Speaker 1: I think you can hear in our voices that were
Speaker 1: a little villainous, scariest I've ever heard. Right, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it wasn't.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 1: It is the Halloween edition. It's Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning. If you do not follow our socials, then.
Speaker 3: Come on too.
Speaker 1: I'm dressed up as Ursula.
Speaker 2: I am maleficent. Yes, I like myself something.
Speaker 1: Hey the Latin twist to it.
Speaker 4: I'm done with that.
Speaker 2: And I'm scary. Yeah, and election well a divil.
Speaker 1: I gotta say, I am so proud of our costumes
Speaker 1: this year.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so definitely go look at the tiktoks. Go look
Speaker 1: at the install it's a comment. Let us know who
Speaker 1: is your favorite.
Speaker 2: You can see who everyone else is.
Speaker 1: Yes everyone, yeah, yeah, So okay, okay, enough about our
Speaker 1: Disney Villain Group costume. Let's get into it a brand
Speaker 1: new Halloween Second Date right now.
Speaker 2: Second Date updated.
Speaker 6: Imagine the night is alive with chaos. Zombies are stumbling
Speaker 6: down the streets, Witches are cackling maniacally. You hear the screams,
Speaker 6: you see the horrors, you smell the fireball, and that's
Speaker 6: when you realize, oh, I'm in the middle of a
Speaker 6: Halloween bark crawl right here. Yeah, and for all the
Speaker 6: terrifying sights you'll definitely see, it might also be the
Speaker 6: perfect setting for you to find true love. And that's
Speaker 6: where one of our listeners made a connection recently, and
Speaker 6: he's emailed us for help today with a spooky theme
Speaker 6: second date update. I love that his name is Evan. So, Evan,
Speaker 6: we got to catch up. How many shots deep are
Speaker 6: you right now?
Speaker 5: You know it's a workday. I'm not gonna take shot.
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to know what you were dressed as
Speaker 1: that's how I want to start.
Speaker 3: Most important, I.
Speaker 5: Went to star Lord some guardians. I think I have
Speaker 5: a look that matches.
Speaker 7: Is that pratt?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is that hot look?
Speaker 2: Or doesn't that like cover most of you?
Speaker 1: I can't remember.
Speaker 2: The movie. I see the movie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't stick out a ton to me.
Speaker 6: But okay, so we're we don't approve of your costume.
Speaker 6: Can you come up with a new one?
Speaker 2: Did people know what you were? I guess that's the question.
Speaker 5: People knew? Okay, he's a charismatic character.
Speaker 2: I would trust other people to know stuff more than
Speaker 2: this group. Definitely do.
Speaker 6: So tell us about this woman that you met while
Speaker 6: you were doing your bar crawl.
Speaker 2: What's her name?
Speaker 5: Oh, her name is Calissa, Calista. I honestly can't remember
Speaker 5: which bar that we met, but it was we were
Speaker 5: both a two big groups, and our groups just sort
Speaker 5: of naturally kind of like started going on this crawl together.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the whole point of barkrawls, right to
Speaker 1: meet new people with people. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 2: I thought it was just a get drunk.
Speaker 5: That.
Speaker 2: I thought the social thing was kind of secondary. So
Speaker 2: you just like happened to meet people.
Speaker 1: You could go hot between bars and drink alone anytime exactly, but.
Speaker 2: This one you're wearing costumes, so fun.
Speaker 5: I mean I would definitely agree with all of that.
Speaker 4: I was definitely.
Speaker 5: Probably steering our group to sick with hers because I
Speaker 5: was into her, whereas my friends just wanted to keep drinking.
Speaker 5: They didn't care about the social part.
Speaker 6: So I'll look up with your friends after we're done
Speaker 6: with this call, because they seem like my type of people.
Speaker 1: How did you and clust, I mean, like, what was
Speaker 1: the connection between you two? What did you have in common?
Speaker 5: I mean I think it was just like our type
Speaker 5: of sense of humor. We just loved the people watching
Speaker 5: and looking at people's costumes and how silly they looked.
