WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Blurry in a Hurry 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:04.640 Second date up day day. We've all heard of the 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:08.400 friend zone. Guys do not want to be put into 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:12.280 the friend zone. Well, women also have a dating label 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:16.160 that they fear. They don't want to become a weekday girl. 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:17.200 What's done? 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:19.960 Yeah, I had not heard of this before, but apparently 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:22.279 it's a thing in the dating world right now where 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:25.600 if a guy only wants to hang out Monday through Friday, 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:29.760 that means you're his safe weekday girl. He's got in 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:30.600 his back pocket. 0:00:30.720 --> 0:00:35.559 So now nights then, yeah, Friday, he's free to. 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:39.360 Use those fun weekends finding new, more intriguing women to 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:42.879 try and play with. It is and that's why Sarah's 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:45.800 emailed the show because she's worried after just one date 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.280 she has been labeled a weekday girl. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.600 Oh no, it's a date on a Tuesday. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:54.080 Sarah, Welcome to our weekday show. What is this guy's 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:56.680 name and what day did you guys hang out? 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:59.200 His name is Steve and it was a Wednesday. 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:01.800 Stay fair, you're not going to do a first day 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.120 on weekend. You don't give up a weekend for it. 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:07.520 Really, I'll do a Friday night, but will. 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:09.040 Do anything I like. You had better plans than the 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:10.000 first date on the weekend. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.760 Okay, okay, well maybe it depends on what type of 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.240 date you're doing during the weekday. You can make that 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:17.880 kind of sexy. What did you and Steve do for 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.000 your Wednesday date? 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:21.760 I'm just going to own this right up front. I 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:26.120 kind of messed up because I know I got a 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:29.400 text when I was at the gym from him saying 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:30.360 are you coming? 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.080 What? 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:31.720 No? 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:38.119 I mean almost, but no, I Jeff set. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:39.720 Up this whole thing, making it sound like he was 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:43.000 the one putting out. You didn't even remember when you 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:44.080 were supposed to go out with him? 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.680 Oh, how long did you have to hustled? 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:49.600 I hustled? I dropped everything. 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:52.520 Oh but that's great. From the gym into the date, 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:54.320 did you get a shower in? 0:01:55.320 --> 0:02:00.360 I did, like an emergency, like flash, you start his 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:01.800 sweat again as you got in your car. 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.040 I bet. I mean that's a thing like, yeah, you're 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.200 still sweating while you're sitting down at the table. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:08.680 If you're hurrying trying to get ready, you're still rushing. 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.040 Not a not a great way to start off this 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:13.359 dately and coming straight from the gym. But what did 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.040 he say when you finally got there? 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:15.600 Yeah? 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:18.000 I mean when I got there, he wasn't there, so 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:20.560 I thought that he had given up, like he was gone. 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:22.000 Yeah, yeah, I. 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:23.760 Mean it sounds like it took you a while. 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.160 You can't be mad if you leave, you know, which 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:27.200 you know, I know. 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:27.840 I wasn't. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:28.280 I wasn't. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:29.880 I mean he said he would be sitting in the window, 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:31.480 and he was not in the window. So I sent 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.680 him a text saying, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.720 Did you take off? Like I get it if you did, 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:37.560 but I'm sorry, And he was like, oh no, no 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:40.640 in the restroom, Oh oh oh, he. 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:41.160 Was still there. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:42.880 It's weird that they put the tables in the restroom 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:43.520 at this restaurant. 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.880 So did you have a moment to collect yourself before 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.959 he came out. I did. 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:52.120 I figured out which table was his. 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:54.519 Okay, just run into the bathroom and give him a hug. 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:56.080 No where he's at. 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.000 So I didn't do that, but I kind of I 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:02.960 did something. I'm very I'm like myself because all his 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.519 pictures he has glasses. He's so cute in his glasses, 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:10.200 but his glasses were on the table. Okay, And I 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.399 mean I told you I wasn't really looking my very 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.240 best because it's how I kind of ran out of 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:18.240 the gym. So I have a big handbag and I 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:19.639 just live them in. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:23.640 What wait the did you just say you stole this glasses? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.919 Why would you steal them? 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.600 It was more like borrowing because. 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.040 You took them so he could lose them, and then 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:32.519 you could be like these your or like you didn't 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:35.120 want him to like see you as well in your 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:36.560 disheveled state. 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.400 This way I could put my best fay forward without 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.120 having to have my best face on me. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:43.800 I didn't creak it too. You could see the bathroom 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.880 and bath without them, so face. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.880 What happened when he came back to the table, well, 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:49.160 you know. 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:51.720 He said hello, and it was like quick cook, and 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.480 then he had that moment of like, wait, we're are 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.520 my glasses? So we went back to check the bathroom 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.600 and he was looking around everywhere and he was asking 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.120 you to cowner, and I went so the whole wait. 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.880 Wait, he's he's spending all this time searching for them, 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.000 and the whole time you're what just sitting there. 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:10.000 Like I meann't all this time. It was like two 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:11.640 or three minutes and then he's like you know what, 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.120 I'm don't worry about the glasses later. Let's like sit 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:16.240 and enjoy our time together. So we did. We had 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:19.520 a great conversation. I mean, we get along so well. 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.560 Did he compliment your sexy blurry looks at any point 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:22.880 during that? 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:29.440 Nobody complimented my awesome personality times he's like, I didn't 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:29.840 know you were. 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:32.480 A natural blonde or brown? Yeah, whatever you are. 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:36.480 I'm so curious how you got these glasses back to 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.360 down you. They're so. 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:43.159 We wrap up our lovely cute little date. I kind 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.000 of dilly dalied on my way to my car, and 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:46.600 then I turned in his glasses. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:48.200 He left. 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:50.840 You gave him back to the employees that worked there 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:53.200 untilse he went back and like tried to find them again. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:56.000 Yeah, because he told me he gave them his number 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:56.760 in case they turned out. 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:57.520 Aren't you worried? 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.440 Like when they called that they said, oh, the person 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:02.200 you were with turned him in. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.320 I really think about that. 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:07.839 You should have held onto them and been able to 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:10.480 give them back, like kind of a Cinderella's glass slipper 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:12.640 sort of deal. Yeah, that's what I just have all 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:18.000 on the line. Drove home without glasses, and you said, 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.440 your whole goal out of this date was to not 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.599 end up a weekday girl. You wanted to get a 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:23.400 weekend date. 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.359 Yeah, so when we were wrapping up, I'd be like, 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:27.960 oh my god. I was like, you know, it would 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.000 be so great to see you this weekend, and he's like, yeah, 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:34.640 that would be awesome. Oh and well nothing happened. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.160 Maybe Alexis is onto something when he was driving away 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:41.760 he reranded somebody's car. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.479 Or maybe he's trying to call and text you but 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:45.400 he can't see the contact information on his own phone. 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:49.520 Yeah, that's totally fair. I did suit him one text 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:51.320 on Sunday just to be like, hey, hope you're having 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:53.039 a great weekend, and then I didn't want to you know, 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:54.480 you don't want to be the crazy one. So I 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:55.080 love it that. 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:58.080 It's interesting that you don't sound like guilty at all 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:59.240 about taking his glass. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.600 I mean, you really just have one moment to make 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:05.000 a first impression, and I wanted to put my best 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:05.919 foot forward. 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:09.120 Okay, and steal his personal belongings. That makes sense, so 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.960 let's try and get it. It was a borrowing Yes, 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:17.520 well let's come back. We're gonna call Steve for you. 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:20.279 We'll see if he actually did find his glasses and 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:22.039 then find out if he's willing to go out and 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.920 give you one more try on hopefully a weekend date. 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.400 We do not want you to end up a week 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:29.080 day girl. 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:30.000 Thank you. 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:34.840 Oh if you meet the whole fan coming up. Let 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.120 me do your second date update right after this second 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:43.640 date update. You gotta live your life, no regrets, and 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:48.040 our listener does not regret stealing her date's glasses off 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.719 the table, just temporarily so that she would look better 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:54.839 to him during their date. Okay, and technically worse, but 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.680 he just wouldn't be able to make her out right, 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:57.720 because it's kind of like. 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.440 A monet, you know, it's like all a mess when 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:02.640 you get up, but from far away looks fantastic beautiful. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.440 Yeah, because the thing is she'd rushed straight from the 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.560 gym to be there, so it's feeling a little bit disheveled, 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:13.160 little musky and acted on impulse. Did that actually help? 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:16.840 We don't know. It was definitely a risky move though 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:20.640 from a very sweaty woman. But she did return his 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.480 glasses to the cafe so they could return them to 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:26.480 the owner, Steve. The question is should this be brought 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:28.400 up to him if we're able to get him on 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:28.840 the phone. 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:31.160 Wait that his missing glasses are at the restaurant. 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:35.080 Know that she was the one who basically took them 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.120 and then put them. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.240 If this was all about honesty, but this is about 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:42.360 getting her a second. You're not going to date someone 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:42.800 who does that. 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:46.160 I don't know. I don't know how Sarah feels. I mean, 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.520 it's really up to her. Sarah, do you want us 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.480 to out you as the one who grabbed his glasses? 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:56.240 I think that would be like a really cute thing 0:07:56.360 --> 0:08:00.520 to maybe come up on our first anniversary or Okay, yeah, 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:00.920 in a. 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:03.000 Year, you can call us back and then we'll take 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:04.000 even longer than a year. 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.800 Maybe on his deathbed you whisper it into his ear. 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:16.160 Maybe he's like, so. 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.000 We've decided we're not going to say anything about you 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.400 taking the glasses. If you want to bring it up, 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:22.720 that's going to be your decision. 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.320 Okay, that is totally cool with me. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.440 All right, Now, let's call this guy and see if 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:39.320 he picks up the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey, 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:45.320 we're going to talk to Steve. Yes, Hey, Steve, this 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:48.160 is about a radio show that you are currently on 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:52.080 right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, Steve, 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:53.559 my hands. 0:08:53.280 --> 0:09:00.840 Out, Okay, an awkward phone call. What's going on his Steve? 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:02.760 Hey man, this is a it's a segment we do. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.880 It's called Second Date Update, and we're trying to help 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.120 one of our listeners that went on a date with 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:10.080 you to cafe recently. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.640 Those was just really strange to me. Okay, yeah, it 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:15.520 is strange. We know. 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.520 That's sorry. We heard about it's kind of a funny 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.840 date with this girl named Sarah where during it you 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:23.719 ended up losing your glasses. 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:26.559 She said that you're looking everywhere for him after you 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:27.520 got back from the bathroom. 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:33.520 Huh, Yeah, I did lose my glasses. I really I 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:35.240 can't really see that well with them. I would have 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.000 liked to been able to see if they're a little better. 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:38.720 And it was just as the strange at thing. 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:41.040 Yeah, it's kind of weird for you to leave your 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:44.120 glasses on the table if you can't see very well there. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:48.160 I mean, as someone who is like legit blind, yeah, 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:48.800 not good. 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:50.920 But I do appreciate a man that likes to take 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.760 a risk in a bathroom, so I support that. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.120 I wonder there around the journals all the time. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:01.640 But you know, bathroom stuff is side. We we are wanting 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:04.160 to know more about your actual date, Like if you 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.600 had a good time, what did you think of Sarah? 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:09.640 You're not calling her back and she just doesn't know why. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.360 I mean, I did have a good time with her. 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:14.240 I just I would have liked to be able to 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.599 see her better. I was kind of thrown off on 0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:17.080 my game. 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:20.360 And okay, but of what you could make out of her? 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.200 Did you like what you think you saw the silhouette? 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:25.240 Yeah, thet was nice. 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:32.360 That's a funny compliment. Guys, you can see. 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:32.800 Better than that. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.200 I mean, I mean she seemed nice. She seemed very nice. 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.559 I just to it was very disorienting to me, and 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:39.559 it was it was a fun date. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.880 I thought, Okay, it'd probably be hard to like concentrate 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:44.920 on the date if you're thinking about where are my glasses? 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:46.880 What did I do with them? I mean, those are expensive. 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:49.760 If you couldn't hear, well, you can't tell you. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:52.760 So maybe it wasn't even a good look at what 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:54.199 your first date could have been with her. 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:57.640 Yeah, but that's all the more reason that we want 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:00.959 to help figure out what to do about her next date, Like, 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:03.760 do you think there's a possibility that you might want 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:06.240 to see her again given another chance with glasses on. 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.600 So I mean, I mean, here's here's the awkward thing 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.480 that happened is I I left the cafe, I didn't 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:14.200 have my glasses, and I ended up getting a call 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.480 from the cafe and someone said, oh, we found your 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.480 glasses and oh that's great. Oh And so I asked 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.480 them who found in them and they told me that 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:23.920 it was the woman that I was at the cafe with. 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.840 And I was confused as to who that would be 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:30.880 because I actually talked to two women at the cafe. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.840 It wasn't just Sarah. There's also a girl before Sarah 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.080 got there. Her name was Amanda. 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:37.600 Wait, so you had another date before Sarah at the 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:38.439 same restaurant. 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:40.760 Yeah, I did. What's the big deal? 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:43.280 It just. 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:48.360 Didn't We didn't realize that. And I don't know Sarah. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.120 Risky, like what if they at the same time or 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:52.280 think she was really late? 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:56.720 Yeah, okay, I'm an adult and that scheduled two different days. 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:58.079 I didn't know that. I had to tell you everything 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:00.000 in my story. 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:01.400 How did Yeah? 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:05.000 Yeah, okay. So I asked them who turned them in 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:06.880 and they said it was the girl that you were 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:08.640 there with it, I said, well, with two girls. So 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:12.840 I called Amanda before and she said, oh, I returned 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.480 your glasses to them, and I said, oh my god, 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.160 thank you for returning them. I would be lost without Wi. 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:21.000 You call the first eight girl, not Sarah. You called Amanda. 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.080 Well, I called Amanda first because I met with her beforehand. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.600 And the other girl said she found them. 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:28.920 Yeah, she said she returned them to the cafe. And 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:31.640 I said, thank you very much, and you're really my hero, 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:35.000 and oh kind of brought us together. So I called 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:36.240 her for a second date. 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.600 Oh so, because she was the hero that found the glasses, 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.559 she got the second date in Sarah did reliable. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:45.800 So I didn't feel right about having a second date 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:49.040 with Sarah when really I had a closer connection with Amanda. 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:52.840 Because something because of them, because of Okay, there is 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.000 all kinds of wrong with this, all kinds of wrong. 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:56.640 We need to sort this out. 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:58.040 Are you ready? 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.360 Yeah, this is really uncol well because that girl Wizard 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.000 Nay Mandy or something, she's a liar. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:07.720 Okay, yeah, flat out. I'm sorry, Sarah, you sorry, That 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.240 is Sarah, the other woman, the second woman you were 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:11.960 out with. 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.040 I feel like you're getting ganged up on. You know, 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:15.679 this is really just an ambush. Here. 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:17.400 See the way that this works is we have the 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.960 woman listening on the other line to this conversation the 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:22.640 entire time, so Sarah's heard the whole thing. 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:26.840 Of course, Yeah, this is really you contacted me, so 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:28.160 you have no one to blame but yourself. 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:34.559 Really me, I don't think you really get the kind 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.080 of person this other girl is because she totally lied 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:38.559 to you. And I can prove it. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:42.440 Okay, But what do you improve it with Sarah? The second? 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:43.240 How do we do this? 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:46.680 If I have to? 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:49.320 I asked you, look, prove it, Sarah. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:52.320 I can prove it because remember you sent me the 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.800 text saying hey are you coming? And I was like, ohm, 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.439 gee there any minute. I like was dashing from the 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:00.559 gym and I was not looking my best. 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:01.560 Okay, So we're gonna do it. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:03.440 And I don't know, we just like really hit it 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:06.480 off when we were messaging, and I wanted to make 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:09.160 the best first impression I could. So when I got there, 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:13.719 I saw your glasses on the table and I may 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:15.000 have put them in my handbag. 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.000 My glasses, How dare you do that? 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.080 See? I think that she was hoping for the reaction 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.840 of how dare Amanda lied to me? 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:28.840 Barah, There's no way Amanda could have been the one 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.800 that found them when they were inside Sarah's purse. 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.920 Yeah, yeah, I'm confused why Amanda was live, But why 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:36.840 would you take my glasses and put them in your purse? 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:39.000 I think you missed that first part where she didn't 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.480 look good to impress you. 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:44.160 You stole my glasses, borrowed No, I saw. 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:45.840 That I gave them back. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.920 You have them. I don't see what the big deal is. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.080 I liked you enough that I wanted to really make 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:52.800 sure I made a really good first impression. 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.760 It's coming from a place of her liking you, I promise. 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:57.640 Yeah, I mean it's a good first impression. By me 0:14:57.720 --> 0:15:03.280 being blind not being able to see you. 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:02.200 You can't butter him up. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.320 Really, it's kind of weird because now you're having to 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:07.240 choose between either a thief or a liar when it 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.360 comes to these two women. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:11.280 Do I want a relationship based on theft or Lyne? 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.760 That's the choice you get to make here, because we'll 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:15.720 offer to send you out on a date with the 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:19.240 girl who borrowed your glasses, Sarah, who's on the phone 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:20.360 right now and keep him back. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.800 I mean, this just is too ridiculous for words. How 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.880 can I trust you with anything in front of me 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:28.360 at this point that my paraglasses trust her. 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:30.920 She's telling them you got back. 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:32.920 Yeah, Amanda's still lying. 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:33.440 Yeah. 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.040 First date, she stole your glasses. The second date, she's 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:39.600 going to steal your heart and give it to the 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:41.200 people at the front desk of that cafe. 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:44.960 This is just too strange for me. I appreciate the offers. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:47.000 Look, I don't care how strange it is for you. 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.120 It's romantic for us. So I need a yes or no? 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:52.600 Will you date Sarah? She's honest and we'll pay for 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:53.120 the date now. 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:54.200 She came from the gym. 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:56.080 That's huge, man. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.000 As long as you probably not to steal anything of 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:00.080 mine again, I guess. 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:07.160 And I will not take anything of yours, however briefly. Ever, again, 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:08.600 it's so cute. 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:10.480 You guys are gonna grow old together. Just gonna steal 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:11.200 your hearing aids. 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.120 It sounds like we're going to send you guys out 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:16.800 on another date. 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:18.880 Wait, what about you're gonna dump Amanda? Though? 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:22.760 Right to have a conversation with her about lying. 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:29.000 Not dumper, just Okay, Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:31.360 We never really got back to this, but it is 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.640 interesting that the guy went on two dates with two 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.000 different women in the same day at the same place. 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:41.080 Well, I mean he didn't think it was too interesting. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:44.000 he was taking it more like business deals, you know. 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:45.840 Yeah, I mean, no, wonder the people at the coffee 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:48.560 shop weren't sure who turned in his glasses because most 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:52.640 of their customers are there to date him. So take 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.880 your pick. Like I was dating him too. I thought 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:56.960 he was here for me. 0:16:56.960 --> 0:17:00.880 Was there was so much gossip at the restaurant about it. 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:06.119 He's got a guy who hangs out for two hours 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:07.080 at the shop. 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:10.440 I think he's definitely gonna call that first girl, Amanda, 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:12.320 But I don't think he's actually gonna have a long 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.160 talk with her about honesty. 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:15.720 No, you don't think so. You don't think that's what 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:17.080 he's looking for in a relationship. 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:18.680 No, I think he's just gonna date. 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:21.199 You're the saying a guy who schedules two dates for 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:23.360 one night at the same place isn't all about honesty. 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:24.919 Weird, right, Yeah, I don't know. 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:26.640