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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and my husband has been sleeping with my mother.

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Speaker 1: But it gets worse.

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Speaker 2: They say there's nothing better than a mother's love. All

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Speaker 2: he wanted was a little mama's love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, can you fall him for just one mama love?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. Come on,

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Speaker 1: just wanted to be a mother lover, that's right. I

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Speaker 1: twenty six female, have found out my husband, thirty male,

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Speaker 1: is having relations with my mother fifty two female. Wow?

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Speaker 1: Just wow, God, why are you clapping for him?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just so insane. It's just so insane.

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Speaker 1: I honestly don't know how to react, much like John

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Speaker 1: doesn't know how to react. Lappened for this dude. I'm

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Speaker 1: effing four months pregnant and I'm trying not to stress

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Speaker 1: since it's bad for the baby. I honestly had my

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Speaker 1: suspicions about my husband cheating.

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Speaker 4: But I never would have thought it would have been

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Speaker 1: Oh God, When I announced my pregnancy, he seems happy

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Speaker 1: over the moon. Actually he was kissing me and telling

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Speaker 5: It's convenient because now the grandma and the stepmom will

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Speaker 5: be the same person.

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Speaker 1: That is a confusing family tree. About two weeks after

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Speaker 1: my surprise announcement to the pregnancy, he stopped hugging and

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh, let's just say he's staying in but he's

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I also noticed he had changed his lock screen picture,

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Speaker 1: which was a picture of us. I'm not sure if

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Speaker 1: that meant anything, to be honest, But then I found

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Speaker 1: out something new. Three days ago. I went through his

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Speaker 1: My stomach thinking about what I saw.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I saw pictures of my mom in law, and he

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Speaker 1: was replying pictures with his egg plants no, saying he

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Speaker 1: was so hard for her. Oh myke. I even saw

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Speaker 1: a message of regret. He had said that maybe we

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Speaker 1: or something, But my mom said I.

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Speaker 3: Wouldn't hurt as long as we kept it a secret.

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Speaker 1: But what angered me most was the message she sent

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Speaker 1: a few days ago. I'll quote it here so anyone

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Speaker 3: I love you so much more than you'd never think.

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Speaker 3: You've helped me through the passing. I might be laugh

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Speaker 3: it X husband, rest is soul, and for that I

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Speaker 3: am truly thankful.

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Speaker 1: I know it is hard for you to keep a

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Speaker 3: I love my daughter with all my heart, but she

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Speaker 3: will eventually have to accept that. Allah is love, that

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Speaker 3: the heart wants what the heart wants.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, uh hot.

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Speaker 4: Watch each other. Oh no, there's more.

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Speaker 3: I thought that ever since my husband died, Rest his soul,

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Speaker 3: nobody would ever loved me because I'm just an old woman,

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Speaker 3: decrepit and dying.

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Speaker 4: But you have showed me to love myself.

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Speaker 3: It made me feel young and sex Oh, let's keep

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Speaker 2: That was a text.

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Speaker 1: That was a text that she said, Bro, you can

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Speaker 1: tell she's old because she's sending fucking multi pairers. Yeah, literally,

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Speaker 1: just Facetiming's stupid. Yeah, I think it's important to know

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Speaker 1: my father passed away about five years ago from a stroke,

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Speaker 4: Her forever love and what and only what?

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Speaker 1: Yo, dude, But she's happing on her daughter's boyfriends or

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Speaker 1: she's hopping on her daughter's husband's dick. Fuck, hey, maybe

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Speaker 1: that revived her. Who knows. Oh my god, it's absolute bullshit.

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Speaker 1: I'm effing crushed. And it's the fact that I know

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Speaker 1: threw up after reading that message, Like literally threw up.

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Speaker 1: I have screenshots of the messages and have sent the

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Speaker 1: videos to myself. Oh the videos. No daughter should never

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Speaker 1: I deleted them on his phone so it looked like

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Speaker 1: he never said anything. I'm numb, I'm confused. I'm hurt

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Speaker 1: so so bad, I can't even cry because I refuse

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Speaker 1: any advice, please, I'm desperate for just a little bit

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Speaker 1: of anything. This baby inside me is honestly the only

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Speaker 1: thing preventing me from confrontation. I'm afraid that confronting them

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Speaker 1: want the best for my child. At this point, all

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Speaker 1: I want to do is have my baby. Christmas is soon,

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Speaker 1: I had planned on announcing the pregnancy that day, but

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Speaker 1: now I'm not so sure. No, please help me.

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Speaker 5: Whoa I mean, look, that's that, that is John.

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Speaker 1: What is your advice?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Situation like this right, oh a hundred.

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Speaker 5: Times, you know the old times, the old mom sleeping

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Speaker 5: with your your your husband switcheroo. Oh you gotta you

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Speaker 5: gotta tell them, talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Probably, it's just so hard because it's like this is

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Speaker 1: like a double betrayal. I mean, it's like you're ball

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Speaker 2: That's just so brutal, so brutal.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, I think I think, like, even if

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Speaker 5: you don't know what you want yet, it's like, listen,

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Speaker 5: I know you guys are doing this, I know I

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Speaker 1: Stop stop, please, love of God, stop oh, my gosh.

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Speaker 1: And then I don't know, I don't know what after that,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, jeez, but John, no, there's enough ding No.

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Speaker 1: I told him that I know everything. I showed him

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Speaker 1: but when I showed him the evidence, he started crying, crying,

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Speaker 1: a baby needs a dad in their life to fully

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Speaker 1: about dude, rock, I will my mom. Oh god, I

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Speaker 1: honestly don't know what to say at that except that's bullshit.

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Speaker 1: I told him that I was contacting a lawyer in

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 1: I already packed my things before he came home. I'm

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Speaker 1: everything sorted from there. But it gets crazier. My husband

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Speaker 1: has been blowing up my phone with messages and apologies.

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Speaker 1: He's told me that if I ever take a back,

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Speaker 1: which oh please, for the love of God, don't don't,

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Speaker 1: he won't do anything to hurt me again, and he

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Speaker 1: will cut all ties with my mom. As for her,

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Speaker 1: I've also confronted her.

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Speaker 2: It's going on here.

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Speaker 1: I messaged her once I got to my hotel. I

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Speaker 1: told her I was pregnant and that she will not

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Speaker 1: ever get to see her grandchild. She has not responded yet.

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Speaker 1: I've also moved all my finances that I had in

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Speaker 1: savings account. You don't understand how grateful and appreciative I

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Speaker 1: am for the support. I apologize that I could not

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Speaker 1: reply to the personal messages I've been receiving as well.

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Speaker 1: It's been hell trying to do the best. I'll try

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Speaker 1: my best. Update. If my mother does end up replying again,

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Speaker 1: thank you all so much.

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Speaker 2: Wow? Is that it?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 1: The update is from Mama? So she ends up replying.

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Speaker 1: So she messaged me just a few hours ago, and

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Speaker 1: I honestly do not have the heart to reply. It's

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Speaker 1: made me rethink my situation, how rethink what we think what.

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Speaker 5: You know what, maybe the next update is like, I

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Speaker 5: joined a PolyAm for a relationship.

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Speaker 2: With my and my fucking mom.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, let me let me read this text.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm so sorry for the pain and hurt

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Speaker 3: I've caused.

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Speaker 1: You never meant to go this far. I love you

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Speaker 1: so much with every inch of my heart and every

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Speaker 1: inch of your husband's thick cock. God kidding, but you

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Speaker 1: are not the victim. You are not the victim.

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Speaker 3: What how dare you hold this against me and take

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Speaker 3: away my right to see my one and only grand baby.

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Speaker 1: You are cruel.

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Speaker 3: If you do this, you will forever live life regretting it.

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Speaker 3: Please do not do this to me. I am your mother.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I have ended it with your husband.

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Speaker 1: We are no longer on speaking terms. Please push past

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Speaker 1: this as I pushed this. This bad oh. A child

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Speaker 1: cannot be raised without a father or grandmother. I love you.

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Speaker 5: Please call me it actually easily can That's like completely doable.

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Speaker 2: A.

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Speaker 1: Bro, This is crazy, this is crazy. Get out of this, dude.

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Speaker 1: You have the most fucked up familial relationship. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: this sucks, but you got to get out of there.

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Speaker 1: But leave your family out of there.

