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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour. I'm Joe

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Speaker 1: and I'm Serena, and we are here with Noah and

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Speaker 1: Abigail from Bachelor in Paradise season What season were we guys? Anyways?

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Speaker 1: And then seven okay, and then Noah was Bachelorette season

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and Abigail was Bachelor Season twenty five. Wow, Hi, guys, welcome,

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Speaker 1: welcome back, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Hright, we missed you, guys, thanks for having us on

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Speaker 2: the pot.

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Speaker 3: Of course, no probably missed you.

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Speaker 1: Abigail, how's it going.

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Speaker 4: It's going going well.

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Speaker 1: Excited to chick chat your your backdrop? No, she's not.

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Speaker 1: There was there was, there was. There was zero enthusiasm

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Speaker 1: in that.

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Speaker 2: But I think you start over. Yours was a terrible interest.

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Speaker 1: No, we are not. We are not starting over. But

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Speaker 1: by the way, your backdrop looks wonderful. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: watch all your guys Instagram reels and you're you're doing

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Speaker 1: quite quite the job over there in Tulsa.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Joseph.

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Speaker 5: I truly had no idea we would be Bob the

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Speaker 5: Builder when we came back, but we're full embracing it

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Speaker 5: and we love it.

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Speaker 6: I do want to say when you guys said that

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Speaker 6: you were going to Tulsa and Abby, I'll show me

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Speaker 6: the house and was like, Noah's going to fix it up.

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Speaker 3: I doubted you one hundred percent.

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Speaker 5: Listen, we respect each other enough that all if you

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Speaker 5: say you doubted me, that's fine. I talked Josh and Joel,

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Speaker 5: I'll be open about it.

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Speaker 2: Same with you.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't sure I could pull it off either. Now, okay,

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Speaker 5: we got something around, but.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't sure, but I was.

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Speaker 6: I'm actually very impressed. I'm very impressed by both of

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Speaker 6: your skills. You really you have what it takes to

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Speaker 6: be an HGTV show, Like truly you've You've really flipped

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Speaker 6: this house.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's just weird from being fake busy as an

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Speaker 5: influencer to work in ten hour days manual labor and

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Speaker 5: it actually looking good.

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Speaker 2: So we we love it.

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Speaker 5: We're Abby's really good at it, I'm getting really good

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Speaker 5: at it, and now it's like, let's just stick with it.

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Speaker 5: But I'm truly surprised it turned out so well myself,

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Speaker 5: So don't feel.

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Speaker 1: Bad, Serena. Serena did doubt doubt you. But the truth

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Speaker 1: is I like Abigail much more than I like, Noah,

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Speaker 1: but I did not actually doubt you. I was when

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Speaker 1: when Serena said, I was like, no he, I think

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Speaker 1: he's gonna I think he's gonna do this. I didn't

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Speaker 1: do it, didn't do it very well.

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, we figure it out eventually. I'm just

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Speaker 5: glad that we didn't have too many, too many issues.

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Speaker 5: We don't share the problems that we have, but there

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Speaker 5: were a lot.

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Speaker 1: Well that's that's why you guys are That's why you

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Speaker 1: guys are here on happy hour. But yeah, Noah, you

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Speaker 1: guys you're both doing looks to be an incredible job.

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Speaker 1: I do want to ask before you started your own

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Speaker 1: home renal what we're like. What were the pros and

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Speaker 1: what were the cons?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to start?

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Speaker 4: Okay, the pros were It's really fun to be able

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Speaker 4: to do a project like us too, from start to finish.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it makes us appreciate our home a

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Speaker 4: lot more that we put less woe and tears into it.

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Speaker 4: The cons is living in a house when you're renovating,

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Speaker 4: it's not fun.

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Speaker 5: I'd like the record to show that was a choice.

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Speaker 5: I had a mile and a half away that was vacant.

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Speaker 4: But it was like a bachelor pad. It was yeah,

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Speaker 4: I would get anybody.

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Speaker 5: The pros are we can get an idea and figure

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Speaker 5: out how we want to do it, and then you

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Speaker 5: walk in a month later and it kind of looks

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Speaker 5: like the idea in your head, and you know you

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Speaker 5: did the work because I'm not in the hospital, so

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Speaker 5: I get bored. So this is my hospital right now

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Speaker 5: is designing stuff, building stuff, and it's like I.

