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Speaker 1: What is your favorite unpopular opinion? Calls up eight eight

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Speaker 1: four three one six one asked the question because this.

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Speaker 2: I really like cereal with ice in it. Plastic surgy

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Speaker 2: is kind of sad. We should protect gun rights is

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Speaker 2: not a big deal. I don't believe in secret keeping.

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Speaker 2: I really don't think that Beyonce is that great.

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Speaker 1: I don't think tupakistad. I think to pockets went.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand why garbage cans around. They should be

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Speaker 2: square so they can fit in a corner.

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Speaker 3: Dating as I have made wars.

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Speaker 2: I hate Taylor's left. What are these people?

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Speaker 1: And what from cut dot com website that's one hundred

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Speaker 1: people what their unpopular opinion is, and then they made

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Speaker 1: a super cut and put it on YouTube and that's

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Speaker 1: gone viral of people sharing their most unpopular opinions. Some

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Speaker 1: of those very good. Point. You know, they do makes

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Speaker 1: wear garbage cans. You can go find them and buy.

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Speaker 2: So I don't think I realiz how triggering this conversation

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Speaker 2: can be. Because here we go, guy, yes.

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Speaker 1: Call us, what is your unpopular opinion? Eight eight eight

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Speaker 1: three four three one oh six one. You can also

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Speaker 1: text it in at four one oh six one from

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Speaker 1: that audio right there, I'll play a little clip of

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Speaker 1: it again. There's one that I just wanted to highlight.

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Speaker 2: I really like cereal with ice in it. Plastic surgy

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Speaker 2: is kind of sad. We should protect gun rights is

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Speaker 2: not a big deal. I don't believe in secret keeping.

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Speaker 1: How's that an unpopular opinion of like a couple of those,

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Speaker 1: but especially that one. What I don't believe in secret keeping.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of people feel that way.

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Speaker 2: But you don't believe in secret keeping?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What Why would you not believe in secret keeping?

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Speaker 1: Which she's saying, don't keep secrets? Yeah, just be honest,

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Speaker 1: put it all out there.

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Speaker 2: But I think that if you have secrets, then somebody

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Speaker 2: asks you to keep a secret, I think that that's

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Speaker 2: kind of an honor that somebody's trusting you, so you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if somebody asks me to keep a secret, I

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Speaker 1: get that. Also. I just don't think people should have

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Speaker 1: secrets just in general, Like you should just be open

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Speaker 1: about whatever.

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Speaker 2: But what if some things you just want to be

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Speaker 2: open with certain people about. You don't need the whole

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Speaker 1: That's understandable. I guess it depends on what the secret is.

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Speaker 2: See, I told you this could be very very I

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Speaker 2: do believe in secret keeping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, never mind, I stand corrected. I'm okay

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Speaker 1: saying I'm wrong. People should be keeping secrets all day.

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Speaker 1: I guess call us eight eight eight three four two

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Speaker 1: is your unpopular opinion? Veronica?

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Speaker 3: Yes, so my unpopular opinion is that I really hate

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Speaker 3: Jack Black.

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Speaker 1: Really is that unpopular? He's not my favorite either. He

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Speaker 1: is one of the most talented people. I think Jack

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Speaker 1: Black is great. But Nina and you, Veronica agree, It's

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Speaker 1: like what else really like? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I really hate School of Rock, the best movie where

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Speaker 3: he's like, it's an that's that movie.

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Speaker 1: Actually watched this movie. No, actually face right now.

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Speaker 4: They were making straight A's and they came from the

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Speaker 4: dumb Days. That's the best movie that's ever been written.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I've happened.

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Speaker 3: Literally kidnapped children.

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Speaker 1: Small price to pay to move the world along Musically,

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Speaker 1: that's right, he did in that movie, didn't he. If

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Speaker 1: you didn't see the movie, well, how does he? I

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Speaker 1: can't remember how he does it? But I do remember

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Speaker 1: a van, Jack black and a bunch of kids, and

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Speaker 1: that is Veronica. You just changed our mind on that too.

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Speaker 1: I mean even even Brad kind of sugar said for

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Speaker 1: a second that's fair. For a second, I was like, wait,

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Speaker 1: did he steal kids?

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Speaker 4: And it turns out he did, but the kids wanted

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Speaker 2: Still bad.

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Speaker 1: Call us eight eight eight three four three eight eight

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Speaker 1: six one. We're asking you what your unpopular opinion is

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Speaker 1: because a YouTube video has gone viral from cut Dog

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Speaker 1: that asked acts that ask people that same question. Hey, Jeremy,

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Speaker 1: what is your unpopular opinion? Long fake eyelashes and long

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Speaker 1: fake nails.

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Speaker 3: I cannot stand them?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, is that unpopular? I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I like long eyelashes,

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Speaker 1: and I like on the person. It's for me. It's

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Speaker 1: depends on the person, right, So depends if you can

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Speaker 2: But I think he's talking about the ones that look

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if they're too long, really fake looking, then if

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Speaker 1: that's crazy. Are those actually your eyelashes or you know?

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Speaker 1: But though there are the ones that you can tell,

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Speaker 1: does look like a venus fly trap on your face?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeremy, thank you? Which it could be a fuck

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Speaker 1: a good function. It sounded like I was about to

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Speaker 1: swear I was gonna say functional, very functional, but like.

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Speaker 2: You start walking around going like this, blinking your eyes.

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Speaker 1: Trying to catch things, catch flies, right, if you got

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Speaker 1: fly if you got a f fly problem, just use

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Speaker 1: your eyebros. I mean, it's not a bad idea. Call

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Speaker 1: like uh, when I was trying to say function, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Here's here's a little bit more audio from

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Speaker 2: I really don't think that Beyonce is that great.

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Speaker 1: I don't think Tupakista that was the one. Beyonce. I

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Speaker 1: Nina was like, what.

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Speaker 2: I did say that? And I looked at the text

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Speaker 2: Beyonce is not all that.

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Speaker 4: It was on my list of things that I don't

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Speaker 4: I think Beyonce is completely and totally overrated.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like you have to like her music,

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Speaker 2: that just oozes out of everything that she does.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to acknowledge that, Brad, you don't. I

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Speaker 1: She's definitely talented.

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Speaker 4: She has talent, yes, of course, right, but I think

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Speaker 4: I don't think that she's any better than the Avri

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Speaker 2: What now, I just don't trust you. Just making sense

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Speaker 1: Why do you think that about Beyonce. I think she was.

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Speaker 4: Part of a trio. I think she got lucky. I

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Speaker 4: going to continue to earn and make bigger. And she's

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Speaker 4: part of his system. And that's about it.

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Speaker 2: That makes no sense.

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Speaker 1: Terrible. I've never seen her lives, not to save her life,

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Speaker 1: which is also a lie.

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Speaker 2: I've seen her live multiple times, especially on the Run tour,

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Speaker 4: She was on the stage hammered doing a bunch of

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Speaker 2: Also, don't know what show you saw it, because we

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Speaker 2: definitely saw different shows. We can talk about this Beyonce

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling it's gonna be an interesting day

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Speaker 1: in studio. I just I'm really glad we brought up

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Speaker 2: It just makes me not trust anything you say. Like,

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Speaker 2: that's what that does to me?

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Speaker 1: Call us eight eight eight three four three six one

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Speaker 1: And by the way, if you want to pay a

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Speaker 1: come sit in the studios and watch the fireworks. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: it's worth it. It's gonna be worth the worth the

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Speaker 2: It's just gonna be silent when we stopped talking on

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Speaker 2: the radio. I'm passive aggressive with my anger. It'll be

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Speaker 1: For a little while and then yeah, and then it'll

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Speaker 1: be like anyway, Beyonce, what's your unpopular opinion? Hit us

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Speaker 1: up texted in four one O six one. Relationship are

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Speaker 1: a lot like Nascar the Jewbill Show. It feels like

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Speaker 1: forever just driving around in circles, and every once in

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Speaker 1: a while you get your bumper smashed. That's the nice part.

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Speaker 1: you have to pay attention to all these flags to

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Speaker 2: At least that's better than your car exploding.

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Speaker 1: So okay, cool, I think I've.

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Speaker 4: Heard a more accurate description of relationships with the flags

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the never ending long road of just trying

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Speaker 1: to navigate the whole confusing things. Yeah. Well, TikTok users

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Speaker 1: are convinced that there's a new relationship red flag, and

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Speaker 1: body language experts are co signing it. So there's a

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Speaker 1: there's all kinds of flags in the dating world. There's

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Speaker 1: green flagge is, there's base flags in it just means

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Speaker 2: You're like, the person is just boring.

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Speaker 1: red flag, which is the most important flag to pay

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Speaker 1: attention to in the dating world. And there is a

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Speaker 1: red flag that apparently you can tell in someone's body language.

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Speaker 1: They're saying that somebody walking ahead of you in a

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Speaker 1: to it. I also am going to agree with that.

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Speaker 1: But what do you guys think, you know, like.

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Speaker 2: When like if they're walking ahead of me to go

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Speaker 2: to do what, Like, I don't know. I think that

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Speaker 2: there's reasons why sometimes people would walk in front of

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Speaker 1: So that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I think. I'm the person that's usually the one walking

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Speaker 1: And he was like, I think that's fine all the time,

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Speaker 2: Don't pay It's just because sometimes I walk really fast

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Speaker 1: It's a red flag if I go get back here

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Speaker 1: Because you want to walk with the person you're with, right,

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Speaker 2: Because I just feel like for me, I don't even

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Speaker 2: Then wouldn't you stop and say something at that point?

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you shouldn't have to.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how many times I've heard the following.

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Speaker 1: way I look at it. Hey, Amber, Yeah, do you

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: So normally, if you're in an elevator and you see

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, you hit the door. It depends. Sometimes sometimes

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Speaker 2: Every time, and it would make it so awkward. He

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Speaker 1: knows what. Yeah, thank you for your phone call, Amber, Ali. Hello, Ali, Hi,

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is Ali.

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Speaker 3: I'm such a big fan of you guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for calling me. Appreciate it. Do

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Speaker 1: you think it's a red flag if someone walks ahead

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, so this is my predicament. My boyfriend is

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and the situational naturally.

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Speaker 3: Like he walked very fast, and so like, is it

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Speaker 1: All right this time for your phone.

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Speaker 3: What you should do is I always hold my boyfriend's

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you a little.

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Speaker 1: And I'm going to do that next time we hang out.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna happily do that. And he will be so

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Speaker 1: And he can just leave me Sarah's jew.

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