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Speaker 5: I also wonder how how the other family members are.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yo, put them on blast, dudude. Imagine imagine

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Speaker 5: some like like, uh, uncle has entered the chat like

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Speaker 5: aunt has entered the child. Can I joined in trying

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Speaker 5: to like creep your uncle, Jerry, now that your mom's

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Speaker 5: cutting off, like the mom is just like the aunt

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Speaker 5: is just like sliding in there, just like Yo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is totally fucked up, like like in all

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Speaker 1: series as Opie, this like this situation sucks for sure,

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Speaker 1: but you need to get your You and your baby

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Speaker 1: is far away from your ex husband and the person

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Speaker 1: it's just that that's someone that's your mother. Thought of

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Speaker 1: a vagina, Yeah, that's a motherfucker emphasis on fucker opia

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Speaker 1: feel bad for you. Yeah, if you thought this mom

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Speaker 1: was dad, check out this other mom that left their

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Speaker 2: What's with these moms?

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Speaker 1: I know, I know, But if you have your own

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Speaker 1: mom story or any story at all, go to our

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Speaker 1: and then possibly read it.

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Speaker 2: Check it out. I told Karen her bully son can't

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Speaker 2: come on the beach trip. So she abandoned him.

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Speaker 1: OKAYOPI this is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner, and we tell

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Speaker 1: the funniest stories on the internet. And uh, John, we

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Speaker 2: The COVID King Boys and.

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Speaker 1: Last year freaking same time. But this time is even

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Speaker 1: Can't think Karen's are ever good at parenting because they

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Speaker 5: Literally, a Karen can't like can't parent. I almost said

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Speaker 5: Exactly, oh says being in mommy groups, spending her husband's

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Speaker 5: The dad was a good person, but worked a lot,

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Speaker 1: Let me express myself by any face, then wow, turn

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. I'm expressing what made it.

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Speaker 5: Worse was that the Karen would pass by her son's

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Speaker 1: That is, why do you reward bad behavior?

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Speaker 2: Why do we do it?

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Speaker 1: Unless the sweets are Willy Walker sweets that like mess

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Speaker 1: I would try, you would want to be a giant blueberry.

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Speaker 5: It just looks crazy and I'm just like this is

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Speaker 1: You know what, John, It all gives you a big

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Speaker 2: There we go, We'll do it. We'll I'll wear it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, blueberry episode, blue episode.

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Speaker 5: So because of all this bad behavior, the other parents

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Speaker 1: All right, so they're excluding this they're terrible kid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just like, we don't want to some monster

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Speaker 5: Karen would often call our home about getting sleepovers or

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're expressing yourself with your fists, you can

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Speaker 5: If we didn't give in, she'd say, you're bullying my

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Speaker 2: How could you do that to a child?

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Speaker 1: Though? How about your child? Does it punch the other

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Speaker 1: kids in the face? Yes, I'm actually really bullied.

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Speaker 2: Serious.

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Speaker 5: She also threatened to call the governor for discrimination because

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Does she know him?

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Speaker 2: Bro?

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Speaker 1: Is this like an idol threat? Or is she like

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Speaker 5: I wonder how many of like the governor's aids have

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Speaker 1: Oh god, it's like, Arnold, you got another call? What

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Speaker 2: Oh man, get a spanking from old Arney himself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Old Arnie. You know I heard he gives the

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Speaker 1: best spankings. It's made, you know, it's made. You know

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Speaker 1: he like hooked up with his maiden. She knows. She

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Speaker 1: knows about those spainous larny spankings. She's been She's been

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Speaker 1: spank five ways to Sunday.

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Speaker 2: She knew the assignment.

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Speaker 1: She knew the assignment and loved.

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Speaker 5: Anyways, back to our story, Opie says, so late June,

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Speaker 5: the other parents and I were talking about a beach

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Speaker 5: We talked through everything among the ten other moms and

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Speaker 2: I have to do something with my husband.

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Speaker 5: What what? What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're insufferable and you're spending all this money

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Speaker 1: on your fake milk jugs.

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Speaker 2: Me. Wait, what where entitled mother Santa Croz selling me.

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Speaker 1: No, you you were to invited.

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Speaker 2: You and your son are not invited. This is a

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Speaker 1: Unfriendzoned, not even in the friend zone outside of the

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Speaker 5: So, Karen, you're a big Meani kicks me in the

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Speaker 5: leg and runs away, entitled kid, You're a big meanie,

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Speaker 5: kicks me in the leg and runs away back to that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, the kid is just his answer to everything

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Speaker 1: is let me, let me kick her this thing. No,

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Speaker 1: you gotta I gotta learn some some things about peace.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know there's a well who wrote that song?

