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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser podcastser here's Nikki.

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Speaker 2: Hello, here I am, It's the Nikky Glaser Podcast. Welcome.

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Speaker 3: It's Wednesday. It's the day after Halloween, but we're recording this.

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Speaker 1: On He's Scary.

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Speaker 4: Halloween and Caudron.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's Taylor McGrath. She's in studio with me in

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Speaker 3: Saint Louis. Brian Frangie is not with us yet. He

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Speaker 3: might be joining us later. He had to go do

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Speaker 3: an appointment and wasn't able to be on time, and

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Speaker 3: I had no.

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Speaker 2: Other what is he? He's frantic on a highway somewhere

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Speaker 2: for sure. I know. I just told him an appointment,

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Speaker 2: Brian frantic.

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Speaker 3: I told him, please don't sweat it like I don't

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Speaker 3: need you grind in tonight.

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Speaker 4: Grind in like the organ of the like just grinding

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Speaker 4: his teeth.

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Speaker 2: Are you any extra stress in that man's life? He's

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Speaker 2: in a lot of too, pictured.

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Speaker 4: Like somebody and then like one of the tin popping

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Speaker 4: up from a grape? Is that a thing?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, a picture of Jack in the box,

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Speaker 3: which Kirstenoi says is our period. When on the Girl's Chat,

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Speaker 3: whenever we talk about we're about like whenever we're like

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Speaker 3: all crying or something or like being.

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Speaker 2: Like and I just don't know what's going on, and

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Speaker 2: usually we get to everything. I'm a jack in the

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Speaker 2: box right now because it's like and you just don't

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Speaker 2: know when it's gonna go.

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Speaker 4: We never will ever learn.

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Speaker 3: I just thought that mine was gone. Like do you

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Speaker 3: ever have it where you're just like, oh, I'm good,

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Speaker 3: Like there's you take out a tampon and there's just

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Speaker 3: like a little spot of brown, like it's like on

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Speaker 3: the very edge and you're just.

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Speaker 4: Like mantle eye and it was.

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Speaker 2: Just up there dry like I want it to be soaked,

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Speaker 2: so I hate what you want to dry one.

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Speaker 4: And so I just remember that.

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's done. And then I just went

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Speaker 2: to the bathroom and I was.

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Speaker 1: Like what the hell because it was just like all

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Speaker 1: over the toilet seat, Like I get up and it

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Speaker 1: just sprays period period toilet seat. It's like period plus

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Speaker 1: yellow plus red equals a pretty like coral color.

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Speaker 4: It's it's it's the like the color wheel for sure, yeah,

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Speaker 4: and complimentary colors or And I.

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Speaker 2: Just love what I've done with my period.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited because it's just another month before Jack

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Speaker 3: in the box.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you like flatten down you like, oh

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Speaker 4: like a gas bag, Like you feel great for a week.

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Speaker 2: That's like the best time. Feel good.

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Speaker 4: You feel good. Don't you feel smarter? We've talked about

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Speaker 4: this probably on the chat like because you kind of

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Speaker 4: we've talked about how we like bump into things and

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Speaker 4: kind of like are clumsy, which somebody read that that's

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Speaker 4: an actual thing that it makes. Yeah, and that we've

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Speaker 4: all talked about how we've like gone and said like

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Speaker 4: really dumb jokes or like gone in front of a

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Speaker 4: like Kirston was talking about she made like a really

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Speaker 4: lame joke in front of like plates class. You just

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Speaker 4: you're not ever on.

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Speaker 3: I went to Kriston's plates classes yesterday actually yesterday morning.

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Speaker 2: She was so funny. She was just like very cursed

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Speaker 2: in you know, do you.

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Speaker 4: Feel like she was just a lab that you're watching.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like it was funny because she went

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Speaker 3: to my show on Sunday night in Lawrence and then

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Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to your show this morning,

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Speaker 3: and yeah, she does like a show. She like she's

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Speaker 3: just so good at being like now put your feet

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Speaker 3: on the bars and you're gonna raise up, touch your

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Speaker 3: heels together.

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Speaker 2: Talk in that waistband, Oh so tight.

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Speaker 3: Now you're gonna go round and round with your like

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Speaker 3: she just like describes you, and she's funny.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to go to a.

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Speaker 3: Friend's class because I don't, as the listener probably knows

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Speaker 3: about me, I hate classes because any kind of fitness class,

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Speaker 3: a lot of people feel that's the only way they

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Speaker 3: can work out because they feel the pressure worse and

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Speaker 3: they don't want to. They put themselves in a situation

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Speaker 3: in which they are they can't leave, They'll be embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: There's other people. It's there's a competitive you can't like

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Speaker 2: give up I have. I'm straight up just walked out of it.

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Speaker 4: I just likes and pretend I have like an illness

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Speaker 4: or something I can't question me about. That's like a handicap.

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Speaker 4: That's what can I just like brief time out.

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Speaker 3: That is what pilates is is all the equipment looks

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Speaker 3: as if you are rehabilitating from a horrible and learning

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Speaker 3: to walk against every exercise. It all. It's like a

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Speaker 3: sex psych ward because there's like this Joe Pilates was.

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Speaker 2: Definitely a perb Joe. Whatever is that like? But I

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Speaker 2: think it's Joseph. I've been doing it three weeks, so

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Speaker 2: I called, but he he.

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Speaker 4: Was a freak.

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Speaker 2: For sure.

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Speaker 3: All these things are sexual, but they're also it's all

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Speaker 3: equipment that makes you feel like you're walking into the

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Speaker 3: physical therapy level of a hospital where they only deal

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Speaker 3: with people who have lost all ability.

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Speaker 4: It's like you're taking air at the tuberculosis hospital.

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Speaker 2: What is that like?

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Speaker 4: You know when you see videos that they're just like

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Speaker 4: all sitting in like wheelchairs by the front windows, like

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Speaker 4: taking the ass and then they all go or like

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Speaker 4: it or like one flow ricohos eyes. Then they all

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Speaker 4: or like it all.

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Speaker 3: Reminds me of Yeah, that just a rehab place where

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Speaker 3: you are literally on bars learning how to walk, and

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Speaker 3: people go like good job, you know, like no shade

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Speaker 3: to those places. They are great for people who are

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Speaker 3: needing to learn how to walk, but I don't like

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Speaker 3: to be But that is what pilates is, is you're

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Speaker 3: learning how to move your body in the correct way.

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Speaker 3: And your whole life has been a car crash, taking

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Speaker 3: you away from your regular posture and what your your

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Speaker 3: muscles are supposed.

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Speaker 4: To be doing.

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Speaker 3: So everything. Every position feels like you're fighting. And it

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Speaker 3: feels like, you know, because I've sometimes watched movies or

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Speaker 3: like a Dateline special where it's like and she's fine,

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Speaker 3: the doctor said she wouldn't and she's doing it, and

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Speaker 3: they're like, move that leg, and oh, you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking of Forrest Gump. I think that's the only

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Speaker 3: movie I've seen where a guy is like rehabilitating and

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Speaker 3: he gets so frustrated and he's falling, you know, Lieutenant Dan.

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Speaker 3: And it feels I feel Lieutenant Dan, even though they

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Speaker 3: have referenced Lieutenant Dan several times for me and plates,

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Speaker 3: because they say, pretend that you're that you can't use

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Speaker 3: your legs like everything is coming from your core, so

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Speaker 3: that's your powerhouse. So your your legs are really just

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Speaker 3: bones that are like I'm moving a bone, like they're

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Speaker 3: not supposed to be your muscle, like you're supposed to.

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Speaker 3: Everything's supposed to they don't have power, but I move

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Speaker 3: my toe. It's supposed to come from my apps. That's

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Speaker 3: what pilates is. It makes no fucking sense.

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Speaker 4: That your core, your core is your abs.

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Speaker 3: And your hip and then you're like trying to upper

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Speaker 3: powerhouse and everything comes from there. And I am using

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Speaker 3: like extension cords for my powerhouse. I'm doing everything from

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Speaker 3: my like low like my low back is like twists.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but it's just it's very interesting to

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Speaker 3: be told, Okay, use this muscle, use that muscle, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel that I don't know

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Speaker 3: I'm paralyzed. And I have to say that I'm always

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Speaker 3: looking for ways to like empathize with things that I

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Speaker 2: And I truly I'm not saying.

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Speaker 3: That I know what it's like to be paralyzed at all,

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Speaker 3: but I know the sensation of having something having a

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Speaker 3: is in your brain to control it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're like a brick house instead of a power house.

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Speaker 2: There's only one way to say that.

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Speaker 4: That's what it is, right, I'm a brick Wow, that's

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Speaker 4: what that means, right, A brick house is like a man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is very frustrating.

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Speaker 5: More you do it, the more you'll learn how to

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Speaker 5: use those muscles and it will get easier for you.

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Speaker 2: It's frustrating to be new. It's something you should That's

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Speaker 3: Noah, And do you know what this is? The thing

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Speaker 3: that needs to be said more to me, to people

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Speaker 3: say it's a learning curve, even though I don't know

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Speaker 3: what the fuck that really means. I just know that

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Speaker 3: it takes a long time to get it. People just

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Speaker 3: don't like to say, well, it's gonna take a long

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Speaker 3: time to learn, just say that it's not this learning

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Speaker 3: a learning curve is I'm guessing.

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Speaker 2: Let me try to explain what I think a learning

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Speaker 3: When people say that, I do not know because it's

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Speaker 4: Of parabola or something involved.

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Speaker 3: Yes it's this, but I think what a learning curve

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Speaker 3: once you get it, it becomes easier.

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Speaker 2: And then it's like and then it's not what I thought.

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Speaker 2: There's a breakthrough. I could be wrong.

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Speaker 4: Will you look it up, because that's true, that's got

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Speaker 4: to be true. I thought it was like the bad

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Speaker 4: students get f's and the good students get a. So

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Speaker 4: like you want more students to get c's.

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Speaker 2: That's what I thought it was too.

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Speaker 3: They used to use those in class, like everyone would

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Speaker 3: do as bad as the worst student, or like everyone.

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Speaker 4: The worst you can get. It was the best you

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, and then it would all go from there.

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Speaker 3: So like if this best student got a B, then

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Speaker 3: that B is suddenly an A, and so your D

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Speaker 4: I thought. I thought, if there was someone good, then

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Speaker 4: you're never going to be good.

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Speaker 2: So what is learning?

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Speaker 3: When people say it's a learning curve.

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Speaker 5: Is a visual representation of how long it takes to

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Speaker 5: acquire new skills or knowledge, and there is a great.

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Speaker 3: So this is why I think this bullshit, because the

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Speaker 3: learning curve is not what they're saying.

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Speaker 2: A learning curve is just a type of graph. I

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Speaker 3: They're not actually making sense when they say no, one

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Speaker 4: Like a representation of what it what it is, then

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Speaker 4: it just is what it is over time.

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Speaker 3: It's really hard at first, there's a steep incline.

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Speaker 5: Is that that's good part, that's a good interpretation. I

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Speaker 3: But like I think, sometimes people don't like to say

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Speaker 2: Frees me because it's authentic. That's the reality.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I can do hard things, that's what I

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Speaker 4: Doing what you're doing. Good though, yeah, baby would She.

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Speaker 3: Take, like accept what you got a handicap from that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Like do you ever like untangle a necklace and your

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: The thing is with blott is you don't stop enough

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Speaker 3: And by the way, when we're doing Guasha, you know,

442
00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,920
Speaker 3: like all these things where we're like pushing away and up,

443
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,560
Speaker 3: that is like all going into our brain. Like so

444
00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:00,960
Speaker 3: much fluid in your brain gets stuck. You gotta push

445
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:05,359
Speaker 3: it down and My neck is where everything is stored.

446
00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,680
Speaker 2: All of my things are in my neck. It's all

447
00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,560
Speaker 2: getting stuck here and it's getting backed up.

448
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,960
Speaker 3: It's like it's stuck though she said, it's stuck in

449
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:18,160
Speaker 3: my chakra in my right here. What's this the solar plexus. Yeah,

450
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,879
Speaker 3: it's stuck there. There's a backup in like a traffic jam.

451
00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,280
Speaker 3: This is where I'm blocked. But it's all backing up

452
00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,040
Speaker 3: and it's getting caught in my throat and that's what

453
00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 3: affects my singing. That's why every picture I look like

454
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,520
Speaker 3: red and stidy, vascular, like.

455
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:36,280
Speaker 2: You don't want talking about. Yeah, every red stippy.

456
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 3: When they would get mad, they'd be like and then

457
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,080
Speaker 3: the neck would fall out like you know, like stick

458
00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,400
Speaker 3: a jut out and then there would be veins.

459
00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,400
Speaker 4: And then they like zoom and show the blood.

460
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so good. I loved and stiff, but.

461
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:50,800
Speaker 3: I feel like that's my neck. So it's just nice

462
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 3: to hear that that's where it all is. What am

463
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:53,879
Speaker 3: I gonna do about it?

464
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:54,520
Speaker 2: Nothing?

465
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 3: I gotta I don't know. And then I went and

466
00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:58,719
Speaker 3: got a massage yesterday at Cursons.

467
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,920
Speaker 4: I would thank your heart rate would pump those lymph

468
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,359
Speaker 4: to keep moving it.

469
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:05,360
Speaker 3: I know, I was thinking, like, let's get this thing

470
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 3: pumping yew and she was like, no, your body, like

471
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 3: she pretty much said people who do.

472
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 2: She was like, do you know any athletes who like

473
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 2: live a long time? Can you think of any athlete

474
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,120
Speaker 2: who's like lives really really long?

475
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 4: And I was indicated, No, I don't know.

476
00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 3: I don't really follow people into their old age. In

477
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,760
Speaker 3: terms of athletics. She was like, athletes have constant trauma

478
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,919
Speaker 3: to their bodies. They're constantly inserting themselves. Anything you do

479
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 3: that's punitive is going to be bad for your body

480
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 3: and cause inflammation. Inflammation causes disease. Stop doing bickram yoga, Carlisle,

481
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,640
Speaker 3: if you're listening, she was like, people who do bickram

482
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,120
Speaker 3: are the most unhealthy people because you're anything with like.

483
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,640
Speaker 2: Lots of heat. You were talking about your verdic.

484
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 3: Are vedic and you were saying that you were only

485
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,160
Speaker 3: eating hot things, and she was like, yes, that's good

486
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 3: to do, but like any kind of hot things like

487
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 3: that's yoused.

488
00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,880
Speaker 4: To desert yourself during like a hot day. You're supposed

489
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 4: to relax in the shade on a high.

490
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 2: When she said that, she was like you.

491
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 3: She was like, I used to be a bodybuilder and

492
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,680
Speaker 3: it was hell and it did so much damage to

493
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,399
Speaker 3: my body. I thought I was like in the pinnacle

494
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 3: of health, but I wasn't.

495
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 2: I don't do anything now. I just sit on my

496
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 2: Oh oh, yes, she didn't say that.

497
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 3: I'm gentle yoga and stuff too. No activity isn't. You

498
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 3: can't fucking win. There's always gonna be someone online who's

499
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 3: telling like, you have to push past your limits, always

500
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 3: keep running more, running extra mild like you know, there's

501
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 3: David Goggins, and then there's this woman who's like, don't

502
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 3: ever work.

503
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,959
Speaker 2: Out again or you'll die. So I don't know what

504
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 2: to do. We'll figure out when we get back from

505
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 2: the break. So we're back.

506
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:47,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I this weekend, I was in Milwaukee and then

507
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:51,919
Speaker 3: we drove to Iowa and then we drove to Kansas.

508
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 3: And who's in the car with you? Uh, Matt and

509
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 3: Anya And we play question games, we play trivia games,

510
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 3: we do history trivia. I really am dumb. I don't

511
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 3: know about any history.

512
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 4: Do you know about the mill? The New Milwaukee history?

513
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 2: What? Oh yeah about Dahmer?

514
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:17,959
Speaker 4: No, Dahmer's predecessor or prodecessor, after press after presser. Her

515
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 4: name is Taylor show Business. What there's a new Jeffrey

516
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 4: Dahmer in town? Ladies, Her name is Taylor Business show business.

517
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 2: Stop, that's not a name. Is that the name she

518
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 2: gave herself?

519
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 4: But wait, who is She killed one person? Okay, so

520
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 4: that's not cereal, but she would be serial if she

521
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 4: didn't get caught. She's wild. You gotta look at Taylor

522
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 4: and how she get caught. She so she killed this guy. Yeah,

523
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 4: this is very her. She just had her and then

524
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 4: was like she was into, very into Dahmer. So they

525
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,959
Speaker 4: have like a I was watching a show and they

526
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 4: have clips, like Taylor saved fifteen pictures of Dahmer on

527
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 4: her phone. I was like, how did they know about you? Yeah?

528
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know. I was pausing clipping. So she

529
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 4: killed this guy on meth. She chopped him up and

530
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 4: like seven like so many in Milwaukee.

531
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: How did she get him roman?

532
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 4: It was her boyfriend or like a guy that she

533
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 4: was sleeping with anyway.

534
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 2: What was their status?

535
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 4: It was complicated like on and off. Yeah, and then

536
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 4: she put his like head in a bucket. And then

537
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 4: his mom walked down the stairs and saw and found

538
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 4: and was like, why is this bucket here?

539
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 3: That's what Domer's dad almost did. They almost opened the

540
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 3: refrigerator and saw the head.

541
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 4: Oh boy, Oh well now it's Taylor. Now we're gonna

542
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 4: be talking about.

543
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Milwaukee had a vibe to it. I did

544
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: like it up there. I like, I love Milwaukee air.

545
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 3: It almost feels Michigany. It's oh, you've never been there.

546
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 3: But I like territory you love.

547
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 4: I love dom do.

548
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 3: But it Yeah, girls Milwaukee, I still got to bring

549
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 3: you guys to shoeing.

550
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 4: Girls trip of course. Yeah, it's fooky. But they tore

551
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 4: down the school, No, oh they didn't. Oh man, it

552
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,199
Speaker 4: still looks so much like it really totally messages.

553
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 3: So they redid the library, but the outside there's still

554
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 3: there's so much that looks exactly like what was what

555
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 3: was up. Yeah, it's it's pretty. I'm glad that they

556
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 3: kept it kind of the same.

557
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 4: I just do a girls trip where we go and

558
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 4: do all the murder scenes.

559
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: That would be fun for two of us.

560
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

561
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 5: I had a theory about Columbine, and I don't think

562
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 5: it's why you like it, but I wonder if it's

563
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 5: something in the back of your mind. So I've been

564
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 5: thinking a lot about like what's going on in Israel

565
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 5: and stuff, which is what prompted all of this, And

566
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 5: I was connecting it to like, oh, school shootings, And

567
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 5: I've been thinking about like judgment and how we judge

568
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 5: other people. And I'm thinking like in situations like Columbine

569
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 5: or like you know, when there's like a terrorist attack

570
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 5: and stuff and a lot of people are together, do

571
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 5: you think they're judging each other? I would say no.

572
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 4: I've thought about that, Like if somebody so lost at

573
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 4: this question, someone so sorry, what do you mean?

574
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 2: Is are people like like, for example, like all those

575
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 2: how you behave in a school shooting?

576
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 4: No?

577
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 5: No, no, Like you know, like in high school you

578
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 5: have like clicks and people are like making fun of

579
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 5: other people and stuff. Do you think in the moment,

580
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 5: like in the cafeteria, like all those students who are

581
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 5: kind of like huddle together and scared, they're not judging

582
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 5: each other. It's like just like this moment where like

583
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 5: you like let go of judgments. Yeah, oh yes, everyone

584
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 5: there's like a sports Oh.

585
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't sit, you can't crouch under our table,

586
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 3: you're a dor go die by the computers.

587
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting.

588
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 3: No, you're right in those situess in an emergency situation,

589
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 3: it's kind of every man for himself, but it's also

590
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 3: everyone's equal.

591
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 2: And it did unite Columbine in a really big way.

592
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 3: Like I think following the attacks, Columbine was like, you know,

593
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 3: the and because bullying was at the forarfront of what

594
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 3: they thought that whole thing was about. That it became

595
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 3: like bullying so wrong and we're all in this together

596
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 3: kind of thing. So I think that uh people, Yeah,

597
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: did bring people together. But like in a mass shooting situation,

598
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 3: I would I would be annoyed with people because I

599
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: think I know how I would handle it.

600
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 4: If you're like, especially if you're pushing people the way

601
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 4: to like get get people out of the way, if

602
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 4: you climb over somebody, I'm like, I'm gonna remember Tom

603
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 4: just did that, right, Yeah, Like.

604
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,120
Speaker 2: A bullet's not in my head, I think.

605
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know the Titanic, they remembered the guy that

606
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 4: dressed up as a woman and everybody like spit on

607
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 4: him for the rest of his life and followed him.

608
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 2: Over because he tried to get he wanted to get

609
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 2: in one of the things.

610
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, and they said women and children first because he

611
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 4: was a male that survived. So they like just spread

612
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 4: rumors or made up They don't know what happened, but

613
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 4: they assumed he got women died, children died. But how

614
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 4: did he survive? Oh so everyone like harassed him his

615
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 4: whole life. Oh my god, that's what I was wondering.

616
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 4: If you meant like the judgment of how you act right,

617
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 4: if if you put someone else in danger, or you

618
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 4: ran out and didn't.

619
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 3: Grab my shooting plan like I've run through it. I'm

620
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 3: gonna run at the guy.

621
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 5: Oh I want to be the one that runs, because

622
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 5: the thing is, don't run in a straight line.

623
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to run on the way there.

624
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm saying this all very tongue in cheek because

625
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: there's no way I'll know what I'll get to pay

626
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 3: this kind of situation. And I have no judgment on

627
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: anyone who doesn't do this, but if someone can, if

628
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 3: you can imagine yourself in a situation where you are

629
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 3: at a bowling alley, you're at a movie theater, you're

630
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 3: at somewhere where this guy walks in and you are

631
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 3: close enough to them and you're kind of know you're

632
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,360
Speaker 3: gonna die anyway, or if you just have the if

633
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 3: you have it in you, if you just knock him

634
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 3: over a little bit, if you just grab him, if

635
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: you just like grab his arm like it's it really

636
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 3: will do a lot to then help the situation. But

637
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: no one but your instinct is to run, and I

638
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 3: think mine would be too. I would justu and cover

639
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: my head like that'll help, and not go into it.

640
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: That's always the sad thing is I'm sorry to get

641
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 3: so morbid, but when there's like I've read all the

642
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 3: like the autopsy reports.

643
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 2: Do you read that.

644
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 4: Stuff not for combine but I have.

645
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh well, you'll get into it eventually, because it's

646
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 3: that's there's only so much information, and there's always like

647
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 3: they're always covering their heads like that's gonna help, And

648
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 3: that's always like such an.

649
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 5: Interesting I actually think their parents are not good in

650
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 5: a situation like that, because you're constantly dealing with adrenaline rushes,

651
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 5: like when you go on stage and stuff that for you,

652
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 5: it's so second nature. For most people, we don't get

653
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 5: to experience that on a regular basis.

654
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: I would grab a microphone and.

655
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 4: Start singing to distract every back of their knees, you

656
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 4: do like third grade?

657
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: Would That's interesting?

658
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think maybe I think i'd be better in

659
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 3: it because I've just run the scenario.

660
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: Through my head a lot, and when I'm on a plane.

661
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 3: I that's why I also think I'd be okay if

662
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 3: I ever die in a plane crash. I want people

663
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: to know that, like I've kind of like accepted it

664
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: a little bit because I've run it through my head

665
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 3: so many times of what I would do, what I

666
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 3: would say, how I would think. I also have dreams

667
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 3: about dying in plane crashes a lot, and so I

668
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 3: think I'm like more prepared just because of I visually

669
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: run it through. And some people might scoff at this

670
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 3: and be like thinking, what the fuck are you talking about?

671
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: But it is true that they visualization helps you do,

672
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 3: It helps you perform. So whether I don't know why

673
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,719
Speaker 3: I'm visualizing these things, in fact, I was visualizing it

674
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 3: yesterday on the plane because I was just having a

675
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 3: moment of kind of bad thoughts and I was like,

676
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: oh no, this could be like manifestation levels of visualization,

677
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 3: because if you think of things too, like all the

678
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 3: manifestation books I read are like visualize the call you get.

679
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 4: I thought, you can only manifest good things. Really you

680
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 4: can manifest bad things? And how come? Like, what about

681
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 4: witches and stuff?

682
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: Well, I would think I would think you can manifest

683
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: like you know, negative self talk is supposed to be

684
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 2: horrible for it for you.

685
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think you can manifest for other people?

686
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 4: Can you? Oh?

687
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 3: You can manifest good things for other people, like they're

688
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 3: the book I was reading called like it was Joe

689
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 3: Despends's book, and then there's some book about the subconscious mind.

690
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: I'm so obsessed with this stuff. But you can like

691
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: cure someone else's cancer by thinking hard enough. For me,

692
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 3: and I know this episode. I've never believed in anything

693
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 3: like this, but I truly believe in this stuff. It's

694
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: so interesting. Yesterday though, I was trying to get into

695
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 3: Chris and I were talking about our frustrations with our lives,

696
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 3: and I was starting to just go, God, you're such

697
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 3: a one.

698
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 2: Because yes, because he's an enneagram one.

699
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 3: And I know that because he took the quiz that

700
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: our therapist gave us. And Enneagram's pretty legit.

701
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 4: It's the most legit thing because it's.

702
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 3: Based on a test that was written by people who

703
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 3: it's based on categorized ancient.

704
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 4: It goes way back. Yeah, it's based on some like

705
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 4: I mean, it goes back to like the Sumerians.

706
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: How did they take the quiz?

707
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 4: Then they just liked it on like a rock with

708
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 4: a scratch with another rock.

709
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 3: If you're at a party, if you're at an ancient

710
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 3: Sumerian party, would you prefer to be the social butterfly

711
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 3: in the party?

712
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 4: That's how you decide what number you are, what you

713
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 4: used to take the test, Like if you use a

714
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 4: sharp stick, You're like, what are you five?

715
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 2: But what does that mean?

716
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 4: I am the investigator? Does that make sense? Yes?

717
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 2: It does. You want to figure out I.

718
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 4: Have to, like, yeah, figure out everything about certain things,

719
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 4: which is just preventing me from actually living my life.

720
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: What are the good things about an investigator?

721
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 4: They can be you know, like David Lynch is an investigator,

722
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 4: Peter Gabriel Briany know like that you can be very creative.

723
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so you can be creative?

724
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, like those are very like savor creative people who

725
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 4: you know pioneered.

726
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm.

727
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 4: Vent of them. No one's ever climbed up on the hill.

728
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 2: Very my microscope.

729
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 4: It means like probably Einstein's. You know, like you can

730
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 4: be an inventor, or you can be like a like

731
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 4: a then Ski or like h you know, you could

732
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 4: be a crapot or you could be an inventor. Okay,

733
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 4: same as.

734
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: Everyone happy when you got that one?

735
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 4: Well, I just yeah, I mean I knew it. I

736
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 4: was happy to see who else was a five.

737
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 2: Oh that's always fun.

738
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I saw Peter Gabril, who is the best

739
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 4: Christian in the world.

740
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

741
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 4: I was very happy when my enneagram had Taylor Swift

742
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 4: on it. It did. Yeah, well that's obviously the three, right.

743
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and Chris is a one. No, what do

744
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 2: you know what you are? I came into girls Chat

745
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: after you did the quiz. I think we need to

746
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 2: give a do it. Yeah.

747
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 4: It's really eclectic energies Enneagraham.

748
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: But it does it just helps you understand. I think

749
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 3: it's better, not so much for myself because I feel like,

750
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: oh I'm me, I kind of get it, but like

751
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 3: understanding other people and what their motivations are and like

752
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 3: why do.

753
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: They care so much about this thing?

754
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 3: Yes, but Chris as one is it's not extremely moralistic. Yes,

755
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 3: there is right and there is wrong. And there is

756
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 3: little greticulate. There's a very good quality to have because

757
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: he is trustworthy. That man would never cheat on that

758
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 3: man would never talk ill of me. He's like just

759
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 3: buy like he is just a good person, knows what's good,

760
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: knows what's bad. But then the bad side of that

761
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: is that there's no gray, there's no like, because I'm

762
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 3: in the gray all the time. And he's just like, well,

763
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 3: you said you liked that yesterday, and now you don't

764
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 3: like it. We're watching The Golden Bachelor last night and

765
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 3: he said some comment of like, it's so sad that

766
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 3: some of these women like don't even have a chance.

767
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: And when he said that, on screen was a woman

768
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 3: that very much has a chance, and I thought he

769
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 3: was referring to her kind of and I go, oh, no,

770
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: they do, and he was like okay.

771
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 2: And then later on there was this.

772
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 3: Woman that was like I just love Gary so much

773
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 3: and he's dogs eying this and I was like, bitch,

774
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: you don't stand a chance and going home, and he goes,

775
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 3: I just said that, and I go, yeah, but like

776
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 3: I meant it about the other Like he's it must't

777
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 3: even very frustrating for him to live with someone who

778
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 3: is constantly changing their mind about everything all the time.

779
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 3: But there's that's also a good quality in me, because

780
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: I am it. I forgive be well very easily. I

781
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,479
Speaker 3: could easily see someone else's side of things. I you

782
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 3: know I'm I'm not someone who is not I'm not

783
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 3: afraid to be wrong.

784
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 2: I don't like being wrong.

785
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 3: I'll fight it, but if you give me some good evidence,

786
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 3: i'll go well, now I know now I'm smarter. I

787
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 3: crave being right, so I will switch sides very quickly

788
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 3: to be right.

789
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 2: Speaking of being right, I was so.

790
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 3: Wrong for so long, and so was everyone about Miss

791
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 3: Brittany Lynn. I don't name, but Brittany James Spear. It's

792
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 3: so fucking good. I got Noah into it because it

793
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 3: was honestly, Brittany is a combination of Carlisle and Noah.

794
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: Her pros is Noah Noah. But when I'm reading it,

795
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 3: I you know there was no I told all the

796
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: girls chat. I was like, everyone's got to read this.

797
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 3: When I reading it into it it's probably at the library,

798
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: but I can't imagine that it's gonna You're gonna have

799
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 3: be on a wait list. If I had the book

800
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 3: i'd give it to you, but I read it on

801
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: my phone. I told Noah, I'm like I was reading it.

802
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: I go, this is so like she's saying things that

803
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 3: really remind me of you. Like she's just so thoughtful

804
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: and like she's just a sweet person deep down, and

805
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: I think that she maybe has been misconstrued as like

806
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 3: an angry, crazy, like selfish, like kind of dumb person,

807
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 3: but she's so fucking sweet. And I think everyone always says.

808
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: Noah's lazy, stupid, selfish, but really deep what you look like?

809
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 2: Did you relate to that assessment that did you? Do

810
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 2: you feel kinship with you? I?

811
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 5: Like, I never real Okay, so I just wanted to

812
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 5: say never listen to Britney Spears only read all the

813
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 5: gossip stuff on her when I was a receptionist and

814
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 5: nothing else to do during the day, and going into

815
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 5: this memoir and reading about her and learning what like,

816
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 5: first of all, she's very thoughtful, very like highly creative

817
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 5: and like spiritual in a way but not you know,

818
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 5: not religious spiritual, like just like really like a like

819
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 5: energy wise and yeah, just like reading about what happened

820
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 5: to her, the way she grew up, the whole thing

821
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 5: with Justin Timber, like, oh my god.

822
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 3: Can we just like enlighten some people about some stuff

823
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 3: right now, because if you're not going to read this book,

824
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 3: it's not two spoilers.

825
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 5: Alerts, and I still want to read it, you are

826
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 5: about to spoil it in Justin.

827
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 3: There should be criminal charges pressed against her family, without question, Yes,

828
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: without question, her father and that lou woman, whoever that

829
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 3: motherfucker was there, should they should be in prison for

830
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: what they did to her. She speaking of the creative thing,

831
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 3: Britney Spears really is a really amazing artist, and it

832
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: was stolen from her so early on that we never

833
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 3: got to see the potential of the artist that she

834
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 3: was because she became came a just a marketer's dream,

835
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 3: you know, she just became whatever these people wanted her

836
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 3: to be, and all of her talent and all of

837
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: her creativity was sapped from her and she wasn't allowed

838
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 3: to be. Let's not even talk about how much she

839
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 3: was paralyzed during her conservatorship.

840
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: It happened immediately. She was sexualized.

841
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 3: She was punished for being sexy, She was girly mocked

842
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 3: for being a virgin.

843
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 5: She was yeah, it was she She loved dressing up

844
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 5: and being and like leaning into like her like girlhood,

845
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 5: and that was really used against her in a way,

846
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 5: especially with all the interviews and stuff that she did,

847
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 5: even from like.

848
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 3: Star against her. Everything was used against her. From the

849
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 3: very what she was was always a weapon used against her.

850
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 3: They built her up for the things that she was,

851
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 3: and then they would push her down for the things

852
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 3: that she was. It is our fault, it is the

853
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 3: media's fault.

854
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 2: It was.

855
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: It's literally I wanted out of show business. After I

856
00:37:58,400 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 3: read this, I.

857
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: Was like, it's a just the same disgusting business. I

858
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 2: don't think it isn't but it I think it.

859
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 3: I think it is. I think it's this is this

860
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 3: is still happening to her. I just looked at us

861
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 3: Weekly that I got when I went to their offices.

862
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 3: That's sitting on my table in there, and I look

863
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: at it with a new lens of like this picture

864
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 3: that they used for the front cover, the Emotional Journey

865
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 3: of Britney spears like they're trying to act like they're

866
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 3: being nice to her now, they still used a picture

867
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 3: that made her look distressed and looked like she's not

868
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: in a good place. Everything is so manipulated with this woman,

869
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 3: in particular this book. This is what I'll say about it, Brittany.

870
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 3: If you think, oh yeah, she's not that talented. Brittany

871
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 3: was the one that decided when they did the Ever

872
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 3: the old reason Britney Spears got super famous was off

873
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 3: of Baby One More Time. Okay, right, remember that the

874
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 3: music video. They were going to shoot a music video

875
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 3: in a high school, and she was the one that

876
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 3: was like, why don't we do schoolgirl uniforms? Okay, amazing decision.

877
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 3: Why don't we do it? When the bell rings, everyone

878
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: breaks out into dances and it's all girls in pigtails.

879
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 3: That was all her vision, which is arguably the reason

880
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 3: she's famous. So anyone who thinks that she was just

881
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 3: you know, something that was plugged into this like plug

882
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 3: and play machine, of like this is how you make

883
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 3: a star. Just put this girl out there and make

884
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 3: her sing. She also was the one that before Baby

885
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 3: One More Time was recorded, she stayed up all night

886
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 3: long because she wanted her voice to sound like this.

887
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 3: She like wanted it to be like she thought it

888
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 3: would sound cool. So she purposely stayed up all night

889
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 3: long the night before the talking and screaming and hanging

890
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 3: out and partying, partying her way, which is like drinking

891
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 3: a lot of PEPSI, Like, she's not even that big

892
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 3: of a partier. Everything you think about her is just

893
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 3: media's lies about her, you know.

894
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 5: And so I sent you a screenshot of this. This

895
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 5: is really the part and it's very very early on

896
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 5: in the book. It's when she talks about her childhood

897
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 5: and how she used music and performance as an escape

898
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 5: from her reality. That told me, like the fact that

899
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 5: you know her career is music and entertainment, that was

900
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 5: her escape and her like safe zone. And we made

901
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 5: that And I say we because I also read into

902
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 5: all those things. We made that place for her so toxic.

903
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 5: And that's the really satist.

904
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: That's a song toxic. You're so right.

905
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 3: We poisoned that place for her, like that was her refuge.

906
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 3: She had an alcoholic father who would drink to the

907
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 3: point where he was like couldn't even stand up and

908
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 3: would just be passed out on the ground. She had

909
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 3: an angry mom who wouldn't divorce him and get the

910
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 3: kids away from him, and who would just scream at

911
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 3: him into the wee hours of the morning, and Brittany

912
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: would say, Mom, please, he's finally asleep. He's not terrorizing

913
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 3: our family anymore? Can you not scream? And she'd be

914
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 3: up all night listening to her mom screaming at her

915
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 3: past out father. She had nowhere to go from this,

916
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: but she had like a happy moments in her childhood.

917
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 3: But singing was such an escape for her, and then

918
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 3: it became the worst thing in her life. Was like

919
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 3: making music because and what about all the producers that

920
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 3: would put her into Like during her conservatorship, her dad

921
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 3: made music like hell for her. He wouldn't let her

922
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 3: change anything on the Vegas Show. Whenever she would go

923
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 3: record new music, they would purposely pick out the worst, dingiest,

924
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 3: disgusting recording studios, so that just she wouldn't be good,

925
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 3: because if she got good and creative, she would have

926
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,919
Speaker 3: to like she would have a voice and be able

927
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: to communicate with us that what was going on. So

928
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 3: they just kept her recording this doing the same things

929
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 3: that she had been doing for years and years. She

930
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: couldn't do anything different. They would only let her play

931
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 3: new songs during her changes on the Vegas Show. When

932
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 3: she would be like in the bowels of the stage

933
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 3: doing a costume change, they would like play music over that,

934
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 3: and then that's when her new music could be played

935
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 3: during her costume changes. They and then the Justin Timberlake thing.

936
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 3: I know people are probably like, I'm not interested in

937
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,879
Speaker 3: Britney Spears. Can I just say that Justin Timberlake thing

938
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 3: is so fucking wild?

939
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 2: What happened with this?

940
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 3: She was in a relationship with Justin Timberlake. Okay, she

941
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 3: was so desperately in love with him, so in love.

942
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 3: They were together years, right, they're living together. They are

943
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 3: the it couple. She they are both at the pinnacle

944
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 3: of their fame. He's just kind of reaching the same

945
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 3: level of fame as her around like maybe a couple

946
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: of years into their relationship. In sync is blowing up.

947
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 3: People are paying a lot of it. He's now leaving

948
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 3: in Sinki. He's going to record his first solo album.

949
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 3: He's becoming a little distant. She doesn't care because she

950
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 3: gets it, like he is just now reaching this level

951
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 3: of fame that she's been out for a while.

952
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: He is cheating on her all the time, chesty.

953
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 3: She doesn't care because she cares, but she no what

954
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:32,839
Speaker 3: let me know if I get anything wrong from what

955
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 3: you read.

956
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:34,800
Speaker 2: She knows it's happening.

957
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 3: She doesn't love it, but she kind of accepts him

958
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 3: for who he is, and she also understands he's young,

959
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 3: he's newly famous, and pussy is abundant, and it's just

960
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 3: a thing that's gonna happen this and that she'd rather

961
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 3: turn a blind eye to it.

962
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 2: She knows it's happening.

963
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: She hears the rumors he's fucking women on the road,

964
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 3: multiple women every weekend, and she's just like, you know what,

965
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 3: boys will be boys, not in a way that's like

966
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 3: I'm a victim. This is just what I have to

967
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 3: do to stay with Justin.

968
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 2: She's just like, she's just cool, as cool as one

969
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 2: could be. Yes, very mature, very mature, And isn't this

970
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: at a young age? His solo album wasn't this after

971
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 2: the whole? Do you know what I'm about?

972
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 4: This thing? The what what?

973
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: Okay?

974
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: No, So he's working on the solo album as they're together, right,

975
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 3: and she's going into the studio and she's not going

976
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 3: into the studio to like because she's on a tour.

977
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 3: He's on a tour, the he's recording. Then by the

978
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 3: way she makes out with she's just she's hearing about

979
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 3: Justin cheating all the time.

980
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 2: She is one intimate moment with.

981
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 3: Wade robson her choreographer where they make out a guy

982
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 3: that both her and Justin know she made out with Wade.

983
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 2: What does she do? She tells Justin right away because.

984
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: She feels terrible about it, even though she knows he's

985
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 3: cheating all the time. She just wants to get this

986
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 3: is her thing. She wants to get off her chest.

987
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 3: She tells Justin. Justin forgives her. They move on from it.

988
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 3: Justin goes into the recording studio he's recording his new album.

989
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 3: Brittany is supportive. She feels a little distant from him.

990
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 3: In retrospect, she believes that distance is because he is

991
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 3: writing scathing songs about her and recording them every day,

992
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 3: knowing that these are going to be released, and he

993
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 3: feels a little tinge of probably like this is shitty

994
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 3: that I'm going home and fucking my girlfriend. And so

995
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: she felt a distance from him during this recording session.

996
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 2: Then he breaks up with her via text. It's not

997
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: even gonna give that the life together. What's the biggest thing?

998
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 2: The abortion?

999
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 3: Oh?

1000
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 2: Oh, the abortion show.

1001
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, she got pregnant and she did not want to.

1002
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 5: She was very happy about being pregnant, and he said

1003
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 5: to her, I'm not ready to be a father. Do

1004
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 5: you know what I find to be one of the

1005
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 5: most offensive things.

1006
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 2: About that story.

1007
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 5: While she took the I forget the name of the pill,

1008
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 5: but it basically induces the abortion, and you're.

1009
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 4: Are you eighty are you for eighty six? It's like

1010
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 4: there's something I pulled out?

1011
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 5: But anyway, so she's she's she's having the pregnancy loss,

1012
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 5: which is incredibly painful for a woman.

1013
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 2: And she didn't say blacked this out.

1014
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 5: She didn't say how long, uh like, how far into

1015
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,919
Speaker 5: the pregnancy she was in the book, But it's still

1016
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 5: very painful because your uterus is extracting and all this shit,

1017
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 5: you know, aside from like the whole mental aspect.

1018
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 2: He comes in to their room playing his fucking guitar.

1019
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: Oh singing God, I remember this. It was like a

1020
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 2: scene from Barbie. Dude fuck brings his guitar.

1021
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 3: But she liked it. In the book, she liked it. Noah,

1022
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 3: we we both crinsed at that. But she was like

1023
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 3: he came in and like serenaded me with his guitar

1024
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 3: to like call me.

1025
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 2: She in the book, liked it.

1026
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 3: I was super cringe that he was, like listen to

1027
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 3: the sum all up as she's on the ground crying,

1028
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 3: like you know, aborting there like having an abortion I

1029
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 3: didn't want to have, or miscarriage that she.

1030
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: Didn't want to have.

1031
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 3: And that's a little sticky subject matter of like I

1032
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 3: don't feel like she pinned that on him that much

1033
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 3: of like I would have She pretty much did say

1034
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 3: I would have had this baby if.

1035
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 2: It wasn't for justin not wanting it. Do I hate

1036
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: him for that? No?

1037
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: No, he really wasn't able to have a kid. I

1038
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 3: don't think it's fair to like make someone a father

1039
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 3: when they don't want to be, and it was her choice. Ultimately,

1040
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 3: it's not like he forced her to. I mean, I'm

1041
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 3: not She doesn't trash anybody in the book.

1042
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 2: She just speaks her truth. No one, that's it.

1043
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 3: No one, And that's what makes it so like easy

1044
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 3: to read and digest and like and feel.

1045
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,959
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a ploy to feel.

1046
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,399
Speaker 3: Sad for her because she's being so fair and even

1047
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 3: about everything.

1048
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a ploy that they used.

1049
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 3: It were like, we're not gonna trash anyone, so you

1050
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 3: just look like the biggest victim. But it worked for

1051
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: me because for me, he can you believe dumpster overtext possess.

1052
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 3: And then then the album comes out where he crime

1053
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 3: me a River, where he films a video where it's

1054
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 3: a look alike of her. I remember watching this video

1055
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 3: and loving it so much because I just saw the

1056
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 3: pain in.

1057
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 2: Justin's eyes that she cheated and he's.

1058
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 3: Following this look like around her house and she's and

1059
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 3: then he hooks up with another woman and he's filming

1060
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 3: it to get back at her because she hurt him

1061
00:46:55,120 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 3: so much. Then so she is like trashed in the

1062
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 3: media after this album comes out.

1063
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 2: Everyone hates her. She's a fucker's what. She used to

1064
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 2: be a virgin.

1065
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 3: She was so proud that she was a virgin, which,

1066
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 3: by the way, she never even wanted to talk about

1067
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 3: people made her talk about it. She never wanted to

1068
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: talk about whether or not she wanted to have sex,

1069
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 3: or whether or not she had sex. And by the way,

1070
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: she had sex when she was fourteen. She wasn't a virgin.

1071
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 3: She never even wanted to be portrayed as one. So

1072
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 3: then she's obviously so she gets shit on for being

1073
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,760
Speaker 3: a virgin. Then suddenly she's not a virgin, so everyone

1074
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 3: hates her for being this whore. She cheated on Justin

1075
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 3: Timberlake with Wade Robson. I even knew that story back then.

1076
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 3: I never thought that Justin che did even though thinking

1077
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 3: about it now, of course he did. So then she

1078
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 3: is completely bullied by the nation. Everyone hates her. She

1079
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 3: goes away for like two years and can't even like

1080
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 3: leave her house. She develops complete horrible social anxiety. She

1081
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 3: is just holed up. He is on top of the world.

1082
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 3: He's grinding on people at awards shows and having like

1083
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 3: you know, just he's doing all these sexual things in

1084
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 3: his performances. And then she finally re emerges and does

1085
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 3: the sexual performance at the VMAs in two thousand, which

1086
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 3: is one of my favorite performances of all time. It's

1087
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 3: she does I can't get no satisfaction into my loneliness,

1088
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 3: and it's so good. And then she gets there's like

1089
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: a senator that asks that says he wants her to die.

1090
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 3: Like people are saying that she's such a bad example

1091
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 3: for kids, whereas like Justin can do whatever he wants,

1092
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 3: He can make out with women on stage, never gets

1093
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 3: called a slut. She's a huge slut. Everyone hates her,

1094
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:26,479
Speaker 3: and then and then it's just all fucking downhill from there,

1095
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 3: like the bitch can never recover because everyone just piles on.

1096
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 3: And then that that is the end of Britney Spears

1097
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: ever being like a hero to anyone until the Free

1098
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,240
Speaker 3: Brittany movie and even now in the Free Britney movement

1099
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 3: even I've been like, she needs to be on meds.

1100
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 3: She's crazy. Oh my god, these videos, what's wrong with her?

1101
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: You know what's wrong with her? We did this if

1102
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 3: you if it would be insane. I've made fun of

1103
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 3: Britney's voice before for sounding like a five year old.

1104
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 3: She's a five year old because she went exy baby.

1105
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 4: It was in a.

1106
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 3: Conservatorship that made her five years old again. She just

1107
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: gave off regress trying to be trying to be an

1108
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 3: adult in a situation where you are being told what

1109
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 3: to eat, what to drink, where you can go, where

1110
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 3: you can't go, You can't have access to your cell phone,

1111
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 3: you've an iPad with childlocks on it. What would you

1112
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 3: do keep trying to be a thirty nine year old

1113
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 3: or would you just go and turn into a five

1114
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 3: year old? I think I might just be a five

1115
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 3: year old because you just give up for thirteen years.

1116
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 2: She's locked in that.

1117
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 3: So Nikki, don't make fun of Britney for sounding like

1118
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,240
Speaker 3: she's five years old. This is what I'm saying to myself.

1119
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 3: Of course she would you would too, So it's again,

1120
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 3: it's just another lesson. And like any time I judge

1121
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 3: a celebrity, there's there's like another side to the story

1122
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 3: that I wish, you know, I wish I would have

1123
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 3: more like empathy in the moment when I go off

1124
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 3: on people that I think I understand, like what's going on,

1125
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 3: and then I don't. So I think Chris the other

1126
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 3: night when we were watching a documentary, I said this,

1127
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 3: I think on the pod the other day, but he

1128
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 3: was like, when are we going to learn that it's

1129
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 3: never the story that we think it is, that anytime

1130
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 3: we have a judgment about something, there's going to be

1131
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 3: there's going to be a documentary in ten to twenty

1132
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 3: years that says you thought you knew, well, you had

1133
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 3: no idea, and she was actually the victim. So I'm

1134
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 3: going to try to live my life now thinking about

1135
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 3: the documentary that comes out in ten or twenty years.

1136
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 4: They need to do it faster, just put it out

1137
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 4: right away so that we don't have to wait.

1138
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 3: But he's I'm her dad needs to be behind bars,

1139
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 3: and then I probably will change my tune on this.

1140
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 1: You have to judgment to judgments, yes, because you know

1141
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: what ourselves.

1142
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 3: Her dad had a horrible, horrible childhood, a horrible one

1143
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 3: he did.

1144
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he was very abused.

1145
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,879
Speaker 4: He still shouldn't have abused Brittany like that.

1146
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 3: No, no one should. But like it hurt people, hurt people.

1147
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 3: That's all we know. Let's take a break and come

1148
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 3: back with more.

1149
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 4: Guns don't kill people? What guns don't kill people? I

1150
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 4: killed people.

1151
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 2: This weekend. My way, you're on too. Harry died goes

1152
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 2: on yeah, and I'm on tour this weekend and I'm

1153
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 2: on tour. Oh yeah.

1154
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 3: Before we get to Matthew Berry, which very sad. But wait,

1155
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 3: I just want to say that when his death got

1156
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 3: I was the first one to see it. I was

1157
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 3: in the green room with Anya and Matt and I

1158
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, like it showed up, the

1159
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 3: alert showed up on my phone and they go, what,

1160
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 3: I go, someone.

1161
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 4: Died and alert on your phone?

1162
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I got so many alerts.

1163
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 4: When someone dies, you get an alert. Yeah, I got

1164
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 4: a member Amber.

1165
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 2: I literally did.

1166
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 3: CNN, Apple News, Hollywood Reporter, like I get like push

1167
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 3: gernifications from news when there's breaking news. And that was

1168
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 3: breaking this weekend, Matt Matthew Berry. But Anya and Matt

1169
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: were like who And I was like, okay, guess and

1170
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 3: I go, could I.

1171
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 2: Be anymore dead? And they were like that they didn't know.

1172
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 2: I forgot they guest first. But yeah, that's really sad.

1173
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,439
Speaker 3: But but everyone I have to also say that everyone dies,

1174
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 3: and it's we have to be we have to do

1175
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 3: this for everyone. Do you ever whatever celebrity dies, I go,

1176
00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 3: oh my god, we have to do this for literally

1177
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 3: every singlebrity we know there has to be like this.

1178
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 2: Like oh, that's so sad.

1179
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 3: And it's like, wait, are you just getting the memo

1180
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 3: that everyone dies people react to I'm like, aren't don't

1181
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,959
Speaker 3: you know that this was gonna Matthew Perry was gonna

1182
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 3: die some day? Yes, it definitely happened way too soon,

1183
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 3: fifteen years before it would have been like oh yeah,

1184
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 3: that makes sense. It's still shocking, but this horror of

1185
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 3: like I can't it's so it's like did you you

1186
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 3: know you're gonna die too, right, Like you know that

1187
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 3: everyone you love and know is going to die, or

1188
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 3: you're gonna die first and be the you're gonna.

1189
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 2: Like is this news? But some people react to death

1190
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: like they just found out about it.

1191
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 5: I think about all of the like footage and stuff

1192
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 5: that like TV shows and like like news outlets or

1193
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 5: like radio shows have to go through to do like

1194
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 5: the memorial tribute to you.

1195
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 4: Oh.

1196
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 3: I always think about those people come into the office, Steve,

1197
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 3: you got to start going through fromt fun like we

1198
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 3: gotta get Yeah.

1199
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 2: I always think about the people that in the smiling and.

1200
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 4: The cameras going click click click, click click click, and

1201
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 4: they're like, Matthew Perry has died.

1202
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah. I definitely it was definitely tragic.

1203
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:14,399
Speaker 2: It was definitely sad.

1204
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 3: And it's definitely weird that his last Instagram post is

1205
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 3: of him in the hot tub that he probably died in.

1206
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 3: That's always morbid.

1207
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 4: Oh maybe it was Purple's ful. I don't, you can't,

1208
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 4: you can't.

1209
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: It's really sad. From pick a Ball. So I've told

1210
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 2: Chris oh so much.

1211
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 3: No, I don't think he had Okay, yes, So I

1212
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 3: came up with an idea. The other day I was

1213
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 3: sometimes I just my mind has big ideas and then

1214
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 3: I put them into play and then I'm like, oh,

1215
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 3: I gotta do this. But the other day, I haven't

1216
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 3: seen Aerostor movie yet, which has been out for a while,

1217
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 3: and I've saw Aeros Tour nine times live, but there's

1218
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 3: a movie about the tour, Huge, huge, huge, huge, and

1219
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 3: it's at AMC theaters only, and it's usually only being

1220
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 3: run from Thursday until Sunday. And I've been working every

1221
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 3: single Thursday through Sunday since it's been out, and it's

1222
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 3: been out for like four weeks. But I just haven't

1223
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 3: had a free time.

1224
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 4: I can't, I know.

1225
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 3: So the first one I thought was available is like, oh,

1226
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,760
Speaker 3: I'm going to be in Boston this weekend Thursday and Friday.

1227
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 3: I can go Friday day because usually I just leave

1228
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,959
Speaker 3: the town the day after and I never am just there.

1229
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 3: So this coming Friday, I'm like, oh, I'll go see

1230
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 3: it in Boston. I look it up and I'm like, oh,

1231
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 3: there's a twelve thirty showing. This will be awesome. And

1232
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 3: then I'm like looking at the tickets and they're like,

1233
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 3: you can rent the whole damn theater, and I'm like,

1234
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 3: that would be fun, Like, I wonder if I can

1235
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 3: get like a group together to go in Boston. I

1236
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 3: mean it'll be Anya and Matt, but like I wonder,

1237
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 3: and Chris might be there get people to And then

1238
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 3: I was like, Gait, it would be so fun to

1239
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 3: bring fans and besties. And I also that that same day,

1240
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 3: they were like, your Thursday ticke, your Thursday ticket sales

1241
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 3: are like struggling, so we need to boost those, and

1242
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, why don't we combine the two.

1243
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 3: If people come on Thursday night to the show, that

1244
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 3: where I'll give away the free swifty passes to come

1245
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 3: with me to the Friday show. So if you haven't

1246
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 3: heard yet, if you're in the Boston area, or you

1247
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 3: want to fly to Boston to go to the Swifties

1248
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 3: Eras Tour movie with me, if you come Thursday night

1249
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 3: to my show, I'm giving away thirty five passes because

1250
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 3: they only let you bring forty guests.

1251
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:18,479
Speaker 2: Huh to a whole theater.

1252
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 4: More can fit in there, so many more weird. Maybe

1253
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 4: they don't want it to become too.

1254
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: Rock as rowdy and rocks.

1255
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why it's at Captaint forty, but

1256
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 3: thirty five people are going to go with me to

1257
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 3: see the Eras Tour movie on Friday Day and then

1258
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 3: I have a show that Friday night, which will be

1259
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 3: really fun. But I am so fucking that is a

1260
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 3: idea to get together with a bunch of Taylor Swift

1261
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:43,919
Speaker 3: fans that are also possibly my fans.

1262
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,919
Speaker 2: I mean, I think people might just go.

1263
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 4: You know, people might just tell their friends if they

1264
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 4: don't want to go, yeah, because they don't like Taylor Swift,

1265
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:52,479
Speaker 4: but they're your friend.

1266
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 3: I think that they're no. They I hope they don't

1267
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 3: do that. I just want I think I'm what I

1268
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 3: might want. What I wanted to do is maybe get

1269
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 3: some Boston Swifties that don't even know about it to

1270
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 3: my show and then they go, oh my god, I

1271
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:06,959
Speaker 3: actually like this girl. Because if you like Taylor Swift,

1272
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 3: I think you'll like my comedy. It's like as emotional

1273
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 3: and honest and like raw as Taylor Swift's lyrics. I

1274
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 3: think there's a commonality there, So I'm trying to do

1275
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 3: some crossover. Final thought, I'm very, very excited about going

1276
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 3: to see the Aristor movie with a bunch of people

1277
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 3: that are just so excited because the opening night, opening

1278
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 3: weekend Taylor Swift terrorst Tour movies were packed and now

1279
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,240
Speaker 3: they're kind of probably less so, and so I wanted

1280
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 3: to go when it felt like it was like new

1281
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 3: and packed. So I think it's going to recreate that

1282
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 3: feeling and I'm gonna be singing and dancing the whole time.

1283
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 2: I getta wait.

1284
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 3: I am craving Ariostour again because I've been listening to

1285
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 3: the new Taylor Swift album that dropped on Friday, just

1286
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,919
Speaker 3: doing a little Swift talk for the people that care,

1287
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 3: and if you don't care, you might find it interesting

1288
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 3: as well. So the new Taylor Swift re release of

1289
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 3: nineteen eighty nine, which is an album that originally came

1290
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 3: out in two thousand and four fourteen. It was the first

1291
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 3: album where I became a Swifty and was like this

1292
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 3: is it for me?

1293
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 2: Like this is my girl is blank Space.

1294
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 3: I was sitting in bed at twenty fourteen listening to

1295
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 3: Blank Space and I was just like, this is the

1296
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: greatest song I've ever heard. I love it so much,

1297
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 3: and I will love everything this girl does for the

1298
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 3: rest of my life. And I've stayed true to that

1299
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 3: for the past nine years. So re release of nineteen

1300
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 3: eighty nine because she is rerecording all her music so

1301
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 3: she can own it because it got sold to this

1302
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 3: guy that she really hates. And so now she's re

1303
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 3: recording all of her music and it's breaking all the records.

1304
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 3: Like her record which was number one back in twenty fourteen,

1305
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 3: is now becoming number one again. But it's re recorded

1306
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 3: with her new voice, which is like she's done so

1307
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 3: much vocal training. Her voice is so much stronger. Her

1308
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 3: vocals are fucking insane on this. There are some Swifties

1309
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 3: that are like, it's sound exactly the same.

1310
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 2: No, it shouldn't.

1311
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 3: She is making it sound exactly the same. But she's

1312
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 3: also she's a better singer. Now you guys like this more.

1313
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 2: It's more ethical, And it's.

1314
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 5: What's more ethical because there's no drama and she owns

1315
00:57:58,840 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 5: the music.

1316
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 3: She owns the music, and there are things about it

1317
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 3: that are different. Like some people, if you get into

1318
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 3: the Swifty boards, they're like, Okay, this one note she

1319
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 3: hits is so different the way she says this one line.

1320
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 3: But there is one part in the song I Know Places,

1321
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 3: which is one of my favorite songs I know places

1322
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 3: one of my favorite songs of all time of Taylor Swift.

1323
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 2: And there's this part where she goes and.

1324
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: We run Bee Bee, but she goes and we run,

1325
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 3: but in so in the original one, she's like, she

1326
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 3: does that and we run and it sounds fine. But

1327
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 3: this one she goes and we run, and it's like,

1328
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 3: go listen to the second and we run. It is awesome,

1329
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 3: and everyone's freaking out about it, saying it sounds so

1330
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 3: cool because there's like a.

1331
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 4: Rah, there's a brandy on it.

1332
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's she stayed up late the night before.

1333
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 3: It sounds so cool and so good, and you can

1334
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 3: tell that she was like, we're gonna actually really fucking

1335
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 3: run on this one. And then there's all these vault tracks,

1336
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 3: which are tracks that didn't make it onto the original

1337
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 3: album that she is now releasing for the first time.

1338
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 3: One of them is truly one of the best Tailor

1339
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 3: Swift songs ever written. She co wrote it with amazing

1340
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 3: multi platinum Grammy winning songwriter one of the best songwriters

1341
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 3: of our of all times, she's written some of your

1342
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,919
Speaker 3: favorite songs, Diane Warren. She sat down and wrote with her,

1343
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 3: and she wrote the song called say Don't Go, I know,

1344
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 3: and Diane Warren did not know that the song was

1345
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 3: going to be released. She was really sad that he

1346
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 3: didn't make the original album. She was like, I wonder why,

1347
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 3: but I guess it sounded too much like another song.

1348
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 3: It has the same kind of chord progression as the

1349
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 3: song Clean, which is also on that album. So I

1350
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 3: think maybe Taylor left it off for that reason. But

1351
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 3: Say Don't Go is one of the best Taylor Swift

1352
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 3: songs ever recorded and written. It is so good. And

1353
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 3: then there's another song. This is my order of vault

1354
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 3: tracks if you want to know my faves. It started

1355
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 3: out Say Don't Go was number one, then it was Slut.

1356
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 3: I liked Slut the second, but Slut has fallen in

1357
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 3: the ranks because other ones I've climbed.

1358
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 2: Slut stays is a great song.

1359
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 3: But uh, now that we Don't Talk is so good

1360
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 3: and it's about Harry Styles because I asked.

1361
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 2: My fans white, what who did think the song is about?

1362
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 3: Oh?

1363
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, they dated, and.

1364
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 3: We all know that they dated because it was like

1365
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 3: out and about. Like it was they were like out

1366
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 3: and about during this time when she was writing these

1367
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 3: songs and in into the Woods, which not Into the Wood, sorry,

1368
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 3: out of the Woods, which is a song about Harry Styles.

1369
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 3: They talk about a snowmobile accident that they were in together.

1370
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 3: Remember when you hit the brakes too soon, twenty stitches

1371
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 3: in a hospital room, you started crying, Baby, I did too.

1372
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 3: When the song came up, I was looking at you.

1373
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 3: Remember when you couldn't take the heat. I walked out

1374
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 3: and said, setting you free. When the monsters turned out

1375
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 3: to be just trees. When the son came up.

1376
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 2: You were looking at me.

1377
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So that we know that's Harry Styles. So then

1378
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 3: we have that picture of that, like we're confirmed Out

1379
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 3: of the Woods, that whole thing.

1380
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 2: He cried.

1381
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 3: They had a snowmobile accident. They were in the hospital room.

1382
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 3: It definitely happened. So we have that from the first album.

1383
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 3: Then she releases this vall track and we're like, who

1384
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 3: is this about? But the lyrics go white wait, red, blood,

1385
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 3: white snow, and you're like, boom, snowmobile accident. We know it,

1386
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 3: Like this is why Taylor is so good. We know

1387
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 3: that song is about Harry because of that. And also

1388
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 3: there's another song that I want to point Swifties too,

1389
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 3: where everyone goes, what is who is the song about?

1390
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 3: And this is a song off of Midnights and it's

1391
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 3: called a Question, and it's a very bizarre song. Everyone's

1392
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 3: like the lyrics don't make any sense because it's like,

1393
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 3: can I ask you question?

1394
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: Has there have you ever been?

1395
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 4: Wait?

1396
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question? Have you ever been

1397
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 3: kissed in a crowded room with all of your friends

1398
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 3: making fun of you? But fifteen seconds they were clapping too,

1399
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 3: Then what did you do? And it's just like, what

1400
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 3: are you talking about? Like why are you asking someone

1401
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 3: if they got kissed in a crowded room? And everyone

1402
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 3: doesn't even know what the song is about. But that

1403
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 3: song starts out with like, oh, it starts with the

1404
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 3: same start out as the Out of the Woods does.

1405
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 2: And so I think that question.

1406
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,480
Speaker 3: Is about Harry Styles because she uses the same like

1407
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 3: kind of sound in the beginning. Then let me this

1408
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 3: is a deep dive for Swifties. So this is the

1409
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 3: first time I'm announcing this. So only SWIFTI is listen

1410
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 3: up because no one else gives a bok about any

1411
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 3: of this.

1412
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 2: I know that already, but this is a big one. Okay.

1413
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 3: In the very beginning of Oh, Dane Cook twixted me.

1414
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 3: Okay at the very beginning, I wonder what he wants

1415
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 3: of He.

1416
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 5: Wants to know your thoughts about the nineteen eighty nine Okay.

1417
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 2: Maybe he wants to know this.

1418
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 4: Read it by the Taylor Swift chat room right now,

1419
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 4: chat room.

1420
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 3: At the beginning of is It over Now, there's like

1421
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 3: a it sounds like it like a seagull, or it

1422
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,439
Speaker 3: could be a seagull or a cougar that got its

1423
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 3: paw trapped in a thing.

1424
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 2: So see if you can hear it. Okay, it goes rare. Okay, yeah,

1425
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 2: did you what?

1426
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 3: Okay, that's only exact same sound that is in Labyrinth

1427
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 3: from a where is it? Okay, well it's not showing up, okay,

1428
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 3: but Labyrinth. There's something connection between Labyrinth and is It

1429
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 3: over now? Is that the one that I played before?

1430
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 3: There's something going on. I don't know what it is. Swifties,

1431
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 3: slide into my DMS and tell me if you hear

1432
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 3: the same little wow and oh like this weird noise.

1433
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 3: There's something going on with those two songs. They are connected.

1434
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 3: They might be about the same person.

1435
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 2: We don't know. I will say though, that is it

1436
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 2: over now?

1437
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 3: And now that we Don't Talk and Say Don't Go

1438
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 3: are three of the best Vault tracks we've ever gotten

1439
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 3: from her.

1440
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 2: It's so exciting.

1441
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 3: I am such a lucky son of a bitch to

1442
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 3: be a Taylor Swift fan because there's constantly new music.

1443
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 3: Four brand new songs were dropped into my lap on Friday.

1444
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 3: This is after July eighth, when like five or six

1445
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 3: new Vault tracks were dropped in my lap when she

1446
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 3: really speak now, I think we have another album coming

1447
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 3: up that she is definitely been in the studio, you know,

1448
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 3: paparazzied recording. I'm just so excited to be a fan

1449
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 3: of someone who constantly releases stuff. Like you're a big

1450
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 3: fan of t Rex. When was the last time they

1451
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 3: came out with a news.

1452
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 4: I know, I was just thinking Peter Gabriel is not

1453
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 4: gonna do it, d Rex is dead.

1454
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 3: But like, is there anyone you're excited about like that

1455
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 3: makes new music?

1456
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 4: No?

1457
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't that suck?

1458
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 4: It? Does?

1459
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 2: I think they just found a new Beatles track though

1460
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 2: a new Beatles track.

1461
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 4: Just came out. Oh they did find a new Steely

1462
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 4: Dan track. Oh really, It's like a jingle though for

1463
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 4: a commercial for like beer, It's like shit's the best

1464
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 4: bear you can get.

1465
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 2: And who is it about?

1466
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 4: It's about mister Schlitz the beer man.

1467
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 2: What guy is it about? Who's Steely Dan dating? Who's

1468
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 2: Donald Fagan dating?

1469
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 5: Then?

1470
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 2: Good job?

1471
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

1472
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 2: I love Donald Fagan.

1473
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 3: Yes, I love his name, I love his voice, I

1474
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 3: love everything about him.

1475
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 4: I'm quite a face.

1476
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 3: Also really into Rod Stewart. I think I'm about to

1477
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 3: go through a Rod Stewart face because I'll go through

1478
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 3: this voice is fucking crazy. I love him and I

1479
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 3: was listening to him at my vocal cluss and today

1480
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: because he was like, listen to the way Rod Stewart.

1481
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 3: It sings like he's not caring about sounding good. He's

1482
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 3: just pure emotion. That's why people love him. And I

1483
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 3: was like, I just go, but that's really bad. Singing

1484
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 3: that like hurts his voice and he goes, oh, it's terrible.

1485
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 3: It's the worst technique ever. I'm like, how is this

1486
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 3: guy still singing fifty years later with that voice?

1487
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 2: Does he still sing like that?

1488
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:16,480
Speaker 4: Gargle and gravel? Baby?

1489
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 3: Oh it's so hot? All right, we really covered a

1490
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 3: lot of ground here. Thank you so much for being

1491
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 3: here today. Taylor on Halloween, Thank you Noah, Brian never

1492
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 3: showed up, but I'm so glad because that means he

1493
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 3: was relaxed and he was not stressing in traffic. We'll

1494
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 3: be back tomorrow with Brian with the whole new show

1495
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 3: post Halloween, talk about everything that goes down tonight. Be

1496
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 3: careful out there. It already happened where you're listening. But

1497
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 3: we'll be back tomorrow and come see me on tour

1498
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 3: this weekend Boston and Baltimore Thursday, Friday Boston, Saturday, Baltimore,

1499
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 3: and then the tour goes on and on, new dates

1500
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 3: being announced all the time.

1501
01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 2: Go check my website Niki Glazer dot com.

1502
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 3: I'd love to see you out there, Busties, have a

1503
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 3: good day, don't Beka, and just wash f Way Island Fridays.

1504
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 3: Change it to Fridays on the CW because no one's

1505
01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 3: fucking watching us, So if you could walk on that early,

1506
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 3: appreciate it because no one else is. It's not because

1507
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 3: it's a bad show, it's because no one knows where

1508
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 3: the CW is. So if you can find the CW,

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01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 3: watch one of the best shows going right now. F

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01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 3: Boy Island season three, Love you guys see that and

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