1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: Hey, so, okay, hear me out. I never really was 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: onto online dating or even online hooking up, okay, because 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 2: I just had it already. Not to brag, but anyway, 5 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: So we were sitting around the other night out at 6 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 2: the in the middle of nowhere where our house is located. 7 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: I said, I wonder how many of these local yocals 8 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: are on grinder. Okay, let's go on and see who's 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 2: you know, not only see how close they are to 10 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: where we live, or may how like, do they work 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: at the local grocery store, because out there, you know, 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: there's less people, it's not as concentrated as the city. 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: So we went on line and it, oh my god, 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 2: this guy used to work at the grocery store, used 15 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: to check me out, literally at the checkout counter. He 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 2: final these people. And then you look in this guy's 17 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: he's a thousand feet away from where we live right now, 18 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: and we live on acreage right now. That means he's 19 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: like the next farm over are he's sleeping and sleeping 20 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: in the hayloft, which is sort of a fantasy, right. 21 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: So I'm thinking, well, let's go to the city where 22 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 2: we have apartment buildings. We're living in an apartment building 23 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: filled with people. Every block has, you know, hundreds of 24 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 2: thousands of people. There's guys looking for sex like three 25 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: feet away from me. I'm like, oh my god, are 26 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: they above me? Are the on top of me? Where 27 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: are they? I guess? 28 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 3: So, so your idea was iHeart, Well, you know where 29 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: we work. I wonder who in this building is on 30 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 3: that app and maybe people that we don't know are 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: baby Yeah. 32 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: And that's totally fine. So I'm waiting for the doors 33 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 2: to open, like in a couple of hours, I'm gonna 34 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: start to see who's here. 35 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 4: Ye able to identify them, because isn't it just like 36 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 4: a lot of torsos and dingers? 37 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I don't. They don't really show dingersig building. 38 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 5: So I want or how many people you're gonna find? 39 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: They could be the inches away from you. Well, look, 40 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: here's Nate. I do have a question though, what so 41 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 2: why are you on here? Curiosity? Because we were thinking 42 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: about who in acuse the conversation came up with other 43 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 2: people like it's a friend of ours I'm paraphrasing, anyway, 44 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: a friend of ours knew someone on Grinder who never 45 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: suspected would be on there, and so like, who's around us? 46 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: So we started looking. Okay, so you could go on 47 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 2: with tender most of. 48 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:32,519 Speaker 4: The dating apps, yeah, I think. 49 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: And it gives you geo tracks everyone, So I don't 50 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: know because I don't go on them how close until 51 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: now Hello. 52 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 4: That also means that they're going to see you on 53 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 4: there and they're gonna be like, oh, I'm looking for sex. 54 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: Right now, I'm so cloaked. No, I'm one of those. 55 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 2: It's just it's just like the silhouette of a person 56 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 2: I say nothing about me. 57 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 1: If we have people starting creeping around outside of our 58 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: studio and we're like, where do you come from? 59 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 5: We heard somebody in here is on Tinder. 60 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: It's like it's like having a metal detector to beach exactly, Homo, 61 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 2: watch that froggy. 62 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 6: Now. 63 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: Is Grinder specifically a hookup app? Or is it also 64 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: a dating app? Well, let's call a spad's it's a 65 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: hookup app. Okay, there was. I've learned with my recent 66 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: travels on this app that some of some of them 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: are saying you looking for friendship, looking for someone to 68 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: go out to the bar with. 69 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, right is specifically for men. Grinder, So why is 70 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: it called grind her? Shouldn't we called grind him or something? 71 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: Grind g R I N d R is not even 72 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 2: an E in it. So there they're making they're being 73 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: very clear, there's no E. I'm gonna throw a flag 74 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: on the play there. 75 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 3: I think somebody has found a relationship on Grinder at 76 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: least one. 77 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: Everybody messes around and falls and love nate, but it's 78 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 2: not wasn't intended that way in the beginning. 