1
00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,440
Speaker 1: I think you can hear in our voices that were

2
00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:10,760
Speaker 1: a little villainous, scariest I've ever heard. Right, yeah, no,

3
00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:11,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't.

4
00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,120
Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast.

5
00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,440
Speaker 1: It is the Halloween edition. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

6
00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,439
Speaker 1: the morning. If you do not follow our socials, then.

7
00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:20,960
Speaker 3: Come on too.

8
00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm dressed up as Ursula.

9
00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,840
Speaker 2: I am maleficent. Yes, I like myself something.

10
00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,000
Speaker 1: Hey the Latin twist to it.

11
00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:30,760
Speaker 4: I'm done with that.

12
00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,839
Speaker 2: And I'm scary. Yeah, and election well a divil.

13
00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,440
Speaker 1: I gotta say, I am so proud of our costumes

14
00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:37,760
Speaker 1: this year.

15
00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:39,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

16
00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so definitely go look at the tiktoks. Go look

17
00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,720
Speaker 1: at the install it's a comment. Let us know who

18
00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:45,559
Speaker 1: is your favorite.

19
00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,040
Speaker 2: You can see who everyone else is.

20
00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:56,000
Speaker 1: Yes everyone, yeah, yeah, So okay, okay, enough about our

21
00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,920
Speaker 1: Disney Villain Group costume. Let's get into it a brand

22
00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,200
Speaker 1: new Halloween Second Date right now.

23
00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,160
Speaker 2: Second Date updated.

24
00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:10,440
Speaker 6: Imagine the night is alive with chaos. Zombies are stumbling

25
00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:16,800
Speaker 6: down the streets, Witches are cackling maniacally. You hear the screams,

26
00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:22,479
Speaker 6: you see the horrors, you smell the fireball, and that's

27
00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,640
Speaker 6: when you realize, oh, I'm in the middle of a

28
00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:29,160
Speaker 6: Halloween bark crawl right here. Yeah, and for all the

29
00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,840
Speaker 6: terrifying sights you'll definitely see, it might also be the

30
00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,800
Speaker 6: perfect setting for you to find true love. And that's

31
00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,560
Speaker 6: where one of our listeners made a connection recently, and

32
00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,360
Speaker 6: he's emailed us for help today with a spooky theme

33
00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:46,160
Speaker 6: second date update. I love that his name is Evan. So, Evan,

34
00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,400
Speaker 6: we got to catch up. How many shots deep are

35
00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,160
Speaker 6: you right now?

36
00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,160
Speaker 5: You know it's a workday. I'm not gonna take shot.

37
00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to know what you were dressed as

38
00:01:58,800 --> 00:01:59,880
Speaker 1: that's how I want to start.

39
00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,040
Speaker 3: Most important, I.

40
00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,680
Speaker 5: Went to star Lord some guardians. I think I have

41
00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,720
Speaker 5: a look that matches.

42
00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,240
Speaker 7: Is that pratt?

43
00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

44
00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:08,680
Speaker 1: Is that hot look?

45
00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,920
Speaker 2: Or doesn't that like cover most of you?

46
00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,040
Speaker 1: I can't remember.

47
00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:15,720
Speaker 2: The movie. I see the movie.

48
00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't stick out a ton to me.

49
00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,280
Speaker 6: But okay, so we're we don't approve of your costume.

50
00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:22,240
Speaker 6: Can you come up with a new one?

51
00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,240
Speaker 2: Did people know what you were? I guess that's the question.

52
00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:29,280
Speaker 5: People knew? Okay, he's a charismatic character.

53
00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,320
Speaker 2: I would trust other people to know stuff more than

54
00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,080
Speaker 2: this group. Definitely do.

55
00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,720
Speaker 6: So tell us about this woman that you met while

56
00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:37,720
Speaker 6: you were doing your bar crawl.

57
00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:38,280
Speaker 2: What's her name?

