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Speaker 1: My boyfriend's dad found my booty painting and exposed me

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Speaker 1: in front of my entire family. Am I the asshole

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Speaker 1: for ending it?

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Speaker 2: I mean, bro, why you gotta you? Really?

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Speaker 3: You really took the private texts and put him in

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Speaker 3: the group chat.

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Speaker 1: That's that's literally what this is the family family group chat.

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Speaker 1: That's actually a different level.

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Speaker 2: That's bad.

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Speaker 1: You know, I have our family group chat is called

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Speaker 1: me Familiar because my parents are in Spain and so

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Speaker 1: is my sister and uh we we it was pretty active.

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Speaker 1: We all like like throw it in. But I haven't

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Speaker 1: been dating a new girl while that chat has been active,

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Speaker 1: So maybe I should start screenshotting text and throwing it

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Speaker 1: in sharing some family feedback.

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Speaker 3: That's a good idea of potential like mates.

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Speaker 1: Potential mates. Yeah, my interesting. He's Australian all right. So

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Speaker 1: I twenty four female, have been dating a guy twenty

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Speaker 1: four a male for almost three years. Two ish years ago,

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Speaker 1: I painted a kind of ron she picture for my

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Speaker 1: partner as a gift. Oh yeah, oh god, my ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend actually wanted me to take nudes like with on

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Speaker 1: like a polaroid in the desert, in the desert. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was, she wanted she wanted my friend James to

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Speaker 1: take them because he does like he does.

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Speaker 2: Did I show you've seen them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? Wait yours? Yeah? Oh no, I won't show John,

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Speaker 2: but i'll show Riley.

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Speaker 3: I won't show I won't show you, but i'll show

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Speaker 3: the recording camera.

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Speaker 2: Let me give about camera. Ready.

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Speaker 1: Wait, there's two people in there, so oh wow, you

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Speaker 1: don't know which one is me or which ones? That

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Speaker 1: is some white ass cheeks right there.

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Speaker 2: I have seen that one. It's art.

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Speaker 1: It's art, it's art. You see that one.

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Speaker 2: It looked like two frogs swimming through some lily pads.

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Speaker 2: That's that's exactly what they look like. Yeah, that's where

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Speaker 2: we are. Something was swimming.

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Speaker 1: If you remember that trend where people painted the backs

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Speaker 1: of their legs and button sat on a canvas, that's

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Speaker 1: what I did. It's a big, about twenty four by

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Speaker 1: thirty six canvas that has my ass cheeks painted on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't hung it up yet, but it's been sitting

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Speaker 1: propped up against a back wall in his man cave,

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Speaker 1: the back of it facing out so no one could

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Speaker 1: see the painting. Since we just moved in and are

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Speaker 1: still unpacking. I love how She's like she's like giving

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Speaker 1: this guy all of these excuses like yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: it's uh, he hasn't hung it up yet, it's just

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Speaker 1: sitting in his man cave like we're still unpacking. So

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Speaker 1: like I totally understand.

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Speaker 3: And he just like turned it away so no one

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Speaker 3: could see it, just because you know, his hands were tired.

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Speaker 2: He didn't want to turn it back around.

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Speaker 1: Also to be fair, like, I don't know if I

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Speaker 1: would hang one of these up if I was ass

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Speaker 1: like here you here, tell me, would you hang this

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Speaker 1: up in.

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Speaker 2: Your living room? Let's see? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Because I definitely would not.

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Speaker 3: That's fun, dude, You know that that belongs in like

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Speaker 3: like you hang up in your living room. Maybe not

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Speaker 3: living room, but that that would be sick in like

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Speaker 3: a studio like a music studio or man cave.

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Speaker 1: Or something like that, or like or like, uh, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: I would not or a sex down one place.

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Speaker 2: I would put it right above my bed. Tell us

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Speaker 2: as I'm looking.

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Speaker 1: At, every lady that comes through Riley's bedroom has to

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Speaker 1: has to cover herself in paint and stead on my camera.

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Speaker 3: And every every Riley's like, we're done, now, paint your

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Speaker 3: backside for the next one, and he just put he

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Speaker 3: hangs up a new painting every time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not, I'm not. I'm not a big fan.

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Speaker 3: My god, yes, oh my, oh my?

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Speaker 2: Was that one? Was that another one of hers?

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Speaker 3: Or just like around, dude, that's some art right there, bro,

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Speaker 3: fucking I except.

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Speaker 2: It, Daniel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so all right, we're all in agreement. We would

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Speaker 1: not hang it up in our living rooms.

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Speaker 2: Oh in front of the door. Yeah, yes, all right.

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Speaker 1: It's his mother's birthday a few weeks ago. We went

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Speaker 1: out to dinner to celebrate, and my partner invited them

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Speaker 1: over to our house after dinner to show off our place.

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Speaker 1: The group consisted of his mom, stepfather, two sisters, sister's boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: and his stepbrother. His sisters and stepbrother weren't super interested

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Speaker 1: in a tour since they had helped us move in

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Speaker 1: and had already seen the place, so he was showing

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Speaker 1: his mom and stepdad around. I was in the living

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Speaker 1: room with everyone else when his stepdad walks in holding

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Speaker 1: my painting like a trophy. Everyone explodes into laughter, and

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Speaker 1: his stepdad keeps making jokes about the fact I painted

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Speaker 1: it for my partner. They're talking about my butt and

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Speaker 1: how weird slash awkward. It is that I did that.

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Speaker 1: His sister kept yelling and was laughing so hard she

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Speaker 2: Jesus.

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Speaker 1: My partner follows laughing, saying I told them no, but

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Speaker 1: they don't listen. My partner siblings are fourteen, seventeen, and nineteen.

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Speaker 1: And I burst into tears and ran into the kitchen

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Speaker 1: to hide because I felt embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh man, no pee dang.

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Speaker 1: Oh pee.

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Speaker 2: That sucks.

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Speaker 1: That sucks. That sucks.

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Speaker 2: Is that the end of the story.

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Speaker 1: No, there's more. There's more. I'm like, but like, is

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Speaker 1: there like a is there like a is there a

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Speaker 1: moral to the story yet?

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Speaker 2: Dude, just can't.

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Speaker 3: Can't give your ass cheeks to nobody otherwise your stepdad

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Speaker 3: it's just going to put his hands all over it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess maybe it's like, don't make an ass

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Speaker 1: painting and put it in a public place.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't even in a public places. It turned around in

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Speaker 2: like a like a the main cave.

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Speaker 3: It sounds to me like Op's boyfriend told the family,

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Speaker 3: which that is like even worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because yeah, you're right, it wasn't in a public

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Speaker 1: but it didn't like hang it up on like the

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Speaker 1: way facing like facing towards the wall exact. How would

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Speaker 1: they even find it unless the boyfriend showed unless they

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Speaker 1: ended up leaving Not long after, and I was bawling

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen. His stepdad was laughing and said sorry

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Speaker 1: if I crossed any boundaries. But he didn't say it

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Speaker 1: to me. He said it to my partner. I told

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Speaker 1: family because of how they embarrassed me from here on out,

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Speaker 1: and that I would only see them on holidays I

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Speaker 1: absolutely had to. This did not make my partner very happy.

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Speaker 1: I think when he realized I was serious and not

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Speaker 1: just accepting his stepfather's sorry, he began to get defensive.

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Speaker 1: He was saying that people would have seen it anyway

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Speaker 1: if it was hung up, and what was he supposed

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Speaker 1: to take it down every time he had guests. When

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Speaker 1: I tried to explain it wasn't about that, it just

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Speaker 1: ended with him saying this can be a wash. He

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Speaker 1: says he can't change his family, and I know how

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Speaker 1: they are, so I just need to adjust how they

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Speaker 1: make me feel so I can handle them in the future.

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Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for making that decision and sticking

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Speaker 1: to it because of this incident. I understand it is

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Speaker 1: his family and he probably feels like I'm attacking them personally,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just so embarrassed. Edit I'm clarifying info. He

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Speaker 1: has never hung it up anywhere before moving it into

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Speaker 1: our house because he said he didn't know what he

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Speaker 1: was supposed to do with it. I know it was

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Speaker 1: made for people to see, and I wouldn't have cared

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Speaker 1: if they had seen it hanging up, but it was

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Speaker 1: just the way the family went about it that makes

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Speaker 1: me feel so icky.

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Speaker 2: And that's a rap, and that's a rap.

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Speaker 3: Well, everyone, let us know what you think in the

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Speaker 3: comments below.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, So if it makes you, let's let's through some

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Speaker 1: alternative scenarios. So if you make this painting, this ass painting,

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Speaker 1: that's fucking weird, is it on your partner? No?

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Speaker 2: Right? No, I would no, No, I would say probably not.

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Speaker 2: Can you get upset?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think you could be upset. That's the person

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Speaker 1: that makes that, yeah, exact comments. Yeah, the person that

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Speaker 1: makes that comment. I do think, like any personal sexually

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Speaker 1: but if you have people that are like more conservative,

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Speaker 1: there's there probably is going to be like like you

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Speaker 3: I guess it makes it makes it easier for a

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Speaker 3: like if it was hanging up and then someone made

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Speaker 3: art or things of that nature like in.

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Speaker 1: Public, in the public setting, Yeah, and it could be

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Speaker 1: great for you both, like both of you guys, and

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Speaker 1: you you like looking at it, but just know, like

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Speaker 1: you're I think any sexually explicit art could be commented

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Speaker 1: it's if it's, if it's you guys.

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Speaker 3: I think, I mean the big thing here for me

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Speaker 3: is like it's it's mostly the family, like disrespecting OP

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Speaker 3: and also sounds I am assuming we I don't think

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Speaker 3: we found out for sure, but it sounds like Ope

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Speaker 3: told the family about the painting. That's that's my hunch

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Speaker 3: in this situation. So it's like OPI, like I mean

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Speaker 3: OPI's boyfriend, Ohpi's boyfri and I'm sorry Opie's boyfriends like

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Speaker 3: Opie's boyfriend and like told them not in a way

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Speaker 3: of like oh, there's this painting, but was almost kind

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Speaker 3: but let's assume that's the case, and and the family

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Speaker 3: you know, like I think I could see like a

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Speaker 1: It's still it's still like I I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying that is a good thing to do. Like it

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Speaker 1: obviously like it is bad of the person to like

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Speaker 1: to to use a like a painting or whatever to

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Speaker 1: shame someone, But I do think like you're just opening

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Speaker 2: Makes it scenario, it's going to be way more likely for.

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Speaker 1: More likely, and so yeah, it's just like do it

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Speaker 1: if you want, but just no, you might have to

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Speaker 1: have a thicker skin because yeah, because like you you

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Speaker 1: could have family members like making comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, would you uh, what would you do if you

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Speaker 2: were op in the scenario? If I was Ope, well,

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Speaker 2: I woul after the fact.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I definitely wouldn't hang that painting up

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Speaker 1: Like if I was opee, I think I would laugh

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Speaker 1: More so of like that I wouldn't I wouldn't go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think so it's it's it's definitely

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Speaker 1: And over a painting that seems like a little.

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Speaker 1: Three years and three years they've been dating three years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also like if it's a dick move on

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Speaker 3: Could you imagine doing that or like someone in your family,

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Speaker 1: No, No, that's insane, that's insane, insane to like shame

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Speaker 2: Geez, I'm sorry, Op, that definitely is not fun.

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Speaker 1: But again, like I think it's like if you had

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Speaker 2: Hell? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And then two. What would you do if this happened

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Speaker 2: Followers? Though, yeah what about?

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Speaker 1: Consistence if you don't have, consistency you are. Nothing if

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Speaker 3: Now, so, uh my, female my female thirty two husband

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Speaker 2: Attention all the. Time no babies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, uh he's been doing a live he's been doing.

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Speaker 3: Live he's been doing live streams a lot, lately even

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Speaker 3: THOUGH i told him that we have responsibilities to take

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Speaker 1: Bro, well what do you mean? Responsibilities? Bro you mean

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Speaker 1: like the responsibilities of being a fucking badass twitch. Streamer?

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Speaker 3: Yeah like what about those titles, Though like that's a

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Speaker 1: Tit about that gamer tag or that gamer like that

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Speaker 1: oh you know they have little little like Overlays oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, YEAH i wanted the six live stream overlays on

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Speaker 3: that takes time before our, daughter she's Seventh before our,

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Speaker 3: daughter she's seven months, old was, born he would stream

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Speaker 1: Followers, hey you gotta spend time with the, followers, Man,

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Speaker 1: hey you gotta do. It gotta do. It you gotta

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Speaker 3: Somehow he was answering questions and engaging in, conversations and

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Speaker 1: COMMUNICATING i, mean he's not. Wrong you're not. Wrong you know,

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Speaker 1: WHAT i have an easy fix for this. Already bring

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Speaker 2: Baby are you kidding?

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Speaker 3: Me that would freaking Crush, literally you just see gi

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Speaker 3: the baby's hands to be moving on the. Control you

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Speaker 3: playing it and it's just Go, bro.

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Speaker 1: That's a great idea For, hey, hey someone steal this

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Speaker 2: It, okay we'll be babies coming to, live hear?

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Speaker 1: You just wait nine months for.

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Speaker 2: Her, yeah give it us a little give us a

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Speaker 2: He gives Any i'll let you handle.

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Speaker 1: That oh.

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Speaker 3: Gosh he's been complaining about wanting to do a live stream.

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Speaker 2: For, days days.

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Speaker 1: Days, DUDE i needs to, Stream. Bro it's his stream.

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Speaker 3: DREAM i told him we look at our schedule and

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Speaker 3: Happen apparently that wasn't good. Enough YESTERDAY i had to

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Speaker 3: Bro Now i've been gone four, hours but kept calling

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Speaker 1: All, good, bro he was really just talking about a.

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Speaker 1: gonna win, schoolag, Bro like it's all. GOOD i immediately went.

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Speaker 3: On and, worse her bottle wasn't even. Touched, Dude, bro

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Speaker 3: he's letting his own child sit in stinky knife with no.

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Speaker 1: Food, bro you just gotta you can take like a

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Speaker 2: What about the?

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Speaker 3: True how can he spend five minutes away from his sweet?

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Speaker 3: PRECIOUS i, mean they clicked the subscribe button like you

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Speaker 2: Right, night you, know literally. Night there's plenty of gamers

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Speaker 3: CONFUSED i got out and noticed that his office's door was.

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Speaker 3: Beyond, seething AND i barged into the office and saw

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Speaker 1: There, dude you're an. Idiot oh my.

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Speaker 2: God he was, like or, like do to live stream with? Her?

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Speaker 3: There For, like there's just so many ways that this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro you're you're freaking up a.

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Speaker 1: Bro, Yeah, BRO i can't have him like harshing my

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Speaker 3: Every time this sack of she just opened through my

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Speaker 1: Bro what AM i supposed to?

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Speaker 2: Do what about the? Chat about the? Chat?

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Speaker 3: S i blew up while he was trying to turn

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Speaker 2: STOP i kept.

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Speaker 3: GOING i berated him from leaving our daughter unattended with

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Speaker 1: WHICH i mean, men men deserves a berating pretty man

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Speaker 3: He freaked out on, me SAYING i just ended his

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Speaker 1: he put as much effort as he does into his

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Speaker 1: a you, know pretty sick.

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Speaker 3: Kid but why would you care for the shit sack

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Speaker 2: Can do my live? Stream it doesn't? Right? Right? Right thank?

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Speaker 3: LOGIC i told, Him, UH i told him not to

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Speaker 1: Unhinched, bro you are the one that's unhinged and does

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Speaker 3: Kid he was almost, crying SO i had to go

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Speaker 1: FRIEND i love. THAT i want to start calling people,

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Speaker 1: shits little shit, sack little shit.

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Speaker 3: Sack he kept fighting with me UNTIL i decided to

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Speaker 3: go stay with my. Mom he started blaming me for

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Speaker 3: ignoring his needs.

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Speaker 2: After he already expressed.

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Speaker 1: Them, bro MAT's just trying to live. Stream what do

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Speaker 1: you mean? Needs what about your freaking baby's? Needs?

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Speaker 2: Bro your baby literally needs to be fed and not

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Speaker 2: sit and. Shit, yeah and not be a little shit.

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Speaker 2: Sack Good, God.

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Speaker 3: And that he forgot to do WHAT i uh and

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Speaker 3: that he forgot to do WHAT i asked, him AND

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Speaker 3: i had cost him so much.

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Speaker 2: His.

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Speaker 3: Followers if you lost me, followers probably not not at.

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Speaker 2: All like, nothing nothing bad happened now.

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Speaker 3: Us now he's telling me to come back home because he,

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Speaker 3: oh and now he's telling us to come back home

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Speaker 3: because now he misses his.

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Speaker 1: Daughter where was all that missing when you were freaking

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Speaker 1: aiming for? Whatever don't a gun? Game we were freaking?

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Speaker 3: Modern yeah modern shoot people in the fucking, face RIGHTED R?

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Speaker 1: Dude this is so. Bad what kind of father does?

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Speaker 2: That?

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Speaker 1: LIKE i, Also i'm surprised that that nothing like this

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Speaker 1: has come up, Before like this seems like a gross

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Speaker 1: misunderstanding of what your priorities should.

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Speaker 3: Be that's the thing with all of these relationships stores

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Speaker 3: Is i'm, like how are you all the way into

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Speaker 3: having a child not child and not just like it

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Speaker 3: like it have a literal child. Together you have a

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Speaker 3: literal child, together and like you haven't noticed or he

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Speaker 3: hasn't exhibited this behavior until, Now like this is JUST

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Speaker 3: i think people ignore red flags for a long, Time

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Speaker 3: like LIKE i think there's there's there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: ways that we can rationalize red flags and then like you,

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Speaker 3: know at a certain, point you just have to you

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Speaker 3: have to be, like, hey this is this is not.

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Speaker 3: Acceptable but as far as mental health stream bro health

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Speaker 3: stream