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Speaker 1: the show and tells us I had this really funny

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Speaker 1: more like unique in a bad way. Like Hey, let's

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Speaker 1: go to the serial killer museum after dark. No one's there.

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Speaker 1: What could go wrong? I don't know anyway. One of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Ryan, contacted us recently saying that he went

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Speaker 1: on a fun and unique date. But will be the

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Speaker 1: judge of that. All right, you're walking to do a

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Speaker 1: room with skeptics, right, Yeah, Ryan, I don't trust you.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Is not what I meant. I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: I might trust you, Hi, Ryan, all Right, you've won

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Speaker 1: So Ryan, tell us about the girl that you went

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Speaker 1: is Olivia. I don't trust you again. Yeah, there's gonna

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Speaker 1: Like that's not gonna win you over? What will be

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Speaker 1: not like I live in the middle of the ocean,

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Speaker 1: Brook's hope is usually the dagger to any romantic encounters.

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Speaker 1: So not looking good. You just got the kiss of death, bro. Sorry, God,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Ryan, Hi, Oh my gosh. I didn't

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Speaker 1: him to say? Like, no, how dare you quit your job? Yes?

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Speaker 1: So I think, wait, hold on, I think what she's saying, though,

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Speaker 1: That's her love language. So do you have some grand

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Speaker 1: Is that just sounding good to you, Olivia? Yes? I

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Speaker 1: Men are so indecisive. I don't want to adecisive person anymore.

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Speaker 1: just me being one hundred percent honest. That's actually really

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Speaker 1: all right, Brian. I am really looking forward to making

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Speaker 1: This is uncomfortable. Congres adulations, Ryan, Grand romantic gesture achieved. Wow, um,

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