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Speaker 1: It's like war? What is it good for? Absolutely nothing?

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Speaker 1: Say it again?

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Speaker 2: Nah, I remember it, but I couldn't even recite a lyric.

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Speaker 2: That's impressive.

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Speaker 1: Let's say I know who that is. Edward Star wrote

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Speaker 1: it though, In case you're wondering.

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Speaker 5: Karen, look what you did, you child hater? She leaves

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Speaker 5: and chases after him.

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Speaker 1: Bro, she's not. It's not a child hater. It's a

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Speaker 2: It's it's a kick cater.

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Speaker 5: And and you know what, Sam, Look there, these these

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Speaker 1: Way to find new friends on wink Wink Swipe to

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Speaker 1: find new friends.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 5: Because this was a big trip, we decided to go

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Speaker 5: shopping and hit the road on Friday. We had to

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Speaker 5: do lots of shopping in bulk to reasonably feed twelve

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Speaker 5: adults and eighteen kids.

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Speaker 2: My wife and I.

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Speaker 5: My wife and I, along with four other parents, were

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Speaker 5: watching the cars and keeping the kids occupied. For a

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Speaker 5: brief moment, I turned my attention to the car to

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Speaker 5: turn the AC up because my kids said that they

467
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 5: were hot. I turn over and see the entitled boy

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00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 5: is there with his bag and the mom peeling out

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Speaker 5: in her station wagon. Wait what she dumped the kid

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Speaker 5: with them? She's just left heels out like a freaking

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Speaker 5: like tokyo drifting out of there.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Why Like, I feel like she's treating this like a

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Speaker 1: hest Like you dropped the package, secured the package, dude?

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Speaker 1: What the hell? I Like, I just feel so bad

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Speaker 1: for this kid that his mom has to ditch him

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Speaker 1: for him to find some friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, truly, truly sad, truly forgeting that.

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Speaker 5: Now we're all in shock and asking ourselves, is this

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Speaker 5: actually happening to us?

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Speaker 2: The boys.

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Speaker 5: With Karen's anything possible, that's the that's their slogans.

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Speaker 1: Could be, that's like, that's that, that's that Karen confident exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's the shirt we're gonna make that guys, don't worry.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a good hat canceled. Karen's cancel over.

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Speaker 5: We were all in shock, just asking ourselves, is this

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Speaker 5: really happening to us? The boy's mother gave us a note.

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00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 5: The boy's mother gave him a note that had his

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Speaker 5: allergies and an emergency number.

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Speaker 2: We call no answer. The emergency number isn't even real.

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Speaker 5: But oh my god, we can't leave the kid here

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Speaker 5: alone and we're not going to bring him with us,

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Speaker 5: so we opted to call the police.

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Speaker 1: Wait, okay, okay, okay. So so I understand we don't

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Speaker 1: like this kid. I get it, I get it right,

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Speaker 1: but it's like, if you're really gonna call the police

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Speaker 1: on a kid who just ditched them. I just feel

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Speaker 1: so bad for this kid now, like no one wants him.

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Speaker 2: This kid is because no one wants him, like he

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Speaker 2: just needs to just it's some love, you know.

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Speaker 1: And you know now he's getting called on by the police.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna take him in. They're gonna be like, why

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Speaker 1: are you here? It is like I have no friends.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had winks, but.

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Speaker 2: It's nineteen.

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Speaker 4: That technology does not technology?

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Speaker 2: Oh this is this is it?

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Speaker 5: We make a movie with wink where we travel back

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Speaker 5: in time and we give him wink and then and.

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Speaker 1: Then he'd finally have some new friends.

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Speaker 2: He becomes like the great uniter of society.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, he realizes, wait, instead of kicking to find

513
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Speaker 1: new friends, I should have been swiping.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, that is integrated content. Ladies and gentlemen.

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00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 5: There we go, so Op says, we put the kid

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Speaker 5: in the car to keep him out of the sun,

517
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Speaker 5: and we made the call. We report the Karen for

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Speaker 5: abandonment of her child, and they send an officer. In

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00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 5: about fifteen to twenty minutes, the other parents and I

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Speaker 5: got back to our cars to look out for the police.

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00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 5: When we get back, the entitled boy is pulling my

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Speaker 5: four year old daughter's hair.

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00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: The reason why so did they did?

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Speaker 5: They just leave him out in they left I guess

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00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 5: they left all the kids in the car while they

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Speaker 5: like waited for the cops to pull Okay. The reason

527
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 5: why the kids had some snacks in the cooler and

528
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 5: they didn't want to share them with the entitled boy.

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00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 5: What later happened as we were running to the car

530
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 5: is ten of the boys pull the entitled boy off

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Speaker 5: our daughter and proceeded.

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00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 2: To Whoop his behind. No, I didn't know.

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00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling bad for this kid. He's I just

534
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 1: feel young.

535
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 2: Don't understand. He's just getting beaten over here.

536
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh geez.

537
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 5: Now this kid had two years of rage bottled up inside,

538
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 5: so what took place was not surprising.

539
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: Now the Entitled Kid is bleeding, crying.

540
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 5: He says that we're all mean and started to meet

541
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 5: and started demanding food from us. He was cussing out,

542
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 5: hitting all the things, and he said.

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Speaker 4: I want to go on the trip. I want to

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00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 4: go up the trip.

545
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 3: Now.

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00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 2: He kept parroting this over and over it and I

547
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 2: yelled at him, shut up.

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00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 1: I feel that you see, Like initially I was against

549
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: the Titled kid, but now I just feel bad. I

550
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 1: just feel so bad.

551
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 2: They're going a little ham, They're going a little dude.

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00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: He's he's getting wrecked, just like emotionally, physically, spiritually, Like

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00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: he's not coming back for this ever. He's going to

554
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: be forty and he's going to be in a support

555
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: group and is like, I was a little bitch ass kid.

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00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: I still want to go again, Jimmy, get it out.

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00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: This is a safe space for you.

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00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 2: Now. Me yelling this only made him cry more. Now,

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00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 2: I will admit I was probably the wrong here. Yeah,

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00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: I think.

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00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: Being that much of a rude person to that little

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00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: kid a good idea, A little of a.

563
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Speaker 5: But this is one of the few children I have

564
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 5: truly hated in my life. That's o PA's excuse. That's

565
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 5: saying something. Kids are annoying. The cops arrived soon after

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00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 5: and we explained what happened. Apparently he was dropped off

567
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 5: at his father's job. The mother received a child neglect

568
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 5: charge when she saw that our kids beat up hers.

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Speaker 5: She tried to charge our kids with assault. It was

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Speaker 5: dropped because it was self defense kind of.

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Speaker 1: I mean they kind of all ganged like, yeah, the

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Speaker 1: ten kids.

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Speaker 2: Beat him up. That's a different story, because.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but ten kids, that's a mob, bro. It's kind

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00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: of like the question, like that mob of what like

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00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: ten year old? Tell her to the yeah, take like ten?

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00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you rather face one eight foot toddler or

579
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: eight regular size toddlers?

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00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: Maybe it would be twenty. I don't know how many

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Speaker 1: toddlers do you think you could take if.

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Speaker 2: It had to be ten year olds? Maybe like an

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Speaker 2: eight foot ten year old or ten ten year olds.

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Speaker 1: Eight foot ten year old or ten year olds. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think that's I think that's fair. I think that's fair.

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00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: It's like with an eight foot ten year old, Like

588
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: they're massive, right, maybe they're not as coordinated or as smart,

589
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: but like they're huge ten regular ten year olds with knives.

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00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: That's a lie. Yeah, Yeah, you have to like cover

591
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: your basis. Maybe you've had like a big stick you

592
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: could just kind of like plow through them.

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Speaker 2: Take that, ducks.

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Speaker 5: But all in all, my friends and I took our

595
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,239
Speaker 5: kids and had a great weekend at Santa Cruz. If

596
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 5: you wonder what happened to Karen and her son. The

597
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 5: mom is still married to the dad. We do not

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Speaker 5: talk to her since our kids aged out of Scouts.

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Speaker 5: The sun is now a fifty five year old man

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Speaker 5: who is a creep that tries to pick up college

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Speaker 5: girls and neglects his four kids.

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Speaker 1: Yikes, yikes. He never grew out of it.

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Speaker 2: And that's it, folks, that's the RDIT story.

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Speaker 1: Wow, geez freakin' Loise, I, you know, I just feel

605
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Speaker 1: bad for this kid, Like he obviously wasn't given a

606
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Speaker 1: good home in the beginning and took out his frustrations

607
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Speaker 1: on the people and never learned to grow up.

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