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Speaker 1: the show and tells us I had this really funny
Speaker 1: and unique idea for a date, we have to be skeptical,
Speaker 1: you know, not so condescending, but a little bit. Yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: because usually their idea, I mean definitely turns out to
Speaker 1: be unique, but not necessarily fun or a good idea. Yeah,
Speaker 1: more like unique in a bad way. Like Hey, let's
Speaker 1: go to the serial killer museum after dark. No one's there.
Speaker 1: What could go wrong? I don't know anyway. One of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Ryan, contacted us recently saying that he went
Speaker 1: on a fun and unique date. But will be the
Speaker 1: judge of that. All right, you're walking to do a
Speaker 1: room with skeptics, right, Yeah, Ryan, I don't trust you.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Is not what I meant. I'm kidding.
Speaker 1: I might trust you, Hi, Ryan, all Right, you've won
Speaker 1: me over. I trust you. I'm an easy one. Wow.
Speaker 1: So Ryan, tell us about the girl that you went
Speaker 1: out with. What's her name? All right, well her name
Speaker 1: is Olivia. I don't trust you again. Yeah, there's gonna
Speaker 1: be a lot of back and forth on this one. Ryan.
Speaker 1: A roller coaster with you, Ryan, come on, come on, Hey,
Speaker 1: I want to know what made you want to do
Speaker 1: something fun and unique for Olivia because that takes time
Speaker 1: and effort, so she must be special in some way.
Speaker 1: So we met on like an app. And I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys are on any of the dating apps,
Speaker 1: but like every single person on those apps always says
Speaker 1: that they're like super into hiking. Yeah, yeah, it's obnoxious.
Speaker 1: I don't believe any of them. I think they're all
Speaker 1: liars and the want to sound like athletic and out
Speaker 1: door zy. It's really hard for the real hikers out
Speaker 1: there because like we're all like, no, we actually like it,
Speaker 1: and no, everyone thinks we're lying. Yeah, but everyone wants
Speaker 1: to seem interesting. They don't want to put I like
Speaker 1: to watch Netflix and eat mac and cheese all day.
Speaker 1: Like that's not gonna win you over? What will be
Speaker 1: wrong with that? Thank you doesn't get you as many swipes,
Speaker 1: not like I live in the middle of the ocean,
Speaker 1: but I still love hiking. It's always hiking. Her profile
Speaker 1: has something funny. She actually like called those people out
Speaker 1: and she was like, I don't like hiking. That's pretty good.
Speaker 1: I'm not like everybody else, like I actually don't like hiking.
Speaker 1: That was funny that she put that in there. So
Speaker 1: we chatted for a while and we eventually decided to
Speaker 1: meet for a hike. Yeah. No, I suggested that we
Speaker 1: go for a walk. Why would you do that? She
Speaker 1: doesn't like hiking. Then you go to a bar and
Speaker 1: you drink a walk. She said that she was like athletic,
Speaker 1: but she's not like obsessed with hiking like everybody else
Speaker 1: pretends to be on sta. She likes hiking, just without
Speaker 1: the trees and in nature, just normal walking. Well, I
Speaker 1: thought it was a good idea. I think it's a
Speaker 1: great idea. Ryan. I'm with you. If someone doesn't like hiking,
Speaker 1: they're not like walking, like that's like they're literally the
Speaker 1: same things. But okay, you know they are not the
Speaker 1: same thing. We were or in boot we didn't have
Speaker 1: like a picnic in our backpack. We weren't wetty and like,
Speaker 1: so when you said fun and unique day, this doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like unique. Yeah, because you guys keep interrupting me
Speaker 1: and I can't finish a damn sentence. Excuse me, I'm sorry. Continue.
Speaker 1: So what had happened was to make the day like
Speaker 1: extra special and unique. I ordered a bag of googly eyes,
Speaker 1: do you guys know what I mean by that? Like,
Speaker 1: and they had like they're like stickers almost you didn't
Speaker 1: peel the back off and you can just like stick
Speaker 1: them anywhere. So as we were walking, I just like
Speaker 1: busting those out and we just started kind of like
Speaker 1: putting them in random places. Oh my god, I actually
Speaker 1: love that you vandalized the city with Google eyes. Oh
Speaker 1: come on, it's not vandalized. They peeled right off. It's
Speaker 1: not like it's like graffiti. I'm here for it. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that I'm not here for that. I think
Speaker 1: that's really funny. Yeah, you were actually right. The fun
Speaker 1: and unique came through and she was laughing and like
Speaker 1: it was kind of like a cool icebreaker, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, it was it was fun. Like it was
Speaker 1: nice to like show like my silly fun to imagine
Speaker 1: a sign with two Google eyes and the totally absolutely
Speaker 1: absolutely all right, So how did everything go with the
Speaker 1: Google eyes and the hiking in the city. All that
Speaker 1: was great, and then we eventually found a taco trapp
Speaker 1: and we just got some food. Now, this is actually
Speaker 1: a really cute date. What was the interaction between you two? Like,
Speaker 1: it was great. I mean I was making her laugh
Speaker 1: a lot, and for me, that's always a really good sign.
