1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: God transmitting America. 2 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: Yes, Alessa, hope you had a great weekend. Welcome to 3 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: Monday show more in a studio morning. Amy's about to 4 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: hit us with her word of the year. Last year, 5 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: the word of the year was alignment for you, okay. 6 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 2: Do you feel like twenty twenty five was aligned? 7 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: Yes? Okay. The year before that was water because you 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 3: want to be more fluid. 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. I should have kept that as one. 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 5: I want to be more fluid, and I wanted to 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 5: drink more water, and right now I am dehydrated. 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: So it's now time if we get a drum roll 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 2: please for Amy's word that she's going to dedicate her 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: life to in twenty twenty six. 15 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 4: Yes, it's a little mantra of sorts. 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 3: Go ahead, less less. 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 5: Less, less, what less everything like you name it? Less things, 18 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 5: more experiences, less texting, more meals together. 19 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 4: Get it? 20 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 5: See you, Less but you replace it with something more 21 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 5: less wanting more contentment with what I have, less screen time, 22 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 5: more interactions or even time for creating. 23 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: Got it? 24 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 4: Get it. 25 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 3: Some people say less is more. 26 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 2: I've heard that, Yes, but she wants less of some 27 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: things to have more of other things. 28 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 5: Yes, less oversharing, more building in silence. 29 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: That means your segments are going to be shorter. 30 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 5: You know, sometimes I get real excited about something, I 31 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 5: put it out there and I start talking about it, 32 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 5: like even if it's just amongst friends, but I say, 33 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 5: I'm more hands and the thing, I have an idea, I 34 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,279 Speaker 5: start to like put it all out there, so less 35 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 5: oversharing on that stuff and more building in silence. And 36 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 5: then if it comes to fruition and actually happens, then 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 5: I get to share more about it, because then I 38 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 5: feel like a loser when I don't like I have 39 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 5: this idea and I start talking to people about it 40 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 5: and then I don't follow through, and then I'm like, well, 41 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 5: lives suck less. 42 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 3: Of that less, Eddie. 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 2: Last year, your word was slow, really yeah, because you 44 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: said you wanted to live life at a slower pace, 45 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: speak slower. 46 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 6: And that didn't really happen, Like I still talk fast 47 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 6: and I wanted to be like you know, Bobby, I 48 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 6: I thought about what you said, but. 49 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: I can't do that, like I have to talk to 50 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: you didn't stay with your word last year? No, okay, 51 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: what is your word for twenty twenty six? This time serious? 52 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 6: And this goes with that. I'm serious. I'm serious about 53 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 6: the things I'm going to do. I'm no longer going 54 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 6: to be a joking just anything man. 55 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 7: Donating things easy. 56 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 6: But if I say something, which I'll be a little 57 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 6: more careful to say certain things. 58 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: If I say, I want to be serious about it. 59 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 2: So your word for twenty twenty six is serious, okay, lunchbox. 60 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 2: Your word last year was moving as far as business grows. 61 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 8: Yeah, making moves. Yeah, and I did that. I did 62 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 8: make moves. I attempted to make moves. 63 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 3: How did you make a move? We want to know. 64 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: I got on that one show for a pision. Forde 65 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: the Tourist was really a show. It was as a YouTube. 66 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: It was content, it was still something. How did you 67 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: get that? They reached out to me? Okay, yeah it 68 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 2: was great, but it was content. 69 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 8: Okay if you I mean there was multiple. 70 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 3: Episodes, so I don't know I consider that a show, 71 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 3: but maybe whatever. 72 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 8: And then I also tried to make like I mean, 73 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 8: I tried for the job at you know, the professional 74 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 8: soccer club here in town. I tried to get on 75 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 8: prices right, So I mean making moves is what was 76 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 8: more of trying to do things like he didn't necessarily 77 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 8: had to get them. 78 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 3: So he didn't make moves. But you tried to make 79 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 3: move last year. You had If I didn't try, what 80 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 3: you were this year? That's the thing? Oh here, you 81 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 3: don't have one. I was trying to think. 82 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 8: Of something like what's gonna like, what is twenty twenty 83 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 8: six gonna mean for me? And I decided that my 84 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 8: word of the year is grab. 85 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: Sound good? 86 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Sounds like when you get hr in here? 87 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, then we do grab? What are you grabbing opportunity? 88 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 8: Grabbing my future and taking hold of it? Isn't that 89 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 8: other way of saying moving? 90 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 9: Ye, same as the moves our grab grab a butt 91 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 9: dude and gift bags? 92 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, st oh that works? 93 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, So he goes, don't want to grab? 94 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's it doesn't matter. 95 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 4: We're gonna give every I like you grab the bull 96 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 4: by the horns. 97 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 2: That's right, That's what I'm saying. But isn't that moving though? 98 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 2: It's what you said last year? 99 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 8: Now that you say that, yeah, I didn't realize it was. 100 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 3: But it does kind of sound like. 101 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 7: But that's good. 102 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 5: He's got a theme, he's got maybe grab a different innership. 103 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 8: I don't want to be the same word two years ago. 104 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 8: I didn't realize they meant the same thing. So let 105 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 8: me go back to the drawing board. Oh, come back, 106 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 8: We'll circle back. 107 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 4: Yes, go back. 108 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: Mine last year was dj F tried to not be 109 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: as rigid so I could just don't not care as 110 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: much to foster a bit more creativity. I feel like 111 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: I did four out of ten. I still cared, I 112 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: was still pretty rigid. I was never late once I 113 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 2: tried to be like once. 114 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 5: I know that was the one. 115 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 2: I think my word for this year is going to 116 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 2: be positive because I have the tendency for anything that's happening. 117 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 2: I just have worst case scenario in my head all 118 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: the time, like anything that happens that's probably not gonna 119 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 2: work out like it could. I'm just gonna be more 120 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: positive about possible outcomes because I have quite a few 121 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 2: positive outcomes, but I'm never positive about them. 122 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 3: And then after all, I'm like, I wish we'd just 123 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 3: been more positive about that. 124 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have put myself through whatever stress I put 125 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: myself through and ended up pretty great. So I'm gonna 126 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 2: be I'm gonna be more positive situationally about things. 127 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 6: Nice, Okay, hold on, So like when we text about 128 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 6: games and I say like, hey, dude, it's okay. 129 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 3: I think we got this. Now you're jinxing it. But 130 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: see that's positive. Can you do that with sports? 131 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 6: Are you gonna be able to be positive with sports outcomes? 132 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think it's more about just 133 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 3: my things I can control. 134 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 6: Be positive about that, all right, So we're still gonna 135 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 6: be negative with the. 136 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 4: All things you can control. 137 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: Or things that I can have an influence of. 138 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 4: Right, you can't influence I can't influence football. 139 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: You can't know. That's them lunch by juggling back. What's 140 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:01,239 Speaker 3: your words? 141 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm made in between two you guys help me out? 142 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 8: Healthy or friendly? 143 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 4: This is a interesting twist. 144 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 3: What do you mean by healthy? 145 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: Like? 146 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 3: What do you mean by friendly? Like you're gonna be healthy? 