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Speaker 2: Lacey is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Matt.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call Matt and
Speaker 2: see if I tell us why he's ghosting her and
Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But first, Lacey, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Matt? Hey?
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, it's been a couple of weeks. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't really understand.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, have you tried to get a hold of
Speaker 3: him in that time? Like, see, okay I did?
Speaker 4: I did?
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, like I texted him a couple of times,
Speaker 1: you know, just like a casual like, hey, how's your
Speaker 1: week going? You know, nothing like desperate. But yeah, it's
Speaker 1: been two weeks, and uh, you know, in dating months
Speaker 1: that that feels like engating time. That feels like two months. So,
Speaker 1: I mean we had an amazing We had an amazing date,
Speaker 1: and like, you know, I've dated guys where the connection
Speaker 1: feels kind of flat and forced and stuff, but with him,
Speaker 1: like I really I felt an immediate spark, which is
Speaker 1: so rare and we were like speaking the same language,
Speaker 1: like without even trying. It was we had this like magnetism.
Speaker 1: I don't know how else to describe it. And I
Speaker 1: would just hate to see that go. It's such a
Speaker 1: hard thing to come by, it really is.
Speaker 5: I hate that. But why don't you tell us about
Speaker 5: that day? Why don't you tell us about the day?
Speaker 5: How did it go?
Speaker 4: I would love to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we went to this like really blanky cocktail lounge.
Speaker 1: It was I mean it was like velvet couches and
Speaker 1: like candlelit. It was very romantic, like upscale, you know.
Speaker 1: The bartenders were in like fancy vests and oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: And Matt It's just like one of those like annoyingly
Speaker 1: handsome guys like who sometimes you know, somehow just like
Speaker 1: makes eye contact feel like flirting, you know, like like
Speaker 1: it just like pierces your soul. And we had these
Speaker 1: like ridiculous drinks that like came in teacup.
Speaker 4: Which was like so cute.
Speaker 1: We were just like laughing the all time. He was
Speaker 1: like teasing me about being too extra. When I asked
Speaker 1: the bartender to like torch my lemon peel longer, you know,
Speaker 1: we were we already had this like banter going. You
Speaker 1: could really like feel it, and I had this feeling.
Speaker 1: I remember thinking like, oh my gosh, I got these
Speaker 1: people around us. I think we've been dating for a
Speaker 1: really long time.
Speaker 5: Oh you guys just flowed like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and there.
Speaker 1: Was kissing a little more than a little more than kissing.
Speaker 4: But you know, I will I'll spare you the details.
Speaker 4: But he's a really.
Speaker 1: Really good kisser, which is just all adding to like
Speaker 1: why I'm so confused, because it was like one of
Speaker 1: the best first dates.
Speaker 4: I've ever had.
Speaker 2: Okay, is there anything that you can think of at
Speaker 2: all that would be the reason that he would be ghosting.
Speaker 1: Maybe because I took a selfie during the date, like
Speaker 1: a boat, like a both of us.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't I mean, he laughed,
Speaker 1: like but maybe he thought it was like too aggressive
Speaker 1: to be, you know, posting about us or you know,
Speaker 1: even just taking a photo of us. But maybe he
Speaker 1: thinks I'm like, you know, already planning our wedding or
Speaker 1: something like. It didn't feel that way, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: really good selfie.
Speaker 5: By the way, did you post it anywhere?
Speaker 4: No? No, no, I just it was just for like.
Speaker 5: My own memories got you. Okay, I think I think
Speaker 5: I was really good. You can be like, hey, baby,
Speaker 5: is this is when Day and I met you know?
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well we'll see where you figured it out for you.
Speaker 2: Cut, well, play us on come back and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, thank you. All right, we'll get your first
Speaker 5: day follow up right after this.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day followup, if
Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Lacey is on the phone and
Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a guy named Matt. So we're
Speaker 2: about to call him and see if that's ALUs why
Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get our second date. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, Lacy, why don't you catch us up
Speaker 2: on your date again real quick?
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, Matt and I went to this really twinky cocktail
Speaker 1: lounge and got some drinks together and it was just
Speaker 1: like so viby and romantic, and he was making eye
Speaker 1: contact the whole time. We were laughing, we were you know,
Speaker 1: poking fun at each other. It was there was kissing,
Speaker 1: there was a little more than kissing, and I just
Speaker 1: have no idea like, what possibly could have caused.
Speaker 4: Him to ghost?
Speaker 5: You think it might be because of the selfie that
Speaker 5: you guys have.
Speaker 1: I think that's literally the only thing I can think
Speaker 1: of about that potentially.
Speaker 2: Yeah, warned me out of somebody took a selfie with
Speaker 2: me on the first date, something I could.
Speaker 3: See myself doing. But I understand why people might be
Speaker 3: It's okay, lazy, I.
Speaker 5: Feel you all right? Are you ready for us to
Speaker 5: get him a call?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 5: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6: Hello?
Speaker 5: Hi, may I speak to Matt? Please?
Speaker 2: Hey, Matt? How are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jubile Show.
Speaker 5: What's up?
Speaker 7: Matt?
Speaker 4: I'm Nina.
Speaker 5: Hi, I am Victoria and my name's Jubel.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, I love.
Speaker 5: That reaction every day. Have you ever listened to the
Speaker 5: show before?
Speaker 7: I have?
Speaker 1: I have?
Speaker 6: This is awkward and surprising.
Speaker 5: Sweet. Thank you? Well, Matt.
Speaker 2: Guess what what? We got an email about you from
Speaker 2: somebody that you're ghosting. Isn't that fun?
Speaker 6: Is this about Lacey?
Speaker 5: Yes? Okay, it is about Lacey. So we talked to Lacey.
Speaker 2: She told us about your date, you know, said that
Speaker 2: she really liked you a lot of thought things were great,
Speaker 2: but cannot figure out why you're ghosting her? Do you
Speaker 2: mind telling us?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, this is going to sound ridiculou, but I
Speaker 6: swear it threw me off. Okay, So halfway through the date,
Speaker 6: she licked the rim of her cocktail glass like like
Speaker 6: slowly like and while maintaining eye contact, and truth be told,
Speaker 6: I panicked, like I was, well, like in my head,
Speaker 6: I was like, was that a move or was there
Speaker 6: sugar stuck there? Like I didn't know how to handle it.
Speaker 3: Okay, it would be kind of funny for a movement
Speaker 3: a change how you how you view it, Like, is
Speaker 3: it because it's a move that you were uncomfortable?
Speaker 6: I just didn't know if like if she was messing
Speaker 6: with me or if that's just how she drinks. It
Speaker 6: was it was like a scene of a movie that
Speaker 6: I wasn't prepared for.
Speaker 3: Like she was giving you a signal or something.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know. And that's yeah, that I mean, that's
Speaker 6: that's like literally why I haven't called it back because
Speaker 6: like I was like, I can't read it. I don't
Speaker 6: know what this means.
Speaker 5: Like how bad of a lick was it? Right?
Speaker 6: Like I said, it was intense it was aggressive, almost
Speaker 6: animal lesk like like.
Speaker 2: Like did she pick the glass up and like lick
Speaker 2: it from top to bottom or like all the around?
Speaker 6: I mean it was like around the ram like she
Speaker 6: picked it up, but like the whole time, like looking
Speaker 6: at me. Yes, yeah, it just threw me off. It
Speaker 6: was it was wild, like how.
Speaker 5: Many times does she make it around the rim?
Speaker 6: I didn't even count because it was one of those
Speaker 6: things I was like, do I watch this? Is this?
Speaker 6: Like I couldn't look away? But I also felt weird
Speaker 6: looking at it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, if it's what I'm picturing in my head
Speaker 3: right now, I could see how that would be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also see how I kind of dig it,
Speaker 2: you like, staring you down just like.
Speaker 1: This.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but that's the reason.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's I mean, that's it. That's the reason.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, guess what, Matt, I mean, you listen to these,
Speaker 2: but I'm not sure if you remember Lacy is on
Speaker 2: the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Oh, I guess I should have known.
Speaker 4: Hi, Hi Lacy, Hey Matt. Oh sorry, so I heard
Speaker 4: the whole thing. You're you vanished over a glass?
Speaker 5: Licking.
Speaker 6: Is that yes?
Speaker 4: Is that really?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Correct?
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so sorry one second, Okay, sorry, I was
Speaker 1: just taking a sip of water and licking the bottle.
Speaker 1: Who yeah, Matt, No, I I was not seducing you.
Speaker 1: There was literally cinnamon sugar on the rim, like you said, So,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be.
Speaker 4: Wasteful, you know.
Speaker 1: And and honestly, like even if I even if I
Speaker 1: was trying to seduce you, why wouldn't you lean into that?
Speaker 1: Like this is kind of crazy that that you're going
Speaker 1: to be so like anti flirtation, Like this is a
Speaker 1: little weird.
Speaker 6: It was intense and like you locked eyes like you
Speaker 6: were issuing a challenge.
Speaker 4: Well maybe I was. Maybe I was issuing a challenge
Speaker 4: and maybe you failed.
Speaker 6: Oh I don't fail.
Speaker 4: You don't fail, Okay, prove it.
Speaker 1: I mean you think I'm beautiful. You know, I'm funny,
Speaker 1: I'm hilarious, I smell amazing. Like, give me one good
Speaker 1: reason that that you shouldn't want another date?
Speaker 4: I'm serious, Matt.
Speaker 5: Would you like to go on another day with Lazy?
Speaker 5: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6: Well, here's the thing is is not like being in control?
Speaker 6: And do you make that very hard?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: That just sounds scared all around.
Speaker 6: Power plase, I'd rather be like a you know, hey, lady,
Speaker 6: h lick that glass for me?
Speaker 7: Whoa, lady, you know you better watch out.
Speaker 4: I might lick your glass next time.
Speaker 6: Okay, but only if I give you permission. I'm not
Speaker 6: like that all the time. I do like to be
Speaker 6: in control of certain things, though.
Speaker 3: You know, guys are so complicated.
Speaker 6: So you know I can be in control if there's
Speaker 6: a time for me to be in control, is right?
Speaker 6: You know we can do that for you.
Speaker 4: Lady.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, what do you think, lay It sounds
Speaker 2: like Matt's down for another day?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: That is that?
Speaker 5: A yes?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 4: I didn't think we get at this point.
Speaker 2: But hey, okay, all right, congratulations another day, saying lady.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm all in.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry that the glass looking threw me off before,
Speaker 6: but now I'm all in and I'm ready to show you. Oh, Matt, oh,
Speaker 6: I love that.
Speaker 4: Hey, where's something that makes women stare at you? So
Speaker 4: I can get tellous what I got? Just the thing,
Speaker 4: Lady jubile, first dayfall up