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Speaker 3: And I have lots of people in my family that

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Speaker 2: excited to come or tonight. Rather, let's maintain the reality

438
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 2: for the listener.

439
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 3: They can see it.

440
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was looking forward to it. I thought Sam

441
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: is incredible. Huh, We'll have a lovely time, thank you,

442
00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 2: and then I'll send him on his way.

443
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 3: Hmm.

444
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 2: So I was a little surprised the podcast is called

445
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 2: I said no gifts, and uh, you are very well

446
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 2: aware of that as far as I know. I know

447
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 2: emails have been exchanged. I know that Analisea is using

448
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 2: the title of the podcast, unless that's something that they've

449
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 2: changed recently.

450
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 3: You never know what's gonna come out of Onalisa no.

451
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 2: On, Lisa's a wild card.

452
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 3: You let me know when I can speak up for myself,

453
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,719
Speaker 3: when I get to say my piece, I'll say it now.

454
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm a I'm a Southern gentleman, and one never enters

455
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 3: a home without a little something in one's hand, a

456
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 3: little bread and butter. President Lan Yappa, Hostess Gift Bridge

457
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 3: of Maria, Divina, Victoria.

458
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 2: Wyeger Bridgie Whiney. Well, that feels like a dee Okay,

459
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm fully accepting that rationale. How can I deny that

460
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: you did? You kind of stomped into the back. Not

461
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 2: I would not describe as little a gift.

462
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,439
Speaker 3: Look at me, I'm like, thank you all the gift.

463
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 2: The gift, I would say, is one of our bigger

464
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 2: gifts that has come to this podcast.

465
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 3: Well, if you're going to disobey, disobey fervently, emphatically and largely.

466
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 2: Well should we open it here on the podcast? You

467
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 2: tell me, I'm happy to I'm in a good mood.

468
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 2: Let me grab it here. It's it's large. Get no,

469
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm the host here. Let me you don't. Don't you

470
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: lift a finger? Ah, this is unbelievable. It's the size

471
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: of I would say a picture frame, a lot, not

472
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: a small, but a large I don't know, two feet

473
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: by three feet sure, possibly four, possibly four. And it's

474
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 2: wrapped in this very stylish gift wrap.

475
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 3: And I want you to know that I'm currently without staff.

476
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 3: So I did that myself, and I am not gonnat it.

477
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: You did a better job. I mean, if I had

478
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: done this, it would not have come together. If this

479
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 2: looks lovely.

480
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: You didn't have singles living class in tenth grade, which

481
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: was homech for co ed homech where you had to learn,

482
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 3: among other things, how to make a chocolate covered peanut

483
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 3: butter ball.

484
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: And how to wrap a gift. We did learn how

485
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 2: to make the chocolate covered peanut butter balls. The no

486
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: bake cookies that we just had a homech.

487
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 3: Well, they I think because of the you know, the

488
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 3: outrageous misogyny and sexism that they had to call it

489
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 3: not homech because boys were in this class singles living

490
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 3: how to.

491
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: Like singles for a class. Our best named class was

492
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Speaker 2: Tech two thousand.

493
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 3: Oh wow, the computers the year like you guys won't

494
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 3: believe it's gonna happen.

495
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: I don't know why they as they came closer to

496
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 2: the year two thousand, they didn't update that, just throw

497
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 2: a three in place of the two.

498
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 3: Listen, it didn't change twentieth century Fox. They're like, we're

499
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 3: sticking in the olden change all the loos. Shall I

500
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:57,959
Speaker 3: hold it?

501
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 2: Yeah? You tell me because this is a I mean,

502
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: I haven't unwrapped something like this on the podcast before,

503
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 2: so you direct how I should open it.

504
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 3: Well, you can open it, let me feel something, and

505
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 3: it's so beautifully if you if she opened this little yeah,

506
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 3: that's just a little extra garnish off the garden because

507
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 3: I'm fun. And then you just keep going, I'm gonna

508
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 3: hold hold it solidly while you.

509
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 2: I don't like to tear up the paper, you know,

510
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you know I want to show something the

511
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 2: job you did. It is expensive. This.

512
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have a supply of wrap. I'm no

513
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 3: candy spelling anybody, but I do have a supply of wrapping.

514
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: The gift wrapping room still exists. Do we know in

515
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 2: my house at Candy Spellings. Oh, that's a good question.

516
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: Somebody should do a look into that.

517
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: Now.

518
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 2: I can't imagine she still lives there. Does she still live?

519
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

520
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, she's still alive. Oh, I don't know is

521
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 2: still alive? And I have to imagine she carries the

522
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: tradition on with a gift wrapping room.

523
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: Well, they I remember they were. They were famous.

524
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 2: A strange toe over the gift trap room. Alive candy, candy,

525
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 2: reach out some old candy. Okay, we're opening, We're opening.

526
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna help you. Okay. And I'm on the other

527
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: side of whatever this is. So I haven't I haven't

528
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: seen it yet. So this is kind of actually a

529
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 2: fun video. It's never been more excited. I'm excited on

530
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 2: a mountain side in my life. Oh my god, wait,

531
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: who is this? This is a giant photo of a

532
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 2: shirtless man, uh smiling in a swimming pool. Who is

533
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: this alis. Do you know who that is? Oh?

534
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: Now I want to burn it. I mean, hooray for everyone.

535
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 3: Don't kill me that it didn't occur to my ancient

536
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 3: old the oldest gen X possible ass that you might

537
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 3: not know who that is?

538
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 2: Who is it?

539
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 3: It's Telly Savalis TV's co Jack.

540
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: He is getting out of a pool. I have always

541
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,120
Speaker 2: been very much lustful for him. He's very good looking. Yeah,

542
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: he look. Do you do you know Kojak at all?

543
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 2: Do you I'm familiar with the title of Kojak and

544
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 2: I always mix it up with the Stephen King dog movie.

545
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 2: Uh Kujo Cujo? Okay, I've seen neither.

546
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 3: I have this is you know, I've never seen Kujo

547
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 3: even though my Paldani pantaro is in it, because I

548
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 3: don't I love dogs, and that freaked me out right.

549
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 2: And you know what the story is, it's just about

550
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 2: I mean, it's not just about a demon dog.

551
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 3: What's the dog's who's rabies? Oh that's their dog and

552
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 3: they're trapped in the car and the heat and the kid.

553
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 3: This is the original, but one of the early pioneers

554
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 3: of like the boy needs his inhaler or his diabetes,

555
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 3: he needs his rabies shot. He's going too.

556
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 2: I was terrified of rabies as a kid, so this

557
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 2: would have killed me. But you grew up in the country, right. Yeah.

558
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 2: There was like this feeling of like, if my mouse

559
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: bites me, I'm going to get rabies and die like

560
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: a pioneer. Did you read a bit my snake? No?

561
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: Did you?

562
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, a little bit, not not poisonous. I've killed I've

563
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 3: killed copper heads with a garden. It was like that. Wow,

564
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: it was like that we had like a barn and ship.

565
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 2: Wowow. Telly Savalis is.

566
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 3: A Greek American actor who it was Kojak was a

567
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 3: detective and he always has had a lollipop o catphrase

568
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 3: was who loves your baby? I think google it? Please,

569
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 3: I will. I would like to announce that this is

570
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 3: a regift.

571
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 2: Okay, this is a gift. I mean you don't want

572
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 2: any tacky, tacky tacky or valuable recycling to save the planet.

573
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 3: Do you know Sarah Thire?

574
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 4: Uh?

575
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: Yes, of course Sarah was moving out of that house

576
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: because she yes, of course yes, and she had this

577
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 2: amazing yard garage sale and Rosernandez and I went over, Yes,

578
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: come my best friend and come over and get stuff,

579
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 2: and she h, I bought this from her.

580
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 3: Wow, and and so I was, it's we have you'll

581
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 3: come over. I wish I had a giant, big number

582
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: birthday this year, and I wish i'd known you, But

583
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 3: I would.

584
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: Have been by the both of you, Oh God, when

585
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 2: I was ten years from now.

586
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 3: Another Yeah, well, fingers crossed or not?

587
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 2: Well, your last birthday was ninety. We are waiting. We're

588
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: hoping you get to one hundred.

589
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 3: Or you can bring ceramic cake to the forest line.

590
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: I will lead the charge, and I want a ceramic

591
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: cheesecake from Juniors in New York. Why what is that?

592
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: Who's that lady coming out of me? Anyway?

593
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 3: I love this.

594
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: So if you're just gonna, if you're gonna gift it,

595
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: this will not be regifted. Okay, good, I mean, so

596
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: now you'll put me in a compromise position. Yeah, because

597
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 2: it seems like you kind.

598
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 3: Of wanted Well, no, I took up the good news

599
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 3: about today's society is I took a photo of it

600
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 3: before I wrapped it. Okay, but we have a big

601
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 3: garage at our place, which is like sort of a

602
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 3: music room and sort of a cool rumpus room. Seventies

603
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: rock and roll things, lots of Now it's a lot

604
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 3: of storage stuff, but like it's jock chocoa block full

605
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 3: with all kinds of posters and stuff. And it's time

606
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: to to in the herd.

