1: How about you tell us what the broad is and yeah,

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Speaker 2: To meet in the middle. We will, Okay. So I

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Speaker 3: He came out this, and I did talk a lot

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Speaker 2: And then some of them you saw Mary men and

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Speaker 3: Okay, So that is Texas Christian culture mess. And then

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Speaker 2: having a dog is mess. Having a dog is mess.

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00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 2: Not having a docxin is mess. And I love her,

438
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 2: but she's what's up with the docents.

439
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 3: They're loud, they are to the ground, dubburn, they fall

440
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 3: in the snow because they're two inches.

441
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 2: From the groud.

442
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 3: Their legs are this long, they're this long. She just

443
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 3: sinking in the snow. She doesn't want to be out there.

444
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: I'm thank god she's grown out of spipe pining. She's

445
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 3: no longer just ping when she's angry, which I thought

446
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 3: this winter was gonna happen.

447
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: Bye the fu Hey, I got you out of whatever

448
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 1: situation you was in, and now you're going to spike

449
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: pee somewhere.

450
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but what hat spike pee too?

451
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 1: That's true, and they have done it to you. They

452
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: have and they know where they're supposed to go. Actual

453
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I was no better than anybody. Yeah.

454
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 3: I was like because at least for a while, I

455
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, well she just a puppy, you know,

456
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 3: she's like, hopefully she'll grow out of this. And then

457
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 3: she hit the to your mark and I was like,

458
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 3: she's not great out of this. She is still like

459
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,439
Speaker 3: if I don't give her what she wants, she'll look

460
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 3: at me, walk and pee, but for like looks at

461
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 3: you while she's peek.

462
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: Yes.

463
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 3: And that's why I know it's spie pee, because I'm

464
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 3: like you and I have a dog. I am brought

465
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,959
Speaker 3: her today. Thank god I didn't, because we ended up

466
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 3: here at iHeart and not where we normally record at Podstream.

467
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 2: You can't have a dog. You can't have a dog

468
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 2: here at iHeart. But I make it off the stairs.

469
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 3: No, and that's how I end up with like buying

470
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 3: her a sweater that I can put her in, and

471
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 3: like a bag and another bag and I's only fourteen pounds,

472
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 3: but why did you get a docs?

473
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 2: Okay, so.

474
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 3: This is my fault, this is my fault. I will,

475
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 3: I'll put that out there. I had loved them when

476
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 3: I was young, and in Texas. Docsin's are kind of

477
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 3: very popular. They're now popular at Dog of New York,

478
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 3: but they were always popular in Texas. A lot of

479
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 3: people have docsins in Texas.

480
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: Saying Texas, I thought people like big dogs in Texas

481
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: they like Honestly, a lot of Texans love rescue dogs.

482
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 3: I feel like you could go to the pound and

483
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 3: get a dog for a zero dollars. It's not like

484
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 3: here where it's like applying for an apartment where you're like, okay,

485
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 3: so I need you to have references, and you got

486
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: you to know from the pound.

487
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:15,239
Speaker 2: Yes, it's like I paid eight hundred dollars to get

488
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: our second dog from a shelter, but nobody wanted her.

489
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 1: They grew wait until they put her out with the

490
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 1: dress exactly you'd think.

491
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 2: But now put them out with the trashmory, they kill them.

492
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 2: They kill them.

493
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should have been like killer and then you

494
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: have way and then and then the lady would be

495
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:31,640
Speaker 1: like all right, come.

496
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 3: Back and get the dog for fifty who think you

497
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 3: They don't do that. In New York City, they're like,

498
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 3: this isn't a college application to get this dog. It's crazy.

499
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 3: But in Texas they're like, here's a dogard dogs. They're like,

500
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,479
Speaker 3: you want three? Actually, in Texas you would have got

501
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 3: a sexy pair of pony here boots.

502
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 1: But I know, you know, and that's his own issue,

503
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: But those boots won't wake you up at five o'clock

504
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: in the morning and go walk it.

505
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 2: And I like the boots more because of that.

506
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 3: And honestly, you can ask my way around he you know,

507
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 3: to this day reminds me every day I made a

508
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 3: mistake getting chicha, And damn.

509
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: Your boyfriend said that, yeah, he gotta go too. You

510
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: got a clean house, Well, how was I got to

511
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: start over? If you got your boyfriend full.

512
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: That's fair, that's fair.

513
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 3: Uh No, But I mean it was my I pushed

514
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 3: to get the dog because at the time when we

515
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 3: got the dog, I was like feeling really depressed, and

516
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 3: he was like not living in New York at the time.

517
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 3: He was like in DC kind of dealing with the thing.

518
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm lonely. I want a dog

519
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: and that was me. That was me unstable, and I

520
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 3: should have he should have put his foot down, but

521
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 3: he's being people pleasing and he was like, so he

522
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 3: got to a dog. So he agreed that we could

523
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 3: get the dog. So he pitched in to pay for

524
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 3: the dogs.

525
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 2: So you you went half on a baby with yes

526
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 2: with you when your man this dog? Yes? Why not

527
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 2: get a cat?

528
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 3: I'm allergic to cousin soci so the dog was kind

529
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 3: of the only option. But it's my fault that we

530
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,400
Speaker 3: got a dogs in and now get a naked cat.

531
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 3: I don't have there worse really, Yes, it's the oils

532
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 3: on their skin, so I actually they just leave little

533
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 3: body shit.

534
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: They do like little stamps everywhere and I do they sit,

535
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: They leave their body shape.

536
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all the oh everybody's cuprecis And that's what.

537
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: I would name my hairless cat appreciations a Christians get

538
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: off my laptop. Here's here? Oh my god? But no,

539
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 2: I so it was my fault.

540
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 3: I was like, I really want a dog, and I

541
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 3: was kind of interested in adopting a dog, but then

542
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 3: Orlando was like, I have so much trauma with like

543
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 3: dog adoption, like it needs to be like a real

544
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 3: dog from like a litter. And I was like, okay, well,

545
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 3: then invest the case. I want a doction and that's

546
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 3: on me. I should be done more research. I had

547
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 3: a few friends, Yes, I had a few friends that

548
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 3: had doin's and they were all like, mine's super chill,

549
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 3: Mine lets me leave the house. Mine doesn't bark.

550
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the keyword there is mine. Mine, and also boy.

551
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 1: They all have boy doxins.

552
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 3: And I did not take into account that it'd be

553
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 3: very different to have a girl than a boy. I

554
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 3: was like, pitshposh, Like they're the same, So what's the tea.

555
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: The tea is girl.

556
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 3: Dogsins are evil incarnate they and I say this with

557
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 3: all the love in the world for my dog.

558
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 2: I'm a good dog mom, but she is evil.

559
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: She is like she is so stubborn and reactive and

560
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 1: she is it's her way or the highway.

561
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: She's spipe peas not anymore. She sounds like me. She

562
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: is peeing on stuff. Then when I'm upset as well, she.

563
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 1: Is very like territorial spipe p I'm not gonna start

564
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: peing in twenty twenty six.

565
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: She doesn't let her landa talk. Ah, she looks like

566
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm peeing right now.

567
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: She literally looks like that, and she like, if you're

568
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 3: on the phone for too long, she starts barking at you, Yeah, get.

569
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: Off the phone.

570
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, why aren't you paying? Like thirty minutes,

571
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: it's too long. You gotta get off, but I know

572
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: you not right now?

573
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,479
Speaker 2: Actually, can I borrow you too? You can borrow Please

574
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 2: take her?

575
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 3: She gets mad if I'm gone, Like if I'm traveling

576
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 3: for whatever reason and Orlando's with the dogs, she will

577
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 3: like be rude to him. She'll be like extra reactive,

578
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 3: extra annoying, extra mad because he's like, She's like, mom's

579
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: a home.

580
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: Where's Mom? That's so crazy because I'm not a dog person.

581
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 2: But if I think about it, a dog that I

582
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 2: would want is a little chocolate Duxon.

583
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 3: Yes, And so in my head, I was like, she's

584
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 3: so cute, she's portable, she's loyal as fuck. She's gonna be,

585
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 3: you know, ride or die for you, which I do appreciate.

586
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 3: And she's very protective. There have been a few moments

587
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 3: even though obviously she's like ten pounds, what will she

588
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 3: really do? Well, she's really loud in the ankles. She well, no,

589
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 3: she's really loud that people are like, I'm not fucking

590
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: with her because that dog is loud as fuck. She

591
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 3: is like, ah, it's not like chiuaha where we're like

592
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: all right. She is like there have been times people

593
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 3: have come to our door and been like, do you

594
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 3: have like a big scary dog? And then it's like

595
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 3: Chicho walking up being like so I feel like she's

596
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 3: really loud.

597
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 2: I've always heard the little dogs are the loudest. Yeah,

598
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 2: bark the most.

599
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: Like a big dog will look at you and like

600
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 1: keep it moving, Yeah, like a Chihuahua or a Docson

601
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: or a Yorky.

602
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

603
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 3: But her bark is like a big dog bark, is

604
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Like she has like a very like deep,

605
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 3: like loud, angry, big dog bark. And so people have

606
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 3: like I live on kind of a busy, sketchy block

607
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 3: and people have come up to me trying to bother me,

608
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 3: and then Chicha will go off and they do go like,

609
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 3: all right, that's that's actually to bother you have, you know,

610
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 3: like harass me, you know, touch me, like say we're

611
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 3: shiit to me?

612
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 2: I have, Yeah, I do. I do live next to

613
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: a Homo shelter. Again, that's you and that's what I'm

614
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: trying to move.

615
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about the housing situation is rough because

616
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: when you're looking for an apartment, you got to look

617
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: at the inside.

618
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 2: And the outside.

619
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: Yes, the outside is very important. And you know says

620
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: this one is Orlando's fault because no, no, no, it's

621
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: still your fault. You let them, man, I know, I know.

622
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because to be fair, we were living in like

623
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 3: a really weird housing situation before.

624
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: We had this beautiful two bed, two bath and bedstide.

625
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 3: But it was built during COVID, and I think it

626
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: was like one of those like really poorly built buildings.

627
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: That's all.

628
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 2: That's so many buildings happening right now. Yeah, they had

629
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: the mess on. They couldn't really see the nails something. Yeah,

630
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 2: they probably my Kia buildings right now. It was an

631
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: Ikea building and the landlord was like super sketchy.

632
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 3: He was like this ex cop who definitely like he

633
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 3: he didn't live in the building, but he might as

634
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 3: well have because he was there every day and so

635
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 3: he was like harassing me, kept like reminding me of

636
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: my dad where I was like, why am i feeling

637
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: like I have to like ask you permission to like

638
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 3: fix my apartment, like fix my apartment.

639
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: I pay you money fix the apartment, and he would,

640
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: And so.

641
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: It got to a point where I got really, really

642
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 3: sick before we moved out and we broke our lease

643
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 3: because I was getting like mold poisoning.

644
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 2: We had a really bad mold problem, you could do.

645
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: And so I had told him multiple times.

646
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, like this mold looks kind of

647
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 3: crazy in the bathroom and he was just like, huh,

648
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 3: that's not supposed to be there, and then did nothing

649
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 3: about it. And then I like emailed him a couple

650
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: of times, and it got to the point where it

651
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 3: was like he was like making me feel bad for

652
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 3: asking him about the mold problem.

653
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 2: And then I woke up one day and I was

654
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: really really sick. Was he okay? Yeah?

655
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 3: And I look in the corners of the b of

656
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 3: our room, which the bathroom was. There's like an n

657
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 3: sweet bathroom, and then there was like a hallway bathroom.

658
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 3: The inn sweet bathroom is the one that had mold.

659
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 3: Then I'm looking in the corner of our bedroom and

660
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 3: there's mold in the corners of our bedrooms. I'm like, oh,

661
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 3: it's it's fully spreading. And it's like in our bedroom,

662
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 3: not just in the bathroom. It was a green mold

663
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 3: in the bedroom, little dots, yeah, like in the corners,

664
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 3: like behind the bed, like there was like mold. Think

665
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 3: you have mold maybe maybe, But are you feeling sick?

666
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 3: I mean I've been very I feel you have been sick.

667
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: Marie. We yeah before my birthday. Yeah, okay, you should get.

668
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: Tested for mold poisoning. Yeah, because I got like this

669
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: really bad bronchitis. And then when Orlando saw the mold

670
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: in the bedroom, he was.

671
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: Like, we're done. We're out of here. We're breaking our lease. Like,

672
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: we're out of here.

673
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 3: So we end up looking at this building that he

674
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: had looked at before we started dating, and it's like

675
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 3: this really cool studio loft, and like that's fun in theory,

676
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 3: it's not fun in practice. And you know, we were

677
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 3: so desperate to get out of this like bad housing situation.

678
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 3: We're breaking our lease already, so we're like, fuck it,

679
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 3: let's try the loft. Sure, it's really cool. We know

680
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 3: there's not gonna be a mold issue. Like it's wow

681
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 3: because the ceilings are high, No, concrete. Oh yeah, and like, yeah,

682
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 3: do you guys play it for your own heat? Yeah,

683
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: it's cold, it's cold.

684
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and so well, actually it's all you can't

685
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: thrive in the in the coldness.

686
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: It's either really hot or really cold. It's like whatever.

687
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: But and it's like it was closer to the train,

688
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: it was closer to our friends, so there was like

689
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 3: a lot of pros, but the reality was, Yeah, on

690
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: the corner, it's almost shelter and it's on a.

691
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: Pretty like it's on so it's like a hot I

692
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: know exactly what you're talking about.

693
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: Girl.

694
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

695
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 3: So we moved in and it was nice to hear

696
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 3: and then I think between both of our jobs being

697
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 3: like semi remote, and then we got a second dog

698
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 3: while we live there, because now, why did y'all do that?

699
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 3: This is Cheecha's fault. Chicha couldn't be left alone. And

700
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 3: then we're like, we're gonna get evicted because chech is.

701
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 2: Barking when we leave.

702
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 3: So we ended up with a second dog and that

703
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: did solve the Chicha problem. But then it's like four

704
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 3: bodies in this giant studio apartment because it is the

705
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 3: size of a two bedroom apartment, Like it's a big loft,

706
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 3: but it's still one room, you know, it's still four people.

707
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 2: Open concept. Open concept is a scam. Open concept.

708
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: You need.

709
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: Wall and your heart and in your home, but not

710
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: in this country, and not in your heart worries, that's true,

711
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: not not in this.

712
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 3: We need walls in the rooms in the apartment. Yeah,

713
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 3: so it just became too much. We got too much ship,

714
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 3: too many people in this house. Like there's no separation.

715
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 3: What we're in enough fight and like I'm sitting in

716
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 3: the bathroom just because that's the only room.

717
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,719
Speaker 2: With a wall, you know, I'm like, I'm like, oh,

718
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: I'm so annoyed with you. I guess I'll go sit

719
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: on the toilet, like I don't know, or just be

720
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: in the shower. Yeah, taking another shower exactly exactly. Sounds terrible.

721
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 2: To sit on the couch and.

722
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 3: I see you on the lofted bed over there. You know,

723
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: it's just a lot and the bed is loft it

724
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 3: so you got to go up. Yeah, you have to

725
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 3: take steps. So it's like a bunk bit it is. Oh,

726
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: it's not like a bunk bed. It's not that close

727
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 3: to steel because the ceilings are like fifteen feet.

728
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, so it feels good. Well, so it

729
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 2: feels it feels not.

730
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: Okay, no, you know, yeah I do so am I

731
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: doing a Well That's why I said that you need

732
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: these high ceilings because because they're like you're gonna go outside, Yeah, scared.

733
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 3: So and now that we're scared of house people, it's

734
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 3: just well it's not even just that I would argue

735
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 3: that the unhouse people is like so naughty is Yeah,

736
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 3: Actually it's that street people are going fifty sixty miles

737
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: an hour. When I first moved in, someone like on

738
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 3: the street like they they stumbled into the road and

739
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 3: they got run over and there were police and everything.

740
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 3: You could see blood on the sidewalk. Yeah, and I

741
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 3: looked when you moved in. It was when I moved in,

742
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: and I just kind of like forgot about it. Because

743
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 3: I was like forget about it. I was like, I

744
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 3: can't keep on this move I have to move on

745
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 3: and people die every day. Yeah yeah, And so then

746
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 3: my waiver was like I never forgot about that, And

747
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 3: ever since then, I've been like, we gotta move. So

748
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 3: we resigned because we did enjoy the apartment. But then

749
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 3: by this year two We're like, we can't do this,

750
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 3: like we are over it by year two. So our

751
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 3: lease is coming up and we're trying to apply for apartments.

752
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 3: But it's a nightmare right now. Everyone's trying to run

753
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 3: a fucking application scam. No one's actually green lighting any apartments.

754
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 3: Moving in New York is it's only gotten worse. It's

755
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 3: only gotten worse.

756
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, and people moved to New York every

757
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: single day, every single Somebody wrote in the comments one

758
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: time they're like, you guys are always moving, Yeah, because

759
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: that's how New York is.

760
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to. I'm not always moving. I've been

761
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 2: in my apartment for six years.

762
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: Ok.

763
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah before that, I was in my apartment.

764
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: But now you're living in not a good apartment. We

765
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 1: gotta get you out. No, I mean my apartment is fine.

766
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: I just I've grown it. And my landlord is you know,

767
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: she dead to me? Now?

768
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's time. And you could have mold. And you

769
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 2: could have mold.

770
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 3: I could have mold, which is really serious and not

771
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 3: something these landlords aren't take any serious because.

772
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: Every one one you've never called three one to one

773
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 2: on these people. I maym the mold man.

774
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: I should have called, but he's an ex cop, so

775
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 3: so I feel like he's got like his hands brub

776
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 3: me in this. Yeah, and in that building where I

777
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 3: was living, we live on the corner of a police station,

778
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 3: so I feel.

779
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 2: Like he was yeah, yeah, but three one one is

780
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 2: not the cops. I who New York City Bay all

781
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: three one one, four one one. They all got one

782
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 2: one one in there, so you know that.

783
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: And this was like this was Eric Adams administration, like

784
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: they weren't giving a fuck about us. You know.

785
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: Do you know a many times I've called three one

786
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: one on my landlord, and I do start calling three

787
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: one on my landl move out.

788
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna qual it on every Monday, everyone one day,

789
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: just because Yeah, I think I'm gonna do that too.

790
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 3: Luckily, this building hasn't been an issue in that way.

791
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 3: We're just like, we can't live here, and we can't

792
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 3: live like this. We can't live in this no walls,

793
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 3: two dogs.

794
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: Two people homes. So now you're trying to move with

795
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: two dogs. What's the application fee gonna look like for that? Yeah,

796
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 1: the application fee is the same.

797
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 3: It's just been kind of like a racket because a

798
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 3: lot of people what I'm learning is they're taking all

799
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 3: these applications saying, no, you'll get the apartment.

800
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 2: You'll get the apartment.

801
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 3: You'll get the apartments so they can take it in

802
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 3: as many fees as they want, and then they decline everybody,

803
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 3: and they just picked the highest bidder.

804
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 2: They're not they're not doing first come, first serve anymore.

805
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 2: It's the highest bidder.

806
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 3: So it's like if I'm not willing to get scammed

807
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 3: like that, Like I'm paying the application fee, but I'm

808
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 3: not willing to be like, well, this person that they

809
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 3: would pay four grand for the apartment. Actually, I'm like,

810
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 3: I'm not doing that. I'm not negotiating for the rent

811
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 3: of an appartment.

812
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: Hey, white people who move to New York City, please

813
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: stop stop, please, Why are.

814
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 2: You looking for apartments in Bedsty?

815
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: Get the fuck out of there, like Bedsty, bush Wick,

816
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: Flatbush like it. You them either stop moving in New

817
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: York or when you get here, stop paying what they're

818
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: telling you to pay.

819
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 2: Do not pay, Do not pay.

820
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: Oh, because the two is, you want to be in

821
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 1: a city, you want to be a sex in a city,

822
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: but you can't afford that sex. Oh you don't, Oh,

823
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: you don't want to pay six grand there. Yeah, so

824
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna pay four grand and flat Bush take an apartment.

825
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 1: Viewing makes it makes sense.

826
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 3: This one in Bedsty, it was this beautiful two bed,

827
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: one bath, but it was like huge. It was like

828
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 3: a full floor of a brown Stone. It was at

829
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 3: twenty eight hundred, which I was like, oh, my steel

830
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 3: applying right now. Well, they took it off the market

831
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 3: because too many people, too many white people came through

832
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 3: and they were like some of them literally I heard

833
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: them be like, oh my god, I used to live here.

834
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: I just moved back from La and I like, used

835
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: to live in the city. And I'm like, why are

836
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: you in Bedsty?

837
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: Like you used to live in the city. Why would

838
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 2: you be in Bedsty? Because they can't.

839
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 3: And so then they took it off the market because

840
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 3: they saw they could raise the rent to thirty five hundred.

841
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 3: So I applied and they were like, you're approved. And

842
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 3: then they even emailed my boss because to verify my employment.

843
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 3: My employment, and my boss was like approved, yep, she

844
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 3: works here whatever. And then they email me back being like,

845
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,479
Speaker 3: oh no, we're gonna give it to somebody else who's

846
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 3: willing to pay more.

847
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: Well, sometimes you know what let's let's get a little

848
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: bit more clear. Sometimes it's not just white people. It's

849
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 1: not with money made, like people who are paying past

850
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, you don't even run my car.

851
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 2: I got cash money.

852
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: And it's the same like if you want to buy

853
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: a home, anybody who's got the actual liquid, they're gonna

854
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: take them over.

855
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: And exactly, I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.

856
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 3: And I keep being told I'm a perfect applicant, and

857
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, then why can't I get an apartment?

858
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: Perfect applicant? But you got two dogs? And what's your

859
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 2: credit is? N my credits great?

860
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: Seven fifty bragg bragg. I'm like, give me an apartment.

861
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: Why to count the three?

862
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 2: Everybody screamed their credits for three? Sydney, you won't in

863
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 2: the room, right, Yeah, I'm out in China. What's Sydney's

864
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: credit for? And I have a great guaranteur.

865
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 3: Shout out to my dad, like you know, like he's

866
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 3: got great credit and he owns a home in Texas.

867
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:25,959
Speaker 2: The sermons said, your credit score for twelve, it's not credit, Carmen.

868
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 2: Just like you're on a roll. Your credit's going say

869
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: everything on time for paying for credit card me anyway,

870
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 2: So your dad is your guaranteur and my dad's my guaranteur.

871
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: So I'm like, why this is so hard?

872
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 3: But it's like I'm beating or I'm losing to people

873
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 3: who have like liquid, way more money for me.

874
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: You know.

875
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 2: The reality is I don't have liquid a lot, And

876
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,919
Speaker 2: it's probably people who are like, okay the first four months, yeah,

877
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 2: which is a league.

878
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: They can't illegally, they're not supposed to do that, sure,

879
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: but because if anything happens to that building, what if

880
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: the building burned down, how are you gonna get that

881
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: money back?

882
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: Hey man, you keep you get four four months up top,

883
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: that money gone. And these realtors are trying to be like,

884
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 2: no broker's fee, You're so lucky, and I'm.

885
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 3: Like, no, that's the law, bitch, Like, don't act like

886
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 3: you're doing me a favor by showing me an apartment

887
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 3: with no.

888
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 2: No, that's the law.

889
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: That's the law.

890
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 2: Now they're in kohoutzo with they're in cahoots with them.

891
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: Because now the building or whoever the landlord would it

892
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: has to pay these brokers. So trust me, no, it's

893
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: didn't working hand in hand. It's all dirty work. Yeah,

894
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: so everybody's finding a way to get paid except me.

895
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: I gotta guess I gotta walk under a scaffold into something.

896
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: I got a slip and trip in front of every day.

897
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 3: He's like, if I could just get in front of

898
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 3: that Emmazon truck and I'm like, don't wish that.

899
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 2: No, I don't wish that at all.

900
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,800
Speaker 1: I want you to know somebody then I know wife

901
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: had a scoffolding fell in front of her. She did

902
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: win a bag, but it took a law a long time,

903
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: which answer, no better than anybody. Yeah, take a she

904
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: was in that bed for a long time.

905
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 2: She had that man cheated on her. Yes, then ain't

906
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: many neck brace to the side.

907
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 3: Alry, okay, As your producer, I'm on top of things.

908
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 3: Yes day, the studios were not on my side. I

909
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 3: booked one. They confirmed the booking, but they did not

910
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 3: confirm it on their end because I have read I

911
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 3: have written receipts saying you are confirmed. I was like, great,

912
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 3: show up. They look at me crazy, like what are

913
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 3: you doing here? And I'm like, check your email. You

914
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 3: said we are booked. I was also physically here with

915
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: you guys last week booking the.

916
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: Studio but you remember that, Yes, and they said it

917
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,800
Speaker 1: out loud and so put you know, they were just

918
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: in talking, yeah, you know.

919
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 3: And so then I had to reschedule us back here

920
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 3: and luckily we were able to do it. But now

921
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 3: we don't have an engineer.

922
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the video. So we're praying this all

923
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 2: comes out and every come out. It's going to come out.

924
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 2: Don't worry, you know, don't worry. And we have a

925
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 2: great editor. Shout out to Orland. Yeah, that's going to

926
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 2: get it all the best Baby's.

927
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: But sometimes recordings mess, recordings mess. But it was just

928
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: a good question. You are going to have your own podcast.

929
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: You know, podcasts are mess, So what's up? Why why

930
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: did you want to start a pot That's a great question,

931
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: and it is a mess. I have anything I've learned

932
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: recording and booking. Your own show is its own mess.

933
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: But it's a podcast about perto Rico.

934
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 3: I'm Puerto Rican and I made a show that I

935
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 3: wanted to make for myself as someone who grew up

936
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 3: in such white spaces and had no Portocan community. So

937
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 3: I just was like selfishly, I built a platform, I

938
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 3: built connections. I love what I do, so I was

939
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna start interviewing really dope. Porto Rican's doing

940
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 3: really amazing shit. Who are uplifting the community? And it's

941
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 3: been really exciting and really fun.

942
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 2: Now when you're gonna have Mark Anthony one, yeah, you

943
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: know what, because you're working on it, I'm you was

944
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: talking a lot big talk for him, you know what,

945
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 2: not so much on my UNI. If you are in

946
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: the Portorican community, you know he means so much to

947
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 2: the community. Is he Puerto Rican? Yes?

948
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: He is.

949
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 2: J Lo also Puerto Rican.

950
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: You only don't need to talk about her. Well, well,

951
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to have her on your podcast.

952
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 2: Weren't they married? Yes, they were, you know there and

953
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 2: this is my own cheesemak corner.

954
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: I think Jlo only got with Mark Anthony so her

955
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 3: kids could be fully Puerto Rican because she's been with

956
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 3: many men.

957
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: Mary Man, mar Man and man and man and man.

958
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 2: Mark Anthony is.

959
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 3: You know, a flagrant Puerto Rican man. He'd be with

960
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 3: lots of way, he'd be cheating, you know. He he'd

961
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 3: be married to every Miss Universe, you know. Yeah, he's

962
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: married multiple Miss universes. Oh, he loved a woman thirty

963
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 3: years younger than him. But you know he has many, many, many,

964
00:43:59,520 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 3: many kids.

965
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: But you on your podcast, he's an icon in the community,

966
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: but in the slutty community, and well almost slutty to be.

967
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: I actually don't know my Spanish is my great Oh

968
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 2: she's yeah, that's ther mess. She's not that good. Okay.

969
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:23,919
Speaker 2: So the mess is is that my so, my mom

970
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 2: is a native speaker, she's from Puerto Rico. Is she

971
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 2: going to be in a podcast? Yes, actually the first episode. Okay.

972
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 3: But my dad, who is also Porto Rican, but he

973
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: grew up in La and a time where it was

974
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 3: like fairly dangerous to be Latino in La in the

975
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 3: sixties and seventies. You know, there's a lot of race

976
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 3: rights and and like now, and so he was never

977
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 3: proud to speak Spanish and never proud to be Puerto Rican.

978
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 2: So they had like very different upbringings.

979
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 3: And so when they came to raise my brother and

980
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 3: I and we then were living in Texas, a very

981
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 3: racist place, they were kind of like, well, it's not

982
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 3: gonna help them to know Spanish right now, because they're gonna.

983
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 2: Already judgm already been put in sl classes.

984
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 3: And I spoke no Spanish because of just they were

985
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 3: like you look like you speak Spanish, you gotta go

986
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 3: in the sl class and.

987
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: Then I have the s actually hurts you.

988
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, like my mom had to literally go she doesn't

989
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 3: speak Spanish, take her out of that class.

990
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 1: I loved esl Okay. I'm gonna tell you something. I

991
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: wasn't that class living my best black Yeah, because I

992
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: don't care about you. They just have hall watching Free

993
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: Willy in English. Just hold me.

994
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 2: Like you know, I went away. I want to jump

995
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 2: over me.

996
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 1: So how did your father who didn't want to speak

997
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: no Spanish link up with your mother who is born

998
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 1: and raised in Puerto Rico.

999
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,959
Speaker 2: So they met in Texas when they were pretty young.

1000
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 3: They, like my mom ended up in Texas by way

1001
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 3: of like my grandfather's job took him to Texas. He

1002
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 3: used to work for PanAm and for what PanAm uh

1003
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 3: the so it wasn't good because they were basically shutting

1004
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 3: everything down for PAM. So basically he knew someone from

1005
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 3: PanAm who got him a job in Texas.

1006
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: So he took us off. Family was like, we're moving

1007
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 2: to Texas.

1008
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 3: At this point they had already moved to Sacramento, and

1009
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 3: so it wasn't like Puerto Rico to Texas, but it

1010
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 3: was like Puerto Rico to San Francisco to Texas. And

1011
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 3: my dad ended up in Texas because his parents were like,

1012
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 3: we're running away from your sister.

1013
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 2: Long story, We're moving to Texas and your house. Like, yeah,

1014
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 2: she was a lot, she was doing drugs, she was

1015
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 2: having babies, you know. Yeah, mother didn't run away, she

1016
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 2: just sent me off.

1017
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: So well, so they they started by sending her away

1018
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: and then they didn't work, so they were like, well,

1019
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: we're going run away from you.

1020
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 3: So they ran away from her and they made my dad.

1021
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 3: They're like, you're helping us move and my dad was like,

1022
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 3: I fucking don't want to do that, but he did.

1023
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 3: And so then they meet at this party where all

1024
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 3: the Puerto Ricans in Houston knew each other. They're like, okay,

1025
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 3: small community, Christmas party, whatever, and so then they linked out,

1026
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 3: Oh okay, and then they both were like, we hate

1027
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 3: this place. Do you want to get married and go

1028
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:00,720
Speaker 3: to California?

1029
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 2: And then they did that.

1030
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: I love everything that I'm getting from you today because

1031
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: it's a little something for the immigrants, it's a little

1032
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,959
Speaker 1: something for the Texans, it's something for the dog people.

1033
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: But also for the single people, you gotta go. You

1034
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,720
Speaker 1: gotta find your community. Yeah, you gotta go to that party.

1035
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 2: You gotta go to the party.

1036
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,240
Speaker 1: It's Thursday when you listen into this right now, Tomorrow

1037
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 1: is a party that you said you wasn't gonna go to.

1038
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:24,479
Speaker 2: You gotta gotta have a party.

1039
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: And you make your community by what things that y'all

1040
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: both hate in common. And that is what we learned

1041
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: here today. You bound brings love hate brings using the

1042
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: mirror of one another.

1043
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 2: He brings up.

1044
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, they hated Texas and they were like,

1045
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 3: let's bounce, and so they moved to California. They lived

1046
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 3: in California for like a decade and they had my

1047
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 3: brother and I in California and then they were like,

1048
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 3: we're too poor to live here. So then they came

1049
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 3: back because my grandparents are selling Texas. So they were like,

1050
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:55,760
Speaker 3: our parents are there, they can help with childcare. It's cheaper,

1051
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 3: that's the way to do it.

1052
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,399
Speaker 1: On it. So like if your mom, if your mother

1053
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: or his mother is not around to help with your

1054
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: new child, then you have to do by yourself.

1055
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's how your friends and your friends are

1056
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: probably gonna drop your baby.

1057
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: But that's the problem now, like that's what the new

1058
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: generation of like moms and grandparents, they're like, nah, y'all

1059
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: need to take care of your kids.

1060
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 2: We've been taking good at kids forever. I feel like

1061
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 2: that's like some white shit though, no, no, whit your kids.

1062
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 1: No no no.

1063
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 3: I feel like the grandma the baby parents are like, nah,

1064
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 3: not helping the white grandparents.

1065
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 2: You can trying to go on a cruise to Alaska.

1066
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: I just feel like after Carolina had her baby, seeing

1067
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: how much of a support system she has, if I

1068
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: can't do it like that, then I don't want to

1069
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I mean saying, which is like,

1070
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: I guess that means I can never leave New York.

1071
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: But for me though that but that I do have

1072
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: a little bit of like is she with that? Because

1073
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: then it's like, yeah, if I don't have these people,

1074
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: then how do I do any of it? And it's

1075
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: like you gotta pack, you gotta pay nanny's to sleep

1076
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: at the house, and so people are doing it on

1077
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: their own.

1078
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 2: So it's like, but it's hard to be that when

1079
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that either.

1080
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: People struggling to get their toddler and their newborn on

1081
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: and off the.

1082
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 2: Train with the I don't want to do that in

1083
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 2: the train. I'm not carrying my stroller up and down.

1084
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 3: Oh that is something I gets stressed about when I

1085
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 3: look at the baby. Don'tbody doing it. I'm like, if

1086
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,839
Speaker 3: the baby don't hear me right now, if the baby

1087
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 3: don't feel right here, she can't come with us.

1088
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel all on that, but there's so many

1089
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: people who are like, ah, that was not that was

1090
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: in my story. That's not my mom story, my sister's story,

1091
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: and so obviously I don't want I don't want that

1092
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 1: for me, and that's why my legs.

1093
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 2: Are closed to married men. There going I'm only dealing

1094
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 2: with women now. But you learned a lot about it.

1095
00:49:55,360 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm just saying though, it's like, you do

1096
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: want to have a little bit of independence, and not

1097
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: because I do see some of these moms or even

1098
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: the dads. They're having a breakdown in the airport because

1099
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm by myself. I don't know how to put the

1100
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 1: stroller together. It's like, wait, what wait, you've never done

1101
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: this ever? Yeah, this is not the day to learn,

1102
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,760
Speaker 1: you got I do feel like we got a training

1103
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 1: sessions in that house.

1104
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 2: With the baby in the suitcase and roll it away,

1105
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 2: put it on top.

1106
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: No.

1107
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 3: I that's been my biggest fear with having children in general,

1108
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 3: where it's like I think growing up in Texas, you're

1109
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 3: kind of just groomed to like a mom. Like I

1110
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 3: was babysitting at like eight, Like I was like taking

1111
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:42,879
Speaker 3: care of four children of like my dad's coworker at

1112
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 3: eight at like twelve, like like they were like, yeah,

1113
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 3: we'll pay you twenty dollars an hour to watch our

1114
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 3: four children buyers, So like what the like as an adult,

1115
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't believe any adult thought that was

1116
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 3: like appropriate or Okay, but you.

1117
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 2: Were racking up where's your savings?

1118
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 1: Dad?

1119
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, babysitters club.

1120
00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: You know.

1121
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 2: I I had to spend it to move to New York.

1122
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: Okay the story right now? Okay, yeah, that's what happened.

1123
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 3: I did buy those dogs, but no, because I moved

1124
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: from college to Portland, and I did use all my

1125
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 3: savings to do that, because I was like, I got

1126
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 3: to get out of here.

1127
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 2: Why did you go to Portland? That's where my job was. Okay.

1128
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 3: I got a job right out of college and it

1129
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 3: was in Portland. Oregon, but I was like anywhere. I

1130
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 3: was like, get me out of here, whatever and whatever's

1131
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 3: they get me out of here. And I did use

1132
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 3: all my savings to do that.

1133
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: I was like, it is also important to travel, Like, yeah,

1134
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: I know we're talking kind of like people who have

1135
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: money were talking from a place of privilege right now, But.

1136
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: I think it's important to travel. You don't have to

1137
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: leave the country, but leave the county that you're from.

1138
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yah.

1139
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: It's important to meet different people people, different people so

1140
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: you can have other perspectives, because yeah, if you're only

1141
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: in your mahogynists community, then you only think about those

1142
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 1: people and what they're capable of. And if the ceiling

1143
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: is literally just you know that Honda or whatever, then

1144
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: that's it. You know, the Honda with the with the

1145
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: family in the back. They're like, well, I guess I

1146
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: just got to get married and have kids and be

1147
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: in a house, which is like.

1148
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 2: Everyone I grew up with was very much that.

1149
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 3: I remember even being in college and I would like

1150
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 3: go to doctors whatever, and I like they'd ask, Oh,

1151
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 3: what are your postcrap plans? And I was like, I'm

1152
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 3: getting the fuck out of here, you know, basically nicer

1153
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: than that. But I was basically like, I'm not trying

1154
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 3: to be here. And they're like, well you could, like

1155
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 3: why would you want to leave? Like why don't you

1156
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 3: just like stay? You can always travel? But I'm like,

1157
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 3: they say it, like your vision of travel, my virgin

1158
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 3: travel are different. You're just saying like, go to a

1159
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 3: resort in the Bahamas, Like you're not actually trying to

1160
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,439
Speaker 3: explore anything, because that's why.

1161
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 2: You don't want me to leave, because you're like, why

1162
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:39,840
Speaker 2: would you leave Texas?

1163
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: You gotta get out? And I'm like, nah, why would

1164
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: you leave people? Those lots of people. No, And that's why,

1165
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: not of people you gotta go, I gotta go.

1166
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 2: And it was the bestage you've ever made.

1167
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: And the people who are listening to us that you

1168
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: you know, you've been in your city whatever for many decades.

1169
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 2: When I get out, like this is why now.

1170
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: You and me, Yeah, it's time to explore because life

1171
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: is short. Yeah.

1172
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: But also I think it's really about the perspective. Yeah.

1173
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: I mean, like when I went to college in Woostern, Massachusetts,

1174
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 1: I met a lot of people who were like from

1175
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: Nantucket and whatnot. Yo, they didn't even know that like, yeah,

1176
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying these I'm telling you these little Nantucket

1177
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: nectars whatever, Like they didn't know the difference between a

1178
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: Dominican nor a Rican, a Mexican and a Venezuelan.

1179
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 3: I mean, that was the place they didn't They're not

1180
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: all in the same place. My whole experience growing up

1181
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 3: was immediately someone going, you're half fucking what. That's like

1182
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 3: the first thing people would say to me. They meet me,

1183
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 3: and they go, so, you're half fucking what? And then

1184
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 3: i would be like, well in Puerto Rican and they'd

1185
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 3: be like so black and I'd be like yes, and

1186
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 3: but like i am Latina and they're like, no, you're

1187
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 3: too black.

1188
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 2: To be Latina.

1189
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you're too black to be Latino. Yes,

1190
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: that's sound like something that Latina's saying, and that is

1191
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 1: that's also mess.

1192
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 3: So and then like it'd be like white boys talking

1193
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 3: to me or not wanting to talk to me because

1194
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 3: they're like, you're black, so I find you ugly because

1195
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 3: you're black. And then I'd be like, well, I'm Latina

1196
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 3: and then they're like ooh spicy, and I'm like, well,

1197
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 3: I don't really want to talk to you anyway, because

1198
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 3: you thought it was ugly, literally because you thought it

1199
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: was black. But now that you think I'm Latina, you

1200
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 3: think I'm hot. So it really wasn't about the way

1201
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 3: I looked. It's about that you're racist. And do you

1202
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 3: understand the people who are like it's not always about race.

1203
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:29,320
Speaker 1: Yes, and yeah boys, yes, like it literally all like

1204
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: it literally simply is all that. Yeah, like you'll be

1205
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: like minding your damn business, blah lah la la la,

1206
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: trying to be a kid, trying to live have fun,

1207
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 1: and then some bully or some some kid who's like

1208
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: your poodle heir who's drinking mountain dew for breakfast, it's like, oh,

1209
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: you're ugly because you're black. Yeah, And I'm like you're like, well,

1210
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm not even all the like not black per se,

1211
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: but like yeah, I'm in the mix of black. Yeah,

1212
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: but that was not like you're not even trying to

1213
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: be connected to black because they're like, well, I'm not black.

1214
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, well now you're making me feel weirder. Yeah, so

1215
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, no, no, no, no, no no, no,

1216
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:12,439
Speaker 2: don't do that to me. No, No, I'm not I'm

1217
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 2: not that no. But also the mess of like like

1218
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 2: the Dominican, the not wanting to be black or whatever.

1219
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,439
Speaker 2: The Caribbean. Yeah, well it's the white.

1220
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 3: It's like us watching the way that white people treat

1221
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 3: black people and then being like, well, fuck, what do

1222
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 3: we do because we don't want to be also other?

1223
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 3: And it's just like a mix of people, just like

1224
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:40,319
Speaker 3: having to unlearned racism, internalized racism, which is like something

1225
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 3: I even deal with my own family, and like things

1226
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 3: like that.

1227
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: Now your family, not my parents, but they off the hook.

1228
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 2: They are off the hook. I was like, you'll save them.

1229
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 2: I was like, my parents, my parents are they are

1230
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 2: good people? I mean my dad maybe not. That's like

1231
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 2: we've got a man under the bus. Okay, god no, no, no,

1232
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 2: no no.

1233
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 3: I will say my parents have always been very much

1234
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 3: anti trauma. They're very like supportive all that. But my

1235
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 3: dad and I've had really tough conversations about like internalized racism,

1236
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 3: where I'm like, does it bother you that I identify

1237
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,760
Speaker 3: as black as apera Latina?

1238
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: And He'll be like, but you're not. And I'm like,

1239
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 2: do you see a picture of your parents here? Well,

1240
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 2: we met her mom, you didn't.

1241
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: I still want to see them together because they together

1242
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: came yes, yes, and you're yeah, my dad is very white.

1243
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 1: Your mom is light, yes, and my dad is lighter,

1244
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,439
Speaker 1: which is why it is weird grandma coming.

1245
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 3: It is from my dad or my mom's side, but

1246
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 3: like my grandparents, I wasn't gonna say.

1247
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 2: I was like your grandma, grandma.

1248
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like my dad is like jet black, straight hair,

1249
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: you know, he's got definitely like all my whole dad's

1250
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 3: side is like very white passing, like he's got cousins

1251
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 3: with like blue eyes. But also that's a Portaregon to

1252
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 3: ask bar like everyone. My mom told me growing up,

1253
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 3: She's like Portregons come in all shape, sizes, and colors.

1254
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 3: So it's just like I always kind of was like, well,

1255
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 3: Portregans are whatever, They're everything. But it did become very

1256
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 3: complicated growing up in Texas because people look at you

1257
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 3: and then like they would say, like odd ship. Like

1258
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 3: my mom would be at places and they'd ask her

1259
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 3: a point blank is Ray really uh Becca's dad because

1260
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 3: she's just so black in comparison to my brother.

1261
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 2: Saying so black. That was hurtful and I'm hearing right

1262
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 2: now and so and then I'm so glad.

1263
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:31,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so, I'm so black.

1264
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 2: And it's like and it's like, what is my mom?

1265
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 2: She's standing like this, like she's like what's she supposed

1266
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 2: to do with that?

1267
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 3: It's like you're just feeling comfortable enough to say that

1268
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 3: to her, and she's holding her two babies.

1269
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: Really, her dad, well, I have a my godsister was

1270
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: married to this guy.

1271
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: Uh. I think he's I don't know if he's full

1272
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: white or he's half white or whatever, but her kids are.

1273
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: Her daughter was very very light, yeah, and she would

1274
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 1: go pick up her daughter from school and people would

1275
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: just assumed she was the nannys.

1276
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 2: They would call her like they'd be like, when is

1277
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 2: the mother gonna come get her kid? This is my kid. Yeah,

1278
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 2: and they'd be like okay, so dump dude, and it

1279
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: was like, this is my child. Are youing with somebody

1280
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: about your child? Is crazy to me?

1281
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 1: Hey, but t there is a documentary where this girl

1282
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: grew up thinking that she was like, you know, white

1283
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: Jewish girl. But because everybody, the whole family was right,

1284
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: and so she went to school until it was time

1285
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: to go to college, where.

1286
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 2: I think finally they were like, oh, I think there

1287
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: was like a b B.

1288
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: I think she went to a regular school, but she

1289
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: wanted to get into like the BSU or whatever like

1290
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: that because she had speculations that she was black, and

1291
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 1: she sent them their picture and all they were like, yeah, yeah,

1292
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: you definitely you good because they just on the paper

1293
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: you look black as And then she came to find

1294
00:58:55,960 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: out later that her mother had an affair on her

1295
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Speaker 1: father with the guy who kept coming.

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Speaker 2: By all the time.

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Speaker 1: He was a black black man and he had mad children.

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Speaker 1: And then they went to the funeral and it was

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Speaker 1: mad different women coming like that's care.

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Speaker 2: Saying that's your situation.

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Speaker 1: You're so she thought she was white and Jewish the

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Speaker 1: whole time, but the wh and Jewish, yes, But then.

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Speaker 2: Because look at the pictures.

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Speaker 1: But then they tried to show they were like, oh,

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00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 1: well this your great grandfather is from Sicily and like

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Speaker 1: the black and white photo and it was like okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see it. But then you know, her hair was

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00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 1: so different, it was so so so tight white love

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Speaker 1: and then your Jewish car, Yeah that's Sicily car. She

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Speaker 1: had a she had a bar mets and no bot

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Speaker 1: metz fu.

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Speaker 2: She had all of that.

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Speaker 1: And so this is the this is the she was

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Speaker 1: in the community like, but all the kids would be

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Speaker 1: like they would take pictures and she is clearly she

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Speaker 1: looks different.

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Speaker 2: That is crazy. So but some it's like this is

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Speaker 2: an call for it. It's fucked up.

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Speaker 1: But then there's other times where it's like, let's pull

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Speaker 1: out more. You are not the father, Like there is

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Speaker 1: that situation too.

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Speaker 3: Oh And it was crazy though, because like my brother

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Speaker 3: and I are only a year and a half apart,

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Speaker 3: So it's like my mom would have had to like

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Speaker 3: cheat on my dad eight months postpartum when she probably

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Speaker 3: wasn't even supposed to be doing nothing.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: So I saw your mom she a fly thing. She yeah,

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Speaker 2: she was back then too. She is my mom with

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Speaker 2: nails and everything's giving about it. She is about yeah,

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01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 2: but she and now she's in the gym. Now she's

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Speaker 2: really hitting it. She's she's doing her little OZMB you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she's on her her batty card right now.

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Speaker 3: She said six, he's not gonna do nothing to me.

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Speaker 2: Your dad not scared. He should. He should be worried,

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01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: Harry worried. But this is great that you're bringing this up.

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Speaker 1: This is why it's important that you have this podcast,

1339
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 1: because I mean, there's so many layers to it.

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01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 2: There's so many layers and to a lot of that.

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Speaker 3: In the first episode, I have like a really candid

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Speaker 3: conversation with my mom about that, about the fact that

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Speaker 3: I don't seek Spanish, about all the color is in

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Speaker 3: my experience. I tell this really crazy story how when

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Speaker 3: I was a freshman in high school, I went on

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Speaker 3: a cruise with my girls Scout troop because I was

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Speaker 3: in a girl Scout.

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Speaker 1: High school and cruises just don't go no girl Scout. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's that's three there. How they have money for a cruise?

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Speaker 1: We raised how they paid.

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Speaker 2: For a cruise? No, that is actually how I pay

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Speaker 2: for the cruise.

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Speaker 3: We saved so much money, like as a troup for

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Speaker 3: three years, we saved up to like take this cruise,

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Speaker 3: but we only had enough money to pay for the

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Speaker 3: moms and not the.

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Speaker 2: Or not the moms.

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01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 3: We only had enough money to pay for the daughters,

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01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 3: not the moms, So the moms had to pay their

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Speaker 3: own way.

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Speaker 2: But we were poor. So my mom was like, since

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Speaker 2: you're free, you can go, but I can't go. I

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Speaker 2: can't afford to go.

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Speaker 3: So they had to assign one of these white moms

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Speaker 3: because it was at primarily white girl Scout troop. Sure

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Speaker 3: as one of my guardians because I was underage, and

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01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 3: they assigned me and we go to Cosmel. It's like

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Speaker 3: one of those carnival cruises, like probably think cheapest cruise

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01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 3: you can go on. And you know, we go, we

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01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 3: go to Cosmo or whatever you're doing the excursion and

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01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 3: we're coming back on the boat and the like I

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01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 3: don't know if it's border patrol or whatever it is,

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01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 3: to security to get on the boat wouldn't let me

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01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 3: on because they didn't believe I was a US citizen.

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01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 3: They thought the white people were smuggling me from Mexico

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01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 3: to be on this boat.

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Speaker 2: Ileana Ganzas, Yeah, it was. Yes, throat is dry, I

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01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 2: need more.

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01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 1: Pos but literally thing marth throat is dry, heavy, heavy,

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01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: The tongue is dry, the thick tongues.

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01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 3: Is lo l But yeah, no, they almost didn't let

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01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 3: me back on the boat because they were like they

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01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 3: well they literally had to call my mom and like

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01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 3: call uh and have the woman who is like my

1385
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 3: guardian like argue with this agent to be like she

1386
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 3: is like a tenant of this cruise, like you have

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01:02:57,720 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 3: to let her on.

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01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 2: And then finally after like an hour and be a

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01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 2: passport and nothing.

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01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 3: I had a password card because my parents were being

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01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 3: a little cheap and they were like, well, it's stupid

1392
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: to get a passer card than a passport, and that's

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01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 3: work everywhere.

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01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 2: It works on a boat, that's why they did it.

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01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 3: So specifically passport cards only work on boat and or

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01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 3: road travel. And so they were like, well, stupid to

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01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 3: get the passport cards, So we're just gonna get your

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01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:20,680
Speaker 3: passper card. But we had all the documentation, like all

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01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 3: the proper I am US citizen, the girl scout.

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01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we crum no cookies and ye, why y'all didn't

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01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 1: have a head on and no, no, no, it was vacation.

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01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 2: We were just a little t and y'all should have

1403
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 2: been selling cookies on the on the mos. I should

1404
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 2: have been making more money, should have always been on always. Yeah,

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01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 2: but no, they finally let me back on. But it

1406
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 2: was like a trauma.

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01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 3: I remember being like very like that was like my

1408
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 3: first real bout of like very externalized racism. I had

1409
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 3: obviously many moments of children touching my hair and calling

1410
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 3: me poodle head and like lots of other things, but yeah,

1411
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 3: me and my voice was too white or whatever.

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01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, no. I think you have a good voice, a

1413
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: good screen, very great, and you don't stutter or stumble,

1414
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: you know, you don't saying yes.

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01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 3: My boyfriend he's like, you'd be someone all the time.

1416
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 3: Because I'm dyslexic as fuckh okay, oh yeah. I didn't

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01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 3: find out until semi recently, like the yeah, it's not

1418
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 3: a class, but you took a test I did.

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01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, give me the test. Yeah, I will send you

1420
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 2: the intimated yeah. Because and then I talked to a.

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01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 3: Psychiatrist about it and then they were like yeah, girl,

1422
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 3: you know things like yeah, but I was already getting

1423
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 3: tested for other stuff.

1424
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 2: It's free, I did.

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01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 3: I took a free test online and they were like, yeah, girl,

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01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 3: you are dyslexic. And then I like took it to

1427
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 3: a psychidris but yeah, like I've accepted I'm dyslexic because

1428
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 3: I will read things and it's like that's clearly not

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01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 3: what it said, and my wife friend will be like

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01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 3: and that's what happened. We were like on a bus

1431
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 3: and I was like reading these directions and I was like, oh,

1432
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 3: it's this street and he's like, that's not what that says.

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01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, that's what it says, and

1434
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: he's like, there's no r in there is there pills

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01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 2: for this. No, girl, it's just I was like, what

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01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:10,439
Speaker 2: can I do? Yeah, And they're basically just like side Yeah,

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01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 2: They're like they're like deal with it. Like there's like

1438
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 2: they're like, just accept that this is a challenge you have.

1439
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 2: I read it. It's a challenge you read because I'm

1440
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 2: seeing things flip. Yeah. So they said the more you

1441
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 2: do it, the east get to read. Well, I think

1442
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 2: that's actually the thing with just is that they're like,

1443
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 2: this doesn't matter how much you read, it's just gonna

1444
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 2: be hard.

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01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 3: Lower baby that you're Yeah, basically they're like, read soort audiobooks.

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01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 2: You know, audiobooks is not reading. I know we got

1447
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 2: but then it takes me for her to read.

1448
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 3: So I was anti audiobook until I did read a

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01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 3: Marina's book a couple of days ago and I was like, Okay,

1450
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 3: this was actually fun to listen.

1451
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: Well, we started a book club amongst our friends and

1452
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: so you actually have to pick the next book, friend.

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01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 2: I have to order it is that it no, this

1454
01:05:55,880 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 2: is the book Sydney picking Oh the War of Art.

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01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 1: That's also my man, that you could said that was

1456
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 1: our mess mess that you have to read the War

1457
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: It says, yeah, it's a self help book, and I

1458
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 1: was like that that's break through the blocks.

1459
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 2: And win your inner creative battles. You might as the

1460
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 2: artist way.

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01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: I have that as well, and I haven't finished that yet.

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01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 1: And I felt like this was easy. I was like, oh,

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01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: artist way, The artists way is hard. I haven't finished this,

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01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: but that's why I carried it. So you were like,

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01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this on the train. Fits in my

1466
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 1: bag so beautifully. I feel like we gotta go.

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01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 2: I know we have. We should probably wrap this up.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, it's always a pleasure you producer now

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01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 1: hosts slash Slash.

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Speaker 2: I would be here for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and that's you know, that's what my You're like,

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01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: I have to make sure that your podcast isn't taking

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01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: away from your yet.

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01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 2: Is this gonna mess with mess? No, I will be here.

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01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 2: I'm still writer, die for y'all. I will always be

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01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 2: your producer. Okay, bonus question, So what's the messiest thing

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01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 2: about us? Murray's always late? Oh, I said, it's not, Marie.

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01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 2: That's what It's hard to put you guys together because

1479
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 2: you're different people. First of all, you do you do.

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01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 3: Work is always late, but Marie is always late, and

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01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 3: then yours is. You can't make a decision when the clips.

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01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 3: Sometimes I'm an air sign, but I know, I'm just

1483
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 3: saying you asked.

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01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 2: I gave you an answer, so.

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01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 1: You know, because because sometimes we'll make the.

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01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 3: Decisions and then you'll be like, but wait, was it right?

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01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 3: And it's like, girl, we got to move on. We

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01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 3: made the decision. We gotta go, and the clips are

1489
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 3: always good, so they are always good. You know, you

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01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 3: gotta be more confident in your decision and the clips

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Speaker 3: we love.

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Speaker 2: Mess I'm also bad.

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01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 1: I was.

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01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 3: I was like, I gave you a pro Hong Kong pro.

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01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 3: I I did a little compliment sandwich and then I

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Speaker 3: still got chat Becca.

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Speaker 2: Tell us the name of your podcast and where people

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01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 2: can hear it.

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01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 3: It's Welcome to a Brio. It is on anywhere you

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Speaker 3: get your podcasts. It is a Michael Tuda iHeart podcast. Yeah,

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01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 3: Welcome to a Budio. You can follow us on Welcome

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01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 3: to a Budrio on Instagram And if you have any

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01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 3: of your own Puerto Rican identity stories, your own cheese

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01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 3: may any recommendations. Anybody you want to be on the show,

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Speaker 3: email us at Welcome to a Brio at gmail dot

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01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 3: com and send us your.

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Speaker 2: Cheese me miss yes and your name geez email dot com.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Love you guys. Okay, love you Bye bye.

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Speaker 3: Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Boston is a production

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Speaker 3: by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcasts. Created

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Speaker 3: and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced

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Speaker 3: by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonni, super produced by Becca Ramos,

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Speaker 3: Edited and mixed by Brian Jeffries. If you would like

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Speaker 3: your messages read on air, please email us at mess

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Speaker 3: Thepodcast at gmail dot com, or call for your messages

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Speaker 3: to be played at seven six three two eight zero

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Speaker 3: six five eight eight