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Speaker 4: Have a picture. I'm like, can you do this?

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Speaker 5: You're like, okay, yeah, it feels good because I'm myself

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Speaker 2: I don't know can I do that?

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Speaker 5: And then you know, put a little but a research

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Speaker 5: like the vision in my head. So the proser it

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Speaker 5: feels good and you save a lot of money. The

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Speaker 5: And do this for ten hours a day.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the hardest thing.

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Speaker 7: I know.

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Speaker 6: You guys like started with the kitchen and that was

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Speaker 6: obviously like a huge undertaking. I feel like eating out

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Speaker 6: for every meal for three months would be one of

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Speaker 6: the hardest non construction side effects.

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Speaker 4: It was that. And then we also started renovating in

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Speaker 4: the middle of summer, and we didn't have like running water,

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Speaker 4: And granted we could have bought a water filter and

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Speaker 4: made our lives so much easier, but we were going

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Speaker 4: like the bolk thanes of water. And yeah, it was

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Speaker 5: We chose to make life a lot harder than it was.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: Most people do we we also we also we also

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Speaker 1: do that. Was there ever so far? Has there been

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Speaker 1: any kind of like hiccup or rough patch where you've

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Speaker 1: had to call in help?

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Speaker 2: We'll call in.

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Speaker 4: It takes a lot for a suggest there. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: can we call for help? Can we ask for help?

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Speaker 5: You're like no, I'm like, it's only two in the morning.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean we don't need to call them. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: there's been stuff. There's I can if I have enough time,

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Speaker 5: I can figure out most things. But there are stuff

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Speaker 5: What am I doing? There's professionals like yeah, old in

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Speaker 5: four hours, and there's a bunch of guys that come in.

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Speaker 2: So there is stuff.

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Speaker 5: It's what we learned is with old houses, you think

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Speaker 5: you're gonna fix one thing.

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Speaker 2: Let's make a cute little.

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Speaker 5: Door with some shelves and whatever, add some trim, make

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Speaker 5: it look cool. Then you start actually doing it and

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Speaker 5: you find like ten other things there.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's it out, Okay.

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Speaker 5: So it's like just kind of just planning for that

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Speaker 6: But has been what's been like the biggest hiccup in

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Speaker 6: or what was the biggest thing that you were like,

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't believe this is happening.

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Speaker 5: I have a bad, naughty boy habit of working hard

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Speaker 5: building something than the last like twenty minutes. Just start

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Speaker 5: doing demo on something else. And then it's another.

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Speaker 1: Where you jump. So you so you before totally avoidable? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you jump.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think that's a common thing.

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Speaker 5: It'll be like on my way to sleep, like Abby's

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Speaker 5: already a bed, I've one eye open and I throw

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Speaker 5: I'll just demo this really quick just to get started.

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Speaker 5: And then I'm like, okay, great, that's ten more projects

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Speaker 4: I know because that's the moment where I was like,

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Speaker 4: why are we doing this?

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Speaker 5: The wallpaper that was a hiccup. I'll take it all back.

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Speaker 5: The wallpaper was the biggest hiccup.

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Speaker 2: We almost broke up.

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Speaker 1: Why why what happened?

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Speaker 4: Now? A moment where I almost had a full on breakdown.

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Speaker 5: I just think, if I'm gonna be honest, I think

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Speaker 5: wallpaper's cool. It's timeless, it's classy.

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Speaker 4: We are going to be hired.

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Speaker 2: It shouldn't exist.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that was like that's when I felt dumb, Like sure,

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Speaker 2: Now we have to make other people wait at kind

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Speaker 5: But you're living in the house, you're enjoying it, trying

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Speaker 5: once we're done with this house, we're able to work

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Speaker 5: on other houses, which we're doing, which is nice.

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Speaker 2: We're not living in a construction zone still.

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Speaker 1: So you guys, are you two rehabbing other homes together?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we kind of just decided, like we're practicing on

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Speaker 2: Got my own.

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Speaker 5: Abby's the designer. We're kind of just leaning into it

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Speaker 5: until it doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: I know, I love I think that's I honestly, I

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Speaker 1: think that's genius and I think, yeah, I think it's

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Speaker 1: so smart and Abigail, when it comes to design, is

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Speaker 4: Uh? It's a learning curve. I hated it at first

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Speaker 4: of things I'm like else, Shoot, I wish I did this,

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Speaker 4: but we already put so much money into it, were

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Speaker 4: it's going to write it out. But now I would

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Speaker 4: the belt. I actually love it and it's actually been

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Speaker 4: keep doing it for as long as we can kind

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Speaker 4: of move away from like the influencing space and more

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Speaker 4: into this would definitely be a fun, long term goal.

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Speaker 2: Joe, She's good. She's really good. I would always be

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Speaker 2: getting so good at decorating.

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Speaker 5: I said that for the first like six months, and

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Speaker 5: now it's like, no, I's definitely better at design than me,

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Speaker 5: and decorating in the vibes she makes are actually really cool.

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Speaker 4: Kick your credit card and I just.

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Speaker 5: Go, yeah, no, it's actually really cool. It's really nice

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Speaker 5: not having to work myself worry about that aspect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be good at it and enjoy it.

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Speaker 5: And then with you know, we're we're using social media

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Speaker 5: and stuff after the show, being able to share stuff

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Speaker 5: that we actually enjoy and I'm actually doing the work.

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Speaker 5: It is a lot more fun versus kind of what

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Speaker 5: also fun. It was just a lot more go go

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Speaker 7: We have a date venue, You have a location, okay,

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Speaker 4: You guys are, no question?

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Speaker 1: Well Noah, I mean here. So Noah. When we were

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Speaker 5: We're doing such a small wedding that I'm like in

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Speaker 6: It and you can really Okay, noah, Like I just

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Speaker 6: No, but do you know how this works? Like you

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Speaker 5: Don't send out an invite if it's an inconvenience and

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want any note. He just wants an invite.

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Speaker 5: If if I send an invite to you and Joe

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Speaker 5: Like and I'm like, okay, Joe doesn't want to be here,

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Speaker 1: No, where would I even how would where would I?

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Speaker 6: When in Oklahoma, what am I gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so Oklahoma is can we share? That is going

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Speaker 5: It's in Oklahoma, and it's going to be this year,

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Speaker 4: That's pretty much all the details we have at this point.

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Speaker 2: My family is about thirty, yes, so for meeting.

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Speaker 4: But hm, we're trying to keep it around seventy five

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Speaker 2: We want classy.

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Speaker 3: Dinner party, yes, luck, I love that.

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Speaker 2: And we loved your guys' wedding. Your guys wedding was great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Okay, we do. We do appreciate that. We

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Speaker 2: The big but the wedding was fantastic.

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Speaker 3: Double what you guys are thinking.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and then Marie and Kenny's party was like two

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we went to our wedding last week and it

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Speaker 1: Is there was there are there any takeaways from Serena

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Speaker 5: One thing that we are for sure doing that you

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Speaker 2: The espresso bar Espresso Martini brilliant? Were you guys?

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Speaker 5: That was?

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Speaker 1: That was a Serena idea.

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Speaker 2: That was the end of the night.

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Speaker 2: Espresso. All I heard was martini.

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Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of weddings, you say, And

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Speaker 5: And it worked because your guys's dance floor was great.

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Speaker 5: You guys got to dance. Joe wish I wouldn't have

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Speaker 4: I think the only thing that we're just doing a

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Speaker 2: See, that's why it's important to call before it.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 4: I did something there, but this I think it was

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I would recommend this actually, because we put

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would recommend that it was also just the

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Speaker 5: We weren't one of the ones sneaking in when the

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Speaker 2: I was specific about.

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Speaker 3: Lovely Well.

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Speaker 5: Part of the wedding thing for us is nobody knows

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Speaker 4: We're gonna show you guys a good time.

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Speaker 2: And we're wanting it to be, yeah, like a weekend fun.

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Speaker 5: There is a state in Oklahoma called Oklahoma that's a

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Speaker 2: So part of it's going to be like the weekend

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Speaker 5: Closest friends that we got over the last two years

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Speaker 1: No, I'm excited.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't picture Joe on a horse.

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Speaker 6: I've been on a horse yeah, I know, I just

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Speaker 6: I can't picture it. I've never seen you the ones

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Speaker 1: Actually I've actually been on one of those two. What

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Speaker 6: to get to go somewhere we've never been. We would

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Speaker 6: probably never go otherwise for like a weekend of celebration.

445
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 6: But maybe we will come back. Me we'll fall in

446
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 6: love with Tulsa. I know you guys are trying to

447
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 6: get everyone you know to move there. So maybe we'll

448
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 6: become best friends with Noahs seven hundred siblings and then

449
00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 6: we'll all hang out in Tulsa together.

450
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 1: Doesn't Sylvester Stallone have a have a TV show that's

451
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 1: based in Tulsa?

452
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 2: Tula King?

453
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: Okay? Is it?

454
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 4: Do it?

455
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:56,240
Speaker 7: What?

456
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

457
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

458
00:20:58,119 --> 00:20:59,719
Speaker 1: Is it good? I never watched it? Is it good?

459
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:02,639
Speaker 4: Extra?

460
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 7: Yeah?

461
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 5: He inhaled the helium balloon and fell over. That was

462
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 5: like his one scene.

463
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 2: Oh really, I thought it was good.

464
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 5: I thought it could have been better. I heard a

465
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,640
Speaker 5: lot of hype, like, oh, show about Tulsa. I was like, oh, heck, yeah,

466
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 5: it's gonna be good.

467
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 2: So that's just alone. I was like, Okay, a little cheesy,

468
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 2: but it was good.

469
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: Is it true to Tulsa.

470
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:22,719
Speaker 2: It is pretty true to Tulsa.

471
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,639
Speaker 5: It's he stays at the Mayo Hotel, which is like

472
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 5: an og because Tulsa's got in the twenties was the

473
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Speaker 5: oil capital of the world. There's decho, a lot of

474
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 5: old money, so there is a lot of that still here.

475
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 5: That's part of what's cool about it. So there was

476
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Speaker 5: that aspect. And they're legal marijuana now, so that was

477
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 5: also the other part of the show.

478
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: It's a big step for Oklahoma.

479
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,640
Speaker 6: I always forget that, like that's such a big deal

480
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 6: here because it's legal across Canada.

481
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 5: It's been legal in Canada, right, we didn't have Oklahoma

482
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 5: had three percent beer for until the like four or

483
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Speaker 5: five years ago.

484
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 1: So you couldn't go over three percent.

485
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 2: To go to a liquor store to get beer over

486
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Speaker 2: three percent.

487
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

488
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 1: A bar not long ago? What about it?

489
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,399
Speaker 5: Like a bar bar is different, but just over it

490
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 5: can't be cold if it's over three percent, and it

491
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 5: can't be sold at a liquor store now it can't.

492
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Speaker 3: So wow, you guys are evolving.

493
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Speaker 6: Watch out, watch out everyone, Tulsa.

494
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Speaker 2: I love it though. It's great. It's like a tiny

495
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 2: little like a whole month like everything.

496
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 4: Everybody's just so happy. It's slower, peace living.

497
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 1: So you guys are living in your own wholene.

498
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: What you guys doing, But it's just like slowly trying

499
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: to convince people.

500
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 3: It is crazy though, because.

501
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 6: I feel like Abigail, your life has evolved, maybe more

502
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 6: than most people from our season, because like we came

503
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 6: off the show, you were like living it up in

504
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 6: NYC as a single gal, partying hard, and then.

505
00:22:58,760 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 3: You've had Noah.

506
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Speaker 6: You guys were being in l a and like your apartment,

507
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 6: you guys were jumping around playing pickleball, and now you're

508
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 6: like wiped up Mary, living in a Hallmark movie small town,

509
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 6: being ship.

510
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 3: And enjoying the games. You've lived many lives. These passed

511
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 3: two years, both of us.

512
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,880
Speaker 5: I thought on Paradise that was one of the things John,

513
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 5: you and I didn't talk about anything important.

514
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 2: But one of the things I talked about. I thought

515
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 2: she was just like a New York party girl. I

516
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: was like, Wow, that's fun. That's cool, but you know,

517
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: in two years it's.

518
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 5: Not what I'm gonna want someone to want to settle down.

519
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 5: So it's funny to see how we both had.

520
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: Oh Noah, cut the bullshit. This guy.

521
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 4: There?

522
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: Anything else? Just a party or I just want to

523
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:47,640
Speaker 1: settle down.

524
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 6: Tell you what, Joseph, Wait, No, are you going to

525
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 6: go back to nursing at any point?

526
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: Do you think, dude, you and everyone to me that

527
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 2: I didn't quit nursing. No?

528
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 6: I know, I know you're like hunt, but if you're

529
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 6: loving what you're doing now, like, do you think you'll

530
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 6: continue to do that more actively?

531
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: I don't think I will right now. It's taking me,

532
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: like literally a whole.

533
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 5: Year of debating that question with myself because it's something

534
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 5: I've always wanted to do and.

535
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: I went to school for and it's my career. But

536
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: right now, with the real.

537
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 5: Estate stuff and kind of where we're at, I'm it's

538
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 5: sort of replacing what nursing was for me. But I'm

539
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 5: keeping all my my credentials and everything for a while.

540
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 5: If we run out of money trying to buy houses,

541
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 5: I can go back to work. But once we kind

542
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 5: of get settled more here then I would like to

543
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 5: get back, but right now it's kind of like it's

544
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 5: not really.

545
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 3: Feasible and taking a back seat.

546
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you guys something like right when we started

547
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: planning our wedding, I instantly started planning the honeymoon. Do

548
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 1: you have have you thought about where you want to

549
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: go for your honeymoon? See it's not even a think. Noah,

550
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: you and I are the same. Instantly we we we

551
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: are the guys want to plan the honeymoon.

552
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: Well, we've traveled together. We're Joe, we are world travelers.

553
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so of course they say where we should go,

554
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 5: pick where we should thrive and chack life the most

555
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 5: sure I can take that burning.

556
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 3: Experienced pick where we should thrive.

557
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 5: Oh, anyways we want to do We basically said no

558
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 5: trips except for Chicago where you saw me be a

559
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 5: wild animal.

560
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: Other than that, we haven't really done any trips just

561
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 2: because we've been so jam packed.

562
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Speaker 5: So our honeymoon we kind of want to do like

563
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 5: a big trip as like a reward for the house

564
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 5: stuff honeymoon, and we were planning she's Scottish. We were

565
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 5: planning to go to Scotland and all those Nordic places

566
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 5: until we realize it's winter, so probably, but I want

567
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 5: to try to do a couple of week, two to

568
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 5: four week trip.

569
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Speaker 2: We do it all then get back to work.

570
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 3: That's amazing.

571
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 2: No, I haven't planned it yet.

572
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna play a game with you guys before

573
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: we let you go. But seeing this as a Bachelor

574
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: Nation podcast, is there anything that you want to share?

575
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: Anything that that people may not know about you guys

576
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: that you want to share? If not totally Okay, it's

577
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: a weird question. I wouldn't be able to answer it.

578
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 3: What do you want? Like your pregnancy? Like what are

579
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 3: you fishing for right now?

580
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: I don't know?

581
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 3: Just like, like, is there anything you want right now?

582
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 2: Do you know something I don't know?

583
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's news listen.

584
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 5: The only update I guess from us is yeah, we've

585
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 5: been kind of removed from the show for a while,

586
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 5: but we still love the show. Our new chapter is

587
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 5: a lot different than I feel like a lot of

588
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 5: people would expect. It's very random, but it's been super fulfilling.

589
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: We love where it's at, and I'm hoping to keep

590
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 2: kind of continuing it nice.

591
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 1: Do you know something that I don't know. That's probably

592
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: for salvage. That's funny, all right, Okay, so we are

593
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: going to play rapid Fire Questions Wedding Edition with Abigail

594
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 1: and Noah. Okay, question number one, Big wedding or intimate ceremony,

595
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: intimate traditional or non traditional ceremony.

596
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 5: Probably that's a shock to a lot of Oklahoma people.

597
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 5: I feel like, I don't think we're going to do

598
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 5: a lot of like the groom's men and the brides

599
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 5: and the what they called the garter hunt, the little

600
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 5: all that.

601
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't that.

602
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: DJ or live band.

603
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 5: Live.

604
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 2: Are you literally just trying to get exactly what our

605
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 2: wedding is gonna be like?

606
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: Because I think, yeah, we're trying to say if we're

607
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 3: gonna come or not.

608
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, it depends on costs. But I also

609
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: have time.

610
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 4: You're gonna be the wedding.

611
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: Okay.

612
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 6: For the I guess was walking down the aisle, I

613
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 6: was playing already down there.

614
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 3: I only know one song.

615
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: I only know half this song.

616
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: For the for the music A must play song in

617
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: a song on your do not play list?

618
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 4: Okay, so far our do playlist?

619
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 2: Adore You Miley Cyrus A cover version maybe a violin.

620
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 3: Oh so classy.

621
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: It would be a shame to have a live fiddle.

622
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: It would be a shame.

623
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I do not play song. I have one go ahead,

624
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 4: the Paradise theme song. Like I just want to try

625
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 4: like Paradise and.

626
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: No, I get that.

627
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 6: We did say like we want callbacks to early periods

628
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 6: in our relationship, like Joe framed like the note I

629
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 6: gave him after Paradise, but like I was like, I

630
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 6: don't want like red roses or like tropical drinks or

631
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 6: the Paradise theme song.

632
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

633
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 5: One of the things we're going to try to do

634
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 5: is the people that have speeches, they write something out

635
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 5: before because we're gonna kind of have just like an

636
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 5: open time for speeches because it's such a small wedding,

637
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 5: and then we're going to try to let Abby read

638
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 5: or be able to read those or put them all

639
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 5: in like a picture frame after Unless we have no speeches,

640
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 5: one speech would be an awkward picture frame.

641
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 3: No one is going up there.

642
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: Open bar must have or no go must have Okay, Okay, Yeah.

643
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: Indoor outdoor wedding outdoor outdoor.

644
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: If the weather that was the biggest requirement for me.

645
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: Outdoor Oklahoma weather when it's bad, it's terrible.

646
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw your sister was over for like a

647
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 3: Tornadoesn't she have a.

648
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 4: Go tornado earth? Yeah? Alkloaholma guts everything.

649
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: Okay, just just to just to regard.

650
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: From us and shows up with her passport and her dog.

651
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: It's a thunderstorm, Okay, just to reiterate for just to

652
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: reiterate for all three of you. These are rapid fire questions.

653
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: So just I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm going to ask,

654
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: and you guys are just gonna say the first thing

655
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: comes to go by? Okay? Is this conversation as much

656
00:30:54,720 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: as I love it breaking the rules of Abigail one

657
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 1: perfect dress or outfit changes, I'll fit, changes, batch, party,

658
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: relaxing trip or Vegas.

659
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 2: Trip, relaxing golf? Was that too long of an answer?

660
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: You just made it too long like you were there

661
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: and then see now I'm jumping into it's the game?

662
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 4: Is the game?

663
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: Uh, Abigail, you didn't answer that.

664
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 4: Relaxing.

665
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: I find that I actually find it hard to believe,

666
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: considering you were such a party girl before.

667
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 4: I like that.

668
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: Couples cocktail, must have her no go, must have ideal

669
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: dress code for your guests.

670
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: You better look slick, but not slicker than me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, then I don't even know if I should go

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Speaker 1: because I'm super slick, don't Well, Okay, honestly love talking

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Speaker 1: to you guys. This has been a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on. I really do

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Speaker 1: hope you guys get like an HDTV show or something,

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Speaker 1: because I do think you're both very talented. And I

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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't watch it, but if I went to the

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Speaker 1: dentist and it was on, I would.

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Speaker 2: You're the kind of guy that wouldn't let Serena watch it.

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Speaker 2: She'd make you do some of the work we're doing.

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Speaker 7: I know you.

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Speaker 3: No, I would never allow you. No, I would.

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Speaker 6: I would be more likely to fly you out here

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Speaker 6: Noah to do it than recruit Joe to do handyman

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Speaker 6: work on our home.

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Speaker 3: Love you, Joe, but that's not your strength and we

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Speaker 3: both know it.

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Speaker 2: Well, all close this out since show can't close it out.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on.

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Speaker 5: You guys can check out our stuff at Noah Underscore HERB.

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Speaker 5: I'm just for soon to be her. We love you, guys,

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Speaker 5: and thank you for mentioning HGTV because we do want

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Speaker 5: to show.

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Speaker 1: You got it and thank you to all our listeners.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you guys tuning in and make sure you

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Speaker 1: exclusive interviews every week.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. Bye MHM