607
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: So I thinned, Telly.

608
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't imagine having a house anytime soon

609
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 3: or ever where I could have the space to hang that.

610
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 3: You clearly do looking at a giant white wall behind

611
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 3: on Alice.

612
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hang this in my backyard.

613
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 3: Cut, I'd hang it over my bed, frankly, but you

614
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 3: know what, guess what hold this microphone? Oh no, I'll

615
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: hold it because that's not all.

616
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh there's more.

617
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 3: Oh. Also, Sarah when we got these, she's like, just

618
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 3: so you know, I have no I'm fine with.

619
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: You if you were gifting it, okay. And I'm not

620
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: even gonna go through the pretense of where was Sarah

621
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: hanging this in her home? It was in like a

622
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: in her old home. It was like in a I

623
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: don't know because it was down.

624
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 3: By them, but I think in one of the like

625
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 3: the pool house Maids.

626
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,719
Speaker 2: That makes sense. This is kind of near the pool

627
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: or a visan area. Yeah, he's in the pool, yes,

628
00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 2: Sex you.

629
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 3: Know, and frankly, I wish the camera would And now.

630
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: I know this is ah. I guess well they got

631
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: there's a zero headroom. I guess that, torso. Just do

632
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 2: you well.

633
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 3: He's also famously on the Twilight Zone episode Talking Tina,

634
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: the talking doll.

635
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: Oh wow, he's the dad. Oh he's a dad. Wait

636
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: was this Twilight Zone in the sixties?

637
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, early sixties, black and white.

638
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 2: How old was he in Kujo? He's in code? He

639
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 2: was not in coach? What am I telling you?

640
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 3: Well, you know, when you're little in the seventies or now,

641
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: and people who are in their thirties or forties seem

642
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 3: old old. Everyone's like an old person. So he was

643
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 3: also shaved head, bald guy, so he seemed older. But

644
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 3: I don't know, probably only in his forties.

645
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I guess in the sixties the dads were

646
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: like in their twenties.

647
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 3: Exactly, yes, yes, so I also do you know Battle

648
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: of the Network Stars?

649
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 2: Do you remember that? I no, I liked the sound

650
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: of this.

651
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: Do yourself a favor tonight while you are pleasure yourself,

652
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 3: google Battle of the Network Stars swimming competition. Ladies and gentlemen,

653
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 3: no matter whom you are or what you are, you know,

654
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: casting your eyes uponst sex like skinny I mean not

655
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 3: skinny people or all sizes, but like thin layers of

656
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 3: latex fabric over ladies and gentlemen, the Charlie's Angels, the

657
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 3: Scott Veo. Sorry, like just swimming and jumping, and.

658
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: So it was like Olympics for series regulars.

659
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.

660
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 2: It's exactly what do you not know that?

661
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 3: Oh you've got to watch it. Oh my god, I

662
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 3: don't know what your situation is or if this is

663
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 3: your wife over here.

664
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 2: But I'm gay, all right, so I'm straight.

665
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 3: You better be more more man, The more man the better.

666
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 3: You said, no gifts for you, But is there any

667
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 3: rule about bringing gifts for your gentleman friend? There could be, okay,

668
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: but there's a caveat for this. You cannot tell Sally Struthers.

669
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna open this up. I'm gonna do you

670
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: know what I'm gonna do with the We're gonna come

671
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 2: back to the picture, of course. But it's been leaning

672
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 2: against me.

673
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 3: Why don't I take it from you?

674
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,719
Speaker 2: No? Don't all right?

675
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 3: Oh oh, oh, probably could reuse this too. I really

676
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 3: did a solid by you. I've given you all sorts

677
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 3: of things.

678
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: Okay, now we're back, and okay, you want me to

679
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: open this one. Now, this is a smaller item. This

680
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: is more the size of a book, so you can

681
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: open this up.

682
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 3: It's not for you, it's not for me. And I'm

683
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: hoping that I know the name of your partner.

684
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: It's Candace, Candace Spelling. I was being very coy when

685
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 2: I brought her up. Is she still alive? It is

686
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: my wife, still alive?

687
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 3: Does anyone know?

688
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, this is like a okay, wait, it's some

689
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: sort of paper. It has an s for some goula. Yeah,

690
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is so sweet. Well this is

691
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 2: also a regift. Okay.

692
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 3: And like I said, don't tell Sally Struthers, because when

693
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 3: I had this big birthday party, Sally Struthers was there.

694
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 3: Of course, I love her. She's a delight. We had

695
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: worked together before. We have friends in common. It's one

696
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 3: of those dreams where you're like, I'm gonna be friends

697
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 3: with Sally Straws.

698
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 2: One day She's like, now, this is just part of

699
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: my life. One day I'm shooting a scroll in the face.

700
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 3: The next day, Sally Struthers and me are on Gilmore

701
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: Girl's or Reimagined or whatever that thing was called.

702
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 2: She gave me this box.

703
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 3: She brought it up the stairs at our house. I

704
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 3: can't believe she could lift it. It was filled with

705
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 3: stationary with S's on.

706
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 2: It of Sally Struther's stationary.

707
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,240
Speaker 3: I think so now I'm an s sam Pancake Joseph

708
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 3: Samuel Pancok the third. If you're really gonna try to,

709
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 3: you know, steal my identity, good luck, no one wants it.

710
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 3: But she brought me so much great s logoed monogram.

711
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 3: It's not a monogram. I don't think it's just one letter.

712
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, this.

713
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 3: Young bridger is from a block like that.

714
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 2: Wow, that much paper And.

715
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 3: I was like, I bet no one bought brings Jim

716
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 3: mister smagoola right to love this. Yeah, so he can

717
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 3: write and write letters instead of like doing direct communication

718
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 3: because a lot of irritating behavior. Also, doesn't he have

719
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: a good doesn't he have a mustache?

720
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 2: He does have a mustache paper. I'm talking these other people,

721
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 2: I'm talking together around my boyfriend rather than me. Yeah,

722
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: where is he? By the way, you didn't wear these

723
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 2: and gray flannel sweats for nothing? I'm wearing panties don't

724
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 2: turn off the lights click. Well, this is wonderful. So

725
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: you have a bunch of other s labeled stuff. I

726
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 2: don't know how I'm gonna what I'm gonna do with it? Yeah,

727
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: but because like this could last for the rest of

728
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: a lifetime, just this one piece, this notebook.

729
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 3: What was I I'm not complaining, I'm delighted, I'm excited,

730
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 3: I'm caring. I'm glad I have it.

731
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: But what was I to do with all that? Right?

732
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: Other thn regift to all there's like stationary? Have you

733
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 2: started using any of it? Yeah? What do you use

734
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 2: it for? I'll write a thank you notes? Okay, that's good.

735
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 2: There we go.

736
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 3: I also from all these hotels I've been to from

737
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 3: mostly from work. Like, as I said to my friend,

738
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm so such a spoiled little bitch on other people's

739
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 3: dimes in terms of travel, and.

740
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: That's the best feeling in the world.

741
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 3: But I have every single little notepatty thing. Oh to

742
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 3: the degree that it's getting you know, where are you keeping?

743
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: Well? I have a system. I have the system.

744
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 3: I live in a very small house and it is

745
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 3: filled with stationary. At this point, I have these little

746
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 3: I bought these little like carrying, like I think they're

747
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 3: for arts and crafts, And they have all these little

748
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 3: pockets and slots, and you have like this one slot

749
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 3: is all has notepads in it and one has like

750
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 3: stickers in it. And I'm that gal.

751
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: And are you writing letters? Are you mailing things? Or

752
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 2: is just thank you notes and the occasional.

753
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 3: Thank you notes? I do Christmas cards?

754
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: I do.

755
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 3: I have again, five others and sisters, seventieses and nephews

756
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: and some aunts and uncles that I also send Birthday

757
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 3: and Christmas cards to all of them. So I do

758
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 3: a lot of that.

759
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 2: What sort of Christmas cards? Are you doing? That picture

760
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 2: of you nudes?

761
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: None?

762
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 3: I do you know?

763
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 2: It depends they're so expensive. Oh I can't imagine. Do

764
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 2: you do Christmas cards? I just have no holiday spirit?

765
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: Watching good for you?

766
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: I used to comfort me, and now I'm going through

767
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 3: the motions. But I just will buy a couple of

768
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: boxes of Christmas cards. I used to get really when

769
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 3: I was working in Vancouver for like five years, on

770
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 3: and off. I would They had really good ones there,

771
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 3: which you can get everything online now, but I would

772
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 3: go to the to the.

773
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: Museum there a Vancouver and get the fancy arts, the

774
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 2: mom ones really nice.

775
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 3: And now you go down to paper source and it's

776
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 3: goddamn twenty five dollars.

777
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 2: For seven cars.

778
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 3: The fox sitting there with a Santa hat and a

779
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 3: smirk on his face.

780
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 2: And then I just think about my own behavior about

781
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: when I get Christmas cards. I I'm opening them next

782
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: to the garbage cane. It's just, I mean, even people

783
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 2: I deeply care about. I look at it for a

784
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: minute and I think, Okay, this doesn't need to be

785
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: in my house anymore.

786
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 3: That's so sort of you I don't have, and it's

787
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 3: getting borderline horder line now. But I will get those

788
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: beautiful photograph ones of families and their children, right, and

789
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 3: some of them are so beautiful and.

790
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 2: Fun and I put them.

791
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 3: I have my date book becomes a scrapbook. Okay, I

792
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 3: should gift you with one of those, but they're too precious.

793
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 3: But I will put They'll tuck them in the pocket

794
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 3: at the back. That's a good idea and my request.

795
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 3: And I'll say this again in public, and my family

796
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 3: knows this when I die, which hopefully.

797
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,720
Speaker 2: Will be any day now. Not funny.

798
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 3: I want them all laid out at the memorial service

799
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 3: so people can go through them. Oh, my friend, the

800
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 3: afore mentioned Johnny McGovern He I don't know if I

801
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: said that on camera off, but Johnny is charged with

802
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 3: going through them and making sure where I wrote down

803
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 3: fun sexy times things.

804
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: Oh sure, look it out completely. It'll be lost to history.

805
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: We lost history.

806
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 4: Do that.

807
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: It'll be a mind of Johnny McGovern and the you know,

808
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: happy you'll have to leave those open for future generation,

809
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,959
Speaker 2: the happy pleasures of the boys who that was cut

810
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: that out. No, you have got to leave that. You've

811
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 2: got to leave that. That's the fun of looking through

812
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: this sort of thing. Okay, well, yeah, all right, some

813
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: you have to. The reader has to expect I'm diving

814
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: into Sam's personal life. Who knows what I'm going to learn.

815
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 3: Well, it'll just be the guy's name, and it'll be like, uh,

816
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 3: not a grade because I'm all left, believe me, but

817
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 3: I just it'll be like a little smiley or harder,

818
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 3: like some little dirty thing.

819
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 2: You have to leave that. Why am I telling you

820
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: this so I can argue for you to keep it?

821
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: Okay, done, I'm easily sway. And you gotta get a

822
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 3: hat on your shoulders, do you have a Christmas tree?

823
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 3: Do you do Christmas tree?

824
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 2: I when my boyfriend's here, will do it when he's not.

825
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: This year, I always it been Rocky's Street, in and out. Listen,

826
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 2: I've been there screaming matches. No, he's been living in

827
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 2: New York. But so this year, about December fifteenth, I said,

828
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 2: there are no Christmas decorations whatsoever. This is a This

829
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: is kind of a dark thing for a person to

830
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 2: be living in a house with nothing. So I put

831
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: some Christmas lights around like a house. I mean, this

832
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 2: isn't getting any college dorm how but do you have

833
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 2: like a like a pyramid of bud light cans too,

834
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 2: with a mistletoe on top? This is actually wait, worst

835
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: it is. No, that's grim And I don't mean it's

836
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 2: seen it Sam, it was. It was. It was more

837
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,439
Speaker 2: charming than you would I believe. I put some along

838
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 2: the top of the piano. I put some on some shelves.

839
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 2: I just didn't put up a tree because I don't

840
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 2: have to strike. And you know, the the payoff is

841
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: not worth it for me.

842
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 3: I understand. I've done years without a Christmas tree, and

843
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 3: I do it now because I finally switched to artificial

844
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 3: after years of holding out, and I went to Low's

845
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 3: because my place is my little tiny house and not

846
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 3: a tiny house, but like my house is small. And

847
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: I got this thick on the pencil tree and loaves

848
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 3: which is thinner.

849
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 2: Oh, it takes a less space. And the lights.

850
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,240
Speaker 3: The lights were always the biggest fight.

851
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: When I was a child. I don't know why.

852
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 3: Putting the Christmas tree lights up was always like battle

853
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 3: ground central.

854
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 2: Everyone wanted to do it. I just remember, I don't know,

855
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 2: I hate doing that.

856
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 3: I hate doing it too. And this was olden times.

857
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 3: You couldn't run down to target and get a new string.

858
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 3: You unwrapped like what was leftover from last year and

859
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 3: pray they all worked. And it was also it was

860
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 3: a struggle for control for sure of each other siblings.

861
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 2: But what was my point? Oh, this has the lights

862
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 2: on it built in. He built in very nice white,

863
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: a colored.

864
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 3: I just went white. I wish they were a little

865
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 3: more golden.

866
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: Go oh yeah, if they're a little blue, it starts

867
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 2: to feel like it's too it's a little vape store,

868
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Yes, I do.

869
00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 3: It's that led harshness. It's just like it's not warm.

870
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 2: Add a little yellow to that little or something I do.

871
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: My sister does both, and I that's confusing the migraine.

872
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 3: But like she, they have a beautiful tree.

873
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 2: Okay, I like a color or a warm white.

874
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 3: I missed the big blockie bulbs that were uh colored.

875
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 3: They don't have them anymore. I don't think they make

876
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 3: them anymore. That's like literally from the sixties and seventies.

877
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: Like the ones that were quite large, yes, that you

878
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: would put like almost on a roof. Yeah, oh yeah,

879
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: I love. They must still make them somewhere artistically, probably

880
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 2: the ones I don't like her. Have you ever seen

881
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,479
Speaker 2: the ones they hang from the roof that are like icicles? Yeah,

882
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: they don't. It doesn't look like an icicle to me.

883
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to tell you, though, I kind of don't

884
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 3: mind them in the right place.

885
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 2: And I haven't seen it yet. I believe me.

886
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 3: I was raised to like, do not be tacky. When

887
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 3: you said called me tacky earlier about destroyed me. But

888
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 3: I was like, my, the things the worst thing you

889
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 3: could be with taky, And so I got an eye

890
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 3: out for taky and in the good tacky and the

891
00:42:59,480 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 3: bad tacking.

892
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: And I know that, but I like that Tachy, you

893
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 2: like that, Tachy. I keep thinking I see a cat

894
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: come up the driveway, and I realized the cats come

895
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: back here. And the other night there was a skunk.

896
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was incredible to see it.

897
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 3: I woke up at four am a few nights ago

898
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 3: because my place it was there was a skunk right

899
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 3: outside and it was so strong. I woke up and

900
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 3: couldn't get back to sleep.

901
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like permeating the walls. Yes, good grief. Yeah,

902
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: it was bad. Well, I was really through a big

903
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 2: French window kind of a situation. Was that I live

904
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: in a shed. Basically, have you ever were around Valentine's

905
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 2: I imagine this will be released after but do you

906
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 2: have any memorable Valentine's stories? Oh god, I am not.

907
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 3: I remember good ones when I was with somebody, somebody.

908
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 2: I have more that.

909
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: It's like, it just feels like an assault on the

910
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: sense of just you know, on your single.

911
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 2: Um right right? Oh man?

912
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 3: I I know I have when it's not popping up

913
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 3: in the magic eight ball of my brain.

914
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 2: Not a big deal.

915
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 3: But I've had some. I've had some nice ones. Yeah,

916
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 3: And you've done the thing where I've done the thing.

917
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 3: Have we done the thing of like hanging in there

918
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 3: with someone until after or breaking up with them before.

919
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 2: I think the move is to break up with them

920
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:15,919
Speaker 2: on the day.

921
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 3: It's the best way. I remember at one point meeting

922
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 3: someone on Valentine's Day, and I remember, now, yeah, because

923
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 3: I've it's been I'm old, it's been a it's been

924
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 3: a long, a long long life.

925
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 2: So who it was, whoever I was in love with

926
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: that year is gone to the missive time. Well, this

927
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 2: is some very nice paper, Jim will appreciate. Okay, good.

928
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 2: There's not a single S in my name, and I

929
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 2: really tried to look for one. I tried to even

930
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 2: Bridge or Bridgers, and I was almost going to google

931
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 2: your middle Day and I was like, oh wait, Jimmy specula.

932
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: It's Maagoulagoula is that it's Polish, although it's weird, sounds

933
00:44:58,160 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 2: weirdly like cartoonishly Italian.

934
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, it could be in the world of like

935
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: when like Francis Forcoppolar that new nos Frazer is.

936
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: Like Gula, Yesla Gula.

937
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 3: Is someone with an interesting name. I'm very sensitive.

938
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 2: To these, of course. Likewise, but wait, have you had

939
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 2: a memorable Valentine's day, not a good memorable Valentine's Day

940
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 2: or like, the only good one that I've had was

941
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: not actually really connected to Valentine's because my second date

942
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 2: with Gym was on Valentine's by accident. Nice, but that

943
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 2: was like not a Valentine's a situation. The other two are,

944
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 2: you know, working at a restaurant on Valentine's and it's

945
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 2: probably the hardest I've ever worked, thinking the whole night

946
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 2: what am I gonna buy with all this tip money?

947
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 2: And then get to the end of the night and

948
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 2: it's like less than on a normal night because really cheap,

949
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 2: horrible people. Wow, was this the New Yorker here? This

950
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 2: was in Salt Lake, Okay. And then the other one

951
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 2: is when I was dating a woman and if we

952
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: ended up at an improv show, can you imagine anything

953
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 2: more romantic? I cannot.

954
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 3: You could drag me through a swamp and fill all

955
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 3: my body orifices with creosote and I couldn't imagine.

956
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 2: I don't know what that was. Hot, hot, hot hot

957
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 2: creosote as felt roof tar. Yeah, those are men. Like

958
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 2: I said, I have a wife named Candace. I've dated

959
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 2: two women, and Candy was my second. Uh, the second girlfriend.

960
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 2: Really no, I.

961
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 3: See I should have dated Candy because she'd be can't

962
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 3: buried Candy.

963
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,280
Speaker 2: Pete talks about you, Candy, pan Candy, pancake is it's delicious.

964
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: What is your mom's maiden name? Lecky Lecky l E

965
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 2: c k I E.

966
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 3: It's in Irish and there's a town, you know, like

967
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 3: every single Irish and they're like, there's a town in

968
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 3: Ireland named Lecky there is.

969
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 2: Do you ever get people like trying to like not

970
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: say pancake. What do they say?

971
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 3: Well, there's there's a lot of like how do you

972
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 3: spell that? And I'm like, just the way you eat it,

973
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 3: that's just that's what it is. But there'll be people

974
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 3: like panch and like they're trying to make it like

975
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 3: not pancakes. Yeah, yeah, yes, that's for sure. Well fon

976
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 3: Kuchen is the German. But people will go into, you know,

977
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: twist themselves into trying not to acknowledge that it's pancake

978
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 3: for my soul, that I haven't suffered with that name

979
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 3: my entire life.

980
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 2: But like, and these are like.

981
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 3: People who speaking this isn't like someone who might be

982
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 3: a foreign word to them.

983
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 2: No, No, there's they're just I got a million. That's

984
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 2: my other big story is as you can them getting

985
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 2: back to the Seliact be shocked, which guess what's made

986
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 2: of gluten pancakes? Can they make a decent gluten free pancake?

987
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 3: Great news, they do, and the best pancakes are gluten free.

988
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,760
Speaker 3: And speaking of Trader Joe's not a sponsor, they're little

989
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 3: gluten free pancakes that come frozen are delicious.

990
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: Oh, my sister Celiact. OK, so this is a good Yeah,

991
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: I will say a gluten free brownie mm hmm almost

992
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 2: always good. Yeah, fudgy, it's yeah, which was what I

993
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: want out of a brownie anyway.

994
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 3: Exactly, Yes, yeah, you cannot. Yeah, that's the way to go.

995
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 3: Flowerless chocolate cake, which you know was so like the

996
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 3: modern in the eighties and it's it's basically a brownie.

997
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 2: H yeah, of course, but I miss a lot of stuff.

998
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 2: It's been my life.

999
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 3: Twenty eighteen, they were doing and this again sorry if

1000
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 3: you've for this hilarious story before, but they were doing mccollunoscopy.

1001
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 2: It's just gets better and better.

1002
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 3: And they were checking because I've had acid reflux since

1003
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 3: the nineties and they were half strung. They called me

1004
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 3: as a child. They were doing an endoscopy and I

1005
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 3: went back into my doctor to say, like, what happened.

1006
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: To see the results?

1007
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 3: Expecting like polyps galore, right, und my favorite super villain

1008
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 3: it's Pussy Glory's sister James Bond. Anyway, uh, pollups Glora.

1009
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 3: And I know I was expecting polls glore because bag

1010
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 3: this is an Appalachian country southern boy who ate that

1011
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 3: just meat meat.

1012
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 2: Meat can't be beat. And then and he.

1013
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 3: And the doctor was like, you have CELIACX and was

1014
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 3: like it was the last thing I expected.

1015
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 2: Wow, I was glue me.

1016
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 3: My older sister and I we both used to be

1017
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 3: like gluten free people. I would be I would say,

1018
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 3: I'm gluten full.

1019
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 2: And it really came back for you. Yeah, I really did.

1020
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: And I was because I give it up drugs and alcohol, smoking.

1021
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: And I was like, are you fucking kidding me?

1022
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 2: God? Are you there?

1023
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 1: God?

1024
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 3: It's me Celia. I don't know who that is, but

1025
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 3: that's that's my new character.

1026
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:45,240
Speaker 2: That is a very good character.

1027
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 3: But anyway, it's been I it's not this is so

1028
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 3: time out for you know, this nightmare. It's the poison

1029
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 3: in the round up they put on the wheat in America.

1030
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 2: It's that's what it is.

1031
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 3: And again, you could have a gluten allergyn wheat allergy,

1032
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 3: and wheat sensitivity, all that stuff. My stuff.

1033
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: I didn't have any symptoms. Is it's so interesting bag

1034
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: so oh wow. Yeah, my sister had so many that

1035
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 2: we but no one could pinpoint it. This is like

1036
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 2: in two thousand and nine, I think we all started thinking, oh,

1037
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 2: she's like losing her mind, which what a nightmare for her. Yeah. Completely,

1038
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 2: but you were just living fancy free.

1039
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 3: I started having really bad itching and outdrift, which I

1040
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 3: never had. It was like if the flower was coming

1041
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 3: through me. It was so fucking creepy. But that was

1042
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 3: the last few months, and so I was happy to

1043
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 3: have that sorted out because the dermatologists were like, we

1044
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 3: don't know, just drink more water, and I'm like, I

1045
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 3: couldn't possibly.

1046
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 2: Drink more water. Yeah I am water.

1047
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 3: I anyways, I'm like Houdini in a tank all day long,

1048
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 3: a drix. It was fucking water, and so.

1049
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 2: I it was good to know that.

1050
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 3: My here's the important thing that people in my PSA

1051
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 3: is if you're me and I could eat like a

1052
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 3: piece of cake right now and be fine. I don't

1053
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:03,240
Speaker 3: have any digestive easiness that is really bad like most people.

1054
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 3: But if you keep ingesting it because it's the villa

1055
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 3: I and your small intestine, it shuts it down. You

1056
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 3: can't get your nutrients. And so the real kicker when

1057
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 3: I went to the doctors, like, they were like, you

1058
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 3: have them absorbing your nutrients or medications?

1059
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 2: Wow for adult life. Wow.

1060
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 3: And so I said, is that why? And I wasn't

1061
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 3: being funny because meth is hilarious. I was like, is

1062
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: this why I did maybe do so much drugs? I

1063
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 3: never felt right and they were like, my energy levels

1064
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 3: were so messed up? Why was trying to just feel

1065
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 3: I did drugs and drank and did like unprescribed pills

1066
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 3: to feel normal.

1067
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

1068
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just feel like kind of a or to

1069
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 3: feel joyful, to feel you know. And and I didn't

1070
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 3: have depression, and there was we were trying. I was

1071
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: always trying to figure things out. Plus it messes up

1072
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 3: your hormones because my sex drive was super low.

1073
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 2: And this cured that, okay, to the degree that I'm

1074
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: almost like Saltpeter, someone makes me a Saltpeter brownie. I thought,

1075
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: you know, do you have that thing again?

1076
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 3: I'm old, Like there was all this like hacky comedy. Wait,

1077
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 3: let me finish the same about celax is. You could

1078
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 3: have it not know it, and if you don't do

1079
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 3: something about it, you can get dementia.

1080
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: MS. Yes, it can really cause uh, nervous system issues.

1081
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,879
Speaker 3: Completely and hormone get checked and everything you should because

1082
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 3: it's genetic. And we think my father had it because

1083
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 3: he died of dementia.

1084
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: Scared to find out that I do have it.

1085
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 3: No, honey, but let me tell you it's You'll feel

1086
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 3: so much better. I feel like my life started. This

1087
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 3: is so corny and so movie of the week, but

1088
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 3: like I feel like my life started once when I

1089
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 3: was born, uh, and then again when I got sober.

1090
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 3: This is I don't mean to sound like you know, lifetime,

1091
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 3: but like uh or you know some chlorous Leachman movie

1092
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 3: in the seventies about STIs, but like, and then when

1093
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 3: I got gluten free, and then when I last week

1094
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: on drazadone. Honey, let me tell you, I like whoever

1095
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:57,800
Speaker 3: she is. But what was I saying about Hackey comedy?

1096
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's me, that's all. Yeah, you're just kind of

1097
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 2: self identified as if anyone needed me to.

1098
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 3: I there was a there was like it was a

1099
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: thing back in the sixties and seventies.

1100
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 2: I feel like like these men were like the.

1101
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 3: Wife was to have sex, but I don't want to

1102
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,240
Speaker 3: not tonight. Like the women was like I have a headache,

1103
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 3: but like it was the mister Roper syndrome.

1104
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 2: Okay, where he was she was missus.

1105
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 3: Ropers, always trying to like enchant him with her caft

1106
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 3: hand and read minx orphan Annie sixty wig and then

1107
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 3: he was like ah, but he was like, oh, Chrissy

1108
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 3: snow hubba hubba. But there was all this Like I

1109
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 3: thought that like the sex drive tapered off, right, but

1110
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 3: it's not been my experience.

1111
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: I don't think that's true for men exactly for some men.

1112
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 3: And then someone told me, I don't remember who it is.

1113
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 3: It's probably good that I don't remember because people might

1114
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 3: not like this. But like someone said, it's because they

1115
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 3: were tired of fucking their wives.

1116
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: It wasn't about right sex drive. It was about the

1117
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 2: marriage right. And I'm sure the women were tired of

1118
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 2: the horrible husband. Oh my Christ.

1119
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,760
Speaker 3: Can you imagine like someone like Jack Carr her crawling

1120
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 3: up Joey's.

1121
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: Bishop mean man. Do you like my references from the.

1122
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: Fifties, Keith, I can't.

1123
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 2: Norm Crosbie, Norman fell Ernest bog nine. These are my lovers,

1124
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 2: these are my memories. Well, is there anything left to

1125
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,479
Speaker 2: say about? Remind me his name?

1126
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 3: Telly savalis Tellyalis Now you're young, but I think a

1127
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 3: lot of your people will know who he is. I

1128
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 3: here's the thing about a familiar to me. He you're

1129
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 3: I'm not going to ask you your age on camera,

1130
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 3: but he was big in the seventies.

1131
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 2: Which she was born was not? No? Dare you yeah?

1132
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 2: And elis you were born like last year? I can?

1133
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 2: I can see I was born in nineteen thirty five.

1134
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 3: She is, he's a depression baby.

1135
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 2: Lash Why she's her bones are so crumpled, silent generation

1136
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 2: she speaks up.

1137
00:54:55,480 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: I'm not so silent right now. H My dad was

1138
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 3: born in thirty four thirty four?

1139
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 2: Is there anything left to say about either of these

1140
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 2: categories before we move on? I'm trying to think if

1141
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 2: I've any other questions about Tally Telly tally e.

1142
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 3: L L y, Which is that short thing V A

1143
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 3: L A S It's he's Greek, so it's probably like,

1144
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 3: why don't we google it? Yeah, we feel about there's

1145
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 3: no way to know, you'll have to take it on faith. Well,

1146
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,439
Speaker 3: he I never put together that his name is Telly

1147
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 3: and he was in the television.

1148
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 5: It's primarily it's like a diminutive form of Aristotle or

1149
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 5: oh Aristoteles.

1150
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, Aristotle is a good name for a hot guy. Yeah.

1151
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 3: Wait, which one was the simpos plant thing in Plato?

1152
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 2: I think in Plato? Oh Plato, sure different.

1153
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 3: Aristotle Socrates was gay.

1154
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,959
Speaker 2: I think they were. Come on, well that's the Greek.

1155
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 3: The thing is, they all had their young gentleman friends.

1156
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 2: It was a gay society.

1157
00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 3: It was I I feel like, as you you know,

1158
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 3: there was a time when I'm a gay man of

1159
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 3: a certain age, and like a lot of my friends died,

1160
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 3: you know, you know, hilarious, but like there was a

1161
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 3: time when like we didn't know what was going to happen,

1162
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 3: and people did die, and so I wasn't always there

1163
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 3: wasn't always one hundred percent that I was going to

1164
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 3: make it right. So terrifying, and that's all true of anybody,

1165
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 3: because you know, so I didn't I remember knowing when

1166
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:24,280
Speaker 3: I was little that I went.

1167
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 2: And help here it comes. Well, you can google me.

1168
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 3: I'm going to turn. You know, I'll be thirty five

1169
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 3: in the year two thousand when that happens. So I

1170
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 3: knew that, and I didn't think beyond it, beyond right,

1171
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 3: and so I never thought about sixty, which is I'm there,

1172
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 3: it is, I'm sixty. Oh my gosh, thank you, thank you.

1173
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: I come. Don't look too close, just like they're wrapping

1174
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 2: on that gift. Don't get too close. You're a foot

1175
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,479
Speaker 2: away from me. You look right, What are you talking about?

1176
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 2: It's these lights, thank you. A lot of that is

1177
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 2: the freaking Celia, Celia. It helped. Okay.

1178
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 3: Also it's some of his genetics. And there's a lot

1179
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 3: of maintenance. But like you realize so slowly, because I do,

1180
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: like a lot of my friends are young, and I

1181
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 3: do have a lot of energy for my age in general,

1182
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 3: and I tried to keep my mind fresh and alive.

1183
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 2: And open right right, and but I some things do

1184
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 2: slip away.

1185
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 3: And the certainty always had about like these cultural references

1186
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 3: for my people, because you like, I'm with you and

1187
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 3: I feel like we're the same age.

1188
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 2: But like I think, I feel like you're very I mean,

1189
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 2: you're a very young person. I mean. And that's also

1190
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 2: the weird thing. I think, like as we were growing up,

1191
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 2: we were told like after sixty, that's an old person.

1192
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 2: That's just not true anymore.

1193
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 3: Well, just like you think of Granny on Beverly Hillbillies. Again,

1194
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 3: my references are on point today today's infos. But like

1195
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 3: you would see when I was young, you'd have like

1196
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 3: people who it was the white haired in a bun

1197
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 3: on the rocking chair. And now we have share right,

1198
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 3: who's seventy eight or nine? And Dolly Parton, who will

1199
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 3: be eighty next year. Yes, and again there's you know,

1200
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 3: thank you science and cinemagic, but like it's they're not.

1201
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 3: I guess I don't have old people, but I go

1202
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 3: to my hometown.

1203
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: Oh right, right, maybe you do too, Yes, this is

1204
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 2: it's a different thing.

1205
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 3: And I also love that those people are just aging

1206
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 3: like they age and doing what they.

1207
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 2: Do right, But I don't think I think they're kind

1208
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: of on the opposite side of it, because there are

1209
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 2: plenty of people in stut like that are I think

1210
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 2: taking care of themselves and like are aging really well?

1211
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: I mean, but then you do see people where you're like,

1212
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 2: oh my god, like you're my age, or like, oh

1213
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 2: that too. Yeah, you know, it's like, yeah, it's I saw.

1214
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 2: Oh I'm not going to say this.

1215
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 3: I just see people and I can't They're unrecognizable and

1216
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 3: they come up to me because I'm frozen in time

1217
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 3: and they're like sium and I'm like, I don't know.

1218
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 2: They don't know get.

1219
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 3: Away from me exactly. Yeah, well yeah, but I them

1220
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 3: to the ground.

1221
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 2: You don't have the thing of like it's me.

1222
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 3: Oh sure, you just know that it's anyway think Jigsaw

1223
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 3: or whatever you know, or in your town.

1224
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 2: They don't notice. Say that a Richard Scary book.

1225
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 3: Me lowly worm, but like they don't know to say,

1226
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 3: and I talk for everyone. I'm saying I'm sorry, and

1227
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 3: they're like, oh, you're too big for your Bircheskay.

1228
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 4: You know Ricky Lee, you know Kidnap or whatever, Ricky Lee, kidnapp,

1229
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 4: moonshine injection.

1230
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: You know all the the West Virginia is gonna cancel me.

1231
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:27,439
Speaker 2: Do it? Do it? I think we should play a game.

1232
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 3: Oh I forgot about the games. What I'm gonna do?

1233
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 2: I need a number between one and ten from you.

1234
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: Three Do you have a preference on games. We have

1235
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 2: Gift of a Curse or Gift Master. I want to

1236
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 2: do Gift a Curse. Okay, beautiful because I have a

1237
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 2: lot of questions. Okay, gorgeous, let me get our game pieces.

1238
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do some like calculating so you can promote,

1239
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 2: recommend to whatever you want. Okay, you go do that.

1240
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 3: If things go to plan. I'm doing one of my

1241
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 3: solo shows. Well, there's a couple of guest stars in

1242
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 3: it called Pancakes from the Edge on March fourteenth and

1243
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 3: Palm Springs at Diedle Art. And it's a solo show

1244
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 3: that I did here in La a couple of years ago,

1245
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 3: where it's based around my obsession with postcards from the Edge.

1246
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 2: That's why it's called Pancakes from the Edge, and it's characters.

1247
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 3: It's these video, these lip sync videos I did from

1248
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 3: the movie me playing Meryl Streep and Shirley McLain.

1249
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 2: And that's then.

1250
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 3: You can always check my Instagram to see what other

1251
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 3: shows are coming up. It works been slow, as we know,

1252
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 3: but I I did last year an episode of A

1253
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 3: Just Like That and The Great North, and those should

1254
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 3: be coming up in the next few months. I guess

1255
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:40,560
Speaker 3: I'll always pitch my bestie ros Hernandez ghosted podcast and

1256
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 3: exactly right network it's.

