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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us. Air on Air with

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Speaker 2: a Ryan Seacrest. Today is Doctor Martin Luther King Junior Day.

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Speaker 2: No school. We observe Doctor Martin Luther King Junior. No school,

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Speaker 2: no mail today, schools are out, so it is a

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Speaker 2: day of observance of what an incredible figure in doctor

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Speaker 2: Martin Luther King. So we join you on this Monday.

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Speaker 2: It's January twentieth. I I'm with you when you say

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Speaker 2: let's have this day of observance and it is a

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Speaker 2: holiday for many you need it, probably a little space.

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Speaker 2: But let's also get to February.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Why do you want to get to February?

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Speaker 2: Because January is what's the word heavy?

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Speaker 3: Heavy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, January is no good. I want to get to February.

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Speaker 2: You know you want to get through this. You know

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Speaker 2: you want to you do want to turn the page.

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Speaker 2: So I'm looking at the forecast as we get going

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Speaker 2: Partly Sunday today and still cool. High's in the mid sixties,

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Speaker 2: where you're gonna pay your bills this morning. You know,

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Speaker 2: if you have any place in LA and southern California

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Speaker 2: for listening if you've got something you want us to

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Speaker 2: step in and help out with, we will do it.

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Speaker 2: Just need to know your name, So give me your

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Speaker 2: name at kissmm dot com. This dude from Outer Banks.

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Speaker 1: That's a good show.

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Speaker 2: Doakes is coming on. He's got a new movie he's

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Speaker 2: called Marked Men, Rule and Show where he plays a

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Speaker 2: tattoo artist. Okay, so I gotta ask him about his name.

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Speaker 3: And maybe he can give you a tattoo.

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Speaker 2: No, he's playing the role of one. He's not actually

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Speaker 2: a tattoo artist.

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Speaker 1: Ye'd be dangerous.

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Speaker 3: He probably learned how to do it.

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Speaker 2: No, you think Iron Man will give me a flight?

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Speaker 4: No, but like when you're playing a tattoo artist, I'm

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Speaker 4: sure he you know, like these actors shadow and study and.

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Speaker 2: You think he'd actually do I think.

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Speaker 3: He could actually give a tattoo.

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Speaker 2: Maybe let's ask him about that. Anyway's got his new

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Speaker 2: movie coming out this week, Marked Men Ruling Shaw and

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Speaker 2: he plays tattoo artists and we'll get into that. Chase

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Speaker 2: Stokes is that his real name. And people love Out

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Speaker 2: of Banks, don't they. I haven't seen the latest season.

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Speaker 1: Oh I watched it. It was so good, like Edge

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Speaker 1: of Your Couch, like you can't stop because every episode

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Speaker 1: is a cliffhanger.

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Speaker 2: Really, I watched the first season. What are they all

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Speaker 2: know their.

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Speaker 1: Own season four already?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Because they split their seasons.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, they get part one, part two.

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Speaker 1: They do part one part two. Yes.

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Speaker 2: And now, as you wake up and your alarm goes off,

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Speaker 2: maybe you hit snooze, maybe you just go for it.

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Speaker 2: How is your Monday going to shape up? Based on

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Speaker 2: your star sign? And how much weight do you put

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Speaker 2: into this? Here, at this place, seventy five percent of

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Speaker 2: us really believe in it, And here's that seventy five percent.

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Speaker 3: Of them aries.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes the sun is hiding in the clouds, but it

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Speaker 4: doesn't mean it's gone forever.

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Speaker 1: Tauris, Think bigger and you'll get better.

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Speaker 3: Gemini, don't mess with people's emotions.

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Speaker 1: Answer, Remember to stay present to stop anxiety.

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Speaker 3: A different path will do you wonders.

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Speaker 1: Virgo, it's five o'clock somewhere, no judgment.

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Speaker 2: Libra.

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Speaker 3: Do something out of your routine.

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Speaker 1: Today, Scorpio. Don't focus on what you can't get done

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Speaker 1: today and instead on what you.

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Speaker 3: Can Sagittarius, take it one step at a time.

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Speaker 1: Capricorn, step up to the task at hand, you will

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Speaker 1: be surprised at the fulfillment.

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Speaker 4: Aquarius, you'll need to wear many hats today.

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Speaker 1: And Pisces a smooth sea never made a skill for sailor.

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Speaker 2: All right, there you go, So take a look at

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Speaker 2: that and tell me if that fits for you today.

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Speaker 2: Good luck with it. We're just getting started. Let's get

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Speaker 2: off on the right foot this morning. So the new

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Speaker 2: year has really started off in a strange way for

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Speaker 2: it's something else. But Sisney was just telling us that

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 2: They clearly started off in a challenging way here in

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Speaker 2: la and a lot of people have fallen off their

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Speaker 1: They oh non existent at this point.

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Speaker 2: For me, I mean, good luck with dry January.

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Speaker 1: Good luck I definitely did not happen for me.

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Speaker 4: I'm in dry January right now. I haven't drank one

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Speaker 2: Is that right?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 4: No, I wasn't trying to do dry January. It's just

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Speaker 2: Good, I know.

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Speaker 1: So maybe if you don't try something, then it'll just

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Speaker 2: Are you going to go the whole month?

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Speaker 4: I'm far away, yeah, but maybe all right?

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Speaker 2: Well, Sistney, what was your resolution?

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Speaker 1: I mean I was just trying to be like, okay,

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Speaker 1: And I sometimes rely on food delivery services, you know,

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Speaker 1: So I started out very good for a few days,

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Speaker 2: So you were trying to get in and make the

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Speaker 2: meal yourself, yeah, and be that person. But that's see

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Speaker 2: I was talking about this before the end of the year, Sysney.

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Speaker 2: We need resolutions that are actually attainable, I know, and

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Speaker 2: optionality because this adds too much pressure and stressed to you.

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Speaker 1: It does, and then you have all these opinions, like

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Speaker 2: Well, they need to not have opinions so much. Well,

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Speaker 2: I didn't get to ask my mom, tell my mom

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Speaker 1: I know they get broccoli. Don't worry. My kids all

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Speaker 1: And then I came too because I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, I mean, you need to set

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Speaker 2: actually attainable, not rigid, not complete goals or resolutions, because

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Speaker 2: if you're gonna if it's if it's all or nothing,

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Speaker 2: it's never that's never gonna work.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: So you'd be like two times a month.

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Speaker 2: Something like that, Well that's not gonna work either. Let's

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Speaker 1: I don't even think you're worried that much.

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Speaker 2: But you know, part of your piece is convenience, and

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Speaker 2: if you need it, that's good for you.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, that's what you know COVID taught us, is the convenience.

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Speaker 1: It's just like having all these things delivered to you.

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Speaker 2: But don't beat yourself up over it.

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Speaker 1: I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: So I was reading this study here. They analyzed over

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Speaker 2: two hundred million emails to see when people are most

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Speaker 2: likely to actually read them, and they say, if you

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Speaker 2: eleven eleven am. Eleven am people are most likely to

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Speaker 2: They've got to get taked on by the end of

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Speaker 2: the day. In the morning, you're just getting started. Eleven

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Speaker 1: Day interesting, okay, yeah, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 2: A good time for us because we're free. Today's quote

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Speaker 2: just because someone carries it well doesn't mean it isn't heavy.

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Speaker 2: That's so powerful. This FM headlines with siciny well.

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Speaker 1: The National Weather Service has issued another particularly dangerous situation

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Speaker 1: warning in anticipation of today's Santa Ana wins. The warning

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Speaker 1: remains in place until ten am tomorrow. TikTok is Back.

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Speaker 1: The app began restoring service to users in the US

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Speaker 1: following a temporary shutdown that lasted less than a day.

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Speaker 1: Governor Gavin Yousi issued an executive order prohibiting landlords from

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Speaker 1: evicting tenants for sheltering survivors of the LA buyers and

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Speaker 1: schools in Malibu are expected to reopen this week. The

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Secret.

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Speaker 2: So let me take you back. Here is somebody that

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Speaker 2: we really loved on the show. Meg, actually both of

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Speaker 2: Meg and Mia. Meg is on the line. That's Mom

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Speaker 2: and Corona and Sisney Tana. You'll remember them. They were

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Speaker 2: on back a few years ago. Mia had been in

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Speaker 2: and out of children's hospitals since birth. She has lupus,

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Speaker 2: she has juvenile rheumatoid arthritis among other things. But nothing,

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Speaker 2: just truly a bright light. Here is some of our

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Speaker 2: early conversations with her. Hi, Oh, I was just talking

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Speaker 8: Hi, I love your guys show.

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Speaker 2: Oh Mia, you have such good taste. Thank you. I've

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Speaker 2: been listening to it for a while.

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Speaker 9: I love you, guys.

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Speaker 6: I hope you guys do more sometimes, can you guys

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Speaker 6: maybe call me back?

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Speaker 8: Maybe sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when she would call you back, you're going to

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Speaker 2: call you. You're going to call you, like a few days. Sure, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you could call me on the weekend. So she was

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Speaker 2: like a sketch of our Da Grande. Yeah, now twelve

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Speaker 2: and Meg, her mom is on the line. Just wanted

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Speaker 2: to give us a little update and how she is doing. Hi, Meg,

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Speaker 2: thanks for coming back to us. How are you great?

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Speaker 8: How are you?

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Speaker 10: Thanks for having me back?

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Speaker 2: Of course, I know the little one is in school

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Speaker 2: right now. But how's she doing?

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Speaker 10: She is, you know, she's doing fantastic. And before you know,

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Speaker 10: I get in trouble by her. She did, she did

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Speaker 10: tell me please tell Ryan, I said hello, So, but yeah,

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Speaker 10: she's you know, we've we've had some changes, good, bad

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Speaker 10: and ugly, but we are pushing through them to make

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Speaker 10: you know, to make it easy. Epileptic seeders have subsided.

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Speaker 10: We actually have a spelle Marrallos stem cell transplant scheduled

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Speaker 10: for February fifth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how long have you been waiting for that?

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Speaker 10: Well it's you know, it's hard, and you know you

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you all have other and thank you

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's just an incredible young human being. All right.

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Speaker 1: The strength as a mother you have too. It's like

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Speaker 2: We've been talking about him for years and now he's

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Speaker 2: joining us this morning. I'm Chase Stokes, who's in an

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Speaker 2: Look at that there he is as promised. How are you, bro?

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Speaker 9: How you guys?

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Speaker 7: Do it?

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Speaker 2: Good to have you on with us.

