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Subject Torn between two lovers, there's Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: I'm entangled with two women and I don't know which 12 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: one to pick. I've dated Lady number one off and 13 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: on for about six years, and I'm deeply in love 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: with her. She has the ultimate you know what that 15 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: has me wanting to be her king and give her 16 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: the world. She's also a great cook and she's raised 17 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: her two children by herself. I can't help but keep 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: running back to her because I am crazy about her 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: and I don't want anyone else to have her. There 20 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: was a four month period when we were apart and 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: I ended up meeting Lady number two. Lady number two 22 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: loves me and I've grown to love her too. She 23 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: is younger and ready to settle down and be my wife. 24 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: We talk about having children together, and she wants a 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: set of twins. I've always wanted twins too. I'm fifty 26 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: one and I don't have children yet. Lady number two 27 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: is able to give me children. Lady number one is 28 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: my age and she can't have a baby for me. 29 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: We talked about different ways that we could have a child, 30 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: but then she crushed me and said she doesn't want 31 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: to raise another child. That's what's pushing Lady number two 32 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: up in the rankings. I am torn between these two women. 33 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: I know it sounds horrible that I'm in love with 34 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: two women and comparing them like this, but I am 35 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: trying to make the right choice. Because marriage is forever. 36 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: There is no chance for divorce. Sometimes I think I'll 37 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: be fine with Number one, and I do enjoy being 38 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: around her children. It's fine with how we are now, 39 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: and she never pressures me about marriage. Lady number two 40 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: keeps asking me what's next for us. Do I choose 41 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: my one true love that is indifferent about being married, 42 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: or do I choose the younger woman that wants a 43 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: future with me? That includes having children with me. 44 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: Wow. 45 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: First, let me say I applaud you for your transparency 46 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: to us. I know the ladies don't know about each other, 47 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: and you do have quite a dilemma on your hands. 48 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: Being in love with one woman is a challenge, and 49 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: you've got two loves and there's absolutely no reason that you, 50 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: at age fifty one shouldn't want a family of your own. 51 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: You want children, That's okay, nothing's wrong with that. The 52 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: lady Number one, as you explained in the letter, is 53 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: close to perfection for you in every way except for 54 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 1: she doesn't want children and she's not pressuring you for marriage. 55 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: Number two does want children, but she's not that one 56 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: true love like Number one is been with Number one 57 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: off and on for six years. So that begs the question, 58 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: why haven't you married her already? What's that about? You 59 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: feel pressure for number two to make up your mind 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: and marry her, but you're still very passionate about Number 61 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: one and comfortable, very comfortable with her. So this is 62 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: a struggle you're having with yourself between wanting a family 63 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: but being truly in love with someone who you said 64 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: you would give the world to. You're deeply in love 65 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: with but doesn't want any more kids. I say, yes, 66 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: you're fifty one, but you are not ready to make 67 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: this kind of life changing decision for yourself. 68 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: Yet. 69 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: You need more time. 70 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 3: You're not ready for this, Steve, he gotta make this decision. 71 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 4: Well, the problem is, he's told between two lovers. He's 72 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 4: dated Lady one off and on for about six years. 73 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 4: I'm deeply in love with her. She has the ultimate 74 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 4: you know what. Now right here, we need to put 75 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 4: the brakes on right here. Any time you deeply in 76 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 4: love with the woman that has the ultimate you know what, 77 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: then my next line is, well, what else you want? 78 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 4: And you deeply in love with it? I don't even 79 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 4: know what the rest of this letter is about at 80 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 4: this point, but let's go further. And got me wanting 81 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 4: to be her king and give her a world. She's 82 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 4: a great cook and she's raised her two children by herself. 83 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 4: I can't help but keep running back to her because 84 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 4: I'm crazy about her and I don't want anyone else 85 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 4: to have her. All right, he's being honest. And then 86 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 4: there's a four month period when we was a part 87 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: and I ended up meeting Lady number two, and she 88 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 4: loves me and I've grown to love her too. She's 89 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 4: younger and ready to settle down to be my wife. 90 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 4: And we talk about having children together, and she wants 91 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 4: to said the twins. I've always wanted twins too. I'm 92 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 4: fifty one. I don't have children yet. Lady two is 93 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 4: able to give me children. Lady one is my age 94 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 4: and she can't have a baby for me. Well, she 95 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 4: fifty one. If she don't want one either, that's hard, man. 96 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 4: And we talked about different ways we could have a child, 97 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 4: but then she crushed me and said she don't want 98 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 4: to raise another child. 99 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 3: And I don't blame them. She to put her work here. 100 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: She got two kids, she's fifty one. 101 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 4: And that's what's pushing Lady number two up in the rankings. Really, now, 102 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 4: let me stop here for a minute. That's what's pushing 103 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 4: Lady two up in the rankings. So right now, whatever 104 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: your name is, Louis, I'm gonna just call you fifty one. 105 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 3: So fifty one, what you want is what you want. 106 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 4: You want good loving, you want both women, you want 107 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 4: a family, You want what you want. You don't want 108 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 4: to do nothing. I don't hear you asking any questions 109 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 4: about fulfilling anything for the women. So let me give 110 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 4: you a way to look at this when we come 111 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 4: back that can help you make your decision. 112 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 3: Because these these. 113 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 4: Questions I'm about to ask you, it ain't but one answer. See, 114 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 4: that's the thing about being a man. I know men 115 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 4: because we the same. Ain't no trick to this thing. 116 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:29,679 Speaker 4: You either is. 117 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 3: Are you eight? 118 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 4: In other words of Shirley, you either are. 119 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 3: Or you ain't. That's all about. 120 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: On today's Strawberry Letter at twenty three minutes after today's 121 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: title Torn between two lovers. We'll get back into it 122 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: right after this. 123 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 3: Hey, look, you can't let the. 124 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 4: Urge to sing your favorite songs while you're driving distract 125 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 4: you from that truck drifting toward your lane or that 126 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 4: lane splitting. 127 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: Biker creeping up beside you. 128 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 4: Fortunately, every Hundai offers advanced safety features that can alert 129 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 4: you to potential dangers around you. 130 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 131 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have one over one 132 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand 133 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: and six to twenty twenty four as of December twenty 134 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 2: twenty four. 135 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter, 136 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: very interesting one. It's called it Torn between two Lovers. 137 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 4: It's let us about this fifty year old man. It's 138 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 4: got two women and he trying to make a decision. 139 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 4: He's got Lady number one, he's been off and on 140 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 4: with for six years. He's head over heels in love 141 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 4: with this woman. Don't want nobody else to have her. 142 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 4: She has the ultimate you know what, and he just 143 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 4: loves her deeply. She has two children and she's raised 144 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 4: them on her own. She's a great cook and she's 145 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 4: just is nothing wrong with this woman. But they will 146 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 4: offer a few months and he met Lady number two. 147 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 4: Now he done fell in love with her. She's in 148 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 4: love with him and she wants to know what the 149 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 4: next move is. The difference is she's younger and she 150 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 4: can have children, which is what he wants herm and 151 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 4: the first lady have talked about having children different ways. 152 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 4: But then she crusted him and said she don't want 153 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 4: to raise no more kids. And I don't think you 154 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 4: understand what raising kids is because you don't wait till 155 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 4: you fifty one to try it. But I'm gonna tell 156 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: you right now. Raising kid is a young people sport. 157 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 4: I'm gonna just tell you that right now. Raising kids 158 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 4: is a young person's sport. You start trying to raise 159 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 4: kids when the baby ten, you're gonna be sixty one. 160 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: Bruh, you don't even know. 161 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 4: B You don't even know the energy that's required to 162 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 4: deal with children. But here you're talking about why you 163 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 4: wait this damn long? Six years ago you would have 164 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 4: been forty four, forty five, you and the woman could 165 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 4: have had a baby together. Then she would have been 166 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 4: more receptive to the idea. 167 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 3: But now you didn't wait it because you messing. 168 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 4: Around doing your thing that would kill Now, this is 169 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 4: the part about you. You donet waited to your ass 170 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 4: is damn there. Oh you have one hundred dollars, You've 171 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 4: already lived longer than you got left for the most 172 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 4: of us, and now you ready to make their life 173 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 4: altering decision. Well, okay, now you got a problem. Now, 174 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: the fact that the lady two can have children that 175 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 4: pushed her up in the rankings. 176 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 3: I'm torn between these two women. 177 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 4: I know it sounds horrible that I'm in love with 178 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 4: two women and comparing them like this, but I'm trying 179 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 4: to make the right choice, because marriage is forever. You 180 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 4: don't know that. I can tell you right now it 181 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 4: ain't anyway, that's nothing. Don't worry about that. There's no 182 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 4: chance for divorce. That's a lot. That's a lot. Sit 183 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 4: up here talking about there's no chance for divorce. You 184 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 4: can get that out your rabbit ass. 185 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 3: Mine. 186 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 4: I gave you right now, just like that, Just like that, drack, 187 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 4: I can end this praying with some paperwork and a 188 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 4: couple of donations. 189 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 3: Gim it, let's go anyway. 190 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 4: Sometimes I think I'll be fine with Number one, and 191 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 4: I do enjoy being around her children. She is fine 192 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 4: and with how we are now. She never pressures me 193 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 4: about marriage. Lady two keeps asking me what's next for us? 194 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 4: Do I choose the one true love that is indifferent 195 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 4: about being married, or do I choose the younger woman 196 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 4: who wants a future and with me that includes having 197 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 4: children with me. Okay, bro, listen, I could give you 198 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 4: a big, long, drawn out speech, but here's the two things. 199 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 4: Number one, you've talked about everything that's good for you. 200 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 4: You have not one time mentioned what would be good 201 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 4: for either one of these women. So now let me 202 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 4: ask you a question. Something you need to consider, because see, 203 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 4: you say you want kids, but let me that's your question. Man, 204 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 4: would you be the missing link for Number one's kids 205 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 4: that she has? Now, I don't know the relationship they 206 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 4: have with their father. I don't know if he active 207 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 4: in their life or not. But you have a great 208 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: relationship and you love her kids being around them, so 209 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 4: obviously they know you. Could you be the missing link 210 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 4: in them kids life? Sometimes you got to look at 211 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 4: the kids. You won't at the kids is already here. 212 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 4: You could be filling the gap. 213 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 3: But you ain't. But see you ain't. You ain't thinking 214 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: like that dog, and you need to. And then secondly. 215 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 4: Man, now the number one might not be mentioned marriage 216 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 4: because you ain't. There are a lot of passive, aggressive 217 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 4: women like this in this world, not even aggressive, just passing. 218 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna hanging that wait and see what he 219 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 4: ain't gonna do if he asked me. But you love 220 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:50,200 Speaker 4: a dealer. 221 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 1: They together six years. 222 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 4: Number two you fell in love with after y'all was 223 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 4: on and off again because you was out here messing around. 224 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 4: But you always say you keep running back to it, 225 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 4: and you want to be her keen and you don't 226 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 4: want nobody else to have her. Here's the one question 227 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 4: that ends this whole thing, because the answer ain't for 228 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 4: one one of the two you can't live without. And 229 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 4: it's only one. It's only one, Ain't no, I can't 230 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 4: live without both of them. That's no such a thing. 231 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 4: Here's the way you make this decision. After tomorrow you 232 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 4: will never ever see this person again. 233 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 3: Which one is the hard? 234 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: Oh? 235 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 4: No, oh no, I can't live without her. That's the 236 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 4: one you gotta go with. And I can tell you 237 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 4: based on this letter. 238 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 3: It's number one. 239 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 4: If you just quit being selfish with what you want 240 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 4: and think about what's good for other people, you might 241 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 4: come to the right conclusion. And I'm gonna tell you 242 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 4: something right now. Damn this you fifty one dollar. You're 243 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 4: too old with this. Here, I'm telling you right now. 244 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 4: When the baby ten, you're gonna be sixty one, When 245 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 4: the baby eighteen, you're gonna be seventy. 246 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 3: Sitting up at the graduation sleep all right? 247 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 4: And this young girl, you gotta think about your sexual 248 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 4: problems because you hit a minute, the clock is ticking. 249 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be what you was. 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