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Speaker 1: Yesterday you said something about how your life still.

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Speaker 1: But yesterday he was like something about, so you're going

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Speaker 2: On the radio.

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Speaker 1: However, this was on a Reddit a bribe preparing for

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Speaker 1: her November wedding. I think this is probably very relatable

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Speaker 1: to people who have gotten married, planned a wedding, been

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Speaker 1: and got this and how did you run interference without like,

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Speaker 1: you guys, you did this and then you're about to

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe she's like my mom and my dad who

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's what this is shenanigans. And I feel like

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Speaker 3: I do have situations like that, and I just feel

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Speaker 3: So I'm not gonna overthink it if I want uncle

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Speaker 1: I agree that everybody should behave but are you would

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Speaker 3: And as much as weddings costs, I want everybody who's

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Speaker 3: And if you're not going to be happy, it needs

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Speaker 3: I want you to be happy at my ceremony, and

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Speaker 5: But my mom literally told me that she would literally

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Speaker 1: You know, well, and come on, I mean, people like

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Speaker 1: thank you, Sam, have a good day, do you do?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? There needs to yeah, there needs to be a

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Speaker 1: Well, because I heard you say pasta and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: So this uh, this Reddit post and I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: And it's a mess. What happened with you?

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Speaker 7: So my around the time that my cousin had gotten married,

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Speaker 6: The seating art was just because we were supposed to.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but we're all good now.

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Speaker 4: But this was like years ago.

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Speaker 2: A restraining order. Hey, yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess you don't seem scary to me, Nina, but

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Speaker 1: I think I want to stay on your good side.

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Speaker 6: So I'm getting married in January and my mother will

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Speaker 1: And she's divorced both of them. Yeah, okay, and they're

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Speaker 6: Yes, but it wasn't cordial for both divorces.

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Speaker 1: Okay, has your mom given you Is there been any

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Speaker 6: Like literally I said, like both of them shouldn't be there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is why weddings on so many levels. I

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Speaker 4: You're gonna be so stressed.

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Speaker 2: And I hate to say that. All I hear about

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Speaker 1: And now you got your mom saying that two important

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Speaker 1: and you should be able to have anybody you want there.

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Speaker 1: But this is I hear.

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Speaker 2: This all the times.

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Speaker 1: Well, but I paid for it, so then I need

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Speaker 1: I need these people there, and then that means these

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Speaker 1: it's it becomes all about other people and not about you,

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Speaker 1: and it's and then you're trying to appease everybody, and

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Speaker 6: It's it's not literally like we've someone like even suggested

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Speaker 6: it's not that terrible idea.

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Speaker 1: you can hire people to like, you know, plan and

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Speaker 1: and you know you've got Ryan Lee, he'll do it.

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Speaker 2: But you know, yeah, no, it's just fine.

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Speaker 1: But you know Brown, not everybody has a Jason Brown

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Speaker 1: and Ryan Lee, so so you know, but I mean, yes,

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Speaker 1: I suppose that you can hire someone to make like

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Speaker 1: my sister had someone there to make sure that the

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Speaker 1: caterers showed up and the you know whatever, and then

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Speaker 1: there would be contingency so that, but she was still

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Speaker 1: just wildly stressed out, you know, about it had to

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Speaker 1: be perfect and it had to be right and everyone

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Speaker 1: had to have a good time and be happy. And

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Speaker 1: what if the weather was bad, and what if this

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Speaker 1: and that? And it's like, I just it just seems

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Speaker 1: like you're supposed to be the one to savor this

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Speaker 1: and enjoy it, but but the onus is on you

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Speaker 1: to make sure it's all right. So, like, how do

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Speaker 1: we come up with something that is celebratory where you're

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Speaker 1: honored but you don't walk in feeling stressed that what

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Speaker 1: if I don't look right? And what if I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you remove yourself from the process

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Speaker 1: to be able to enjoy it easy. You go to Vegas,

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Speaker 1: you get a party bus, you go to Magiano's, and

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Speaker 1: you get married by Elvis. Yeah, but you cannot tell

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Speaker 1: me that you were not stressed out. What if the

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Speaker 1: bus doesn't show up, what if the Elvis thing is,

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Speaker 1: what if the AC's broken in the thing? What if

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Speaker 1: the food's not right? I mean that I know that

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Speaker 1: you wanted to go. Well, you can't just tell me

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Speaker 1: you woke up and said, all right, well, whatever happens, you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta go with the flow. On the wedding day, like,

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Speaker 2: I'm lucky because I had a Jason Brown. I literally

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Speaker 2: had the Jason Brown helping me.

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Speaker 1: That was not by choice, like he was forced into it,

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Speaker 1: so he kind of had to make it happen for me. Well,

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Speaker 1: he can't possibly be part of an inefficient process. He

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Speaker 1: can't even attend it. He can't as a guest show.

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Speaker 1: Like if he shows up as a guest and realizes

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Speaker 1: it's inefficient, then the combat boots come out, yes, and

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Speaker 1: the clipboard and the earpiece, and before long we got

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Speaker 1: the whole thing straightened out.

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Speaker 2: And he doesn't even know the people exactly. No, that's

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Speaker 2: very much Jason Brown. But I just think, like, you

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Speaker 2: gotta really enjoy the day. Like if I was to

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Speaker 2: do it all over again, I'm telling you, Fred, you

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Speaker 2: nailed it.

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Speaker 4: Dive bar, band, food, truck, party all night, like that's

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Speaker 4: exactly just make it like.

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Speaker 2: People show up, come as you are.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's big room, great music, good food, and

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Speaker 1: we're done, and we're done. And I realized that's you know,

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Speaker 1: you should have whatever you want your day. But that

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Speaker 1: just that seems like the way to go. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's a big ass room full of people. If you

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Speaker 1: can't separate yourself and the people you don't like, that's

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Speaker 1: your problem, right.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, call up Boss bar Let's go Fred k Hey, Well,

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Speaker 2: you know we'll do it a couple of times for me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I've avoided probably two divorces so far, so you never

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Speaker 1: may only be one wedding some day.

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Speaker 2: More Fred Show Next