79 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 4: Well, you know, you know all the terminology, like all 80 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 4: the grinder terminology here. 81 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: Why are you getting close to me? Why is it 82 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: close to me that excited? I feel like when Tinder 83 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: first came out, it was for relationships, but that quickly 84 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: turned the corner. It's had nothing but hookups. Tinder's nothing 85 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: but a hook up that you're not going to find 86 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: a husband or a wife on that. Okay, well, he says, 87 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: with certain certainty, people have it stopped generalizing. Go stand 88 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: by gandhi, freak her out? 89 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 6: No, please, what I mean? 90 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: You know you're kind of close to me. I can 91 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: feel your breath on my neck. Well no, you don't, no, no, 92 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 2: don't play like the victim here. How would you like 93 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: it if I was like breathing on your neck? No, 94 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: don't be sorry, seriously, don't easy. Gets creepy when someone's 95 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 2: breathing on your neck. 96 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, well I don't. 97 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: Maybe if you spake them up on grinder, it's not right. Yeah, 98 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: that didn't pick you up. And if it's smells like 99 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 2: last night's. 100 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 4: Garlic anyway, I don't like being breathed on. 101 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: It's interesting. Interesting. I just I look at it, look 102 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 2: at it from the society point of view, because I'm 103 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 2: not looking afflict with anyone. But it's interesting to like 104 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: try to figure out like this guy his face looks 105 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: from oh my god. 106 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: Yes, well that's like when we went to the sex club. 107 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: Remember all those years ago, we went to that S 108 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: and M club in New York City. We went as 109 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: a group as an experiment because we were curious. And 110 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 1: there were like the guys that you sit next to 111 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: every day at work, and they had their clothes folded 112 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: in a nice pile getting ready to be spanked, so 113 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: you don't. 114 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 5: Know who's doing what and who's wearing you know. 115 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: One guy had an apple in his mouth, remember, and 116 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,119 Speaker 1: his feet were in the things. 117 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, and he could have been your dentist. 118 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 119 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 2: They called him lu al lu Hello. He was on 120 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 2: the spit right ready to go. Anyway, So I got 121 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: someone wants to talk about the Grinder thing. This is 122 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: so okay. This could answer a few questions that were 123 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 2: raised earlier. Hi, Brent, how are you feeling? 124 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 6: Hey, good morning? Doing well in yourself. 125 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: Doing very well. So we're talking about Grinder and you 126 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: know all the dating and hookup apps, like how many 127 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: people were actually married after these things? So you have 128 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 2: an interesting scenario that you saw about ten years ago, 129 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: right what happened? 130 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 6: Yeah? So ten years ago, you know, single, not sure 131 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 6: what I want to do. I knew I didn't want 132 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 6: to hook up. I just wanted friends, so decided to 133 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 6: get on there. Had it listed in my profile. Only friend. 134 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 6: If you're looking for anything else, don't even bother writing 135 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 6: me because I'm not interested, okay, all right? And all 136 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 6: of a sudden, this guy wrote me, and I was like, 137 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 6: all right, I know what you're looking for. I'm not, 138 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 6: so let's go ahead and just end the conversation. I'm 139 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 6: only looking for a friend, and he goes, well, I 140 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 6: am too. I was like, oh, okay, you know, we'll 141 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 6: see where this goes. End up starting to date after that, 142 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 6: It was probably about three months after we started talking 143 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 6: online that up. Finally we kept talking on the phone, 144 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 6: we were texting, decided to meet up for dinner. Ten 145 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 6: years later, we've been married for five years. 146 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: Oh well, okay, okay, so it happened. Yeah, exactly. So 147 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 2: anyone who says no, these things are absolutely nothing but 148 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: hookup apps, they're not correct. 149 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 6: That is correct. 150 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 2: And so I bet there's a ka billion people listening 151 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: to us right now that would say the same thing. 152 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: Oh no, but you are very specific when when you 153 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 2: when you put the when you filled in your profile 154 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: and stuff. I'm not looking for anything but just someone 155 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: to talk to and be friends with. 156 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 6: But I correct. I didn't want to lead anyone on, 157 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 6: and I didn't want them to lead me on thinking 158 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 6: that we were looking for two different things and it 159 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 6: was never going to work for either one of them. 160 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 2: I know. But Brent, if you if anyone ever asked 161 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: how you guys met and you tell them, do they 162 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: look at you like oh okay, and. 163 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 6: You're like no, no, really, they look they think I'm crazy. 164 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 6: They're like, no, you didn't we know what that site 165 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 6: is and I'm like, no, seriously, well. 166 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: About to be fair, it really is it truly is 167 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: that it is for many different things. It's there's a 168 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: lot of different things you can find on Grinder and 169 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 2: Hallmark movie. It is it really, I'm seeing that particular one. 170 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 2: It's a hallmarker you watching. Alright, Well, congratulations Brent, and 171 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 2: thank you. I love that you uh you gave us 172 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: affirmation there. I appreciate it and have a great day. 173 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 6: Okay, all right, thanks to you. Grace too.