147 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: Is great because you have to get that testical checked obviously, 148 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: And I think he's. 149 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 5: Probably is dying to feel back to normal, Like I 150 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 5: know he's not been able to run, and that's such 151 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 5: an important part of his overall well being. 152 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: Go with healthy because I don't want see it fail. 153 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 5: And healthy it could be like being friendly is could 154 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 5: be under the healthy category. 155 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're healthy friendlier. Good we're going with healthy, 156 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 3: go with healthy? Okay, good good luck, man, good luck 157 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 3: with everybody's words. Thanks, are you serious when you say that. 158 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 3: I'm definitely serious about it. I'm positive you'll be healthy. 159 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:50,119 Speaker 3: Thank you? 160 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 10: Amy? 161 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 3: Are you what was yours? Les Hey, you'd be less? 162 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 3: You stay less. 163 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 11: I was listening to the episode back in twenty eighteen. 164 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 11: Bobby said that he didn't have any Christmas traditions yet 165 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 11: because they didn't have a wife for kids. And I 166 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 11: know that the baby hasn't came yet, but I was 167 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 11: just wondering if Bobby had any traditions with his wife 168 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 11: that they've been doing on Christmas. Anyway, love the show, 169 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 11: Clint for Mississippi Bye. 170 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 3: Clint, appreciate that not yet. 171 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: My wife's family has a tradition of they watch Elf 172 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: on Christmas Eve. And I've said this before that we 173 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 2: didn't really have sometimes we don't only have Christmas, not really, 174 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: and we definitely didn't have any traditions growing up. So 175 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: the first time I went over to their house on 176 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: Christmas Eve and everybody like laiden palettes on the floor 177 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 2: and watched Elf, it was really foreign to me. Now 178 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: I look forward to it and we weren't Fabel for 179 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: this Christmas, and it was a little different because people 180 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: were coming in, Like all those kids and that family 181 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: now have their own kids, so it's harder to get 182 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: everybody together. 183 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we all got together for a little bit 184 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 3: and Elf was on. 185 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: But the kids are so little, it's hard to get 186 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 2: everybody to watch Elf, yeah, to watch anything because kids 187 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: are running around all over the place. But yeah, I 188 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: think probably next year we'll start that. I've kind of 189 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 2: just been taken in on some of their traditions for now. 190 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 3: But Christmas was good. It was warm as crap. 191 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 4: I know that part felt weird, weird. 192 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 3: I liked it. 193 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: Like Arkansas, Keith came up on Christmas. He drove up 194 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 2: to Fayville and we went. I walked around the football 195 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: stadium because it was warm. 196 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 3: That's cool. 197 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh, like, can you just go do that if 198 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 5: you want to, or do you have to have a 199 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 5: special no outside. 200 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: We ended up going in a gate and the cops 201 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: came and got us, but so so yes and no. 202 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 2: We just went and walked around Razorback Stadium because he's 203 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 2: not up there a whole lot. I was like, hey, 204 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 2: nobody's out. Its Chrismas Day. Let's just go walk around. 205 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 2: We looked at the statues and stuff. There are like 206 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 2: hog statues and I said, well, I know somewhere we 207 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 2: can probably kind of get into a gate had no connection. 208 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 2: The gate was unlocked. We walked through twenty steps after that. 209 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 2: Excuse me, guys. And he's a little scared because well 210 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: it's a cop and he's a law abider. 211 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was like, oh, we're just walking around. 212 00:08:58,320 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: The gate was open. I didn't hit him with the 213 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: legs or anything. 214 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 4: Wow. They had security out there Christmas Day. 215 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 2: They did, and they were on it. So no traditions yet. 216 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 2: Oh that would be fun. We go walk around the 217 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 2: Stadtball Stadium. 218 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 3: Every single year. 219 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 4: You and Keith can have that, all right? 220 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 3: Heavy with the next one. 221 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 4: Hi, a little late on your podcast, but listening to 222 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 4: the Twelve Days of Christmas, Eddie, you ruined it with Salta. 223 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: Every time they told you to stop saying it and 224 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: you kept doing it. You ruined it. 225 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 3: Love the show, Bye, Wow, ruined it. 226 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: I would say we got the joke after the first couple. 227 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: You didn't have to keep doing the joke. I don't 228 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: know how how else to say. 229 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't think it's a joke because he doesn't 230 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 9: say salsa like that every time. 231 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 3: No, you don't say that. 232 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 4: Thought it was funny. Also, speaking of eddie salsa, that 233 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 4: it was really good? 234 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 3: Did it a little too hot? I don't want I 235 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 3: don't want to like. 236 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 2: Piana's gift, guys, But I texted Calyssen, what are you 237 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: texting Eddie? 238 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 3: His sauce is too hot? She said, he gave that 239 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 3: to you. Why would you critique someone gift. 240 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 5: I think the critique is necessary. I'm with you on 241 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 5: that because I think should he gift us more, we 242 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 5: need to we need to dial it back on the 243 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 5: heat a little bit. 244 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 7: But other than that, so delicious dial back. 245 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 3: On the heat. 246 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 6: But you guys definitely want more sides sizing. 247 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, but the heat was unbearable. 248 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 4: Like weed away at all. 249 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 2: And I'm as occasionally taste budded as possible, huh, meaning 250 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 2: I don't like hot stuff. And it was still really good. 251 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: I just fought through it. But it was a little hot. 252 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: And my wife said, why would you message Hi about 253 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 2: something free? I said, because he wants to feedback, because 254 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 2: he wants to give it to us again. 255 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 6: And your text was like, is this one a little hotter. 256 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 3: Than the last one? I was a little nice about it. 257 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 3: You are, you're nice about it. 258 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 2: I got a double up gift during Christmas and this 259 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: is just my wife's mind versus mine. And so I 260 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 2: was given a gift and I opened it and it 261 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: was something I already had, and I immediately was gonna go, oh, 262 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: this school already have one of these. And before I 263 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 2: got that out, she goes, don't say it, because she 264 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: knew where I was going to go. 265 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 3: I was like, we already have wash I tell them. 266 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 2: She goes, no, just accept the gift and say thank 267 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 2: you and then you can figure it out later. But 268 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,599 Speaker 2: it was don't worry about it. 269 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 3: That's not my other Mexican friend gave me. 270 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 11: Talk to you. 271 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: So when Eddie gave me his oh no, no, it 272 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 2: was nobody from here. 273 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 3: Okay, if it was, I would definitely say it. So 274 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 3: have you dealt with that? I just have two of 275 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 3: them now, yeah. 276 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 4: Because like, how do you deal with it? We went 277 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 4: to return something. 278 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 5: My boyfriend was like, the they wanted to know like 279 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 5: maybe the phone number associated with it, and so then 280 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 5: he had to guess the person's number because they needed 281 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 5: to look up the order and then he was like, 282 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 5: but no, no, no, no no, because if you return 283 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 5: it then they may get a text or an email. 284 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 5: And so he's like, scratch that, scratch that because that's 285 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 5: like the worst. 286 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 3: Okay, I gave it away. 287 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 4: Who do you give it to? 288 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that. Why would I say who? 289 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 5: I right? Oh, you regifted it because giving it away 290 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 5: and regifting is different because you might be like, oh, 291 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 5: hey man, here's this, but did you wrap it and 292 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 5: give it to somebody else? 293 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 2: I didn't wrap it, but I gave it away during 294 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: the Christmas time, so it felt like a Christmas gift. 295 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 7: Interesting. 296 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I kept the spirit going. So how I 297 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 3: see it? 298 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 10: That's beautiful. 299 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 2: But I literally was gonna go, oh, thanks, already have 300 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 2: one of these, but just a shut up, like you 301 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 2: you're not doing it. 302 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: I was doing a purpose. Ray give me number the 303 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 3: next one. 304 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 10: Four. 305 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: I just got out of prison a month ago and 306 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: I made it a month in my first Christmas. And 307 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: I want to say anybody out there who thinks they can't. 308 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 11: Do it, do it. 309 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: Because I used to be a broad dealing nobody. Anybody 310 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: can be anything. Now I'm about to go to college. 311 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: And do what I do. 312 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 3: Let's go. Anybody can be anything. I agree, the world 313 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 3: is bendable. Okay, well you aren't motivated by no I am. 314 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, like we're so. 315 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 7: He's been He's been out a month. 316 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 3: My first Christmas. I wanted to say, I've mean, I 317 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 3: made it a month. That's cool. 318 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: One day at a time, Bro, that's right. Anybody can 319 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 2: be anything. 320 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 3: Go do what you do. 321 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 4: It sounds like he got rehabilitated in there. 322 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 10: He's going to college. 323 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 5: I know. 324 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 325 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: I watched a really good show over the break. I 326 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 2: don't know if I should just wait, wait for Tuesday 327 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 2: Reviews Day. 328 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 3: I did. 329 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: Also on Tuesday Reviews Day, I saw my first and 330 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 2: it was the only movie of all of twenty twenty 331 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 2: five that I'm giving five stars to. Whoa You Never Did, 332 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 2: Never Do is a movie and I did not plan 333 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: to watch it. Maybe I do in the podcast today. Regardless, 334 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 2: I watched my first five star movie. 335 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 3: I have so many things to talk about. 336 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 2: The segment we didn't do before the break, which Lunchbox suggested, 337 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: was let's debate if Morgan's going to get engaged? And 338 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,479 Speaker 2: Amy is the one that said, hey, we shouldn't. 339 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 5: Do it, yeah, because he wanted everyone to go around 340 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 5: and give their percentages, like what's the. 341 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: Likelihood Morgan's going to get engaged? 342 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 5: And I felt like I really didn't think it was 343 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 5: going to happen, but small chance that it would happen. 344 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 7: I wouldn't want to ruin that. 345 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 5: For her boyfriend if he heard that, and it's like, oh, well, great, 346 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 5: now they're all talking about how one hundred percent she's 347 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 5: going to get engaged, because I know Lunchbox probably thought 348 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 5: it was one hundred percent. 349 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 3: He told one hundred. I was about eighty eight. 350 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 7: Okay, I was at like five. 351 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 5: But I just felt like it was so close to 352 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 5: like what if it actually did happen, I wouldn't want to, 353 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 5: you know, disrupt any of his plans, Like I don't 354 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 5: know how he would feel about that. 355 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 2: So Morgan got engaged over Christmas? All right, Morgan, Lunchbox, 356 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 2: your thoughts. 357 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 8: This might be the most predictable engagement we've ever had 358 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 8: in the world. Like, I mean, it was just, I mean, 359 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 8: it was so easily predicted. We all knew it was happening. 360 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 3: And it's just Amy was a five percent. 361 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 5: To be fair, Chris, I thought I knew that she 362 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 5: felt like he was the one and it would likely happen. 363 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 7: I did. I was not on the train that it 364 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 7: was happening Christmas break. 365 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 8: Well, let's just go over the timeline. He's about to 366 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 8: leave Nashville. He's given up on life, like he's moving 367 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 8: back home with. 368 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 10: Mom and dad. 369 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: And he talked, I don't know if that's true. 370 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 8: He no, no, he talked to the man upstairs, like 371 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 8: at nine to thirty pm, he said, give me a 372 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 8: sign that I'm supposed to say at stay in Nashville. 373 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 8: Two hours later at the bar, he meets Morgan. Oh yeah, 374 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 8: and then he's about to be homeless. He's losing his place. 375 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 8: He's like, hey, can I move in with you? 376 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 10: Moves in with Morgan. Christmas comes around, He's like, man, 377 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 10: I don't know what to get her. I know, I 378 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 10: know what. She'll take a ring. But it was like 379 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 10: it was all right out there. I mean, five months 380 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 10: and we're engaged. It's crazy. 381 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 7: It was longer than five months, the. 382 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 8: Most predictable engagement in the history of engage. 383 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 6: How long was it? 384 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 3: Well, let's talk to Morgan. Guys. 385 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, this was great. He was talking about me 386 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 4: without my input. 387 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 8: First of all, congratulations, that's not first of all, that's 388 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 8: like ninth of all. 389 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 3: You just did like eight things. 390 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 10: I'm very happy for you, excited for you. 391 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 2: But man, this was like okay, so Morgan, over to you. 392 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 2: You have the no interrupting stack knowledge bock, did you 393 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 2: know coming. 394 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 10: Go ahead? 395 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 3: Morgan? 396 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 12: Yeah, we got engaged and it was awesome. I was 397 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 12: completely surprised, surprised and not knowing when it was going 398 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 12: to happen. We had gone and look at rings together, so. 399 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 3: I knew we were going to told us that. Okay, no, 400 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 3: that was something we did. 401 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 12: We only went once, and I just I had no 402 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 12: idea what I wanted. I had no idea even about 403 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 12: an engagement ring. I'd never looked at engagement rings. So 404 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 12: we went and looked and that was, I guess all 405 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 12: he needed. And then he decided to propose. He wanted 406 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 12: it to be around my family. He wanted it to 407 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 12: be a complete surprise. It's very difficult to surprise me 408 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 12: because I'm I ask a lot of questions and I'm 409 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 12: very inquisitive. And he also wanted it to be a 410 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 12: really pretty scene in him and I both really loved Christmas. 411 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 3: So it was perfect where what talent you do? 412 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 4: Then it was in. 413 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 12: Wichita and it happened at Botanica, which is like a 414 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 12: family tradition for us. We go every year as a 415 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 12: family to it's like Botanica gardens that they do two 416 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 12: million Christmas lights. And my sister and brother in law 417 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 12: were also in on it and they helped him scope 418 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 12: it out to find the best spot for the proposal. 419 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 3: Is it a botanical gardens? 420 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? 421 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 3: Got it? And you didn't know? Your parents? Did they know? 422 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 3: He asked my dad, But did did they know it 423 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 3: was coming that night? 424 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 4: He didn't. 425 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 12: He said yes, and obviously he knew it was going 426 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 12: to happen, but he also wanted it to be a 427 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 12: surprise for my mom, So my mom did not know. 428 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 3: Was he acting weird leading up to it? 429 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 2: No? 430 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 12: Not until the very like last, as we're getting ready 431 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 12: to go to Botanica garden, I caught him like sitting 432 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 12: on the bed. 433 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 7: It's called Botanica. 434 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: That's why it's. 435 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 12: Called it is botanical gardens, so it's called Botanica. 436 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 3: That makes sense for us. 437 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 7: Was like Italian, yes you no, I'll just say Botanica. 438 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 12: When we were about to leave, he was sitting on 439 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 12: the bed and he was just kind of staring and 440 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 12: his eyes were closed, and I walked in. 441 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 4: I was like, are you okay? Are you good? He's 442 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 4: like I was just. 443 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 12: Contemplating my outfit for tonight. And I was like, that 444 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 12: was a little strange. And that was the only moment 445 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 12: where I was like that was a little weird. And 446 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,199 Speaker 12: then I started to pick up on little weird things throughout, 447 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 12: like my sister kept looking around when we were at 448 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 12: the Gardens lunchbox and that at that point, I was like, Okay, 449 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 12: that's weird. Who are you looking for? Everybody's here and 450 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 12: so I can look back and see all the things. 451 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 12: But I wasn't piecing it together because I didn't expect 452 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 12: it to happen at that moment. 453 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: Lunchbox, you get one thing to say positive. 454 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 10: No, I'm just happy for you. 455 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 3: There you go. That's what. 456 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 1: We'll do. 457 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 10: You have an what did you get you for Christmas? 458 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 12: There's another gift? It was It was something custom that 459 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 12: was special. 460 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 3: Tests that's cool. 461 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 10: I just wondered, So does that mean now he doesn't 462 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 10: have to favor rent? 463 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 4: No, you share this homeless thing. 464 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 3: I've not heard the home. He had a literal that's 465 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 3: Ray's story for sure. 466 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,360 Speaker 10: No, I know he's but this was a lot. I mean, 467 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 10: I'm just saying. 468 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 4: It wasn't similar. 469 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 12: He literally lived in an apartment and his lease was 470 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 12: ending and he could either continue it or not, and 471 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 12: he chose not to. We chose to move in together. 472 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 12: He still had the money to pay for an apartment. 473 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 3: So we say, but that's all we do on this show. 474 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 5: Say, why would you say he does like lunchbox? He 475 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 5: has a job, so like, where does his money go? 476 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 10: So we say, I mean, it's just it was. I'm 477 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:05,239 Speaker 10: so happy for you. 478 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 8: I'm glad you sound it just I don't know we all, 479 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 8: I mean, you guys all saw it right, Like the predictability, No, 480 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 8: what is that song on the show, A little predictability, 481 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 8: the people. 482 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 3: The evening TV in full House. 483 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: I think predictability in the way of like they had 484 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 2: been together a while. How long have you guys been together? 485 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 4: It's been about ten months. 486 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 3: Fun, that's an adequate time, almost a year. 487 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 10: And also I feel like I feel like it. 488 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 5: Is almost a year years literally your lunch bus had 489 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 5: five months exactly. 490 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 10: She went to him, was like, look, how did you 491 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 10: let Abby engage for us? What's going on. 492 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 2: And then he was like, all right, fine, Oh you 493 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 2: think the pressure from Abby getting engaged was then on him? 494 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, Like she was like, hello, what are you doing? 495 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 8: And so then he was like, okay, I don't know 496 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 8: it just it's okay. 497 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 12: That's also now what happened. We went and looked at ring. 498 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 12: It was in October, and from that moment forward he 499 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 12: was working with one of my friends in a jeweler 500 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 12: to design the ring. So it's been in the works 501 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 12: before that happened. There was no thing around her engagement whatsoever, 502 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 12: completely separate. 503 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 4: So let's not do that as. 504 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 3: Much of a hater Abby's engagement. I forget no. 505 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 10: I mean he. 506 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 7: Probably just didn't have the time. 507 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 5: He's hated on everything. Like when I got engaged twenty 508 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 5: years ago, he was hating all the. 509 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 3: Girls had a two week break. 510 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 10: I did not hate on yours. Yours was like three weeks, 511 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 10: and we all hated on yours. We were shot. And 512 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 10: then the fact you came in. 513 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 7: And said hate on it, but you all hate I. 514 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 10: Hate it, well, Bobby was included. 515 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 8: And the back when you announced that I'm getting married 516 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 8: on New Year's Eve, I was like, oh my gosh, 517 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 8: this is the worst engagement ever. 518 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 10: That was what I was really frustrated about. So, yeahsrated. 519 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 10: I don't know him. I don't know if I hated 520 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 10: on Abby's because. 521 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 8: I mean, what they already they've been together for like 522 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 8: twelve years, and. 523 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 3: I don't know that. More than that, I think you nailed. 524 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 10: Abby's been together for three years. 525 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 3: How long it has been together? No, it's been two 526 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 3: It has been two years. 527 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 10: It has been a long time. 528 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 3: Well, look, everybody's happy. We're good. 529 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 8: Well we're going to say that you said, but you 530 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 8: said but earlier before, if he wants you to be 531 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 8: on his helme. 532 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: Team, we'll talk more about this on the podcast check 533 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 3: it out. 534 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,959 Speaker 10: But we're all happy for right, Yes, we're all very happy. 535 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 2: Absolutely, But I did want to say that was the 536 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 2: bit we talked about. We were like, we're not doing 537 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 2: this bit, but we may tell you on the other side, 538 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 2: and that's what it was. Amy said, we're not doing 539 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 2: that bit. 540 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 12: I am glad you guys didn't do it, just for 541 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 12: the fact that it would have put me on a track. 542 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 12: Since he was doing it, I would have been like, oh, 543 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 12: maybe it is going to happen at Christmas. And honestly, 544 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 12: I just he wanted to completely surprise me, and that's 545 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,719 Speaker 12: that's what he accomplished. 546 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 3: Congratulations, No, nothing else, Lunchboks. 547 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 10: I'm not show the ring to the camera. 548 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 3: Where's the congratulations there? 549 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 5: It is. 550 00:21:53,920 --> 00:22:04,640 Speaker 2: The bit of the question, Hello, Bobby Bones, I'm thirty two, 551 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 2: just found out and be a dad first kid. 552 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 3: Still feel surreal. I didn't grow up with the dad 553 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 3: he wasn't around. 554 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 2: How do you navigate all these new feelings in the beginning, 555 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 2: the fear of the pressure. Also, how did you tell 556 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 2: your family? I want this moment to be special, but 557 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: I also don't want to feel the weight of expectations. 558 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 2: I signed soon to be dad. I don't have right 559 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: answers on this. I really didn't have to tell my family. 560 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: I didn't have a lot of family to tell. We 561 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 2: called Keith Arkansas Keith and he was like, oh yeah, 562 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 2: how about that, because I think they just kind of 563 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 2: gave up and Arkansas Keith was my stepdad at one point. 564 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 2: But we called her family bam bam bam. But I 565 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: think to her, never tell you the story about me 566 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:46,360 Speaker 2: recording her parents. So I was in charge of when 567 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 2: we told them. It was on FaceTime, and it was 568 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 2: on her phone. Her mom and her dad were together 569 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 2: and we told him that she's pregnant, and I was 570 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 2: in charge of recording their reaction, and I guess I accidentally. 571 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 3: Hit record before I was supposed to hit record. 572 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 2: Then when I hit record, I was turning it off, 573 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 2: so I missed them in all their reaction. But then 574 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 2: I hit record to turn it off and I thought 575 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 2: it was on. So what I did record was them 576 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 2: after their reaction, So. 577 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 9: You had no footage of the action, nothing, only before 578 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 9: and after you had one job. 579 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 2: Yes, totally screwed that up. Don't put all these pressures 580 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 2: on yourself right now. It's all gonna happen anyway. I 581 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 2: don't know how to be a dad. I'm not a 582 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 2: dad yet, but all this stuff, there's going to be 583 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: a time and place for it. But it's not productive 584 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 2: to penalize yourself for something that hasn't happened yet. 585 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 3: So don't do that to yourself. 586 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 2: Don't hold yourself accountable for something you haven't even done 587 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 2: wrong yet. I think all that's natural, though. I mean, Eddie, 588 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 2: you could speak to it. You were a first time 589 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 2: dad the first time. 590 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't think anyone is ready to be a 591 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 6: dad like I definitely was ready to be a dad. 592 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 3: But you figure it out, man, and it's an awesome thing. 593 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,640 Speaker 6: And you're gonna think that everything is impossible, but it's 594 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 6: not and it all works out. 595 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 2: How do you navigate all the new feelings? I think 596 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 2: you don't have the opportunity to not navigate them, so 597 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 2: you just know they're gonna come. And again, don't penalize 598 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 2: yourself before you even do anything wrong. 599 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: I think that's a big part of life. 600 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 2: Don't beat yourself up before it's time, too, because sometimes 601 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: you beat yourself up and you don't even need to 602 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: beat yourself up whenever it comes, because you actually a 603 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 2: better job than you. 604 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 3: Thought you were going to. 605 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 6: I think community is big too, Like ask your buddies 606 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 6: who are other dads too? 607 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 3: Like, Hey, what do you do here? I ain't doing that? 608 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 3: Hey man, I'm here whenever you need me. 609 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,880 Speaker 4: I'm good though, You're just gonna figure it out. 610 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 3: I don't have any buddies I'm gonna go to I'm 611 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 3: right here, right here. I'm all good. Hey, thank you though, 612 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 3: thank you for offering. I'm all good. 613 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 2: Just know this is all normal and natural. That's super 614 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 2: exciting for you. It's very normal. It's very natural. But 615 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 2: don't hold don't be mean to yourself because something hasn't 616 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 2: happened yet. So you got this. There are much dumber 617 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 2: people than you that have been great dads. That's what 618 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 2: I say to myself. 619 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 3: That is true. There are way dumber friends of yours 620 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 3: that have been good dads. So they can do it. 621 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 3: You can do it. All right, there you go, All right, 622 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 3: it's time to play the Bobby feud. 623 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 10: We have. 624 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 2: Top New Year's resolutions for twenty twenties just gin pop. 625 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: A survey found the top ten New Year's resolutions for 626 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 2: Americans in twenty twenty six. 627 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 3: It'll go Amy, Lunchbox, Eddie, Mike. Who's first? Though, Amy, Amy, 628 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 3: you are first. Let's play the few ten answers on 629 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 3: the board. 630 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Uh, lose weight, lose weight, show me lose weight. 631 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 3: Lose weight at number one, lose weight, diet and. 632 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 4: Exercise, figured save money. 633 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 2: Show me save money, save money or payoff debts or loans. 634 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 4: Less screen time, show me yeah that. 635 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 3: They are getting and everything. Yep, number five, you have 636 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 3: eight points so far more. 637 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 9: Family time, me, family time? What's wrong with people? Over 638 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 9: to lunchbox. Lunchbox, she only has nine points. Ten answers 639 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 9: are on the board taught New Year's resolutions for twenty 640 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 9: twenty six. 641 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, she took all three of the ones I had 642 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 8: written down. So we'll go with switch careers. Gosh, I 643 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 8: just had that one. 644 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 3: Show me switch careers. Wow, wow, Yes, switch careers comes 645 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 3: in at get a new job number two. There you go, 646 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 3: oh number two? 647 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 10: All right? All right? 648 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 3: Uh, you're gonna. 649 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 10: Stay in touch with friends. 650 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 8: More connection, connection with your friends, more, show me connection 651 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 8: with friends. 652 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 3: I Lunch talks are two points, Eddie. 653 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 2: There are four answers off the board, diet and exercise, 654 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 2: get a new job, reduced screen time, and pay off 655 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 2: debts or loans. We're looking at the top ten New 656 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 2: Year's resolutions for Americans at twenty twenty six. 657 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 3: What do you have? Gosh, not much. They took a 658 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 3: lot of the good ones. But give me. 659 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 8: Move to a new city, show me move. 660 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 5: All right. 661 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: Points are doubled round two of three, Amy, over to 662 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: you eat healthier. 663 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 3: You said diet, right, Yeah, who said diet? You said that? 664 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 3: I said lose weight, diet and exercise. 665 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 5: All those were my bad dang, because you may want 666 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 5: to just eat more nutritious and not lose any weight? 667 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, Lunchbox, dang, I'm an idiot. Travel more, 668 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 3: show me travel more? 669 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 2: How was it? 670 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 3: Eddie? Points are doubled. You have zero points. 671 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 6: Yet some people they just drink too much and they're like, 672 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 6: you know what, not this year, I'm gonna drink less. 673 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 2: Good one, show me less sorry alcohol, show me less alcohol? 674 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 3: Who number four? Answer? Hey? Eight points? The top five 675 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 3: are off the board. Talk about here, Eddie? How you 676 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 3: feeling not great? 677 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 6: I have one written down, but Lunchbox kind of touched 678 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 6: on it. He said, be closer to your friends. I'm 679 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 6: gonna go one step further and say make new friends. 680 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 681 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 2: Points are tripled, Amy, you are in the lead. Yeah, 682 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: you have nine points. Five answers off the board. Diet, 683 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 2: an exercise, get a new job, or do screen time? 684 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 2: Stop drinking alcohol, pay off debts or loans read more. 685 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one. 686 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 4: I feel like you're tricking me now. 687 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 3: No, it's a good one. And I say that it 688 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 3: didn't make. 689 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 4: It turn it. I'm out. 690 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 10: No, you're not. 691 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 3: I'm out. 692 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 10: Amy only got two points, so. 693 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 3: I gotta get one. Well, come on, what do you 694 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 3: got I'm trying to think. 695 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 11: Right now. 696 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, Eddie, I'm trying to think new year, knew you. 697 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 8: And when you say new you, you're gonna get out 698 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 8: of that bad relationship. You're gonna get that new partner 699 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 8: that just come up, that just came up. 700 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 10: You're gonna get out of that bad relationship. 701 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 8: You're gonna get work on you. 702 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 3: Let's go. You've said a lot of things that says 703 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 3: like eighty. 704 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 8: So your answer is that new relationship, partner getting a 705 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 8: new relationship. 706 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 3: So lunch is out. Eddiet's over here, you can win. 707 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 2: I had getting your boyfriend pretty much the lunch and 708 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 2: Morgan just lose over and over again. 709 00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 9: Mike. 710 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 3: They are they the ones bouncing it out? 711 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, find a lover. 712 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 3: So I'm pretty stress free here because I mean, yeah, 713 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 3: he's only you're in. But you want to win, right, 714 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 3: I do want to win that. You guys got the 715 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 3: top five. 716 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 6: Okay, I got something go ahead, learn to do something new. 717 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 3: Oh, come on, I thought reading was really good. I 718 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 3: was surprised it didn't make it. 719 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 2: I am too, learn to do something new. 720 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 4: No. 721 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 3: So, first of all, our winner is Amy at number six. 722 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 2: A little more specific order less uber eates or DoorDash 723 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 2: that is specific at number seven, This was Amy's word 724 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 2: a couple of years ago. 725 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 3: Drink more water at number eight, donate more? Okay, that 726 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 3: never cross my mind. That was not on my radar. 