Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser podcastser here's Nikki.
Speaker 2: Hello, here I am, It's the Nikky Glaser Podcast. Welcome.
Speaker 3: It's Wednesday. It's the day after Halloween, but we're recording this.
Speaker 1: On He's Scary.
Speaker 4: Halloween and Caudron.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's Taylor McGrath. She's in studio with me in
Speaker 3: Saint Louis. Brian Frangie is not with us yet. He
Speaker 3: might be joining us later. He had to go do
Speaker 3: an appointment and wasn't able to be on time, and
Speaker 3: I had no.
Speaker 2: Other what is he? He's frantic on a highway somewhere
Speaker 2: for sure. I know. I just told him an appointment,
Speaker 2: Brian frantic.
Speaker 3: I told him, please don't sweat it like I don't
Speaker 3: need you grind in tonight.
Speaker 4: Grind in like the organ of the like just grinding
Speaker 4: his teeth.
Speaker 2: Are you any extra stress in that man's life? He's
Speaker 2: in a lot of too, pictured.
Speaker 4: Like somebody and then like one of the tin popping
Speaker 4: up from a grape? Is that a thing?
Speaker 3: I don't know, a picture of Jack in the box,
Speaker 3: which Kirstenoi says is our period. When on the Girl's Chat,
Speaker 3: whenever we talk about we're about like whenever we're like
Speaker 3: all crying or something or like being.
Speaker 2: Like and I just don't know what's going on, and
Speaker 2: usually we get to everything. I'm a jack in the
Speaker 2: box right now because it's like and you just don't
Speaker 2: know when it's gonna go.
Speaker 4: We never will ever learn.
Speaker 3: I just thought that mine was gone. Like do you
Speaker 3: ever have it where you're just like, oh, I'm good,
Speaker 3: Like there's you take out a tampon and there's just
Speaker 3: like a little spot of brown, like it's like on
Speaker 3: the very edge and you're just.
Speaker 4: Like mantle eye and it was.
Speaker 2: Just up there dry like I want it to be soaked,
Speaker 2: so I hate what you want to dry one.
Speaker 4: And so I just remember that.
Speaker 2: I was like, it's done. And then I just went
Speaker 2: to the bathroom and I was.
Speaker 1: Like what the hell because it was just like all
Speaker 1: over the toilet seat, Like I get up and it
Speaker 1: just sprays period period toilet seat. It's like period plus
Speaker 1: yellow plus red equals a pretty like coral color.
Speaker 4: It's it's it's the like the color wheel for sure, yeah,
Speaker 4: and complimentary colors or And I.
Speaker 2: Just love what I've done with my period.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited because it's just another month before Jack
Speaker 3: in the box.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you like flatten down you like, oh
Speaker 4: like a gas bag, Like you feel great for a week.
Speaker 2: That's like the best time. Feel good.
Speaker 4: You feel good. Don't you feel smarter? We've talked about
Speaker 4: this probably on the chat like because you kind of
Speaker 4: we've talked about how we like bump into things and
Speaker 4: kind of like are clumsy, which somebody read that that's
Speaker 4: an actual thing that it makes. Yeah, and that we've
Speaker 4: all talked about how we've like gone and said like
Speaker 4: really dumb jokes or like gone in front of a
Speaker 4: like Kirston was talking about she made like a really
Speaker 4: lame joke in front of like plates class. You just
Speaker 4: you're not ever on.
Speaker 3: I went to Kriston's plates classes yesterday actually yesterday morning.
Speaker 2: She was so funny. She was just like very cursed
Speaker 2: in you know, do you.
Speaker 4: Feel like she was just a lab that you're watching.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like it was funny because she went
Speaker 3: to my show on Sunday night in Lawrence and then
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to your show this morning,
Speaker 3: and yeah, she does like a show. She like she's
Speaker 3: just so good at being like now put your feet
Speaker 3: on the bars and you're gonna raise up, touch your
Speaker 3: heels together.
Speaker 2: Talk in that waistband, Oh so tight.
Speaker 3: Now you're gonna go round and round with your like
Speaker 3: she just like describes you, and she's funny.
Speaker 2: It's nice to go to a.
Speaker 3: Friend's class because I don't, as the listener probably knows
Speaker 3: about me, I hate classes because any kind of fitness class,
Speaker 3: a lot of people feel that's the only way they
Speaker 3: can work out because they feel the pressure worse and
Speaker 3: they don't want to. They put themselves in a situation
Speaker 3: in which they are they can't leave, They'll be embarrassed.
Speaker 2: There's other people. It's there's a competitive you can't like
Speaker 2: give up I have. I'm straight up just walked out of it.
Speaker 4: I just likes and pretend I have like an illness
Speaker 4: or something I can't question me about. That's like a handicap.
Speaker 4: That's what can I just like brief time out.
Speaker 3: That is what pilates is is all the equipment looks
Speaker 3: as if you are rehabilitating from a horrible and learning
Speaker 3: to walk against every exercise. It all. It's like a
Speaker 3: sex psych ward because there's like this Joe Pilates was.
Speaker 2: Definitely a perb Joe. Whatever is that like? But I
Speaker 2: think it's Joseph. I've been doing it three weeks, so
Speaker 2: I called, but he he.
Speaker 4: Was a freak.
Speaker 2: For sure.
Speaker 3: All these things are sexual, but they're also it's all
Speaker 3: equipment that makes you feel like you're walking into the
Speaker 3: physical therapy level of a hospital where they only deal
Speaker 3: with people who have lost all ability.
Speaker 4: It's like you're taking air at the tuberculosis hospital.
Speaker 2: What is that like?
Speaker 4: You know when you see videos that they're just like
Speaker 4: all sitting in like wheelchairs by the front windows, like
Speaker 4: taking the ass and then they all go or like
Speaker 4: it or like one flow ricohos eyes. Then they all
Speaker 4: go into the room and get in like the tub
Speaker 4: or like it all.
Speaker 3: Reminds me of Yeah, that just a rehab place where
Speaker 3: you are literally on bars learning how to walk, and
Speaker 3: people go like good job, you know, like no shade
Speaker 3: to those places. They are great for people who are
Speaker 3: needing to learn how to walk, but I don't like
Speaker 3: to be But that is what pilates is, is you're
Speaker 3: learning how to move your body in the correct way.
Speaker 3: And your whole life has been a car crash, taking
Speaker 3: you away from your regular posture and what your your
Speaker 3: muscles are supposed.
Speaker 4: To be doing.
Speaker 3: So everything. Every position feels like you're fighting. And it
Speaker 3: feels like, you know, because I've sometimes watched movies or
Speaker 3: something where someone's learning how to walk walk, or it's
Speaker 3: like a Dateline special where it's like and she's fine,
Speaker 3: the doctor said she wouldn't and she's doing it, and
Speaker 3: they're like, move that leg, and oh, you know what
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of Forrest Gump. I think that's the only
Speaker 3: movie I've seen where a guy is like rehabilitating and
Speaker 3: he gets so frustrated and he's falling, you know, Lieutenant Dan.
Speaker 3: And it feels I feel Lieutenant Dan, even though they
Speaker 3: have referenced Lieutenant Dan several times for me and plates,
Speaker 3: because they say, pretend that you're that you can't use
Speaker 3: your legs like everything is coming from your core, so
Speaker 3: that's your powerhouse. So your your legs are really just
Speaker 3: bones that are like I'm moving a bone, like they're
Speaker 3: not supposed to be your muscle, like you're supposed to.
Speaker 3: Everything's supposed to they don't have power, but I move
Speaker 3: my toe. It's supposed to come from my apps. That's
Speaker 3: what pilates is. It makes no fucking sense.
Speaker 4: That your core, your core is your abs.
Speaker 3: And your hip and then you're like trying to upper
Speaker 3: thighs that wrap around in the back. That's your like
Speaker 3: powerhouse and everything comes from there. And I am using
Speaker 3: like extension cords for my powerhouse. I'm doing everything from
Speaker 3: my like low like my low back is like twists.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it's just it's very interesting to
Speaker 3: be told, Okay, use this muscle, use that muscle, and
Speaker 3: she'll like poke at it, and I'm like, it's numb.
Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel that I don't know
Speaker 3: how to move that. It makes me feel as if
Speaker 3: I'm paralyzed. And I have to say that I'm always
Speaker 3: looking for ways to like empathize with things that I
Speaker 3: don't understand.
Speaker 2: And I truly I'm not saying.
Speaker 3: That I know what it's like to be paralyzed at all,
Speaker 3: but I know the sensation of having something having a
Speaker 3: muscle not do, not only not do what you want
Speaker 3: to do, but not even know where the fuck that
Speaker 3: is in your brain to control it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're like a brick house instead of a power house.
Speaker 2: There's only one way to say that.
Speaker 4: That's what it is, right, I'm a brick Wow, that's
Speaker 4: what that means, right, A brick house is like a man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is very frustrating.
Speaker 5: More you do it, the more you'll learn how to
Speaker 5: use those muscles and it will get easier for you.
Speaker 2: It's frustrating to be new. It's something you should That's
Speaker 2: the truth.
Speaker 3: Noah, And do you know what this is? The thing
Speaker 3: that needs to be said more to me, to people
Speaker 3: like me, is that it's this. I like when they
Speaker 3: say it's a learning curve, even though I don't know
Speaker 3: what the fuck that really means. I just know that
Speaker 3: it takes a long time to get it. People just
Speaker 3: don't like to say, well, it's gonna take a long
Speaker 3: time to learn, just say that it's not this learning
Speaker 3: curve thing that they should feel like I'm the dumb
Speaker 3: one in the class, like it makes me feel like
Speaker 3: a learning curve is I'm guessing.
Speaker 2: Let me try to explain what I think a learning
Speaker 2: curve is when they.
Speaker 3: When people say that, I do not know because it's
Speaker 3: a graph and it's a math thing that I don't
Speaker 3: know because there's a learning curve in the class and
Speaker 3: I'm on the bitter end.
Speaker 4: Of parabola or something involved.
Speaker 3: Yes it's this, but I think what a learning curve
Speaker 3: means is it's very hard in the beginning, and then
Speaker 3: once you get it, it becomes easier.
Speaker 2: And then it's like and then it's not what I thought.
Speaker 2: There's a breakthrough. I could be wrong.
Speaker 4: Will you look it up, because that's true, that's got
Speaker 4: to be true. I thought it was like the bad
Speaker 4: students get f's and the good students get a. So
Speaker 4: like you want more students to get c's.
Speaker 2: That's what I thought it was too.
Speaker 3: They used to use those in class, like everyone would
Speaker 3: do as bad as the worst student, or like everyone.
Speaker 4: The worst you can get. It was the best you
Speaker 4: can get is the best student.
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, and then it would all go from there.
Speaker 3: So like if this best student got a B, then
Speaker 3: that B is suddenly an A, and so your D
Speaker 3: is suddenly a c R.
Speaker 4: I thought. I thought, if there was someone good, then
Speaker 4: you're never going to be good.
Speaker 2: So what is learning?
Speaker 3: When people say it's a learning curve.
Speaker 5: Is a visual representation of how long it takes to
Speaker 5: acquire new skills or knowledge, and there is a great.
Speaker 3: So this is why I think this bullshit, because the
Speaker 3: learning curve is not what they're saying.
Speaker 2: A learning curve is just a type of graph. I
Speaker 2: don't understand.
Speaker 3: They're not actually making sense when they say no, one
Speaker 3: really knows what they're saying.
Speaker 4: Like a representation of what it what it is, then
Speaker 4: it just is what it is over time.
Speaker 3: It's really hard at first, there's a steep incline.
Speaker 5: Is that that's good part, that's a good interpretation. I
Speaker 5: don't know what these numbers.
Speaker 4: Okay, once you get to a certain point, it's easy. Okay,
Speaker 4: it's what they're saying.
Speaker 2: Yes, they should say that that that would be this
Speaker 2: learning curve.
Speaker 3: Shit.
Speaker 2: I don't like to hear that.
Speaker 3: And I don't even think they know what they're trying
Speaker 3: to say, but just I want to hear. Why is
Speaker 3: it so weird for people to say this is really hard?
Speaker 3: It should be hard. I like when people go it
Speaker 3: is hard.
Speaker 4: Of heart.
Speaker 3: I was like trying to get my eating in order,
Speaker 3: and I was like binging every night, and I just
Speaker 3: did it like I was starving all day long, and
Speaker 3: I would start eating late at night and then I
Speaker 3: couldn't stop and then that but that was like what
Speaker 3: I liked to do because it was like locked in,
Speaker 3: like I get this reward at night and then once
Speaker 3: once the fucking barriers, barricades are off, I go buck
Speaker 3: wild and it's like the best part of my day.
Speaker 3: It was during COVID, it was like just a you know,
Speaker 3: it was a really bad time in my life. But
Speaker 3: when I was like this is unmanageable and like my
Speaker 3: life is actually miserable because of this, because I'm waking
Speaker 3: up with all this food in bed. When I started
Speaker 3: to go to like eating disorder recovery, like just these meetings,
Speaker 3: they were saying like, you're just gonna like if you
Speaker 3: keep coming to meetings one day, you're just gonna get it.
Speaker 3: It's just gonna like you're gonna want to just stop
Speaker 3: eating like this. Because for me, it was like, okay,
Speaker 3: when am I gonna want to wait?
Speaker 2: For me to break this cycle?
Speaker 3: I have to eat in the morning, which means I've
Speaker 3: eaten the morning when I've just finished eating at four am.
Speaker 3: So I don't want to eat in the morning. That
Speaker 3: means I'm gonna get fat because I just ate. So
Speaker 3: you have to break the cycle at some point, or
Speaker 3: I have to start all day through the night and
Speaker 3: start in the morning. Like at some point to break
Speaker 3: the cycle, you have to do something deeply uncomfortable, which
Speaker 3: is like you eat when you don't want to. So
Speaker 3: I was so frustrated by it, and I kept hearing
Speaker 3: all these people in meetings talking about how like, you know,
Speaker 3: one day it was just struck abstinate. One day it
Speaker 3: was just like I just God came through and I
Speaker 3: just didn't want to do it anymore.
Speaker 2: And it you know this for no.
Speaker 3: It's it's true because some people do have this awakening
Speaker 3: where they're just like I get it, you know, and
Speaker 3: I've had that with certain things. But then one person
Speaker 3: in a meeting shared that was like, if you're looking
Speaker 3: for this to be easy, stop because it's hard, but
Speaker 3: you can do hard things, and that just I needed
Speaker 3: to hear that so badly because I think it goes
Speaker 3: in line with all the music stuff that I struggle
Speaker 3: with too, is like if you don't get if it
Speaker 3: doesn't come easy, you're not meant to do it. And
Speaker 3: it's like, well, some things are hard, and sometimes the
Speaker 3: talent is persevering past the hard part. And it's not
Speaker 3: just like oh, I'm just a natural. Sometimes the your
Speaker 3: natural ability is the perseverance, and not always is some
Speaker 3: people can just like like Christen's natural I know she
Speaker 3: worked very hard, but she's naturally inclined to blodies. I'm sorry,
Speaker 3: it's just true. Her body is already like was already,
Speaker 3: and she's an athletic person. She's yes, okay, that's true.
Speaker 3: She was even naturally inclined to that thing. Yes, she's
Speaker 3: worked very hard to be good at it. But for
Speaker 3: someone like me, I go, well, then what's the point
Speaker 3: of me even doing this if I'm not naturally inclined?
Speaker 3: But I just have to work that much harder to
Speaker 3: do it. Am I going to probably not? Like, am
Speaker 3: I gonna persevere?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: But like I think, sometimes people don't like to say
Speaker 3: things are hard because we shut down if we think
Speaker 3: they're hard. But for me, when someone tells me, oh,
Speaker 3: this is supposed to be hard, that like.
Speaker 2: Frees me because it's authentic. That's the reality.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I can do hard things, that's what I
Speaker 3: can do. I might not be able to do this
Speaker 3: thing that you're telling me right now, but if you
Speaker 3: just say it's hard, well I can do that because
Speaker 3: I do hard things all the time. I might not
Speaker 3: be able to, you know, Like I think that sometimes
Speaker 3: my pilate's teacher is just like I just go that
Speaker 3: was hard, and all I wanted to say is like
Speaker 3: it's supposed to be.
Speaker 2: It sucks in the beginning. Just say that, yeah, and
Speaker 2: I'll keep.
Speaker 4: Doing what you're doing. Good though, yeah, baby would She.
Speaker 3: Did say today, she was like, you are like this
Speaker 3: just took a little bit, right, but like now you're
Speaker 3: getting it, and I'm like kind of like it's two
Speaker 3: percent easier, but pilates is fucking hard. And so that's
Speaker 3: just to say that if you're struggling out there with something,
Speaker 3: maybe just look for verification that this is actually hard
Speaker 3: and that other people struggle with it. Because Chris took
Speaker 3: plates a few years ago and I talked to him
Speaker 3: about it and he's like, it's so hard, and it
Speaker 3: just made me feel so good to hear that someone
Speaker 3: else isn't just like, oh I love pilates.
Speaker 2: It's so good. Like he's like, no, it sucks.
Speaker 4: People have different like intelligences too. People have like physical intelligence,
Speaker 4: and you are very.
Speaker 2: Intellectual physical intelligence.
Speaker 4: Oh everything is in your head and you're super smart
Speaker 4: that way. So like it might be easy for someone else,
Speaker 4: but they don't have what you have, so you can't
Speaker 4: if you try to tell somebody like this is how
Speaker 4: you like have a career being a comic, or this
Speaker 4: is how you like write jokes or easily do these shows? Right,
Speaker 4: they'd like that is absolutely absurd because they just won't.
Speaker 4: You might not ever be able to like get to
Speaker 4: Kirsten's level where really person's the best or someone who
Speaker 4: has that kind of intelligence. You just have to like.
Speaker 3: Take, like accept what you got a handicap from that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I do have a handicap, like there's no doubt about it.
Speaker 3: But sometimes I just get I don't know about you, guys,
Speaker 3: but when something is just not I can't do it.
Speaker 3: Like do you ever like untangle a necklace and your
Speaker 3: back starts hurting?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: Is that relatable?
Speaker 3: Like do you ever like if you focus on something
Speaker 3: hurting so badly? It makes me realize that obviously, back
Speaker 3: pain is a little bit psychosomatic in that regard for me,
Speaker 3: because it's always when I'm doing something like I'm trying
Speaker 3: to get like a tweeze a hair that I just
Speaker 3: can't find. You won't like pick the tweet like in
Speaker 3: my back, or like I'm trying to pull out a
Speaker 3: hangnail that will I can't get my back start turning.
Speaker 3: It's like, well, this isn't a back issue. This is
Speaker 3: just me being so frustrated at the thing I want
Speaker 3: to be able to do that I can't. And that's
Speaker 3: how Blotts feels. But I was saying, oh, yeah, I
Speaker 3: took Kirsten's class this weekend and she was and I was.
Speaker 3: Before the class, I had to be like, what are
Speaker 3: the other girls like in there? Like are they really
Speaker 3: good at it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Are they gonna? Are they gonna be like perfect
Speaker 2: at this? And am I gonna be?
Speaker 3: The thing is with blott is you don't stop enough
Speaker 3: to compare yourself to anyone else.
Speaker 2: You can't see anyone else.
Speaker 3: You're constantly like laying down on this thing and doing
Speaker 3: weird positions. But in my plates lesson today, my you know,
Speaker 3: personal training, they like put a mirror upright next to
Speaker 3: you for every almost every exercise, so you have to
Speaker 3: like look at yourself doing it. And it's that is
Speaker 3: really hard for me. That's an exercise in and of
Speaker 3: itself to just stare in a mirror at your body, weird.
Speaker 4: Down and be like, I am a cash you.
Speaker 2: I can't all at myself.
Speaker 4: I think, mister Burns, mister Burns, I feel.
Speaker 5: So stupid at my jiu jitsu gym, Like we have
Speaker 5: a mirror against the back wall, and I always like
Speaker 5: if I catch myself in it, I just look so
Speaker 5: dumb and I'm just I just like blur my eyes.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't look. You have to blur. Yes,
Speaker 2: we're not supposed to be able to see you don't
Speaker 2: want to see it.
Speaker 4: It takes me out of this we see ourselves ever,
Speaker 4: unless we like look in the cool water while we're
Speaker 4: doing laundry for our family of twenty whatever. You're not
Speaker 4: supposed to like have mirrors everywhere.
Speaker 3: I went and got a facial on Thursday, and it
Speaker 3: was this It's this really high end place that takes
Speaker 3: like you have to book out like months in advance
Speaker 3: because this woman is so in demand. And I had
Speaker 3: no idea what I was getting myself into because Chris's
Speaker 3: sister recommended it and she has all like the top
Speaker 3: recommendations of like the best things in Saint Louis, have
Speaker 3: like the these like just like all the chiropra kind
Speaker 3: of bougie things.
Speaker 2: It is good.
Speaker 3: So I went to it and she was like talking
Speaker 3: to me about She was like, you still not a
Speaker 3: online but you didn't get into like a lot of
Speaker 3: stuff I need to know, like where have you had
Speaker 3: trauma in your body? And I'm like what, I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I had surgery on my vocal cord. She's like, good
Speaker 3: for me to know. I'm like for a facial, She's like,
Speaker 3: this is not a normal facial. So the whole fatal
Speaker 3: was like lymphatic drainage. Oh hell yeah, pretty much. And
Speaker 3: it was like I held a crystal on my chest
Speaker 3: and she just like gently touched my face and did
Speaker 3: like energy work and it was and then I fell
Speaker 3: asleep so much and kept waking up to myself going
Speaker 3: like wow, like making weird noises like it was like seven,
Speaker 3: Like it was so seven. It was causing like weird
Speaker 3: phlems and sounds to come out of my face.
Speaker 2: And it's draining it really yeah. And then at the
Speaker 2: end of it, I'm not kidding you, at the end
Speaker 2: of it, she goes.
Speaker 3: Okay, So she's like, just like you know it's over,
Speaker 3: you know, like when they tell you like that's all done,
Speaker 3: she goes and just don't work out for ten days.
Speaker 2: And that's I was like what. I was like, I'm
Speaker 2: going to apply these right, like I can't.
Speaker 4: I need you to say that.
Speaker 3: She's like, here, we just don't raise your heart rate.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, what do you mean by like no,
Speaker 3: I'm going to like I do cardio. I'm trying to
Speaker 3: get in shape for a thing. December sixteenth, Seattle, come
Speaker 3: see me. I can't And she was like, well, what
Speaker 3: we just did is a lot like you have so
Speaker 3: much fluid in you that's stored and I just drained
Speaker 3: it all out, and your body should only raise, it
Speaker 3: should only be working to get that out of you.
Speaker 2: It should not be working to do anything else. And
Speaker 2: I was like, would have been nice to know.
Speaker 3: She's like, if you go work out, it kind of
Speaker 3: just negates everything we did. And I'm like, well, you
Speaker 3: know what, I paid one hundred and fifty dollars for
Speaker 3: this fucking plates lesson. I have to go to it.
Speaker 3: I'm going to it. So it was all for not
Speaker 3: and I have a lot of fluid in my face.
Speaker 3: And by the way, when we're doing Guasha, you know,
Speaker 3: like all these things where we're like pushing away and up,
Speaker 3: that is like all going into our brain. Like so
Speaker 3: much fluid in your brain gets stuck. You gotta push
Speaker 3: it down and My neck is where everything is stored.
Speaker 2: All of my things are in my neck. It's all
Speaker 2: getting stuck here and it's getting backed up.
Speaker 3: It's like it's stuck though she said, it's stuck in
Speaker 3: my chakra in my right here. What's this the solar plexus. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's stuck there. There's a backup in like a traffic jam.
Speaker 3: This is where I'm blocked. But it's all backing up
Speaker 3: and it's getting caught in my throat and that's what
Speaker 3: affects my singing. That's why every picture I look like
Speaker 3: red and stidy, vascular, like.
Speaker 2: You don't want talking about. Yeah, every red stippy.
Speaker 3: When they would get mad, they'd be like and then
Speaker 3: the neck would fall out like you know, like stick
Speaker 3: a jut out and then there would be veins.
Speaker 4: And then they like zoom and show the blood.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so good. I loved and stiff, but.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's my neck. So it's just nice
Speaker 3: to hear that that's where it all is. What am
Speaker 3: I gonna do about it?
Speaker 2: Nothing?
Speaker 3: I gotta I don't know. And then I went and
Speaker 3: got a massage yesterday at Cursons.
Speaker 4: I would thank your heart rate would pump those lymph
Speaker 4: to keep moving it.
Speaker 3: I know, I was thinking, like, let's get this thing
Speaker 3: pumping yew and she was like, no, your body, like
Speaker 3: she pretty much said people who do.
Speaker 2: She was like, do you know any athletes who like
Speaker 2: live a long time? Can you think of any athlete
Speaker 2: who's like lives really really long?
Speaker 4: And I was indicated, No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't really follow people into their old age. In
Speaker 3: terms of athletics. She was like, athletes have constant trauma
Speaker 3: to their bodies. They're constantly inserting themselves. Anything you do
Speaker 3: that's punitive is going to be bad for your body
Speaker 3: and cause inflammation. Inflammation causes disease. Stop doing bickram yoga, Carlisle,
Speaker 3: if you're listening, she was like, people who do bickram
Speaker 3: are the most unhealthy people because you're anything with like.
Speaker 2: Lots of heat. You were talking about your verdic.
Speaker 3: Are vedic and you were saying that you were only
Speaker 3: eating hot things, and she was like, yes, that's good
Speaker 3: to do, but like any kind of hot things like
Speaker 3: that's yoused.
Speaker 4: To desert yourself during like a hot day. You're supposed
Speaker 4: to relax in the shade on a high.
Speaker 2: When she said that, she was like you.
Speaker 3: She was like, I used to be a bodybuilder and
Speaker 3: it was hell and it did so much damage to
Speaker 3: my body. I thought I was like in the pinnacle
Speaker 3: of health, but I wasn't.
Speaker 2: I don't do anything now. I just sit on my
Speaker 2: Oh oh, yes, she didn't say that.
Speaker 3: I'm gentle yoga and stuff too. No activity isn't. You
Speaker 3: can't fucking win. There's always gonna be someone online who's
Speaker 3: telling like, you have to push past your limits, always
Speaker 3: keep running more, running extra mild like you know, there's
Speaker 3: David Goggins, and then there's this woman who's like, don't
Speaker 3: ever work.
Speaker 2: Out again or you'll die. So I don't know what
Speaker 2: to do. We'll figure out when we get back from
Speaker 2: the break. So we're back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I this weekend, I was in Milwaukee and then
Speaker 3: we drove to Iowa and then we drove to Kansas.
Speaker 3: And who's in the car with you? Uh, Matt and
Speaker 3: Anya And we play question games, we play trivia games,
Speaker 3: we do history trivia. I really am dumb. I don't
Speaker 3: know about any history.
Speaker 4: Do you know about the mill? The New Milwaukee history?
Speaker 2: What? Oh yeah about Dahmer?
Speaker 4: No, Dahmer's predecessor or prodecessor, after press after presser. Her
Speaker 4: name is Taylor show Business. What there's a new Jeffrey
Speaker 4: Dahmer in town? Ladies, Her name is Taylor Business show business.
Speaker 2: Stop, that's not a name. Is that the name she
Speaker 2: gave herself?
Speaker 4: But wait, who is She killed one person? Okay, so
Speaker 4: that's not cereal, but she would be serial if she
Speaker 4: didn't get caught. She's wild. You gotta look at Taylor
Speaker 4: and how she get caught. She so she killed this guy. Yeah,
Speaker 4: this is very her. She just had her and then
Speaker 4: was like she was into, very into Dahmer. So they
Speaker 4: have like a I was watching a show and they
Speaker 4: have clips, like Taylor saved fifteen pictures of Dahmer on
Speaker 4: her phone. I was like, how did they know about you? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know. I was pausing clipping. So she
Speaker 4: killed this guy on meth. She chopped him up and
Speaker 4: like seven like so many in Milwaukee.
Speaker 2: How did she get him roman?
Speaker 4: It was her boyfriend or like a guy that she
Speaker 4: was sleeping with anyway.
Speaker 2: What was their status?
Speaker 4: It was complicated like on and off. Yeah, and then
Speaker 4: she put his like head in a bucket. And then
Speaker 4: his mom walked down the stairs and saw and found
Speaker 4: and was like, why is this bucket here?
Speaker 3: That's what Domer's dad almost did. They almost opened the
Speaker 3: refrigerator and saw the head.
Speaker 4: Oh boy, Oh well now it's Taylor. Now we're gonna
Speaker 4: be talking about.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Milwaukee had a vibe to it. I did
Speaker 3: like it up there. I like, I love Milwaukee air.
Speaker 3: It almost feels Michigany. It's oh, you've never been there.
Speaker 3: But I like territory you love.
Speaker 4: I love dom do.
Speaker 3: But it Yeah, girls Milwaukee, I still got to bring
Speaker 3: you guys to shoeing.
Speaker 4: Girls trip of course. Yeah, it's fooky. But they tore
Speaker 4: down the school, No, oh they didn't. Oh man, it
Speaker 4: still looks so much like it really totally messages.
Speaker 3: So they redid the library, but the outside there's still
Speaker 3: there's so much that looks exactly like what was what
Speaker 3: was up. Yeah, it's it's pretty. I'm glad that they
Speaker 3: kept it kind of the same.
Speaker 4: I just do a girls trip where we go and
Speaker 4: do all the murder scenes.
Speaker 2: That would be fun for two of us.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I had a theory about Columbine, and I don't think
Speaker 5: it's why you like it, but I wonder if it's
Speaker 5: something in the back of your mind. So I've been
Speaker 5: thinking a lot about like what's going on in Israel
Speaker 5: and stuff, which is what prompted all of this, And
Speaker 5: I was connecting it to like, oh, school shootings, And
Speaker 5: I've been thinking about like judgment and how we judge
Speaker 5: other people. And I'm thinking like in situations like Columbine
Speaker 5: or like you know, when there's like a terrorist attack
Speaker 5: and stuff and a lot of people are together, do
Speaker 5: you think they're judging each other? I would say no.
Speaker 4: I've thought about that, Like if somebody so lost at
Speaker 4: this question, someone so sorry, what do you mean?
Speaker 2: Is are people like like, for example, like all those
Speaker 2: how you behave in a school shooting?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: No, no, Like you know, like in high school you
Speaker 5: have like clicks and people are like making fun of
Speaker 5: other people and stuff. Do you think in the moment,
Speaker 5: like in the cafeteria, like all those students who are
Speaker 5: kind of like huddle together and scared, they're not judging
Speaker 5: each other. It's like just like this moment where like
Speaker 5: you like let go of judgments. Yeah, oh yes, everyone
Speaker 5: there's like a sports Oh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't sit, you can't crouch under our table,
Speaker 3: you're a dor go die by the computers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting.
Speaker 3: No, you're right in those situess in an emergency situation,
Speaker 3: it's kind of every man for himself, but it's also
Speaker 3: everyone's equal.
Speaker 2: And it did unite Columbine in a really big way.
Speaker 3: Like I think following the attacks, Columbine was like, you know,
Speaker 3: the and because bullying was at the forarfront of what
Speaker 3: they thought that whole thing was about. That it became
Speaker 3: like bullying so wrong and we're all in this together
Speaker 3: kind of thing. So I think that uh people, Yeah,
Speaker 3: did bring people together. But like in a mass shooting situation,
Speaker 3: I would I would be annoyed with people because I
Speaker 3: think I know how I would handle it.
Speaker 4: If you're like, especially if you're pushing people the way
Speaker 4: to like get get people out of the way, if
Speaker 4: you climb over somebody, I'm like, I'm gonna remember Tom
Speaker 4: just did that, right, Yeah, Like.
Speaker 2: A bullet's not in my head, I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know the Titanic, they remembered the guy that
Speaker 4: dressed up as a woman and everybody like spit on
Speaker 4: him for the rest of his life and followed him.
Speaker 2: Over because he tried to get he wanted to get
Speaker 2: in one of the things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and they said women and children first because he
Speaker 4: was a male that survived. So they like just spread
Speaker 4: rumors or made up They don't know what happened, but
Speaker 4: they assumed he got women died, children died. But how
Speaker 4: did he survive? Oh so everyone like harassed him his
Speaker 4: whole life. Oh my god, that's what I was wondering.
Speaker 4: If you meant like the judgment of how you act right,
Speaker 4: if if you put someone else in danger, or you
Speaker 4: ran out and didn't.
Speaker 3: Grab my shooting plan like I've run through it. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna run at the guy.
Speaker 5: Oh I want to be the one that runs, because
Speaker 5: the thing is, don't run in a straight line.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to run on the way there.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm saying this all very tongue in cheek because
Speaker 3: there's no way I'll know what I'll get to pay
Speaker 3: this kind of situation. And I have no judgment on
Speaker 3: anyone who doesn't do this, but if someone can, if
Speaker 3: you can imagine yourself in a situation where you are
Speaker 3: at a bowling alley, you're at a movie theater, you're
Speaker 3: at somewhere where this guy walks in and you are
Speaker 3: close enough to them and you're kind of know you're
Speaker 3: gonna die anyway, or if you just have the if
Speaker 3: you have it in you, if you just knock him
Speaker 3: over a little bit, if you just grab him, if
Speaker 3: you just like grab his arm like it's it really
Speaker 3: will do a lot to then help the situation. But
Speaker 3: no one but your instinct is to run, and I
Speaker 3: think mine would be too. I would justu and cover
Speaker 3: my head like that'll help, and not go into it.
Speaker 3: That's always the sad thing is I'm sorry to get
Speaker 3: so morbid, but when there's like I've read all the
Speaker 3: like the autopsy reports.
Speaker 2: Do you read that.
Speaker 4: Stuff not for combine but I have.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh well, you'll get into it eventually, because it's
Speaker 3: that's there's only so much information, and there's always like
Speaker 3: they're always covering their heads like that's gonna help, And
Speaker 3: that's always like such an.
Speaker 5: Interesting I actually think their parents are not good in
Speaker 5: a situation like that, because you're constantly dealing with adrenaline rushes,
Speaker 5: like when you go on stage and stuff that for you,
Speaker 5: it's so second nature. For most people, we don't get
Speaker 5: to experience that on a regular basis.
Speaker 2: I would grab a microphone and.
Speaker 4: Start singing to distract every back of their knees, you
Speaker 4: do like third grade?
Speaker 2: Would That's interesting?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think maybe I think i'd be better in
Speaker 3: it because I've just run the scenario.
Speaker 2: Through my head a lot, and when I'm on a plane.
Speaker 3: I that's why I also think I'd be okay if
Speaker 3: I ever die in a plane crash. I want people
Speaker 3: to know that, like I've kind of like accepted it
Speaker 3: a little bit because I've run it through my head
Speaker 3: so many times of what I would do, what I
Speaker 3: would say, how I would think. I also have dreams
Speaker 3: about dying in plane crashes a lot, and so I
Speaker 3: think I'm like more prepared just because of I visually
Speaker 3: run it through. And some people might scoff at this
Speaker 3: and be like thinking, what the fuck are you talking about?
Speaker 3: But it is true that they visualization helps you do,
Speaker 3: It helps you perform. So whether I don't know why
Speaker 3: I'm visualizing these things, in fact, I was visualizing it
Speaker 3: yesterday on the plane because I was just having a
Speaker 3: moment of kind of bad thoughts and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh no, this could be like manifestation levels of visualization,
Speaker 3: because if you think of things too, like all the
Speaker 3: manifestation books I read are like visualize the call you get.
Speaker 4: I thought, you can only manifest good things. Really you
Speaker 4: can manifest bad things? And how come? Like, what about
Speaker 4: witches and stuff?
Speaker 2: Well, I would think I would think you can manifest
Speaker 2: like you know, negative self talk is supposed to be
Speaker 2: horrible for it for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think you can manifest for other people?
Speaker 4: Can you? Oh?
Speaker 3: You can manifest good things for other people, like they're
Speaker 3: the book I was reading called like it was Joe
Speaker 3: Despends's book, and then there's some book about the subconscious mind.
Speaker 3: I'm so obsessed with this stuff. But you can like
Speaker 3: cure someone else's cancer by thinking hard enough. For me,
Speaker 3: and I know this episode. I've never believed in anything
Speaker 3: like this, but I truly believe in this stuff. It's
Speaker 3: so interesting. Yesterday though, I was trying to get into
Speaker 3: Chris and I were talking about our frustrations with our lives,
Speaker 3: and I was starting to just go, God, you're such
Speaker 3: a one.
Speaker 2: Because yes, because he's an enneagram one.
Speaker 3: And I know that because he took the quiz that
Speaker 3: our therapist gave us. And Enneagram's pretty legit.
Speaker 4: It's the most legit thing because it's.
Speaker 3: Based on a test that was written by people who
Speaker 3: it's based on categorized ancient.
Speaker 4: It goes way back. Yeah, it's based on some like
Speaker 4: I mean, it goes back to like the Sumerians.
Speaker 2: How did they take the quiz?
Speaker 4: Then they just liked it on like a rock with
Speaker 4: a scratch with another rock.
Speaker 3: If you're at a party, if you're at an ancient
Speaker 3: Sumerian party, would you prefer to be the social butterfly
Speaker 3: in the party?
Speaker 4: That's how you decide what number you are, what you
Speaker 4: used to take the test, Like if you use a
Speaker 4: sharp stick, You're like, what are you five?
Speaker 2: But what does that mean?
Speaker 4: I am the investigator? Does that make sense? Yes?
Speaker 2: It does. You want to figure out I.
Speaker 4: Have to, like, yeah, figure out everything about certain things,
Speaker 4: which is just preventing me from actually living my life.
Speaker 2: What are the good things about an investigator?
Speaker 4: They can be you know, like David Lynch is an investigator,
Speaker 4: Peter Gabriel Briany know like that you can be very creative.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you can be creative?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like those are very like savor creative people who
Speaker 4: you know pioneered.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm.
Speaker 4: Vent of them. No one's ever climbed up on the hill.
Speaker 2: Very my microscope.
Speaker 4: It means like probably Einstein's. You know, like you can
Speaker 4: be an inventor, or you can be like a like
Speaker 4: a then Ski or like h you know, you could
Speaker 4: be a crapot or you could be an inventor. Okay,
Speaker 4: same as.
Speaker 2: Everyone happy when you got that one?
Speaker 4: Well, I just yeah, I mean I knew it. I
Speaker 4: was happy to see who else was a five.
Speaker 2: Oh that's always fun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I saw Peter Gabril, who is the best
Speaker 4: Christian in the world.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I was very happy when my enneagram had Taylor Swift
Speaker 4: on it. It did. Yeah, well that's obviously the three, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and Chris is a one. No, what do
Speaker 2: you know what you are? I came into girls Chat
Speaker 2: after you did the quiz. I think we need to
Speaker 2: give a do it. Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's really eclectic energies Enneagraham.
Speaker 3: But it does it just helps you understand. I think
Speaker 3: it's better, not so much for myself because I feel like,
Speaker 3: oh I'm me, I kind of get it, but like
Speaker 3: understanding other people and what their motivations are and like
Speaker 3: why do.
Speaker 2: They care so much about this thing?
Speaker 3: Yes, but Chris as one is it's not extremely moralistic. Yes,
Speaker 3: there is right and there is wrong. And there is
Speaker 3: little greticulate. There's a very good quality to have because
Speaker 3: he is trustworthy. That man would never cheat on that
Speaker 3: man would never talk ill of me. He's like just
Speaker 3: buy like he is just a good person, knows what's good,
Speaker 3: knows what's bad. But then the bad side of that
Speaker 3: is that there's no gray, there's no like, because I'm
Speaker 3: in the gray all the time. And he's just like, well,
Speaker 3: you said you liked that yesterday, and now you don't
Speaker 3: like it. We're watching The Golden Bachelor last night and
Speaker 3: he said some comment of like, it's so sad that
Speaker 3: some of these women like don't even have a chance.
Speaker 3: And when he said that, on screen was a woman
Speaker 3: that very much has a chance, and I thought he
Speaker 3: was referring to her kind of and I go, oh, no,
Speaker 3: they do, and he was like okay.
Speaker 2: And then later on there was this.
Speaker 3: Woman that was like I just love Gary so much
Speaker 3: and he's dogs eying this and I was like, bitch,
Speaker 3: you don't stand a chance and going home, and he goes,
Speaker 3: I just said that, and I go, yeah, but like
Speaker 3: I meant it about the other Like he's it must't
Speaker 3: even very frustrating for him to live with someone who
Speaker 3: is constantly changing their mind about everything all the time.
Speaker 3: But there's that's also a good quality in me, because
Speaker 3: I am it. I forgive be well very easily. I
Speaker 3: could easily see someone else's side of things. I you
Speaker 3: know I'm I'm not someone who is not I'm not
Speaker 3: afraid to be wrong.
Speaker 2: I don't like being wrong.
Speaker 3: I'll fight it, but if you give me some good evidence,
Speaker 3: i'll go well, now I know now I'm smarter. I
Speaker 3: crave being right, so I will switch sides very quickly
Speaker 3: to be right.
Speaker 2: Speaking of being right, I was so.
Speaker 3: Wrong for so long, and so was everyone about Miss
Speaker 3: Brittany Lynn. I don't name, but Brittany James Spear. It's
Speaker 3: so fucking good. I got Noah into it because it
Speaker 3: was honestly, Brittany is a combination of Carlisle and Noah.
Speaker 3: Her pros is Noah Noah. But when I'm reading it,
Speaker 3: I you know there was no I told all the
Speaker 3: girls chat. I was like, everyone's got to read this.
Speaker 3: When I reading it into it it's probably at the library,
Speaker 3: but I can't imagine that it's gonna You're gonna have
Speaker 3: be on a wait list. If I had the book
Speaker 3: i'd give it to you, but I read it on
Speaker 3: my phone. I told Noah, I'm like I was reading it.
Speaker 3: I go, this is so like she's saying things that
Speaker 3: really remind me of you. Like she's just so thoughtful
Speaker 3: and like she's just a sweet person deep down, and
Speaker 3: I think that she maybe has been misconstrued as like
Speaker 3: an angry, crazy, like selfish, like kind of dumb person,
Speaker 3: but she's so fucking sweet. And I think everyone always says.
Speaker 1: Noah's lazy, stupid, selfish, but really deep what you look like?
Speaker 2: Did you relate to that assessment that did you? Do
Speaker 2: you feel kinship with you? I?
Speaker 5: Like, I never real Okay, so I just wanted to
Speaker 5: say never listen to Britney Spears only read all the
Speaker 5: gossip stuff on her when I was a receptionist and
Speaker 5: nothing else to do during the day, and going into
Speaker 5: this memoir and reading about her and learning what like,
Speaker 5: first of all, she's very thoughtful, very like highly creative
Speaker 5: and like spiritual in a way but not you know,
Speaker 5: not religious spiritual, like just like really like a like
Speaker 5: energy wise and yeah, just like reading about what happened
Speaker 5: to her, the way she grew up, the whole thing
Speaker 5: with Justin Timber, like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Can we just like enlighten some people about some stuff
Speaker 3: right now, because if you're not going to read this book,
Speaker 3: it's not two spoilers.
Speaker 5: Alerts, and I still want to read it, you are
Speaker 5: about to spoil it in Justin.
Speaker 3: There should be criminal charges pressed against her family, without question, Yes,
Speaker 3: without question, her father and that lou woman, whoever that
Speaker 3: motherfucker was there, should they should be in prison for
Speaker 3: what they did to her. She speaking of the creative thing,
Speaker 3: Britney Spears really is a really amazing artist, and it
Speaker 3: was stolen from her so early on that we never
Speaker 3: got to see the potential of the artist that she
Speaker 3: was because she became came a just a marketer's dream,
Speaker 3: you know, she just became whatever these people wanted her
Speaker 3: to be, and all of her talent and all of
Speaker 3: her creativity was sapped from her and she wasn't allowed
Speaker 3: to be. Let's not even talk about how much she
Speaker 3: was paralyzed during her conservatorship.
Speaker 2: It happened immediately. She was sexualized.
Speaker 3: She was punished for being sexy, She was girly mocked
Speaker 3: for being a virgin.
Speaker 5: She was yeah, it was she She loved dressing up
Speaker 5: and being and like leaning into like her like girlhood,
Speaker 5: and that was really used against her in a way,
Speaker 5: especially with all the interviews and stuff that she did,
Speaker 5: even from like.
Speaker 3: Star against her. Everything was used against her. From the
Speaker 3: very what she was was always a weapon used against her.
Speaker 3: They built her up for the things that she was,
Speaker 3: and then they would push her down for the things
Speaker 3: that she was. It is our fault, it is the
Speaker 3: media's fault.
Speaker 2: It was.
Speaker 3: It's literally I wanted out of show business. After I
Speaker 3: read this, I.
Speaker 2: Was like, it's a just the same disgusting business. I
Speaker 2: don't think it isn't but it I think it.
Speaker 3: I think it is. I think it's this is this
Speaker 3: is still happening to her. I just looked at us
Speaker 3: Weekly that I got when I went to their offices.
Speaker 3: That's sitting on my table in there, and I look
Speaker 3: at it with a new lens of like this picture
Speaker 3: that they used for the front cover, the Emotional Journey
Speaker 3: of Britney spears like they're trying to act like they're
Speaker 3: being nice to her now, they still used a picture
Speaker 3: that made her look distressed and looked like she's not
Speaker 3: in a good place. Everything is so manipulated with this woman,
Speaker 3: in particular this book. This is what I'll say about it, Brittany.
Speaker 3: If you think, oh yeah, she's not that talented. Brittany
Speaker 3: was the one that decided when they did the Ever
Speaker 3: the old reason Britney Spears got super famous was off
Speaker 3: of Baby One More Time. Okay, right, remember that the
Speaker 3: music video. They were going to shoot a music video
Speaker 3: in a high school, and she was the one that
Speaker 3: was like, why don't we do schoolgirl uniforms? Okay, amazing decision.
Speaker 3: Why don't we do it? When the bell rings, everyone
Speaker 3: breaks out into dances and it's all girls in pigtails.
Speaker 3: That was all her vision, which is arguably the reason
Speaker 3: she's famous. So anyone who thinks that she was just
Speaker 3: you know, something that was plugged into this like plug
Speaker 3: and play machine, of like this is how you make
Speaker 3: a star. Just put this girl out there and make
Speaker 3: her sing. She also was the one that before Baby
Speaker 3: One More Time was recorded, she stayed up all night
Speaker 3: long because she wanted her voice to sound like this.
Speaker 3: She like wanted it to be like she thought it
Speaker 3: would sound cool. So she purposely stayed up all night
Speaker 3: long the night before the talking and screaming and hanging
Speaker 3: out and partying, partying her way, which is like drinking
Speaker 3: a lot of PEPSI, Like, she's not even that big
Speaker 3: of a partier. Everything you think about her is just
Speaker 3: media's lies about her, you know.
Speaker 5: And so I sent you a screenshot of this. This
Speaker 5: is really the part and it's very very early on
Speaker 5: in the book. It's when she talks about her childhood
Speaker 5: and how she used music and performance as an escape
Speaker 5: from her reality. That told me, like the fact that
Speaker 5: you know her career is music and entertainment, that was
Speaker 5: her escape and her like safe zone. And we made
Speaker 5: that And I say we because I also read into
Speaker 5: all those things. We made that place for her so toxic.
Speaker 5: And that's the really satist.
Speaker 2: That's a song toxic. You're so right.
Speaker 3: We poisoned that place for her, like that was her refuge.
Speaker 3: She had an alcoholic father who would drink to the
Speaker 3: point where he was like couldn't even stand up and
Speaker 3: would just be passed out on the ground. She had
Speaker 3: an angry mom who wouldn't divorce him and get the
Speaker 3: kids away from him, and who would just scream at
Speaker 3: him into the wee hours of the morning, and Brittany
Speaker 3: would say, Mom, please, he's finally asleep. He's not terrorizing
Speaker 3: our family anymore? Can you not scream? And she'd be
Speaker 3: up all night listening to her mom screaming at her
Speaker 3: past out father. She had nowhere to go from this,
Speaker 3: but she had like a happy moments in her childhood.
Speaker 3: But singing was such an escape for her, and then
Speaker 3: it became the worst thing in her life. Was like
Speaker 3: making music because and what about all the producers that
Speaker 3: would put her into Like during her conservatorship, her dad
Speaker 3: made music like hell for her. He wouldn't let her
Speaker 3: change anything on the Vegas Show. Whenever she would go
Speaker 3: record new music, they would purposely pick out the worst, dingiest,
Speaker 3: disgusting recording studios, so that just she wouldn't be good,
Speaker 3: because if she got good and creative, she would have
Speaker 3: to like she would have a voice and be able
Speaker 3: to communicate with us that what was going on. So
Speaker 3: they just kept her recording this doing the same things
Speaker 3: that she had been doing for years and years. She
Speaker 3: couldn't do anything different. They would only let her play
Speaker 3: new songs during her changes on the Vegas Show. When
Speaker 3: she would be like in the bowels of the stage
Speaker 3: doing a costume change, they would like play music over that,
Speaker 3: and then that's when her new music could be played
Speaker 3: during her costume changes. They and then the Justin Timberlake thing.
Speaker 3: I know people are probably like, I'm not interested in
Speaker 3: Britney Spears. Can I just say that Justin Timberlake thing
Speaker 3: is so fucking wild?
Speaker 2: What happened with this?
Speaker 3: She was in a relationship with Justin Timberlake. Okay, she
Speaker 3: was so desperately in love with him, so in love.
Speaker 3: They were together years, right, they're living together. They are
Speaker 3: the it couple. She they are both at the pinnacle
Speaker 3: of their fame. He's just kind of reaching the same
Speaker 3: level of fame as her around like maybe a couple
Speaker 3: of years into their relationship. In sync is blowing up.
Speaker 3: People are paying a lot of it. He's now leaving
Speaker 3: in Sinki. He's going to record his first solo album.
Speaker 3: He's becoming a little distant. She doesn't care because she
Speaker 3: gets it, like he is just now reaching this level
Speaker 3: of fame that she's been out for a while.
Speaker 2: He is cheating on her all the time, chesty.
Speaker 3: She doesn't care because she cares, but she no what
Speaker 3: let me know if I get anything wrong from what
Speaker 3: you read.
Speaker 2: She knows it's happening.
Speaker 3: She doesn't love it, but she kind of accepts him
Speaker 3: for who he is, and she also understands he's young,
Speaker 3: he's newly famous, and pussy is abundant, and it's just
Speaker 3: a thing that's gonna happen this and that she'd rather
Speaker 3: turn a blind eye to it.
Speaker 2: She knows it's happening.
Speaker 3: She hears the rumors he's fucking women on the road,
Speaker 3: multiple women every weekend, and she's just like, you know what,
Speaker 3: boys will be boys, not in a way that's like
Speaker 3: I'm a victim. This is just what I have to
Speaker 3: do to stay with Justin.
Speaker 2: She's just like, she's just cool, as cool as one
Speaker 2: could be. Yes, very mature, very mature, And isn't this
Speaker 2: at a young age? His solo album wasn't this after
Speaker 2: the whole? Do you know what I'm about?
Speaker 4: This thing? The what what?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: No, So he's working on the solo album as they're together, right,
Speaker 3: and she's going into the studio and she's not going
Speaker 3: into the studio to like because she's on a tour.
Speaker 3: He's on a tour, the he's recording. Then by the
Speaker 3: way she makes out with she's just she's hearing about
Speaker 3: Justin cheating all the time.
Speaker 2: She is one intimate moment with.
Speaker 3: Wade robson her choreographer where they make out a guy
Speaker 3: that both her and Justin know she made out with Wade.
Speaker 2: What does she do? She tells Justin right away because.
Speaker 3: She feels terrible about it, even though she knows he's
Speaker 3: cheating all the time. She just wants to get this
Speaker 3: is her thing. She wants to get off her chest.
Speaker 3: She tells Justin. Justin forgives her. They move on from it.
Speaker 3: Justin goes into the recording studio he's recording his new album.
Speaker 3: Brittany is supportive. She feels a little distant from him.
Speaker 3: In retrospect, she believes that distance is because he is
Speaker 3: writing scathing songs about her and recording them every day,
Speaker 3: knowing that these are going to be released, and he
Speaker 3: feels a little tinge of probably like this is shitty
Speaker 3: that I'm going home and fucking my girlfriend. And so
Speaker 3: she felt a distance from him during this recording session.
Speaker 2: Then he breaks up with her via text. It's not
Speaker 2: even gonna give that the life together. What's the biggest thing?
Speaker 2: The abortion?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Oh, the abortion show.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she got pregnant and she did not want to.
Speaker 5: She was very happy about being pregnant, and he said
Speaker 5: to her, I'm not ready to be a father. Do
Speaker 5: you know what I find to be one of the
Speaker 5: most offensive things.
Speaker 2: About that story.
Speaker 5: While she took the I forget the name of the pill,
Speaker 5: but it basically induces the abortion, and you're.
Speaker 4: Are you eighty are you for eighty six? It's like
Speaker 4: there's something I pulled out?
Speaker 5: But anyway, so she's she's she's having the pregnancy loss,
Speaker 5: which is incredibly painful for a woman.
Speaker 2: And she didn't say blacked this out.
Speaker 5: She didn't say how long, uh like, how far into
Speaker 5: the pregnancy she was in the book, But it's still
Speaker 5: very painful because your uterus is extracting and all this shit,
Speaker 5: you know, aside from like the whole mental aspect.
Speaker 2: He comes in to their room playing his fucking guitar.
Speaker 2: Oh singing God, I remember this. It was like a
Speaker 2: scene from Barbie. Dude fuck brings his guitar.
Speaker 3: But she liked it. In the book, she liked it. Noah,
Speaker 3: we we both crinsed at that. But she was like
Speaker 3: he came in and like serenaded me with his guitar
Speaker 3: to like call me.
Speaker 2: She in the book, liked it.
Speaker 3: I was super cringe that he was, like listen to
Speaker 3: the sum all up as she's on the ground crying,
Speaker 3: like you know, aborting there like having an abortion I
Speaker 3: didn't want to have, or miscarriage that she.
Speaker 2: Didn't want to have.
Speaker 3: And that's a little sticky subject matter of like I
Speaker 3: don't feel like she pinned that on him that much
Speaker 3: of like I would have She pretty much did say
Speaker 3: I would have had this baby if.
Speaker 2: It wasn't for justin not wanting it. Do I hate
Speaker 2: him for that? No?
Speaker 3: No, he really wasn't able to have a kid. I
Speaker 3: don't think it's fair to like make someone a father
Speaker 3: when they don't want to be, and it was her choice. Ultimately,
Speaker 3: it's not like he forced her to. I mean, I'm
Speaker 3: not She doesn't trash anybody in the book.
Speaker 2: She just speaks her truth. No one, that's it.
Speaker 3: No one, And that's what makes it so like easy
Speaker 3: to read and digest and like and feel.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a ploy to feel.
Speaker 3: Sad for her because she's being so fair and even
Speaker 3: about everything.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a ploy that they used.
Speaker 3: It were like, we're not gonna trash anyone, so you
Speaker 3: just look like the biggest victim. But it worked for
Speaker 3: me because for me, he can you believe dumpster overtext possess.
Speaker 3: And then then the album comes out where he crime
Speaker 3: me a River, where he films a video where it's
Speaker 3: a look alike of her. I remember watching this video
Speaker 3: and loving it so much because I just saw the
Speaker 3: pain in.
Speaker 2: Justin's eyes that she cheated and he's.
Speaker 3: Following this look like around her house and she's and
Speaker 3: then he hooks up with another woman and he's filming
Speaker 3: it to get back at her because she hurt him
Speaker 3: so much. Then so she is like trashed in the
Speaker 3: media after this album comes out.
Speaker 2: Everyone hates her. She's a fucker's what. She used to
Speaker 2: be a virgin.
Speaker 3: She was so proud that she was a virgin, which,
Speaker 3: by the way, she never even wanted to talk about
Speaker 3: people made her talk about it. She never wanted to
Speaker 3: talk about whether or not she wanted to have sex,
Speaker 3: or whether or not she had sex. And by the way,
Speaker 3: she had sex when she was fourteen. She wasn't a virgin.
Speaker 3: She never even wanted to be portrayed as one. So
Speaker 3: then she's obviously so she gets shit on for being
Speaker 3: a virgin. Then suddenly she's not a virgin, so everyone
Speaker 3: hates her for being this whore. She cheated on Justin
Speaker 3: Timberlake with Wade Robson. I even knew that story back then.
Speaker 3: I never thought that Justin che did even though thinking
Speaker 3: about it now, of course he did. So then she
Speaker 3: is completely bullied by the nation. Everyone hates her. She
Speaker 3: goes away for like two years and can't even like
Speaker 3: leave her house. She develops complete horrible social anxiety. She
Speaker 3: is just holed up. He is on top of the world.
Speaker 3: He's grinding on people at awards shows and having like
Speaker 3: you know, just he's doing all these sexual things in
Speaker 3: his performances. And then she finally re emerges and does
Speaker 3: the sexual performance at the VMAs in two thousand, which
Speaker 3: is one of my favorite performances of all time. It's
Speaker 3: she does I can't get no satisfaction into my loneliness,
Speaker 3: and it's so good. And then she gets there's like
Speaker 3: a senator that asks that says he wants her to die.
Speaker 3: Like people are saying that she's such a bad example
Speaker 3: for kids, whereas like Justin can do whatever he wants,
Speaker 3: He can make out with women on stage, never gets
Speaker 3: called a slut. She's a huge slut. Everyone hates her,
Speaker 3: and then and then it's just all fucking downhill from there,
Speaker 3: like the bitch can never recover because everyone just piles on.
Speaker 3: And then that that is the end of Britney Spears
Speaker 3: ever being like a hero to anyone until the Free
Speaker 3: Brittany movie and even now in the Free Britney movement
Speaker 3: even I've been like, she needs to be on meds.
Speaker 3: She's crazy. Oh my god, these videos, what's wrong with her?
Speaker 3: You know what's wrong with her? We did this if
Speaker 3: you if it would be insane. I've made fun of
Speaker 3: Britney's voice before for sounding like a five year old.
Speaker 3: She's a five year old because she went exy baby.
Speaker 4: It was in a.
Speaker 3: Conservatorship that made her five years old again. She just
Speaker 3: gave off regress trying to be trying to be an
Speaker 3: adult in a situation where you are being told what
Speaker 3: to eat, what to drink, where you can go, where
Speaker 3: you can't go, You can't have access to your cell phone,
Speaker 3: you've an iPad with childlocks on it. What would you
Speaker 3: do keep trying to be a thirty nine year old
Speaker 3: or would you just go and turn into a five
Speaker 3: year old? I think I might just be a five
Speaker 3: year old because you just give up for thirteen years.
Speaker 2: She's locked in that.
Speaker 3: So Nikki, don't make fun of Britney for sounding like
Speaker 3: she's five years old. This is what I'm saying to myself.
Speaker 3: Of course she would you would too, So it's again,
Speaker 3: it's just another lesson. And like any time I judge
Speaker 3: a celebrity, there's there's like another side to the story
Speaker 3: that I wish, you know, I wish I would have
Speaker 3: more like empathy in the moment when I go off
Speaker 3: on people that I think I understand, like what's going on,
Speaker 3: and then I don't. So I think Chris the other
Speaker 3: night when we were watching a documentary, I said this,
Speaker 3: I think on the pod the other day, but he
Speaker 3: was like, when are we going to learn that it's
Speaker 3: never the story that we think it is, that anytime
Speaker 3: we have a judgment about something, there's going to be
Speaker 3: there's going to be a documentary in ten to twenty
Speaker 3: years that says you thought you knew, well, you had
Speaker 3: no idea, and she was actually the victim. So I'm
Speaker 3: going to try to live my life now thinking about
Speaker 3: the documentary that comes out in ten or twenty years.
Speaker 4: They need to do it faster, just put it out
Speaker 4: right away so that we don't have to wait.
Speaker 3: But he's I'm her dad needs to be behind bars,
Speaker 3: and then I probably will change my tune on this.
Speaker 1: You have to judgment to judgments, yes, because you know
Speaker 1: what ourselves.
Speaker 3: Her dad had a horrible, horrible childhood, a horrible one
Speaker 3: he did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he was very abused.
Speaker 4: He still shouldn't have abused Brittany like that.
Speaker 3: No, no one should. But like it hurt people, hurt people.
Speaker 3: That's all we know. Let's take a break and come
Speaker 3: back with more.
Speaker 4: Guns don't kill people? What guns don't kill people? I
Speaker 4: killed people.
Speaker 2: This weekend. My way, you're on too. Harry died goes
Speaker 2: on yeah, and I'm on tour this weekend and I'm
Speaker 2: on tour. Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: Before we get to Matthew Berry, which very sad. But wait,
Speaker 3: I just want to say that when his death got
Speaker 3: I was the first one to see it. I was
Speaker 3: in the green room with Anya and Matt and I
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, like it showed up, the
Speaker 3: alert showed up on my phone and they go, what,
Speaker 3: I go, someone.
Speaker 4: Died and alert on your phone?
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I got so many alerts.
Speaker 4: When someone dies, you get an alert. Yeah, I got
Speaker 4: a member Amber.
Speaker 2: I literally did.
Speaker 3: CNN, Apple News, Hollywood Reporter, like I get like push
Speaker 3: gernifications from news when there's breaking news. And that was
Speaker 3: breaking this weekend, Matt Matthew Berry. But Anya and Matt
Speaker 3: were like who And I was like, okay, guess and
Speaker 3: I go, could I.
Speaker 2: Be anymore dead? And they were like that they didn't know.
Speaker 2: I forgot they guest first. But yeah, that's really sad.
Speaker 3: But but everyone I have to also say that everyone dies,
Speaker 3: and it's we have to be we have to do
Speaker 3: this for everyone. Do you ever whatever celebrity dies, I go,
Speaker 3: oh my god, we have to do this for literally
Speaker 3: every singlebrity we know there has to be like this.
Speaker 2: Like oh, that's so sad.
Speaker 3: And it's like, wait, are you just getting the memo
Speaker 3: that everyone dies people react to I'm like, aren't don't
Speaker 3: you know that this was gonna Matthew Perry was gonna
Speaker 3: die some day? Yes, it definitely happened way too soon,
Speaker 3: fifteen years before it would have been like oh yeah,
Speaker 3: that makes sense. It's still shocking, but this horror of
Speaker 3: like I can't it's so it's like did you you
Speaker 3: know you're gonna die too, right, Like you know that
Speaker 3: everyone you love and know is going to die, or
Speaker 3: you're gonna die first and be the you're gonna.
Speaker 2: Like is this news? But some people react to death
Speaker 2: like they just found out about it.
Speaker 5: I think about all of the like footage and stuff
Speaker 5: that like TV shows and like like news outlets or
Speaker 5: like radio shows have to go through to do like
Speaker 5: the memorial tribute to you.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 3: I always think about those people come into the office, Steve,
Speaker 3: you got to start going through fromt fun like we
Speaker 3: gotta get Yeah.
Speaker 2: I always think about the people that in the smiling and.
Speaker 4: The cameras going click click click, click click click, and
Speaker 4: they're like, Matthew Perry has died.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah. I definitely it was definitely tragic.
Speaker 2: It was definitely sad.
Speaker 3: And it's definitely weird that his last Instagram post is
Speaker 3: of him in the hot tub that he probably died in.
Speaker 3: That's always morbid.
Speaker 4: Oh maybe it was Purple's ful. I don't, you can't,
Speaker 4: you can't.
Speaker 2: It's really sad. From pick a Ball. So I've told
Speaker 2: Chris oh so much.
Speaker 3: No, I don't think he had Okay, yes, So I
Speaker 3: came up with an idea. The other day I was
Speaker 3: sometimes I just my mind has big ideas and then
Speaker 3: I put them into play and then I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I gotta do this. But the other day, I haven't
Speaker 3: seen Aerostor movie yet, which has been out for a while,
Speaker 3: and I've saw Aeros Tour nine times live, but there's
Speaker 3: a movie about the tour, Huge, huge, huge, huge, and
Speaker 3: it's at AMC theaters only, and it's usually only being
Speaker 3: run from Thursday until Sunday. And I've been working every
Speaker 3: single Thursday through Sunday since it's been out, and it's
Speaker 3: been out for like four weeks. But I just haven't
Speaker 3: had a free time.
Speaker 4: I can't, I know.
Speaker 3: So the first one I thought was available is like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm going to be in Boston this weekend Thursday and Friday.
Speaker 3: I can go Friday day because usually I just leave
Speaker 3: the town the day after and I never am just there.
Speaker 3: So this coming Friday, I'm like, oh, I'll go see
Speaker 3: it in Boston. I look it up and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: there's a twelve thirty showing. This will be awesome. And
Speaker 3: then I'm like looking at the tickets and they're like,
Speaker 3: you can rent the whole damn theater, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: that would be fun, Like, I wonder if I can
Speaker 3: get like a group together to go in Boston. I
Speaker 3: mean it'll be Anya and Matt, but like I wonder,
Speaker 3: and Chris might be there get people to And then
Speaker 3: I was like, Gait, it would be so fun to
Speaker 3: bring fans and besties. And I also that that same day,
Speaker 3: they were like, your Thursday ticke, your Thursday ticket sales
Speaker 3: are like struggling, so we need to boost those, and
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, why don't we combine the two.
Speaker 3: If people come on Thursday night to the show, that
Speaker 3: where I'll give away the free swifty passes to come
Speaker 3: with me to the Friday show. So if you haven't
Speaker 3: heard yet, if you're in the Boston area, or you
Speaker 3: want to fly to Boston to go to the Swifties
Speaker 3: Eras Tour movie with me, if you come Thursday night
Speaker 3: to my show, I'm giving away thirty five passes because
Speaker 3: they only let you bring forty guests.
Speaker 2: Huh to a whole theater.
Speaker 4: More can fit in there, so many more weird. Maybe
Speaker 4: they don't want it to become too.
Speaker 2: Rock as rowdy and rocks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why it's at Captaint forty, but
Speaker 3: thirty five people are going to go with me to
Speaker 3: see the Eras Tour movie on Friday Day and then
Speaker 3: I have a show that Friday night, which will be
Speaker 3: really fun. But I am so fucking that is a
Speaker 3: idea to get together with a bunch of Taylor Swift
Speaker 3: fans that are also possibly my fans.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think people might just go.
Speaker 4: You know, people might just tell their friends if they
Speaker 4: don't want to go, yeah, because they don't like Taylor Swift,
Speaker 4: but they're your friend.
Speaker 3: I think that they're no. They I hope they don't
Speaker 3: do that. I just want I think I'm what I
Speaker 3: might want. What I wanted to do is maybe get
Speaker 3: some Boston Swifties that don't even know about it to
Speaker 3: my show and then they go, oh my god, I
Speaker 3: actually like this girl. Because if you like Taylor Swift,
Speaker 3: I think you'll like my comedy. It's like as emotional
Speaker 3: and honest and like raw as Taylor Swift's lyrics. I
Speaker 3: think there's a commonality there, So I'm trying to do
Speaker 3: some crossover. Final thought, I'm very, very excited about going
Speaker 3: to see the Aristor movie with a bunch of people
Speaker 3: that are just so excited because the opening night, opening
Speaker 3: weekend Taylor Swift terrorst Tour movies were packed and now
Speaker 3: they're kind of probably less so, and so I wanted
Speaker 3: to go when it felt like it was like new
Speaker 3: and packed. So I think it's going to recreate that
Speaker 3: feeling and I'm gonna be singing and dancing the whole time.
Speaker 2: I getta wait.
Speaker 3: I am craving Ariostour again because I've been listening to
Speaker 3: the new Taylor Swift album that dropped on Friday, just
Speaker 3: doing a little Swift talk for the people that care,
Speaker 3: and if you don't care, you might find it interesting
Speaker 3: as well. So the new Taylor Swift re release of
Speaker 3: nineteen eighty nine, which is an album that originally came
Speaker 3: out in two thousand and four fourteen. It was the first
Speaker 3: album where I became a Swifty and was like this
Speaker 3: is it for me?
Speaker 2: Like this is my girl is blank Space.
Speaker 3: I was sitting in bed at twenty fourteen listening to
Speaker 3: Blank Space and I was just like, this is the
Speaker 3: greatest song I've ever heard. I love it so much,
Speaker 3: and I will love everything this girl does for the
Speaker 3: rest of my life. And I've stayed true to that
Speaker 3: for the past nine years. So re release of nineteen
Speaker 3: eighty nine because she is rerecording all her music so
Speaker 3: she can own it because it got sold to this
Speaker 3: guy that she really hates. And so now she's re
Speaker 3: recording all of her music and it's breaking all the records.
Speaker 3: Like her record which was number one back in twenty fourteen,
Speaker 3: is now becoming number one again. But it's re recorded
Speaker 3: with her new voice, which is like she's done so
Speaker 3: much vocal training. Her voice is so much stronger. Her
Speaker 3: vocals are fucking insane on this. There are some Swifties
Speaker 3: that are like, it's sound exactly the same.
Speaker 2: No, it shouldn't.
Speaker 3: She is making it sound exactly the same. But she's
Speaker 3: also she's a better singer. Now you guys like this more.
Speaker 2: It's more ethical, And it's.
Speaker 5: What's more ethical because there's no drama and she owns
Speaker 5: the music.
Speaker 3: She owns the music, and there are things about it
Speaker 3: that are different. Like some people, if you get into
Speaker 3: the Swifty boards, they're like, Okay, this one note she
Speaker 3: hits is so different the way she says this one line.
Speaker 3: But there is one part in the song I Know Places,
Speaker 3: which is one of my favorite songs I know places
Speaker 3: one of my favorite songs of all time of Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2: And there's this part where she goes and.
Speaker 3: We run Bee Bee, but she goes and we run,
Speaker 3: but in so in the original one, she's like, she
Speaker 3: does that and we run and it sounds fine. But
Speaker 3: this one she goes and we run, and it's like,
Speaker 3: go listen to the second and we run. It is awesome,
Speaker 3: and everyone's freaking out about it, saying it sounds so
Speaker 3: cool because there's like a.
Speaker 4: Rah, there's a brandy on it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's she stayed up late the night before.
Speaker 3: It sounds so cool and so good, and you can
Speaker 3: tell that she was like, we're gonna actually really fucking
Speaker 3: run on this one. And then there's all these vault tracks,
Speaker 3: which are tracks that didn't make it onto the original
Speaker 3: album that she is now releasing for the first time.
Speaker 3: One of them is truly one of the best Tailor
Speaker 3: Swift songs ever written. She co wrote it with amazing
Speaker 3: multi platinum Grammy winning songwriter one of the best songwriters
Speaker 3: of our of all times, she's written some of your
Speaker 3: favorite songs, Diane Warren. She sat down and wrote with her,
Speaker 3: and she wrote the song called say Don't Go, I know,
Speaker 3: and Diane Warren did not know that the song was
Speaker 3: going to be released. She was really sad that he
Speaker 3: didn't make the original album. She was like, I wonder why,
Speaker 3: but I guess it sounded too much like another song.
Speaker 3: It has the same kind of chord progression as the
Speaker 3: song Clean, which is also on that album. So I
Speaker 3: think maybe Taylor left it off for that reason. But
Speaker 3: Say Don't Go is one of the best Taylor Swift
Speaker 3: songs ever recorded and written. It is so good. And
Speaker 3: then there's another song. This is my order of vault
Speaker 3: tracks if you want to know my faves. It started
Speaker 3: out Say Don't Go was number one, then it was Slut.
Speaker 3: I liked Slut the second, but Slut has fallen in
Speaker 3: the ranks because other ones I've climbed.
Speaker 2: Slut stays is a great song.
Speaker 3: But uh, now that we Don't Talk is so good
Speaker 3: and it's about Harry Styles because I asked.
Speaker 2: My fans white, what who did think the song is about?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, they dated, and.
Speaker 3: We all know that they dated because it was like
Speaker 3: out and about. Like it was they were like out
Speaker 3: and about during this time when she was writing these
Speaker 3: songs and in into the Woods, which not Into the Wood, sorry,
Speaker 3: out of the Woods, which is a song about Harry Styles.
Speaker 3: They talk about a snowmobile accident that they were in together.
Speaker 3: Remember when you hit the brakes too soon, twenty stitches
Speaker 3: in a hospital room, you started crying, Baby, I did too.
Speaker 3: When the song came up, I was looking at you.
Speaker 3: Remember when you couldn't take the heat. I walked out
Speaker 3: and said, setting you free. When the monsters turned out
Speaker 3: to be just trees. When the son came up.
Speaker 2: You were looking at me.
Speaker 3: Okay, So that we know that's Harry Styles. So then
Speaker 3: we have that picture of that, like we're confirmed Out
Speaker 3: of the Woods, that whole thing.
Speaker 2: He cried.
Speaker 3: They had a snowmobile accident. They were in the hospital room.
Speaker 3: It definitely happened. So we have that from the first album.
Speaker 3: Then she releases this vall track and we're like, who
Speaker 3: is this about? But the lyrics go white wait, red, blood,
Speaker 3: white snow, and you're like, boom, snowmobile accident. We know it,
Speaker 3: Like this is why Taylor is so good. We know
Speaker 3: that song is about Harry because of that. And also
Speaker 3: there's another song that I want to point Swifties too,
Speaker 3: where everyone goes, what is who is the song about?
Speaker 3: And this is a song off of Midnights and it's
Speaker 3: called a Question, and it's a very bizarre song. Everyone's
Speaker 3: like the lyrics don't make any sense because it's like,
Speaker 3: can I ask you question?
Speaker 2: Has there have you ever been?
Speaker 4: Wait?
Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question? Have you ever been
Speaker 3: kissed in a crowded room with all of your friends
Speaker 3: making fun of you? But fifteen seconds they were clapping too,
Speaker 3: Then what did you do? And it's just like, what
Speaker 3: are you talking about? Like why are you asking someone
Speaker 3: if they got kissed in a crowded room? And everyone
Speaker 3: doesn't even know what the song is about. But that
Speaker 3: song starts out with like, oh, it starts with the
Speaker 3: same start out as the Out of the Woods does.
Speaker 2: And so I think that question.
Speaker 3: Is about Harry Styles because she uses the same like
Speaker 3: kind of sound in the beginning. Then let me this
Speaker 3: is a deep dive for Swifties. So this is the
Speaker 3: first time I'm announcing this. So only SWIFTI is listen
Speaker 3: up because no one else gives a bok about any
Speaker 3: of this.
Speaker 2: I know that already, but this is a big one. Okay.
Speaker 3: In the very beginning of Oh, Dane Cook twixted me.
Speaker 3: Okay at the very beginning, I wonder what he wants
Speaker 3: of He.
Speaker 5: Wants to know your thoughts about the nineteen eighty nine Okay.
Speaker 2: Maybe he wants to know this.
Speaker 4: Read it by the Taylor Swift chat room right now,
Speaker 4: chat room.
Speaker 3: At the beginning of is It over Now, there's like
Speaker 3: a it sounds like it like a seagull, or it
Speaker 3: could be a seagull or a cougar that got its
Speaker 3: paw trapped in a thing.
Speaker 2: So see if you can hear it. Okay, it goes rare. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: did you what?
Speaker 3: Okay, that's only exact same sound that is in Labyrinth
Speaker 3: from a where is it? Okay, well it's not showing up, okay,
Speaker 3: but Labyrinth. There's something connection between Labyrinth and is It
Speaker 3: over now? Is that the one that I played before?
Speaker 3: There's something going on. I don't know what it is. Swifties,
Speaker 3: slide into my DMS and tell me if you hear
Speaker 3: the same little wow and oh like this weird noise.
Speaker 3: There's something going on with those two songs. They are connected.
Speaker 3: They might be about the same person.
Speaker 2: We don't know. I will say though, that is it
Speaker 2: over now?
Speaker 3: And now that we Don't Talk and Say Don't Go
Speaker 3: are three of the best Vault tracks we've ever gotten
Speaker 3: from her.
Speaker 2: It's so exciting.
Speaker 3: I am such a lucky son of a bitch to
Speaker 3: be a Taylor Swift fan because there's constantly new music.
Speaker 3: Four brand new songs were dropped into my lap on Friday.
Speaker 3: This is after July eighth, when like five or six
Speaker 3: new Vault tracks were dropped in my lap when she
Speaker 3: really speak now, I think we have another album coming
Speaker 3: up that she is definitely been in the studio, you know,
Speaker 3: paparazzied recording. I'm just so excited to be a fan
Speaker 3: of someone who constantly releases stuff. Like you're a big
Speaker 3: fan of t Rex. When was the last time they
Speaker 3: came out with a news.
Speaker 4: I know, I was just thinking Peter Gabriel is not
Speaker 4: gonna do it, d Rex is dead.
Speaker 3: But like, is there anyone you're excited about like that
Speaker 3: makes new music?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't that suck?
Speaker 4: It? Does?
Speaker 2: I think they just found a new Beatles track though
Speaker 2: a new Beatles track.
Speaker 4: Just came out. Oh they did find a new Steely
Speaker 4: Dan track. Oh really, It's like a jingle though for
Speaker 4: a commercial for like beer, It's like shit's the best
Speaker 4: bear you can get.
Speaker 2: And who is it about?
Speaker 4: It's about mister Schlitz the beer man.
Speaker 2: What guy is it about? Who's Steely Dan dating? Who's
Speaker 2: Donald Fagan dating?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 2: Good job?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: I love Donald Fagan.
Speaker 3: Yes, I love his name, I love his voice, I
Speaker 3: love everything about him.
Speaker 4: I'm quite a face.
Speaker 3: Also really into Rod Stewart. I think I'm about to
Speaker 3: go through a Rod Stewart face because I'll go through
Speaker 3: this voice is fucking crazy. I love him and I
Speaker 3: was listening to him at my vocal cluss and today
Speaker 3: because he was like, listen to the way Rod Stewart.
Speaker 3: It sings like he's not caring about sounding good. He's
Speaker 3: just pure emotion. That's why people love him. And I
Speaker 3: was like, I just go, but that's really bad. Singing
Speaker 3: that like hurts his voice and he goes, oh, it's terrible.
Speaker 3: It's the worst technique ever. I'm like, how is this
Speaker 3: guy still singing fifty years later with that voice?
Speaker 2: Does he still sing like that?
Speaker 4: Gargle and gravel? Baby?
Speaker 3: Oh it's so hot? All right, we really covered a
Speaker 3: lot of ground here. Thank you so much for being
Speaker 3: here today. Taylor on Halloween, Thank you Noah, Brian never
Speaker 3: showed up, but I'm so glad because that means he
Speaker 3: was relaxed and he was not stressing in traffic. We'll
Speaker 3: be back tomorrow with Brian with the whole new show
Speaker 3: post Halloween, talk about everything that goes down tonight. Be
Speaker 3: careful out there. It already happened where you're listening. But
Speaker 3: we'll be back tomorrow and come see me on tour
Speaker 3: this weekend Boston and Baltimore Thursday, Friday Boston, Saturday, Baltimore,
Speaker 3: and then the tour goes on and on, new dates
Speaker 3: being announced all the time.
Speaker 2: Go check my website Niki Glazer dot com.
Speaker 3: I'd love to see you out there, Busties, have a
Speaker 3: good day, don't Beka, and just wash f Way Island Fridays.
Speaker 3: Change it to Fridays on the CW because no one's
Speaker 3: fucking watching us, So if you could walk on that early,
Speaker 3: appreciate it because no one else is. It's not because
Speaker 3: it's a bad show, it's because no one knows where
Speaker 3: the CW is. So if you can find the CW,
Speaker 3: watch one of the best shows going right now. F
Speaker 3: Boy Island season three, Love you guys see that and
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