Speaker 1: Second date up day day. We've all heard of the
Speaker 1: friend zone. Guys do not want to be put into
Speaker 1: the friend zone. Well, women also have a dating label
Speaker 1: that they fear. They don't want to become a weekday girl.
Speaker 2: What's done?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had not heard of this before, but apparently
Speaker 1: it's a thing in the dating world right now where
Speaker 1: if a guy only wants to hang out Monday through Friday,
Speaker 1: that means you're his safe weekday girl. He's got in
Speaker 1: his back pocket.
Speaker 2: So now nights then, yeah, Friday, he's free to.
Speaker 1: Use those fun weekends finding new, more intriguing women to
Speaker 1: try and play with. It is and that's why Sarah's
Speaker 1: emailed the show because she's worried after just one date
Speaker 1: she has been labeled a weekday girl.
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's a date on a Tuesday.
Speaker 1: Sarah, Welcome to our weekday show. What is this guy's
Speaker 1: name and what day did you guys hang out?
Speaker 3: His name is Steve and it was a Wednesday.
Speaker 2: Stay fair, you're not going to do a first day
Speaker 2: on weekend. You don't give up a weekend for it.
Speaker 1: Really, I'll do a Friday night, but will.
Speaker 2: Do anything I like. You had better plans than the
Speaker 2: first date on the weekend.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well maybe it depends on what type of
Speaker 1: date you're doing during the weekday. You can make that
Speaker 1: kind of sexy. What did you and Steve do for
Speaker 1: your Wednesday date?
Speaker 3: I'm just going to own this right up front. I
Speaker 3: kind of messed up because I know I got a
Speaker 3: text when I was at the gym from him saying
Speaker 3: are you coming?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: I mean almost, but no, I Jeff set.
Speaker 2: Up this whole thing, making it sound like he was
Speaker 2: the one putting out. You didn't even remember when you
Speaker 2: were supposed to go out with him?
Speaker 1: Oh, how long did you have to hustled?
Speaker 3: I hustled? I dropped everything.
Speaker 1: Oh but that's great. From the gym into the date,
Speaker 1: did you get a shower in?
Speaker 3: I did, like an emergency, like flash, you start his
Speaker 3: sweat again as you got in your car.
Speaker 2: I bet. I mean that's a thing like, yeah, you're
Speaker 2: still sweating while you're sitting down at the table.
Speaker 1: If you're hurrying trying to get ready, you're still rushing.
Speaker 1: Not a not a great way to start off this
Speaker 1: dately and coming straight from the gym. But what did
Speaker 1: he say when you finally got there?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean when I got there, he wasn't there, so
Speaker 3: I thought that he had given up, like he was gone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Mean it sounds like it took you a while.
Speaker 1: You can't be mad if you leave, you know, which
Speaker 1: you know, I know.
Speaker 3: I wasn't.
Speaker 4: I wasn't.
Speaker 3: I mean he said he would be sitting in the window,
Speaker 3: and he was not in the window. So I sent
Speaker 3: him a text saying, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: Did you take off? Like I get it if you did,
Speaker 3: but I'm sorry, And he was like, oh no, no
Speaker 3: in the restroom, Oh oh oh, he.
Speaker 2: Was still there.
Speaker 1: It's weird that they put the tables in the restroom
Speaker 1: at this restaurant.
Speaker 2: So did you have a moment to collect yourself before
Speaker 2: he came out. I did.
Speaker 3: I figured out which table was his.
Speaker 1: Okay, just run into the bathroom and give him a hug.
Speaker 1: No where he's at.
Speaker 3: So I didn't do that, but I kind of I
Speaker 3: did something. I'm very I'm like myself because all his
Speaker 3: pictures he has glasses. He's so cute in his glasses,
Speaker 3: but his glasses were on the table. Okay, And I
Speaker 3: mean I told you I wasn't really looking my very
Speaker 3: best because it's how I kind of ran out of
Speaker 3: the gym. So I have a big handbag and I
Speaker 3: just live them in.
Speaker 2: What wait the did you just say you stole this glasses?
Speaker 2: Why would you steal them?
