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Speaker 1: Second d Update. How do you know if you're dating

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Speaker 1: a cheater? Oh gosh, how can you tell? I've thought

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Speaker 1: about this. I was like, how can you tell if

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Speaker 1: don't really know. Now. I know Brooke has been cheated

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Speaker 1: to a guy that she thinks might be a cheater.

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Speaker 1: His name is Ralph. Anna, how are you doing great?

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Speaker 1: How are you guys? Pretty good? Thank you for doing

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Speaker 1: just you know, he was taking time out of his

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Ralph? Please? This is Ralph? Ralph?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: What from a radio show? How don't get it? Yes,

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Speaker 1: we're calling from a radio show. You actually recently went

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Speaker 1: I'm gainfully employed, I'm a nice guy. I'm a good dad,

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Speaker 1: You have to have a different kind of lesson here, Anna,

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Speaker 1: But Anna, would you like to go out in a

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Speaker 1: three more kids. Awesome. It really great if that's a concern.

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Speaker 1: So Anna, will you go meet up with Ralph again?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for a second date. I don't know

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Speaker 1: need there. I don't know to do a chance? Come on,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like he's Ralph. You know a lot about

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Speaker 1: taking chances. I can tell I'll have a dinner with you. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: Um yeah, all right, awesome, excited. Send you guys out

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Speaker 1: bring the whole squad, Ralph, bring them all off. Broken

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Speaker 1: jewel in the morning,