1 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: I want to talk about plastic surgeons. This is important. 2 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: I did the plastic surgeon shop. I did a plastic 3 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: surgery hall. I did the meet and greet, I did 4 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: it all. I'm not going to name names right now, 5 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 1: but I'm going to name types of doctors, and we're 6 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: going into it. First. I went to the guy who 7 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: has become a hot shot doctor. The reputation is they're 8 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: just churning and burning and doing many, many, many procedures. 9 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: Now there are specialists. So there's a guy that years 10 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: ago did a lit I did did a boob lift. 11 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: I always had bigger boobs even growing up, and they 12 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: were just they just were like hanging early because they 13 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: were just big and gravity means they're gonna hang. Um. 14 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: So I years ago got a lift from a man 15 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: named Dr Baker. He was expensive. It was very expensive, 16 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: like people could be getting them for six thousand, five thousand, 17 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: eight thousand, and I guess there's some sort of formula, 18 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: and it's for plastic surgery. Like facelifts, it's five It 19 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: can be up to five times cheaper in Florida, which 20 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: isn't even a cheap place, but New York is the 21 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: most expensive. Okay, l A is probably a very close second. 22 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: But I think New York is the most expensive, and 23 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: I think everybody really goes to New York, so um, 24 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: and the prices are going to astound you. So the 25 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: boobs were like fourteen thousand back then, but I know 26 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: people could get them for three five, six eight. That 27 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: was like the best. And you're not really trying to 28 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: funk around with things like this, so uh, you know, 29 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: it is what it is. Um. So that was a 30 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: boob guy. Now it doesn't mean he's not a plastic surgeon, 31 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: doesn't do lightbo suction and other things. I guess that 32 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: was a boob guy. There's a housewife who's um was 33 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: on Miami and I guess they're getting a divorce. The 34 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: Hackstein and that guy he has he just sold like 35 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: he has like a fifty million dollar house on Star 36 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: and in Miami. He's a boom guy in Miami. So 37 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: he's just booming it up. He's booming it all day long. 38 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: There was a guy years ago, Dr Diamond, and you 39 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: could tell his nose jobs. He was the nose guy. 40 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: The first guy was like the guy that everyone says 41 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: like he's gotten really popular. He's done many housewives and 42 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: he's churning and burning. Okay, And I went to this 43 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: person and this person was um, you know, hip and 44 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: cool and UM came in for me. Many of these 45 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: people came in on that day for me, was their 46 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: day off or that not the day they're doing surgery, 47 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: but very nice and complimentary and um. Many of them 48 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: told me, you just chronologically looking at your face, your 49 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: face looks forty eight years old, and that between forty 50 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: eight and fifty two fifty three is when the optimal 51 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: time is if you want to do some sort of 52 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: version of a lift. Now, I've had friends who have 53 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: done their eyes. They get that they have that droopy 54 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: eye syndrome. It could be hooded eyes or just their 55 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: eyes are drooping, or they have extra skin they're sagging. 56 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: I don't have that issue. That's one problem. Another problem 57 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: my friends have had is that neck like a turkey neck. Okay, 58 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: I don't. I have a little bit of that. I mean, 59 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: I am of a certain age, but I don't. That's 60 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: not like a problem for me. It's not the thing 61 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: that's bothering me. Where these two women or these several 62 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: women have had One woman I know had an eye issue, 63 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: another woman a drew by I issue. Another woman is 64 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: saggy skin, eye issue. One friend the turkey neck, another 65 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: the jowls bothered her. This is gravity. Your skin is 66 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: falling on your face. So while you may say to 67 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: somebody they don't need something, or you hear about all 68 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: these people getting something done, in many cases the argument 69 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: is that these are things to do. They are locking 70 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: the door before you get robbed. You don't have to 71 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: agree with any of this. You could think it's ridiculous. 72 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm just going to talk you through it. The forty 73 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: eight fifty three is about you are getting older. Your 74 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: skin will fall, You'll lose elasticity and collagen and actually 75 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: fat in your face, and you will get that sort 76 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: of hollow it's right near your dimples, like it's a 77 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: hollow in your face because everything's coming down. That's why 78 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: the gel's form, because the skin is coming down. That's 79 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: why the turkey neck happens, because the skin is coming down. 80 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: And presumably if you start with that eye problem, that 81 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: skin is coming down also. So those are popular things, 82 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: and um some people go in they really want a 83 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: big change, like they tell the doctor. Some people want 84 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: nobody to notice anything. It's just like you've got a 85 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: good night's sleep. Some people want to look ten years younger. 86 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: Other people want to look ten times better, but not younger, 87 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: because many people look good, but they look done. They 88 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: look like they've had something, and that, to me is 89 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: not good. But some people really want that as the 90 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: as the plastic surgeons told me, l a look the 91 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, Look, the Upper east Side. Look. It's a look. 92 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: You know the look. You've seen it. It's shiny, it's plastic. 93 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: It can be jokery. Here's another thing. If you decide 94 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: you're going to do it, do it right. Do not 95 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: cheap out on this. If you can't afford to do it, 96 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: it's better to not do it. Okay, don't cheap out 97 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: on something important. Do a lot of research. My friend 98 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 1: found somebody for twenty thousand dollars, including the overnight stay, 99 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: to do a facelift. Other people have paid a hundred 100 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: and fifty dollars in New York and got the exact 101 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:21,239 Speaker 1: same result. It doesn't mean that expensive is better because 102 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: the most expensive person I saw I found to be 103 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: not the best, and I have reasons why. So that's 104 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 1: one thing. This is just not something to go on 105 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 1: a money saving expedition for and you have to think 106 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: about what your goals are. One person, because my only 107 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: thing that really bothers me about my face is the 108 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: line going under my nose across when you smile. There's 109 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: a big line. And one person said, if I do 110 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: a liplift that sounded fine liplift grade, that it would 111 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: be gone. Another person said that it would be partially 112 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: gone if they did a liplift, but they wouldn't do 113 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: a liplift on me because you will look very different. 114 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: And I know a friend who did a up lift 115 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: and it kind of lips. You lifts your lip off 116 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: and then you're going to see more of your teeth, 117 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: if that's something that you care about. But like like 118 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: everything else, your lip is drooping too, it's falling. So 119 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: the third person said that they that they would not 120 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: even do a liplift and that a lip lift wouldn't 121 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: even do anything for that line, that there's nothing that 122 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: can be done for that line. So one person said 123 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: that line would go away with a liplift. The second 124 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: person said it would only go away partially and that 125 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: they wouldn't do it because you look very different. The 126 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: third doctor said, nothing will ever take away that line. So, 127 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: and guess what, I believed every person, every single thing 128 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: they said. This is why it's complicated, and you have 129 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: to do your research, and you have to really look 130 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: up reviews and talk to other people because this is frightening. 131 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: You're sucking around with your face. Okay, so one person 132 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: said to me, and it was almost three it was 133 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: like three hundred thousand dollars to do what they wanted 134 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: you to do. Okay, you needed a lip lift, you 135 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: needed something up top by your eyes, you needed something 136 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 1: at the bottom, all of these things when you weren't 137 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: even sure you needed anything. Second of all, it makes 138 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: sense that you're supposed to take care of yourself and 139 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: locked the door before you get robbed. What was also 140 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,119 Speaker 1: indicated to me by many people is that earlier is better. 141 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: Someone very famous in this industry said to me, everyone 142 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: has done something. You are late, not pressuring me, just 143 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: saying they're all lying and you're not even at the 144 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: beginning of this. Because I thought, oh, I'm not sixty five, 145 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: so I'm at the beginning of this. I am not 146 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: at the beginning of this. Forty eight to fifty two 147 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: is the optimal time to do something, because when you 148 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: get into your sixties, it will last less time. I've 149 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: heard this from many people. So if you do something 150 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: between forty eight and fifty two on the average, or 151 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: with a face that looks forty eight fifty two on 152 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: the average, it should last like fifteen years, and some 153 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: people say that they could last forever. I had an 154 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: excellent lift that I overpaid for and I have had 155 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: it for fifteen years and I and everything looks great. 156 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't change a thing. So if you get it 157 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: done in your sixties, this is also a general's but 158 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: more often than not, it will only last seven years 159 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: because you've come in a little bit late into the process. 160 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: And there's also a lot more to do. There's a 161 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: lot more to cut. So these are things to think 162 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: about if you don't you know, just to think about, 163 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: if you want to think about it, if you want 164 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: to be educated. I went one time last year or 165 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: two years ago just to get educated, to hear what 166 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: they had to say, and didn't do anything. I'm not 167 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: against this. I'm not saying I'm doing something, but I 168 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: wanted to hear so the first person gave me the 169 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: full fledged liplift. I think the droopiness that the next thing, 170 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: all of it, I was going to come out perfect. 171 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm sure I was going to be a living doll, 172 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: but no one would notice. L O L. That's a 173 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:45,599 Speaker 1: person that one of my very famous friends said, Hell, no, 174 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: funked up my friend's face. That's a person that I 175 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: saw someone's work and didn't like and was a little nervous. 176 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: But then have another friend that went to them that 177 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: looks amazing. So that's a situation where it's either that 178 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: my friend who went to them and looks amaze sing 179 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 1: dodged a bullet um the other person wanted all that 180 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: crazy look. I don't know, but here's another thing that 181 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: I heard from these doctors. If they are doing work 182 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: on some bad work you've had before, they can only 183 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: work with what they've already what's coming in there. That's scary. 184 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: Now you've gone for the cheapo job and now you 185 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: get Now it's like anything else. You buy something shitty 186 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 1: and then you go in and you end up spending 187 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 1: the money to get the real thing. You eat something 188 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: you didn't really want to eat because you were trying 189 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: to like not eat the real, good quality thing or 190 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: eat the thing you really wanted. Then you've eatn the 191 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: shitty thing and then you go back and eat the real, 192 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: good quality thing. So the point is, if you're going 193 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: to do something, fucking do it right and research, because 194 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: what you don't want is to go into a doctor. 195 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: They've got to clean up an old mess, and no 196 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: matter how good they are, it's gonna look like shit. 197 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: So that's scary. Okay. So the first guy was a 198 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: little bit more of a hot shot, does a lot 199 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: of this and seemed more like, let's do it all. 200 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: The second guy, which was what very recommended to me 201 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: as the air mes of these guys, was actually, you know, 202 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: took me into a very private space. It seemed very 203 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: professional in private, even from within the office, and um, 204 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: I had to wait like ten minutes. Paul came with 205 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: me and really really just seemed like they knew the 206 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: most of anybody. I can't even explain. There was a 207 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: calmness to them. And it wasn't just that they said, 208 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: I don't want it to look like you've had anything done, 209 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: because everybody's gonna say the same thing. They want natural, 210 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: They're all gonna say the same thing. This person, though, 211 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: thought it was a terrible idea for me to get 212 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: a liplift for that line, said that it's going to 213 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: be you will look very different. And you are on TV, 214 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: you're forward facing. You know, remember when Jennifer Gray got 215 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: her nose done the girl from Dirty Dancing and it 216 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: was like drastic, or you've seen Nicole Kiman or Meg 217 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: Ryan and just that all this work was drastic and 218 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: you don't even know what was done. And to me 219 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: more and all these people, um, some of the Kardashians, 220 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: Like he said, you've you got a lip lift to 221 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: fix that line, which is the only thing bothering you. 222 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 1: It could look very different. You know, this is not 223 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: supposed to be done, so you're supposed to look perfect. 224 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: Maybe it's just a little bit of like preventative sagging. 225 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: So um, he just seemed very mature, not in an 226 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: old way where he just seemed like he knew what 227 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: he was doing and there was a confidence to him. 228 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: And they're speaking your language, they understand your needs. Then 229 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: I met another person that I thought was lovely sweet. 230 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: It seemed like almost a junior version of this other 231 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: very professional person, likely less expensive because the second person 232 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: was was literally a third of the price of the 233 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: hot shot person who wanted me to do the whole 234 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: menu was a third of the price, still a fortune 235 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: a fortune, but the third person, I believe is arguably 236 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: is less expensive and seemed like a very very fine option, 237 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: could be excellent, would do great work. There were a 238 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: lot of people around the office, and I didn't feel 239 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: the privacy that I would desire, Meaning if I were 240 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: to do something like this, I don't want to be 241 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: part of a coffee clutch. I know in any office, 242 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: people are gonna talk, and they're gonna know them coming 243 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: in there, and it's not going to be a secret 244 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: because I'm telling you about it. But I don't want 245 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: to feel like I'm walking into like a group, you know, 246 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: water cooler conversation with a bunch of people that work 247 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: in office. So Paul noted that he's like I. It 248 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: seemed a little more juvenile. It seemed like we're it 249 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: was a little more collegiate, and he didn't like that 250 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: aspect of it. We want sort of the down the 251 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: hall into the private office, come through the back tour experience. 252 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: That's what he wanted for me, even though we know 253 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: everybody's gonna know, and I'm gonna tell everybody, but on 254 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: my own fucking terms. I just felt a little uncomfortable, 255 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: but was perfectly good. And then again my friend and 256 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her in a while since she had 257 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 1: it done, so I'll have to comment later. But she 258 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: got it done for about a fifth of the price 259 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 1: of these quotes, and she looks good. The point is, 260 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: it's very confusing. The one thing, and I will tell 261 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: you this. One of the people the last time I 262 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: went to look two years ago, said did you ever 263 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: have filler? And I had had it one time uptown UM. 264 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: I had had filler because I had gotten my job 265 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: botox to reduce it, which takes is a gradual process. 266 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: It's not just in one day. But then my I 267 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: had that hollow thing I was telling you about, and 268 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: so my dermatologists said that I should put some filler 269 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 1: in UM. And I did find no problem. It was 270 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: very light, it didn't matter. I don't remember noticing it. 271 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: Who cares. I think I bruised. But they the plastic 272 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: surgeon had seen that I had had once said filler. 273 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: He said, it's firm. I guess it never goes away 274 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,559 Speaker 1: or it stays there. That's scary, but I guess it 275 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: just stays there or forever. I don't know. You can't 276 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: see it. I don't have it in It was like 277 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: a long time ago. It's gone down, but I guess 278 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: two years ago he had seen it. What they all 279 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: say is botox is no problem. You could do botox. 280 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: So the cows come home. That filler is not good. 281 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: I don't know why they said. They said the strings, 282 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 1: there's like a Merrionette thing. I know, Sonya was public 283 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: about doing it, like they put a bunch of strings 284 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: in your face to pull it up. They all said 285 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: that was bullshit. They said all therapy they said that 286 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 1: was bullshit. They said that the filler, which is a 287 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: lot of that Hollywood you see, that looks like, you know, 288 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: shiny like round high chipmunk cheekbones, which also can be 289 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 1: a lift. But that look that like jokery look, and 290 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: that like glossy like high cheekbone look, which I have. 291 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: None of This um is all from all that filler 292 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: ship and that string ship and that old therapy ship. 293 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: And they all said that ship is bad. Don't do 294 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: that ship. So while everybody had a different opinion about 295 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: everything and what you should do and what you shouldn't do, 296 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: and how much it costs and whatever. Every one person 297 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: wants you to go to an oxygen tank and a 298 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: hyperbaric champ chamber and stay in a hotel next door 299 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: and do appeal. And everybody's a different program, believe me. 300 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: And they're still all making money and they're probably making 301 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: million a year, so don't worry. Um. But everybody said 302 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: that the filler ship is bad, that you're chasing youth. 303 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: The filler is because you just want to chase youth 304 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: and not do this plastic surgery stuff. So that's another 305 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: level of bad. And you know, I'd rather just age 306 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: gracefully and do nothing then look like a fucking filled clown. 307 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: So it seems to be that botox if you choose 308 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: to do it, well, you know, which I will do 309 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: like once or twice a year if I remember, is 310 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: good and also preventative, and that all that other ship 311 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 1: that doctors are trying to sell you is not going 312 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: to get you where you need to get because your 313 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: skin is still going to fault, and that it's going 314 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: to look fake and that it's bullshit. So that was 315 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: my plastic surgery tour. Um. I'm not sure what I'm 316 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: going to do, but I believe that at some point 317 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: I will do something. I don't know what and I 318 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: don't know how, but I do I agree that I 319 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: look like forty eight years old in my actual features 320 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: and face. Um, people always are telling you, you know, 321 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: oh god, she's getting old. She got older. Yeah, I'm 322 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: getting older. There is a clock right now. I think 323 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: it's I think I'm older than when we started this podcast, 324 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: to be honest, so I am aging. I just wanted 325 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: to do to know that. I went on a fact 326 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: finding mission. And if you do want to do something thing, 327 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: you should probably do it between forty and fifty three 328 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: because it's all coming down. So if you do know 329 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: and you don't have to do anything, and people look 330 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: totally beautiful and um, like my fiance's mother is old, 331 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: you know, older, and she looks gorgeous and she's never 332 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: had anything done. There are certain people that haven't had 333 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: anything done look amazing. Because you're allowed to have a face, 334 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: you're allowed to age, you're allowed to have wrinkles. I'm 335 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: just saying, if there's something that bothers you, and mine 336 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: is that line over my lip, and I can't even 337 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: control that anyway, So whatever that means to you. Filler 338 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: in the lip is to have a bigger lip. That's 339 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: a little different than filler in the face. I guess 340 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: if you want a bigger lip, then that's your own choice. Um, 341 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: And the lip lift will show more of your teeth 342 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: and be a lip lift. I mean, if you you're 343 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 1: allowed to also want, like we put makeup on and 344 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: we put a hot pink, you know, nails on, you're 345 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: allowed to want a little bit of a worked look. 346 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: That woman, Hakstein, who is married to the plastic surgeon, 347 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: has had everything done and you can see it. But 348 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: like that, you know, she looks worked, but it looks pretty, 349 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: and maybe she looks older because she's had work. My 350 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: assistant says, when she sees someone that looks like they've 351 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: obviously had plastic surgery, they just automatically look older to 352 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: her because they've had something done. And I know women 353 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: in their sixties who look amazing. Their skin looks like 354 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: a porcelain doll, but they still look older because they 355 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: look like they've had something done. So Lisa Hackstein is 356 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: a great example of someone who's probably been open about 357 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: her work. I think she looks like a doll, but 358 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: like other people think that looks worked. Some people like 359 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 1: Erica Jayne looks like a doll. Different people look like 360 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: a doll. But I kind of don't mind that look. 361 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: It just doesn't look good on me. Other people, like 362 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: the Kim Zulziac type people or these glamoramas, they look 363 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: like a doll. But like that's a look and you 364 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: are allowed to have, like a big, bulbous vpl. I 365 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: think it's called b b L or something. Ass and 366 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: curves and long extensions and nails and a thing. It's 367 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 1: just that it's going to look like a look, and 368 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: that's something you have to want. Some girls can pull 369 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 1: off that doll look and look amazing, so that lip 370 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: lift is gonna get I would look and I don't 371 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: think it's who I am as a person walking around 372 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: in pajamas and show you my black circles and my 373 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: do my own hair. My own fiance gets his hair 374 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: cut by one person who'll only go to I'm like 375 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: I said to him last night, you're fucking going to 376 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 1: a specialized hairdresser. I literally do my own hair color. 377 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 1: But in my house, I'll let anyone cut my hair, 378 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 1: so I don't seem like the one who needs to 379 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 1: look like a perfect doll. It just would seem a 380 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: little off brand, not just publicly inside my own body. 381 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: So you can fucking do it up Lisa Renist style 382 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: if you want. That's your own big you know, Collagen 383 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: lip look. And you know she's got the cheeks and 384 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: the whole thing, and there's a look there that's totally fine. 385 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: It's a very Housewives look. The Beverly Hills look has 386 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: become the Housewives look and there's nothing wrong with that. 387 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: It just looks done. And me being in that pool 388 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 1: adjacent makes me notice it more too, where I'm like, 389 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: wait a second, I'm the only one who wasn't done anything. 390 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 1: I haven't done. I know they've all done plastic surgery 391 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:56,919 Speaker 1: and I haven't done it. Um, So it's about your goals. 392 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: What do you want? And yeah, you that filler look, 393 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 1: that Collagen look, you want that look look, go for 394 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: the look. So just know what you want before you 395 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: go in there.