Speaker 3: It was more like borrowing because.
Speaker 1: You took them so he could lose them, and then
Speaker 1: you could be like these your or like you didn't
Speaker 1: want him to like see you as well in your
Speaker 1: disheveled state.
Speaker 3: This way I could put my best fay forward without
Speaker 3: having to have my best face on me.
Speaker 2: I didn't creak it too. You could see the bathroom
Speaker 2: and bath without them, so face.
Speaker 1: What happened when he came back to the table, well,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: He said hello, and it was like quick cook, and
Speaker 3: then he had that moment of like, wait, we're are
Speaker 3: my glasses? So we went back to check the bathroom
Speaker 3: and he was looking around everywhere and he was asking
Speaker 3: you to cowner, and I went so the whole wait.
Speaker 2: Wait, he's he's spending all this time searching for them,
Speaker 2: and the whole time you're what just sitting there.
Speaker 3: Like I meann't all this time. It was like two
Speaker 3: or three minutes and then he's like you know what,
Speaker 3: I'm don't worry about the glasses later. Let's like sit
Speaker 3: and enjoy our time together. So we did. We had
Speaker 3: a great conversation. I mean, we get along so well.
Speaker 1: Did he compliment your sexy blurry looks at any point
Speaker 1: during that?
Speaker 3: Nobody complimented my awesome personality times he's like, I didn't
Speaker 3: know you were.
Speaker 1: A natural blonde or brown? Yeah, whatever you are.
Speaker 2: I'm so curious how you got these glasses back to
Speaker 2: down you. They're so.
Speaker 3: We wrap up our lovely cute little date. I kind
Speaker 3: of dilly dalied on my way to my car, and
Speaker 3: then I turned in his glasses.
Speaker 4: He left.
Speaker 1: You gave him back to the employees that worked there
Speaker 1: untilse he went back and like tried to find them again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he told me he gave them his number
Speaker 3: in case they turned out.
Speaker 1: Aren't you worried?
Speaker 2: Like when they called that they said, oh, the person
Speaker 2: you were with turned him in.
Speaker 3: I really think about that.
Speaker 1: You should have held onto them and been able to
Speaker 1: give them back, like kind of a Cinderella's glass slipper
Speaker 1: sort of deal. Yeah, that's what I just have all
Speaker 1: on the line. Drove home without glasses, and you said,
Speaker 1: your whole goal out of this date was to not
Speaker 1: end up a weekday girl. You wanted to get a
Speaker 1: weekend date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so when we were wrapping up, I'd be like,
Speaker 3: oh my god. I was like, you know, it would
Speaker 3: be so great to see you this weekend, and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: that would be awesome. Oh and well nothing happened.
Speaker 2: Maybe Alexis is onto something when he was driving away
Speaker 2: he reranded somebody's car.
Speaker 1: Or maybe he's trying to call and text you but
Speaker 1: he can't see the contact information on his own phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's totally fair. I did suit him one text
Speaker 3: on Sunday just to be like, hey, hope you're having
Speaker 3: a great weekend, and then I didn't want to you know,
Speaker 3: you don't want to be the crazy one. So I
Speaker 3: love it that.
Speaker 2: It's interesting that you don't sound like guilty at all
Speaker 2: about taking his glass.
Speaker 3: I mean, you really just have one moment to make
Speaker 3: a first impression, and I wanted to put my best
Speaker 3: foot forward.
Speaker 1: Okay, and steal his personal belongings. That makes sense, so
Speaker 1: let's try and get it. It was a borrowing Yes,
Speaker 1: well let's come back. We're gonna call Steve for you.
Speaker 1: We'll see if he actually did find his glasses and
Speaker 1: then find out if he's willing to go out and
Speaker 1: give you one more try on hopefully a weekend date.
Speaker 1: We do not want you to end up a week
Speaker 1: day girl.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Oh if you meet the whole fan coming up. Let
Speaker 1: me do your second date update right after this second
Speaker 1: date update. You gotta live your life, no regrets, and
Speaker 1: our listener does not regret stealing her date's glasses off
Speaker 1: the table, just temporarily so that she would look better
Speaker 1: to him during their date. Okay, and technically worse, but
Speaker 1: he just wouldn't be able to make her out right,
Speaker 1: because it's kind of like.
Speaker 2: A monet, you know, it's like all a mess when
Speaker 2: you get up, but from far away looks fantastic beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because the thing is she'd rushed straight from the
Speaker 1: gym to be there, so it's feeling a little bit disheveled,
Speaker 1: little musky and acted on impulse. Did that actually help?
Speaker 1: We don't know. It was definitely a risky move though
Speaker 1: from a very sweaty woman. But she did return his
Speaker 1: glasses to the cafe so they could return them to
Speaker 1: the owner, Steve. The question is should this be brought
Speaker 1: up to him if we're able to get him on
Speaker 1: the phone.
Speaker 2: Wait that his missing glasses are at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Know that she was the one who basically took them
Speaker 1: and then put them.
Speaker 2: If this was all about honesty, but this is about
Speaker 2: getting her a second. You're not going to date someone
Speaker 2: who does that.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how Sarah feels. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's really up to her. Sarah, do you want us
Speaker 1: to out you as the one who grabbed his glasses?
Speaker 3: I think that would be like a really cute thing
Speaker 3: to maybe come up on our first anniversary or Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: in a.
Speaker 2: Year, you can call us back and then we'll take
Speaker 2: even longer than a year.
Speaker 1: Maybe on his deathbed you whisper it into his ear.
Speaker 2: Maybe he's like, so.
Speaker 1: We've decided we're not going to say anything about you
Speaker 1: taking the glasses. If you want to bring it up,
Speaker 1: that's going to be your decision.
Speaker 3: Okay, that is totally cool with me.
Speaker 1: All right, Now, let's call this guy and see if
Speaker 1: he picks up the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: we're going to talk to Steve. Yes, Hey, Steve, this
Speaker 1: is about a radio show that you are currently on
Speaker 1: right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, Steve,
Speaker 1: my hands.
Speaker 2: Out, Okay, an awkward phone call. What's going on his Steve?
Speaker 1: Hey man, this is a it's a segment we do.
Speaker 1: It's called Second Date Update, and we're trying to help
Speaker 1: one of our listeners that went on a date with
Speaker 1: you to cafe recently.
Speaker 4: Those was just really strange to me. Okay, yeah, it
Speaker 4: is strange. We know.
Speaker 1: That's sorry. We heard about it's kind of a funny
Speaker 1: date with this girl named Sarah where during it you
Speaker 1: ended up losing your glasses.
Speaker 2: She said that you're looking everywhere for him after you
Speaker 2: got back from the bathroom.
Speaker 4: Huh, Yeah, I did lose my glasses. I really I
Speaker 4: can't really see that well with them. I would have
Speaker 4: liked to been able to see if they're a little better.
Speaker 4: And it was just as the strange at thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of weird for you to leave your
Speaker 2: glasses on the table if you can't see very well there.
Speaker 2: I mean, as someone who is like legit blind, yeah,
Speaker 2: not good.
Speaker 1: But I do appreciate a man that likes to take
Speaker 1: a risk in a bathroom, so I support that.
Speaker 2: I wonder there around the journals all the time.
Speaker 1: But you know, bathroom stuff is side. We we are wanting
Speaker 1: to know more about your actual date, Like if you
Speaker 1: had a good time, what did you think of Sarah?
Speaker 2: You're not calling her back and she just doesn't know why.
Speaker 4: I mean, I did have a good time with her.
Speaker 4: I just I would have liked to be able to
Speaker 4: see her better. I was kind of thrown off on
Speaker 4: my game.
Speaker 1: And okay, but of what you could make out of her?
Speaker 1: Did you like what you think you saw the silhouette?
Speaker 4: Yeah, thet was nice.
Speaker 1: That's a funny compliment. Guys, you can see.
Speaker 2: Better than that.
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean she seemed nice. She seemed very nice.
Speaker 4: I just to it was very disorienting to me, and
Speaker 4: it was it was a fun date.
Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, it'd probably be hard to like concentrate
Speaker 2: on the date if you're thinking about where are my glasses?
