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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday, Welcome to the Fifth Thing. I'm Amy and

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Speaker 1: I'm Kat, and well today is announcement day. We tease

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Speaker 1: that the twenty fifth would be when we make our

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Speaker 1: announcement of something we've been talking about for a while,

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Speaker 1: and today's the day. And I mean Kat, you would agree.

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Speaker 1: Change is weird and scary and scary. Yes, and pretty

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Speaker 1: much what we have to tell you is four Things

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Speaker 1: is getting a little makeover of sorts, and a lot

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Speaker 1: of change has been happening over the last several months,

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Speaker 1: and finally, on April first, the big flip will happen. Now,

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Speaker 1: if change is weird for you, and you've been a

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Speaker 1: loyal listener from the beginning, you might be like, what

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Speaker 1: what is happening? But as writer and poet Maya Angelo

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Speaker 1: once said, we delight in the beauty of the butterfly,

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Speaker 1: but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to

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Speaker 1: achieve that beauty. So I don't know. Back in the fall,

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Speaker 1: maybe I was a little caterpillar and I went to

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Speaker 2: Were at the nail salon. It are we getting our

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Speaker 2: nails done? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So it was last August, Yes, yesterday, we got our

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Speaker 1: nails done, and I just threw it out to Kat,

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Speaker 1: would you like to be a full time co host

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Speaker 1: on the podcast? Because I was doing four things on

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Speaker 1: Thursday by myself and the bonus episode was the fifth thing,

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Speaker 2: Years ago, like maybe three.

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Speaker 1: Then I got this idea after we got our nails done,

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Speaker 1: and I guess I had been thinking there might be

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Speaker 1: some change, but I didn't know what that would look like.

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Speaker 1: And then I remember we left and I was driving

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Speaker 1: in my car and I called you and I was

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Speaker 1: my driveway and I asked you, and I remember being

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Speaker 1: a little bit nervous, but then you were like, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been kind of thinking that you need therapy is

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Speaker 1: getting a little bit much for me, which is a

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Speaker 1: podcast that Kat was hosting, and I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: she would feel about sort of combining ours, although this

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Speaker 1: is not a therapy podcast, and we'll get to what

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Speaker 1: it is turning into. But with that quote, I think

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Speaker 1: it's just a beautiful picture of we're about to turn

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Speaker 1: into our butterflies. I guess we are now because this

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Speaker 1: is announced it butterfly, but on April first, we'll be

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Speaker 1: taking flight. So I'd say, back in August, we were

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Speaker 1: a little caterpillars, and then the last several months, lots

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Speaker 1: Were in our cocoon and we were turning into bush

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Speaker 1: and trying to figure this whole thing out, and we're

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Speaker 1: finally ready to emerge. So that is why the butterfly

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Speaker 1: quote was very fitting for this.

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Speaker 3: So drum roll please, if.

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Speaker 4: You ever have feelings that you just wollsome maybe a

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Speaker 4: cat gotcha cob and locking a brother, Ladies and fells,

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Speaker 4: do you just follow an the spirit where it's ound

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Speaker 4: of this phone and real stuff to the chill stuff

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Speaker 4: and m but swaying. Sometimes the best thing you can

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Speaker 4: do it just you feel things. This is feeling things with.

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Speaker 3: Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 1: The podcast now has a new name, so it's no

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Speaker 1: longer four Things with Amy Brown. It is feeling things

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Speaker 1: with Amy and Kat, Feeling things with Amy and Kat,

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Speaker 1: Feeling things with Amy and Kat and Ka. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: we're still working on things, but it'll be on this

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Speaker 1: feed formerly Four Things with Amy Brown. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to change anything everything that you do to access. This

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Speaker 1: podcast is the same for you. You'll just see new

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Speaker 1: artwork and then obviously you'll hear feeling Things. So Walker

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Speaker 1: little Walker Hayes Feeling Things remix, and yeah, Kat is

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Speaker 1: now a full time co host again. It's called Feeling

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Speaker 1: Things with Amy and Kat, and our tagline is a

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Speaker 1: podcast for anyone who's ever had feelings or wants to, and.

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Speaker 5: Which is everybody, Yeah, let's hope. Well yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 5: I guess a couple people could be left out of that.

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Speaker 1: They're like, I don't I don't want to have feelings

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Speaker 1: and I don't have them. There's hope, I guess. And

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Speaker 1: then the description is Feeling Things with Amy and Kat

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Speaker 1: is a podcast for anyone who's ever had feelings or

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Speaker 1: wants to, Hosted by Amy Brown and therapist Kat van Buren.

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Speaker 1: This isn't a therapy podcast. It's a space where nothing

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Speaker 1: culture obsessions to what's happening in the world. All feelings

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Speaker 1: it's real friends having real conversations about real feelings. Some

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Speaker 1: topics are heavy, some are light, but all are worth

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Speaker 1: sometimes the best thing we can do is stop and

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Speaker 1: feel things.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful, I said, that's a description. We also have an

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Speaker 1: Instagram for the podcast. We'd love for you to follow

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Speaker 1: at Feeling Things Podcast. Kat secured that, good job, and

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Speaker 1: we will be loading up some content as we gear

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Speaker 1: up for April first, to make sure you follow, and

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Speaker 1: we'll be in the stories, both of us interacting with

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Speaker 1: you all. We look forward to that, and we're going

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Speaker 1: to do a little snail giveaway as well. I know

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Speaker 1: sometimes incentive helps, but I'm obsessed with snail serum. I

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Speaker 1: gave Kat some Biopel Tensage forty. It's a ten pack

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Speaker 2: That's a lie. I used it two months ago.

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Speaker 1: No, I was getting to that point. You didn't let

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Speaker 1: your initial feeling about it was this is weirdless, I'm

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Speaker 1: just a fun little thing, and we'll do other giveaways

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Speaker 1: what the episodes are going to be like, well, let's

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Speaker 1: do bonus episodes. Well, we thought Tuesday was the best day.

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Speaker 1: So it was weird because four things were on Thursdays

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Speaker 1: top of the week. It always felt a little weird backwards,

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Speaker 1: If you're not evolving, you're dying. You're dying exactly. So

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Speaker 1: what we do now here. So Tuesday is going to

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Speaker 1: It's going to be casual, there's no rules, free flow whatever, stories,

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Speaker 5: Where you guys can just send in anything that you

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Speaker 1: A topic, suggestion, something you want to go over. We

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Speaker 2: On the horizon.

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Speaker 1: It is on the horizon. And if you want to

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Speaker 1: hit us up, you can. Now you can start emailing

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Speaker 2: Hello, it's me.

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Speaker 1: What's up? His song? I Hello Hello from the other side.

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Speaker 1: It's maybe anyway. People won't forget that now they'll remember

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Speaker 1: Hello at Feeling Things podcast dot com. And we would

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Speaker 1: love to hear from you again. April first, it's going

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Speaker 1: some levity in probably one of the hardest days. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: the song that was playing. So when you unplug someone,

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Speaker 1: happen rather quickly, but he can't guarantee anything. So my

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Speaker 1: Which something that I'm going to be doing, like on

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Speaker 1: this Thursday's episode and next thursdays before we lead up

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Speaker 1: to April. First, Katin will be with me in a

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Speaker 1: little intro. I think we'll see TVD. You'll have to

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Speaker 1: listen to find out. But I'll be setting up some

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Speaker 1: of your you Need Therapy episodes so people can listen

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Speaker 1: to it on the Four Things feed.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I want to add too, you just remind

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Speaker 5: me of this, you need therapy and four Things is

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Speaker 5: part of the reason we even met.

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Speaker 2: Outweigh is well, yes, but that was part of four

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Speaker 2: Things at the time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so that kind of those things brought us together

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Speaker 5: and now we're kind of combining them. So it is

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Speaker 5: like a sweet phase of life.

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Speaker 1: We're emerging. We're still in our cocoon though, so give

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Speaker 1: us a week or so. We'll come out. April first,

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Speaker 1: all right, We hope y'all are having the day that

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Speaker 1: you need to have and woo boop see April first. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and we'll also see you on Instagram at Feeling Things

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Speaker 1: podcast and I'm at Radio Amy and you are at

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Speaker 1: kat van Buren.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye,