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<v Speaker 1>the show and tells us I had this really funny

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<v Speaker 1>and unique idea for a date, we have to be skeptical,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not so condescending, but a little bit. Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>because usually their idea, I mean definitely turns out to

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<v Speaker 1>be unique, but not necessarily fun or a good idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>more like unique in a bad way. Like Hey, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go to the serial killer museum after dark. No one's there.

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<v Speaker 1>What could go wrong? I don't know anyway. One of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Ryan, contacted us recently saying that he went

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<v Speaker 1>on a fun and unique date. But will be the

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<v Speaker 1>judge of that. All right, you're walking to do a

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<v Speaker 1>room with skeptics, right, Yeah, Ryan, I don't trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. Is not what I meant. I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I might trust you, Hi, Ryan, all Right, you've won

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<v Speaker 1>me over. I trust you. I'm an easy one. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So Ryan, tell us about the girl that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. What's her name? All right, well her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Olivia. I don't trust you again. Yeah, there's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot of back and forth on this one. Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>A roller coaster with you, Ryan, come on, come on, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what made you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>something fun and unique for Olivia because that takes time

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<v Speaker 1>and effort, so she must be special in some way.

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<v Speaker 1>So we met on like an app. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you guys are on any of the dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>but like every single person on those apps always says

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<v Speaker 1>that they're like super into hiking. Yeah, yeah, it's obnoxious.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe any of them. I think they're all

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<v Speaker 1>liars and the want to sound like athletic and out

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<v Speaker 1>door zy. It's really hard for the real hikers out

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<v Speaker 1>there because like we're all like, no, we actually like it,

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<v Speaker 1>and no, everyone thinks we're lying. Yeah, but everyone wants

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<v Speaker 1>to seem interesting. They don't want to put I like

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<v Speaker 1>to watch Netflix and eat mac and cheese all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's not gonna win you over? What will be

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that? Thank you doesn't get you as many swipes,

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<v Speaker 1>not like I live in the middle of the ocean,

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<v Speaker 1>but I still love hiking. It's always hiking. Her profile

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<v Speaker 1>has something funny. She actually like called those people out

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, I don't like hiking. That's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like everybody else, like I actually don't like hiking.

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<v Speaker 1>That was funny that she put that in there. So

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<v Speaker 1>we chatted for a while and we eventually decided to

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<v Speaker 1>meet for a hike. Yeah. No, I suggested that we

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<v Speaker 1>go for a walk. Why would you do that? She

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't like hiking. Then you go to a bar and

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<v Speaker 1>you drink a walk. She said that she was like athletic,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's not like obsessed with hiking like everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>pretends to be on sta. She likes hiking, just without

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<v Speaker 1>the trees and in nature, just normal walking. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a good idea. I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>great idea. Ryan. I'm with you. If someone doesn't like hiking,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not like walking, like that's like they're literally the

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<v Speaker 1>same things. But okay, you know they are not the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. We were or in boot we didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>like a picnic in our backpack. We weren't wetty and like,

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<v Speaker 1>so when you said fun and unique day, this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like unique. Yeah, because you guys keep interrupting me

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't finish a damn sentence. Excuse me, I'm sorry. Continue.

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<v Speaker 1>So what had happened was to make the day like

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<v Speaker 1>extra special and unique. I ordered a bag of googly eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys know what I mean by that? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>and they had like they're like stickers almost you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>peel the back off and you can just like stick

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<v Speaker 1>them anywhere. So as we were walking, I just like

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<v Speaker 1>busting those out and we just started kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>putting them in random places. Oh my god, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>love that you vandalized the city with Google eyes. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>come on, it's not vandalized. They peeled right off. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like it's like graffiti. I'm here for it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying that I'm not here for that. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's really funny. Yeah, you were actually right. The fun

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<v Speaker 1>and unique came through and she was laughing and like

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like a cool icebreaker, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it was it was fun. Like it was

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<v Speaker 1>nice to like show like my silly fun to imagine

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<v Speaker 1>a sign with two Google eyes and the totally absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely all right, So how did everything go with the

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<v Speaker 1>Google eyes and the hiking in the city. All that

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<v Speaker 1>was great, and then we eventually found a taco trapp

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<v Speaker 1>and we just got some food. Now, this is actually

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<v Speaker 1>a really cute date. What was the interaction between you two? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. I mean I was making her laugh

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and for me, that's always a really good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was feeling really good and we were sitting

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<v Speaker 1>on a staircase just eating our food. It was super

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<v Speaker 1>chill and like the sun was setting, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt like it was the moment, you know, for the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and so we kissed. And when I pulled

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<v Speaker 1>back from the kids, like she had her eyes clothes

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<v Speaker 1>and she was smiling. So oh, I say, she had

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<v Speaker 1>googly eyes on. That is cute. Wait, so she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. She's not even responding to a single text.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, this sounds like romantic fun walking and talk

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<v Speaker 1>was how is she not even texting? It's a very

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<v Speaker 1>good point, Jose. Yeah, can you think of anything that

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<v Speaker 1>you may have done wrong? I can't think of anything

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<v Speaker 1>that I did. But the one thing that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like on my mind is that she didn't mention that

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<v Speaker 1>she had some amazing job offer that she was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like waiting to hear about and it's out of state. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But she told me that she hadn't like quite made

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<v Speaker 1>it her mind, and she didn't know what was going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen, like it was kind of like up in

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<v Speaker 1>the air. So I'm wondering, like maybe she just got

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<v Speaker 1>the job and accepted it and just left. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really weird that she wouldn't just tell you that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was already on the table still one date,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever, you'll figure it out. I guess maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>the date could have meant a lot more to me

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<v Speaker 1>than I did to her. But well, let's find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find out once and for all. Okay, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. Come back. We'll call Olivia and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get you a second date update? Okay, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, cool? Thanks? All right, hold on second date update. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I've been thinking about in the break

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<v Speaker 1>What I don't know if the listeners or my co

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<v Speaker 1>hosts have thought about this, but I'm wondering if the

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<v Speaker 1>girls out of state job offer was all made up

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<v Speaker 1>just so that she could have an easy excuse for

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<v Speaker 1>not seeing him again. Why would she go to such

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<v Speaker 1>extremes because it'd be a solid reason. It'd be something

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<v Speaker 1>where she could like reject him and it's not her fault. See,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think of that at all, but now as genius,

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<v Speaker 1>how she accidentally runs into him of the grocery stores

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<v Speaker 1>up in a couple of weeks later. Yeah, exactly. So

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<v Speaker 1>here here's what I need to know from you, Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she say the job offer thing before or after

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss? Oh? My god, you guys to blow him

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<v Speaker 1>in my right now, we'll answer it. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the job offer after we kissed. It's not fake. You

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<v Speaker 1>could just be that she realized that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>real connection with you during the kiss and then she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I have to tell him, Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>may not work out. You guys really think that she

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<v Speaker 1>would make coming up like that? Oh? Ryan, seriously, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not beyond the realm of possibility. But I am still

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<v Speaker 1>hopeful and positive that that is not the case. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of throws her engine things for me, But yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's hope is usually the dagger to any romantic encounters.

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<v Speaker 1>So not looking good. You just got the kiss of death, bro. Sorry, God,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even argue that time. I really hope you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are wrong. Ryan took Olivia out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>where they walked around the city. They put googly eyes

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<v Speaker 1>on in adamant objects together like fire hydrants and cop cars,

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<v Speaker 1>and had a kiss while watching the sun set. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, and she had her eyes closed. She was

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<v Speaker 1>smiling when they were done. But now she's not responding,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're wondering did she really take a job in

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<v Speaker 1>another state? Or was that maybe just an excuse to

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<v Speaker 1>get out of seeing him again. So let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom of this. We're gonna dial the phone number

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<v Speaker 1>right now and call Olivia and find out if she

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<v Speaker 1>really took a job in another state. Who is the number?

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<v Speaker 1>Out of state number? No one changes the number anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>just calling. All right, Ron, you're ready to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to do it. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Olivia? Please? Olivia? Hi, Olivia. My

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<v Speaker 1>name's young Jeffrey, work on the radio. Give a second

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<v Speaker 1>to talk radio. Hi Olivia. Hi, Hey, that's your point

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<v Speaker 1>is now? Sorry? I got confused, Olivia. The reason I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you is because we're doing something you may or

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<v Speaker 1>may not have heard of before. It's called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update if you don't know what that is. It's

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out with someone and afterwards you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting blown off, you can email us and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person for you and try and figure out the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why. Um, okay, all right, makes sense. So the

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<v Speaker 1>person that asked us to contact you. His name is Ryan. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember going out with a guy named Ryan recently? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I cannot judge how you're feeling right

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<v Speaker 1>now about this, Olivia. Those are short answers. Sound nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't sound upset. What No. I just thought you'd

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<v Speaker 1>have some emotion like oh Ryan or oh Ryan. You're

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<v Speaker 1>just like okay Ryan. Yeah, you're hard to read over

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Yes, I don't know what you expect. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just answering your questions. Fair that's fairly well, Olivia. There's

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<v Speaker 1>been a question that's been on our mind because Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>told us all about your guys's date and about walking

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<v Speaker 1>around the city doing the googly eyes, having a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>at sunset. We sounded so cute and tacos. It all

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<v Speaker 1>sounded pretty good. Yeah, that was a good time. So

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan mentioned that this came up during your conversation, that

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<v Speaker 1>you talked about possibly having a job offer from out

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<v Speaker 1>of state, and you know, we've done a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these phone calls, so we're a little bit jaded, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're wondering is it real? Is the job offer a

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<v Speaker 1>real thing? Yeah, because we thought for a second that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was just an excuse. The job offer that

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<v Speaker 1>I talked with him about is real. The out of

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<v Speaker 1>state job offer is a real thing. Okay, I'm considering

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<v Speaker 1>leaving to take it. Okay, So is that why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling it back? You just don't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>romantically involved with someone if you're not going to be here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. I was on the date with Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>and everything was going good, and I guess at the

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<v Speaker 1>NFL was just disappointed. What were you disappointed in that

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't fight for me? He didn't fight for you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>In what way? I mean? I don't He didn't bring

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<v Speaker 1>up anything about where he would need to fight for you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was clear to me that he didn't care if

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<v Speaker 1>I left. What what makes you say that he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>cheese after me? And like say, I feel for you,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, I feel something for you. Hold on

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date, you wanted him to run after

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<v Speaker 1>you would say I love you. I want him to

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<v Speaker 1>at least say there's something between us, don't take this job.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh job, But he didn't say that. No, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that that's a shock, Olivia. I would

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<v Speaker 1>say the majority of people would feel like after a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. That would be someone completely overstepping their bounds. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I feel. I need a night in hining

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<v Speaker 1>armor to come and fight for me, to make me

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they feel the same way I do, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a connection right away and that can happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't even give him a chance. He guys

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<v Speaker 1>hung out once and then you're not returning his calls

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<v Speaker 1>or text you. I mean, like you just told he

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<v Speaker 1>wants us to go out again. I need him to

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<v Speaker 1>say he wants something more, if that's what he feels like,

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<v Speaker 1>if he wants me to engage. I need to know

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<v Speaker 1>this Moreoh, that's a lot to ask of one person

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<v Speaker 1>after our first day. Well, it's a big job offer

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm facing here and I don't have enough time

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<v Speaker 1>to figure all this out. So I need to know

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<v Speaker 1>what people feel right away because I have to make

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<v Speaker 1>this decision. Well, maybe we should find out how Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>really feels right now, because he's been on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening this entire time and wants to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Ryan, Hi, Oh my gosh. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean for you to hear all that. Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make sense of this. So how was I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to read your mind and just know that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be a fight for you? I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>are supposed to make a move, make a move, show

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<v Speaker 1>me some leap of leap off the cliff. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Then how am I supposed to leap off the cliff

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<v Speaker 1>if you weren't even texting me back? I mean no,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the date, you didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You were just like, well, I guess I'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>a call. You would already kiss What did you want

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<v Speaker 1>him to say? Like, no, how dare you quit your job? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted him to say, don't take the job? Say

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<v Speaker 1>here with me. It was only one date. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we barely knew each every sometimes it happens right away,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think, wait, hold on, I think what she's saying, though,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan is it. Remember how you asked us like, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't feel the same. Maybe she didn't feel the

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<v Speaker 1>same about me as I did her. She obviously either

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<v Speaker 1>felt the same or a lot more about you. Like

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<v Speaker 1>this is I mean, a good thing if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out by it? I mean, do you want her

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<v Speaker 1>to stay? Of course, I wandered. I mean, obviously I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling a radio station to try to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell is going on. So, I mean, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>felt a connection on the date, but I'm just this

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<v Speaker 1>is all really confusing thing for me. Well, clearly, Olivia

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<v Speaker 1>is the type of girl that likes grand romantic gestures.

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<v Speaker 1>That's her love language. So do you have some grand

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<v Speaker 1>romantic You have some cliff you can jump off of

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Maybe you can climb a Ferris. We refuse

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<v Speaker 1>to get off until she agrees to reject the job.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that just sounding good to you, Olivia? Yes? I

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<v Speaker 1>just need him to make it clear to me. Is

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm stating on this job and it needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be more than just a date to me, Ran h okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is that yes, you're into it? I can't judge how

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<v Speaker 1>you're feeling right now, Ryan, I can't. I can't judge

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<v Speaker 1>how you're feeling either, do you what I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Men are so indecisive. I don't want to adecisive person anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I want them to decide. He come on, Ryan, make

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<v Speaker 1>a decision. You're going to marry her tonight or what? Hey? God,

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<v Speaker 1>I really would love to see you again. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I can say right now, Like I've been tecting you

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been calling these idiots on the radio because

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to see you again. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>just me being one hundred percent honest. That's actually really

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<v Speaker 1>romantic Ryan, and being really honest with you. If we

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<v Speaker 1>meet against, I'm gonna want to make love. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>not even a congratulations. All right, so that works? This

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<v Speaker 1>is awkward. I mean, I'm here for it though I

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<v Speaker 1>was so bad. Don't be scared of love, Jose hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Before the lovemaking begins, I need to ask Olivia. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>offer to pay for you guys to meet up and

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<v Speaker 1>and make love, and we'll pay for it too. No. Really, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like him to pay for it, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>what a man does. Oh Okay, now we're getting out

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<v Speaker 1>of control, skirting a line. Ryan, you want to pay

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<v Speaker 1>her to make love for a day for a date,

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<v Speaker 1>saying that I'm down for some love making. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Brian. I am really looking forward to making

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<v Speaker 1>love to you. This is the best second date update ever.

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<v Speaker 1>This is uncomfortable. Congres adulations, Ryan, Grand romantic gesture achieved. Wow, um,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I think you're welcome. Thank It has to

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<v Speaker 1>be romantic, all right, all right, no pressure, ran Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning,