1 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 1: Transmitting this good. 2 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to Wednesday Show Morning Studio Mine. Okay, so 3 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: we're going to start with an ethics question, and it's 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 2: just it's Eddie who had the ethics question. 5 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 3: So what what were you asked to do? Okay? 6 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 4: So, when my kid plays basketball, uh, sometimes a parent 7 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 4: keeps the stats. 8 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 3: So you're asked to sit at the score. 9 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 4: Table, and you you know, you're like, oh, number four 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 4: scored two points there, you write it down. 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 3: Ooh, foul on number fourteen, You write that down. 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 5: GiB me White checking your head because I already know 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 5: where this is going. And if he's not to ask 14 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 5: if you like fludge things so that your kid looks 15 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 5: better your kid's team wins. The answer is no, you can. 16 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 2: Winning would be tough, and yes, it's wrong to change 17 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 2: the score would be tough, and you're not exactly right 18 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: on that theory. 19 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, well only sort of go ahead. Okay. 20 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 4: So part of it is when the team gets seven fouls, 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 4: the other team is in the bonus, which means they 22 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 4: shoot free throws. Well, it's towards the end of the 23 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 4: game and my son's team was down ten points. They 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 4: had exceeded their limit of fouls, but only I had 25 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 4: the stats, so in order for them to even have 26 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 4: a chance at a comeback, I had to keep my 27 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 4: mouth shut. Normally the stat keeper would be like, hey, 28 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 4: they got seven fouls. 29 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: Other other team shoots free throws. But I didn't say anything. 30 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: So I don't think it's a question of right or 31 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: wrong because the wrong. 32 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but I just didn't say anything. And really 33 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 3: it's not my job to tell. 34 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: So the ref is supposed to know. 35 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, not really. The ref doesn't ever, doesn't keep a 36 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: foul counter. 37 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 4: Sometimes the ref would look back at me and be like, hey, 38 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 4: how many fowls is that? And then I would tell them, 39 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 4: But the ref never looked back at me, so. 40 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: He must have thought you were in the clear. They 41 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: were in the clear. 42 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 6: At some point you had to say there were six, 43 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 6: and the ref should have known the next one is 44 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 6: in the bonus. 45 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 3: At some point. They never asked you anything. They never 46 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 3: asked me a thing, So it's ever it's not. 47 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: A right or wrong question. Okay, so it's wrong. I 48 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: think that is. That's Eddie's job to let them know. 49 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: But would you have done it, like, let's do that, 50 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: because I think I was If it were me, I 51 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: would not have said anything. 52 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: I mean, if there was any chance of them coming 53 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: back to win the game, I had to keep my 54 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 3: mouth shut. 55 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 2: I agree, I don't agree that it's right, but the 56 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: question is better than it. I'm not better than it. 57 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 5: Is my point right, But if it was reverse and 58 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 5: you spoke up and it was going to benefit your 59 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 5: son team, would you have said something? 60 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: Of course, of course, right right. 61 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: I thought it wasn't your job to say anything, but 62 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: it is. 63 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 3: At that point. 64 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: So mostly it's not ethics of right or wrong, it's 65 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: ethics up do we have them right? And in this situation, 66 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: I don't feel like any of us do. I think 67 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: we all would have done what you did. Man, we 68 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 2: would do crazy things for our kids. I love our kids. 69 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 6: I got no problem with it. It's like the ball 70 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,119 Speaker 6: goes out of bounds. You know it's off your team. 71 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 6: You're not gonna be like, hey, ref, that was definitely 72 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 6: all us our ball. 73 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: The ball was out. The ball was out, like the ref. 74 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 6: Calls it for you, even though you know you knocked 75 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 6: out of bounds. You're not going to tell the ref, 76 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 6: oh actually knocked it out. 77 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: You're competing though you're not the stack keeper, So that 78 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: would be a bit. 79 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 5: Different, I know, but I'm just saying it's still kind 80 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 5: of a similar example of like if you were the 81 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 5: like you're the parent, you're the line judge, and it's out, 82 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 5: but you're like, what's something that the sure the ref 83 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 5: doesn't come to you for your exact opinion, but you 84 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 5: know it was out. 85 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: Shouldn't you say it was out? 86 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 2: You're the line, you're the line judge, and you're supposed 87 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: to speak up. You speak up unless it's your kid, 88 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 2: then you speak a littless if it's against them. 89 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 4: Right, But I was just the stack guy and no 90 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 4: one asked me you're the stack guy. 91 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 2: Didn't want win, No, they didn't come back anyway except 92 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 2: for your integrity and a human Yeah, I know that's 93 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 2: not right, Eddie. Okay, I won't do that, but we're 94 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: not gonna act like we're better than that, all right? 95 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 7: Anonymous Anonymous bar. There's a question. 96 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: To be because, Hello, Bobby Bones, I have a friend 97 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: who's about to make a horrible life choice and I 98 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: need to know how I can talk him out of it. 99 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: He's dead set on getting a tattoo that he thinks 100 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: is just hilarious. He wants one female leg going from 101 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: his armpit to his arm another female leg will go 102 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: down his side. 103 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: Oh no, the armpit. Oh that's a bad idea. 104 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: Okay, he thinks it's brilliant and he's ready to fork 105 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 2: out a bunch of money to make sure it's done right. 106 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 3: There's no right way to do this tattoo. What can 107 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: I say. 108 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: For this? 109 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: Dude? Put into perspective? Do you understand what's happening? 110 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: I do. 111 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that the bad body part for kids listening 112 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: would be the armpit, right, correct? A sign trying to 113 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: be a good friend. You're not going to talk him 114 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 2: out of this. This is going to be a terrible decision. 115 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 2: We agree with you. You're not going to talk him 116 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 2: out of it. There's really nothing you can say because 117 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm sure he thinks it's so funny that it's going 118 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 2: to be way funnier than any sensible conversation you have 119 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: with him. But what's gonna happen is he's gonna have 120 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: to get it removed at some point. 121 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: For sure, some of it, especially if he's single. Anyone 122 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: will get with anybody. 123 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, this this is not one of those situations, because 124 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: to commit to something that's horrible, you're committed already in 125 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: your mind. There's no there's no turning bag. Nothing's going 126 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 2: to stop him. 127 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: Now, how do you even think of that? 128 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 8: Right? 129 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 2: I'm sure you saw something on the internet. People will 130 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 2: sometimes do stuff. 131 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: With their belly button. 132 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: What do they do? 133 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: They can be a butthole? 134 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: No, they do that. 135 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 2: They do all kinds of why why amy you're asking, 136 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: I didn't get it done. Guys are stupid and they 137 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: think stupid stuff's funny. 138 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 5: Okay, Well, then tattoo artists in general should be like, no, 139 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna do that. 140 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: I think it was hilarious. I'll be like, it's like 141 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: a picture. I said, look at this guy's getting done. 142 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: It is a terrible idea. You can play him this 143 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 2: this clip here. Hey, buddy, it is a terrible idea. 144 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: I know you think it's funny. It's not gonna be 145 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: funny in five years. It's really not gonna be funny. 146 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 3: In ten it might. 147 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: It may not be funny in two when you have 148 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: to get some of it removed. 149 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 3: But go ahead. We learn the most when we mess up, 150 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 3: and man, is this a mess up. 151 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 5: A temporary solution would be to draw that out with 152 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 5: a sharpie and just live with and for a little 153 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 5: bit of that. 154 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 3: Amen. A bad decision, that's all we have, so bad? 155 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 3: All right, close it up. Here's a voicemail from yesterday 156 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 3: morning Studio. 157 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 9: I'm just kind of curious, are we sure this move 158 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 9: Dney Studio is the greatest idea? 159 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 6: You know? 160 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 10: Just office drama with eggshell's off the balcony launch with 161 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 10: other people heavy complaining about getting the van. 162 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: Just kind of seems like the. 163 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 8: Group is ready to beat each other up to. 164 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 11: Enjoyed the show. 165 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 3: And I mean, I'm here for it, but I just 166 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 3: kind of want to check in, make sure. 167 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 8: Everybody's doing all right, Madia. Everybody does need a week off. 168 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 2: I agree that things have been a little tense up 169 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: here because there's been a lot of new and a 170 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 2: lot of learning. 171 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: Eddie's had a whole thing, a whole new system to learn. 172 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: Technology wise, I'm like hitting curves, driving the parking garage. 173 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 2: People are throwing, eddies are throwing It's all Eddie basically 174 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: pretty much. 175 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 3: He's throwing eggs shells off the top. 176 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 7: Yeah. 177 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 2: No, it's definitely been for the air condition was off. 178 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 2: Excuse me, there were no vents in the room for 179 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 2: the first two weeks. But we're getting there. It's it's 180 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 2: getting a little better. But I appreciate. How about that 181 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 2: week off them? Yeah, yeah, you'll get that. I'd love 182 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 2: for somebody to stay a week off and we just 183 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 2: stay working. 184 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, all of that. 185 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: No, no, that would be that's my week off if 186 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: some of you guys just stay home. Okay, yeah, no, 187 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: you hate I. 188 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 3: Love it here. 189 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: No, you're clear, I love I love my new debt. 190 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 3: Now you're mean you're clean, you mean we're clean a 191 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 3: pile of stories. 192 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 5: So if you have an important presentation coming up, or 193 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:27,559 Speaker 5: you're going to be in front of a lot of people, 194 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 5: which maybe you do at school or work or whatever 195 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 5: you have going on, stay away from ice water. 196 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so the old adage of don't do ice water. 197 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 2: It restricts a lot of stuff. You know this, Yeah, 198 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: I mean thinking about cold anything you're getting to pull 199 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: your cold. 200 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 3: You don't be naked after if your dude. 201 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 9: You know why. 202 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: It restricts Oh, any muscle, Yeah, cold restricts anything anything muscular. 203 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: Oh. 204 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 5: I thought it would stimulate you and you are more 205 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 5: vibrant in front of the people. But a study found 206 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 5: that drinking ice cold water before an important event can 207 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 5: decrease your physical or mental performance as much as fifteen 208 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 5: percent because your body has to use extra energy to 209 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 5: warm you up, and that's less energy for your brain. 210 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: So it's better to drink room to mature water. 211 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: I mean that. 212 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: Sounds like a lot deeper than I've ever heard. I 213 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 2: don't know about fifteen percent where they get those Cockamamie's stats. 214 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 2: But now, if you drink anything cold, even if you 215 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: get in cold water, like you tighten up yew, yeah, 216 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: or a cold studio. 217 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:21,559 Speaker 6: Yeah. 218 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 5: And Iowa based grocery store chain, you know, high V 219 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 5: they announced that they're getting rid of self checkout machines 220 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 5: totally at a bunch of locations, and maybe other stores 221 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 5: will follow suits. They said that they're doing it to 222 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 5: promote more face to face interaction with people. 223 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 2: I don't think they should get rid of self checkout machines. 224 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: I think people should just get smart enough to use them. 225 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: You don't need a whole store full of them. But yeah, 226 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: let's not blame human ignorance. 227 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: No, they want face to face interaction. 228 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 3: That means that people go in there can't figure them out. 229 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 1: Is that yes, of course, that's that's what you interpret 230 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: I can't. 231 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 2: Figure it out half the time. I should get better 232 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: at this. If I got fruit, I'm screwed. Although I 233 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: don't go to the grocery that often. But if I 234 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: got anything that doesn't have a big fat bar code 235 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: on it and I can't find it immediately, the bar 236 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: code is like bent and I got to like straighten 237 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: out the bar code. Yeah, that's just because we're idiots. 238 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: They should also do a better job at labeling them. 239 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 2: But no, I'm all for efficiency. So they're cutting that 240 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: because it's not as efficient. Don't act like they're doing 241 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: that just because they want people to hang out with 242 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: each other. 243 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 5: No, it says we want to provide better customer service 244 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 5: experience with face to face people. This is what they 245 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 5: had pre COVID and they want more of that. We 246 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 5: need that interaction telling you. 247 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 2: If they were making a bunch of money off so 248 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 2: check out, they would go back to that. But people 249 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 2: can't use it. 250 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 3: Doki. 251 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 5: All right, If you could win a VIP suite to 252 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 5: a concert for fourteen people. 253 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 3: Who we don't have fourteen friends, Oh we'll find them. 254 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: Trust me. 255 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 5: If you one with this guy one, you would have 256 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 5: no problems for the suite because there's this construction worker 257 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 5: in Vancouver. He bought a scratch off lottery ticket for 258 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 5: a game called Concert and a Lifetime and now he 259 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 5: gets to take his whole family in a suite to 260 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 5: Taylor Swift. Here he is talking about it. 261 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 8: He didn't believe it in the beginning. I had my 262 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 8: roommate double check to take it for me. It'll be 263 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 8: a fun, fun experience most definitely. It is called Concert 264 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 8: of a Lifetime for a reason, so I might as 265 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 8: well make that up. And you know, for somebody special. 266 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 2: Okay, if I scratch a thing and it's like you 267 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: won the grand prize like millions, Oh, we're all gonna Taylor. 268 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 3: Okay, that's cool. 269 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 7: But I mean I will be like, oh wow. 270 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: Well I haven't gotten Just the coolest part. 271 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 5: He is setting aside four of the tickets and giving 272 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 5: them to the Make a Wish Foundation. So it's going 273 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 5: to be him, ten of his people, and then four 274 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 5: to make a Wish. 275 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: And he also won twenty five thousand dollars cash. 276 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 3: Oh okay, now we're talking. That's okay, we're talking. Okay, 277 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: that's good. 278 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm Amy. That's my file. 279 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 2: That was Amy's pile of stories. 280 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 7: It's time for the good news. 281 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 3: Amy. 282 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: So there's this woman Lynn's story. 283 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 5: She's retired and she is known in Fort Worth, Texas 284 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 5: for offering free rides to neighbors that need write to 285 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 5: the hospital for cancer treatment, or they need a ride 286 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 5: to work if they don't. 287 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: Have a car or her car is aging. You know, 288 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: gas prices are high. And this guy, David. 289 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 5: Kelleher, he owns David Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ramp in Philadelphia. 290 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: He heard about her story and he. 291 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 5: Decided, Okay, I got to hook this girl up. What 292 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 5: he did, though, was he sort of tricked her and said, hey, 293 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 5: bring your car in to Fort Worth. We're going to 294 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 5: have it worked on, and he arranged to have a 295 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 5: new car given to her as like a surprise when 296 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 5: she got there. 297 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 2: So he paid for the car in Texas and they 298 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 2: gave it to her when she took it in there. 299 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, twenty twenty four brand new Jeep Compass. 300 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:37,959 Speaker 2: I love a good trick that turns into a good 301 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 2: like I do. I think that's the funniest when trick's 302 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 2: turn into cool step. 303 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 5: I was like, hey, bring your car in, we'll get 304 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 5: it worked on, and then brand new car. 305 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: I also love a good trick when it turns into 306 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: they arrest people because I like those and the like, hey, 307 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 2: come get your free season tickets to the Pittsburgh Stealers. 308 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: And the guys are like, all right, go on, go in. 309 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: And I said, we got you, Travis. We know we 310 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 2: have a worn out for your rest. I just love 311 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 2: a trick. I think, yeah, good and bad. 312 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 5: Well, and how she does this does this, I think 313 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 5: this is kind of cool. 314 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: Again. 315 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 5: Her name is Lynn's Story and she looks on her 316 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 5: next door neighbor app to see if people need rides 317 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 5: and she offers them up. So that's how she finds 318 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 5: people near her that might need help. So this is 319 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 5: encouragement of like, if you would like to do that. 320 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 5: It's worked for her so far as she's been safe. 321 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 5: She got a free car. 322 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: Every day she has to mark herself safe on Facebook 323 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 2: with a little flag. All right, that's it. That's what 324 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 2: it's all about. That was telling me something good. It's 325 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 2: a very easy game. Well it seems like it would be. 326 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 2: On the surface. We're gonna play. Name that sound. These 327 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: are general sounds from around the house. Ray, give me 328 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 2: an example there. 329 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 3: What's up? Open a bottle? 330 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 2: Open a bottle? Open to be your bottle whatever the 331 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 2: other day. Okay, So we have Cody on who lives 332 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 2: in Austin. Hey, Cody, how are you this morning? 333 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 7: I'm good. How are y'all doing? 334 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 3: Pretty good? Now you can pick Amy, Eddy or Lunchbox. 335 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 11: They're gonna play with and for you because it may 336 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 11: be harder for you to hear on the phone. 337 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 2: But you're gonna have seven of these. If they can 338 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: get five out of seven, you win. So you get 339 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 2: to pick your player, Amy, Eddie or Lunchbox. 340 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 10: I'm gonna go with Eddie because I really. 341 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 7: Hope he gets Punchbox of the song. 342 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 3: I mean, I gotta start all over for that. 343 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, okay, see I did five. 344 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 3: Out of seven. You ready, let's go all right? Go 345 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 3: with number one? Now you can hear it twice. I'm 346 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 3: good man, I'm gonna hear it again. But what if 347 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 3: you miss it? All right, let's hear it. Okay, go on, 348 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 3: t that's a microwave, my friend. 349 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 11: Now, Cody, you can you have to confirm his answer 350 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 11: if you say you're with it, We're good. 351 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: Cody, Is that a microwave? 352 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 7: That's what I was gonna go with as well. 353 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 3: Okay, microwave beeping is correct. Let's go Cody. That's one 354 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 3: number two? 355 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 7: What the. 356 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: Whoa? I have no idea what that is? Oh man, 357 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 3: does Cody know. 358 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 2: What that is? 359 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 9: See that that sounds kind of like a trick because 360 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 9: I think that's popcorn in a microwave. 361 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 4: Man, I hear like liquid in there, Cody, one more time, right, huh? 362 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 3: Okay, you two got to figure it out. 363 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, Cody, I mean, I'm with you. It does sound 364 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 4: like popcorn in the microwave. But I hear liquid. 365 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 9: But I have not boil boiling water. 366 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 3: That's what I was thinking, boiling water. Okay, official answer. 367 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:49,479 Speaker 3: Are we gonna go with boiling water? Okay? That isn't correct. 368 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 3: It's a coffee maker. 369 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: Dripping down? 370 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 11: Yeah, here it is, okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, I 371 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 11: hear it. Now you can miss one more. You can 372 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 11: miss one. 373 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: More, all right? 374 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 12: Next one? What what is that? 375 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 3: You hear that again? Man, Cody? I think I hear 376 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 3: like a. 377 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 4: Like a mouse trap or something, you know, like it's 378 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 4: metal on metal. 379 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 3: What do you think it is? 380 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 10: I could hear it super well. We can go with 381 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 10: whatever you're thinking on. 382 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: And I got nothing. There is a lifeline a lifeline. Now, 383 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 3: you can go to anybody in the room here. 384 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: The problem is when they don't play games, they get 385 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 2: all sad and they don't listen. 386 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 3: That's what they're doing. We're not gonna play it again. 387 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: I look at you. 388 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 3: I appreciate you being involved. 389 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: Here, but why would I hear? 390 00:15:54,480 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 4: Cody's a nice guys like that? 391 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 3: Okay, so I get to use a lifeline here. Yeah. 392 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 3: Do you want me to pick it or Cody to 393 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 3: pick it? Doesn't matter. You guys are a team. 394 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: Okay, Cody, let's use the lifeline because I have no idea. 395 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 4: You think Lunchbox or Amy. 396 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 3: Would help well? 397 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 9: In all fairness, that was only read to lunchbox, So 398 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 9: let's go with Amy. 399 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 3: Amy. What do you think it is? 400 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 11: Now? 401 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 3: They don't have to pick your answer, but you just 402 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 3: give them a little help here. 403 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Can I hear it again? 404 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 3: No? I just said that we can't play. You weren't listening. 405 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: No, I heard it. Bang in a string a. 406 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 5: Stranger like you straighter, Like when it's the metal strainer 407 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 5: and you're straining something and you're like bang to get 408 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 5: the water out. 409 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 3: Guys, h Cody, what do you want to go with? 410 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 7: Dude? 411 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: You just pick it got nothing three seconds? All right, 412 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 3: let's go with banging a stranger? Is it banging a stranger? 413 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 2: It's a toaster popping? 414 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 3: Yea one more time, toaster popping. 415 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 4: Yes, I hear it now, Okay, okay, oh it's metal 416 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 4: for sure. 417 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay. If you miss another one, it's over. 418 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 2: So you did not get that next one? 419 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm in. I got that one. You don't even 420 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 3: need a second listen. I don't need a second listen. 421 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 10: I got that. 422 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 3: I got that one. 423 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 5: Or no. 424 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I'm actually at the car wash cleaning uh pause, 425 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 9: cleaning out in my car. 426 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 10: So I'm gonna go. 427 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 3: I think he's probably got this one. What do you do? 428 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 3: What do you think it is? Talk about it? Yeah, yeah, 429 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 3: vacuum cleaner is what I have. 430 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 7: Vacuum okay, vacuum. 431 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's perfect, yes, show me vacuum. 432 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 2: Correct Still baby three left, can't miss any of us. 433 00:17:49,680 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 4: Go next one up, Cody to me, that sounds like 434 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 4: just water going to you know, turn on the faucet. 435 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 10: What kind of sounded like the disposal would don't be 436 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 10: the same answer? 437 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 13: Nah? 438 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 4: Again, Well let's hear it again, but I'll listen for 439 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 4: that I don't hear the disposal on this clip. Okay, Yeah, 440 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 4: to me, that's just turning on the faucet and that's 441 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 4: water going down the drain. 442 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 3: So you want to go faucet? Yeah, all right? Is 443 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 3: it faucet? 444 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 7: Correct? 445 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 3: Two left? You gotta go two for two. Let's go. 446 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 3: Here we go, next one up. 447 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 2: Let's see. 448 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 3: That sounds easy someone walking upstairs? 449 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: Right? 450 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 3: But is that too specific? 451 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 13: Is your final play, Cody? 452 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 4: I want to stand by walking up the stairs. You 453 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,719 Speaker 4: hear the way the shoe is like slipping up those stairs? 454 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I did. 455 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 10: I altill kind of heard a hammer being put. 456 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 3: Down the whole No more listens. 457 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 4: I didn't hear the hammer, So I think we should 458 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 4: just go with going up the stairs. 459 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 10: I trust you. If I lose, I still got to 460 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 10: take a shot at lunchbox. 461 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 3: Okay, I like that. I like that. Show me going upstairs? 462 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: Wow? 463 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 3: Correct, no hammer in there? No hammer? Okay? Good? Last one. 464 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 3: If you get this, you win. If you miss it, 465 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 3: you lose. 466 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 7: Here we go. 467 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 3: Wow. 468 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 4: That first part threw me off. I don't know what 469 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 4: that first part was. The second part sounds like rain 470 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 4: coming down the gutter. M Is that what's called the gutter. Yeah, 471 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 4: like you have a gutter to the gutter. We hear 472 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 4: it again, what Cody, I have no idea, dude, Like, 473 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 4: I don't know what that roller thing is at the front. 474 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 4: It sounds like a cash register and then water comes down. 475 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 10: Could it be the garage door opening? 