WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Halloween Boos and Booze Bar Crawl

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can hear in our voices that were

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<v Speaker 1>a little villainous, scariest I've ever heard. Right, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the Halloween edition. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. If you do not follow our socials, then.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dressed up as Ursula.

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<v Speaker 2>I am maleficent. Yes, I like myself something.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey the Latin twist to it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm done with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm scary. Yeah, and election well a divil.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, I am so proud of our costumes

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<v Speaker 1>this year.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so definitely go look at the tiktoks. Go look

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<v Speaker 1>at the install it's a comment. Let us know who

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<v Speaker 1>is your favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>You can see who everyone else is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes everyone, yeah, yeah, So okay, okay, enough about our

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<v Speaker 1>Disney Villain Group costume. Let's get into it a brand

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<v Speaker 1>new Halloween Second Date right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date updated.

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<v Speaker 6>Imagine the night is alive with chaos. Zombies are stumbling

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<v Speaker 6>down the streets, Witches are cackling maniacally. You hear the screams,

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<v Speaker 6>you see the horrors, you smell the fireball, and that's

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<v Speaker 6>when you realize, oh, I'm in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 6>Halloween bark crawl right here. Yeah, and for all the

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<v Speaker 6>terrifying sights you'll definitely see, it might also be the

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<v Speaker 6>perfect setting for you to find true love. And that's

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<v Speaker 6>where one of our listeners made a connection recently, and

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<v Speaker 6>he's emailed us for help today with a spooky theme

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<v Speaker 6>second date update. I love that his name is Evan. So, Evan,

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<v Speaker 6>we got to catch up. How many shots deep are

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<v Speaker 6>you right now?

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<v Speaker 5>You know it's a workday. I'm not gonna take shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I want to know what you were dressed as

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I want to start.

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<v Speaker 3>Most important, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Went to star Lord some guardians. I think I have

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<v Speaker 5>a look that matches.

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<v Speaker 7>Is that pratt?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that hot look?

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<v Speaker 2>Or doesn't that like cover most of you?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>The movie. I see the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it doesn't stick out a ton to me.

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<v Speaker 6>But okay, so we're we don't approve of your costume.

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<v Speaker 6>Can you come up with a new one?

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<v Speaker 2>Did people know what you were? I guess that's the question.

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<v Speaker 5>People knew? Okay, he's a charismatic character.

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<v Speaker 2>I would trust other people to know stuff more than

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<v Speaker 2>this group. Definitely do.

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<v Speaker 6>So tell us about this woman that you met while

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<v Speaker 6>you were doing your bar crawl.

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<v Speaker 2>What's her name?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, her name is Calissa, Calista. I honestly can't remember

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<v Speaker 5>which bar that we met, but it was we were

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<v Speaker 5>both a two big groups, and our groups just sort

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<v Speaker 5>of naturally kind of like started going on this crawl together.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the whole point of barkrawls, right to

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<v Speaker 1>meet new people with people. Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was just a get drunk.

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<v Speaker 5>That.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought the social thing was kind of secondary. So

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<v Speaker 2>you just like happened to meet people.

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<v Speaker 1>You could go hot between bars and drink alone anytime exactly, but.

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<v Speaker 2>This one you're wearing costumes, so fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I would definitely agree with all of that.

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<v Speaker 4>I was definitely.

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<v Speaker 5>Probably steering our group to sick with hers because I

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<v Speaker 5>was into her, whereas my friends just wanted to keep drinking.

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<v Speaker 5>They didn't care about the social part.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'll look up with your friends after we're done

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<v Speaker 6>with this call, because they seem like my type of people.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you and clust, I mean, like, what was

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<v Speaker 1>the connection between you two? What did you have in common?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I think it was just like our type

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<v Speaker 5>of sense of humor. We just loved the people watching

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<v Speaker 5>and looking at people's costumes and how silly they looked.

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<v Speaker 5>The cheaper the better, we really we realized interesting, like

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<v Speaker 5>something that looked like it was just pulled off the

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<v Speaker 5>shelf of Spirit Halloween the hours before, like the bigges.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so you're bonding over the shared interest of judging

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<v Speaker 6>other people for their weird costume decisions decisions, is what

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<v Speaker 6>it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, that could be fun. So how did then

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<v Speaker 2>I go?

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<v Speaker 7>I thought it was gone great? I mean, we were

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<v Speaker 7>having a great time. One of the bars had just

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<v Speaker 7>paper I'm assuming it was from one of their trivia nights,

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<v Speaker 7>his papers and pen and we just started like giving

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<v Speaker 7>out awards.

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<v Speaker 4>Like we just picked people and be like you have

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<v Speaker 4>like the craziest food costume, you have the ugliest blank costume,

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<v Speaker 4>the second worst costume of this bar.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>So you and Callista made a lot of enemies that night.

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<v Speaker 6>It sounds like your own world, and that's all that matters,

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<v Speaker 6>is you two.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, even if someone's upset, you're like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>we really made that guy mad. Let's make out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, wait did that happen? Did you make out? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Good question.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't call the makeout. But yeah, at the last

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<v Speaker 5>bar of the night.

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<v Speaker 4>We definitely kissed. Out the book we kissed.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, that's happened.

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<v Speaker 6>You're ainting a really nice image for us. We want

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<v Speaker 6>to know, is there anything in your mind that you

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<v Speaker 6>remember that went wrong with the evening.

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<v Speaker 5>On the last bar, they had a dance floor, and

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<v Speaker 5>she really wanted to get out on the dance floor,

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<v Speaker 5>regardless of what I was dressed up by us. Because

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<v Speaker 5>we know star Ward is a dancer. I am not

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<v Speaker 5>a dancer. It's just not my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, like you're a bad dancer, or you won't even try.

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<v Speaker 7>All of the above.

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<v Speaker 2>Did she try to pull you in and dance with

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<v Speaker 2>you at some point?

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<v Speaker 5>You said multiple times.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a bummer because it's like, in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no such thing as a bad dancer if you

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<v Speaker 1>fully commit your fun, no matter how good you are

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<v Speaker 1>at Yeah, exactly, that's exactly what bad dancer's saying.

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<v Speaker 2>All that matters is I'm having a good time. Last

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<v Speaker 2>place in the dance kicked off every dance floor.

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<v Speaker 6>So you're thinking that she's just turned off because you

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<v Speaker 6>came across as kind of a party pooper, Is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I think she might think I'm just some stick in

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<v Speaker 5>the mud or a bit of a lay o, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I mean, We've had a lot of text back

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<v Speaker 5>and forth. It's just non commit she won't commit to

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<v Speaker 5>going on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe having a radio station call. We'll prove that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a fun guy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, there we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, if that's the case, So Alexis, would

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<v Speaker 6>this be a deal breaker for you if you're out

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<v Speaker 6>with a guy who prefers not to dance, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can't look back alone out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Think of all the weddings you have to go to

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<v Speaker 1>in the future end up a couple. Dancing is such

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<v Speaker 1>an important part social life.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, let's see if ironically you dug your own grave

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<v Speaker 6>on Halloween barcrawl when we come back and get you

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<v Speaker 6>your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this second date update, imagine.

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<v Speaker 6>The movie Footloose, but instead of Kevin Bacon being told

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<v Speaker 6>not to dance.

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<v Speaker 2>He chooses not to right because he's embarrassed about his

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<v Speaker 2>lack of dance move.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, that's exactly what we're dealing with today. Reverse Footloose

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<v Speaker 6>for our listener, Evan, who met a woman named Callista

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<v Speaker 6>during a Halloween bar crawl, but when Callista tried to

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<v Speaker 6>get him out on the dance floor, he said, no, sweetheart,

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<v Speaker 6>Daddy don't move like that.

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<v Speaker 2>He just sits in the corner.

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<v Speaker 6>Is that the reason that Callista's been avoiding another hangout?

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<v Speaker 6>We're trying to get to the bottom of it today

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<v Speaker 6>with your Halloween themed second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was hoping someone else would jump.

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<v Speaker 1>In, and I was hoping that he would answer you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm still here.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a terrifying recap for you, Evan.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was kind of. I was like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 5>this is probably gonna go bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I don't know if it even has to do

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<v Speaker 1>with the dancing, And it may just be like Halloween's

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<v Speaker 1>meant kind of for just like flirting and hooking up.

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<v Speaker 6>Why, Yeah, nothing to do with your dance. It might

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<v Speaker 6>just be your personality sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro, Like you're out in costume. You're not looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship typically, So maybe that's just not where her

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<v Speaker 1>head was at.

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<v Speaker 2>You think she's a fluozy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't that.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think? I don't really know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just mean, like, you're out partying on Halloween, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not meant to be more dates.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the guy had like a fun makeout and doesn't

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<v Speaker 6>accept that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a fun Yeah, that's why does everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else get me except jeff I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, just ever had just a fun makeout? JEFA, no thanks.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, could that be the case, Evan, where you're

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<v Speaker 6>taking this as a more serious connection than what Callista

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<v Speaker 6>saw it as more of like a one night fun thing.

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<v Speaker 5>That could be the case. I guess I just misread it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's something you can fix.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Clearly he won more.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so we're putting in the effort. We're gonna at

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<v Speaker 6>least call and try and figure out why. And Bro,

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<v Speaker 6>even if it was just a kiss, like you just

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<v Speaker 6>know you're attractive enough for her to come and make

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<v Speaker 6>out with you, you should feel good about.

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<v Speaker 1>That because I only made out with hot guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never drunk make out with.

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<v Speaker 5>Someone you look like Star War.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, that's not undermine anybody's confidence. We're just gonna call

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<v Speaker 6>her and hopefully she picks up it. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 6>we're looking to speak with Callista. Yeah, hey, this is

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<v Speaker 6>a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a segment that we do. It's called a

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<v Speaker 2>second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, so, uh.

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<v Speaker 6>We're trying to help out one of our listeners that

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<v Speaker 6>you met the other night. He described a really cool

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<v Speaker 6>hangout between the two of you at a bar crawl.

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<v Speaker 2>He described a drunk hang out between the two of you.

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<v Speaker 6>Cool, drunk fun. It was all the emotions. And I'm

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<v Speaker 6>talking about a guy named Evan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, maybe she likes him to be called star

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<v Speaker 1>Lord instead, and that is a problem, is that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Clysta star Lord?

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<v Speaker 3>You like that better, not necessarily star Daddy.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Well, look, if you weren't feeling it with

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<v Speaker 6>him that much, then we understand, we get it. But

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<v Speaker 6>we spoke with Evan and he was saying he felt

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<v Speaker 6>like he really connected with you during the bar crawl,

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<v Speaker 6>and now you just you don't seem to want to

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<v Speaker 6>meet up one on one with him.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we had a fun night, but it was

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<v Speaker 3>what it was like, It didn't I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 3>like a long term thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is that just because it was Halloween and

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<v Speaker 1>you're at a bar crawl and it's just drinks deep? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not where your mind was at.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know what he told you or

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how this works, but we had a

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<v Speaker 3>kind of serious conversation. Oh and it was just like

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<v Speaker 3>a real burn off for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh turn off.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you saying you had a conversation because we heard

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<v Speaker 6>that you talked about other people's costumes and how horrible

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<v Speaker 6>they were.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the serious It sounds like she's talking about that.

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<v Speaker 6>She could read it as a serious This guy's really

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<v Speaker 6>judgmental about other people.

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<v Speaker 4>In the last.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think that was that was the fun part. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was trying to like have fun with

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<v Speaker 3>him and get him to dance with me, and now

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<v Speaker 3>he basically told me he doesn't like dancing because when

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<v Speaker 3>he was ten, his mom put him in this play

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<v Speaker 3>where he was like a pumpkin and he had a

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<v Speaker 3>dance in front of everyone for hours. And I was

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of like, if you're that affected by something

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<v Speaker 3>like that when you're ten, you pretty much probably can't

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<v Speaker 3>handle anything in life.

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<v Speaker 1>So WHOA, all of that sounds so serious. He's probably

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to share a lighthearted story make you laugh

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<v Speaker 1>about why you can't yeh.

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<v Speaker 6>School play one time, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Still can't dance as an adult. Like that's crazy, especially

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<v Speaker 3>when you're a little bit drunk, like you're still that

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<v Speaker 3>upset about it, Like that just was a huge red flat.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so you see you you took him very very

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<v Speaker 6>seriously with that comment line.

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<v Speaker 3>I asked him to dance like three times, like he

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<v Speaker 3>was serious about it.

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<v Speaker 6>I Oh, and his reason for not dancing that he

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<v Speaker 6>told you was that when he was ten years old,

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<v Speaker 6>his mom forced him to a play in a play.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, it wasn't for a play. It was for the

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<v Speaker 5>town festival where everybody was.

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<v Speaker 3>Watch the guys on my phone.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, sorry about that Callista, but Evan is actually on

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<v Speaker 6>the other line listening in on this call.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how this segment works.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, my mom would force me into this thing in

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<v Speaker 5>front of the festival. And this wasn't just like one time.

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<v Speaker 5>This is like from ten years old till fifteen. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like a sixteen stock group using to do it.

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<v Speaker 6>And because okay, so it scarred you from Just to

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<v Speaker 6>get it clear on the details, you're saying that when

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<v Speaker 6>you were a kid, your mom made you join a

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<v Speaker 6>Halloween themed festival where you had to dance.

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<v Speaker 5>You're making me say it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>My mom would force me to wear a skin tight

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<v Speaker 5>like orange suit and put a pumpkin on my head

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<v Speaker 5>to go dance in front of the town.

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<v Speaker 2>On your head, I love that something or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I became pumpkin Man to everybody. I was known as

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<v Speaker 5>pumpkin Man every year.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but like it was such a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I just if you're not gonna have fun and

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<v Speaker 3>dance as an adult, like a grown man, it's just

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<v Speaker 3>like a lot of issues.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, not everyone likes to dance. We have friends I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like to dance.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like Calistai and your mom may have more

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<v Speaker 1>in common than you realize.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look, you're right, you gave him the a brook.

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<v Speaker 5>I probably shouldn't have brought it up. I should have

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<v Speaker 5>gotten out there.

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<v Speaker 3>But so like hypothetically, if we went to my friend's

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<v Speaker 3>wedding and I was like, hey, dance with me, You're

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<v Speaker 3>never going to dance with me because of this experience

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<v Speaker 3>when you're ten.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just the idea that you were just like

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<v Speaker 5>trying so hard to make me dance. It just was

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<v Speaker 5>like you were my mom in that moment. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and all I could think about was being the pumpkin

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<v Speaker 5>man and my pumpkin helmet forced to dance in front

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<v Speaker 5>of everything.

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<v Speaker 6>So, Calyssa, to answer your question, if your friend invited

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<v Speaker 6>his mom to the wedding too to force him to dance,

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<v Speaker 6>then you would definitely be out on the floor.

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<v Speaker 2>Wheel.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not inviting anyone's mom's to weddings, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're thinking of this the wrong way though, Calisa, like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe just give him a chance to dance with you eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>because the good experience will outweigh the trauma that he had,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe he'll learn to love it all over again.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, I was going to say, like hard no,

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<v Speaker 3>but I guess I'm open to it. I just want

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<v Speaker 3>to be with someone that is like fun and can dance,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't want to be dealing with their past traumas.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, does that not exist?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's on.

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<v Speaker 6>If you're willing to commit to dropping all of your

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<v Speaker 6>past traumas right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Then she would be willing to give you a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I gotta do. I'm perfect.

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<v Speaker 7>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're joking, but I think that what he's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>say is everybody comes with baggage, okay, And if your

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<v Speaker 1>baggage is simply that you are a little traumatized to dance, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty light baggage. You can say, dating the pumpkin King.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean all right, but you have to dance

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<v Speaker 3>with me next time we're going dance the second date.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm only going if you go dancing with me.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, as long as he doesn't have to dress in

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<v Speaker 6>an orange skin tight outfit with a pumpkin over his head,

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<v Speaker 6>he should be able to overcome it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'd be open to wearing still the pumpkin

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<v Speaker 5>skin tight suit, just not the helmet.

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<v Speaker 2>Just shows off his guns.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, I see, all right, so I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go with don't wear that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I wouldn't even carve pumpkins as a couple

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<v Speaker 6>away from them. Yeah, that's our suggestion, But again, this

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<v Speaker 6>is your decision, Evan, and Calista did say she was

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<v Speaker 6>up for giving you one more chance if you danced.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, let's do it. I'll get out there. I'll show

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<v Speaker 5>what little moves I have.

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<v Speaker 1>No one expects guys to have many moves.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Why do I feel like after like six or seven years.

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<v Speaker 6>As like the Pumpkin guy, he's going to be the

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<v Speaker 6>best dancers all time.

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<v Speaker 3>They let him come back every year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea lord of the Pumpkins is what he is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, i'm, I'm I'm proud of you. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean i'm I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was sounding like his mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I was expecting to say no, like one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think you handled it really well.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's actually going to do his dance, gentlemen.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Back to Kevin Bacon again rooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 6>the morning. Oh man, I forgot to ask if she

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to go with him to his therapy session after

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<v Speaker 6>they got appetizers and chilis.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where I went wrong with this. It's the perfect pairing.

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<v Speaker 6>Little baby back Ribs followed bus some traumatized kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Oh, I mean, gosh, if this was your mom, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>she would have already sent us the video of you

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<v Speaker 1>doing the dance and that's spandex. But then talked about

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<v Speaker 1>how good your jazz hands were.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 6>My mom continues to traumatize me well into adults on

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to do with the past.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not ready for therapy. Yet it's trauma in progress.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but I don't know. It's cool that they went

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<v Speaker 6>out together, that they agreed to give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 6>Text nine two if you think they're actually a good

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<v Speaker 6>match for each.

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<v Speaker 1>Other, okay, yeah, and share your trauma stories from your

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<v Speaker 1>child Is that what we want?

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<v Speaker 2>On the textboard?

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<v Speaker 1>We all have.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay dancing videos instead, send your childhood traumas directly to

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<v Speaker 3>Brooks Instagram that Brook Fox Fox.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're trauma bonded.

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<v Speaker 2>There we go, and remember you can find all of

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<v Speaker 2>your second date updates.

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<v Speaker 6>We put them up on our podcast wherever you get

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<v Speaker 6>them at Brook and Jeffrey