Speaker 1: So I was feeling really good and we were sitting
Speaker 1: on a staircase just eating our food. It was super
Speaker 1: chill and like the sun was setting, and I just
Speaker 1: felt like it was the moment, you know, for the kids.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and so we kissed. And when I pulled
Speaker 1: back from the kids, like she had her eyes clothes
Speaker 1: and she was smiling. So oh, I say, she had
Speaker 1: googly eyes on. That is cute. Wait, so she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. She's not even responding to a single text.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, this sounds like romantic fun walking and talk
Speaker 1: was how is she not even texting? It's a very
Speaker 1: good point, Jose. Yeah, can you think of anything that
Speaker 1: you may have done wrong? I can't think of anything
Speaker 1: that I did. But the one thing that's kind of
Speaker 1: like on my mind is that she didn't mention that
Speaker 1: she had some amazing job offer that she was kind
Speaker 1: of like waiting to hear about and it's out of state. Um.
Speaker 1: But she told me that she hadn't like quite made
Speaker 1: it her mind, and she didn't know what was going
Speaker 1: to happen, like it was kind of like up in
Speaker 1: the air. So I'm wondering, like maybe she just got
Speaker 1: the job and accepted it and just left. And yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really weird that she wouldn't just tell you that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it was already on the table still one date,
Speaker 1: like whatever, you'll figure it out. I guess maybe like
Speaker 1: the date could have meant a lot more to me
Speaker 1: than I did to her. But well, let's find out.
Speaker 1: Let's find out once and for all. Okay, we're gonna
Speaker 1: play a song. Come back. We'll call Olivia and see
Speaker 1: if we can get you a second date update? Okay, Ryan,
Speaker 1: all right, cool? Thanks? All right, hold on second date update. Guys.
Speaker 1: You know what I've been thinking about in the break
Speaker 1: What I don't know if the listeners or my co
Speaker 1: hosts have thought about this, but I'm wondering if the
Speaker 1: girls out of state job offer was all made up
Speaker 1: just so that she could have an easy excuse for
Speaker 1: not seeing him again. Why would she go to such
Speaker 1: extremes because it'd be a solid reason. It'd be something
Speaker 1: where she could like reject him and it's not her fault. See,
Speaker 1: I didn't think of that at all, but now as genius,
Speaker 1: how she accidentally runs into him of the grocery stores
Speaker 1: up in a couple of weeks later. Yeah, exactly. So
Speaker 1: here here's what I need to know from you, Ryan.
Speaker 1: Did she say the job offer thing before or after
Speaker 1: the kiss? Oh? My god, you guys to blow him
Speaker 1: in my right now, we'll answer it. We talked about
Speaker 1: the job offer after we kissed. It's not fake. You
Speaker 1: could just be that she realized that she had a
Speaker 1: real connection with you during the kiss and then she's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I have to tell him, Yeah, this
Speaker 1: may not work out. You guys really think that she
Speaker 1: would make coming up like that? Oh? Ryan, seriously, it's
Speaker 1: not beyond the realm of possibility. But I am still
Speaker 1: hopeful and positive that that is not the case. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: that kind of throws her engine things for me, But yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: Brook's hope is usually the dagger to any romantic encounters.
Speaker 1: So not looking good. You just got the kiss of death, bro. Sorry, God,
Speaker 1: I can't even argue that time. I really hope you
Speaker 1: guys are wrong. Ryan took Olivia out on a date
Speaker 1: where they walked around the city. They put googly eyes
Speaker 1: on in adamant objects together like fire hydrants and cop cars,
Speaker 1: and had a kiss while watching the sun set. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, and she had her eyes closed. She was
Speaker 1: smiling when they were done. But now she's not responding,
Speaker 1: and we're wondering did she really take a job in
Speaker 1: another state? Or was that maybe just an excuse to
Speaker 1: get out of seeing him again. So let's get to
Speaker 1: the bottom of this. We're gonna dial the phone number
Speaker 1: right now and call Olivia and find out if she
Speaker 1: really took a job in another state. Who is the number?