476 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 3: Hey, here's what you can do. 477 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can either just not give an answer, but 478 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 2: you don't get to give an answer. 479 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 3: You don't get to say it right or wrong. 480 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 11: But you can go to lunchbox and he gets to 481 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 11: choose to give an actual intelligence answer. 482 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 2: Or he can just say suck an egg and you lose. 483 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: So he has all the power. No, I can't trust 484 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 2: him there, so if you but if you don't know it, yeah, yeah, 485 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,719 Speaker 2: but that's just giving up. Maybe maybe he wants to 486 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 2: like show you he's good at the game, or maybe 487 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 2: he wants to just stick it to Cody and go 488 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: suck an egg. 489 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 7: You want me to give me your comments. 490 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 3: You both are wrong, so he looks mad. 491 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 7: I'm just telling you're both wrong. 492 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: You can go to lunchbox, but if you do, he 493 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: has every ability to go just suck an egg and 494 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,919 Speaker 2: you lose the whole thing. Or you can give you 495 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 2: what you think is your best answer, because I'll guarantee 496 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 2: you're both wrong five seconds. 497 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 3: Guys, Uh huh, Cody, it just came to me. We 498 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 3: don't have to depend on this dude like this guy 499 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 3: just depended on No. 500 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 4: No, look, if we've tossed it a lunchbox, he's just 501 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 4: gonna trash both of us. 502 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 3: So no, I think I have it. Do you have 503 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 3: a guest, Cody? Real quick? 504 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 9: No, but I completely agree. 505 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 10: Do not get it? 506 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not doing that. Okay, lunchbox. 507 00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: Write down what you would have done though, if would 508 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,479 Speaker 2: say sucking eggor if you would have put an answer down? 509 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 4: Okay, easily, Eddie, what do you have bones, I'm going 510 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 4: with washing machine that is. 511 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 3: Turning on the machine and water going in filling in 512 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 3: the tub. 513 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 2: Let's go, lunchbocks. What if they would have come to you, 514 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 2: what answer would you given? 515 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 6: Well, I wrote down washing machine, but before when the 516 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,640 Speaker 6: clip was playing, but I put. 517 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 2: Suck an egg and we like that though we wanted 518 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 2: sucking egg. 519 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 11: Yeah, you answered washing machine, Ray Mundo is a washing machine? 520 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: No? 521 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 2: What is it a dishwasher? The first part is the dishes. 522 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: One more time, right, playatform up closet and that's the 523 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 2: water inside of it. 524 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 3: How sorry, Cody. I'm so sorry, dude. 525 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 7: We were so close sucking egg, got it. 526 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 3: You can't say that now we. 527 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: Didn't go too that's true, Cody. I'm sorry you didn't win, 528 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 2: but we'll get you on for another game soon. Okay, buddy, 529 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 2: all right, thank you, lunchbox, anything for Cody? 530 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 6: Oh no, I got no party shots. I would be 531 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 6: as a bad day, you know what I mean? 532 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you? 533 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 3: You get no scuba. 534 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: Steve spends four o one k to date his wife No, okay, 535 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 2: So this all comes from a story I was reading, 536 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 2: But it says that if you spend too much taking 537 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 2: somebody on a date, you could be dooming the date 538 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 2: because too many presents too early will leave her thinking 539 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: that you're hoping to either a by her or B. 540 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 2: You can't continue up what she feels is a norm, right, 541 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 2: so you're out. 542 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 3: I wouldn't even say it's a love bomb. 543 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 2: It's it's a bit different than that, because my love 544 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 2: bombs a bit manipulative. 545 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,199 Speaker 5: Yeah, but this is just like you're setting the bar 546 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 5: too high. 547 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 2: Sure, you just can't continue on. So a lot of 548 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 2: women will actually react in the opposite way. Stick to 549 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: gifts they could be enjoyed together, or things that are 550 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: more activity based. So that was the story. But then 551 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 2: Scuba was telling me, so you did the opposite of this, 552 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: well a little bit of both. 553 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 14: So I took out five from my four one k 554 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 14: and I when you do, you have to borrow it, 555 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 14: so they give you the money, you pay a bunch 556 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 14: of penalties on it. But I had no money whatsoever 557 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 14: to date my wife. So for me, I looked at 558 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 14: it as a way to bring me to an even 559 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 14: playing field to do stuff with her, like to be 560 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 14: able to take her in intimate dates, to walk around 561 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 14: the city and stop and get ice cream. I couldn't 562 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 14: even afford things like that, so I needed some sort 563 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 14: of money to get around and date this beautiful. 564 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: Woman, walk around the city and get ice cream. 565 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 3: You didn't have the money to walk and eat ice cream? Well, 566 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 3: I could walk around, but I couldn't afford the ice cream. 567 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 14: So I needed some sort of money to be able 568 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 14: to do these little things. 569 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 3: Oh, so question where did you live? 570 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 14: I lived, So I just got out of divorce, and 571 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 14: so I got to keep the apartment for my ex wife, 572 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 14: and so all my money went to pay for my apartment, 573 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 14: my cell phone bill, and transportation. 574 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:47,199 Speaker 2: That was it. 575 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 14: I lived very, very frugal, And you do not want 576 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 14: your wife to know this. I did not because she 577 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 14: thought I made decent money because I worked in radio. 578 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 14: I was in a large market at San Francisco. She 579 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 14: thought I had, you know, a well paying job, which 580 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,120 Speaker 14: I did, but I just had a lot of overhea 581 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 14: so high divorce. 582 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: Can set you back. 583 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: A little bit. Got you, got you? I want to 584 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 3: make sure she got in there. 585 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Scuba, you take five grand out of your 586 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 2: four one kids, you get back? 587 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 14: No, because it's my money, so it's gone. I just 588 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 14: have to pay the penalties on it. And eventually I 589 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 14: crewed that money back o her time by putting money 590 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 14: into the four one k And. 591 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 3: What kind of stuff did you take her to do? 592 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 2: And did you spend most of it on her or 593 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: did you also by like clothes in a PlayStation or. 594 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 14: I spent all of it on her, and then I 595 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 14: spent clothing to look good for her. So everything was 596 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,479 Speaker 14: in sense to lure in this amazing woman, to then 597 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 14: fix my. 598 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 3: Life to then't trick her. You're tricking her. 599 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 14: I didn't really trick her because I was still who 600 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 14: it was as the person. Everything we talked about was 601 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 14: true and who I was just not my financial situation. 602 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: Did you feel like you were misleading her all a 603 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 2: little bit? But then I mean. 604 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 3: I'm sure you took her like concerts and stuff and trips. 605 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 14: Yeah, concerts and went to places and went to all 606 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 14: kinds of things. I took her shopping and bought her 607 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 14: some stuff. I bought her some perfume and all that. 608 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 14: But then I had to stretch it out over six months, 609 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 14: so I had also be you know, I don't watch 610 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,400 Speaker 14: my spending. And then eventually got to the point where 611 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 14: I was out of money and she's like, hey, you 612 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 14: coming out to see me in Espay. I'm like, I 613 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 14: don't have any money to pay for the ticket on 614 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 14: the subway to go see you. 615 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 7: Can I borrow some money? 616 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 3: Oh? I need to borrow money. 617 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 14: She had a vendmo me or whatever was zell me 618 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 14: twenty bucks to go see her, And that's when we 619 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,479 Speaker 14: had the real conversation of like, here's what's really going on. 620 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 2: Was that a drastic turn from you wearing nice clothes 621 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: taking her on trips too? I need money to take 622 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 2: the train to see you. 623 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 14: I think at that at that point we had we'd 624 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 14: really fallen in love and as far as who we 625 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 14: are as people and what we were into and all 626 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 14: the things we stood for in life. And then I 627 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 14: just had to be very honest with her and look like, 628 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 14: here's the deal, this is what I did, and here's 629 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 14: where I'm at financially, you know, take it or leave it. 630 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 14: And then she found out my credit score. But she 631 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 14: worked in she worked in banking and financing. How was 632 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 14: a credit score? What you say that wash was like 633 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 14: in the high threes, It was really badly. 634 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 3: I think I'd fall out. 635 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 2: I think I'd be right out of love because you 636 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 2: were misleading her. 637 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she could be the ying yang. 638 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 2: Yeah that's great. But he was misleading her the whole time. 639 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 3: Yes, And then it also was my fault though, just financially. 640 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 14: I never had a great person to kind of guide 641 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 14: me along in life of how to do things with 642 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,479 Speaker 14: certain things and order to put my money on, how 643 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 14: to spend it and save it. 644 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,360 Speaker 3: And so I was just really ignorant growing up. 645 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 14: And she had so much knowledge in the financial world 646 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 14: that she was able to fix me and correct me 647 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 14: and bring my credit score up and tell me, how 648 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 14: to pay off debt and all those. 649 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 3: Kind of things. 650 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 2: I understand all of that, but I'm saying you still 651 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 2: misled her at the beginning. Yeah, but we can skip 652 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 2: over that. 653 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 3: You know that water under the bridge. So what is 654 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 3: your advice? 655 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 2: So everybody should fake it if they're trying to lure 656 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 2: someone in until they get to the point where they 657 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,120 Speaker 2: like them so much they can't back out. 658 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 14: Oh, and it depends on what you're faking, I think, 659 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 14: because for me, it was just I didn't have money, 660 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 14: and the money doesn't make a person, but you need 661 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 14: money to do things in life, and so I wasn't 662 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 14: fully lying about who it was. 663 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 3: I just couldn't afford the lifestyle. You should only partially lie. Sure, 664 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 3: I don't want to say you should lie. It just 665 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 3: depends on what it is you're doing. 666 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 14: For what I did, it's fine because I'm saying that 667 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 14: because I did it. 668 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 4: And all he did really was take money out of 669 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:12,640 Speaker 4: his savings. 670 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 3: It's my money, it was his money. 671 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, it wasn't like he was but again. 672 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 2: He was not acting like he was taking money out 673 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: of his savings, like he was taking a loan out 674 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: on his life to fake like he had more money. 675 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,160 Speaker 3: I think, Look, it. 676 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 14: Worked, right, it worked. I you have three kids, we're 677 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 14: married for over ten years now. I mean life was good. 678 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 3: Your strategy worked. 679 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 14: Credit score, the credit score is in the high sevens. 680 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 3: Life is great. 681 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 14: Man, I don't have two cars that She definitely fixed 682 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 14: me financially, but also as a person too. 683 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 3: So for me, it was a huge one. 684 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 15: Ming people, spitting on homeless guys you walked by, like better, 685 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 15: different perspective on life, and just how I wasn't bad 686 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 15: to people, but just made me think about things in 687 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 15: a different way that I never thought of before. 688 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: It seems to me like similar to you, Bobby. 689 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 5: Maybe he didn't really have anybody that showed him love 690 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 5: and he finally. 691 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 2: Got that take out a bunch of money to fake 692 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 2: like I had money. I was like, I'm broke. 693 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 3: You like it? Oh you don't, Okay, I guess I'll 694 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 3: be single a while. And but it didn't work out 695 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 3: for you that way though, right, Yeah, and then I 696 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: made a bunch of money. You see, but our wives 697 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 3: were better for us. What our wives did did make 698 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 3: us better. 699 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, why do you think you didn't make your wife better? 700 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 7: Why is it? Why is the wife. 701 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: I'm tired. 702 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 6: Everybody giving the wife credit? How did you make the 703 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 6: wife better? I don't want this stuff on the internet. 704 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 3: I think about that. 705 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So here are ten habits that turns a normal 706 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 2: man into an incredible husband. And so this is the 707 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 2: incredible husband test. And so there are ten of these things. 708 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: Let's see how we scale on this guy's scale. 709 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: Score be honest. 710 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 3: Number one, devote time to a shared ritual. 711 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 2: So first of all, I would encourage you not to 712 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 2: think that ritual means more than it does, Like it 713 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 2: doesn't have to be anything grandiose. 714 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 3: What about like nighttime we share that time? 715 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,239 Speaker 1: No, but I mean specifically outside of that. 716 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, Like I'm saying, my wife and I 717 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,719 Speaker 2: have we dedicate every Tuesday night for like four hours. 718 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 2: There's nothing that happens except for we have dedicated that 719 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 2: time to Tuesday night from like five to ten pm. 720 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 2: I'll do anything on Tuesday nights. And if I do 721 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 2: and I try to schedule anything, we move that to 722 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 2: a different time. We also every night try to sit 723 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 2: down and at least watch one show. It's just our 724 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,719 Speaker 2: time to that's our ritual our Tuesday night, and then 725 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 2: we watch a show Eddie, No man, I'm thinking, I 726 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 2: also have four kids. 727 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 3: I got nothing. 728 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 4: The only thing that we do ritually is go to church, 729 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 4: but that's just a family thing. 730 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,719 Speaker 3: It's not just me and my wife us too. Nothing really. 731 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: Eddie's like we rush our teeth. 732 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, we have time we hang out and we talk 733 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 4: about stuff. 734 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 3: But other than that, not much. 735 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 2: But it doesn't have to be something that's hours long, right, 736 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: I mean, it literally can be something fifteen minutes. 737 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 3: But it's richman, it happens. It's consistent. Nothing. 738 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 4: No, when she goes to bed, she'll say like, Hey, 739 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 4: I'm going to bed, you want to join me? 740 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 3: And that's pretty much it. I'd be like, yeah, I'll 741 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 3: be up there in a minute. 742 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 2: But are you saying that in a way of like no, 743 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 2: just like at least I go to bed. Yeah, give 744 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 2: regular sincere compliments. Yeah, I try. I purposefully try to 745 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 2: do that. I think I make a good effort to 746 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 2: do that. 747 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 3: Do you try too hard sometimes to think of something? 748 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 7: Oh? 749 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 3: No, No, I don't have to try hard to think. 750 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 2: I have to make sure they sound sincere and not 751 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 2: like a third grader punching their crush in the arm. 752 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 2: That makes sense, Yeah, you know, because it's a difference, 753 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 2: or like flirting for guys, or say is different than so, yes, 754 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 2: I would say I give regular compliments. My sincerity feels 755 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 2: a little weird. Tho's what I worry about. And if 756 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: you do it too much then it starts to be 757 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: like are you even telling it? I'm terrible at getting 758 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: complidents though, I'm terrible at getting complidence so much. 759 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 3: Watch you here. 760 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I tell her things for cooking when she cooks. 761 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 3: Dinner at night, Like I wouldn't say that's a compliment. 762 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 2: We thank you is not a complt or it's delicious. 763 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 6: When I say this dinner tastes really good. Okay, that's 764 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 6: a keeper. That's a compliment. Okay, yeah, I do that 765 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 6: on every night we need dinner. Communicate clearly and consistently. 766 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 6: I do not get points for this one. I'm doing 767 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 6: a much better job. But I think my communication skills 768 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 6: one on one are way worse than they are one 769 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 6: to ten million. 770 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: I think you get points right now for honesty. 771 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 2: Thank you all accept those points. The next one let 772 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 2: go of mistakes one reasonable Nope, out on that one. 773 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 3: God, that's a hard one. 774 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bad at admitting that I'm wrong or admitting 775 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: it as a mistake, but. 776 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 5: You get it points right now for admitting make your 777 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 5: that way. 778 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 2: I love Amy being the scorekeeper. It is good acknowledge 779 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 2: their own shortcomings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think I'm 780 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 2: pretty good at knowing what I suck at, especially in 781 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 2: a relationship. 782 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 3: Just like I did in the last two things, I 783 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 3: acknowledge I'm not good at them. Give me a point. 784 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: It has there been growth? Like, do you think there's growth? 785 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: Because you can't just like growth ten years from now. 786 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: You can't be like, well, I'm just not good at that. 787 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 2: I know I've grown significantly in all these areas. Yes, 788 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 2: next up, consistently prioritize their partner and relationship. Yes, I've 789 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 2: only recently understood what that means. 790 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: Yeah on Tuesdays. 791 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: No, I'm saying just in general, I've only recently understood 792 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 2: what prioritizing the relationship means. Meaning the one consistent thing 793 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: in my life that I always thought was gonna be 794 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 2: the relationship. We're married, so I can that we'll always 795 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 2: get to come back to that if all these things 796 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: are happening. 797 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 3: Oh, we'll put the relationship last because I'll always be there. 798 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 2: But I can only do these couple of things now, 799 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: and so I've flipped majorly in that department. 800 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 3: Because I thought, well, that'll always be there. 801 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 2: I can always come back to the relationship, but if 802 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 2: I don't nurture that, it will not always be there. 803 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: I've only recently understood this, because I would see that 804 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 2: as like, that's the rock, that rock. That boulder is 805 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 2: not moving for a million years. And I don't think 806 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 2: the boulder is moving. But I would make decisions that 807 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 2: made the boulder mad because I would not I would 808 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 2: like work every day for four weeks and not spend 809 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 2: any time next up. Respect opposing opinions. Man, you respect it. 810 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 2: You just like to argue it. Yeah, that's a good point. 811 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 3: I respect what you're saying. Yeah, I respect that. She's 812 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 3: a good arguer. 813 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 2: To remain loyal absolutely and trust a partner absolutely and 814 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 2: be generous and showing affection. 815 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 3: That's tough. I was told recently, just try to be 816 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 3: more kind Eddie. 817 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,919 Speaker 1: You're like the nicest guy. 818 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 4: But like I think, when I'm in stressful situations, I 819 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 4: kind of just like, we gotta go, we gotta do this, 820 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 4: and my wife's more like, hey, I want to just 821 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 4: like slow down, then be kind and maybe like just 822 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 4: we'll work things out without maybe getting frustrated. 823 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 3: You are snappy van Winkle, for sure, that's it. You 824 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 3: do snap, you do snap. 825 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 826 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 3: I think affection. 827 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 2: I've had to learn even what that means, because the 828 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 2: general guys like affection. Kissing, well that's yeah, hugging like 829 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 2: that is us like, that's a But also there are 830 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 2: a lot of things like just touch, just like being 831 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 2: in the same area for a long time, Like her 832 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 2: feet are on me, I'll rub them. 833 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 3: Words of act animation, yeah, just listening to anything. I 834 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 3: found that one out recently, right, But you've been ried 835 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:15,879 Speaker 3: for a long time. Two years, three years, three years? Yeah, 836 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 3: I'm at three. 837 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 10: Yeah. 838 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,479 Speaker 3: We recorded this year ago, which wouldn't make these sense. 839 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 2: Okay, So I think of those ten I probably give 840 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 2: myself a solid B minus if I'm accurately just. But 841 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 2: I would have given myself a C minus a D 842 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: plus a year and a half ago, not because I 843 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,839 Speaker 2: wasn't trying, because I did not understand, Like I never 844 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,440 Speaker 2: have been in like a serious relationship until I met 845 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 2: my wife, was never engaged, never lived with a woman, 846 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,320 Speaker 2: female girlfriend, never did any of that. It was always 847 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 2: by myself. I sometimes am very thankful that she has 848 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 2: put up with the lack of emotional maturity that I 849 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 2: had and sometimes still have. 850 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 3: Now I I'm one hundred years old. 851 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 2: In other ways, I'm twelve when it comes to emotional 852 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 2: relationship maturity, and she's had a lot of patience. 853 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: About a year and a half ago, you were six, 854 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 1: Now you're twelve. 855 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,240 Speaker 3: Wait, thank you doubled up. I thought you're in your thirties. 856 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:15,280 Speaker 1: No, no emotion. 857 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, thanks Dan. 858 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: But we can all. 859 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 5: Hey, give yourself grace, Bobby though, because when you when 860 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 5: we're all, when we're not acting rationally, we can all 861 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 5: go back to our six year old selves quickly. 862 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't go back. I got I start there. 863 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, yeah, I start there and then hopefully 864 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 2: I grow out. 865 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 3: Man, I know, I know. So there you go. 866 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 2: I B minus for me, right yourself out of. 867 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I go B solid B. But I have stuff 868 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 3: to work on, for sure, lunch bikes. 869 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 7: I'll give myself a C plus, no problem. 870 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:45,840 Speaker 1: And you're happy with that. 871 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 6: That's the kind of grades I got in school, so 872 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:49,759 Speaker 6: pretty solid for me. 873 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 3: Got it. 874 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 7: It's time for the good. 875 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 1: News produce ready. 876 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 4: The Pittsburgh Steelers will do something really cool for military veterans. 877 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 3: They are helping them get rid of their debt. 878 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 4: So for every game the Steelers win, they will get 879 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 4: rid of one hundred thousand dollars of debt. 880 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 3: For veterans around the community. 881 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 4: So right now they are seven and two, which means 882 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 4: they've already relieved seven hundred thousand dollars. 883 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 1: That's cool. 884 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 2: Seelers weren't specially good this year either when the season started. 885 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 2: Maybe that's why they're they were like, all right, we're 886 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 2: gonna do it. We're gonna have this idea. No, they're 887 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 2: playing awesome. They're leading their division right now. 888 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 5: Maybe that's why they're all like extra motivated to hell veterans. 889 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 2: See, that's the great way to look add that's being 890 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 2: like I met They were like, we don't really have 891 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 2: a quarterback. 892 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 3: We have two kinds of quarterbacks. Yeah, it's not that. 893 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,359 Speaker 2: No, that's a great story. Good for them and all 894 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 2: those people that are being helped, all this veterans. A 895 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,800 Speaker 2: great story. That is what it's all about. That was 896 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 2: telling me something good. Here's a voicemail from Christina and Denver. 897 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: What's up, Bobby Bone show, we just got wallop with 898 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 3: a huge snow storm. I am a pet sitter. 899 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 10: So I had to drive. 900 00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 4: Back and forth in the snow shovel to else is 901 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 4: about four time beach and walk dogs in snow three 902 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 4: times a day. 903 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 1: Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for keeping me company 904 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: while I did all that. 905 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 14: Listen to your show all the time, and got to 906 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 14: say thanks for making me laugh. 907 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 3: So keep up the great work. Thank you for the call. 908 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 2: I'd also like to say officially, I hate winter and 909 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 2: it's coming, it's already there. 910 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 3: I hate winter. I hate it so much. Every part 911 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 3: of me hates winter. 912 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 2: I don't like being cold, I don't like being mildly cold, 913 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,399 Speaker 2: and like not being able to go outside. I don't 914 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,800 Speaker 2: like the fact that there might be ice on the roads. 915 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 3: The whole thing. It's all stupid and it sucks. Anyway, 916 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 3: am you good? 917 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:35,919 Speaker 1: Yeah? 918 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 12: Good? 919 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 3: I hate it. I hate it so much. Let's for 920 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 3: a fall. But let's go to the corny. Here we go. 921 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 1: What happens when potatoes drink too much? 922 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 3: What happens when potatoes drink too much? 923 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 1: They get mashed? 924 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 2: That was the morning corny. 925 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: The drinkers like that one. 926 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 7: That's really good. 927 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 10: That's pretty good. 928 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 2: And that is the end of the first half of 929 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 2: the podcast. 930 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 3: That is the end of the first half of the podcast. 931 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 3: That is the end of the first tip of the podcast. 932 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 2: That is the end of the first tip of the podcast. 933 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 11: You can go to the podcast to or you can 934 00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,800 Speaker 11: wait till podcast to come out.