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Speaker 9: Thanks for having me man, of course.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we have a lot of things. You know,

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Speaker 1: Good things.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Thank God, I see myself and I look in

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Speaker 2: you know, it's thank God, Yes, it's remarkable. I say,

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Speaker 2: I want to be Chase Stokes on a daily Is

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Speaker 2: that your real name?

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Speaker 5: It is?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wow, what a blessing.

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Speaker 9: Thanks Mom and Dad. I guess well, the story behind

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Speaker 9: it is my first name, I'm James, but I've never

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Speaker 7: Chase.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it is the kind of perfect your name,

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Speaker 9: I'll take the job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it really is. Well, you do such

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Speaker 1: Well, it's one of those shows where you can't just

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I've heard often like thank you for my sleep deprivation.

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Speaker 2: But you know, it is interesting how the human body works.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 9: Yep, Yeah, I get it. I'm watching Dexter right now

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Speaker 9: Right, It's three o'clock in the morning and I'm still

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Speaker 2: Turn it off, Chase, Well, congratulations on Mark Man. Ruling

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Speaker 2: Shaw is in theaters Wednesday. You can check that out.

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Speaker 2: And you're playing a tattoo artist, Tidy. It seems to

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Speaker 9: No, Actually a story about this film. We we did

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Speaker 9: and I butchered it so bad, so terribly bad, like

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Speaker 9: So he has a very lobsided sea turtle.

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Speaker 2: On the side.

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Speaker 6: I feel like.

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Speaker 9: It's my responsibility to now offer him a cover up.

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Speaker 2: What do you cover How do you cover up a

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Speaker 2: What are the go tos?

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Speaker 9: I don't I don't know where it came from. I

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Speaker 2: It's a isn't it dangerous to do that to somebody

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Speaker 10: Yes?

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Speaker 9: Well, fortunately for us it was a part of the training.

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Speaker 9: And Nick Cassavettis, who directed this, he's covered in tattoos,

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Speaker 2: Or you're a you're a good actor, obviously, you get

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Speaker 2: What was it about this movie that struck you?

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Speaker 9: You know, first and foremost it was Nick. I'm such

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Speaker 9: And meeting somebody who sees you despite the flaws and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's like every We've obviously seen that

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Speaker 9: He's a legends cutting onions in the kitchen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's He's a legend. Marks, Manton rules and Shaw

449
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Speaker 2: is in theaters this week. What when you're not working?

450
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Speaker 2: What do you like to do?

451
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Speaker 7: Like?

452
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 2: Are you do you like to travel? To you cook?

453
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Speaker 5: Like?

454
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Speaker 2: What is what is your vibe? I?

455
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Speaker 9: Truthfully, I like to do as little as possible on

456
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 9: a big couch surfer Like I just love to be home.

457
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Speaker 9: I've got two dogs and my girlfriend and I you know,

458
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Speaker 9: we just really have prior to getting into like this

459
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Speaker 9: press round and she's about to go on the road.

460
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Speaker 2: Kelsey, it's been the big.

461
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Speaker 9: Thing for us to just be present and be still

462
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Speaker 9: so spending time with family and getting more time with

463
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Speaker 9: my mom and my siblings and her side of our

464
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Speaker 9: family as well. So I think, honestly, like I've really

465
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Speaker 9: enjoyed kind of finding that balance.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys have to I mean, Kelsey's Ballerini, the

467
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,880
Speaker 2: artists we're talking about, do you have to like plan

468
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Speaker 2: ahead six months to figure out your schedules. There's got

469
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Speaker 2: to be like something differently.

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Speaker 9: To have like a planner in our lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, we sit down and say, okay, here's here's the

473
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Speaker 9: next you know, chunk of time. You know, but we

474
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Speaker 9: we really just focus on like, okay, let's sit down

475
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Speaker 9: every week and figure out what we have coming, what

476
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Speaker 9: time we have available, if we're in the workflow, like

477
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Speaker 9: how do we get to one another wherever that is.

478
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Speaker 9: So it's it's definitely a little bit unconventional with our

479
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Speaker 9: career choices, but you know, we find a way to

480
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Speaker 9: make it.

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Speaker 2: Happen Chase Stokes with us. Great to have you on, man,

482
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Speaker 2: thanks so much for making the time. Good luck with

483
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Speaker 2: this movie and we'll hopefully talk to you soon.

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Speaker 9: Awesome, thanks for having me U.

485
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Speaker 2: God, his hair is good, so good. It's really good

486
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Speaker 2: product you. I didn't realize he could hear me. What

487
00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 2: product do you use?

488
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Speaker 9: Honestly, it's called days of dirt?

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you stocking stuff for days of Take it care.

490
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Speaker 2: I got to see you later.

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Speaker 3: Bye.

492
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: All right, it's time for Ryan's roses on Kiss FM.

493
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Speaker 2: Let me get to it now, Kayla and Northridge, Dear Ryan,

494
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 2: Sisany and Tanya. My husband's company is moving offices. So

495
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Speaker 2: he came home the other day with a box full

496
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Speaker 2: of stuff from his desk. I was so curious. I

497
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Speaker 2: started to look through it a bit, and I found

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Speaker 2: a purple post it note and that here is the issue.

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Speaker 2: That's so Cayla found the purple post it note? What

500
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Speaker 2: what was on the purple post it note that you saw?

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Speaker 10: So?

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Speaker 5: It was a note with the girl's handwriting, and it

503
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Speaker 5: said like thinking about you with a little detailed heart.

504
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Speaker 2: So it was a note from a woman at work

505
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 2: to him thinking of you, and a cupid heart right,

506
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Speaker 2: like the era going through the heart? Yeah, and did

507
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Speaker 2: you take it? Did you leave it? What did you

508
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Speaker 2: do when you saw it?

509
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Speaker 5: I took a photo and then I just put it

510
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Speaker 5: back in the box.

511
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Speaker 2: And did you address this with your husband?

512
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Speaker 5: Yeah? I tried, but he he's a good liar.

513
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: He's a good liar.

514
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 5: He manipulated like he's better at arguing than I am.

515
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 5: So it's just hard to confront him.

516
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: So do you what did you believe is going on?

517
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Speaker 5: Well, I don't know, and I will say that we've

518
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 5: only had a little bit of issues over the years,

519
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 5: but involving stuff on the internet, like you know, like

520
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 5: adult websites and like live chats on the adult websites,

521
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 5: but just on the internet. So here's ago. I found

522
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Speaker 5: some like awful, gross stuff in this web history and

523
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Speaker 5: he lied about it. He was like, oh, I clicked

524
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Speaker 5: on a bad link, all those windows open, that's why

525
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 5: there were dozens of these sites. And he eventually came

526
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Speaker 5: clean about it. But he sertainly doesn't have a problem

527
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 5: and he doesn't need therapy. But I think he just

528
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 5: got better about covering his tracks. Like everything is history. Now,

529
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Speaker 5: this is the first time i've ever found anything like

530
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Speaker 5: in person, but we have had some trust issues.

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Speaker 7: I guess I'm.

532
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Speaker 2: There's a purple posted note it was in his stuff

533
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Speaker 2: from a woman at work that says thinking of you

534
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Speaker 2: with a heart and an arrow through it. You'd only

535
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Speaker 2: say thinking of you. I don't know. I mean I've

536
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Speaker 2: been saying thinking of you a lot in the last

537
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Speaker 2: couple of weeks.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, and if someone's sick or has someone sick,

539
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Speaker 4: thinking family, thinking of you as inappropriate.

540
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Speaker 2: But what's the heart with the arrow through it?

541
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Speaker 1: That's that adds a little bit more spy.

542
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: That's a little bit more and an arrow through it.

543
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Speaker 3: That's more love than Stupid's.

544
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Speaker 2: Arrow is love, isn't it?

545
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:13,679
Speaker 10: Yes?

546
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean heart, Did you draw back your boat? Yes,

547
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Speaker 2: she just drew back her boat. Shot it, Cupid, draw

548
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 2: back your boat.

549
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Speaker 3: And let your arrow flow back to love us.

550
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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, all right, that's the extent of our performance

551
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: this morning. So Kayla here, we're gonna call your husband

552
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Speaker 2: and see what's going on with this note and who

553
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Speaker 2: he's thinking about, Like, who does he want to send

554
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 2: the flowers to? Do you know the name of the

555
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: woman at work?

556
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Speaker 5: No, it just looks like a woman's skin writing there

557
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Speaker 5: were no names on it.

558
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Speaker 2: I need you to say, Ryan, you my permission to call,

559
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Speaker 2: and then his name on Kiss FM.

560
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Speaker 5: Go ahead, Brian, you have my permission to call.

561
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Speaker 2: We're gonna do that right now. Be very cool. Why

562
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 2: let's see we can find out is he going to

563
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: send the roses to you? Or is there another woman?

564
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: Top of mind? Good luck?

565
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 5: Okay?

566
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:19,880
Speaker 7: See Hello?

567
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:20,719
Speaker 5: Hi?

568
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: Is this Fernando?

569
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Speaker 10: Yeah?

570
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Speaker 7: Who's this?

571
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 8: Hi?

572
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: My name is Heather. I'm calling from Flowers on Nordoff.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning?

574
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Speaker 9: I'm fine?

575
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Speaker 6: Great?

576
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Speaker 1: Great. You know, we deliver all over Northridge and surrounding

577
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Speaker 1: areas here in LA and we're offering a free promotion.

578
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: It's a free dozen red roses that you can send

579
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Speaker 1: to anybody that you'd like. They are free, free, free, free.

580
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: I don't need cash, I don't need your credit card,

581
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 1: infote or anything like that.

582
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 7: Why did I win something?

583
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: We do this promotion about once a month and select

584
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Speaker 1: people at random. So yes, technically you can send these

585
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Speaker 1: flowers to anybody that you'd like. You can just need

586
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Speaker 1: We can start with the name of the person in

587
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Speaker 1: a note. They are free, okay, all right, free.

588
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 7: And using the name of first.

589
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Speaker 1: Okay, who do you want to send them to?

590
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Speaker 7: Interesting? What was your name again?

591
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 1: My name is Heather.

592
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 7: Great.

593
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 11: I would like to send them to Heather with a

594
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Speaker 11: note that says, I hope these brighten your day.

595
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Speaker 1: Okay, Heather, I hope these brighten your day.

596
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 7: Hmm.

597
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Speaker 2: That's a coincidence, Fernando, your voice being broadcast on the radio,

598
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 2: and we have your wife why Cayla? Well, I'm going

599
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 2: to tell you we have your wife, Kayla on the line,

600
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: who showed us an image of a posted note from

601
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Speaker 2: you cleaning out your stuff at work that says thinking

602
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Speaker 2: of you from another woman with a heart and an

603
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Speaker 2: arrow through it.

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00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 6: What?

605
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 7: Bro, I have no idea what you're talking about.

606
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 2: Well, cal, why didn't you shed some light on this?

607
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 2: Your wife thinks that you're having an affair or something

608
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: is going on with another woman. Now, you didn't send

609
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 2: your wife flowers? You want to explain that, Fernando, Oh.

610
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 7: My god, I dude, I don't know what this is about.

611
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: Cala, Why don't you explain why we're here?

612
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 7: Hi?

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00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 5: It's me, I you are there? Yeah? Are you having

614
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 5: an affair?

615
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 2: Babe?

616
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 5: Babe? No one you calling a radio for this?

617
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 2: So why.

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00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 10: Worry about, babe.

619
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Speaker 5: Okay, I was just curious about are you Are you

620
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Speaker 5: having an affair?

621
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Speaker 2: Babe?

622
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 5: No, he has nothing to worry about.

623
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 7: Okay, there's nothing to worry about.

624
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 11: It was a long time ago, and she doesn't even

625
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 11: work there anymore.

626
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 5: Okay, well, what was a long time ago?

627
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:10,959
Speaker 1: The affair?

628
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 7: Looks that box? Babe, listen me the box.

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Speaker 11: That box was an accumulation of I don't know, it's

630
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 11: like eight years of stuff, like maybe more than eight

631
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 11: years worth of stuff.

632
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 2: Okay, why do you save that post it?

633
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 5: No, we've been married for ten years.

634
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 11: Okay, yeah, we've been married for ten years, bab All right,

635
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 11: I'm not.

636
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 5: Having an affair.

637
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 11: Okay, you have nothing to worry about.

638
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 5: Okay, she just who who was she? She did? Just

639
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 5: tell me.

640
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 11: You do not have anything to worry about. Okay, this

641
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 11: is like this a long time ago. It's just I

642
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 11: have a box of stuff, an accumulation of stuff.

643
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 2: But why are you saving a post it from eight

644
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 2: years ago from another woman if you've been married for

645
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: ten years? Okay?

646
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 11: Look, I'm going to hang up now, sweetheart. Okay, I

647
00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 11: suggest you do the same. I don't think we need

648
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 11: to be talking to her Okay, care about you have

649
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 11: nothing to worry about. You have nothing to worry about.

650
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 2: You're not sounding genuine here.

651
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 3: But what if he didn't save the post and it

652
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 3: was just in all the stuff.

653
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: No, he's clearly had something going on with somebody. He

654
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: said didn't mean anything.

655
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 11: It doesn't matter.

656
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 7: She's meaningless to me. You are all I care about.

657
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: But you did it. You cheated, You cheated back.

658
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 7: I'm gonna call you in a few minutes.

659
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 11: I'm gonna call you a few minutes.

660
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: You okay, okay, It sounds like he did, Kayla.

661
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 2: He hung out, gone, he hung up, Kayla?

662
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 5: What do you what do you think?

663
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 7: I don't know what well I think.

664
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Speaker 2: Do not let him manipulate you. Do not let him

665
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Speaker 2: gaslight you.

666
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: No, And I can see what she's saying now with him,

667
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: how he likes, he knows how to argue like he.

668
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: Do you believe your husband when he's telling us what

669
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 2: he's just said.

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Speaker 5: Well, it really sounds like it wasn't anything recent, But

671
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Speaker 5: I don't know.

672
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if it was recent or not. It

673
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: was eight years ago. You guys have been married for

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Speaker 2: ten and he's got the letter still in his back.

675
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Speaker 1: Don't you.

676
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 5: Back when we were having issues. You knew.

677
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 2: You stand your ground and you stand up for yourself

678
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: in this thing.

679
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I just you know, I have a daughter

680
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 5: and I don't know what to do. I'll just talk

681
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 5: to him.

682
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 2: Well, let let's let's see how that goes. And you

683
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 2: could obviously call us back at any time, but make

684
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Speaker 2: sure that you stand up for you and good luck

685
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 2: with this, Okay.

686
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: Don't let him control you exactly.

687
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: That's the word. He's very controlling. He sounds very controlling.

688
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: It's not good, all right, Cale, thank you for thank

689
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 2: you for reaching out.

690
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 7: Good luck, Okay, thanks.

691
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: I don't like that dynamic where he's so controlling and

692
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: she I just you know what I'm saying. Yeah, Caylen

693
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 2: Fernando reaching out to us. And he was cleaning out

694
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: his desk and she found a post it note that

695
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: said thinking of you with a heart and arrow through it.

696
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: They've been married for ten years. He said, oh, that's nothing,

697
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 2: doesn't mean anything. That was from eight years ago. Well, okay,

698
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: if it was from eight years ago, why does he

699
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: have a love note from someone at work? And he

700
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: was really cagey about sending the flowers he was sent

701
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 2: him to you.

702
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, what's your name?

703
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 3: Heather?

704
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: All right? I said to Heather, to make any sense

705
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 2: to me what he was trying to do unless he

706
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 2: knew he was on Ryan's roses. But he didn't say

707
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 2: that either. But here's the thing, and this is what

708
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,959
Speaker 2: I want to talk about. Oh, I'm trying to think

709
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: of the right words.

710
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 3: She's shy, timid.

711
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: She's timid, and he's aggressive, and he sounds controlling and

712
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 2: manipulative yep. And she sounds sweet and soft and unsure

713
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: and unsure. And I think when we heard that, you

714
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 2: start thinking about she needs to stand up for herself

715
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 2: and what she deserves and not let him him just

716
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 2: run his mouth and try and twist things into whatever

717
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 2: he's trying. Because he was trying to do with us.

718
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: I mean, he basically said, hey, look that was eighty

719
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: years ago. It doesn't meannything. You mean everything to me.

720
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: But he was loud about it, and she was soft

721
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 2: about it.

722
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 4: She seemed like she'd been like she'd been over the years,

723
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 4: beaten down by this.

724
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 3: Dynamic of him. Yeah, kind of going in, going.

725
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 2: Hard something about it. I mean, actually, Lizzie is on

726
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 2: the line here. Lizzie I think you've got the right word,

727
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 2: something about it was uncomfortable between them.

728
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah.

729
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 6: I found the way that she was acting so mousey

730
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 6: and like timid when she was on the air with

731
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 6: her own husband, just the dynamically mean extremely uncomfortable.

732
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: I feel like something's not really right there. I know

733
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 2: they don't have I mean, they've got the issues here

734
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: with the trust, but something's I don't know, uncomfortable because.

735
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: She wasn't that timid with us. She had way more

736
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: confidence with us.

737
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 2: She was like, uh yeah, and she asked us what.

738
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: We thought, which I thought was interesting too.

739
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 8: Yeah.

740
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: Right, what should I do?

741
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: I knee jerk when I hear something like that would

742
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 3: be not.

743
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 2: A stand up for herself.

744
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

745
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Speaker 6: To be honest, my thought is that that he is

746
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 6: a master manipulator. The fact that he was the one

747
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 6: to hang up and he didn't really admit anything aside

748
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 6: from the fact that he still loved her now and

749
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 6: somehow he's the one hanging up the line. I think

750
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 6: that he's a manipulator and that she needs to.

751
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 5: She needs to put her foot down.

752
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 6: She needs to stand up for herself and show their

753
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 6: daughter that she can be a strong woman who's not

754
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 6: going to take this.

755
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: I you said it better than I. You are absolutely right,

756
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: and it worries me the dynamic there. But she needs

757
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: to stand up and she needs to get what she

758
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: deserves and she needs not let him manipulate. That is

759
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: exactly it.

760
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Speaker 1: She was already going backwards by being like, well maybe

761
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: it was when we were having issues. She's like accepting that.

762
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: It's okay, don't concede on this. I think she's right.

763
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 2: I think he's something happened now or later or way

764
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: back then. Lizzie, thank you for listening to us in Torrance.

765
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: You take a care. Thank you, Ryan's Roses. We do

766
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 2: it every Monday and every Thursday as a public service.

767
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 2: If something's going on in your relationship, you want to

768
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 2: get to the bottom of it. Firest So, yeah, it's

769
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 2: been all over the news, of course, everybody trying to

770
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Speaker 2: figure out how they can help the victims of the

771
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 2: fires here in southern California. And this came down last week.

772
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Speaker 2: It's really a big show. It's called fire Aid. You've

773
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Speaker 2: seen this, h So it's next week, Thursday, the thirtieth,

774
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 2: and it's to raise money for rebuilding communities devastated obviously

775
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 2: by these fires here in southern California. It's both that

776
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Speaker 2: into It Dome and Kia Forum, so two venues but

777
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Speaker 2: one night, and so many artists they needed two stages.

778
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 2: So I was just looking at the list here. Atlantis,

779
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: Morris Set, Billie Eilish, Dave Matthews, John Mayer, Earth Wind

780
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: and Fire, Green Day, Jelly Roll going to be there

781
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 2: as well, Lady Gaga, no doubt, Olivia Rodrigo, Red Hot

782
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 2: Chili Peppers, Stevie Nick, Stevie Wonder, Tate McCrae, and they'll

783
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 2: probably add to that. Yeah, between now and then, a

784
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: lot more artists will be on that list. It'll be

785
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 2: live here on Kiss FM and the iHeartRadio app. It's

786
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 2: streaming on Netflix, Apple TV plus, Paramount plus, Amazon Prime

787
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 2: and YouTube everywhere. So and also in theaters. Did you

788
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 2: see it's going to be an AMC theaters.

789
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 1: That'd be cool.

790
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 2: Came together very fast, and there's a big famous manager

791
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 2: that's behind all of this, Irving Azof so. Irving Azof

792
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 2: has you know a lot of those artists he represents,

793
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: but apparently he just he started making phone calls and

794
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 2: said we're doing.

795
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Speaker 1: This, and the phone calls are coming into him like

796
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: it's like every artist wants to be a part of

797
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: this too, to pitch in. Uh huh.

798
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: So yeah, the thirtieth two different venues. Tickets go on

799
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 2: seal noon on Wednesday, and you can get information on

800
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: a donation at Fireaidla dot org fireaidla dot org. But

801
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,240
Speaker 2: that's going to be a powerful, powerful night. I understand

802
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 2: some victims will be on stage to help introduce the artists,

803
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: just to tell their stories. So that's what you got.

804
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 2: Fire aid La. It's forty three degrees right now on Burbank.

805
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Jilly.

806
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: It is layer up Patagonia weather h particularly dangerous situation

807
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 2: in effect again until ten am.

808
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: Tomorrow's right with those Fana winds.

809
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: Those winds are back. Well, everybody was talking about it

810
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 2: this weekend TikTok ban on Saturday. We're like, oh my gosh, tomorrow,

811
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: no more TikTok. And then I kept telling everybody the

812
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: story you told me, which is people are going to

813
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: Red Note or Lemonade.

814
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: I tried Red Note by the way I downloaded, I

815
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: created my username or whatever, and I'm just like, I

816
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 1: don't know if.

817
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 2: I have this in me, guys, really, because it's also

818
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: owned by a Chinese company. I think lemon eight is

819
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: owned by the same people as TikTok.

820
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: Yes, lemonade was like a no go.

821
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: So joke's on who m man. No, it's funny because

822
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 2: I had I was with a group of people on

823
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 2: Sunday and they were on their phones for like an hour,

824
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 2: an hour and a half, and I thought, well, that's rude.

825
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 12: Here I am here, I am here, I am hand

826
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Speaker 12: on your handnverstation, kickball, change hand on hip? What's with

827
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 12: all you people in your uried into your phone?

828
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: TikTok was back? Well they were no, they were migrating

829
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 2: to red note. Yeah, So what happened TikTok when it

830
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 2: came back twelve hours later? What's the deal?

831
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 12: Oh?

832
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 3: I know everything.

833
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: It all went down Saturday, and our phones are blowing

834
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 1: up in our text chains because everyone's like it's gone,

835
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: It's gone forever, blah blah blah. We're all sending the

836
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: screenshots that says sorry, TikTok isn't available right now, the

837
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: law banning TikTok blah blah blah. You got that message

838
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,439
Speaker 1: when you went on it, and then we went to bed,

839
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: and then we woke up Sunday morning yesterday, and it

840
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: was starting to come back for some people, but like

841
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: it came back for Tanya, but it didn't come back

842
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 1: for me yet, and it was like, what is happening?

843
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: And that was the confusing part. But it's because I.

844
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: Guess probably your spy target, yes.

845
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 1: Exactly, but it's probably back now for ninety days. And

846
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: the ninety day extension is like if this deal is

847
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: still in progress, which there doesn't seem to be one,

848
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: but it looks like for whatever reason, they gave us

849
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: this ninety day extension anyways.

850
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: So why why Tanyan? Why not you?

851
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: I have it now. I think it was just the

852
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: way it was rolling out, the way it was being

853
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: restored for people, like.

854
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Speaker 4: I still had my TikTok for a lot longer than

855
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 4: some other people, which was weird.

856
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 3: And I thought I made a.

857
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 4: Really funny real like I was like, since TikTok is

858
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 4: being banned, I'm going to post all my viral tiktoks

859
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 4: on Instagram.

860
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: And everybody was doing this, but I.

861
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 3: Had none, so it was just like blank screen, you know.

862
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: I mean, it's a livelihood for so many people. They

863
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 2: get their money by tiktoking it's true.

864
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was.

865
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, for me, I was like, okay, great,

866
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 2: one less platform to have to check to deal with

867
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 2: or look at right, I was.

868
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: Too, but then there I did run over to Red

869
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: Not and I was like, we might as well get red.

870
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 2: No, you know, you never know what's the difference into

871
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: red notes where people are migrating or they were right,

872
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 2: what's the difference in red Note and TikTok?

873
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 10: I don't.

874
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: It looked all the same to me, but it was

875
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: also in a different language, and some of it was

876
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: being translated, some of it wasn't. There was messages from

877
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: users on Red Note that are very active users, and

878
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: they were welcoming TikTok refugees to the platform and saying welcome,

879
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 1: we welcome you to our platform. This that whatever. So

880
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: who knows the law still hasn't changed. We have TikTok

881
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: on our phones. When I checked recently, you still couldn't

882
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: get it in the app store, So it's just on

883
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: our phones.

884
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 2: But I don't for ninety more days Apri to April.

885
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: Twenty fourth is the new deadline?

886
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 2: All right? Well, yeah, so it wasn't such a big deal.

887
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 2: That means she's going to be gone.

888
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: And the girl was like crying.

889
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,760
Speaker 4: She put those are like four tiktoks, just like bawling

890
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 4: her eyes out.

891
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 2: There are a lot of other things I'd like to

892
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: cry about. Is about what I think so too. I'm

893
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Speaker 2: just looking at the temperature. So if forty something in Burbing,

894
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: thirty three in Palmdale, thirty three cold. If you are

895
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Speaker 2: going to Chicago today, sorry, it's eight.

896
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that feels like.

897
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 2: It's eight, it's cold.

898
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 3: Cold.

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Speaker 2: If you're going to Minneapolis, really sorry today minus nine?

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Speaker 1: Like, how what does that feel like? Do you feel

901
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:33,959
Speaker 1: your face?

902
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 5: Sure?

903
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 2: No, you cannot feel It's the weekend. He can't feel

904
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 2: his face. You can't feel your face. It's hard to

905
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 2: talk in that, it's hard to move your your mouth.

906
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: Well, how about these football players? They're playing in like

907
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 1: snow and I'm not.