Speaker 1: Out of state number? No one changes the number anymore,
Speaker 1: just calling. All right, Ron, you're ready to do this.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to do it. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Olivia? Please? Olivia? Hi, Olivia. My
Speaker 1: name's young Jeffrey, work on the radio. Give a second
Speaker 1: to talk radio. Hi Olivia. Hi, Hey, that's your point
Speaker 1: is now? Sorry? I got confused, Olivia. The reason I'm
Speaker 1: calling you is because we're doing something you may or
Speaker 1: may not have heard of before. It's called a second
Speaker 1: date update if you don't know what that is. It's
Speaker 1: where if you go out with someone and afterwards you're
Speaker 1: getting blown off, you can email us and we'll call
Speaker 1: that person for you and try and figure out the
Speaker 1: reason why. Um, okay, all right, makes sense. So the
Speaker 1: person that asked us to contact you. His name is Ryan. Okay,
Speaker 1: you remember going out with a guy named Ryan recently? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I cannot judge how you're feeling right
Speaker 1: now about this, Olivia. Those are short answers. Sound nervous.
Speaker 1: You don't sound upset. What No. I just thought you'd
Speaker 1: have some emotion like oh Ryan or oh Ryan. You're
Speaker 1: just like okay Ryan. Yeah, you're hard to read over
Speaker 1: the phone. Yes, I don't know what you expect. I'm
Speaker 1: just answering your questions. Fair that's fairly well, Olivia. There's
Speaker 1: been a question that's been on our mind because Ryan
Speaker 1: told us all about your guys's date and about walking
Speaker 1: around the city doing the googly eyes, having a kiss
Speaker 1: at sunset. We sounded so cute and tacos. It all
Speaker 1: sounded pretty good. Yeah, that was a good time. So
Speaker 1: Ryan mentioned that this came up during your conversation, that
Speaker 1: you talked about possibly having a job offer from out
Speaker 1: of state, and you know, we've done a lot of
Speaker 1: these phone calls, so we're a little bit jaded, and
Speaker 1: we're wondering is it real? Is the job offer a
Speaker 1: real thing? Yeah, because we thought for a second that
Speaker 1: maybe it was just an excuse. The job offer that
Speaker 1: I talked with him about is real. The out of
Speaker 1: state job offer is a real thing. Okay, I'm considering
Speaker 1: leaving to take it. Okay, So is that why you're
Speaker 1: not calling it back? You just don't want to get
Speaker 1: romantically involved with someone if you're not going to be here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. I was on the date with Ryan
Speaker 1: and everything was going good, and I guess at the
Speaker 1: NFL was just disappointed. What were you disappointed in that
Speaker 1: he didn't fight for me? He didn't fight for you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: In what way? I mean? I don't He didn't bring
Speaker 1: up anything about where he would need to fight for you.
Speaker 1: It was clear to me that he didn't care if
Speaker 1: I left. What what makes you say that he didn't
Speaker 1: cheese after me? And like say, I feel for you,
Speaker 1: I love you, I feel something for you. Hold on
Speaker 1: on a first date, you wanted him to run after
Speaker 1: you would say I love you. I want him to
Speaker 1: at least say there's something between us, don't take this job.
Speaker 1: Oh job, But he didn't say that. No, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's a shock, Olivia. I would
Speaker 1: say the majority of people would feel like after a
Speaker 1: first date. That would be someone completely overstepping their bounds. Well,
Speaker 1: that's how I feel. I need a night in hining
Speaker 1: armor to come and fight for me, to make me
Speaker 1: feel like they feel the same way I do, especially
Speaker 1: if there's a connection right away and that can happen.
