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Speaker 1: see it either quirky or quirky. That's way more fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you never know what you're going to find

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Speaker 1: quirky describes us pretty well. And also one of our listeners,

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Speaker 1: Jamie describes herself as being quirky. In fact, it's right

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Speaker 1: there in her online dating profile. So theoretically we should

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Speaker 1: get along great, Okay, Yeah, well sometimes sometimes if we

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Speaker 1: meet her though. What's up, Jamie? Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: I kind of like her? I mean too. 'll tell

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Speaker 1: us about the guy you want us to call Jamie.

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Speaker 1: What's his deal? Okay, So let me tell you a

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Speaker 1: That's okay? No, no, no, I don't mean to have

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Speaker 1: this is your moment, Jamie. You take it where you

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Speaker 1: need to go. Yeah, tell us about it, tells about

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Speaker 1: your past. Okay. So here's the thing, Like I am

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Speaker 1: second you lay eyes on me, like it's obvious that

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Speaker 1: what are you talking about it? The moment you lay

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Speaker 1: to tell that? Okay? Okay? So, like I have this thing,

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Speaker 1: I'm really obsessed with numerology and the number seven okay,

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Speaker 1: and so things like you know, my parents are like

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Speaker 1: we've established you definitely are quirky and you have rules

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Speaker 1: of sevens. Now, can we learn about the guy that

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Speaker 1: you want us to call? What's his name? It's Clay. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he is like a really nice guy, and we met

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Speaker 1: to go to a restaurant. Okay, before we even get

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Speaker 1: to the restaurant, does he know about your no shoe

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Speaker 1: walk through? I didn't think of that. You have to

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Speaker 1: that quirky is like Zoey Deschanel. Okay, whatever, So how

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Speaker 1: did it? How did it go? So? Anyway, Like I

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Speaker 1: but I texted him telling him that I would be

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Speaker 1: late because, like, I also have this other ritual that

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Speaker 1: a job interview? What is it? I'm nervous? Yea? And

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Speaker 1: that quirky part of that fourth that we're talking about

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Speaker 1: quirkiest second date update in our show's history. And if

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Speaker 1: Although Jamie, it feels like a lot, you know, for

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Speaker 1: looking to speak with clay Who's this. My name is

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: try and figure out the reason why. So, somebody emailed

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Speaker 1: us trying to get a hold of you. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Jamie. Okay, all right, and Jamie told us all

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Speaker 1: date number twenty one. Yeah, here's the thing. I totally

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Speaker 1: The only way to know that is if we asked Jamie, Jamie,

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Speaker 1: to you. No, are you serious right now? Yeah, I'm serious, Jamie. Hi, Hi, Clary.

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Speaker 1: You don't sound mad, Jamie. You're upset about him not

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Speaker 1: it's not like, are you gonna have to what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: I mean, be careful how you answered this, Jamie, because

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Speaker 1: that's always same. No. He was actually saying something like,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not willing to wait that long. Okay, but listen, listen, Jamie.

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Speaker 1: I mean I think the thing is, is it sticking

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Speaker 1: I mean you do you eat baby? I mean Clay?

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Speaker 1: of ways you can follow the rule. It's a good thing,

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Speaker 1: more than one way to scan a cat. Well, let's

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Speaker 1: to five, seven, et cetera. Okay, we'll have quarks too,

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Speaker 1: still on? Oh yeah, I'm definitely going out with him,

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