908
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: Want to talk about it. Yeah, first of all, I

909
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 2: want to talk about it. We lost.

910
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: It's it's it's an unfair advantage if you ask me,

911
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: when you have a when you have our LA boys

912
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: out there and then it just starts dumping snow in

913
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: the middle of the game, and their hands are fair

914
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: used to that, not used to it affair.

915
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 2: Minus nineteen in Fargo, North Dakota, minus nineteen. What do

916
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: you do? You can't do anything.

917
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: Do your pipes freeze like bed Mark.

918
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: You grew up in Milwaukee.

919
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, when it gets this cold, you leave your sink

920
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 9: on at all times, just a little trickle.

921
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 2: Otherwise the pipes freeze, seem Yeah, And do you miss

922
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 2: it like here you are in Burbank right now. Do

923
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,879
Speaker 2: you miss winter's in Milwaukee? No, not even a little bit.

924
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 2: It's nice to see the snow around Christmas time, but

925
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 2: this is the time of year that it's rough. Oh man,

926
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 2: it is still a long way to go. When I

927
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: was doing Live with Kelly and Ryan in New York,

928
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 2: this was January February. Don't kid yourself. March is cold too.

929
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 2: On the East Coast. You think March is spring. No,

930
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 2: it doesn't get warm till mayo May, and you have to.

931
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: Go out there all early with Georgia and me your

932
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 1: go potty, Oh my gosh.

933
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 7: Oh yeah.

934
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: And you gotta put booties on. So when you live

935
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 2: in a city like that, they put so down for

936
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 2: the snow. You have to put rubber booties on the

937
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 2: dogs because the salt will burn their plans.

938
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Speaker 1: They can't put on of l a you know, right.

939
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: There have been a few high profile breakups. At the

940
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: beginning of the year. I was reading the justic Alvin

941
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 2: cash Warner splitting up, I know, and she posted, what

942
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: basically they just grew apart after sixteen years or something

943
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 2: like that, right, and it's terrifying. I was thinking about you, Siciny,

944
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: why well, because I mean, she it seems like there's

945
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 2: no they have love for each other.

946
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's no business.

947
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, communication, They just grew out.

948
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 2: But you can grow out of.

949
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,240
Speaker 3: You grow together or you grow apart.

950
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: But you have to work at it.

951
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: You can't just like I don't think that happened overnight.

952
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: You can't get complacent in the well, I guess we're

953
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: just not the same anymore. And then, you know what

954
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you have to put the effort eight on

955
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: both sides.

956
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 2: I think some people say, you know what, we're not happy.

957
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: We love each other, but we're not happy. Let's just

958
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 2: let's find happiness and it may not be with each other.

959
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 2: People change a Tanya. I know, it's terrifying as you

960
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 2: are on the doorstep of your wedding, I know, but

961
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 2: be careful sixteen years and people change.

962
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know a Tania, I'm sixteen years in

963
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: with Michael and we are nowhere in that category.

964
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also like I.

965
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 4: Expect both of us to change throughout the years, but

966
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 4: change together together, right.

967
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: But that's not the couple in the training reporter is

968
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: no new news.

969
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,439
Speaker 4: So it was announced last week that Bachelor alums Matt

970
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 4: James and Rachel Kirconnell had ended their relationship after four

971
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 4: years of dating. And we found out through an Instagram

972
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 4: post that Matt shared. So it was a picture of

973
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 4: the two of them and it was from The Bachelor.

974
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 4: It was like right when she got out of the

975
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 4: limo and it said, Father, God give Rachel and I

976
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 4: strength to mend our broken hearts. Give us peace about

977
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 4: this decision to end our relationship that transcends worldly understanding.

978
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 4: And I'm going to save you the rest because it

979
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 4: was kind of lengthy. Yeah, but this entire break announcement

980
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 4: was so weird because he had just posted videos on

981
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 4: his stories of them in London together. So people were

982
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 4: so confused about this breakup that they thought his account

983
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 4: was like hacked because it was so weird. But according

984
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 4: to Rachel's sister. Matt broke up with Rachel just three

985
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 4: hours before his Instagram announcement. So they broke up, and

986
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 4: then three hours later he turns to his Instagram to

987
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:26,479
Speaker 4: share the news.

988
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: He was ready to let the world know.

989
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 4: To me, it's giving no respect, it's giving. I want

990
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 4: people to know I'm single and ready to mingle, and

991
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 4: it's giving.

992
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 2: Desperate, it's giving desperate.

993
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 4: Yeah I read that. Remember I told you Austin Butler

994
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 4: and Kay Gerber broke up.

995
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 2: Yes, I do remember that.

996
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 4: J Want is now saying that people think that Austin

997
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 4: Butler's looking up with em Rata. Oh really yeah, but

998
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 4: they're saying no fors and am Roda.

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00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: Would you just say her name for people who don't

1000
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 2: know what code.

1001
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Speaker 3: Is Emily Radakowski.

1002
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Tanya rad back room. Thank you for a

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Speaker 2: solid effort this morning. It's a team effort.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Go Team, Go team.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. We're back tomorrow with a second

1007
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 2: date update. If you missed Ryan's roses this morning, it's

1008
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: going to be up on our podcast. You can check

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Speaker 2: that out. Have a great day, Thank you and take

1010
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 2: good cares.

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