1 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: Random thought on paparazzi, which I know is not relatable 2 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: to people when you look at a picture, it might be. 3 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: So think about this. If someone on my team put 4 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: up a picture of devastation in a foreign country and 5 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: we were trying to raise awareness for a disaster and 6 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: raise money, and it's a photographer's picture, and we didn't 7 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: credit them or ask them or pay them. So then 8 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: you get shaken down by these photographers. It's happened to 9 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: Andy Cohen, it's happened to at least when it's happened 10 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: to everyone. You get shaken down and they want thousands 11 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: of dollars. They try to get you to go to 12 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: court even though they would never take it accord, and 13 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: it's like a whole shakedown. And um, I get it. 14 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: They own the photos and it's their artwork. Um, but 15 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: when it was relief work, someone that like I didn't 16 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: make any money on it. I didn't, you know, it 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: was just to try to raise money. It becomes disgusting. 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: But it occurred to me. Someone owns that picture and 19 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: you're using it. What about when someone takes a picture 20 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: of me, you know, I look like Shad, I'm on 21 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: the beach and with my daughter. They take a picture 22 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: of me, that's their work. If I use a picture 23 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: they took of me, I have to pay them. Why 24 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: don't they have to pay me when they make money 25 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: off a picture they took of me? Like in no 26 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: other situation are you allowed to be used? I can't 27 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: just go use somebody else's face or designs as my own. 28 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: How is somebody able to take a picture of me? 29 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: It's my It's literally not only my intellectual property, it's 30 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: my physical property. It's my body, it's my face. They 31 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: take a picture of me, they go make money on it, 32 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: and I don't get a cut. How is that okay? 33 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: Someone's taking pictures of Jennifer Lopez in Milan with Ben Affleck, 34 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: not with their permission, and Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez 35 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: aren't making any money money on that. And if Ben 36 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: and Jen used a picture that was taken of them, 37 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: they would have to pay the photographer. How upside down 38 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: funked up is that? Have you ever thought of that? 39 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: That's the craziest thing ever that is upside down that 40 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: needs to be corrected. Someone needs to figure that out. 41 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: Did you ever want to fire someone twice? Did someone 42 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: ever like do so many things wrong, and there's such 43 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: a nightmare that months later you think about it and 44 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,839 Speaker 1: you want to fire them again, Like they just were 45 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: so incompetent and made your life so miserable that you 46 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: want to fire them again. That was just a random thought. 47 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: Let's talk about wales. Men the Hampton's to take beach 48 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: walks every day. One day I'm there and I see 49 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: a whale breaching, and I see the most extraordinary whale, 50 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: not just like the tip of a whale, like you know, 51 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: the rent evidence of a whale. And by the way, 52 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: I never talked about my dolphins sightings. I have seen 53 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: multiple times in the Hampton's hundreds of dolphins in a row, 54 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: really close close to me. So then I see then 55 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: I start noticing the whales, and then every day I'm 56 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: taking these videos and these pictures of these whales, extraordinary 57 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: pictures videos. You have to see them on my Instagram, 58 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: like better than any while, like better than any national 59 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: geographic photographer we get. And in fact, camera crews have 60 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: gone out to the beach as a result of my 61 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: postings because I said, I'm a whale whisper, because one day, 62 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: after seeing miraculous pictures of whales, and my friends going 63 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: for the entire day to find the whales and seeing nothing, 64 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: and my friends living on that exact beach looking all 65 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: day and seeing nothing, Me going for forty five minutes 66 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: for a beach walk, and the whales coming close and 67 00:03:56,280 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: jumping out of the water, fish surrounding their mouths, heep, 68 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: being with joy. And it was happening every day. So 69 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: one day I went to go and I recorded, and 70 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I said, and I knew that if I record, it 71 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't happen, because then I was jinxing it. And I record, 72 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: and I said recorded, and I said, I think they're 73 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: gonna be whales. And if I go out there right now, 74 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: I'm a whale whisper. So I go out and the 75 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: whales are jumping. So yesterday my friend who lives on 76 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: that beach, I said to herhim here, she says, there 77 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: have been no whales. Her whole staff she had three, 78 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: and staff three and staff at her house. They said, 79 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: there have been no whales. Her husband, his friends, no whales. 80 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: We're all taking pictures, and I said, I see a 81 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: fucking fan, I see a fucking fin. And the dolphins 82 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 1: started coming and they're all looking at me. Like crazy, 83 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: because they're all like, you're the whale whisper, right, I 84 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: have a reputation on this beach, at the whale whisper. 85 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: So I see, I go, I see a fucking fin. 86 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: So then we start seeing all the dolphins, and then 87 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: my friend's husband starts telling my daughter about the different 88 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: fish and what color patterns. Me and I don't know 89 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: what they're talking about. It I'm in the middle of 90 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: instagramming that we just saw dolphins because I thought that 91 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: was a big deal. The goddamn whale jumps out. Six 92 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: out of six days, the whale jumped out. My friends 93 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: have been on the beach all summer. That final day 94 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: when I went, we were a little it was a 95 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 1: little gloomy out. It was the Monday, a Memorial Day weekend, 96 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: feeling a little depressed. Summer was over. I hate that feeling. 97 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: I hate that doomsday. And my Britin was like, let's 98 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: just take a walk, doesn't matter if it's claude, let's 99 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: just go to the beach. I just go in. I 100 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 1: brought my daughter. I thought, I don't want to I 101 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: don't want to say that she could ruin the juju. 102 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: But I'm always alone when I see the whales, and 103 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: I hope the juju, the whale juju is there with 104 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: brin lo and behold the whale came out and I 105 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: got video of it, like I screamed in real time 106 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: for my Instagram followers it could happen. I was like, 107 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: there it is and I was so happy. And then 108 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: I stopped down because I've been so caught up in 109 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: like telling everybody about it, improving that I'm aware whisper 110 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: and talking about it is sort of a half joke 111 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: that I got to the point where I thought, it's 112 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: not really a joke. I think there's a spiritual connection. 113 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: And the psychic messaged me all this information about whales 114 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: and how they're very psychic beings and they communicate telepathically, 115 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: I think is the word, and you know they represent 116 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: something going on in you, and you know, I just 117 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: have to say I have a connection to whales. They 118 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,799 Speaker 1: said it has something to do with there's a turkey 119 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: spirit animal too. I don't know if that has anything 120 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: to do with the turkeys, which are always around, but 121 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: I'm telling you I have a connection to to water 122 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: animals and maybe other animals, but definitely the whales and 123 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: these dolphins, but particularly the whales. This is it's just 124 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: more miraculous to see a massive whale jumping out, breaching 125 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 1: multiple times in a day when no one else is 126 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: seeing it. So I just wanted to share it with 127 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: you because it is so beautiful and it's a symbol 128 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: of staying connected and being present, and I it made 129 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: my whole summer, Like every day seeing them, I just 130 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: felt so grateful, so blessed, so happy, so connected with nature, 131 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: so present, just so fortunate to be able to go 132 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: to the beach and made me not want to go 133 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: away anywhere, to spend all this money to travel to 134 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: just not be at home. And it just made me 135 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: feel so proud, made me think about my house that 136 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: I bought and built, and like the life that I've 137 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: created for myself, and my water and working less and 138 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 1: just wanting to be free and be by the water 139 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: and going in the water every day makes me feel 140 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: connected and it like rinses off any stress. Just this 141 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: has been such an incredible summer, such an amazing experience, 142 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: and these whales have been such a huge part of it. 143 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: And it's not the same whale, it's multiple whales, different sizes. 144 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: They're just coming and I called them. I talked to them. 145 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: I go out on the beach and I like, I say, 146 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: come on, don't you know crazy person? But anyway, that's 147 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: what's up with the whales. Well this is gonna be unpopular. 148 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: I had a baby. I've been on a plane with 149 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: a baby. I know the stress and when you feel 150 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: panicked and you feel anxiety that like your kid's gonna 151 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: make noise and and we but we all know. You 152 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: get on a plane, you get on a plane overnight, 153 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: red eye or you're going to Europe and you have 154 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: to sleep on night and a baby sitting right next 155 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: to you, and you're just like, oh my god. So 156 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: we have to say when we're ringing pets on the 157 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: plane and we have to pay extra. I'm thinking, if 158 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to be on a plane and there's going 159 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: to be a baby seat next to me, I should 160 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: have the option. I should be able to opt out. 161 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: Just letting you know we know you're going international, we 162 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: know you're on a European flight, we know you're going 163 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: on a red eye, or we know you're flying were you. 164 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: We know that you're flying more than two and a 165 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: half hours and might want to get some shut I 166 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: there's a toddler on your plane next to you. You're 167 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: seated next you see there's a baby and three t 168 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: it's three toddler, and you have to make your own 169 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: choice if you want to sit next to a baby, 170 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: or there's a mother with a newborn, Like that's just 171 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: I want to know I could choose, and then it's 172 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: my own thing. I want to know if I'm going 173 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 1: to be next to an alien, I'm gonna be next 174 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: to a German shepherd, and I want to know maybe 175 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: next to a toddler, because if you get a toddler 176 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: that's gonna scream you Just we just should have the 177 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: choice or a discount. We have a toddler next to 178 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: you on the plane, so you're gonna get a nine voucher, 179 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: or you're allowed to get off your you know, your 180 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: plane and sell your seat for double, Like there just 181 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: needs to be an option. But I've also noticed on 182 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: planes when there's a child, you can't blame a child 183 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: for like crying or being a child. They're a child, 184 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: right The parents talk at the volume of the child 185 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: that are with the child. And I don't know why 186 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: this happens, it might make I know Jeremy, I'm getting 187 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: your toy. Turn the eye that we're like, Okay, we 188 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: have there's one child, and that's not their fault. They're 189 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: just a child who were born yesterday. You don't need 190 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: to talk at the same volume. Is that you were 191 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: not born yesterday. You were born fifty five years ago. 192 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: So you need to not talk at the same level 193 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 1: and in the same Google Gaga and the same cadence 194 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: of speech as Ptadler. Okay, that we can't that's a 195 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: bridge we can't cross. We could deal with a screaming baby, 196 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: we cannot deal with a streaming parents. That's where we're 197 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: drawn a line.