Speaker 5: The cheaper the better, we really we realized interesting, like
Speaker 5: something that looked like it was just pulled off the
Speaker 5: shelf of Spirit Halloween the hours before, like the bigges.
Speaker 6: Okay, so you're bonding over the shared interest of judging
Speaker 6: other people for their weird costume decisions decisions, is what
Speaker 6: it was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that could be fun. So how did then
Speaker 2: I go?
Speaker 7: I thought it was gone great? I mean, we were
Speaker 7: having a great time. One of the bars had just
Speaker 7: paper I'm assuming it was from one of their trivia nights,
Speaker 7: his papers and pen and we just started like giving
Speaker 7: out awards.
Speaker 4: Like we just picked people and be like you have
Speaker 4: like the craziest food costume, you have the ugliest blank costume,
Speaker 4: the second worst costume of this bar.
Speaker 2: That's awesome.
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 2: So you and Callista made a lot of enemies that night.
Speaker 6: It sounds like your own world, and that's all that matters,
Speaker 6: is you two.
Speaker 2: Right, even if someone's upset, you're like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: we really made that guy mad. Let's make out.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wait did that happen? Did you make out? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Good question.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't call the makeout. But yeah, at the last
Speaker 5: bar of the night.
Speaker 4: We definitely kissed. Out the book we kissed.
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, that's happened.
Speaker 6: You're ainting a really nice image for us. We want
Speaker 6: to know, is there anything in your mind that you
Speaker 6: remember that went wrong with the evening.
Speaker 5: On the last bar, they had a dance floor, and
Speaker 5: she really wanted to get out on the dance floor,
Speaker 5: regardless of what I was dressed up by us. Because
Speaker 5: we know star Ward is a dancer. I am not
Speaker 5: a dancer. It's just not my thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, like you're a bad dancer, or you won't even try.
Speaker 7: All of the above.
Speaker 2: Did she try to pull you in and dance with
Speaker 2: you at some point?
Speaker 5: You said multiple times.
Speaker 1: It is a bummer because it's like, in my mind,
Speaker 1: there's no such thing as a bad dancer if you
Speaker 1: fully commit your fun, no matter how good you are
Speaker 1: at Yeah, exactly, that's exactly what bad dancer's saying.
Speaker 2: All that matters is I'm having a good time. Last
Speaker 2: place in the dance kicked off every dance floor.
Speaker 6: So you're thinking that she's just turned off because you
Speaker 6: came across as kind of a party pooper, Is that right?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I think she might think I'm just some stick in
Speaker 5: the mud or a bit of a lay o, and
Speaker 5: I'm I mean, We've had a lot of text back
Speaker 5: and forth. It's just non commit she won't commit to
Speaker 5: going on a date.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe having a radio station call. We'll prove that
Speaker 1: you're a fun guy.
Speaker 4: You know, there we go.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, if that's the case, So Alexis, would
Speaker 6: this be a deal breaker for you if you're out
Speaker 6: with a guy who prefers not to dance, I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't look back alone out there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: Think of all the weddings you have to go to
Speaker 1: in the future end up a couple. Dancing is such
Speaker 1: an important part social life.
Speaker 6: Well, let's see if ironically you dug your own grave
Speaker 6: on Halloween barcrawl when we come back and get you
Speaker 6: your second date update.
Speaker 2: Right after this second date update, imagine.
Speaker 6: The movie Footloose, but instead of Kevin Bacon being told
Speaker 6: not to dance.
Speaker 2: He chooses not to right because he's embarrassed about his
Speaker 2: lack of dance move.
Speaker 6: Yes, that's exactly what we're dealing with today. Reverse Footloose
Speaker 6: for our listener, Evan, who met a woman named Callista
Speaker 6: during a Halloween bar crawl, but when Callista tried to
Speaker 6: get him out on the dance floor, he said, no, sweetheart,
Speaker 6: Daddy don't move like that.
Speaker 2: He just sits in the corner.
Speaker 6: Is that the reason that Callista's been avoiding another hangout?
Speaker 6: We're trying to get to the bottom of it today
Speaker 6: with your Halloween themed second date update.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was hoping someone else would jump.
Speaker 1: In, and I was hoping that he would answer you.
Speaker 5: I'm still here.
Speaker 2: Was a terrifying recap for you, Evan.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was kind of. I was like, oh, no,
Speaker 5: this is probably gonna go bad.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know if it even has to do
Speaker 1: with the dancing, And it may just be like Halloween's
Speaker 1: meant kind of for just like flirting and hooking up.
Speaker 6: Why, Yeah, nothing to do with your dance. It might
Speaker 6: just be your personality sucks.
Speaker 1: Bro, Like you're out in costume. You're not looking for
Speaker 1: a relationship typically, So maybe that's just not where her
Speaker 1: head was at.
Speaker 2: You think she's a fluozy.
Speaker 1: No, I don't that.
Speaker 2: What do you think? I don't really know.
Speaker 1: I just mean, like, you're out partying on Halloween, it's
Speaker 1: not meant to be more dates.
Speaker 6: Yeah, the guy had like a fun makeout and doesn't
Speaker 6: accept that.
Speaker 1: It was just a fun Yeah, that's why does everyone
Speaker 1: else get me except jeff I don't.
Speaker 2: Know, just ever had just a fun makeout? JEFA, no thanks.
Speaker 6: I mean, could that be the case, Evan, where you're
Speaker 6: taking this as a more serious connection than what Callista
Speaker 6: saw it as more of like a one night fun thing.
Speaker 5: That could be the case. I guess I just misread it.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's bad.
Speaker 1: I think it's something you can fix.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 2: Clearly he won more.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're putting in the effort. We're gonna at
Speaker 6: least call and try and figure out why. And Bro,
Speaker 6: even if it was just a kiss, like you just
Speaker 6: know you're attractive enough for her to come and make
Speaker 6: out with you, you should feel good about.
Speaker 1: That because I only made out with hot guys.
Speaker 3: I would never drunk make out with.
Speaker 5: Someone you look like Star War.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's not undermine anybody's confidence. We're just gonna call
Speaker 6: her and hopefully she picks up it. Here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 6: we're looking to speak with Callista. Yeah, hey, this is
Speaker 6: a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 2: This is a segment that we do. It's called a
Speaker 2: second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so, uh.
Speaker 6: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that
Speaker 6: you met the other night. He described a really cool
Speaker 6: hangout between the two of you at a bar crawl.
Speaker 2: He described a drunk hang out between the two of you.
Speaker 6: Cool, drunk fun. It was all the emotions. And I'm
Speaker 6: talking about a guy named Evan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, maybe she likes him to be called star
Speaker 1: Lord instead, and that is a problem, is that, right,
Speaker 1: Clysta star Lord?
Speaker 3: You like that better, not necessarily star Daddy.
Speaker 6: All right, Well, look, if you weren't feeling it with
Speaker 6: him that much, then we understand, we get it. But
Speaker 6: we spoke with Evan and he was saying he felt
Speaker 6: like he really connected with you during the bar crawl,
Speaker 6: and now you just you don't seem to want to
Speaker 6: meet up one on one with him.
Speaker 3: I mean, we had a fun night, but it was
Speaker 3: what it was like, It didn't I don't think it's
Speaker 3: like a long term thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, is that just because it was Halloween and
Speaker 1: you're at a bar crawl and it's just drinks deep? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not where your mind was at.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what he told you or
Speaker 3: I don't know how this works, but we had a
Speaker 3: kind of serious conversation. Oh and it was just like
Speaker 3: a real burn off for me.
Speaker 1: Oh turn off.
Speaker 6: Are you saying you had a conversation because we heard
Speaker 6: that you talked about other people's costumes and how horrible
Speaker 6: they were.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the serious It sounds like she's talking about that.
Speaker 6: She could read it as a serious This guy's really
Speaker 6: judgmental about other people.
Speaker 4: In the last.
Speaker 3: No, I think that was that was the fun part. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean I was trying to like have fun with
Speaker 3: him and get him to dance with me, and now
Speaker 3: he basically told me he doesn't like dancing because when
Speaker 3: he was ten, his mom put him in this play
Speaker 3: where he was like a pumpkin and he had a
Speaker 3: dance in front of everyone for hours. And I was
Speaker 3: just kind of like, if you're that affected by something
Speaker 3: like that when you're ten, you pretty much probably can't
Speaker 3: handle anything in life.
Speaker 1: So WHOA, all of that sounds so serious. He's probably
Speaker 1: just trying to share a lighthearted story make you laugh
Speaker 1: about why you can't yeh.
Speaker 6: School play one time, but.
Speaker 3: Still can't dance as an adult. Like that's crazy, especially
Speaker 3: when you're a little bit drunk, like you're still that
Speaker 3: upset about it, Like that just was a huge red flat.
Speaker 6: Okay, so you see you you took him very very
Speaker 6: seriously with that comment line.
Speaker 3: I asked him to dance like three times, like he
Speaker 3: was serious about it.
Speaker 6: I Oh, and his reason for not dancing that he
Speaker 6: told you was that when he was ten years old,
Speaker 6: his mom forced him to a play in a play.
Speaker 5: Oh, it wasn't for a play. It was for the
Speaker 5: town festival where everybody was.
Speaker 3: Watch the guys on my phone.
Speaker 6: Yeah, sorry about that Callista, but Evan is actually on
Speaker 6: the other line listening in on this call.
Speaker 2: That's how this segment works.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, my mom would force me into this thing in
Speaker 5: front of the festival. And this wasn't just like one time.
Speaker 5: This is like from ten years old till fifteen. I mean,
Speaker 5: I'm like a sixteen stock group using to do it.
Speaker 6: And because okay, so it scarred you from Just to
Speaker 6: get it clear on the details, you're saying that when
Speaker 6: you were a kid, your mom made you join a
Speaker 6: Halloween themed festival where you had to dance.
Speaker 5: You're making me say it again.
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry.
Speaker 5: My mom would force me to wear a skin tight
Speaker 5: like orange suit and put a pumpkin on my head
Speaker 5: to go dance in front of the town.
Speaker 2: On your head, I love that something or something.
Speaker 5: I became pumpkin Man to everybody. I was known as
Speaker 5: pumpkin Man every year.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like it was such a long time ago.
Speaker 3: Like I just if you're not gonna have fun and
Speaker 3: dance as an adult, like a grown man, it's just
Speaker 3: like a lot of issues.
Speaker 2: Well, not everyone likes to dance. We have friends I
Speaker 2: don't like to dance.
Speaker 1: It sounds like Calistai and your mom may have more
Speaker 1: in common than you realize.
Speaker 2: Well, look, you're right, you gave him the a brook.
Speaker 5: I probably shouldn't have brought it up. I should have
Speaker 5: gotten out there.
Speaker 3: But so like hypothetically, if we went to my friend's
Speaker 3: wedding and I was like, hey, dance with me, You're
Speaker 3: never going to dance with me because of this experience
Speaker 3: when you're ten.
Speaker 5: It was just the idea that you were just like
Speaker 5: trying so hard to make me dance. It just was
Speaker 5: like you were my mom in that moment. Oh yeah,
Speaker 5: and all I could think about was being the pumpkin
Speaker 5: man and my pumpkin helmet forced to dance in front
Speaker 5: of everything.
Speaker 6: So, Calyssa, to answer your question, if your friend invited
Speaker 6: his mom to the wedding too to force him to dance,
Speaker 6: then you would definitely be out on the floor.
Speaker 2: Wheel.
Speaker 3: We're not inviting anyone's mom's to weddings, Okay.
Speaker 1: I think you're thinking of this the wrong way though, Calisa, like,
Speaker 1: maybe just give him a chance to dance with you eventually,
Speaker 1: because the good experience will outweigh the trauma that he had,
Speaker 1: and maybe he'll learn to love it all over again.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I was going to say, like hard no,
Speaker 3: but I guess I'm open to it. I just want
Speaker 3: to be with someone that is like fun and can dance,
Speaker 3: and I don't want to be dealing with their past traumas.
Speaker 2: Okay, I.
Speaker 5: Like, does that not exist?
Speaker 2: No, it's on.
Speaker 6: If you're willing to commit to dropping all of your
Speaker 6: past traumas right now.
Speaker 2: Then she would be willing to give you a chance.
Speaker 2: That's all I gotta do. I'm perfect.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 1: We're joking, but I think that what he's trying to
Speaker 1: say is everybody comes with baggage, okay, And if your
Speaker 1: baggage is simply that you are a little traumatized to dance, like,
Speaker 1: that's pretty light baggage. You can say, dating the pumpkin King.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean all right, but you have to dance
Speaker 3: with me next time we're going dance the second date.
Speaker 3: I'm only going if you go dancing with me.
Speaker 6: Wow, as long as he doesn't have to dress in
Speaker 6: an orange skin tight outfit with a pumpkin over his head,
Speaker 6: he should be able to overcome it.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'd be open to wearing still the pumpkin
Speaker 5: skin tight suit, just not the helmet.
Speaker 2: Just shows off his guns.
Speaker 1: At this point, I see, all right, so I'm going
Speaker 1: to go with don't wear that.
Speaker 6: I mean, I wouldn't even carve pumpkins as a couple
Speaker 6: away from them. Yeah, that's our suggestion, But again, this
Speaker 6: is your decision, Evan, and Calista did say she was
Speaker 6: up for giving you one more chance if you danced.
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it. I'll get out there. I'll show
Speaker 5: what little moves I have.
Speaker 1: No one expects guys to have many moves.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 6: Why do I feel like after like six or seven years.
Speaker 6: As like the Pumpkin guy, he's going to be the
Speaker 6: best dancers all time.
Speaker 3: They let him come back every year.
Speaker 2: Yea lord of the Pumpkins is what he is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, i'm, I'm I'm proud of you. I
Speaker 3: mean i'm I.
Speaker 2: Was sounding like his mom.
Speaker 3: Now, I was expecting to say no, like one hundred percent.
Speaker 3: So I think you handled it really well.
Speaker 2: So that's actually going to do his dance, gentlemen.
Speaker 6: All right, Back to Kevin Bacon again rooking Jeffrey in
Speaker 6: the morning. Oh man, I forgot to ask if she
Speaker 6: wanted to go with him to his therapy session after
Speaker 6: they got appetizers and chilis.
Speaker 2: That's where I went wrong with this. It's the perfect pairing.
Speaker 6: Little baby back Ribs followed bus some traumatized kids.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Oh, I mean, gosh, if this was your mom, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: she would have already sent us the video of you
Speaker 1: doing the dance and that's spandex. But then talked about
Speaker 1: how good your jazz hands were.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the thing.
Speaker 6: My mom continues to traumatize me well into adults on
Speaker 6: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Going to do with the past.
Speaker 2: I'm not ready for therapy. Yet it's trauma in progress.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't know. It's cool that they went
Speaker 6: out together, that they agreed to give it a shot.
Speaker 6: Text nine two if you think they're actually a good
Speaker 6: match for each.
Speaker 1: Other, okay, yeah, and share your trauma stories from your
Speaker 1: child Is that what we want?
Speaker 2: On the textboard?
Speaker 1: We all have.
Speaker 3: Okay dancing videos instead, send your childhood traumas directly to
Speaker 3: Brooks Instagram that Brook Fox Fox.
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trauma bonded.
Speaker 2: There we go, and remember you can find all of
Speaker 2: your second date updates.
Speaker 6: We put them up on our podcast wherever you get
Speaker 6: them at Brook and Jeffrey