1 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the New Corner Office, 2 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: the podcast where we share strategies for thriving in the 3 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: new world of work, where location and hours are more 4 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: flexible than in the past. Today's tip is to come 5 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: up with smart ways to connect with colleagues and others. 6 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: This holiday season, festivities will look different, but we can 7 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: still figure out ways to network well and start the 8 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: new year feeling more in touch than ever. In the past, 9 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: many organizations hosted an annual holiday party. It's one of 10 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: those traditions we don't think so much about, except that 11 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: it's always there. Oh yes, I need a babysitter for 12 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: some night in December or two, one for my spouse's 13 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: party and one for mine. You eat a bacon wrapped 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: scallop and raise a glass of champagne with people you 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: haven't really seen all year. Sometimes it's tedious, but it 16 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: serves a purpose reconnecting people with looser professional ties. Parties 17 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: do that, and holidays are an occasion for parties, except 18 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: not this year. Very few organizations are going to risk 19 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: cramming people into a party venue where frequent eating and 20 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: drinking makes mask wearing complicated. I'm not sure how many 21 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: office parties are going to be mourned. Hey, it's a 22 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: night where now you can just stay in and watch TV. 23 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: You don't have to be on your best behavior while 24 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: pretending to have fun. But still something is lost. So 25 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: we need to come up with other ways to connect. 26 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: The simplest way is to send holiday cards. Even if 27 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: you don't normally do this, this year is a good 28 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: one to start. You've seen far fewer people in person 29 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: in recent months, so the mail is a way to 30 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: stay in touch. I'd recommend doing a card where you 31 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: can actually write something. I know that people like those 32 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: photo postcards, but it turns out that you can do 33 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: a photo on a folded card and then write something 34 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: on the inside. This is far more personal, and yes 35 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: you have time. It takes just a minute or two 36 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 1: per card extra to jot off something personal about the year. 37 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: You might also consider a small gift. This is actually 38 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: a really good way to stand out from the mess 39 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: of holiday cards. Try to find something meaningful but not junkie. 40 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 1: Some people do something like Starbucks gift cards, and that's 41 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: kind of a nice touch. This year, in particular, we 42 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: can't grab coffee in person in many cases, so this 43 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: is another way for me to buy you coffee. To 44 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: really make it away to network, actually say that you 45 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: will be reaching out to the person to schedule a 46 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: virtual coffee and then do it call or email to 47 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: set up a time. But of course that's not the 48 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: only option. You could do. Small ornaments, maybe ones is 49 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: asociated with a nonprofit or a small business that you'd 50 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: like to support. Little notebooks and pens are pretty universally acceptable. 51 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: Candy cane type confections are festive. A direct donation to 52 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: a nonprofit that could use the help is a nice touch. 53 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: A few dollars to a food bank per holiday card 54 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: could pay for a lot of meals, and telling someone 55 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: that you have paid for twenty meals for a family 56 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: in their honor with your donation will probably make them smile. 57 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: In any case, if you think about it, you can 58 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 1: come up with some small gift that seems like you 59 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: for less than ten dollars per card. If you are 60 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: sending fifty cards, that's five dollars. If you're sending a hundred, 61 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: that's a max of a thousand dollars. Not nothing, of course, 62 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: but given that you aren't paying a babysitter for two 63 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: weekend nights for holiday parties. You might wind up making 64 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: some of that up. And if people take you up 65 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: on your virtual coffee offer, well, who knows what profitable 66 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: places that might lead. You can also take the ocasion 67 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: to just reach out. When you get a holiday card 68 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: from someone call You can email first if you'd like, 69 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: or just to pick up the phone. Use something from 70 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: their photo as a tie in. I love that photo 71 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: of you guys in the Grand Canyon. We're thinking of 72 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: going there next year. Any recommendations. The point is that 73 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: even when we can't get together in person, the holidays 74 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: could be an occasion for reconnecting with our weak ties. 75 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: Who do you usually talk to at your office party 76 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: or your spouse's office party. Who do you see only 77 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: once a year at your professional association's annual holiday lunch. 78 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: If you don't do anything, you won't see that person 79 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: this year. So figure out a way to connect for 80 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: alternative holiday networking and the season we'll still feel festive 81 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: in the meantime. 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