Speaker 1: But you didn't even give him a chance. He guys
Speaker 1: hung out once and then you're not returning his calls
Speaker 1: or text you. I mean, like you just told he
Speaker 1: wants us to go out again. I need him to
Speaker 1: say he wants something more, if that's what he feels like,
Speaker 1: if he wants me to engage. I need to know
Speaker 1: this Moreoh, that's a lot to ask of one person
Speaker 1: after our first day. Well, it's a big job offer
Speaker 1: that I'm facing here and I don't have enough time
Speaker 1: to figure all this out. So I need to know
Speaker 1: what people feel right away because I have to make
Speaker 1: this decision. Well, maybe we should find out how Ryan
Speaker 1: really feels right now, because he's been on the other
Speaker 1: line listening this entire time and wants to talk to
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Ryan, Hi, Oh my gosh. I didn't
Speaker 1: mean for you to hear all that. Okay, I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to make sense of this. So how was I
Speaker 1: supposed to read your mind and just know that you
Speaker 1: want to be a fight for you? I mean, you
Speaker 1: are supposed to make a move, make a move, show
Speaker 1: me some leap of leap off the cliff. You know.
Speaker 1: Then how am I supposed to leap off the cliff
Speaker 1: if you weren't even texting me back? I mean no,
Speaker 1: at the end of the date, you didn't do anything.
Speaker 1: You were just like, well, I guess I'll give you
Speaker 1: a call. You would already kiss What did you want
Speaker 1: him to say? Like, no, how dare you quit your job? Yes?
Speaker 1: I wanted him to say, don't take the job? Say
Speaker 1: here with me. It was only one date. I mean
Speaker 1: we barely knew each every sometimes it happens right away,
Speaker 1: So I think, wait, hold on, I think what she's saying, though,
Speaker 1: Ryan is it. Remember how you asked us like, maybe
Speaker 1: they didn't feel the same. Maybe she didn't feel the
Speaker 1: same about me as I did her. She obviously either
Speaker 1: felt the same or a lot more about you. Like
Speaker 1: this is I mean, a good thing if you're not
Speaker 1: freaked out by it? I mean, do you want her
Speaker 1: to stay? Of course, I wandered. I mean, obviously I'm
Speaker 1: calling a radio station to try to figure out what
Speaker 1: the hell is going on. So, I mean, I definitely
Speaker 1: felt a connection on the date, but I'm just this
Speaker 1: is all really confusing thing for me. Well, clearly, Olivia
Speaker 1: is the type of girl that likes grand romantic gestures.
Speaker 1: That's her love language. So do you have some grand
Speaker 1: romantic You have some cliff you can jump off of
Speaker 1: right now? Maybe you can climb a Ferris. We refuse
Speaker 1: to get off until she agrees to reject the job.
Speaker 1: Is that just sounding good to you, Olivia? Yes? I
Speaker 1: just need him to make it clear to me. Is
Speaker 1: because I'm stating on this job and it needs to
Speaker 1: be more than just a date to me, Ran h okay,
Speaker 1: is that yes, you're into it? I can't judge how
Speaker 1: you're feeling right now, Ryan, I can't. I can't judge
Speaker 1: how you're feeling either, do you what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1: Men are so indecisive. I don't want to adecisive person anymore.
Speaker 1: I want them to decide. He come on, Ryan, make
Speaker 1: a decision. You're going to marry her tonight or what? Hey? God,
Speaker 1: I really would love to see you again. That's all
Speaker 1: I can say right now, Like I've been tecting you
Speaker 1: and I've been calling these idiots on the radio because
Speaker 1: I really want to see you again. I mean, that's
Speaker 1: just me being one hundred percent honest. That's actually really
Speaker 1: romantic Ryan, and being really honest with you. If we
Speaker 1: meet against, I'm gonna want to make love. I mean,
Speaker 1: not even a congratulations. All right, so that works? This
Speaker 1: is awkward. I mean, I'm here for it though I
Speaker 1: was so bad. Don't be scared of love, Jose hold on.
Speaker 1: Before the lovemaking begins, I need to ask Olivia. I'll
Speaker 1: offer to pay for you guys to meet up and
Speaker 1: and make love, and we'll pay for it too. No. Really, well,
Speaker 1: I would like him to pay for it, because that's
Speaker 1: what a man does. Oh Okay, now we're getting out
Speaker 1: of control, skirting a line. Ryan, you want to pay
Speaker 1: her to make love for a day for a date,
Speaker 1: saying that I'm down for some love making. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Brian. I am really looking forward to making
Speaker 1: love to you. This is the best second date update ever.
Speaker 1: This is uncomfortable. Congres adulations, Ryan, Grand romantic gesture achieved. Wow, um,
Speaker 1: thank you. I think you're welcome. Thank It has to
Speaker 1: be romantic, all right, all right, no pressure, ran Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning,