1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: I found out my step mom was cheating with my 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: dad years before the divorce. Now my step brother has 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: something to tell. 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 2: Me, is it. I just got a no pack of 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 2: Pokemon cards and I found a holographic charte aard and 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: I want to share in the reward with you. 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 1: You know, Sam, I have to let you know that's exactly. 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 2: What it was. 9 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I love holographic charge h collect them all, baby, 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: All right, let's let's find out what it actually is. 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: I think it's a catching Pokemon ork catching cheaters. 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: Oh oh, catchen nuts. When I, twenty two male, was four, 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: my dad, forty two male, divorced my mom. About a 14 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: year later, he introduced me to my step mom, forty 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: two female, and she now has two girls, N and 16 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: D that are both twenty two as well. They married 17 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: only a few months after dating and went on to 18 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: have three more kids, G sixteen male, L ten male, 19 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: and S four female. Okay, my father adopted the twins 20 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: N and D because their biological father was not involved. 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: I've always considered all five of them my siblings, and 22 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: we've never used step or half to refer to each 23 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: other as siblings. When I was six, shortly after Gee's birth. 24 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: My mom passed away in a car accident, and because 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: of it, I started to live with my dad full time. 26 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: My relationship with my stepmom improved from there. She never 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: adopted me, however, she, along with my dad, kept my 28 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: mom's memory alive by keeping in touch with my maternal 29 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 1: grandparents and other relatives, as well as visiting the grave 30 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: with me on special days. 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: Okay, so it sounds like things are going well. 32 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I think a pretty pretty good dynamic to have. 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 2: So can visit the grave of your real mom with 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 2: your step mom, then things are pretty It's pretty good. 35 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 2: That's the rule. 36 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Sam's rule of stepparents. Boom. Now I started 37 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: calling her mom when I was around seven or eight, 38 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: and she refers to me as her eldest child. 39 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: Wow, okay, things going on. 40 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: That's pretty close. Now. After a teen, I started to work, 41 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: but I continued to live with my parents. But last 42 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: week I was in the attic when I found a 43 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: photo album that I've never seen before. 44 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: Is it photo album that. 45 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: Would be funny like Dad's Dad's like yeah, freaking just 46 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 1: like or Dad's lingerie. 47 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go. I was, I'm talking about Dad 48 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: and some theilettos. 49 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: Bottoms, long heels. 50 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: Where the yeah, just give it a. 51 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: Little little snap form snap and edgy string. Daddy, Daddy, Daddy. 52 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: It was like that, Daddy. That's that's a whole different rentistry. 53 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: So Opie opened it and I saw several pictures of 54 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: my dad, my stepmom, and the twins when they were babies. 55 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. 56 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: That makes no sense to me, because, like I said, 57 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: they were toddlers when our parents met. 58 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 2: Wait, they were toddlers when the steps. 59 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: Step yeah, stepmom and dad met. How could they be babies? 60 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: Huh makes no sense. I decided to confront my parents 61 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: about it. Okay, I sat them down in the kitchen 62 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: alone and asked them how they met. And they told 63 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: me the story that soon after my dad's divorce, he 64 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: met my stepmom' through a mutual friend. But when they 65 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: were done, I took one of the pictures and threw 66 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: it down on the table and demanded, they tell me 67 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: the truth. 68 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 2: This is like a like a cake, This is like 69 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 2: a courtroom log track. It's like where were you the 70 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: night of the seventeenth? Oh really, you were just out 71 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: with your friends? 72 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: Why here's the broom? How about these apples. I can 73 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: see you clearly fucking the maids. I object, so stay 74 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: in the stage. 75 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: Now. I could tell by my dad's face he understood 76 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: what I meant. We know what's going down. My dad 77 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: told me that his marriage with my mom was going 78 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: through a hard time because of my mom's infertility issues. 79 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: One day he met my step mom and things escalated quickly, 80 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: and when he was ready to leave my mom, she 81 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: found out that she was pregnant, but so did my stepmom. 82 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: He got them both pregnant at the same time he 83 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: was ready to leave his original, his biological mother. Both 84 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: of them got pregnant at the same time. 85 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 2: Yo, man's packing a punch's straight shooters. What was in 86 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: the whatever? It was in the juice that week? My friends. 87 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: So he lied to my mom several times so that 88 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: way he could spend time with my step mom and 89 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: her baby twins. 90 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: Yo. Wow, only does he get a kid with the stepmom, 91 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: but it's twins twins? 92 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: Bro, can you imagine the fair baby? Yeah? Wow, goodness. 93 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: One day he admitted to my mom that he was 94 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: having an affair, and then they got divorced. 95 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 2: Yikes. 96 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 1: So I looked at my step mom and she was 97 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 1: in tears. They both tried to say sorry, but I 98 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: couldn't stay in that house any longer. I'm currently staying 99 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: at my girlfriend's house. I haven't talked to my other siblings, G, 100 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: L and S. It's paid me a lot and G 101 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: said that S cried for me, and that just breaks 102 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: my heart. 103 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: Yikes. 104 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: Now I have refused to talk with my parents or 105 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: the affair twins, N and D. The three of them 106 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: lied to me fair twins. It's like it's not because 107 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: they're putting non parties and affairs because my parents cheated. 108 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: This feels like such an story of like I trusted 109 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: the twins, but they betrayed me, betrayed me, and now 110 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 1: I'm seeking with Then. Yes, I feel like my whole 111 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: life was built on lies and I am lost. I 112 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: do not know what to do. I still love my 113 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: sisters and my parents, but they, especially my parents, have 114 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: hurt me so much. 115 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:26,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big secret to uh keep under lock 116 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 2: and key, huge right, Like you're sane. I don't know 117 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: how OP, he's going to be able to get over this. Well, 118 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: OPI has a plan. What's the plan? 119 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: I have come to the conclusion that I should talk 120 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: with the affair twins N and D, and I will 121 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: send them a message so we can meet in person 122 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: and talk about. 123 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 2: It, the affair twins. 124 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: I will also try to meet with my younger siblings 125 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: because I have not seen them since last week. I 126 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 1: just talked to them over the phone, and I missed 127 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: them about my parents. I don't know what I'll do. 128 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: I need to talk to them so I can at 129 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: least get some closure, but I don't know if I'll 130 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 1: be able to. 131 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: Yikes, this is a this is a tricky situation. I 132 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: wonder what will happen at that that meeting. 133 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: Well, we're about to find out. We have updates on updates. 134 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: Let's see it. Let's hear it. 135 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: So my sisters knew about my father's affair with their mother. 136 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: They knew, they knew, they knew. 137 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: Bro Like when I was that age, I could barely 138 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 2: keep any secret about like what bubble gum flavored I 139 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 2: would eat? Like, I have no idea how the affair 140 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: twins literally kept that secret for like their whole life. 141 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: And what do you say, Like, so mommy and Daddy 142 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: had a very special fun time and then the stork 143 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: decided to. 144 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, there's no good way to say it. 145 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: But like, I just imagine it coming up in like 146 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: a fight or something where it's like, uh, get out 147 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 2: of my room, and it's like, no, you get out 148 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:02,119 Speaker 2: of my room. Well, yeah, cheated with our bob because 149 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: our mom's so much harder, hotter than your mom. That's 150 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 2: how I imagine it comes. 151 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: Oh, she got it. They got hot mommy. They can't 152 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: help that. Hot mommy can't help it. But let's see, 153 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: let's see how it went down. So I made my post, 154 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: and I made the group chat with the twins and 155 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: texted them. We decided to meet. My girlfriend wanted to 156 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: come with me, but I told her I'd rather go alone. 157 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: And when I arrived there, they were already there, and 158 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: they started to try and make small talk, but I 159 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: just went straight to. 160 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 2: The point, straight to the point, let's get it. 161 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: I asked them if they knew, and they started to 162 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: tear up. They always knew that my dad had an affair, 163 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: but they only knew that they were his daughters when 164 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: they turned sixteen, because our parents told them. Why is 165 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: sixteen the age? I think that's like, because you that's age. 166 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: You don't want to wait too long, you know, So 167 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: it's like, okay, get it. It's just when they're mature 168 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: enough to take it, but you know, can't wait too long. Yeah, yeah, 169 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: like you're forty and you're yeah, fair baby, not bang. 170 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: They initially wanted to tell me, but my dad and 171 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: stepmom pressed them not to say anything because if they 172 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: told me, it would destroy our family. I mean, probably true, 173 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: probably true, and I think it is right happening right now. 174 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: I asked them how things were at home. They told 175 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: me that GNL started to be rude to our parents 176 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 1: while S just kept asking about me. They asked if 177 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: I could forgive them. I told them that I still 178 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: love them, but I need time, and they told me 179 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: they understood that. I said I was sorry, that I 180 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: shouldn't blame them for my dad's mistakes. They told me 181 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 1: that they should have told me earlier. We hugged it 182 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: out and cried together. We said our goodbyes, and I 183 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: went home and my girlfriend asked me how I was, 184 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: and I just broke down. 185 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 186 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: She helped me tight and told me not to hold 187 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: on and that she was there for me. Words cannot 188 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: describe how much I love this woman. She has been 189 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: my rock through all of us that's sweets. I talked 190 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: to my younger siblings this morning and we met at 191 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: the park. I hugged them really tight, especially S. I'm 192 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: super attached and really protective of her, and I tried 193 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: to explain her in a toddler friendly way that I 194 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 1: was mad at our parents because they did a bad thing, 195 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: and I wasn't mad at her. She asked if I 196 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 1: was ever going to come back home, and I told 197 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: her I didn't know, but I still loved her. Man, 198 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: it's so hard to. 199 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, like a like the kid is caught in 200 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 2: the middle. 201 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: And what do you what are you gonna do? Like 202 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: it's they literally can't comprehend. Yeah, I mean you can't 203 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: do much except say basically what OP said. I feel 204 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: like OP is making a lot of the right moves. 205 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: One hundred Bridge is such a tricky situation. Yeah, it's 206 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: really bad. I talked to my brothers to see how 207 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: they were holding on. G and L told me that 208 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: they've been having a hard time because they never thought 209 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,439 Speaker 1: that our parents could do something so horrible. They told 210 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: me they missed me, but understood why I had to leave. 211 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 1: We spent the morning together and after lunch they went 212 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: back home. I haven't talked to my parents yet, but 213 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: I planned to call my maternal grandparents tonight to see 214 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: if they knew or not. 215 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, the maternal the grand parents, it's new too, Like 216 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: OPI was just fricking betrayed by everyone. 217 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: But you know what, Sam, We're going to the final level. 218 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 2: Here, the final countdown. Let's go. 219 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: We are confronting the father and stepmom about the affair. 220 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: So my dad and step mom have wanted to meet 221 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: and talk since I found out about their affair. I 222 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: wasn't feeling ready to do it. My girlfriend said I 223 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 1: should to eventually meet with them so at least I 224 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: could hear their side, and my girlfriend told me that 225 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: she wanted to come with me. My girlfriend and I 226 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: sat down with my dad and my step mom yesterday 227 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,959 Speaker 1: in a public space. We arrived before them. I was 228 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: feeling nervous and my. 229 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 2: Leg was shaking. Why a public space, It's a good question. 230 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: That seems like overdoing it. 231 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it seems unnecessary, like it's like like 232 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: no one's going to like hurt you. 233 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe they are. 234 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: I've always heard like, oh, like break up with someone 235 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: in a public space because then they can't overreact. Yeah, 236 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: or like, if someone's not super stable, whatever, you have 237 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: terrible news them, don't don't do it in antarctica where 238 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: no one can hear you. Or I mean, but some 239 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: people would just go crazy anyway. So that's true, that's true. 240 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 1: You want to be on World Star? Yeah, yeah, that's 241 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: the question. My girlfriend held my hand and told me 242 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: not to worry because she was there for me. When 243 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: they arrived, I was looking at the floor. I just 244 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: couldn't look them into me eyes. My dad was trying 245 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: to ask me things like how I was, and I 246 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: just asked him to explain everything from the moment he 247 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: met my mom to the moment he divorced her. Getting 248 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: the full story in here. My dad told me that 249 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: he met her at church and the moment he laid 250 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: eyes on her, he fell in love and they soon 251 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: started dating. My dad said my mom was a perfect partner. 252 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: He said she was kind, loving, and very concerned about him. 253 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: My dad proposed to her on her eighteenth birthday, Wow, 254 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: and she cried tears of joy. My dad said that 255 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: he never saw my mom so happy until the day 256 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: I was born. But they did have problems having kids. 257 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: They had several miscarriages and my dad started to cheat 258 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: on my mom with my now stepmom because the step 259 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: mom could give me what your mom couldn't, like a child, yes, 260 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: adopt bro literally so dumb. My dad started to spend 261 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: less and less time at home and at this point 262 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: he started crying. He said that my mom tried her 263 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: best and told him every day how much she loved 264 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: him and how sorry she was that she couldn't give 265 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: him a family. 266 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: Bro, why would you wow? 267 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: And he's literally cheating on her. Yead like at least 268 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: ahole hole bear bear bare minimum, be like, I love you, 269 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: but I do want like a biological child. So like 270 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: and then and then be up front and get a divorced. 271 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: Don't go and cheat and have a kid like if 272 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: if you're going to do that, which. 273 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: Is still like she was such like an angel. 274 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: Like exactly, Oh my god, she died and then she died. Bro. God. 275 00:13:58,720 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 3: Uh. 276 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: My father was planning on leaving my mom, but then 277 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: she told him she was pregnant. In the same week, 278 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: my dad found out my step mom was pregnant as well. 279 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: My dad initially believed that I was going to be 280 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: a miscarriage, but it didn't happen. He said that when 281 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: I was born. My mom couldn't stop looking at me 282 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: and crying and smiling at the same time. My dad 283 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: said that my mom held his hand and said, we 284 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: finally did it, my love. Oh bro, imagine what's going 285 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: through his head. Sheeees. I started to cry a bit. 286 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: My dad and my stepmom tried to comfort me, but 287 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: I just asked how my mom reacted to my dad's 288 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: affair and why my dad. 289 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 2: Oh this sucks, this sucks, this sucks, I get to say, 290 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: it's so much worse than I could have imagined. I like, 291 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: why couldn't the mom be like an alcoholic or a 292 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: cheater of herself, an angry like even like a stripper, 293 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 2: would you know, just like you know, to give us something, 294 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: give us, give us something. Or she was like kind 295 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: of cheating, yeah, blowing dudes on the side for money, 296 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 2: just like anything. 297 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: But but it gets better to him. I asked him 298 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: all that, and why my dad waited four years to 299 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: divorce her. He kept it a secret for four more years. 300 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: That is that's impressive, honestly, keeping a secret that big 301 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 2: I having two families with the fair twins. 302 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: He needs to be like an international spy or something. 303 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: The way he's keeping man is doing well in all 304 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: the wrong ways. My dad said that during those four years, 305 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: my mom became overprotective of me. He gave me a 306 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: few examples, like my mom had me in a crib 307 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: in their room when I was a baby. Whenever I 308 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: was crying, she was the one to call me down 309 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: and didn't let anyone else do it. She wouldn't let 310 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: anyone else hold me until I was a bit older, 311 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: and she wanted to be a stay at home mom 312 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: so she could spend literally all her time with me. 313 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: It took my dad and grandparents from both sides to 314 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: convince her not to do that. This caused him to 315 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: have less and less time alone, and during those four years, 316 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: my mom sex drive got lower and she didn't get 317 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: pregnant again. When they did it, my dad told my 318 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: mom about the affair and he laid everything out, including 319 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: the twins. My mom begged him not to leave her, 320 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: making promises that she would Oh God, my mom begged 321 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: him not to leave her, making more promises that she 322 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: would have more sex with him, and if my dad wanted, 323 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: he could continue to have the affair and have another child, 324 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: and that my mom would still treat them. 325 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 4: Well oh shee oh god, oh oh ah that suck ah. 326 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 2: Oh oh, oh my goodness, this is heartbreaking. 