1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: need advice on dating, work, sex, relationships, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: letter just like we're gonna read this one live on 6 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: the air, right here, right now. Okay, buckle up, hold 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: on tight, we got it. Fall you here. It is 8 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: a Strawberry letter, a crazy one subject, Thank you, nephew. 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I sleep in his ex's driveway. Girl. Okay, 10 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: this is so stupid. All right, here we go, Steve. 11 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a twenty nine year old 12 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 1: female in a confusing dating situation. We've been dating for 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: almost two years, but I waited for four months before 14 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: we had sex to make sure his last relationship was 15 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: totally over. He has three kids by three different women, 16 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: but the youngest child's mother has been a problem in 17 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: our relationship. My boyfriend lived with her when we met, 18 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 1: but now he lives inside his RV that's parked in 19 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 1: her driveway. I stay over there with him in the 20 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: RV sometimes, but he mostly stays in my place because 21 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: I told him it's weird to make love to him 22 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: on her property. The other day, his child's mother facetimed 23 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: me from my boyfriend's phone so I could see that 24 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: my boyfriend was asleep in her bed. I begged her 25 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: to wake my boyfriend up, but she refused. I called 26 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,199 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's phone repeatedly, but she had turned the phone off. 27 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: A few hours later, my boyfriend called to say he 28 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: fell asleep watching a movie with his son, and his 29 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: son wanted to watch the movie on his mommy's TV, 30 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: so that's why he was in her bed. He swore 31 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: nothing happened, but it looked like he was passed out drunk. 32 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: When she facetimed me, he surprised me and said he 33 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: would take me on a trip when it's safe to travel, 34 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: so he can show me that I'm number one and 35 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: he is only concerned with making me happy. I was 36 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: really excited, so I got a bottle of wine and 37 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: decided to pop up and celebrate with him. When I 38 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: pulled up, his child's mother came out and said that 39 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: they were inside her house having dinner and I should 40 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: come back later. I'm at the end of my rope 41 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: with this woman. Is he really doing all of this 42 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: because of his son, or is he in there playing 43 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: house with his ex and playing me for a full? 44 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: What is really going on here? Please help? All Right, 45 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: everything that you just mentioned, playing you for a full, 46 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: playing house with this ex, all of that over there 47 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: because it's his son. He's doing all of that. Okay. 48 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: Everything you mentioned he's doing at one time or another. 49 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: All right. You've been with this guy for two years. 50 00:02:54,720 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: Two years, okay, and you wanted to wait until his 51 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: last relationship was over. It's not over, and it's never 52 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: gonna be over. Okay. He's over her house a whole lot, 53 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: and how can he help it? He lives in her driveway. Okay. 54 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: I like the fact that he spends time with his son. 55 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: That is the only thing I like about this guy. 56 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: Baby Mama likes it all too, Okay. She likes him. 57 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: She likes everything he's doing for her son. She likes 58 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 1: everything you said. She's a problem for you now, Well 59 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: guess what. She's going to be a problem for you forever? Forever? 60 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: Will she be a problem because you're in a relationship 61 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: with them. They're in the relationship and you're in it 62 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: with them. Okay. Everybody's involved. The three other children, the 63 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: three children, the three baby mamas. There's too many people 64 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: you him her, all of these people sound like tell 65 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: me when I say that, all these people in this relationship. 66 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: And he's living on her property in an ivy RV. 67 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: He's got one, he might need an iv He's got 68 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: way too much going on. It's just too much. It's 69 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: too much, all right. He's still living with her. You 70 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: said he was living with her when you met. He's 71 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: still living with her. So guess what you need to do. 72 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: You need to get out of this today, right now. 73 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: Forget about buying a bottle of wine because you're so 74 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: happy because he wanted to take you on a trip. 75 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: Don't go anywhere with this man. Please, this is too 76 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: much mess. Get out now. There are plenty of single 77 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: men out here that are not living in their excess 78 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: driveways in an RV. All right, Get it through your 79 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: head that you can do better than this. Steve who 80 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: wrote dish damn letter twenty nine. Yeah, she didn't leave 81 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: a name. You're twenty nine. You've been dating a man 82 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: for almost two years. You waited for four years fo 83 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: your half sex with him and what your hand sex 84 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: with yea for a month you waited four months for 85 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: your hand sex. This what you waited for so you 86 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: could get in that RV in that lady driveway. Hello, 87 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: lives in an RV pat in his excess driveway? Who 88 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: do that? Well? I guess I going up in the 89 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: driveway and go home. Come on in, girl, Let me 90 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 1: ask you something. When you're gonna knock on the RV 91 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: dough is your back against the other house? You ever 92 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: told your dress on the fence? Question? Steve? I'm just 93 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: asking do they have them aluminum steps for it? When 94 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: you get in they shift a little bit in the 95 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: r Yeah. Can you flush the toilet, cut on the 96 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: stove and drive from the same chair? Tiny Coast Nation? 97 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 1: You twenty nine dating a man for two years that 98 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: lives in an RV, which stands for recreational vehicle, in 99 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: the driveway of his ex Why ain't that RV somewhere else? 100 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: Trailer Paul? Yeah? Yeah, why my parking lot? Okay, don't 101 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: down aft the lake truck stop? Okay, Finny, pull up 102 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: in your driveway? It moves. Why is he in her 103 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: damn driveway? I'll be back hang on, Steve. Yeah, we'll 104 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,480 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up. At twenty 105 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letters subjects my 106 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I sleep in its excess driveway. We'll be 107 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. 108 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's crazy strawberry. 109 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: Let the subject my boyfriend and I sleep in his 110 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: excess driveway. Put a nine year old girl mandating this 111 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: man for two years, waited four months for she slept. 112 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: Put it hundred and twenty days, and what did you win? 113 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: The man that has an RV that's parked in his 114 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: excess driveway that they happen to have a baby by, 115 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: but he got three babies by three different women. There's 116 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: a lot of places this RV could be. I have 117 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: suggested Walmart parking lots down at the lake, at the lake, 118 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: trailer parks, truck stops, RV park How about your damn driveway? 119 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: Why don't he pull it round? Now? It got wheels 120 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: on it. Now you stay over there in the RV 121 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: with him sometimes, but it mostly stayed in my place 122 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: because I told him it's weird to make love to 123 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: him all her property. You in the driveway, that's what 124 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: you're worried about. That's whad is weird? To make love 125 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: at in the driveway between two houses. You ain't even 126 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: in the garage. You in the driveway. That ain't even 127 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: a real stoven now its side. It's mad about it, yeah, 128 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: toms mad about it. Arms folded. That's a PopOut so far. Yeah, 129 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: you ain't making love in the bed. That's a day bed. 130 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: That's a murky bed to pop out the wall. Then 131 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: the other day, his child's mother face tied me from 132 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 1: my boyfriend so I could see that my boyfriend was 133 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: sleep in her bed. I begged her to wake my 134 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: boyfriend up. Excuse me, please wake him up? Wake him up? 135 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: You think she called you to wake him up? She 136 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: facetimed you so you could see him sleep. She refused. 137 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: I called my boyfriends repeatedly, but she turned the phone off. 138 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: That a few hours later, my boyfriend called and say 139 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: he fell asleep watching the movie with his son, and 140 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: his son wanted to watch the movie on mommy's TV. 141 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: So that's why he was in her bed. They just 142 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: got a TV in the bedroom. That's probably the same 143 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: room they made the son in. You don't find some 144 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: memory in now? He swoke nothing happened. Looked like he 145 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 1: was passed out drunk. Why he looked drunk sleep? You facetiming. 146 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: He surprised me. Then it not just what he did. 147 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: Then he surprised me and said he wants to take 148 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 1: me on the trip when it's safe to travel, so 149 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: he can show me I'm number one, and it's only 150 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: concerned with making me happy. I was really excited. It 151 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: don't take a lot to get you excited. You was 152 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: excited to move into the RV in the driveway. You 153 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: was excited with making love in the RV instead of 154 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: at your house. You was excited to meet this man 155 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: with all these damn kids. You just excited. So I 156 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: got a bottle of wine. I decided to pop up 157 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: and celebrate with him. You don't. You don't pop up 158 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: at nobody driveway. You squeeze in the driveway. RV is wide, 159 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: poor driveway. The RV is a little bit wider because 160 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: it's got a living area. And so you didn't pop up. 161 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: You squose up in the driveway. And when I pulled up, 162 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: his child's mother came out and said they were inside 163 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: her house having dinner and I should come back later. Yeah, 164 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: she hands then guess what she said. I'm at the 165 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: end of the rope with this woman, with this woman. Yeah, 166 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: your man is in there eating at a real table. 167 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 1: He didn't got tired of eating at the damn because see, 168 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: you don't pull up a chair in a mobile home. 169 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: It's a booth, a mini booth. No sits like eating 170 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: that waffle house. He didn't got tired and had eating 171 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: at this damn waffle house with no waffles. I'm going 172 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: inside with a woman I used to sleep with, it 173 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: make babies with because this woman there. Yeah, this is ignorant. 174 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: Is he really doing all this because of his son? 175 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: Or is he there playing house with his eggs? Anytime 176 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: you go over there? Here in the house now here 177 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: the eating dinner the other day, he was sleeping the bed. 178 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: But you say he even he didn't got tired of 179 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: the damn off the and your ass keep popping up 180 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: at the Harvey and he didn't get tired at all. 181 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,719 Speaker 1: Is he playing me for food? Now? He ain't got 182 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: to your food? What's really going on here? Please help? 183 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: What's really going on? Is you keep ignoring what's really 184 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: going on? You pop up over there? He in the 185 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: bed asleep, Ya pop up over there. She meets you 186 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: outside saying he and there having dinner. Bag hunt to 187 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: wake him up, she said, hell no, he lives in 188 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: her driveway. Who do that? Who? Who'll stay at the 189 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 1: ex Is driveway? Who puts up with that? Won't he 190 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: moved the vyway? Why don't he push the rvy out 191 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: on the street. Okay, post your comments on today Strawberry 192 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey, f them on Instagram and Facebook, 193 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: and then don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter 194 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: podcast on demand coming up at forty six minutes after 195 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: the hour. Some serious news. 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