1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 2: Part one behind a scene with a member of the show. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: What's up, everybody? Welcome to the Best Bits this weekend. 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: I am joined by Amy Amy. 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: How are you hi? Happy to be back? Except for 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 2: this is our first time in our new studio doing this, 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 2: I know, and we're. 8 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: In like a little pod studio. 9 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: So hopefull feels weird, it goes okay, Yeah, it looks 10 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 2: like it's working. 11 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: At least we're recording. That's a good sign. 12 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: Everything else TVD Yeah, hopefully this sounds okay. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: So we did have a bunch happened on the show 14 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: this week. Amy had a personal bonehead story. You came 15 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: in at number one and you are on this weekend, 16 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: so naturally that fits right, Okay. Lunchbox always gets mad 17 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: when he's not number one when he's on that ohe 18 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: I don't know that. 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 2: I've ever thought about that, but yeah, well that's because 20 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 2: it's Lunchbox. 21 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: And Bobby addressed some Internet rumors about himself. Traffic talk 22 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: came back. We talked about some alcoholic beverages and very 23 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: dangerous ones. We had some Halloween stuff happen for myself 24 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: for lunch Box and there was some parking garage drama. 25 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: So all of that is over on part two. But 26 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: we are, you know, well inside information here. We're recording 27 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,960 Speaker 1: this on Halloween currently. So do you have any Halloween 28 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: plans or things that you've done for Halloween up until now? 29 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: Or has it been like zero Halloween in the Brown household. 30 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 2: No, We've been getting my son's costume ready. He's some 31 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,639 Speaker 2: men in black or a man in black for trigger 32 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 2: treating or for something else for trick or treating. Okay, 33 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: so no, he's wearing you know, black suit, black tie, 34 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: black sunglasses. 35 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: Do they wear halloween as to school anymore? 36 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: Ear piece? He could have worn it to school, he 37 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: chose not to, so he'll be debuting it tonight. He's 38 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,919 Speaker 2: got a little men in Black badge where we printed 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: out like I just ordered like a little insert with 40 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: a lanyard thing on Amazon and then printed out his 41 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: own little custom like his photos on it, so it 42 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: looks like he actually works for m IB. 43 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Does he have like a little alien friend, a little 44 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: blow up alien dollar or anything. 45 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 2: No, just and he doesn't even have him been in 46 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: black partner. He just says he's just him. He's just 47 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 2: so low he's just. 48 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: So low before Will Smith figured out his partner. 49 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, so that's fun. Yeah, he's excited. 50 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 2: My daughter's not dressing up. They had a little thing 51 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: at church last night and she was like a scarecrow, 52 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 2: but she just like drew on her face and. 53 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: Did you wear like some overalls? 54 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: No, it was just her. She just didn't know. She 55 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: was like, I wanted to be a square scarecrow, but 56 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 2: then she really she couldn't really complete the look, so 57 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 2: she just dressed kind of normal but then had a 58 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: scarecrow face. 59 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: Okay, a fun funhousehold activities any pumpkin carvings or. 60 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: Fall now, sure they didn't want to do any of that. 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if they're just aging out. But she's 62 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: not doing anything tonight. Now she is going to dress 63 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: up as a pirate on Saturday with her friends, and 64 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 2: I it's like everything in me to make sure that 65 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: it's not, you know, like sexy pirate. 66 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: She is getting to that age and where it's possible. 67 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 68 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: Is it a party. Somebody's having a party. Yeah, okay, 69 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: so fun. See it's the after party. What about you? 70 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: Have you done anything for Halloween? 71 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: No, it's not I've never really gotten into it. I 72 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: don't really get excited about dressing up. I guess I've 73 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: always been a little envious of people that take it 74 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 2: a little more seriously and like have a lot of 75 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 2: fun with it. But it's just never been my personality ever, 76 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 2: even when I was a kid or not my thing. 77 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 2: I don't know why. So No, I'm going to walk 78 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: around tonight, I guess, but just dressed as me. 79 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: No, you're not even gonna put on like a onesie 80 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: or anything. You could do a onesie easily. 81 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: I have a bone onesie. I gotta find it though, 82 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 2: like a skeleton. Yeah, but I don't know what I 83 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: did with it when I moved. 84 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: I feel like you wore that when y'all went to 85 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: visit Saint Jude, Right, I feel like I remember that 86 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: picture of all of you guys. Okay, that's the only one. 87 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you doing? 88 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: No Halloween stuff? Well I've done. This will now be 89 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: my third weekend of dressing up for Halloween. I'm not 90 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: normally super into Halloween, but this year, for some reason, 91 00:03:59,080 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: I've just been. 92 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: Wait, I thought you were gonna stay home this weekend. 93 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: I am one night. One night, I'm going out for 94 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: a Halloween party at a bar. 95 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you literally said the other day, I'm not doing 96 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 2: anything this weekend. 97 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: I got I got convinced. I'm not very hard to convince. 98 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: If I'm just sitting at home, then I'm like, Okay, 99 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: well I don't really have a reason not to. So 100 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 1: I am going to go to a Halloween party. But 101 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: and I have a new costume. So far, I was 102 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter Dolly Parton and now tomorrow, me and one 103 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: of my good friends who's a brunette. We were trying 104 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: to come up with like iconic blonde and brunette duos, 105 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: and we landed on Regina George and Gretchen Wieners from 106 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: Mean Girls. 107 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 2: Oh that's gonna be cute. 108 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: Yes, So I have like a little costume where like 109 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: you know the part in the movie where her tank 110 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: top gets cut, m h, and she's had a cart 111 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: and she just kind of walks around like whatever that 112 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm wearing that outfit, and then she has like a 113 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: Gretchen Wiener's and I've encouraged her to bring around toaster shirtles. 114 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 2: That's gonna be so cute. I love that movie. Do 115 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: you know I saw when I was looking for a 116 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 2: fun factor the other day for the show. It was 117 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: only a few years older than uh whoever was was it? 118 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: Whose mom? 119 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: Was she? 120 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: Rachel my cath. 121 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, well Regina George Yeah, Rachel mc cat. 122 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: Yes, so she was only a few years older than 123 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 2: her playing her mom. 124 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: That's so funny. And they made her I feel like 125 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: they made her look like with her clothes and stuff, 126 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: made her look like she was older because she was 127 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: the one that was always wearing the tracksuit. 128 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. It's like I'm a cool mom. Yeah, not 129 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: a regular mom, but. 130 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: Like in the face. She never did. It was just 131 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: like more of the outfits and stuff and the way 132 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 1: they style their hair. But that's funny. So yeah, that's 133 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: our It'll be my third time dressing up. And then 134 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: after that party, I will be decorating for Christmas. 135 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: This medions yeah same, like I'm ready, Yeah, we're I'm decorating. 136 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: I decided the first week of November because I want 137 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: to enjoy it for as long as possible. 138 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: See that's how I am. Because you go through so 139 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: much effort of putting it up and then you can 140 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: only have it for a month. That's stupid. Enjoy it 141 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: for the whole month and then Thanksgiving. I never really 142 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: have decorations for Thanksgiving. I'm not gonna put up a 143 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: bunch of stuffed turkeys, you know. And Pumpkin's already over. 144 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: A pumpkin is associated with Halloween. 145 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: No there. You can still have them out through Thanksgiving, you. 146 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: Can, but like nobody's ever selling pumpkins anymore, you know 147 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like the pumpkin stands and stuff stop 148 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: selling them at the beginning of November. 149 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, Christmas has already taken over. 150 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so it'll be Halloween one night next week 151 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: or next night on Christmas when I'm staying home, I'll 152 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: be doing Christmas stuff. So that's just going on over there. 153 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 1: How are the kids doing besides Halloween? 154 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 2: They're doing great. We just got grades for like where 155 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 2: they are currently, and I was very proud of them, 156 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 2: so or I am very proud of them. 157 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: So that's exciting. Is that the first quarterly review? 158 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: I guess I don't I don't know how it works anymore. 159 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: It's like mid yeah, we halfway. 160 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: Because then you get another one after December. 161 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, at the end of the semester. But I 162 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 2: was just very proud of them and you know, English 163 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: being their second language, there's some stuff that, you know, 164 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: just some of the fundamentals that they didn't have. It's 165 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 2: not even just the English as their second language, but 166 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: not having some of the basics to build upon because 167 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: they didn't come here until later and they didn't have 168 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: those fundamentals at their school in Haiti. So it's just 169 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: very cool to see them grow and learn and evolve. 170 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 2: I think Stevens is going to be into music, though 171 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: I need to get him into some music classes because 172 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm like, is there like a high 173 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 2: school he could go to that would just tap into 174 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: more of his creativity and we don't have to worry 175 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: about chemistry and math and you could always happen because. 176 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Like choir and drama classes and stuff. 177 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: I feel like most no, but he still has to 178 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: do all the other things. I'm like, is there a 179 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: school where we can just be like, hey, look, we're 180 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: not going to focus on this, this, and this because 181 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: you don't need it. There's more a way he's going 182 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: to need it, or just like I don't know, or 183 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 2: basic life skills. I just as a parent, sometimes it's 184 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: so frustrating because I know he's never going to need that. 185 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: You just don't see him going down that pathway now. 186 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: And I mean, I know what I didn't need. And 187 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 2: these are things that were a struggle for me in 188 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 2: school too, and I think I would have benefited like 189 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: having other options. And there are like art schools, I know, 190 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: I guess. 191 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: I just don't know that we have them here, but 192 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: I know there's art schools. 193 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just starts. He's in seventh grade now, So 194 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: I was just thinking if I start looking into now, 195 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 2: or if any listeners happen to know or you have 196 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: any recommendations for me, like if you've noticed something similar 197 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 2: in your kids where there's a spark there but you 198 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: need to nurture it. But I just don't know how 199 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: to do that while we're like all of our time 200 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: is dedicated to homework. Yeah, and that's so tough in 201 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,359 Speaker 2: all of the other subjects that are a little more challenging. 202 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 2: So I don't know that's where we are, So I'll 203 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: take I'm open to feedback tips any parents have been 204 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: down this road before me, But I think I'm going 205 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: to spend the next Ben and I were talking about it, 206 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: like the rest of seventh and eighth grade trying to 207 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: figure out his high school plan. Maybe it won't be 208 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 2: the traditional route. Well there's nothing wrong with that, No, 209 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 2: not at all. So she was even talking about not 210 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: going to the traditional route for college and she's just 211 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 2: getting into cosmatology and maybe just going and doing that 212 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: like a trade type school versus college. She has all 213 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: a's right now except for chemistry and that one. She's like, 214 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out how to bring it up, 215 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 2: but she just the way she grades is so tough. 216 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 2: But for her to have all a's and then, I mean, 217 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 2: what I never had all a's. 218 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: No, that's awesome. She sounds like she's working really hard 219 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: to do that, but she. 220 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 2: Is, though she actually I know she could do more, 221 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 2: and so it makes me curious, like, oh wow, if 222 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: she were to really go all in, like she could 223 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 2: have hundreds across the board. But I like that she 224 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:55,599 Speaker 2: has a good balance. She's bright. Stevenson is bright. It 225 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 2: just they shine in different ways. 226 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they should. And he's very into music, like 227 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: very and maybe if you're able to at least implement 228 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: some more creative music stuff, maybe the other school stuff 229 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: doesn't feel so heavy for him, you know what I mean, 230 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 1: Like he can have things to look forward to, and 231 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,599 Speaker 1: then the classes at least start so daunting throughout the 232 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: day for him. Yeah, and maybe that's a balance until 233 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: you're able to he gets older and you're able to 234 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: maybe send him somewhere that is more of an arts 235 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: driven school, because I know those exist. 236 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to been, and I just had this conversation. 237 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 2: So that's why. Also, I'm not really sure because it's 238 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 2: not like I've started the research yet. We're just like, Okay, 239 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 2: we've got a year and a half to try to 240 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: figure out what high school maybe could look like. 241 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: And what about the new house. How are things going? 242 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 2: I love it. It's perfect. 243 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: Less uh do y style projects happening or still happening. 244 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I think we're pretty much done. Like I 245 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: feel settled. Like I've got to work on the podcast room. 246 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 2: That's really all that's left, okay, and I have to 247 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: figure that out. But it's quaint. It's perfect. All of 248 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 2: our rooms are really close together, Like I love that 249 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 2: the kids we hang out way more. 250 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, just being in close proximity and not so spread out. Yep, 251 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: that's awesome. 252 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: So I love it. 253 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, a little life update from Amy. We're gonna 254 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: take a quick break and we're gonna be right back. 255 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: I have two kind of random things that have happened 256 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: to me really recently, and maybe it'll make you think 257 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: of some things that are happening in your life. So 258 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: one I went to eat at Le Petite Chef, which 259 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: is like a little teeny tiny chef that cooks for 260 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: you on a projection I saw you post about that. 261 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that looked really cool. 262 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: It was so much fun. Even there was kids in there. 263 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: There was a whole variety of types of people that 264 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: came into there, which I thought was also really cool. 265 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: Is that a forever like a thing? Or is that 266 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 2: a pop up? 267 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: It's a pop up for the next several months. Okay, 268 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: then I think they're trying to make it up for 269 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: everything depending on how it goes. But it was like 270 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: a dinner and a show, but you had like a 271 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: private show at your table because the projection screen had 272 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: the little chef cooking meal the meals you were going 273 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: to eat in front of you on the table and 274 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: then the meal would come out. And it was just 275 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: a cool experience and that I expected the food to be, like, oh, okay, 276 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: it's more about the show. But the food was so 277 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: good and. 278 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 2: Now I like want to order the food to take 279 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 2: out and I can't. 280 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: The only way to get is to like go and 281 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: have the petite chef. 282 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not gonna be possible, no, but it was 283 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 2: so good. 284 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: So that was a fun experience that I didn't anticipate 285 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: to be as fun as that it was. 286 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 2: I maybe need to take the kids to that. Oh, 287 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 2: they would love it. And that's really cool. Okay, so 288 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 2: bad you reminded me about that. 289 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like so that was a fun, cool new experience. 290 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: And then I also, I need your thoughts on this 291 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: because I went and got a massage. You know when 292 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: you get like a little thing in the mail and 293 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: you see you can get something off, You're like, ooh, 294 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try that. Because I got a little keup 295 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: on for it. Well, there was a new massage place 296 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: by my house. I was like, let's definitely go try. 297 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: I got a little keep on for my birthday. I 298 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: go in and honestly, Amy, it's one of the best 299 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: massages I've ever had. But it was a guy because 300 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: I didn't specify on there, like what I preferred, because 301 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know anybody there. I was just like, you know, 302 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: you guys teach it, you guys do whatever you want 303 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: to do. And when I walked in, I was like, okay, 304 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: well it'll be fine. But Amy he was kind of 305 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: doing like Pete stretches a little bit on me, and 306 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: I feel like I was exposed in a few moments 307 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: during that massage. 308 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 2: Oh that's uncomfortable. It was like a tree to be 309 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: like like, I don't need you to stretch my legs open. 310 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 2: What was he doing? It was like, well, I. 311 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: Know it sounds weird. Well, first of all, it was 312 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: a traditional Swedish massage, which I'm not super familiar with. Okay, 313 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: but I imagine that's just like. 314 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: Fel like there's just like a normal massage, okay. 315 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 1: But he was doing like like my my leg would 316 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: come up and then it would be like moved over 317 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 1: in one way or then another, and then he had 318 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 1: like deep tissue massage, but it wasn't deep. I was confused. 319 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 2: It was deep, but it wasn't deep, so what was it? 320 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 2: It was deep, but it was like but he wasn't 321 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: supposed to be. 322 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't like it was just supposed to be 323 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: a Traditionalish massage. It wasn't a deep tissue massage. 324 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 2: Uh huh, So did you say anything? No, I just 325 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 2: kind of like, what am I gonna I'm literally naked 326 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: under this blanket. 327 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, what am I gonna say? 328 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 2: This your underwear? 329 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 330 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: I have my iron, but like I think my underse 331 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 2: people don't. 332 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: He would like tuck the blanket under me as to 333 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: like intentionally try to make sure I wasn't exposed. But 334 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: there were still some moments where I was like, I 335 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: feel a little this feels a little. 336 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 2: Weird, but it was the best massage you've ever had. 337 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: I felt so good after. 338 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I don't know. Now you gotta decide are 339 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 2: you going to go back? Right? 340 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: Like? 341 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: But I mean I would just ask. I'd be like, oh, 342 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 2: is this a thing like that you do to everybody? 343 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: Or you just maybe feel like what the body needs? Yeah, 344 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 2: maybe he can tell like, oh, this would probably feel 345 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 2: really good for her because of what I'm picking up. 346 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: Probably wasn't more of that because obviously nothing happened after. 347 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 2: It was just in that moment that would make me uncomfortable. 348 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just felt like a little vulnerable. 349 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like going to men at massages. 350 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: Well, and I wasn't gonna like say anything because I 351 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: didn't specify. But again, and they just only ask like 352 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: who do you want In particular, it was like I 353 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: don't know anybody here, so I guess just give me one, 354 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: and that's what they gave me. And I wasn't gonna 355 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: walk in and be. 356 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 2: Like, oh, never mind. Yeah, I just kind of allowed it. Well, 357 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: did you like google it if that was normal? I 358 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: don't know. I'm trying to look up, like look at 359 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: their menu like sweeted. Maybe it says like, FYI, no, 360 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 2: we also stretched. It definitely doesn't say that that I 361 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 2: looked at. Okay, well, maybe he was just list he 362 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 2: was like feeling out what your body was gonna need. 363 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 2: And I guess I'll clarify. I mean, I've gone to 364 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 2: male massus sis, but I just prefer going to a 365 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: female like I don't. I don't. I just can't really 366 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: fully relax. And that's not any male messus's fault. It's 367 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 2: just I personally feel more relaxed and comfortable, which is 368 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 2: the point of the massage if I'm with a fellow female. 369 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's true because you're exposed, right, like you're 370 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: majority naked underneath a blanket, so that would make sense too. 371 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: There was even one point which I have had other 372 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: female massage therapists to do this where they go like 373 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: all the way underneath your back and like pull it 374 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: kind of up. 375 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 2: But even when he was doing that. 376 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I feel a little close proximity in 377 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: this moment. 378 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 2: Oh, but that's gonna feel good? 379 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: It did? 380 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: I want that telling you? 381 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: It was like genuinely one of the best massages I've had, 382 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: And that's why I'm like, do I even just because 383 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: I just like kind of let it go? Does that 384 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: to me? 385 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 2: Like you could go back? I just want to. You 386 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 2: just need to understand, is that. 387 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: Let's maybe not do some leg stretches on me because 388 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: that felt a little weird. Yeah, but those were my 389 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: experiences lately been too little like fun. 390 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 2: Yeah I'm doing so is it? Do I have any 391 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 2: weird experiences that have happened to me? 392 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: Weird or new or just fun things that have happened 393 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: in your life recently? It can be all across the board. 394 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 2: Let me think here, well. 395 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 1: Because those are just things that have happened, I'm like, oh, 396 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: these are necessarily normal, but they're new and they're different 397 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: from me. So I'm learn mean to explore new things. 398 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am still continuing my journey of adult dating, 399 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 2: which is new, very new. I think that I have 400 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 2: determined that I don't like going on dates like multiple dates. 401 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 2: I think with adult dating, like I could date multiple 402 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,239 Speaker 2: people if it's like a one date thing, like I'm 403 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 2: getting to know someone on that one date and then 404 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 2: maybe the next night I have one date with somebody else. 405 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 2: But the minute it's like two dates, then I feel 406 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: weird because I feel like, so if you tell the 407 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: other person even though there's no expectations from that person, 408 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: or that person might be dating multiple people. Yeah, I 409 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: feel like that's what my therapist keeps trying to tell 410 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 2: me Amy, this is adult dating, and I'm like, well, 411 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: I don't like it. 412 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: You're the one date threshold, Like if we make it 413 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: past the first date, then I'm just going to see. 414 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: You, like if we're going to go out again, I'd 415 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 2: rather just focus on that person and then like yeah, 416 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 2: texting and calling, like I don't know, it just feels here. 417 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Yes, it's adult dating that when you're 418 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 1: just casually meeting each other and understanding getting to know 419 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: each other, that you can date multiple people. 420 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 2: What I can. 421 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: That's not for everybody, it's not for me like it 422 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: just because that's more of the norm doesn't mean it's 423 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: wrong that you don't want. 424 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: To do no, not at all. And I have friends 425 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 2: that there it's like, it's great. It's a great way 426 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 2: to get to know yourself. We get to know what 427 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 2: you want, what you don't want. And I mean I've 428 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 2: been I don't know, I think I lasted four days 429 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 2: well in adult dating. 430 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: And maybe this, like do you do you feel like 431 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: you classify yourself as a deep feeler, like you feel 432 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 1: things really quickly, or you just under like the feelings 433 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: come fast or anything on that level. 434 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 2: Oh, like for the person I'm going out with, like 435 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 2: I would like fall hard fast. 436 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: Not necessarily fall, but you just feel connected pretty quickly. 437 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 2: Are you? Yeah, I can, And yeah no that doesn't 438 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 2: always happen. 439 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: Okay, no, So that's why I am more guarded. I 440 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 1: think this is why this might be more of your speed, 441 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: because it takes you a little bit longer to like 442 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: start to feel things for somebody, so you want to 443 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 1: get to know them on a deeper so you can 444 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: really make that decision. Whereas you have someone like me 445 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: who's a deep feeler, and I can feel things relatively 446 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: a connection or not a connection relatively quickly, and so 447 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: casual dating works for me because I can pinpoint that 448 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 1: pretty fast. But for you, it's more of a connection 449 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 1: that you have to take some time with it to develop, right. 450 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: And then I feel like if I'm taking time with 451 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: multiple people, it just feels. 452 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: And you wouldn't because once you hit a threshold even 453 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: I mean I really say, like around that five date 454 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: mark of with someone, you're kind of making a decision 455 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: of Okay, I'm just going to start to pursue you, 456 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 1: even if you're not like boyfriend girlfriend, you're like, Okay, 457 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to focus my attention on seeing where this goes. 458 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,719 Speaker 1: Is really around that fight five date level, and that 459 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: might be for you where you're starting to be like, okay, 460 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: maybe something's here. But you know what I mean, I 461 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 1: don't know if any of this is making the right sense, 462 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: but that could be why this is something. 463 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 2: I mean, it's the theory. Yeah, yeah, it's just I've 464 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 2: been going with the flow. But yeah, I've hit a 465 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 2: five date, seven date, like I've Yeah, I don't know. 466 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,360 Speaker 2: Maybe there'll be more of an update later. 467 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well that's fun though it's new, it's exciting, 468 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: it is I'm very happy. Well then that's all that matters, right, 469 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 1: Glad that I've figured it out, because like I was 470 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: not that. 471 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: I was like, this is sort of exhausting, and not 472 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 2: that that not because there was lots of people everywhere. No, 473 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: it was just two. I was like, I don't like this. 474 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: You know, it is it's hard to balance it, especially 475 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: when it's something that's unknown and you're not sure what's 476 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: going on in understanding other people's emotions and how they're 477 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: going to handle that type of situation too, because it's 478 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: not just you involved anymore, there's other people involved. 479 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 2: I will say that I was getting ready one day 480 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 2: to go out on a date and I got a 481 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: call from a friend that was like, hey, are you 482 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 2: still dating so and so? And I was like, yeah, 483 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 2: I'm getting ready right now. We're going to do something tonight. 484 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 2: And she's just like, okay, well I'm at dinner right 485 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 2: now with someone that's going to lunch with him tomorrow. 486 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 2: And I was like what. I was shocked, not because 487 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 2: I wasn't. This was before I this this is that's 488 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: the moment that I decided, okay, I need to If 489 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 2: he's going to see multiple people, then I should try 490 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 2: that too. And so after that we had a conversation 491 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 2: about it, and it was a very mature adult dating conversation. 492 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: Hike you referring to it as adult dating. 493 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's me adult dating, and uh, you know, 494 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,959 Speaker 2: we decided we'll keep talking. And also, I guess we're 495 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 2: dating other people, which I didn't have. I guess I 496 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: didn't think I had a right to say anything to 497 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 2: him because it's not like we were exclusive, so it's 498 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 2: not like he had to tell me. And I tried 499 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 2: to keep it in but we were hanging out, remember, 500 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 2: because he was just like so then we were on 501 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 2: our date and I just couldn't help myself, and I 502 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: was like, I have something to say. I don't think 503 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 2: I was that passionate with I think I was more like, hey, like, 504 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 2: heads up, I have something to tell you. Yeah, and 505 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 2: he's like what. It's like, I got a phone call 506 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: tonight and it's mine in my own business getting ready, 507 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 2: and this is what I was told. So like, I 508 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 2: don't want anything to be weird, but I know that 509 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 2: you're going out with tomorrow, and uh, he just kind 510 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 2: of like hung his head and he's like yeah, but again, 511 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,919 Speaker 2: we weren't exclusive, so there was nothing to say. You know, 512 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 2: I wasn't upset, like he didn't owe me anything, but 513 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 2: I was just like, hey, this is just a good 514 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 2: this is a good time for us to have a 515 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 2: conversation of like what what are we doing? Yeah, and 516 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: it was like, okay, well we're adultating casually date and 517 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 2: date other people, and so that, like I said, that 518 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 2: is the moment in which I was like, okay, well 519 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 2: then I am going to also go out with somebody else. 520 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 2: And then that was I gave that like four days 521 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 2: and I was like I can't do this. I don't 522 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 2: like it. 523 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: But again it's okay that you don't like it. You 524 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: don't have to. There's no there. Genuinely, this is what's 525 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: so funny about dating conversations in general, and people get 526 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 1: so peeved at other people and how they date. There 527 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 1: is genuinely no actual right or wrong way to date 528 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 1: if it feels good and feels right for you, and 529 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: how you want to go about doing it fast, slow, 530 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: one person, multiple people while you're trying to figure it out. 531 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: There really isn't a right or wrong as long as 532 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: you feel good doing it. Now, if you feel bad 533 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: doing it, then by doing something wrong. But there really 534 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: isn't like this one two size that's going to fit 535 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: everybody for how dating works, especially in the landscape of 536 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,640 Speaker 1: dating today, so especially as adults. 