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<v Speaker 1>Second d Update. How do you know if you're dating

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<v Speaker 1>a cheater? Oh gosh, how can you tell? I've thought

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<v Speaker 1>about this. I was like, how can you tell if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's cheating on you? And I was like, well, nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>ever cheated on me, because nobody ever would, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know. Now. I know Brooke has been cheated

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<v Speaker 1>on a lot, So how could you tell brook when

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<v Speaker 1>somebody was cheating on you? Well, hey, it's only happened once,

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<v Speaker 1>and b I didn't know until after I well, okay

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<v Speaker 1>he dumped me, but whatever. I didn't know the brand

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<v Speaker 1>till after the breakup. Anna is on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us today. She wants to do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>to a guy that she thinks might be a cheater.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Ralph. Anna, how are you doing great?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys? Pretty good? Thank you for doing

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update with us today. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet this guy? I was volunteering at this event with

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<v Speaker 1>a friend. Oh, so he's a homeless dude. No, we

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, he was taking time out of his

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<v Speaker 1>busy day to like volunteer at this event. He's not homeless. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I was confusing it. So you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>working the same charity event thing together, Yes, exactly, So

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<v Speaker 1>so far it sounds like a stand up guy. Is

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<v Speaker 1>he the one that approached you at the event while

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking? We were on the same station at

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<v Speaker 1>the event, and a few hours of like working together,

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<v Speaker 1>he asked me out. Okay, that's good. Nice and so

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<v Speaker 1>what did you guys do? We went to dinner. We

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<v Speaker 1>had sushi and we both enjoyed the same types of

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<v Speaker 1>sushi rolls, which was you know, which sounds like love

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I mean no, we really just bonded over dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a really nice date. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was really like a real chemistry going on, and he

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<v Speaker 1>knew how to make me laugh, like he was just

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<v Speaker 1>a nice person at that point. Was there any signs

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<v Speaker 1>of him being a cheater like he was or in

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding ring or you know, no, nothing like that. Nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>He was acting like a single guy on the date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how did your date end with him. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>where it got a little weird. You know, he walked

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<v Speaker 1>me to my front door. I wanted to kiss him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he took him so long, like he did, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like avoiding it sort of. It felt like it

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<v Speaker 1>was like he didn't just like go and fit the kiss. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it felt awkward. He didn't feel natural at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just thought maybe he's just nervous. But he

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<v Speaker 1>did kiss me, you know, a real kiss, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was good. How much tongue? How much moderate? Okay? So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know, maybe you used too much tongue.

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<v Speaker 1>He used to much tongue. And now he's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't see her again because I know that I screwed

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<v Speaker 1>that kiss up. Actually a valid question could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Your email said that you had a great time on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. But I guess the way that this dude's

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<v Speaker 1>been acting after your date is making you think that

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<v Speaker 1>he might be in a relationship or something like why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that? Why would you even jump to

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<v Speaker 1>that conclusion? Absolutely went out. It just got this feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like he's basically communicating with mebiat tacks and never wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with me, like there's something shady going

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<v Speaker 1>on just because he'll only text you. Yes, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's a big jump to conclusion. I know most

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<v Speaker 1>people only text nowadays. Yeah, but sometimes when you get

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<v Speaker 1>a feeling and he hasn't hung out with you obviously

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<v Speaker 1>since your first date, yes, exactly. It's just it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said he's gonna call, and it took him

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<v Speaker 1>like a week and a half to call me, So

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<v Speaker 1>if you had it is good of a date that

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<v Speaker 1>we had. I don't know. It just feels odd to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like like I expected to see him again in three days,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I really did expect to see him. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>what feels so odd about It just doesn't feel right,

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<v Speaker 1>like it feels something to the way, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. It's got to be cheating, it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be. You're right, it couldn't be just a

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<v Speaker 1>busy schedule or anything else like that. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you're jumping to conclusions at all here, Anna, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so. No, I absolutely do think you're jumping to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, what's the rules nowadays? I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>like a woman, don't you just call her and say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let's go out again, or me for coffee

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<v Speaker 1>or something like. Aren't too more communicative? You would think so.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe you know, if he sounds a little awkward

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<v Speaker 1>by the way you have that awkward kiss at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>he might just be kind of a weird awkward dude

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<v Speaker 1>and not really understand how to do that. And he

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<v Speaker 1>might actually be busy. Well, he was so not awkward

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, and it's so not awkward at the

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<v Speaker 1>volunteer event, he was so together, seemingly. Okay, yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he is a cheater there, you're right, But what we

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<v Speaker 1>can do his play a song, come back, call him

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update and find out what's

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<v Speaker 1>really going on. Okay, I would really appreciate that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it right after this. Hang on looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. How do you know if somebody's cheating

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<v Speaker 1>on you? Well, I guess there's lots of ways. If

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<v Speaker 1>a man has multiple dames, you might be able to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>If he comes home in the middle of the night

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<v Speaker 1>with lipstick on his collar. That's what those cads are

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<v Speaker 1>always up to. Comes home smelling like cheap booze and

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<v Speaker 1>cheap perfume. He's probably got another brawl on his side,

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<v Speaker 1>or if he doesn't text you, or if he just

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<v Speaker 1>text messy just test text messages. Yeah, sorry, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lost it there for a second. If he just

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<v Speaker 1>sends your text messages, yeah, because it didn't exist back then.

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<v Speaker 1>That all right. Anyway, Anna is on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us right now, and she thinks that the guy she

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with might be a cheater

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<v Speaker 1>because they went out on the date, had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>But now he won't call her or anything, but he'll

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<v Speaker 1>keep texting her and they just never make an opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out, and she thinks it's kind of sketchy.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, An, are you about ready to give him

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<v Speaker 1>a call? Yep, I didn't ask why do you even

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him again? If you are

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<v Speaker 1>assuming he's a cheater, Well, I just want to find

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<v Speaker 1>out if he is, like if I'm just crazy or

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<v Speaker 1>if he really us a cheater because we had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time and we had chemistry. That's how cheaters are.

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<v Speaker 1>They're real stooth. When you first meet up with them,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll Louisa and they'll suck you into the game. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you had to yi some gum shoes to

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<v Speaker 1>track them down where the gums to see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get the truth. And we are these super sleuths

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<v Speaker 1>here with your second date update. Yeah not find that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. That's fine. I like them shoes. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was a nice time. Yeah I did. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Ralph? Please? This is Ralph? Ralph?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm fine. Who are you again? Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. The radio show?

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<v Speaker 1>What from a radio show? How don't get it? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling from a radio show. You actually recently went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with one of our listeners, and

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted us to see if we could get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and ask you a couple of questions.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? Well, it's a segment we

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<v Speaker 1>do on our show called the second Date up Date. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then you end up blowing them off, they email us

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<v Speaker 1>and ask if we can get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>to ask if something went wrong. Okay, you recently went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with Anna, do you remember, Yeah, yeah, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Anna is wondering why you won't go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go out with her again. You will go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her again. She called you to ask me if

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<v Speaker 1>I would go out with her again. Yeah, sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she was feeling like something was a little

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<v Speaker 1>sketchy because you won't talk to her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll just text with her, and then you're constantly

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<v Speaker 1>busy and you can't make plans. And I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>busy and I text. But that's what everybody does, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's busy. I wasn't blowing her off. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she didn't take it that way. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to tell her, but she said it just seemed weird. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to blow her off. No, No, she's great.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a good time. Oh, this might be the

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<v Speaker 1>easiest second day up that we've ever done. Then, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing shady going on with you? How she all

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<v Speaker 1>right here? Let me tell you what she thinks. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks that you might be cheating, like you might

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<v Speaker 1>have a girlfriend or a wife or something like that. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm cheating with her against somebody else. Yeah, that No,

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<v Speaker 1>no way, because she sent an email and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this has happened to me before, and it was the

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<v Speaker 1>same time. That's not that's not at all the thing

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<v Speaker 1>with me. No, not at all all. Right, Well then

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<v Speaker 1>why not? Why not schedule a date with her? I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. I have been meaning to I just

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<v Speaker 1>I got a lot on my plate, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>most people. You know, there's just I got a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to think about. Um, like your wife a cheater,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I'm not. I don't have a wife. I

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<v Speaker 1>did have a wife at one point, and that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. I this is my first I'm starting a

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<v Speaker 1>date after having gotten divorced, and so and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mention that, though I gotta say I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't feel weird about that? And how long have

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<v Speaker 1>you been single? Oh, it's been over a year, over

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<v Speaker 1>a year. And how much dating have you done since

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<v Speaker 1>becoming a single freeman who can do whatever the hell

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<v Speaker 1>he wants? I think I've dated one woman? One woman? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not not at all, seriously, just once or twice. We

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<v Speaker 1>were convinced that there had to be something weird going

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<v Speaker 1>on with you. But now it just sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 1>a normal guy who's kind of busy right now. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you so busy? What do you do? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>work as a contractor, and I also have kids from

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<v Speaker 1>my first marriage to take a lot of my time kids.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay. You don't have to say it with a

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<v Speaker 1>hesitation or like well, I just didn't mention that to

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<v Speaker 1>her either, and I hope I didn't come off as not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Kids are kind of like the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>deal in somebody's life. I mean, yeah, how many kids

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<v Speaker 1>do you have? Four kids? WHOA, that's a lot of kids?

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<v Speaker 1>How like what age range are we talking here? Ade

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<v Speaker 1>is the oldest and the youngest is one and a

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<v Speaker 1>half ohe man, No, wonder you're busy busy? Yeah? What

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<v Speaker 1>how do you have free time for you with this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call? Right? Yeah, that's a good question. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't know that you have four kids from a

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<v Speaker 1>previous marriage. No, she did. I did not. I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>did not tell her. That didn't tell her on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know what, you kind of did

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<v Speaker 1>tell her? No I didn't. Yeah you did, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually listening on the other line right now. What higher else?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Annah. Yes, how's it going. You didn't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about yourself on the date, well for the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Uh yeah, you didn't even tell me you

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<v Speaker 1>had a kid, not one kid, not two kids, not

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<v Speaker 1>three kids. Did you have four kids? And you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't even mention it, like you have a one

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<v Speaker 1>and a half year old, like you got divorced six

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<v Speaker 1>months your kid. You have a kid in diapers at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. Yeah, I feel bad that I didn't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't feel like I was lying because it

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<v Speaker 1>really just didn't come up, and it wasn't what I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking. I was thinking more about you and trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know what you're about, and I should

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<v Speaker 1>have said something that's something you should tell somebody. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling you really personal things about me, like

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<v Speaker 1>kids are pretty Like, don't you think the first thing

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<v Speaker 1>you should tell somebody have four kids? I definitely should

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<v Speaker 1>have told you that I have four kids. That was

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<v Speaker 1>a mistake. Yeah, kids is a mistake, Yes, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry for that. I feel bad about that. Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>do I know you're not married and still cheating? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I still have this weird feeling. I mean, I would

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<v Speaker 1>just say, like, why would I lie about that and

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<v Speaker 1>not about I mean I just told you have four kids?

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<v Speaker 1>You know I got nothing. Yeah, I'm not I'm not cheating,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I would you know whatever? I mean the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it would be less of a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>kind of in a way than the kids. Everything else

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<v Speaker 1>you're hiding for me, I should know. And no nothing. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gainfully employed, I'm a nice guy. I'm a good dad,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a good husband. I know myself well enough

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<v Speaker 1>to know I'm not a creep and I'm not a jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm I'm a normal dude. I don't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to ask this, but how'd you even get four kids?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to have a different kind of lesson here, Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean four You see, when a man

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<v Speaker 1>and a woman really love each other a lot, our

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<v Speaker 1>kids like a big turn off for you. Anna, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any kids myself, but it's wants I know

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<v Speaker 1>a guy, I'm not sure our woman right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe a few years out of the line. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want this back with that our four kids to

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<v Speaker 1>ruin my chances of it, like us seeing each other again.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like, let me just picture me like you

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<v Speaker 1>knew me before without the kid, that's me. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still I'm the same person. It's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be like I don't like having two jobs or something.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, So we obviously know that I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>how it's like having two jobs or whatever. But we

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<v Speaker 1>obviously know that Ralph wants to go out with you again, Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>because he said it at the beginning of this phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>But Anna, would you like to go out in a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Ralph? Of course, we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say, like again, like I am

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<v Speaker 1>not done, Like I could totally have two or three

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<v Speaker 1>more kids. I gotta I don't think that's Anna's issue, Ralph.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's the second date update, not the second

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<v Speaker 1>date and pregnant. I'm just saying that I am open

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<v Speaker 1>to having more kids. It's like, I know, I understand,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, women in the thirties, it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to have kids maybe, and like if that's

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<v Speaker 1>like a make or break thing, like you're looking like

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<v Speaker 1>what's the future with this guy? And all I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>is I would totally be into having more kids, two

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<v Speaker 1>three more kids. Awesome. It really great if that's a concern.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that I feel like Anna

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<v Speaker 1>was just wanting to get another date with you, but

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<v Speaker 1>the villains, you're not trying to get pregnant. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have it, like a coffee with you. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just do that. Hey, you know one thing, Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>going out for coffee. The next thing, you know, you're pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>So Anna, will you go meet up with Ralph again?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for a second date. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I would do if I were you. Oh, we

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<v Speaker 1>need there. I don't know to do a chance? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like he's Ralph. You know a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>taking chances. I can tell I'll have a dinner with you. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you'll go out with You'll go out with Ralph again?

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<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, all right, awesome, excited. Send you guys out

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<v Speaker 1>to somewhere where they have a great children's men. You

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<v Speaker 1>bring the whole squad, Ralph, bring them all off. Broken

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<v Speaker 1>jewel in the morning,