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Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm so excited because we now have Barbara on

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Speaker 2: and Barbara played Nathan Scott, Nathan Scott's mother deb Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we never met apparently, which I just don't. I feel

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Speaker 2: like we did, but I guess we didn't.

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Speaker 1: No, I feel like I know you, but we never

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know we didn't cross paths on the show,

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Speaker 1: but then you think, like post show, we would have,

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Speaker 1: but I really don't think we have.

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Speaker 2: I want to know your least favorite part about working

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Speaker 2: on the show, and then your best. Start with the least, okay,

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Speaker 2: and with the best. We're going to go do it,

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Speaker 2: and then we're going to go I want to know

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Speaker 2: my personal stuff because I just found out something that

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Speaker 2: I had no idea about and I'm really excited to

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Speaker 2: talk about it.

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Speaker 1: So, oh my god, Okay, I'm going to deep immediately.

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Speaker 2: Okay, go worst part.

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Speaker 1: So worst part is sort of post show when I

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Speaker 1: found out all the stuff that happened on the show,

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Speaker 1: and me being like a maternal figure in my own life.

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Speaker 1: The fact that I wasn't almost like you don't know immediately,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know half the stuff I didn't know any

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Speaker 1: of the stuff that was going on on the show,

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Speaker 1: and I wish I had been there, and I've I've

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Speaker 1: already like offered many apologies to my co stars, and

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Speaker 1: I just wish. I feel like I could have made

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Speaker 1: a difference because I like being a sounding board. I

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Speaker 1: have a good ear, and it just broke my heart

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Speaker 1: when I heard that. You know, obviously things weren't happening

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Speaker 1: to me because I was like one hundred and thirty

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Speaker 1: years old according to no But seriously, I was in

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Speaker 1: that environment. I was so you know, it didn't happen

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Speaker 1: to me, So I was just oblivious to everything. So

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Speaker 1: I think that's the worst part of it, because honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't have anything bad to say. While I was

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Speaker 1: on the show. It was such a great experience for me.

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Speaker 2: Because how old were you when you started the show?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have no idea. They're like thirty

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Speaker 1: six maybe the sex Yeah, And it's so funny that

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Speaker 1: the writers were painting us the parents is like the

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Speaker 1: old people, and we're like thirty six years old, And

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Speaker 1: I think I felt old because of that.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's that was one of my questions too, for you,

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Speaker 2: because I just played a mom in a movie to

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Speaker 1: Like, do they see me that old?

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Speaker 2: Well, so I've played a mom before, but to littles

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Speaker 2: to a teenager. But I was like, am I old

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Speaker 2: enough to have a sixteen year old? And my best

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Speaker 2: friend Catherine, She's like, well, I have a sixteen year old?

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I know, but like we're like, but

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Speaker 2: like you started.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's movie mom, It's Hollywood mom. Like it's different.

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Speaker 2: But there was something though when I was filming that

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, I've now aged out? Have I officially

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Speaker 2: kind of rest and I'm like and I but I

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Speaker 2: you know, it's so it was just but I think

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Speaker 2: just thought like, no, I'm the the young door right now,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not an important I.

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Speaker 1: Know, the first time that you're not the youngest person

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Speaker 1: you know, it's it's a weird feeling. But as long

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Speaker 1: as you stay young up.

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Speaker 2: Here, yeah, no, for sure, cliche. That's that's true, and

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Speaker 2: we grow and that's great that we continue to be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and as long as you're hoping that's all that.

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Speaker 2: Been right, Okay, So yeah, no, I don't beat yourself

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Speaker 2: be really tough. But even then, it's he was going

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Speaker 2: I remember he texted me one time and it was

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Speaker 2: like he showed up I'm sorry, you know, like I didn't,

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Speaker 2: and then he went to someone else in the guest

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Speaker 2: So once he knew that I was, you know, not

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Speaker 2: So when it was you know, it's it's sick.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I mean, it's just like I honestly wish

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Speaker 1: I knew and I probably could not have made a difference,

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Speaker 1: but in my mind I think I could have. I mean,

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Speaker 1: the mother figure to all these girls who didn't have

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Speaker 1: mothers there in Wilmington, North Carolina, you know, just like,

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Speaker 1: let's all get together and figure out what to do here.

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Speaker 1: And when all this came out later, I was in denial.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it happened because I thought I would

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Speaker 2: I think the piece that always frustrated me was did

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Speaker 2: did you hire me because I was a good actress?

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Speaker 2: And I think that piece kind of wrestled with me

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Speaker 2: a little bit because, yeah, you know what, you have

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Speaker 2: hired me if I was married, I know, you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe not. There's something, Oh do you want to get

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Speaker 1: You know? Sold me two stuff. I can tell you

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Speaker 1: so many stories. Take your ring off for an audition,

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, it's disgusting. But anyway, here are you. How

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Speaker 2: were you? You were married, you have kids? You were

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Speaker 2: married for how many years?

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Speaker 2: Twenty something years? And then you have how many kids?

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Speaker 1: Three girls? They're all actors.

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Speaker 2: When did you get divorced six years ago for a reason?

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Speaker 2: Or was it just like a long time it was

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Speaker 2: a long time coming. Okay, yeah, it was one of

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, can I tell you something?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So there was. I was just telling the girls. There

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Speaker 2: Just totally come on.

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Speaker 1: My entering was accidental that I saw one of your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm getting goosebumps now, and here I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you and you were talking about and you

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Speaker 1: were just an open book talking about your struggle, what

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but it made me feel so good, like

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Speaker 1: misery loves company kind of thing, but you're so beautiful

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Speaker 1: and young and vibrant, and like, if she's going through it,

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Speaker 1: it made me feel tiny bit better that I was

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Speaker 1: going through it. And seriously like that it your misery

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Speaker 2: No, I'm sorry, but I mean but I get it though,

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Speaker 2: But it was a misery.

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Speaker 1: It was that you were open about it. And there's

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Speaker 1: nothing to be ashamed of because you know, these things

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Speaker 1: happen to everybody, and let's all share the story and

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Speaker 1: we'll all feel like we're all in the same boat,

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Speaker 1: you know, like we're not perfect. No, and if anyone

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Speaker 2: What was the piece that did you think that you

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Speaker 1: Or no? No? And I was okay with that, Like

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Speaker 1: It's just like and then when you least expect it

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Speaker 1: and it met your person. So cliche, but it happened.

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Speaker 2: I just found this out. I didn't watch the Golden Bachelor. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Okay, was he I want to know the truth or

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Speaker 2: I heard her rumor that you slid into his dams.

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Speaker 1: Well that's the truth.

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Speaker 2: That's the truth, okay, And that's okay. My husband that

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Speaker 2: hates He literally hates it when I say that. He's like,

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Speaker 2: I respectfully reached out to you politely and wanted to

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Speaker 2: meet you. I was like, but you slid into my DMS,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And why is it a little bit different if

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Speaker 1: a girl does it to a guy. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 1: but maybe it makes more.

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Speaker 2: How did you see him? To begin with?

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Speaker 1: So his daughter was on the Bachelor's testing, and so

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Speaker 1: they went to their hometowns. And this is coincidentally, I

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Speaker 2: The which show? Which which Bachelor? Joey Joey? Okay, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, shoot, So I was on the couch. This is something.

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Speaker 1: This is like a tradition. Oh, like a year I

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Speaker 1: don't know, like a couple of years ago, like the

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Speaker 1: I think. And we've been watching The Bachelor forever, me

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Speaker 1: and my girls sitting on the couch like what not

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Speaker 1: to do? Like training. We call it school because I

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Speaker 1: and I said, That's what I'm talking about right there,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. Kind of forgot about it,

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Speaker 1: and then they asked him to be on the Golden Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: And like, oh, there's my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I was joking, the Golden Bachelor, the last one, the

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Speaker 2: Golden the Golden Bacherette.

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Speaker 1: I asked her to be a contestant because I guess

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Speaker 1: I wasn't the only one who noticed his smile when

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about on the show? And he was.

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Speaker 1: He was, No, there's more So all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: So angry at you right now.

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Speaker 1: And I did not I did not know. This is

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Speaker 1: And so I would watch the show with this guy

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Speaker 1: He's still on the show. She chose him, He's still

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Speaker 2: Wait, you guys were talking at this time already because

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know.

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Speaker 2: You DM him then when before he was on the show.

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Speaker 1: Literally I didn't tell you. We just didn't. We didn't talk.

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Speaker 2: What are you crazy? No, that would have been my

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Speaker 1: No? I think I knew this a woman. I think

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Speaker 1: So we just connected, you know, and he doesn't live

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Speaker 1: And then the night he got kicked off, my daughters

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, why did he get kicked off?

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Speaker 1: Because it was faith that he was going to be

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Speaker 2: Right? Is he happy he got kicked off? I'm looking

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Speaker 1: Is he happy that he got kicked off? So?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So how long are you guys? I'm dating for how.

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Speaker 1: Long he's better with? How long? Five months? Five months?

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Speaker 2: What makes us different than anything else?

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Speaker 3: Oh? You know what?

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Speaker 1: You know? You just don't know how bad you had

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Speaker 1: it until you have one thousand and I always apologize

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Speaker 2: What is one of the things that you bring to

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Speaker 1: It's hard to just accept kindness.

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Speaker 2: Now something else, give me something.

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Speaker 1: Else, something that I bring that's not good.

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Speaker 2: That he would be that you really.

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Speaker 1: It's just because that's too like Sacraine sweet, this accepting

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Speaker 2: But we'd be like, I need to work on this.

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Speaker 1: My insecurities just because I became insecure in a relationship

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Speaker 2: Does that insecurity come out in ways of insecurity?

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Speaker 1: You know, just like insecurity, you know, just tell me.

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Speaker 1: I know you do, but tell me. I know how

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Speaker 1: in so many ways, all the damn time, all the time, and.

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Speaker 2: Then you realize how it should have been the entire time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, y'all are in love? Do you want to

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Speaker 2: get married again?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: He's just giving me the eyebright raises. He's just mister

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Speaker 2: GQ in the corner over there. He's like, I got

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Speaker 2: a peek in which I would love for him.

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Speaker 1: Care, can you come here?

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Speaker 2: I'm on Mark Marketing Mark. He wants his come on,

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Speaker 2: come on in.

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Speaker 1: He would have gone through glam if he had known.

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Speaker 2: You know, did they ask you to be the Golden Bachelor?

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Speaker 5: It's an application process, the application process.

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Speaker 2: Would you have done it?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: Wow, the show wasn't for me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what piece of it was wasn't for you? What

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Speaker 2: piece wasn't What piece of it that was? Like? What? What?

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Speaker 2: Why wasn't it what you liked?

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Speaker 5: Because I already have something?

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Speaker 2: Well no, no, I know, but when you were on it?

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Speaker 5: I mean I went there.

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Speaker 4: best thing that could have happened to me at that time. Sure,

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Speaker 5: That was for me, like the experience of a lifetime.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I don't think it could ever be replicated, you know,

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Speaker 3: like I could never I don't think that could ever improve,

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Speaker 2: Have you all mingled the kids together?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: How is that?

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Speaker 1: We had Christmas? We all met in Branson, Missouri, all

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Speaker 1: possibly the best time I've ever had in my life.

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Speaker 2: Like it was.

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Speaker 1: It was so crazy, games like constant, like just like

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Speaker 5: And outdoor ping pong, pool like botchy ball like name it.

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Speaker 1: We did it as Joey, his son in law to be,

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Speaker 2: Course you were there, no, I know it's trending in the.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so he was teaching everybody and there's ping

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Speaker 2: only have I grown post my divorce, but also I

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Speaker 2: and then bringing you know, the growth into a new

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Speaker 1: So, but I do believe that you've been a great

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Speaker 1: not have been, but you have been. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: just want to hug her and thank her because someone

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Speaker 2: And you want to get married too. Yeah, I love

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Speaker 2: this stry to do it right now. I'm actually an

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Speaker 2: And are you still acting?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You still do? I wait, you just did a were

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Speaker 2: you on Lifetime?

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Speaker 1: I probably?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I just saw you in something? But yeah,

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Speaker 2: we need my.

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Speaker 1: Daughter and something. Now, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it and not the jealous type.

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Speaker 1: No him, Yeah, I think he. I haven't given him

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Speaker 2: Okay, because if you ever been with an actress before, No,

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Speaker 1: Think he might like if I like, I'm talking for you.

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Speaker 1: But and you know what, if he didn't have a

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Speaker 2: Just going to say. And I love the fact that

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Speaker 1: And so if he said, by honey, knowing that you're

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Speaker 2: Some god ever didn't care, and I'm like, you don't care,

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Speaker 2: like not even a piece of you who is Like

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Speaker 2: there's a carry.

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Speaker 5: Like but there's a little difference between something you've done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something you're doing right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I mean to see like to watch the

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Speaker 5: one Tree.

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Speaker 2: Hill, right you did you see Won Tree Hill before

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Speaker 2: she slid into your damns? Not at all. But I've

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Speaker 2: just finished you well, Okay, Alan's got to get a

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Speaker 2: talking to you because he still will not watch. I

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Speaker 2: mean I haven't either, but like he you know, but yeah,

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Speaker 5: But it's different to see it's kind of like, you know,

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Speaker 6: I would imagine that she's had relationships before we met,

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Speaker 6: you know, it's just that you don't see it right, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I would recommend not going to a set when she

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I mean and that part I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, it's I've never experienced that sure, right,

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Speaker 6: So I mean as a career, right, I would.

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Speaker 5: Never say you can't yeah, right, but I would need

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't like when that time.

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Speaker 2: Comes, right, Guys that haven't you know, And I get

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Speaker 5: A hard time with that for her if I were

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Speaker 2: Well, yes and no, because it's like if we've dated

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Speaker 2: I'm like, but I've dated actors. It's not a big

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Speaker 2: deal because we know that it's not anything. It's just yeah,

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Speaker 2: literally nothing. It's not it's not sexy, it's not intimate.

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Speaker 2: you have to be careful crossing lines and all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: So really, on camera, it's just there's so many people watching.

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Speaker 2: It's not a sexy thing. And that's what I always

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Speaker 2: try to tell my husband because it's like, it's not

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Speaker 2: what you think it is. I have zero feelings for

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Speaker 2: this person. I have zero butterfliester like nothing like, it's

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Speaker 2: it's all mechanical. Yeah, but you know, I always say,

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Speaker 2: he's like, well, you wouldn't like it if I did.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you're not an actor, so you haven't done

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Speaker 2: it a lot.

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Speaker 1: I really wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, not an actor. So I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 2: he's like, well, maybe I'll do it. I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: Like this is like that you're not an actress. I

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Speaker 2: don't understand that piece of it. But but I also

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Speaker 2: understand their insecurity. Sure, you know, going to the office

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Speaker 2: and making out with someone like, I get that. But

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Speaker 2: we'll see when it happens. But seriously, my d can

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Speaker 2: issue go get a pint.

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Speaker 1: So I would be like like, yeah, yeah, yeah, how

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Speaker 1: is work today, honey, that's okay. Yeah, we'll see, we'll

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Speaker 1: see how you act if that ever happens.

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Speaker 2: Well, stay tuned. Yeah, and thank you Mark for joining us.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you. Barb Brah'm say so glad we got

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Speaker 2: to so great. Finally do this, Let's go, Let's go

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Speaker 2: to Paris and go shopping.

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Speaker 1: Do that. Yeah, I have a list, I know what

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Speaker 1: I want to get there.

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Speaker 2: And this is just a reminder to the ladies out

471
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Speaker 2: there because I cried in my bed too when I

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Speaker 2: got divorced and I was like, no one will ever

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Speaker 2: love me. And then you finally meet the person you

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Speaker 2: love yourself and then you finally meet the person that

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Speaker 2: how you should have been treated the entire time.

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Speaker 1: And I do think this is also cliche, but you

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Speaker 1: do need to like focus on you the time for

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Speaker 1: every while. You can't just jump into something else, which

479
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Speaker 1: is what I've done in the past. So focus on

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Speaker 1: yourself and you can't lie, like you can't say, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's all about me now and then I'll meet somebody.

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Speaker 1: You just have to be unaware. You have to truly

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Speaker 1: make it happen. I want a love with yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I always wanted to leave knowing that I had

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Speaker 2: an OP and I realized and that I was like,

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Speaker 2: all right when I was leaving and I knew I

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Speaker 2: had no options, and I really that's what I was like,

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Speaker 2: all right, I have like I am doing this. I

489
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Speaker 2: have to do this myself. And figure out how to heal,

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Speaker 2: and you know, we learn. Yeah, we live and we learn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all good. It all works out in the end.

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Speaker 1: It's all good.

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Speaker 2: It does all right. Love you, Thank you, Jason, thanks

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Speaker 2: for coming up.