537 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,880 Speaker 2: As Amy says, adult dating well involvement at mine are 538 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: all adults with kids, Like we're all adults with kids, 539 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: I know. And so it's another layer where I think 540 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 2: communication is just so imperative because. 541 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 1: Which is hard, because unfortunately you're trying to communicate. Communicating 542 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 1: is hard. 543 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 2: I've had good I've had a good I guess run 544 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: or good luck with people that are able to communicate. 545 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 1: Yes, But I think it's also I think you have 546 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: to give yourself more credit to because I think you're 547 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: also doing a lot of good communicating. 548 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, I'll take that. I agree because I 549 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 2: have to. Sometimes I might be the one starting the communication, 550 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 2: but they follow as they're willing to participate. They don't 551 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: just like shut down. 552 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: Willing participant is a good thing. But yes, I think 553 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: you are a really good communicator. So that's where that's helping. Okay, 554 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna take one more quick break. We'll be right back. 555 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 1: These are just some funny questions that I came up with. 556 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: So are you ready for this? 557 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 2: Ready? 558 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: What's a common maybe household item that every time you 559 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: use it you feel really badass? 560 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 2: A common household item that like maybe a bunch of 561 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: people use and have like a little shock back, and every 562 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 2: time you use it, I love it. 563 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: I feel so awesome. 564 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. I go to the garage like fire it up, 565 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 2: and I love like just going around. I do the 566 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: base boards with it, or if I have to clean 567 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,400 Speaker 2: something in my car, I don't know because I don't 568 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 2: really use a drill or anything like I that's me 569 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 2: picturing myself being badass would be using a drill, But 570 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 2: I don't really do that, so I guess my shock back. 571 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: But I feel like that is cool because it's one 572 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: of those that it feels really clean after. It's also 573 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: probably a cleanliness feeling after you do it, you're like, oh, 574 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: the house is spotless and I did that. 575 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's wet dry like I can suck up whatever. 576 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 2: You'll get it all. I highly recommend them. If you 577 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: don't have one, be a good Christmas gift for somebody. 578 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: Is it the one that's the handheld not like a 579 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: regular vacuum or is it. 580 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 2: I mean it's a shock back so it looks like 581 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 2: a like a like a round tub oh with a 582 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 2: little host. But it's like green and it's got like 583 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 2: a little thing. And then you can go around and 584 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 2: just like suck things up. You can clean stuff in 585 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 2: your car, lean stuff around the house. You can. 586 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: I've always used those for my car. That's my specific 587 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: like little car vacuum is that? And then I have 588 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: a vacuum inside the house. We use it for all 589 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: the things, all the things. Yes, cat litter, Oh my gosh. 590 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: Cat litter gets around the house so much. I feel 591 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: like all vacuum one day and then the next day 592 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 1: I'm like, how where did this come from? Her? 593 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 2: Little your cat's palls. 594 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: Literally, but they're everywhere. I do not understand how such 595 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,640 Speaker 1: a teeny tiny thing can make such a huge mess. 596 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 2: Do what litter? 597 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: Do you use? Pretty litter? 598 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 2: Same? Okay good. I was gonna say it's the best. 599 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: I love it, but it's little crystals everywhere because she'll 600 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: and I've watched her, she'll shoot out of her little 601 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 1: robot and it just it's like spriic. I'm like, why 602 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: can't you just gently step down out of that thing. 603 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have a little robot, yeah with pretty little Yeah. Oh, 604 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: I didn't know you could do that. My cat, I 605 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 2: had a little robot. I had to get rid of it. 606 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 2: She couldn't figure it out. Really, it was always a mess. 607 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like she wouldn't go there. 608 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, she just wouldn't go all the way in, 609 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 2: and it just always end it up a mess, and 610 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 2: then it would get stuck and it was like it 611 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: was supposed to rotate, but I didn't know. Well, whatever 612 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: one I had, you could not put pretty litter in it. 613 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 2: You had to put this other kind and anyway it 614 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 2: was well, I think they'd want you. 615 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 1: To use a specific kind, but it works in there. 616 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: I've never had issues with it. Oh well good, Yeah, 617 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: but she, I mean I just said the other one 618 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,119 Speaker 1: and she started using the litter robot by herself. And 619 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: she was eight years old, so she just like I 620 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: think she likes finer things and didn't know that she 621 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: had the option of finer things until that moment. That's funny, okay, 622 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: But yours, yours also creates a mess. 623 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 2: It's not just mine, yeah, I mean mine's not all 624 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 2: over the house, but it's over by her litter box. 625 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I've even tried to put like the little mats 626 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: that are specific to help them, and it does nothing. 627 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. I've bought two, i think over the time course 628 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 2: of having Maggie, and I've thrown both away because I'm like, 629 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: this is stupid. 630 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, it just like it keeps collects there, but it 631 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: doesn't actually stop it from going anywhere. 632 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 633 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 1: So you know, fellow cat parents, if you have some 634 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: really great tools for stopping litter tracking, I think is 635 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: what they call it, that'd be cool. Okay, Well mine 636 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: was a cordless drill. 637 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 2: Oh nice, because. 638 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: Anytime I get it out, I'm just like, yeah, I 639 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: know how to use this, and I feel really powerful. 640 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: I think I brought it out the other day just 641 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: to screw in one screw, and I felt really cool 642 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 1: in that moment. 643 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: But it was one screw, Like I really didn't do 644 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 2: all that much. I'm picturing it. I feel like I'm 645 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 2: a little jealous. 646 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: At least I know how to use it too, because 647 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 1: you have to take a little thing out and put 648 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: the right size drill in it to use it. Yeah, 649 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: the drill bit. Look at us modern day women. Okay, 650 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: the last question, I have, what odd feeling do you 651 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: really like? And what I mean by this is like. 652 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 2: Like right now I'm biting my lip and it hurts 653 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: really really bad, but I keep biting it because it 654 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,239 Speaker 2: also feels good like that. 655 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: Yes, and I was like dry it because I'm like, 656 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 1: I know, if I asked this in our main studio, 657 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: all the guys will. 658 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 2: Be like, oh, this is so dirty. 659 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: But the reason it was is because like I love 660 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: rain in general, but when it's like perfectly misty outside 661 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: and I'm just walking like I'm kind of getting a 662 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: nice little cold tower but not really and it's not 663 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: doing anything to me, that feeling on my skin, I 664 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: it makes me so happy. I'll just stand out there 665 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: in the mist like I'm just like a little veggie being. 666 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: Misted in the grocery store. 667 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: Oh so that feeling, and yes, the body feeling is one. 668 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: I was trying to come up with some others because 669 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: I feel like there's so many odd feelings. 670 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 2: Like if I have a mosquito bite and I itch it, 671 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 2: it's so good, and like the minute I just succumbed 672 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 2: to the itch and I just scratch it. I know 673 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 2: I say itch it, but really you're scratching it. But 674 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 2: I when I was little, I used to always tell 675 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 2: my mom, itch it, itch it, and she like, if 676 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: I had one, she would scratch it with her finger 677 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 2: and then like poke it, do the little ex yes, yes, 678 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 2: and so that's actually works. No, I don't think so, 679 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 2: because I feel like I still itch after I do it. Yeah, 680 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 2: I don't, but yeah, I still do it. That's not 681 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 2: a thing. It just is something that we do to. 682 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: I guess you started that, but yeah, it's one of 683 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: those miss that we used to do when we were younger. 684 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, I'm trying to think of some others. Oh, 685 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: when you know, the worst feeling is when you get 686 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: an itch on the bottom of your foot, but when 687 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: you're finally able to scratch it because your shoes are on, 688 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: those are the best itches. Also on that same level, 689 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,719 Speaker 1: there has to be others. It was like odd feelings, 690 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: the things that you don't really think about. 691 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 2: I know right now, I just keep biting my lip, 692 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 2: and biting my lip over and over. Was really like 693 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 2: the pain of it. Yeah. 694 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: Oh, I love cute aggression feeling, Like when I see 695 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: my dog and she looks so singing cute and I'm 696 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: just like I just want to I just want to 697 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: shake you and I just like get it pet her 698 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: like really hard, and she's like, what is wrong with you? 699 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? I love cute aggression. That could work. I guess 700 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: with my cat. My dog, she's a mess my dog. 701 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: I'm so angry with her. She gets into everything. She 702 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 2: wants to eat everything. You know. Recently she ate the 703 00:30:55,640 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 2: money and yesterday she was eating a wooden spatula and 704 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: like one of my favorite wooden specialists, and she destroyed it. 705 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 2: She just gets up on the counter, like even stuff 706 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 2: that I put far away, or like if I leave 707 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 2: a cabinet open. Now she started to go into the 708 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 2: cabinets and I mean I walk her and give her attention, 709 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: and I guess she's just still bored or needs something. 710 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 2: But she ate an entire pack of gum, which is 711 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 2: very dangerous. 712 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 1: Do you think she's like just hungry. 713 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 2: No, no, I'm agree. I assume not. 714 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: But I was just like, maybe they're. 715 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 2: You mean, like she's lacking like a nutrient, like is 716 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: she's searching for it? Right? That's like when she eats 717 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: the drywall out of the wall. 718 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: That's not good. 719 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 2: She'll do that. She'll start digging little holes in the 720 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 2: middle of the wall, Like, what are you doing? 721 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: That's not good? You know two things you could do 722 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: to to maybe help if it's like a brain energy thing. 723 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 1: They're sniff mats that you can get on Amazon, and 724 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: you put a bunch of treats in there, and then 725 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: she feels like she maybe that's something she could be eating, right, 726 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: And it's like a thirty minute activity and they sniff 727 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 1: through the whole mat. It's like felt and they just 728 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: try and search for treats and you can make it 729 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,479 Speaker 1: harder or easier on them and it'll preoccupy them for 730 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 1: a while. 731 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 2: Okay, honestly, I might look into ordering whatever that is, 732 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 2: because yeah, even with her food, I got her one 733 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 2: of those balls where it's got a few holes in it. 734 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 2: It's like a Kong ball, and she has to nudge 735 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 2: the ball around the house so that the food falls 736 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 2: through the hole and out, and then she gets to 737 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 2: eat it, so she's not just eating out of a bowl. 738 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 2: She's eating out of this ball. But then she pushes 739 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 2: the ball or all around the house and then there's 740 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 2: a little piece of food everywhere. If she happens to 741 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 2: like forget one, and then I have to find the 742 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 2: ball every time it's time the feeder, and I'm like, 743 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 2: does anybody know where the ball is? 744 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 1: Where's the ball? Okay, well, maybe start giving her her 745 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: regular feeding and then try the sniff mat because the 746 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: sniff mat will all be in one place. 747 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, Well I'm going to look it up. Sniff mat. 748 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 2: Got it? Yeah? 749 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: And then also I've seen people where they do a 750 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: similar concept with the sniff bat, but they put it 751 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: in like a frozen towel. Basically, they put a bunch 752 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: of different treats and they put it in water in 753 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: like a bowl, and they freeze it and then put 754 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: it in a towel. Also freeze the towel and kind 755 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: of it's like a they have to pull it back 756 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 1: and liquid and it becomes an activity for them and 757 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,479 Speaker 1: it consumes a lot of their time and tires them 758 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: out because it's using their brain energy. 759 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 2: Got it? 760 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: Similar on that concept, the sniff mat is the easier one, 761 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: but the ice could be the second level. If the 762 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: sniff mat doesn't work, Okay, maybe somethings to. 763 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: Try really looking it up right now all the things? 764 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I mean yeah, or maybe there is like a 765 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: nutrient she's missing and that's what it is. Because trains 766 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,719 Speaker 1: start giving her like carrots and blueberries. 767 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 2: They like those. 768 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: You can put those in the sniff mats. It's gonna 769 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 1: be different nutrients to give her. 770 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 2: I just like freeze them in there. Yeah, I didn't 771 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 2: know they could have blueberries. Blueberries are really good for 772 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: their brains. Okay, but no grapes. 773 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: No grapes, no grapes or chocolate. No com Yeah, no 774 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: zou in peanut butter, but most peanut butter doesn't really 775 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: have it anymore. 776 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 2: Oh, I thought that Bobby just had an article about 777 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 2: how some peanut butters are adding its sugar free. You 778 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: always have to watch them, which is what you have 779 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 2: to the sugar free gum is why that's an ishe. 780 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 1: If you get like the natural Jiffy that wants peanut 781 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: butter and water, so you're fine peanut butter and water 782 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: or peanuts and water, sorry, peanuts and water. I think 783 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: that's how they use it to mash it. 784 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: Oh, it's like not what I think. 785 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: They also add oil and molasses sometimes, okay, which I 786 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 1: could be wrong, But the only reason I know this 787 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: is because I've looked at a lot of ingredients and 788 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 1: peanut butter is always an easy one because there's always 789 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,760 Speaker 1: like two or four ingredients. 790 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm now looking at sniff mat I'm literally on Amazon 791 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,760 Speaker 2: right now, sniff Matte for dogs. 792 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: There you go, and like I said, you can make 793 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,719 Speaker 1: them easy to start, and she can gradually work up 794 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 1: to harder because you can, like it has a like 795 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: these little things where they contract. Oh wow, okay, yeah, 796 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: maybe that'll be something. 797 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 2: A lot of these have good reviews. But then sometimes 798 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 2: I wonder, I'm like, are there really three thousand people 799 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 2: that have reviewed this? 800 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: But that I never know? On Amazon, I don't really 801 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 1: trust Amazon review you know what. 802 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 2: I've started to look at when I click on Amazon, 803 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 2: like it'll tell you if you click on the item 804 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 2: and you scroll down. Sometimes it will say this is 805 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 2: a commonly returned item that I have loved. 806 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,800 Speaker 1: Starting to see and they'll give like a synopsis of 807 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: the reviews. It's helpful of people liked this, this and this, 808 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: and they didn't like this. 809 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 2: Although I will say that was on a shirt that 810 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 2: I ordered Stevenson, like a white button down because I'm 811 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 2: going to take him to the CMS. So I ordered 812 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 2: him a little black suit off Amazon with a white 813 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 2: button down and the white button down. It said it 814 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:43,800 Speaker 2: was commonly returned, but it was had still some solid 815 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 2: reviews and it was a really good price. And then 816 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 2: it had to cupe on. So I was like, well, 817 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna okay, fine, if I have to return it, 818 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 2: I'm just going to give it a try. And I 819 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 2: got it in and it's perfect. It's perfect. 820 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: It might because it's a piece of clothing and sometimes 821 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: they don't fit right for people. 822 00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,720 Speaker 2: True, so that's why it's returned a lot good points. 823 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 2: It's like crappy. 824 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 1: I would be more used to that on like items 825 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: like this where they're not clothing. Clothing is tough to 826 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 1: do online, but yeah, I can attest. Remy has one. 827 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: And Remy doesn't really like a lot of brain activities. 828 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,360 Speaker 1: She's pretty lazy, but she loves the sniff Matt. 829 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 2: Okay, I know, I may have to show them to 830 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 2: you when we get done recording, and you can tell 831 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 2: me which one you actually got because there's a lot 832 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: of key ones. 833 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I got you. But maybe it'll help hopefully, Hey, yeah, 834 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 1: this could change my life. 835 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 2: That's the hope. That's what we're trying to do. 836 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 1: Okay, well, we're gonna jump out of here, but Amy, 837 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: thanks for joining. I hope everybody had a very happy Halloween. 838 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 2: Amy. 839 00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: Tell the people where they can find. 840 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 2: You, hear you all that good stuff at Radio Amy 841 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 2: on Socials podcast for Things with Amy Brown and yeah, 842 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 2: it's probably the easiest and best ways to find me, okay. 843 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 1: And I am at what Girl Morgan on All the Things. 844 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: You can check out both of our podcasts amys or 845 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: Things with Amy Brown like she said, and I am 846 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,399 Speaker 1: at take this personally and of course so you can 847 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 1: follow the show at Bobby Bone Show. 848 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 2: See y'all next time. Bye. That's the best bits of 849 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:06,720 Speaker 2: the week with Morgan. 850 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. 851 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 2: Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend. 852 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: Go follow the show on all social platforms Bobby 853 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 2: Bone Show and follow at Webgirl Morgan to submit your 854 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,440 Speaker 2: listener questions for next week's episode.