Speaker 2: What did I do with them? I mean, those are expensive.
Speaker 1: If you couldn't hear, well, you can't tell you.
Speaker 2: So maybe it wasn't even a good look at what
Speaker 2: your first date could have been with her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's all the more reason that we want
Speaker 1: to help figure out what to do about her next date, Like,
Speaker 1: do you think there's a possibility that you might want
Speaker 1: to see her again given another chance with glasses on.
Speaker 4: So I mean, I mean, here's here's the awkward thing
Speaker 4: that happened is I I left the cafe, I didn't
Speaker 4: have my glasses, and I ended up getting a call
Speaker 4: from the cafe and someone said, oh, we found your
Speaker 4: glasses and oh that's great. Oh And so I asked
Speaker 4: them who found in them and they told me that
Speaker 4: it was the woman that I was at the cafe with.
Speaker 4: And I was confused as to who that would be
Speaker 4: because I actually talked to two women at the cafe.
Speaker 4: It wasn't just Sarah. There's also a girl before Sarah
Speaker 4: got there. Her name was Amanda.
Speaker 2: Wait, so you had another date before Sarah at the
Speaker 2: same restaurant.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did. What's the big deal?
Speaker 2: It just.
Speaker 1: Didn't We didn't realize that. And I don't know Sarah.
Speaker 2: Risky, like what if they at the same time or
Speaker 2: think she was really late?
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I'm an adult and that scheduled two different days.
Speaker 4: I didn't know that. I had to tell you everything
Speaker 4: in my story.
Speaker 1: How did Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. So I asked them who turned them in
Speaker 4: and they said it was the girl that you were
Speaker 4: there with it, I said, well, with two girls. So
Speaker 4: I called Amanda before and she said, oh, I returned
Speaker 4: your glasses to them, and I said, oh my god,
Speaker 4: thank you for returning them. I would be lost without Wi.
Speaker 2: You call the first eight girl, not Sarah. You called Amanda.
Speaker 4: Well, I called Amanda first because I met with her beforehand.
Speaker 1: And the other girl said she found them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she said she returned them to the cafe. And
Speaker 4: I said, thank you very much, and you're really my hero,
Speaker 4: and oh kind of brought us together. So I called
Speaker 4: her for a second date.
Speaker 2: Oh so, because she was the hero that found the glasses,
Speaker 2: she got the second date in Sarah did reliable.
Speaker 4: So I didn't feel right about having a second date
Speaker 4: with Sarah when really I had a closer connection with Amanda.
Speaker 3: Because something because of them, because of Okay, there is
Speaker 3: all kinds of wrong with this, all kinds of wrong.
Speaker 3: We need to sort this out.
Speaker 2: Are you ready?
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is really uncol well because that girl Wizard
Speaker 3: Nay Mandy or something, she's a liar.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, flat out. I'm sorry, Sarah, you sorry, That
Speaker 1: is Sarah, the other woman, the second woman you were
Speaker 1: out with.
Speaker 4: I feel like you're getting ganged up on. You know,
Speaker 4: this is really just an ambush. Here.
Speaker 1: See the way that this works is we have the
Speaker 1: woman listening on the other line to this conversation the
Speaker 1: entire time, so Sarah's heard the whole thing.
Speaker 4: Of course, Yeah, this is really you contacted me, so
Speaker 4: you have no one to blame but yourself.
Speaker 3: Really me, I don't think you really get the kind
Speaker 3: of person this other girl is because she totally lied
Speaker 3: to you. And I can prove it.
Speaker 2: Okay, But what do you improve it with Sarah? The second?
Speaker 1: How do we do this?
Speaker 3: If I have to?
Speaker 4: I asked you, look, prove it, Sarah.
Speaker 3: I can prove it because remember you sent me the
Speaker 3: text saying hey are you coming? And I was like, ohm,
Speaker 3: gee there any minute. I like was dashing from the
Speaker 3: gym and I was not looking my best.
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna do it.
Speaker 3: And I don't know, we just like really hit it
Speaker 3: off when we were messaging, and I wanted to make
Speaker 3: the best first impression I could. So when I got there,
Speaker 3: I saw your glasses on the table and I may
Speaker 3: have put them in my handbag.
Speaker 4: My glasses, How dare you do that?
Speaker 2: See? I think that she was hoping for the reaction
Speaker 2: of how dare Amanda lied to me?
Speaker 1: Barah, There's no way Amanda could have been the one
Speaker 1: that found them when they were inside Sarah's purse.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm confused why Amanda was live, But why
Speaker 4: would you take my glasses and put them in your purse?
Speaker 2: I think you missed that first part where she didn't
Speaker 2: look good to impress you.
Speaker 4: You stole my glasses, borrowed No, I saw.
Speaker 2: That I gave them back.
Speaker 3: You have them. I don't see what the big deal is.
Speaker 3: I liked you enough that I wanted to really make
Speaker 3: sure I made a really good first impression.
Speaker 1: It's coming from a place of her liking you, I promise.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's a good first impression. By me
Speaker 4: being blind not being able to see you.
Speaker 1: You can't butter him up.
Speaker 2: Really, it's kind of weird because now you're having to
Speaker 2: choose between either a thief or a liar when it
Speaker 2: comes to these two women.
Speaker 4: Do I want a relationship based on theft or Lyne?
Speaker 1: That's the choice you get to make here, because we'll
Speaker 1: offer to send you out on a date with the
Speaker 1: girl who borrowed your glasses, Sarah, who's on the phone
Speaker 1: right now and keep him back.
Speaker 4: I mean, this just is too ridiculous for words. How
Speaker 4: can I trust you with anything in front of me
Speaker 4: at this point that my paraglasses trust her.
Speaker 1: She's telling them you got back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Amanda's still lying.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: First date, she stole your glasses. The second date, she's
Speaker 1: going to steal your heart and give it to the
Speaker 1: people at the front desk of that cafe.
Speaker 4: This is just too strange for me. I appreciate the offers.
Speaker 1: Look, I don't care how strange it is for you.
Speaker 1: It's romantic for us. So I need a yes or no?
Speaker 1: Will you date Sarah? She's honest and we'll pay for
Speaker 1: the date now.
Speaker 2: She came from the gym.
Speaker 1: That's huge, man.
Speaker 4: As long as you probably not to steal anything of
Speaker 4: mine again, I guess.
Speaker 3: And I will not take anything of yours, however briefly. Ever, again,
Speaker 3: it's so cute.
Speaker 2: You guys are gonna grow old together. Just gonna steal
Speaker 2: your hearing aids.
Speaker 1: It sounds like we're going to send you guys out
Speaker 1: on another date.
Speaker 2: Wait, what about you're gonna dump Amanda? Though?
Speaker 4: Right to have a conversation with her about lying.
Speaker 2: Not dumper, just Okay, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: We never really got back to this, but it is
Speaker 1: interesting that the guy went on two dates with two
Speaker 1: different women in the same day at the same place.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean he didn't think it was too interesting. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: he was taking it more like business deals, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, no, wonder the people at the coffee
Speaker 1: shop weren't sure who turned in his glasses because most
Speaker 1: of their customers are there to date him. So take
Speaker 1: your pick. Like I was dating him too. I thought
Speaker 1: he was here for me.
Speaker 2: Was there was so much gossip at the restaurant about it.
Speaker 2: He's got a guy who hangs out for two hours
Speaker 2: at the shop.
Speaker 1: I think he's definitely gonna call that first girl, Amanda,
Speaker 1: But I don't think he's actually gonna have a long
Speaker 1: talk with her about honesty.
Speaker 2: No, you don't think so. You don't think that's what
Speaker 2: he's looking for in a relationship.
Speaker 1: No, I think he's just gonna date.
Speaker 2: You're the saying a guy who schedules two dates for
Speaker 2: one night at the same place isn't all about honesty.
Speaker 1: Weird, right, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's a pretty big assumption.
Speaker 1: Probably gonna end up dating Sarah too. He's gonna get
Speaker 1: both women. Yeah, him, he'll get a third somehow. Yeah.
Speaker 1: He's just good at what he does.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
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