1257
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 2: A sister podcast it is. Yeah, did you promote like

1258
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 2: just following you on Instagram or whatever?

1259
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Instagram can follow me. And I have a podcast

1260
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 3: I forgot. It's called Sam Pancake Presents the Monday Afternoon

1261
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 3: Movie and you have to come do it.

1262
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 2: I was just talking to Drew Jogi about this, and

1263
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 2: that's right. I mean it sounds like an incredible podcast about.

1264
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 3: Again seventies and eighties TV movies and Jolden Air a

1265
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 3: few times yep, yep. And I was listening to that

1266
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 3: and you were talking about seventies movies. I'm like, if

1267
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 3: true doesn't bring up my podcast.

1268
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: I to betrayal that one cross and he did so

1269
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 2: a very very nice little ad for you, Etha based Yeah,

1270
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: I want to come on it. Okay, this is how

1271
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 2: we play Gift a Curse. Yes, I'm going to name

1272
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 2: three things. You'll tell me if there are a gift

1273
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 2: or a curse and why, and then I'll tell you

1274
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 2: if you're right or wrong, because there are correct answers

1275
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 2: and you can fail.

1276
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what I'm used to.

1277
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 2: Shoot. Okay. This first one is from a listener named

1278
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: Odra Gift a curse fancy restaurants that don't accept reservations?

1279
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:49,919
Speaker 2: Is it a gifter curse for me or for the her? Now, Sam,

1280
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 2: that's up to you. Oh okay, so funny.

1281
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 3: Her name is Odre because Odra Lindley played Missus Roper

1282
01:01:56,120 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 3: on Three's Company, which I was referencing earlier. I see

1283
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 3: these patterns. That means something's wrong with my brain.

1284
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 2: That means someone see.

1285
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 3: I think it's a curse for me because you have

1286
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 3: to line up there and you know. But once you

1287
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 3: get in there and you've like managed to get in

1288
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 3: the hip cool restaurant without a reservation, you can be

1289
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 3: bragging rights about it.

1290
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 2: But I think it's a curse. Wrong. No, I think

1291
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 2: it's like according to a universal truth. Wow, he is Mormon,

1292
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 2: isn't he. I absolutely hate a reservation. I don't have

1293
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 2: the time or the patience or the wherewithal to get

1294
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 2: a reservation. So to just have get those off the table,

1295
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 2: I just have to show up at the restaurant with that,

1296
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 2: and I and I might be able to get in.

1297
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 3: You might, you might not.

1298
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 2: Well, and you made the truths the risk I'm willing

1299
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 2: to take. Okay, I don't want to have to get

1300
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 2: on rezie or open tape and be denied because the

1301
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 2: restaurants you really want to get a reservation too, on

1302
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 2: those things are impossible. Anyway, that's true. That is true.

1303
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 3: The secret to all of this stuff is have go

1304
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 3: with the famous person.

1305
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you and I both know that's true. Yes,

1306
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 2: you just go with a famous person. Everyone find your

1307
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 2: famous person.

1308
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 3: I find your famous person. There's one around the house.

1309
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 3: Might tell us all us our friend Aristotle Spedo over there.

1310
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 2: No, I love to I love any restaurant that doesn't

1311
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 2: have a reservation.

1312
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 3: I think it's great. And they're They're not all fancy

1313
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 3: fufy you know, hip restaurants either. There's some just like

1314
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 3: mom and pop places that are just really good and

1315
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 3: they don't take reservations. And I love that because you

1316
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 3: can usually get in.

1317
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 2: It really levels the playing field between people who are

1318
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 2: in control of their lives and people like me who

1319
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 2: are not. And so I can just wander up having

1320
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 2: made no plan and it may not work out, and

1321
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 2: then I'll just keep living my life that way because

1322
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 2: I can't learn a lesson. But at least I didn't

1323
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 2: have to get on a website to make the reservation.

1324
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 2: That is, you're doing everything right. It's all right here,

1325
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 2: it's all I'm hearing. All right? Do you have gotten

1326
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 2: zero so far? This next one is from a listener

1327
01:03:55,720 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 2: named Meg Gift. He a curse green bell peppers. I see,

1328
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 2: I suffer.

1329
01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 3: I suffer from seeing all sides of a story in

1330
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 3: all angles. I love a green bell pepper chopped up

1331
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 3: on a pizza. I think you're gonna say curse, though

1332
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 3: I'm trying to second guess you, which is not the point,

1333
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 3: And now my brain is again wrapping itself in prettels.

1334
01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna say gift. I'm gonna follow my heart.

1335
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 2: You get the point. I love a green belt pepper.

1336
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 2: I don't know why people don't like a green belt

1337
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 2: pet don't either, I will say, I prefer a raw

1338
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 2: green and bell pepper. Oh yeah, definitely snap the crunch

1339
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 2: me too. Delicious. They taste so healthy? Do they taste healthy?

1340
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 2: They taste good?

1341
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 3: I don't mind cutting them up if you get all

1342
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 3: the little guts out of there, I love to. I'll

1343
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 3: get a gluten for us gluten free frozen pizza sometimes

1344
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 3: and I will dress it up with chopped up green

1345
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 3: bell pepper and mushrooms that I've sauteed and sausage and stuff.

1346
01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 3: I don't understand why anyone wouldn't want them on their

1347
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 3: pizza for a little extra snap. But yes, you're right,

1348
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 3: they have to be raw because I don't care for

1349
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 3: the They can get slimy, and if you get or

1350
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 3: whatever that he starts to get kind of slimy.

1351
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 2: Wormy, wormy, yeahly wormy, a little too wormy. And I

1352
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 2: don't really have a preference among the color, like the red,

1353
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 2: the yellow, the orange, the green. I think they're all

1354
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 2: a good pepper, but they all taste a little bit different. Jo,

1355
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 2: but you know that they're all the same pepper, just

1356
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 2: different levels of ripeness. That's not true. And now that

1357
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, I'm like, that may be wrong, But on

1358
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 2: Lisa is looking confident.

1359
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 5: I think I was looking it up, because yes, different

1360
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 5: colored bell peppers do taste slightly different. With the main

1361
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 5: difference it does the bell peppers ripen and change color from.

1362
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 2: Greendible orange and red.

1363
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 5: They become progressively sweeter so green, they say, has I

1364
01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 5: have a love these flavor profiles green mild, slightly bitter

1365
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 5: grassy flavor. Yellow and orange sweeter than green with a

1366
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 5: slightly fruity taste.

1367
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 2: How dare you?

1368
01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 5: And red the sweetest bell pepper variety considered the most ripe.

1369
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. This is like coming to a university.

1370
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 2: These you know, these snobs with their red bell peppers.

1371
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:12,479
Speaker 2: They're eating just older produce es centrally, They're You're getting

1372
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 2: in on the ground level. That is so interesting. I

1373
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 2: truly am kind of bowled over learning something every day.

1374
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, And I love to say something

1375
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 2: confidently I don't have it be true. What a rare

1376
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 2: thing for me.

1377
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 3: It's whining to go college and we're all about to graduate.

1378
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 2: Okay, you've gotten one so far. And finally this is

1379
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 2: the listener is unknown. This is I think from an

1380
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 2: Instagram live. So my apologies to whoever you are. That's

1381
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 2: you're not my problem. Uh gifter A curse the person

1382
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 2: you dislike at work discovering your favorite podcast?

1383
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 3: Oh curse?

1384
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 2: Why person you like at work?

1385
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 3: Dislike the person you dislike at work discovering your favorite podcast?

1386
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 3: Well if they just do they know that you like

1387
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 3: this podcast?

1388
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? They must know, or would and I guess where

1389
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 2: the information come make the connection.

1390
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 3: Sure, I think it's a curse because then they want

1391
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 3: to talk to you more about it. But see, I

1392
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 3: can also see the gift side, where like maybe you

1393
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 3: find out you have something in common and you you bridge,

1394
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 3: you bridge your the gap. That's my next podcast, Bridger

1395
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 3: the Gap. So you're saying, oh, I hate losing. I

1396
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 3: told you I feel like a failure, so I had

1397
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 3: to get on pills. You can't make me feel worse it.

1398
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 2: I'll take month. Someone had given you a trophy, this

1399
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 2: would all be solved.

1400
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,160
Speaker 3: I did grow up and that everyone gets a trophy generation.

1401
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 2: I'm not for wrong with them.

1402
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:38,360
Speaker 3: Good tonight.

1403
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 2: I can't even remember the question. I'm really dissociating the

1404
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 2: person you dislike at work. I don't have a job

1405
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 2: discovering your favorite podcast.

1406
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, curse.

1407
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, correct, Oh good, good, good good. The person you

1408
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 2: don't like it work finding out you finding out that

1409
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 2: you have anything in common with this person that you

1410
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 2: actively dislike. It's kind of the This is my big

1411
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 2: problem with going to a concert. When I go to

1412
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 2: a concert, there's no worst feeling in the world than

1413
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 2: looking around and being like I'm like these people, Oh, yes,

1414
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 2: it happens to me every time, Like what concert, every

1415
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 2: concert I've ever been to, I'm like, oh, and maybe

1416
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 2: it's just because I don't like anyone, but I go

1417
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 2: to these things and I just think I thought that

1418
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: people that listen to this band or this artist were

1419
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 2: not complete morons, and then you just find out that

1420
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:31,479
Speaker 2: everyone's an idiot.

1421
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 3: Well, it happens the worst at Hollywood Bowl because people

1422
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 3: show up for almost anything the tickets. So you I've

1423
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 3: just had some really I don't get in fights with

1424
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 3: people concert. I've had friends that do, and it's gotten

1425
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 3: real ugly at the Hollywood Bowl.

1426
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 2: Drunk people, Yeah, with their picnics and just the worst

1427
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 2: of all time gaze being some of the worst there.

1428
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 2: I said, we got to get rid of them.

1429
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 3: Well, guess what have I got great news for you.

1430
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 2: You're in luck.

1431
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:10,799
Speaker 3: They're shedding alphabets on the lgbtwo Q website, shed letters. Hooray.

1432
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 3: I thought things are gonna get better?

1433
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 2: Is a.

1434
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 3: Whose that's my concert?

1435
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's a curse. I, like I said,

1436
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 2: with the concert situation, finding out that someone you don't

1437
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 2: like you're similar to them. It's a real look in

1438
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 2: the mirror, and it's tough. It's a tough pill to swallow.

1439
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 2: It is. Well, you got two out of three.

1440
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 3: Okay.

1441
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,560
Speaker 2: Is that a win? That's a we're gonna call it

1442
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 2: a win. I know you need this win tonight, Sam.

1443
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 2: If I'm not glaring hard enough in middle distance to

1444
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 2: let you know that I need a win tonight, before

1445
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 2: recording began, Sam just took me aside and said, I

1446
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 2: just need a win right now. Any right now is

1447
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 2: a win. That's literally in your name winninger. Give it

1448
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:58,560
Speaker 2: to me anything, the smallest winst.

1449
01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 3: Not kidding, it's really what I do need.

1450
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:01,360
Speaker 2: Now.

1451
01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 3: It's been a we.

1452
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 2: All do we all threat we are we are, babe,

1453
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 2: but we're all uh you know, we're all doing this together.

1454
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:13,040
Speaker 2: Even the coworkers that we dislike that are finding out

1455
01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 2: about that's true. We are. We are in community with them. Yes,

1456
01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: we are in community. Okay.

1457
01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 1: Uh.

1458
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 2: This is the final segment of the podcast. People write

1459
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 2: into I said, no nor dot com begging for answers.

1460
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I mean you need to win. No,

1461
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 2: these people need to win. They I'm seeing. Yeah, I

1462
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,160
Speaker 2: am learning something about myself. It could be worse. Will

1463
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 2: you help me?

1464
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 3: Answer a question I'd love to.

1465
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 2: All right, this is a very casual invoice. Put that

1466
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:44,839
Speaker 2: on my invoice on the tally. Okay, this it's very casual,

1467
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,680
Speaker 2: just as hey doesn't address either of us, which is

1468
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 2: a little sharp in my opinion. Well, and also again,

1469
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 2: I'm a southern gentleman manners manager. Yeah, come on, let's

1470
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 2: get something a little more courteous. But you know, these

1471
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 2: younger generations, I want a trophy. I want a trophy,

1472
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 2: and to be mean via email rude. Okay, so this says, Hey,

1473
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 2: my father and stepmom are planning a party for my

1474
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 2: younger sister's religious confirmation and her birthday. The problem is

1475
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 2: that I'm not religious, slash lean pagan, don't slash don't

1476
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 2: believe in a higher power. I do want to show

1477
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 2: my sister that I'm supportive of her religion, but I

1478
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:23,720
Speaker 2: feel like a Jesus themed gift would be inappropriate coming

1479
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 2: from me and send the wrong message to my stepmom's family. Anyway,

1480
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 2: She's thirteen with depression and likes reading vampires, vacuuming her

1481
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 2: strawberry plant. Henry and I scolded my dad for this

1482
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 2: one law and order SVU. What should I get her?

1483
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 3: Happening here, and this person is only nineteen. You get

1484
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 3: that this is a teenager?

1485
01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 2: Right, Yes, that's right. This is like a forty year

1486
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:49,639
Speaker 2: old woman and talking about her little sister.

1487
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:54,559
Speaker 3: No, this is this is I saw the tdow.

1488
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:56,879
Speaker 2: Zoomers?

1489
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 3: Is that what they're called?

1490
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 2: I continue? What should I get her for her confirmation

1491
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:06,560
Speaker 2: slash birthday? And that's from Alison. Let's assume age fifteen.

1492
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 3: Well, it's great that she's listening to the pot, you know, yeah, welcome,

1493
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 3: we welcome the young folk. Well I heard Dracula in there, right,

1494
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 3: did I hear that?

1495
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 2: Vampires? I mean, I would not be surprised. Let's see,

1496
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, vampires reading, vacuuming. Okay, this's all go together. Well,

1497
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: there's the gift.

1498
01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 3: There's a gift that works both ways with Jesus or

1499
01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 3: with vampires. And it's called a cross. And you just

1500
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 3: get a very special kind of goth cross and you

1501
01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 3: hand it to your little sister like wink. But Stepmom's

1502
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 3: family's like oh as found Christ and Alison and little

1503
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 3: sis no better, and it's a family bond forever.

1504
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 2: It's such a perfect I mean, and if you want

1505
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: to just hint a little further push it away you

1506
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:50,839
Speaker 2: a little bit of garlic?

1507
01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:54,600
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, well yeah, but then that

1508
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,680
Speaker 3: doesn't line up with the religious thing I'm saying if

1509
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 3: you're trying to get away with I'm imagining a world

1510
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 3: where they Allison wants to be like, not rock the

1511
01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:03,719
Speaker 3: boat or upset the family.

1512
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 2: How is a cape going to rock the boat? She

1513
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 2: can wear that to church? Oh yeah, that's true. Okay,

1514
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 2: fair enough, Just a really fancy black cape and a

1515
01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 2: gothic cross. Don't you wish you had one? Oh? I

1516
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 2: wish I was in one? Right now?

1517
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:18,600
Speaker 3: We next time, both of us in cape? Did you

1518
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 3: see that non seratu bullshit?

1519
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 2: You didn't like it?

1520
01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to like it more. I was very excited.

1521
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:27,600
Speaker 3: I was kind of like I am meanly, was like,

1522
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 3: it's just be Anya Taylor Joy. No shade on what's

1523
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 3: her nuts? But like works some shade But she was good,

1524
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:36,640
Speaker 3: but like I little dead eyed, but like I and

1525
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:37,880
Speaker 3: then I looked at it was like, oh, it's supposed

1526
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 3: to be an you Taylor Joy was there's a flatness

1527
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 3: to a lot of it. Okay, interesting in the sets,

1528
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:47,280
Speaker 3: and I clearly I'll never work again, but so why

1529
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 3: not just rip it all down anyway.

1530
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be in a Robert Eggers.

1531
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 3: And also I thought i'd be perfectly cast.

1532
01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:02,600
Speaker 2: He loves flaming homosexual dauncing across the screens. I loved it.

1533
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 2: I just love a Halloween movie Haunted Castle. That's me too,

1534
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 2: But that's completely.

1535
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 3: Me Bridger, and I've seen every vampire iteration millions of times.

1536
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 3: I set up and watch old Hammer films at night.

1537
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 3: So I also, I don't know why I thought the

1538
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 3: story would be a little bit different. I've seen all

1539
01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 3: the versions of nos Forrawto multiple times, that creepy Klauskinsky one.

1540
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 3: But I was like, oh, I know this story right, nothing,

1541
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 3: it's a little bit different than I loved. However, Bill Star, Yes,

1542
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 3: penny Wise, he was amazing. That look was amazing. I

1543
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 3: loved that he looked like someone who would be from

1544
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 3: Transylvania that time. Because I read a lot about it,

1545
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 3: I loved Nicholas Holt.

1546
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:43,920
Speaker 2: There was a lot I liked it.

1547
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 3: But then I also was just like, I again, it

1548
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 3: feels and I'm being sincere. It's like, oh, I'm old.

1549
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 3: I've kind of seen a lot of this, and I

1550
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 3: think people who hadn't probably liked it more.

1551
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 2: Did you see like his other movies like The Witch,

1552
01:14:56,760 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 2: the LIGHTHO you didn't see The Lighthouse My House. I

1553
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 2: really enjoyed it's I mean, it's Bunkers.

1554
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 3: Right, and it's William Dafoe and Robert Pens screaming each

1555
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:07,439
Speaker 3: other in black and white.

1556
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:10,639
Speaker 2: Yeah. So then there's the Northman that not enough Byork

1557
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 2: for me? Uh, I mean about Byorik appears but not

1558
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 2: for not enough? Is it Viking? Yeah, it's Viking stuff.

1559
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 3: I like Robert Edgars and he's a he's he's very

1560
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 3: good looking. I just was watching interviews with him. He is,

1561
01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 3: he looks like an actor.

1562
01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:27,559
Speaker 2: He's Oh, I have no idea I would expect somebody

1563
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 2: making those movies to be a troll. He's not what

1564
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 2: you expect interesting, I mean, and I said that in

1565
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 2: a good way, because they're very creepy and strange. You

1566
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 2: don't expect just like a well adjusted, good looking person

1567
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 2: to be making those films.

1568
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:42,719
Speaker 3: Well, you know, like John Carpenter.

1569
01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever ever actually seen John carpenters a.

1570
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 3: Few people in Hollywood who looks so much. He always

1571
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 3: looks older than he was.

1572
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 2: He just looks old.

1573
01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:53,680
Speaker 3: He looks like he just looks really old, right, and

1574
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:55,720
Speaker 3: he's not a troll. That mean to me, he's a

1575
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 3: genius and I'm a big horror person.

1576
01:15:58,200 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 2: There he is. Okay, Yeah, he's just like a normal

1577
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 2: man who looks a little older than he looks.

1578
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 3: He looks like that. He's looked like that since he

1579
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 3: was like thirty. Wow, very young, John Carpenter. I defy you.

1580
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:14,400
Speaker 2: I love how little we've answered the I told her,

1581
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 2: I mean, you got the perfects that I mean. I

1582
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:18,840
Speaker 2: guess if she wants to be if she wants to

1583
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:22,200
Speaker 2: say she's show that she's supportive of religion, maybe you

1584
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 2: get her uh, but she doesn't want to get into

1585
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 2: it too deep. Maybe she gets her copy of Dianetics

1586
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 2: or no. Oh, but she got a cool look.

1587
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,480
Speaker 3: That was very okay, Yeah, okay.

1588
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, only is showing us kind of a seventies John

1589
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 2: Carpenter and he's very cool.

1590
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 3: Yeah that was dark star times. He's movie dark stark.

1591
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1592
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry, I forgot about the question. I probably

1593
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 3: should also be on aderall, but yes, do we There

1594
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:51,760
Speaker 3: was a lot of information in there, and I got

1595
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 3: a lot, So maybe Alison the gift would be like,

1596
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 3: here's how you write an email. Start with dear Bridger

1597
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:01,480
Speaker 3: and glamorous passion.

1598
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,680
Speaker 2: Show some respect, put some respect on it. I will

1599
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 2: I won't be here forever, Allison. The answer is the

1600
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 2: very dark borderline goth cross and an extremely expensive cape

1601
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:18,600
Speaker 2: that can be used for Halloween or church and a

1602
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 2: ring of garlic. Dress it up for a church out

1603
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 2: on Halloween.

1604
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:23,640
Speaker 3: Alison says she doesn't believe in a higher power, but

1605
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:27,599
Speaker 3: she's pagan. But isn't pagan? Isn't there their belief about nature?

1606
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, believing in is that the mother Gaya?

1607
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1608
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 2: Which is is that a spirit or an energy?

1609
01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 3: An energy? A spirit like a goddess?

1610
01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's less of a like an angry man.

1611
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing I learned to remember and rehab

1612
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 3: speaking of there, like you need to have a higher

1613
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 3: power if you're going into this. It was twelve step

1614
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 3: aligned and but the god doesn't and you don't even

1615
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:54,280
Speaker 3: have to use the word god. But it doesn't have

1616
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 3: to be the god of your father's And that phrase

1617
01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 3: to me helped me, of course. So she's I think

1618
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 3: she just means that it's not the God of the fathers.

1619
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 3: It's like goddess Kaya.

1620
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 2: Well this, you know, this thirteen year old is watching

1621
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 2: a lot of Law and Order SVU. She's probably gonna

1622
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 2: be done with the religious stuff pretty soon.

1623
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 3: Is she my mother?

1624
01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:13,639
Speaker 2: That's all my mother watches.

1625
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 3: She won't watch anything I am on. I can tell

1626
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:16,599
Speaker 3: you that much.

1627
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 2: That's just true. She said. You know, I like reruns.

1628
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 2: I like SVU, like watching Hawaii. Have av they do,

1629
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 2: They love the SVU.

1630
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:28,760
Speaker 3: I have never done a Law and Order because I've

1631
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:29,559
Speaker 3: never lived in New York.

1632
01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:31,680
Speaker 2: Oh, you would have been on one hundred episodes by now,

1633
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 2: I wish.

1634
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:35,600
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I would have loved it. I have

1635
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 3: a compared to some of them, and I never did

1636
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:42,080
Speaker 3: one of those. I did some other ones.

1637
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 4: I did.

1638
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 3: NYPD Blue Oh wow, long time ago and it's waning years.

1639
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 3: And I did without a trace. Okay, I'm sure there's something.

1640
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 3: There's other ones.

1641
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 2: I'm forgetting interesting. Well, Alison dot right back in h Sam.

1642
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 2: But i have these beautiful gifts, one for my boyfriend,

1643
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 2: but I'll probably use it for my own devices as well.

1644
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 2: And then I've got this gorgeous, stunning poster that's going

1645
01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 2: to maybeamed poster. We might use it to decorate the studio.

1646
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 2: Who knows what we'll do with it. Maybe we'll just

1647
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 2: have it out here in the backyard every time. But

1648
01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:19,600
Speaker 2: what I want for you is to look him up

1649
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 2: and like watch him a little bit so you have work.

1650
01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:22,560
Speaker 2: I'm going to get to who he is. And I

1651
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 2: have to imagine I've seen him in something. Sure, sure, yeah,

1652
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 2: he looks very familiar to me.

1653
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,280
Speaker 3: Feel like he died on the one of those things

1654
01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 3: like they died at fifty eight and you're like, that's

1655
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 3: so old when you're little, and now you're like, oh

1656
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:34,960
Speaker 3: my god, young.

1657
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 2: Somebody dying at fifty eight. That's a tragedy. I know

1658
01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 2: it really is. But he died when he was fifty eight.

1659
01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:40,680
Speaker 2: I don't know that.

1660
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 3: I just feel like I remember in the span of

1661
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 3: my life thinking he went before his time. I could

1662
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:46,720
Speaker 3: be wrong, and we look that up. I have a

1663
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 3: one question. When is dinner served? Is there a liable?

1664
01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 2: You can't smell it?

1665
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 3: When's the buffet and I can't smell it is wafting

1666
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 3: through the air.

1667
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 2: He was seventy two, which actually is still pretty young.

1668
01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 2: If somebody dies when they're seventy two, now you're like, oh,

1669
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:07,759
Speaker 2: they probably had at least another ten to fifteen maybe, yeah, okay,

1670
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 2: and then I'm wrong. I am full on wrong, But

1671
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 2: I guess seventy two in the probably the nineties. It's

1672
01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 2: true sense.

1673
01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 3: And also because he had that look most of his life,

1674
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 3: like even from the fifties. I think you his shaved

1675
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:23,600
Speaker 3: head or bald head or whatever it was.

1676
01:20:24,040 --> 01:20:26,719
Speaker 2: He looks the same for so long. Took everyone by surprise,

1677
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 2: exactly like Florence Henderson who looked frozen into it. It's incredible.

1678
01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:31,920
Speaker 2: And then she died. It was like she was unfair.

1679
01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 2: Yeah she's forty, such a twist.

1680
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 3: She was eighty three.

1681
01:20:36,400 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 2: Oh Sam, I've had such a good time really, ending

1682
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 2: on the death was really the best part. Carol Dead,

1683
01:20:46,040 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 2: Happy Easter.

1684
01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:51,559
Speaker 3: Marti gross here, thank you for being here.

1685
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 2: Listen. I just need to get in the line for

1686
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 2: the catering, so I need to go get yourself a

1687
01:20:56,880 --> 01:21:03,080
Speaker 2: plate in some fixingss Listener, the podcast is over, move on,

1688
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 2: I love you, goodbye, I said no Gifts is an

1689
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 2: exactly right production. Our senior producer is on Alisa Nelson,

1690
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 2: and our episodes are beautifully mixed by Ben Toliday. The

1691
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:23,519
Speaker 2: theme song is by Miracle Worker Amy Mann. And we

1692
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 2: couldn't do it without our booker, Patrick Cottner. You must

1693
01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:29,799
Speaker 2: follow the show on Instagram. At I said, no gifts,

1694
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:31,559
Speaker 2: that's where you're going to see pictures of all these

1695
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 2: wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't you want to see

1696
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:36,679
Speaker 2: the gifts I invit?

1697
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 1: Did you hear? Fun a man myself perfectly clear? When

1698
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:50,520
Speaker 1: you're a guest to me, you gotta come to me empty.

1699
01:21:50,960 --> 01:21:58,400
Speaker 1: And I said, no guests, your presences, presents, and I

1700
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 1: already too much stuff, So how do you dare to

1701
01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:05,280
Speaker 1: survey me