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Speaker 1: What's up friend? The Keiki courtroom is open. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the podcast. Yes, I dropped episodes that don't make it

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Speaker 1: on the air right here on the Fred's Show on

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Speaker 1: demand channel, So anytime you want to step in the courtroom,

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Speaker 1: it is open. Okay, let's get into this case. It

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Speaker 1: is one of those girls' trips going wrong. Let's get

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Speaker 1: into the letter. It says, hey, ki key, am I

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Speaker 1: wrong for refusing to go into debt for my friend's

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Speaker 1: birthday trip? My best friend Tammy planned a Cancoon trip

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Speaker 1: for her thirtieth birthday. I wasn't in the best financial place,

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Speaker 1: but I wanted to show up for her anyway, so

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Speaker 1: I went. We stayed at an all inclusive resort, so

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Speaker 1: I planned on spending a very minimum amount of money.

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Speaker 1: Once we arrived, she sent a detail itinerary filled with

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Speaker 1: expensive excursions planned for each day. I told her at

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Speaker 1: that moment, I can't afford these excursions, and she seemed disappointed,

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Speaker 1: but she said it was fine. However, that night we

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Speaker 1: went to a club and she kept ordering bottle service.

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Speaker 1: When the bill came, her sister texted the group chat

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Speaker 1: and asked all of the girls to send two hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars to split the bill evenly, I spoke up and said, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying two hundred dollars because i didn't order

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Speaker 1: bottle service and I'm trying to stay on budget. From

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Speaker 1: that moment, things got hella awkward, hella fast. My best

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Speaker 1: friend said her birthday was ruined and that I was

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Speaker 1: embarrassing her and that I should have stayed at home

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Speaker 1: if I couldn't afford the trip. I still refused to pay.

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Speaker 1: Then the rest of the trip was awkward. From that

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Speaker 1: moment on, Am I wrong? Okay? You know people online

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Speaker 1: and you know they get mad at me when I

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Speaker 1: say you know what I'm about to say, But I

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Speaker 1: don't care. H friend, listen, I think you should have

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Speaker 1: stayed at home. I think you should have stayed at

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Speaker 1: home because at this point you all are thirty years old.

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Speaker 1: This is not a fresh out of high school, fresh

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Speaker 1: out of college trip. This is a group of grown

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Speaker 1: women who know how each other traveled. Because at this point,

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Speaker 1: if this is your best friend, you should know how

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Speaker 1: she travels. You should know how she likes to celebrate.

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Speaker 1: I think if you were going to agree to go

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Speaker 1: on her birthday trip, then you should have told her

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Speaker 1: before you all left the country, before the passports were snapped,

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Speaker 1: before you cross the border, you should have said, hey, friend,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on your trip, but I'm on a

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Speaker 1: very tight budget. You know. That way, you give the

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Speaker 1: birthday girl the option to say, hey, you know, still

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Speaker 1: come along, We'll cover you, or you know, don't worry

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Speaker 1: about it. She could have said, hey, I understand, stay home,

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Speaker 1: don't worry about it. But instead you didn't give her

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Speaker 1: that choice. You went outside of the country on a

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Speaker 1: very strict budget with a group of women who are

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Speaker 1: there to celebrate someone's birthday, and now you're putting restrictions

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Speaker 1: on how they celebrate and how you contribute to your

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Speaker 1: bestie's birthday. I just think being a responsible adult I

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Speaker 1: would have had I would have just stayed home, or

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Speaker 1: I would have had that conversation with my best friend

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Speaker 1: before we left. I understand, you know, money is funny,

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Speaker 1: times is hard, change is strange, all the things. But

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Speaker 1: if you don't have the you know, you shouldn't be traveling.

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Speaker 1: In my opinion, on a budget, you need to be

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Speaker 1: at work with me, on the clock, with me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't I don't think this was wise, friend, And now

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Speaker 1: You've made the trip awkward and everybody's you know, looking

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Speaker 1: at you all crazy. I just think you could have

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Speaker 1: saved yourself the drama and just stayed at home. That's

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Speaker 1: what I think. But of course you listening, you are

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Speaker 1: the jury, So let me know what you think about

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Speaker 1: this case. Of course, there's a video posted right now

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Speaker 1: on my Instagram at on air Keiki k E k

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Speaker 1: E and also on the Fred Show radio pages everywhere,

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Speaker 1: So let me know in the comments what you think

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Speaker 1: about this case. You know, was she wrong or was

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Speaker 1: she just trying to be a good friend. Let me

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Speaker 1: know your thoughts. Of course, we'll have a brand new

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Speaker 1: Kiki scot case on the Fred Show bright and early

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Speaker 1: Monday morning, eight o'clock hour. So I talk to you then,

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Speaker 1: friend Bye,