727 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 3: Anything else come to your mind for at the last 728 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 3: two Morgan, you didn't place or anything that you would. 729 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 4: Have said, stay off your phone. 730 00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 3: Look, we did reduce screen time. 731 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 2: Okay, shopless, choplift that's Amazon. 732 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 3: Get a new pet. Uh number nine, get more sleep? 733 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 3: Oh good one? 734 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 2: And what screams Amy, because number two get a therapist. Boom, 735 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 2: go to therapy, ustling and there she is our winner 736 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: of game one of twenty twenty six. It is Amy, 737 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 2: great job. Are you guilty of being a velcrow parent? 738 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 2: What do you think that is? 739 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 4: By the way, attached to your kids too much? 740 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 2: A velcrol parent's a caregiver who remains constantly attached to 741 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 2: their child. It can be physically, emotionally or mentally. The 742 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 2: parents sticks to their child like velcrow, and they intervene 743 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: rather than allow the kid to handle it go through 744 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 2: tough things on their own. 745 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 3: That way, they can be close. 746 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 2: If they's disappointment, frustration, anger, confusion, boredom, et cetera. Huffington Post, 747 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 2: Are you a velcrow? Parent Amy, Nope, you let them 748 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:54,959 Speaker 2: go mess up. 749 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 4: Definitely not. 750 00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 5: I can not be a vel parent. I think certain situations, 751 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 5: not all. In certain situations. There was one recently where 752 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 5: I definitely wanted to swoop in, and I took everything 753 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 5: in me not too. 754 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 4: I had to practice stay on and. 755 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 2: You didn't because you saw long term benefits of you 756 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 2: not jumping in in them learning yes for themselves. 757 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I had to just keep saying over 758 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 5: and over, stay on your side of the street, stay 759 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 5: on your side. 760 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 4: Of the street. 761 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 2: Now you're not being literal. They weren't being abducted on 762 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 2: the other side of the street, and you just didn't 763 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 2: jump into help. 764 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 5: In that case, I would intervene one hundred percent. This 765 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 5: was a situation where I needed to just stay on 766 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 5: my side of the street, and I was very proud 767 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 5: of myself. 768 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 3: So vel girl parent probably the cousin a helicopter parent. 769 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 6: It's different though, right because one of them hovers the 770 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 6: other one sticks. 771 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Belco's a little more intense, Eddie. I 772 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 2: feel like you're at least a little more Belcrow than 773 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: Amy is. 774 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 3: Honestly, man, I'm not I try to be, but I 775 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 3: don't think my kids, let me stick to them. Are 776 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 3: you a helicopter? No? No, no, no, okay, oh my god. 777 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 2: No you are yeah, your denial parents, yea denial. 778 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 6: My technique is to not let them do things like 779 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 6: like you know, so like if social media is an issue, 780 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 6: then you're not going to get Instagram Like, we're not 781 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 6: going to do that. And so in that case, like 782 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 6: they're just not going to get into that trouble. 783 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 3: But when they go to school and they have a problem, 784 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: like with a. 785 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 6: Friend or whatever, I try to be like, hey, man, 786 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 6: talk to me, let's do it, like I'd love to 787 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 6: help you with this. 788 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 3: They're like, no, I'm good, dad, I got so. I 789 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 3: try to be velcro, but they don't want. 790 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 5: I don't think offering feedback if you're asking is being velcrow. 791 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 5: I think if they have a situation at school and 792 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 5: you're like, hey, if you want to talk about it, 793 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 5: I'm here, would you like feedback on it? That's being supportive. 794 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 3: Give yourself a name? Then what kind of parent are you? 795 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 2: If you were to have a velcrow helicopter, it can 796 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: be anything, something that doesn't even exist. What would you say? 797 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 2: Because I think whenever you got a struggle for what happened? 798 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 3: What you say? My ladya up base? 799 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 4: Mine might depend on the day. I'm fluid. 800 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,840 Speaker 5: You're a fluid parent, yeah, like I can be what 801 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 5: what version's going to show up today? 802 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,760 Speaker 4: No, just kidding. I try to be consistent as possible. 803 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 3: But you know we slip up, eddie. What would you 804 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 3: say about you? 805 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 6: Maybe like a pickleball parent, or like pickleball is a 806 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 6: cool sport, right, Like I think I'm a cool dad, 807 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 6: but then but they don't really think I'm cool. 808 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 3: Just like people don't think pickleballs cool. They don't play it. 809 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 3: If you play, it's like this is the coolest thing 810 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: in the world. But if you know, you're like, okay, 811 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 3: nerds over there, old people. Right, So you're the pickleball parent. 812 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 3: I'm a pickleball parent. That's pretty good. I try my best. 813 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 2: You do, try to do cool things with your oldest kid. 814 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 2: I try to be cool with him, and he's like, dad, stop, 815 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 2: they're boys. 816 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 3: Like if they're like one of them. I see him 817 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 3: texting a girl, I'm like, dude, Hey, you want to 818 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 3: talk to me. 819 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 2: About Oh No, I can help you talk about girls, 820 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 2: but not I can help you pick up the girl. 821 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 6: No, I can help you, Like, like you're struggling texting 822 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 6: with a girl, I'll tell you what to say. Oh, like, 823 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 6: this is cool parenting. 824 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 4: What do you tell him to say? 825 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 6: I think he always says, leave me alone, dad, Okay, fine, fine, 826 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,759 Speaker 6: you know I got your mind right. 827 00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 3: That's what you said. I got her. I got her. Yes, 828 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 3: you're only here because I got her exactly. 829 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 5: I do like it that Eddie's at least trying to 830 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,439 Speaker 5: be involved in that way, because some parents just get 831 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 5: uncomfortable with any talk like that and they just don't 832 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 5: even talk about it. So I think it's cute that 833 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 5: Eddie tries to insert himself and then his son is like, no, 834 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 5: I'm good. 835 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 2: You know, we just bought it because we're gonna have 836 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 2: a baby soon. We bought a thing that you put 837 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 2: a super baby in in the bathtub. You can't put 838 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 2: them in the bathtub by themselves. I mean not by themselves. 839 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 2: You can't even they don't even take bad. You gotta 840 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 2: put them in like a smaller thing to go in 841 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 2: the bathtub, like a strainer. It looks like a strainer, 842 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,399 Speaker 2: like I'm strained spaghetti. You put them in the strain. 843 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 2: You put a super baby in the strainer to give 844 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 2: him a bath and super baby because it's a little 845 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:55,879 Speaker 2: little baby baby. 846 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, some people don't super baby sounds it's. 847 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 5: A big super baby, but you mean it's tiniest super 848 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 5: baby that baby. 849 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 4: So it goes in the bathtub. I just figured. 850 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,280 Speaker 5: I don't know because I never had a newborn baby, 851 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 5: but like I just always see people bathe them in 852 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:10,880 Speaker 5: the sink and stuff. 853 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 3: It's easier to do it. 854 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 2: Sure if you want to, you know, get them up 855 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 2: with your oatmeal bowls. But we have a for the bathtub. 856 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 2: We bought this thing that you put it in. It 857 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 2: kind of looks like a salad strainer that that's tall. 858 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 2: I guess you put them. I'm gonna you know, I'm 859 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 2: gonna let the baby swim. Don't you just throw the man? 860 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 2: They do that, don't throw them in. Just see what 861 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 2: happened they do that? You know, like the Nirvana cover 862 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 2: of the baby swimming, that's what they do. That's like 863 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 2: a toddler though, right, or like a four year old. 864 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 3: That's a super baby. Oh man. 865 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, so that we just got to some people give 866 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 5: birth in water. Yeah, baby comes. 867 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 4: Out in the water. 868 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:48,839 Speaker 3: Like you think about that. 869 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 5: I'm always interested because I'm intrigued by it. They set 870 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 5: up like a little blow up hot tub looking thing 871 00:36:55,520 --> 00:37:00,439 Speaker 5: in their bedroom, which I would offer that over thing 872 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 5: in my bed, Like. 873 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 4: I had a friend that gave. 874 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 3: I don't want to do it at the house. 875 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 2: Oh well, even when you say that, it's like if 876 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 2: we're going to do it at the house on a tub, 877 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 2: which we're not, and there's no judgment here, we're not 878 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,240 Speaker 2: doing it in the bedroom. 879 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:19,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, my friend specifically wanted to do it. Yes, 880 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 5: it was a full circle moment, and she was like, 881 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 5: there's nothing more you know, sacred or intimate than like 882 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 5: our bed is. So she wanted the baby to be 883 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 5: born there, and she had mirrors in everything. 884 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 2: Wife, there is not a wrong, but there's very few wrongs. 885 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,879 Speaker 2: Just because I don't quite understand doesn't mean it's wrong. 886 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 2: But that we that's ruined, right, that's dead. 887 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,800 Speaker 5: Well they put down special It doesn't matter. 888 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 2: You're telling me stuff ain't getting through. You can tarp 889 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 2: that thing four times. Stuff still getting through. But there's 890 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:49,879 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff going through. 891 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 3: We talked many about water still got under the af 892 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:52,440 Speaker 3: through a big storm. 893 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 894 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, the dark stories behind Disney movies. 895 00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 3: I didn't know a lot of this. 896 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: Number one, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs in the 897 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 2: original fairy tale, the huntsmen bring the evil queen the 898 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 2: lungs and liver of a boar, and she eats them, 899 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 2: believing did the lungs and liver of snow White? 900 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:12,359 Speaker 3: You can't put that in there. 901 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 2: At the end of the story, snow White and the 902 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 2: Prince punish the queen by making her wear red hot 903 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 2: iron shoes, and they make her dance at their wedding 904 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 2: until she dies. 905 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 3: Dang, that's dark. It is dark. 906 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 2: They put fire iron on her feet and make her 907 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 2: dance till she dies. 908 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 3: That's something. 909 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,800 Speaker 4: This is very vengeance twisted. 910 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 3: Number two. 911 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 2: This is the original stories that end up being Disney movies. 912 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 2: Sleeping Beauty. The Prince doesn't kiss the sleeping princess. He 913 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 2: impregnates her while she's sleeping, no way, and she doesn't 914 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 2: wake up until she gives birth to twins and one 915 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,760 Speaker 2: of them sucks on her finger to remove the cursed splinter. 916 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 4: What I'm weird A doubt who wrote that? 917 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't have green lit that cartoon. 918 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 2: Well they did, they didn't, That's why they change that. 919 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 2: The next one Cinderella. In the fairy tale, the Ugly 920 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 2: Stepsisters cut off parts of their feet to make the 921 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,840 Speaker 2: glass slipper fit. That makes sense, but they take a 922 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 2: knife and cut off toes. Don't just cram them in, 923 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 2: because in the movie they cram them in and at 924 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,800 Speaker 2: Cinderella's wedding birds pick out their eyes. 925 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:23,800 Speaker 3: Heck out, I guess the Ugly Stepsister the Little Mermaid. 926 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,439 Speaker 2: In the original Hans Christian Anderson story, the Mermaid does 927 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 2: not get her man, he marries someone else. After he 928 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: marries someone else, she has the option of becoming a 929 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 2: mermaid again if she kills them and his new bride 930 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 2: whoa So she's a human, but she. 931 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 3: Doesn't have Mandy to be with. 932 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 2: So it's well, you can go back to being a mermaid, 933 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 2: but you got to kill them, and she can't bring 934 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 2: herself to do it, so she turns into Seafoam, her 935 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 2: ultimate curse. I feel like this could be a movie. 936 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,840 Speaker 2: That's a terrible ending to a movie. She's just Seafoam 937 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 2: falls in love with the guy. The guy marries somebody. 938 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 5: Else but murder murdering the So who who got their 939 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 5: hands on these? And they're like, hey, I know that 940 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 5: this is how the story goes. But if we just 941 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 5: change this detail, somebody like, we can make it a 942 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 5: kid's movie. 943 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 2: Book Tangled, But Tangled is the story of that's correct, 944 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 2: who have the really long hair? In Rapunzel the original story, 945 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 2: the Witch learns of Rapunzel's affair with the prince, so 946 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 2: she cuts her hair and banishes her. Then the witch 947 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:29,400 Speaker 2: blinds the prince with the scissors that she cuts Rapunzel's 948 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,319 Speaker 2: hair with by jabbing them into his eyeballs. 949 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 3: Whoa. 950 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 2: Rapunzel and the prince eventually do find each other, but 951 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: the prince has no eyes. Dang dude. Well, it's like 952 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 2: you can't tell us the happy story all right, because 953 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:48,320 Speaker 2: I imagine there are sickos now that write horror movies and books, 954 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,840 Speaker 2: and but these are supposed to be happy stories. 955 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 5: And why are all of them this way? 956 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 2: In? 957 00:40:55,040 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 9: Pinocchio want to know, actually. 958 00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 3: You want to check out. 959 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 2: In the book, Pinocchio gets tired of Jimminy Cricket trying 960 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 2: to give him advice, so he kills him. 961 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 3: I mean, jim Cricket is kind of annoying. Cricket doesn't 962 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 3: even have a name in the book. He's just referred 963 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 3: to as a talking cricket that gets killed. He's like, 964 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 3: shut up cricket. 965 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 2: Page four, Mulan and this is ancient Chinese. In the 966 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,360 Speaker 2: Ballad of Mulan, when the true identity of the title 967 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 2: character is revealed, she's told she has to become a 968 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 2: concubine to the emperor. You know what that is? A concubine. 969 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 2: It's like a woman. A woman is like one of 970 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 2: the many wise he just has with. In an act 971 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 2: of defiance, she kills herself. No, Christina Aguilar is singing 972 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 2: that one. And then, finally, in the Hunchback of Notre 973 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,320 Speaker 2: Dame in the book, Esmerelda is hanged for the attempted 974 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 2: murder of. 975 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 3: Phoebus. I don't know. 976 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 2: I don't know even the follow did it. Quasimoto kills 977 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 2: Frolo then jumps into a mass grade with Esmeralda's body 978 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 2: to die. 979 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. That could be the actual story. I 980 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,759 Speaker 3: don't know. The Hunchback in ye, I don't know that one. Igor, 981 00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 3: so be happy. 982 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 2: These aren't your Disney movies that stabbing the eyeballs out 983 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,839 Speaker 2: and putting the hot iron shoes on the print, making 984 00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 2: the queen die by dancing in the mouth and the worst. 985 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,919 Speaker 5: The worst one for sure is impregnating like you didn't 986 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,960 Speaker 5: he didn't kiss Aria to do it, which she didn't 987 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,320 Speaker 5: wake up till she was giving birth. 988 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:34,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy. That's a tough one too. Anyway, I 989 00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 3: don't know now. I'm glad they didn't turn out that way. 990 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 3: I don't think they have made it to us. 991 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 6: You imagine explaining your kid what's going on when you're 992 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 6: watching the old cartoon. 993 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,399 Speaker 3: See she's asleep, but. 994 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 4: Wake up, wake up? 995 00:42:49,280 --> 00:43:02,279 Speaker 13: In the radio hunchbox, Morgan Steve Red, how's trying to 996 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 13: put you through? 997 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:03,840 Speaker 1: Fuck? 998 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,240 Speaker 13: He's running this week's next bit, and Bobby's. 999 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,360 Speaker 2: On the box, so you know what this is. 1000 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 13: This is the Bobby Ball. 1001 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 3: And now for the Morning Corny. 