58
00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:44,440
Speaker 5: Oh, her name is Calissa, Calista. I honestly can't remember

59
00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,600
Speaker 5: which bar that we met, but it was we were

60
00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,960
Speaker 5: both a two big groups, and our groups just sort

61
00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,160
Speaker 5: of naturally kind of like started going on this crawl together.

62
00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,640
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the whole point of barkrawls, right to

63
00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,840
Speaker 1: meet new people with people. Yeah, totally.

64
00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,360
Speaker 2: I thought it was just a get drunk.

65
00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,000
Speaker 5: That.

66
00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,280
Speaker 2: I thought the social thing was kind of secondary. So

67
00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,959
Speaker 2: you just like happened to meet people.

68
00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,880
Speaker 1: You could go hot between bars and drink alone anytime exactly, but.

69
00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,520
Speaker 2: This one you're wearing costumes, so fun.

70
00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,600
Speaker 5: I mean I would definitely agree with all of that.

71
00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:20,120
Speaker 4: I was definitely.

72
00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,600
Speaker 5: Probably steering our group to sick with hers because I

73
00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,080
Speaker 5: was into her, whereas my friends just wanted to keep drinking.

74
00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,840
Speaker 5: They didn't care about the social part.

75
00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,400
Speaker 6: So I'll look up with your friends after we're done

76
00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,320
Speaker 6: with this call, because they seem like my type of people.

77
00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,320
Speaker 1: How did you and clust, I mean, like, what was

78
00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,920
Speaker 1: the connection between you two? What did you have in common?

79
00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,400
Speaker 5: I mean I think it was just like our type

80
00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,600
Speaker 5: of sense of humor. We just loved the people watching

81
00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,240
Speaker 5: and looking at people's costumes and how silly they looked.

82
00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:52,280
Speaker 5: The cheaper the better, we really we realized interesting, like

83
00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,520
Speaker 5: something that looked like it was just pulled off the

84
00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,200
Speaker 5: shelf of Spirit Halloween the hours before, like the bigges.

85
00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,400
Speaker 6: Okay, so you're bonding over the shared interest of judging

86
00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,960
Speaker 6: other people for their weird costume decisions decisions, is what

87
00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:07,320
Speaker 6: it was.

88
00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that could be fun. So how did then

89
00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:10,520
Speaker 2: I go?

90
00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,400
Speaker 7: I thought it was gone great? I mean, we were

91
00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,200
Speaker 7: having a great time. One of the bars had just

92
00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,719
Speaker 7: paper I'm assuming it was from one of their trivia nights,

93
00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,800
Speaker 7: his papers and pen and we just started like giving

94
00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,200
Speaker 7: out awards.

95
00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,200
Speaker 4: Like we just picked people and be like you have

96
00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,080
Speaker 4: like the craziest food costume, you have the ugliest blank costume,

97
00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,000
Speaker 4: the second worst costume of this bar.

98
00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,040
Speaker 2: That's awesome.

99
00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:33,720
Speaker 6: All right?

100
00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,880
Speaker 2: So you and Callista made a lot of enemies that night.

101
00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,279
Speaker 6: It sounds like your own world, and that's all that matters,

102
00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:39,960
Speaker 6: is you two.

103
00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,440
Speaker 2: Right, even if someone's upset, you're like, oh my god,

104
00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,839
Speaker 2: we really made that guy mad. Let's make out.

105
00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,479
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wait did that happen? Did you make out? Yeah?

106
00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:50,240
Speaker 3: Good question.

107
00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,279
Speaker 5: I wouldn't call the makeout. But yeah, at the last

108
00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:54,360
Speaker 5: bar of the night.

109
00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,480
Speaker 4: We definitely kissed. Out the book we kissed.

110
00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,359
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, that's happened.

111
00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,000
Speaker 6: You're ainting a really nice image for us. We want

112
00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:03,919
Speaker 6: to know, is there anything in your mind that you

113
00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,160
Speaker 6: remember that went wrong with the evening.

114
00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,159
Speaker 5: On the last bar, they had a dance floor, and

115
00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,360
Speaker 5: she really wanted to get out on the dance floor,

116
00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,279
Speaker 5: regardless of what I was dressed up by us. Because

117
00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,359
Speaker 5: we know star Ward is a dancer. I am not

118
00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,280
Speaker 5: a dancer. It's just not my thing.

119
00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,800
Speaker 2: Okay, like you're a bad dancer, or you won't even try.

120
00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:25,719
Speaker 7: All of the above.

121
00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,360
Speaker 2: Did she try to pull you in and dance with

122
00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,120
Speaker 2: you at some point?

123
00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:34,760
Speaker 5: You said multiple times.

124
00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,839
Speaker 1: It is a bummer because it's like, in my mind,

125
00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,000
Speaker 1: there's no such thing as a bad dancer if you

126
00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,160
Speaker 1: fully commit your fun, no matter how good you are

127
00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:47,360
Speaker 1: at Yeah, exactly, that's exactly what bad dancer's saying.

128
00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,880
Speaker 2: All that matters is I'm having a good time. Last

129
00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,800
Speaker 2: place in the dance kicked off every dance floor.

130
00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,320
Speaker 6: So you're thinking that she's just turned off because you

131
00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,920
Speaker 6: came across as kind of a party pooper, Is that right?

132
00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

133
00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:05,840
Speaker 5: I think she might think I'm just some stick in

134
00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,760
Speaker 5: the mud or a bit of a lay o, and

135
00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,080
Speaker 5: I'm I mean, We've had a lot of text back

136
00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,800
Speaker 5: and forth. It's just non commit she won't commit to

137
00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:13,600
Speaker 5: going on a date.

138
00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,880
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe having a radio station call. We'll prove that

139
00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:17,800
Speaker 1: you're a fun guy.

140
00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:21,120
Speaker 4: You know, there we go.

141
00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, if that's the case, So Alexis, would

142
00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,880
Speaker 6: this be a deal breaker for you if you're out

143
00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,480
Speaker 6: with a guy who prefers not to dance, I mean.

144
00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:29,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't look back alone out there.

145
00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

146
00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:35,880
Speaker 1: Think of all the weddings you have to go to

147
00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,719
Speaker 1: in the future end up a couple. Dancing is such

148
00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,239
Speaker 1: an important part social life.

149
00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,840
Speaker 6: Well, let's see if ironically you dug your own grave

150
00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,920
Speaker 6: on Halloween barcrawl when we come back and get you

151
00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:49,960
Speaker 6: your second date update.

152
00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:56,200
Speaker 2: Right after this second date update, imagine.

153
00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,680
Speaker 6: The movie Footloose, but instead of Kevin Bacon being told

154
00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:00,839
Speaker 6: not to dance.

155
00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:06,000
Speaker 2: He chooses not to right because he's embarrassed about his

156
00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:07,240
Speaker 2: lack of dance move.

157
00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:15,080
Speaker 6: Yes, that's exactly what we're dealing with today. Reverse Footloose

158
00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,480
Speaker 6: for our listener, Evan, who met a woman named Callista

159
00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,560
Speaker 6: during a Halloween bar crawl, but when Callista tried to

160
00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,800
Speaker 6: get him out on the dance floor, he said, no, sweetheart,

161
00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:26,760
Speaker 6: Daddy don't move like that.

162
00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,120
Speaker 2: He just sits in the corner.

163
00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,520
Speaker 6: Is that the reason that Callista's been avoiding another hangout?

164
00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,000
Speaker 6: We're trying to get to the bottom of it today

165
00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,880
Speaker 6: with your Halloween themed second date update.

166
00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was hoping someone else would jump.

167
00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:51,800
Speaker 1: In, and I was hoping that he would answer you.

168
00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:51,320
Speaker 5: I'm still here.

169
00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,720
Speaker 2: Was a terrifying recap for you, Evan.

170
00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was kind of. I was like, oh, no,

171
00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,800
Speaker 5: this is probably gonna go bad.

172
00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,640
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know if it even has to do

173
00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,240
Speaker 1: with the dancing, And it may just be like Halloween's

174
00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,640
Speaker 1: meant kind of for just like flirting and hooking up.

175
00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,520
Speaker 6: Why, Yeah, nothing to do with your dance. It might

176
00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,280
Speaker 6: just be your personality sucks.

177
00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:14,040
Speaker 1: Bro, Like you're out in costume. You're not looking for

178
00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,080
Speaker 1: a relationship typically, So maybe that's just not where her

179
00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:17,760
Speaker 1: head was at.

180
00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:18,840
Speaker 2: You think she's a fluozy.

181
00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,320
Speaker 1: No, I don't that.

182
00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,800
Speaker 2: What do you think? I don't really know.

183
00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,920
Speaker 1: I just mean, like, you're out partying on Halloween, it's

184
00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:29,480
Speaker 1: not meant to be more dates.

185
00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, the guy had like a fun makeout and doesn't

186
00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:32,880
Speaker 6: accept that.

187
00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,400
Speaker 1: It was just a fun Yeah, that's why does everyone

188
00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,200
Speaker 1: else get me except jeff I don't.

189
00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,640
Speaker 2: Know, just ever had just a fun makeout? JEFA, no thanks.

190
00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,079
Speaker 6: I mean, could that be the case, Evan, where you're

191
00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,640
Speaker 6: taking this as a more serious connection than what Callista

192
00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,520
Speaker 6: saw it as more of like a one night fun thing.

193
00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:55,440
Speaker 5: That could be the case. I guess I just misread it.

194
00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:56,360
Speaker 2: I don't think that's bad.

195
00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,000
Speaker 1: I think it's something you can fix.

196
00:08:58,559 --> 00:08:58,760
Speaker 4: Right.

197
00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:00,480
Speaker 2: Clearly he won more.

198
00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're putting in the effort. We're gonna at

199
00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,439
Speaker 6: least call and try and figure out why. And Bro,

200
00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,240
Speaker 6: even if it was just a kiss, like you just

201
00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:08,719
Speaker 6: know you're attractive enough for her to come and make

202
00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:10,360
Speaker 6: out with you, you should feel good about.

203
00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,720
Speaker 1: That because I only made out with hot guys.

204
00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,080
Speaker 3: I would never drunk make out with.

205
00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,520
Speaker 5: Someone you look like Star War.

206
00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,280
Speaker 6: Okay, that's not undermine anybody's confidence. We're just gonna call

207
00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:34,080
Speaker 6: her and hopefully she picks up it. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

208
00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,880
Speaker 6: we're looking to speak with Callista. Yeah, hey, this is

209
00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,280
Speaker 6: a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

210
00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,480
Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.

211
00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:43,839
Speaker 5: Hi.

212
00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,160
Speaker 2: This is a segment that we do. It's called a

213
00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,040
Speaker 2: second Date Update.

214
00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,720
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so, uh.

215
00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,760
Speaker 6: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that

216
00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,320
Speaker 6: you met the other night. He described a really cool

217
00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,880
Speaker 6: hangout between the two of you at a bar crawl.

218
00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,960
Speaker 2: He described a drunk hang out between the two of you.

219
00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:07,120
Speaker 6: Cool, drunk fun. It was all the emotions. And I'm

220
00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,280
Speaker 6: talking about a guy named Evan.

221
00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, maybe she likes him to be called star

222
00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,319
Speaker 1: Lord instead, and that is a problem, is that, right,

223
00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,480
Speaker 1: Clysta star Lord?

224
00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:23,960
Speaker 3: You like that better, not necessarily star Daddy.

225
00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,560
Speaker 6: All right, Well, look, if you weren't feeling it with

226
00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,920
Speaker 6: him that much, then we understand, we get it. But

227
00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,680
Speaker 6: we spoke with Evan and he was saying he felt

228
00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,439
Speaker 6: like he really connected with you during the bar crawl,

229
00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,440
Speaker 6: and now you just you don't seem to want to

230
00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:40,680
Speaker 6: meet up one on one with him.

231
00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:45,440
Speaker 3: I mean, we had a fun night, but it was

232
00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,360
Speaker 3: what it was like, It didn't I don't think it's

233
00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:48,240
Speaker 3: like a long term thing.

234
00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:50,880
Speaker 1: I mean, is that just because it was Halloween and

235
00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,920
Speaker 1: you're at a bar crawl and it's just drinks deep? Yeah,

236
00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,319
Speaker 1: that's not where your mind was at.

237
00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:56,040
Speaker 5: No.

238
00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what he told you or

239
00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,880
Speaker 3: I don't know how this works, but we had a

240
00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,720
Speaker 3: kind of serious conversation. Oh and it was just like

241
00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,400
Speaker 3: a real burn off for me.

242
00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,400
Speaker 1: Oh turn off.

243
00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,679
Speaker 6: Are you saying you had a conversation because we heard

244
00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,319
Speaker 6: that you talked about other people's costumes and how horrible

245
00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:14,679
Speaker 6: they were.

246
00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the serious It sounds like she's talking about that.

247
00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,080
Speaker 6: She could read it as a serious This guy's really

248
00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,600
Speaker 6: judgmental about other people.

249
00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:22,400
Speaker 4: In the last.

250
00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,640
Speaker 3: No, I think that was that was the fun part. Okay, Yeah,

251
00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,200
Speaker 3: I mean I was trying to like have fun with

252
00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,120
Speaker 3: him and get him to dance with me, and now

253
00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,240
Speaker 3: he basically told me he doesn't like dancing because when

254
00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,440
Speaker 3: he was ten, his mom put him in this play

255
00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,400
Speaker 3: where he was like a pumpkin and he had a

256
00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:45,760
Speaker 3: dance in front of everyone for hours. And I was

257
00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,280
Speaker 3: just kind of like, if you're that affected by something

258
00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,439
Speaker 3: like that when you're ten, you pretty much probably can't

259
00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:53,480
Speaker 3: handle anything in life.

260
00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:58,400
Speaker 1: So WHOA, all of that sounds so serious. He's probably

261
00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,800
Speaker 1: just trying to share a lighthearted story make you laugh

262
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,240
Speaker 1: about why you can't yeh.

263
00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:03,839
Speaker 6: School play one time, but.

264
00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,679
Speaker 3: Still can't dance as an adult. Like that's crazy, especially

265
00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,240
Speaker 3: when you're a little bit drunk, like you're still that

266
00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:13,440
Speaker 3: upset about it, Like that just was a huge red flat.

267
00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,120
Speaker 6: Okay, so you see you you took him very very

268
00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,079
Speaker 6: seriously with that comment line.

269
00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,320
Speaker 3: I asked him to dance like three times, like he

270
00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:22,440
Speaker 3: was serious about it.

271
00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,760
Speaker 6: I Oh, and his reason for not dancing that he

272
00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,960
Speaker 6: told you was that when he was ten years old,

273
00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,559
Speaker 6: his mom forced him to a play in a play.

274
00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,120
Speaker 5: Oh, it wasn't for a play. It was for the

275
00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,320
Speaker 5: town festival where everybody was.

276
00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,280
Speaker 3: Watch the guys on my phone.

277
00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, sorry about that Callista, but Evan is actually on

278
00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,960
Speaker 6: the other line listening in on this call.

279
00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,199
Speaker 2: That's how this segment works.

280
00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

281
00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, my mom would force me into this thing in

282
00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,439
Speaker 5: front of the festival. And this wasn't just like one time.

283
00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,080
Speaker 5: This is like from ten years old till fifteen. I mean,

284
00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,439
Speaker 5: I'm like a sixteen stock group using to do it.

285
00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,720
Speaker 6: And because okay, so it scarred you from Just to

286
00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,439
Speaker 6: get it clear on the details, you're saying that when

287
00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,720
Speaker 6: you were a kid, your mom made you join a

288
00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,280
Speaker 6: Halloween themed festival where you had to dance.

289
00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,000
Speaker 5: You're making me say it again.

290
00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,280
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry.

291
00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:18,440
Speaker 5: My mom would force me to wear a skin tight

292
00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:23,000
Speaker 5: like orange suit and put a pumpkin on my head

293
00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:24,520
Speaker 5: to go dance in front of the town.

294
00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:30,440
Speaker 2: On your head, I love that something or something.

295
00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,480
Speaker 5: I became pumpkin Man to everybody. I was known as

296
00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:34,760
Speaker 5: pumpkin Man every year.

297
00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like it was such a long time ago.

298
00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,040
Speaker 3: Like I just if you're not gonna have fun and

299
00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,720
Speaker 3: dance as an adult, like a grown man, it's just

300
00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,199
Speaker 3: like a lot of issues.

301
00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:48,679
Speaker 2: Well, not everyone likes to dance. We have friends I

302
00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:49,480
Speaker 2: don't like to dance.

303
00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,400
Speaker 1: It sounds like Calistai and your mom may have more

304
00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,120
Speaker 1: in common than you realize.

305
00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:59,760
Speaker 2: Well, look, you're right, you gave him the a brook.

306
00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:01,960
Speaker 5: I probably shouldn't have brought it up. I should have

307
00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:02,640
Speaker 5: gotten out there.

308
00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:08,360
Speaker 3: But so like hypothetically, if we went to my friend's

309
00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,400
Speaker 3: wedding and I was like, hey, dance with me, You're

310
00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,320
Speaker 3: never going to dance with me because of this experience

311
00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:13,880
Speaker 3: when you're ten.

312
00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,240
Speaker 5: It was just the idea that you were just like

313
00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,520
Speaker 5: trying so hard to make me dance. It just was

314
00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,320
Speaker 5: like you were my mom in that moment. Oh yeah,

315
00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,760
Speaker 5: and all I could think about was being the pumpkin

316
00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,280
Speaker 5: man and my pumpkin helmet forced to dance in front

317
00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:28,960
Speaker 5: of everything.

318
00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,360
Speaker 6: So, Calyssa, to answer your question, if your friend invited

319
00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,240
Speaker 6: his mom to the wedding too to force him to dance,

320
00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:37,680
Speaker 6: then you would definitely be out on the floor.

321
00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:37,960
Speaker 2: Wheel.

322
00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,960
Speaker 3: We're not inviting anyone's mom's to weddings, Okay.

323
00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,840
Speaker 1: I think you're thinking of this the wrong way though, Calisa, like,

324
00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,200
Speaker 1: maybe just give him a chance to dance with you eventually,

325
00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,800
Speaker 1: because the good experience will outweigh the trauma that he had,

326
00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,240
Speaker 1: and maybe he'll learn to love it all over again.

327
00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,920
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I was going to say, like hard no,

328
00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,520
Speaker 3: but I guess I'm open to it. I just want

329
00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:03,040
Speaker 3: to be with someone that is like fun and can dance,

330
00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,520
Speaker 3: and I don't want to be dealing with their past traumas.

331
00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:06,520
Speaker 2: Okay, I.

332
00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,000
Speaker 5: Like, does that not exist?

333
00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:11,840
Speaker 2: No, it's on.

334
00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,280
Speaker 6: If you're willing to commit to dropping all of your

335
00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,200
Speaker 6: past traumas right now.

336
00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,800
Speaker 2: Then she would be willing to give you a chance.

337
00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:22,720
Speaker 2: That's all I gotta do. I'm perfect.

338
00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:22,960
Speaker 7: Now.

339
00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,840
Speaker 1: We're joking, but I think that what he's trying to

340
00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,480
Speaker 1: say is everybody comes with baggage, okay, And if your

341
00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,920
Speaker 1: baggage is simply that you are a little traumatized to dance, like,

342
00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:36,720
Speaker 1: that's pretty light baggage. You can say, dating the pumpkin King.

343
00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean all right, but you have to dance

344
00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,480
Speaker 3: with me next time we're going dance the second date.

345
00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,160
Speaker 3: I'm only going if you go dancing with me.

346
00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,680
Speaker 6: Wow, as long as he doesn't have to dress in

347
00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,480
Speaker 6: an orange skin tight outfit with a pumpkin over his head,

348
00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,160
Speaker 6: he should be able to overcome it.

349
00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:56,000
Speaker 5: I mean, I'd be open to wearing still the pumpkin

350
00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,680
Speaker 5: skin tight suit, just not the helmet.

351
00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:01,240
Speaker 2: Just shows off his guns.

352
00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,360
Speaker 1: At this point, I see, all right, so I'm going

353
00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,040
Speaker 1: to go with don't wear that.

354
00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,480
Speaker 6: I mean, I wouldn't even carve pumpkins as a couple

355
00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,760
Speaker 6: away from them. Yeah, that's our suggestion, But again, this

356
00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,760
Speaker 6: is your decision, Evan, and Calista did say she was

357
00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,360
Speaker 6: up for giving you one more chance if you danced.

358
00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it. I'll get out there. I'll show

359
00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,280
Speaker 5: what little moves I have.

360
00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,560
Speaker 1: No one expects guys to have many moves.

361
00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:28,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

362
00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:31,320
Speaker 6: Why do I feel like after like six or seven years.

363
00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,160
Speaker 6: As like the Pumpkin guy, he's going to be the

364
00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,400
Speaker 6: best dancers all time.

365
00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,040
Speaker 3: They let him come back every year.

366
00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,480
Speaker 2: Yea lord of the Pumpkins is what he is.

367
00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, i'm, I'm I'm proud of you. I

368
00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,400
Speaker 3: mean i'm I.

369
00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:44,960
Speaker 2: Was sounding like his mom.

370
00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:50,080
Speaker 3: Now, I was expecting to say no, like one hundred percent.

371
00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,400
Speaker 3: So I think you handled it really well.

372
00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:56,359
Speaker 2: So that's actually going to do his dance, gentlemen.

373
00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:02,520
Speaker 6: All right, Back to Kevin Bacon again rooking Jeffrey in

374
00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:05,199
Speaker 6: the morning. Oh man, I forgot to ask if she

375
00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,040
Speaker 6: wanted to go with him to his therapy session after

376
00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,760
Speaker 6: they got appetizers and chilis.

377
00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,800
Speaker 2: That's where I went wrong with this. It's the perfect pairing.

378
00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,560
Speaker 6: Little baby back Ribs followed bus some traumatized kids.

379
00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,920
Speaker 1: Oh man, Oh, I mean, gosh, if this was your mom, Jeffrey,

380
00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:24,520
Speaker 1: she would have already sent us the video of you

381
00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,760
Speaker 1: doing the dance and that's spandex. But then talked about

382
00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,040
Speaker 1: how good your jazz hands were.

383
00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the thing.

384
00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,040
Speaker 6: My mom continues to traumatize me well into adults on

385
00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:34,760
Speaker 6: I'm not.

386
00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:35,760
Speaker 1: Going to do with the past.

387
00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:39,440
Speaker 2: I'm not ready for therapy. Yet it's trauma in progress.

388
00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't know. It's cool that they went

389
00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,000
Speaker 6: out together, that they agreed to give it a shot.

390
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,080
Speaker 6: Text nine two if you think they're actually a good

391
00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:47,960
Speaker 6: match for each.

392
00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,880
Speaker 1: Other, okay, yeah, and share your trauma stories from your

393
00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,280
Speaker 1: child Is that what we want?

394
00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:55,440
Speaker 2: On the textboard?

395
00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:56,600
Speaker 1: We all have.

396
00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:02,320
Speaker 3: Okay dancing videos instead, send your childhood traumas directly to

397
00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,960
Speaker 3: Brooks Instagram that Brook Fox Fox.

398
00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that right?

399
00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trauma bonded.

400
00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,879
Speaker 2: There we go, and remember you can find all of

401
00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:11,840
Speaker 2: your second date updates.

402
00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,840
Speaker 6: We put them up on our podcast wherever you get

403
00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,000
Speaker 6: them at Brook and Jeffrey