327 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: My dad said that his mind was made up, and 328 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: my mom cried and asked him to leave her alone 329 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: for a while. 330 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: But this guy, dude bought this guy. 331 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: Literally that's ship. What like, what more could he want 332 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: if she is open to that? Like literally what. 333 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 2: This guy's come? God come, I don't even do, I 334 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 2: don't even know what, Like, I'm my heart hurts so 335 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 2: much for this family. 336 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: Oh, it's insane. 337 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 2: What what what breaks my heart? 338 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: Is like her on the like on the in the hospital, 339 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: just having had a baby and then after years of 340 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: like miscarriages and it not working, like and. 341 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 2: She's so happy, did it honey? 342 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: Literally Meanwhile the whole time he has another affair twins 343 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: over here, oh my goodness. 344 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 2: And then she like she loves him so much. He's like, yo, 345 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 2: you can have your affair family literally just like stay 346 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 2: with me. 347 00:17:55,880 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 1: Just just to stay together. Like it's crazy. Fuck. Fuck, 348 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: this sucks, this sucks so much. It does. 349 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,360 Speaker 2: This is the This is terrible. 350 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,400 Speaker 1: This is one of the worst scenarios probably that we've 351 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: that we've come across. 352 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 2: You can't fucking trust anyone. 353 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: You really can't. You can't trust anyone, you really can't. 354 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 2: Oh, where where are the red flags? 355 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, there has red flags. There's always read that good. 356 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: Maybe he's that good if you can balance four years. 357 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 2: Maybe she also probably maybe she saw the signs and 358 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 2: just like chose to ignore them. 359 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: It's probably a combination of both, I'm sure which would 360 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: have been that like she saw that, she saw the 361 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: red flags, but she was like, I want my family 362 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: like I had so many, she'd been through so much. 363 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way, like, there's no way you're having 364 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 2: a whole ass of the family and there's not some suspicion, 365 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 2: But it sounds it sounds like she was like okay 366 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 2: living then in that she. 367 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 1: Was okay with that arrangement. Yea, if that's what he wanted. 368 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: It's kind of like Hillary Clinton, Bill Clinton, you know, yeah, yeah, 369 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 1: it's like, all right, let's stay together for the politics. 370 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, for politics. 371 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you can you know, go on that yeah, 372 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: just on the side, go on that that plane. That 373 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: am I right, jez But uh, all right we got 374 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: out Bill Clinton shout out slick Willy. So when my 375 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: dad got back, he heard my mom singing my song. 376 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 2: Uh. 377 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: He went to my room and peeked through the door 378 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: and saw my mom in the room holding me in 379 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: your arms while singing. I fell asleep after my mom 380 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: started crying softly, probably so I wouldn't wake up. My 381 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: dad said she just started kissing me on the forehead 382 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: and that she loved me over and over again. My 383 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: dad told me that my mom slept with me that night, 384 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 1: and the next day they started to discuss their divorce. 385 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: My dad said that my mom did her best not 386 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: to portray him as the bad and when I asked 387 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: who I was going to live with, my mom said 388 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: I was going to be with her one week and 389 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: then my dad the other. So she even still split time. 390 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: She's not even trying to get full custody. Oh, my 391 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: dad tried to guilt trip me. He said that my 392 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: mom could tell everyone about the affair and could have 393 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: pushed to have full custody of me, but she understood 394 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: it wasn't healthy for you. Oh my god, she just 395 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 1: wants what's best for She literally is like she only 396 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: wants what's best she She's completely putting her own self 397 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: interest aside in every scen areia. 398 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 2: I am in turmoil. I am in turmoil. This is 399 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 2: this is the worst story. Sorry, I'm sorry, I'm talking 400 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: killing me. John, You're fucking killing me. 401 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: And we're not trying yet. No, we're not done yet. 402 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: I simply asked about the twins, how is their relationship 403 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: with him before and why did he tell them? He said, 404 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 1: when the twins were born, my mom was already at home, 405 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: but he was able to visit my stepmom in the hospital. 406 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: I asked him if he had always been the twins 407 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: legal father, to which he replied yes. My father said 408 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 1: that he would visit the twins in my stepmom at 409 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: least once a week, and he said he thought the 410 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: twins should know because he wanted the truth to come 411 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: from them. Why did you not like? Why not the 412 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: same for op? 413 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Why did the twins deserve truth in your. 414 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: Your other son doesn't like? My goodness, who's being like 415 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: the kind of the victim? Essentally this scenario? 416 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: This guy sucks. 417 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: I told my dad that his actions have showed me 418 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 1: he is nothing more than a selfish ahole, that he's 419 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: hurted me, the twins, my mom, and all the people 420 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 1: he loves and respects. Truly, I told him that we 421 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: could never have any type of meaningful relationship. To forget 422 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: about being at my wedding or ever meeting my kids. 423 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: What the maximum I could ever do was tolerating him 424 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: and his wife for the sake of my siblings, mainly 425 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: my four year old sister. My step tried to intervene, 426 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: and she said son, So she like uh, referred to 427 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: her as the son. 428 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 2: There's a clopback coming. 429 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: Before she could continue, my girlfriend replied that I was 430 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: not her son, that she was just my father's lover, 431 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: and that my real mom has passed away. 432 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 2: Fuck fuck. 433 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 1: We soon left. As we were walking home, my girlfriend 434 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: said if it was all right to say that, to 435 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: which I said yes. When we got home, she held 436 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: my hand and took me to our room. We laid 437 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 1: down in our bed and I buried my face in 438 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: her chest. I want you to know how proud I 439 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,439 Speaker 1: am of you, and how you've shown how strong and 440 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: mature you are, but you don't need to act tough 441 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: around me. Please let it all out. I started to cry, 442 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 1: as I never have before that as unreluctant I know, 443 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: I know. 444 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 2: Let it in, John, let it end. 445 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: After what seemed to be an eternity. I told my 446 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: girlfriend I wanted to see some of my mom's pictures 447 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 1: so I could calm down. Oh it started off all right, 448 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,159 Speaker 1: but then I landed on these two pictures, and the 449 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: first one my mom was holding me and looking at 450 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 1: me with a big smile, and the other one she 451 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: was giving me a big kiss, and I just lost 452 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 1: it again. She didn't deserve any of this. I wish 453 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: she could have found someone better than my dad, someone 454 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 1: she could have loved and treated her like she deserves. 455 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm a little better now, but I'm still an emotional mess. 456 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: My girlfriend says that she's been worried about my mental 457 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: state and that she wants me to see a therapist. Yes, please, 458 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: please do. 459 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:33,199 Speaker 2: For the love of God in all things holy, you 460 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 2: need to see like twelve therapists because this shit. I 461 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: need a therapist. 462 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: For having listened to this, I told her I agreed, 463 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: and asked her to help set up the appointment because 464 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: I was not capable of doing that. Right now, I 465 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: want to thank everyone who's commented set DMS and gave 466 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: me advice. Thank you all. It means a lot. If 467 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: something happens in my life, I will keep you updated. Huh. 468 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 2: That sucked. That sucked. I hated I hated it. Yeah, 469 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 2: I don't know how you recover from that. 470 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's it's just I mean, like he said, 471 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 1: like just having a relationship with. 472 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 2: Your like how instead? 473 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh god, I think the silver linings like it seems 474 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 1: that he has found an amazing partner. Yeah, seems like 475 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 1: he still has at least. 476 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 2: That he has that until the update is my girlfriend 477 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 2: cheated on me with my dad? 478 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, fucking piece of ship. Yeah, man, jesus, if you like, 479 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 1: that's the great place to close it off, ain't it. 480 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 2: This is like just teaching me, like what the what 481 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 2: not to do in relationships. 482 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 1: It's honestly, it is. It is the master class. 483 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, we're gonna be so good at not fucking 484 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 2: up relationship. 485 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 1: My god, we're gonna we're just too many relationship kings, dude. 486 00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: It's gonna be crazy.