WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Quirky Lady

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat of to day. If there's one word that

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<v Speaker 1>describes our morning show, it's probably quirky. Yeah. I can

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<v Speaker 1>see it either quirky or quirky. That's way more fun. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you never know what you're going to find

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<v Speaker 1>one of us doing at any moment when you walk

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<v Speaker 1>around a corner in the ad. But I do think

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<v Speaker 1>quirky describes us pretty well. And also one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Jamie describes herself as being quirky. In fact, it's right

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<v Speaker 1>there in her online dating profile. So theoretically we should

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<v Speaker 1>get along great, Okay, Yeah, well sometimes sometimes if we

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<v Speaker 1>have too much in common, you don't get along at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you never, you don't want too much quirky. Yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>meet her though. What's up, Jamie? Hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like her? I mean too. 'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the guy you want us to call Jamie.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his deal? Okay, So let me tell you a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about me, because then maybe i'll understand like

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<v Speaker 1>my conundrum. Okay, how quirky? Do you not answer my question?

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay? No, no, no, I don't mean to have

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<v Speaker 1>this is your moment, Jamie. You take it where you

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<v Speaker 1>need to go. Yeah, tell us about it, tells about

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<v Speaker 1>your past. Okay. So here's the thing, Like I am

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<v Speaker 1>super upfront about how on my profile or like the

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<v Speaker 1>second you lay eyes on me, like it's obvious that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm quirky. But the thing is is I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that guys like they don't really believe that until they

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<v Speaker 1>actually meet me. Can I ask what I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>would we see if we can't see you? So, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about it? The moment you lay

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<v Speaker 1>eyes on you you're quirky? How would you be able

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<v Speaker 1>to tell that? Okay? Okay? So, like I have this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really obsessed with numerology and the number seven okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so things like you know, my parents are like

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<v Speaker 1>old hippies, so like the barefoot and stuff all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have to walk into a building barefoot in

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<v Speaker 1>seven steps or some interval of seven. Okay. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that some po call that quirky. Yes, unsanitary. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of different ways to look at it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we've established you definitely are quirky and you have rules

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<v Speaker 1>of sevens. Now, can we learn about the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call? What's his name? It's Clay. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he is like a really nice guy, and we met

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<v Speaker 1>on Tinder and we had agreed that we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a restaurant. Okay, before we even get

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant, does he know about your no shoe

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<v Speaker 1>walk through? I didn't think of that. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell people that I didn't know. But it says in

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<v Speaker 1>her profile that she's quirky, so he should just assume

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<v Speaker 1>that quirky is like Zoey Deschanel. Okay, whatever, So how

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<v Speaker 1>did it? How did it go? So? Anyway, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>told you, we agreed to me at a restaurant, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I was going to get there in time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I texted him telling him that I would be

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<v Speaker 1>late because, like, I also have this other ritual that

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<v Speaker 1>I like to do, and I do it anytime I

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<v Speaker 1>think really big is happening, like a date or like

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<v Speaker 1>a job interview? What is it? I'm nervous? Yea? And

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do? So I have to drive around

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<v Speaker 1>the block seven times? I always sound so low CD Right,

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<v Speaker 1>but why is it? I mean, do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>reason for it? It's good luck, it's lucky seven. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give a weird defense to you, right, now, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think anyone in the room understands I. Every day

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<v Speaker 1>when I leave my car, no matter where I park,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to put my volume on twelve. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why it started a long time ago. Look at

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<v Speaker 1>that quirky part of that fourth that we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>on this show. Quirky, but I understand her in a way.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing that would be better if it was

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<v Speaker 1>an interval of seven. So if it's like fourteen or

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<v Speaker 1>for you now you're weirdo okay, okay, So you drove

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<v Speaker 1>around the block seven times before pulling into park at

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, I did, And I have one last ritol

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<v Speaker 1>that I do and another one that's okay, do you

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<v Speaker 1>got Jamie Wow? So I love the song. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>a feeling. I got a yeah right right, okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I have to listen to it beginning to end,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I just walk in with my bare feet

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like groove and I'm like you are. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how long we've been talking, and all

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<v Speaker 1>we've gotten to is you've entered through the front door.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean seventy minutes. She's gonna take an hour and

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<v Speaker 1>a half of preparation just to get to the dinner. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's go fast forward. You're sitting down with

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<v Speaker 1>Clay at the restaurant. Have you circled the table seven times?

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<v Speaker 1>How did that go? Okay? So I got there and he,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, said he's like this super a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I'm sorry, I'm late, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>filled him in on like everything I just told you. Yo, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>in the first like a minute of meeting him, you

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<v Speaker 1>give him all of it? What quirky con I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you learned that very fast. That is, it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a lot of information to take it. It's true,

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<v Speaker 1>but Brooke has always said honesty is the best policy. True,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not saying that she should lie. But at

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<v Speaker 1>what point did you start learning about him? And how

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<v Speaker 1>did he react? I guess it is a better question.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say? He doesn't seem like he was

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<v Speaker 1>put off by it, because you know, we kept talking

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<v Speaker 1>and then we ordered some food and I just like

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<v Speaker 1>went total junk food. I was like, yes, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>the mozzarella sticks. But I was like, I know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just eight on the menu. Group. Could you just like

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<v Speaker 1>throw one away. No, you didn't want an odd number seven? Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's brain is overloaded with quirkiness right now. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>used to this Normally. I would ask, in this situation,

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<v Speaker 1>can you think of anything weird or unusual that she

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<v Speaker 1>may have done on the date and may have come

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<v Speaker 1>off a little bit strange? But I think we covered

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe too much. Chicken. Oh you guys, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not tell you about the whole tip sting.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gone, what was it? So? You know, because

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<v Speaker 1>he was so nice and he paid for dinner, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, could I please leave the tip? Good? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I was sitting there, like trying to pull out

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<v Speaker 1>the cash in my wallet and I just was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of leaving through and he's like, are you okay? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, no, no, I'm totally fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't decide whether I want to leave thirty five

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<v Speaker 1>or twenty eight dollars? Thirty five or twenty okay? Multiples

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<v Speaker 1>of seven? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, sorry, sorry, third grade multiplication tables? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why was that weird? You know? I was just taking

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<v Speaker 1>a little too long, you know, And he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just give her thirty five And then he handed me

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<v Speaker 1>some other cash and we you know, walked out and

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. Oh good, that sounds natural, that sounds easy. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you end the night? Well, he walked me

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<v Speaker 1>to my car, very gentlemanly, and I was worried that

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<v Speaker 1>I had come across not just like of my normal course,

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<v Speaker 1>but a little high maintenance, you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you do have a lot of demands and specifications,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's fine. I mean, if you're high maintenance, your

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<v Speaker 1>high maintenance, and I think that if you can embrace

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<v Speaker 1>that and know that that is you, then other people

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<v Speaker 1>are able to do the same thing. Not high maintenance Brooks.

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<v Speaker 1>She's quirky. Oh god, I mean yeah, we we support it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song seven times and then we come back. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back and we're gonna play one song. We'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and we'll call Clay for you. Try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, Okay, thank you guys so much.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on second update. It may be the

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<v Speaker 1>quirkiest second date update in our show's history. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed the first part, one of our listeners Jamie

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<v Speaker 1>told us she's quirky and she has a few good

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<v Speaker 1>luck rituals that she does on all her dates, all

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<v Speaker 1>revolving around her lucky number seven. Yeah, she drives around

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<v Speaker 1>the block seven times, she has to take seven steps

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<v Speaker 1>into the building while being barefoot. She paid her tip

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<v Speaker 1>thirty five dollars, which Alexis just learned is a multiple

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<v Speaker 1>of seven. But now Jamie's worried that maybe she overquirked

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<v Speaker 1>herself on the date. It was too quirk tastic. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to move past this quirky work. It's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to move I think we can. I think we could

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<v Speaker 1>do it, Jeff. Yeah, but now Jamie's wanting us to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to Clayton and see if the quirks were

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<v Speaker 1>too much. How you feeling, Jamie, I gotta fail it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got the furgy thing too. I forgot to mention

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<v Speaker 1>that's also one of her quirks that she has to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to that song before a big date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Although Jamie, it feels like a lot, you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, but you also are incredibly positive, You

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<v Speaker 1>sound super fun and you do own it all, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not forcing anybody else to participate in your

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<v Speaker 1>seven rituals. So exactly, I think we can get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Thank you. I'm so excited. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>give it a shot. We're gonna call Clayton right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm only gonna call him once. You don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>like dialing rituals. Right, there are seven numbers in the

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<v Speaker 1>phone number, so maybe that's enough. Yeah, there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. There's seven digits and I've already done my

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<v Speaker 1>seven jumping jack, so I was good. All right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a dialer right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking to speak with clay Who's this. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hope we're not waking you up. No, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not waking me up. Oh this is your normal voice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, no, I just I'm answering a number I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Sorry, we appreciate the risk you just took it. Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>we do. We understand what it's like picking up an

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<v Speaker 1>unknown number. You're very brave. I just gonna let you

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<v Speaker 1>know where. They're the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and we're doing a segment called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date Update that we would like you to be part of.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest, I have no idea what you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Okay, well, it's all right. Let me just

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<v Speaker 1>fail you in on how this works. Basically, if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody, and afterwards, if

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<v Speaker 1>that person isn't calling you back, you can email our

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<v Speaker 1>show and we'll reach out to them for you to

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<v Speaker 1>try and figure out the reason why. So, somebody emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us trying to get a hold of you. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jamie. Okay, all right, and Jamie told us all

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<v Speaker 1>about the date that you guys had and how things

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<v Speaker 1>went from her perspective, and she said she had a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice time with you. She told you all about it.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she tell you? She told us a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. She admits herself that she's a little bit quirky,

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<v Speaker 1>and she has some good luck rituals that she likes

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<v Speaker 1>to do during a date. And it sounds like in

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<v Speaker 1>the first minute she dumped all these facts on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>admittedly it was a lot, but I mean, like I

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I gotta say that I applaud her honesty

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<v Speaker 1>and bravery, which is nice. You know, you don't often

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<v Speaker 1>see that a lot. Okay, so you liked her then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, like, there were some weird things, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she does, She's got some odd things. What's the one

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<v Speaker 1>thing that really stuck out to you is as the

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<v Speaker 1>most quirky unusual. Well, the only thing that she really

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<v Speaker 1>said that really kind of caught me off guard was like,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, we were saying her goodbyes,

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<v Speaker 1>rot by her car, We've already agreed that we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to see each other again, and then she told me

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<v Speaker 1>that one of her quirks, as we say, is that

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't like to get shall we say, romantic until

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<v Speaker 1>date number twenty one. Yeah, here's the thing. I totally

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<v Speaker 1>understand that. I just am not certain that I'm capable

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<v Speaker 1>of waiting that long because between her schedules it might

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<v Speaker 1>be a year and a half. Yeah, okay, slow out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, does she mean all of the romantic or

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<v Speaker 1>are you even talking about like kissing and other things?

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<v Speaker 1>She kind of generalized it, but it seemed like pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much anything physical twenty one date? But why, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see it as terrible. It's not like she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that's gonna go how many people to even make

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<v Speaker 1>it on twenty one. I try to be open minded here. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, I'm a person in the room that obviously

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<v Speaker 1>would not do this. I would choose, But everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>their boundaries and ways they feel like they can connect

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<v Speaker 1>to people and feel safe. And so did she give

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<v Speaker 1>you a reason? That's just part of her thing, And again,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing against it. I'm not certain that I can wait

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<v Speaker 1>that long, and it's not fair to her to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>string her along or what. Well, you haven't even gone

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date yet, and don't you think that

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<v Speaker 1>you decide that. Don't you think that you should tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that you're not okay with her? Twenty one date rule?

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<v Speaker 1>If that's how you feel, dude, If I, if I

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<v Speaker 1>say something like that, I sound like a total jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I like, oh, yeah, I'd love to date

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<v Speaker 1>you again, but I don't want to win a year

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<v Speaker 1>and a half, Like come on, man, I sound like

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<v Speaker 1>ale If I say that, I don't know if that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>The only way to know that is if we asked Jamie, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that he sounded like a total jerk

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<v Speaker 1>when he said that I'm talking about and she's not

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<v Speaker 1>with me right now? Well, no, actually she kind of is,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to let you know that Jamie's been

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening and she wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. No, are you serious right now? Yeah, I'm serious, Jamie. Hi, Hi, Clary.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't sound mad, Jamie. You're upset about him not

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<v Speaker 1>liking the twenty one day rule. I'm just surprised that

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<v Speaker 1>he brought it up at all because it's like so personal,

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<v Speaker 1>so intimately, you know, that's why I didn't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about it earlier. But like, of course I'm not mad.

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<v Speaker 1>I hadn't even thought about the calendar problem of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's totally true because in my head and I

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<v Speaker 1>know I totally did not tell you this. But like

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<v Speaker 1>if we did like three things, like we went to

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<v Speaker 1>a botanic gard in and then we went to lunch

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<v Speaker 1>and then we went for a walk, that's like three days.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did you hear that? So you're saying we can

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<v Speaker 1>check off these things like a multiple destinations in the

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<v Speaker 1>same day, like we could narrow it down to where

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like, are you gonna have to what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, be careful how you answered this, Jamie, because

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to find a shortcut to get to twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one activities as quickly as possible. You go to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>you have coffee to start. That's one day. You have dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>that second dessert. I would go. I would take her

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<v Speaker 1>to a carnival. I'd be like, we did the balloon bood,

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<v Speaker 1>we did the really toss Jamie, your date math is

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<v Speaker 1>going to get you in trouble. Does this count as

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<v Speaker 1>a date, Jamie? In your mind? You know what, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably my most unconventional date to date. So yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so look at that we have. We have

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<v Speaker 1>two dates out of the way already. Yeah. Bang, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the way you told to me originally, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to make you do something you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do. Yeah, Clay's got to play. Oh my god, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's always same. No. He was actually saying something like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost impossible to get any guy to say, which

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<v Speaker 1>is he actually cares about what I like and what

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<v Speaker 1>I need. That's so kind and gentlemanly of you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the first half of what he said. The second half was,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not willing to wait that long. Okay, but listen, listen, Jamie.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think the thing is, is it sticking

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<v Speaker 1>to a certain number of anything is going to make

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<v Speaker 1>life very rigid, and it's not going to make things

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<v Speaker 1>feel natural between you two of how chemistry evolves and

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<v Speaker 1>how YouTube change your attitudes towards each other. And I

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<v Speaker 1>could totally respect that opinion. But I'm me and I'm honest,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm upfront and I'm quirky, and it's totally fine

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<v Speaker 1>if that does not like work or vibe or jibe

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<v Speaker 1>with whatever is going on for Clay or like anybody else. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you do you eat baby? I mean Clay?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like her more right now than you thought

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<v Speaker 1>you even did before? Because she is really positive? I

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<v Speaker 1>really you're starting to understand the things that I adored

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<v Speaker 1>the first time. Like I said, she's got quarks, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's an amazing person. Like she's she's totally likable. And

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<v Speaker 1>we've already talked long enough. We're already at like date

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<v Speaker 1>number three at least, so changing the topic of conversation

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<v Speaker 1>counts as on you d You know, Jeff's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of ways you can follow the rule. It's a good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>more than one way to scan a cat. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>change up the conversation topic one more time and offer

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys out on another date. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what number it is. I don't. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where we're at now, but we're gonna offer to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Clay, what do you say? Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm fine with the normal waiting for three

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<v Speaker 1>to five, seven, et cetera. Okay, we'll have quarks too,

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<v Speaker 1>they just don't have to be in the intervals to

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<v Speaker 1>seventh at minor. Yeh, done with the number seven. I

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<v Speaker 1>heard play say yes, Yeah, that's the important That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I heard. Okay, focus on that. Jeffrey, Jamie, are we

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<v Speaker 1>still on? Oh yeah, I'm definitely going out with him,

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<v Speaker 1>are you right? Successful second date update seven times to

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<v Speaker 1>make it. I'm going how with him? I'm going out

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<v Speaker 1>with him and going out with him her Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning