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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy, Meloncats and Tamra Jedge.

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Speaker 1: Hi guys, welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself,

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Speaker 1: Teddy Mellancamp and tamn Raid Judge. Hey, Teddy, Hey, how's

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Speaker 1: it going. It's going good? Your home now? Right? You

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Speaker 1: all called out? I'm as cancelled out as you possibly

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Speaker 1: can be. But I can't wait till you go next

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Speaker 1: weekend and I've never been. It was something we did

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Speaker 1: like a last minute with another couple. They wanted to go.

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Speaker 1: We're like, yeah, sure we'll go, and I'm like, oh god,

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Speaker 1: I have the week from health and sorry sending money

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Speaker 1: today Wednesday you were doing that live pod to live

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Speaker 1: podcast next week and out of town. Like I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I was thinking. It's well, you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be thinking exactly what I'm thinking right now, which

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Speaker 1: is why did I do this? But it was fun

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Speaker 1: in the moment and excitingly enough, we have Caroline Stanbury

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Speaker 1: on with us, who you guys all fell in love

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Speaker 1: with her on Ladies of London. However, she is about

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Speaker 1: to be coming on the Real Housewives of Dubai, which

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Speaker 1: premiers June one. I can't wait, it can't come soon enough,

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Speaker 1: and she also has a very popular podcast, Divorced Not Dead.

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Speaker 1: After her breakup, the mother of three found happiness in

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Speaker 1: Dubai with former Real Madrid soccer player Sergio very handsome,

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Speaker 1: very handsome, handsome. Alrighty, we'll get right into it. I

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Speaker 1: know we are so excited you're back on TV. I

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Speaker 1: actually watched about three episodes of Ladies of London last night.

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Speaker 1: It was one of my favorites. Really bummed when it

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Speaker 1: went off the air and the episode I think you

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Speaker 1: were in Scotland. Oh my god? Yes, does it seemed

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Speaker 1: like forever ago? It was forever ago, eight years. I

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Speaker 1: think it's how does it feel to be back on Bravo? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know what hasn't hit yet, has it? I mean

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Speaker 1: it's different because they were my friends and family, you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of really good friends and this. You know. I

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Speaker 1: just I've only been here a few years so that

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's not that they can't get to

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Speaker 1: me the same way. I think my family decn So

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Speaker 1: what would you say other than that the biggest difference

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Speaker 1: filming Ladies of London versus Real Housewives Dubai is hindsight hindsight,

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Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm I'm prepared, and I think when

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Speaker 1: you weren't prepared before, you sort of you understand that.

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Speaker 1: I think you've you've probably all seen that. You know,

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Speaker 1: people don't really have lines, right, you do. See I

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Speaker 1: was the opposite. When I wasn't prepared, I did pretty well.

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Speaker 1: But then when I started preparing, then I was a

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Speaker 1: disaster because I started overthinking everything too much into your

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Speaker 1: I think it can really work either way. So you

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Speaker 1: going into it? No, I mean I knew them from

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Speaker 1: around town. We all knew each other because you know,

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Speaker 1: Dubai's the size of the shoe. Um. But you know,

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Speaker 1: I've never been my husband spent but I have not.

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Speaker 1: But it's on our list of things to do to

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Speaker 1: try to. You know, your family had your family know

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Speaker 1: how to rile you, don't they? I forgot that you

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Speaker 1: had family on Ladies of London. Your your sister in

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Speaker 1: law was on right? Was that your sister in law

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Speaker 1: SOPHI Yeah, and then Adela went to school with me.

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Speaker 1: You know it's like, um, so you know, and some

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Speaker 1: of the girls I've known since I was like fifteen,

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Speaker 1: so you know, you're like siblings. You could kill each other.

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Speaker 1: Dubai has only been going, you know, around forty five years,

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Speaker 1: so you know nobody has those relationships. Yeah. You actually

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Speaker 1: Annabelle without her name. Yeah, that tragic, very sad, so heartbreaking. Um.

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Speaker 1: In regards to Dubai, how many episodes do you think

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Speaker 1: You know, they don't tell us these things. Did you

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Speaker 1: have any hesitation about going back? Or you're like, yes,

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Speaker 1: did I have any hesitation? No, not at all. I

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Speaker 1: was I was ready. You know, I've had a really

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Speaker 1: nice niatus, you know, isn't it You're like, oh, won't

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Speaker 1: So it's just just I'm a different person, and it's um,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually interested to see how different I look from

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Speaker 1: I thought that's weird. We did the what you call

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Speaker 1: not a camel? Can you write it? Are there any

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Speaker 1: of you guys not speaking right now? Or is everybody on?

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Speaker 1: We're actually getting on? So you actually like the girls

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Speaker 1: So you know it makes you so good on TV.

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Speaker 1: You see when we see your kids on TV? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: that you have three two boys and a girl. Right.

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Speaker 1: How old are they now? So? Yes? Mean just turned

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Speaker 1: sixteen and this weekend my boys turned twelve, So twins.

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Speaker 1: So I'm doing two parties this weekend. I literally just

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Speaker 1: mode and business mode. It's crazy. Now, did your ex

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Speaker 1: live in Dubai as well? He does? He does? You

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Speaker 1: know that's good? That makes sense with him this morning? Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: do you think you'll ever move back to London? Iren't

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Speaker 1: going to stay get back with my ex? I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not that big of assholes. I think your heart

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Speaker 1: has um uh No, I will never. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think I'm kind of a believer in

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Speaker 1: you know, and in any my life. Well, speaking of

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Speaker 1: not looking back, is it true that you haven't spoken

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Speaker 1: to Caprice since Ladies of London Season one? Yeah? Never, never? Never.

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Speaker 1: You know from from the show why was Ladies of

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Speaker 1: London was that ever a conversation. Yeah, it was. I

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Speaker 1: really really shocking. Um. You know, there was table flipping

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Speaker 1: And I think that they stem from literally are saying

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Speaker 1: has that transition been for you. Well, it's funny because

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Speaker 1: one more thing on. What made you ultimately moved to Dubai?

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Speaker 1: playing soccer, and that there was a woman's empowerment talk

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Speaker 1: was my ex husband's fiancee. Took a picture with you. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you sent me this odd message. And I'm like, like,

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Speaker 1: And so he he comes to, so you speak, but

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Speaker 1: He came. His friend was sort of covering it, and

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