1002 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 5: The Morning Corny, what's a spiders New Year's resolution? 1003 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 3: What's a Spider's New Year's resolution? 1004 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 4: To spend less time on the web? 1005 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:39,840 Speaker 3: That was the Morning Corny? Back everybody, Bobby Bone showad 1006 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 3: Sorry up Today. 1007 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 8: This story comes us from Florida. A thirty nine year 1008 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 8: old woman was headed to court because she stole twenty 1009 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 8: nine million dollars from the government. And as she's pulling 1010 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 8: into the courthouse, they have a license plate reader, and 1011 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 8: it went off stolen vehicle. 1012 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:56,720 Speaker 10: Stolen vehicle. 1013 00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,239 Speaker 8: So she got out of the car and cops like, hey, 1014 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 8: we need to detain you. 1015 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 10: You know why, she goes, Yeah, cars stolen. 1016 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 3: Oh okay, she knew. 1017 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 2: Wait if she stole all the money, why she's also 1018 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 2: stole the car? If she had all the money, No, no, no, 1019 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 2: she was going to trial. Yeah, but I'm saying, if 1020 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 2: she stole. 1021 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 4: All that money, why not buy your own car? 1022 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 9: You have it. 1023 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 3: You just stole twenty plus million dollars. 1024 00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 10: Oh good point? 1025 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 4: Was she robbing to give to the poor? 1026 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 3: She's robbin Hood, don't think so? Justice Justice for Robinette Hood. 1027 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm just confused. 1028 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 3: Whyf you have all that money while you're also going 1029 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,280 Speaker 3: to steal a car. Maybe it's not about the money many. 1030 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, I'm lunch boxed. That's your bonehead story of 1031 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 8: the day. 1032 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 2: So something Edie thought was sweet turns out he now 1033 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 2: thinks is rude and has to do with your vision. 1034 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 6: Yeah. I was telling Morgan, I'm just kind of talking 1035 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 6: about how like, I'm just struggling with my vision. So 1036 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,920 Speaker 6: I use my glasses to read stuff off my computer. 1037 00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 2: Here glasses, look, I think everybody's entitled their own style. 1038 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 2: Your glasses don't fit anything else that you do. They 1039 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 2: look like meme all glasses. 1040 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 14: Well, I just do it like that because it's like bifocals, right, 1041 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,080 Speaker 14: Like put them on the end of your nose, at 1042 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 14: the edge of my nose, so I look like ell 1043 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:02,480 Speaker 14: at Aville in. 1044 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 3: One hundred and one Dalmatians. 1045 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 6: But I can still see far so I look up 1046 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 6: above them, right. So anyway, so Morgan is like, do 1047 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 6: you want me to send emails to you, like in 1048 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,759 Speaker 6: big fonts? And I was like, well, that's really considerate 1049 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 6: of you. But then I'm like, wait a second, that's rude, 1050 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,800 Speaker 6: Like I don't need I can still see my emails, 1051 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 6: and she's gonna send them in like twenty four font 1052 00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 6: I'm good. 1053 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:25,960 Speaker 2: Your glasses are so weird looking that I think it 1054 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 2: makes us care more about your vision. 1055 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 6: What do you want me to wear? 1056 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 3: It's like a performance when you put them on. 1057 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 6: I do have these other ones that are like Jeffrey Dahmer, 1058 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 6: you know, like bigger, you know, like eighties. 1059 00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 5: That's like when I wore wine like that, y'all said, 1060 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 5: I look like a serial killer. 1061 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I haven't worn. 1062 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 3: Them since telling me this room's judgmental and what people wear. 1063 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, And then what Eddie needs to get is 1064 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 5: the kind that I did have, which I have since lost, 1065 00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 5: and I'm really annoyed by it because they were expensive, 1066 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,360 Speaker 5: but they're progressive glasses. 1067 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:53,760 Speaker 4: Eddie. 1068 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 5: We're up top, there's like nothing, so you're good, like 1069 00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 5: you don't have to put it down on your nose 1070 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 5: because I get what you're saying. You just need them 1071 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,799 Speaker 5: to read. But then down at the very bottom it 1072 00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 5: has the prescription so. 1073 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 3: You can like the mullet of glasses. 1074 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 5: Yes, it's like a mullet of glasses. And I had 1075 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,440 Speaker 5: some and they were well, they were darker. And then 1076 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 5: Bobby was thought I was copying him, which I wasn't, 1077 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 5: because they were tor to. 1078 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:21,840 Speaker 2: Show the same big frames, big dark round fell. 1079 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,839 Speaker 14: I thought you were, Bobby when you walk, I thought 1080 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 14: it was a mirror. I was like, why did they 1081 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:25,840 Speaker 14: put a mirror in the studio. 1082 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,359 Speaker 7: But now, come to think of it, you know how 1083 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,399 Speaker 7: I just said I lost them. 1084 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 4: Now I have a theory that just popped in my head. 1085 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 6: What Bobby took them to them to take them and 1086 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 6: break them. 1087 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,640 Speaker 2: I don't have time, I don't have time for hijinks 1088 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 2: around here. You guys do too much. Hi, I don't 1089 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 2: do hyjiins around here. Okay, I'm all for hijinks, like to. 1090 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,120 Speaker 3: Bring in there. You guys have drama. I don't do hikinks. 1091 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 5: It was one of the great mysteries for me last year. 1092 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 5: They just disappeared and I can't anywhere. Yes, well, they're 1093 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 5: regret like a top no prescription down body, so someone 1094 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 5: else might be able to put them on, and they 1095 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 5: just think they're wearing them and they're cool. 1096 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 7: They when they look down, they're like, oh, magnified. 1097 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 3: I'm all at glasses. Yeah, so I don't know where 1098 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 3: they are. I had nothing to do with I would 1099 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 3: steal your glasses. 1100 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:06,879 Speaker 4: It's just a theory Popps in my head. Just now 1101 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 4: how to say it? 1102 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 3: That is interesting? You guys are always have no good 1103 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 3: around here? What morgan? 1104 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 15: Can I also add that Eddie's missing a piece to 1105 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 15: this story. He said that he was told by somebody 1106 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,359 Speaker 15: to if he keeps wearing his glasses, his vision's gonna 1107 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,319 Speaker 15: get worse. So I said, hey, I'll help you out 1108 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 15: to not wear your glasses more, and I'll make the 1109 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:23,600 Speaker 15: font bigger. 1110 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 6: I told her that a doctor told me once that 1111 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 6: I could if I could just stick it out and 1112 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,800 Speaker 6: like use my eyes to like really focus, you'll prolong 1113 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,239 Speaker 6: getting reading glasses. 1114 00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 7: Oh, I see. 1115 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,680 Speaker 6: Because once you get the reading glasses, you kind of 1116 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 6: give up and then your eyes just depend on the 1117 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:42,240 Speaker 6: reading glasses. 1118 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 4: Okay, that makes sense. 1119 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 2: I'm still wondering where your glasses are. If someone am 1120 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,240 Speaker 2: I the thing is you misplaced a lot of stuff? 1121 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:50,280 Speaker 3: Is this you just playing? 1122 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1123 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,080 Speaker 3: But like I don't do guys, don't I don't do 1124 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:54,200 Speaker 3: fun stuff like that. 1125 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 5: But an expensive pair of prescription glasses, I feel like 1126 00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 5: I don't just you don't lose glasses. 1127 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:03,440 Speaker 6: How expensive are those progressives? Because I'm interested? 1128 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 3: Pretty expensive? 1129 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 7: Bye, I was able to use my HSA. 1130 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:12,680 Speaker 3: Okay help so Home Shopping Network. We're done. Thank you 1131 00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 3: guys for being here. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye. 1132 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 10: By The Bobby Bone Show. 1133 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 2: The Bobby Bones Show theme song, written, produced and sang 1134 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 2: by read Yarberry. You can find his instagram at read 1135 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 2: Yarberry Scuba Steve Executive producer, Ray Mundo, head of Production. 1136 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:33,359 Speaker 2: I'm Bobby Bones. My Instagram is mister Bobby Bones. Thank 1137 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,760 Speaker 2: you for listening to the podcast.