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Speaker 1: In my experience, men and women pretty much agree on everything.

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Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And I'm not

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Speaker 1: just talking politically. We're on the same page with so

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Speaker 1: many other things too, Little things even like how many

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Speaker 1: pillows belong on a bed.

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Speaker 2: If you say to get out, okay, say that until

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Speaker 2: you get enough pillows on your bed and you're like,

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Speaker 2: this is amazing.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: Also, when to stop and ask for directions, always on

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Speaker 1: the same page then as direct and what a woman

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Speaker 1: means when she says I'm fine, it's two thumbs up.

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Speaker 3: You don't ask anymore. She's fine, alexis for agreeing with

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Speaker 3: me there.

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Speaker 1: But I will say there are a couple things guys

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Speaker 1: and girls don't see exactly eye to eye on.

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Speaker 3: It's rare.

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Speaker 1: But I only know this because a popular publication came

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Speaker 1: out with a list of things that most girls think

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Speaker 1: are mortifying but dudes literally don't care about.

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Speaker 2: It's funny because even you saying that, and like, it's women,

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Speaker 2: jeff it's not girls anymore.

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Speaker 3: But sure, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Had said women a bunch of times before, so I

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Speaker 1: was just trying to switch it up and use a

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Speaker 1: different words. Don't say females because it just feels weird. Yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Well let's get into the first one where women don't

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Speaker 1: like when other people see your house not being perfectly cleaned.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm trying to get over that, honestly, Like it's hard.

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Speaker 2: It is a hard thing to get over, to invite

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Speaker 2: people over when your house isn't spotlight It's so true

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Speaker 2: when you're a kid, your mom is always the one

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Speaker 2: who before your friend's over, is like, help clean.

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Speaker 3: The house, not your dad.

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Speaker 2: I don't think my husband can even see dirty oh.

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Speaker 2: Like it's like it doesn't register with him. He's like,

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Speaker 2: it looks fun to me.

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, come over here, I'm behind the laundry pile, over.

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Speaker 2: Step over the pile of bills.

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Speaker 3: It is true.

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Speaker 1: There's always a boyfriend that's like, honey cleaned, and the

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Speaker 1: girlfriend's like this isn't Yeah, I push it into the corner. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's fine. Also, sneezing, for a lot of women, sneezing

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Speaker 1: a lot or sneezing loudly is not okay. In fact,

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Speaker 1: someone actively hold their sneezes in so that it doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: I like a little petite sneeze.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have been around girls.

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Speaker 2: I hold it though, and then men just do it

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Speaker 2: louder and louder. We were just talking about this the

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Speaker 2: other day. It gets louder and louder the older men get.

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Speaker 1: For some reason, at a certain point, it like turns

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Speaker 1: into a competition with yourself. When you have like a

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Speaker 1: sneeze attack, You're like, Okay, if this is gonna go on,

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Speaker 1: I want to see how loud I can go.

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Speaker 2: I swear to god, we're gonna reach a point where

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Speaker 2: my husband sneeze and my ear drubs start bleeding.

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Speaker 3: Because it is so much.

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Speaker 1: We're looking at a list that found some of the

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Speaker 1: things most women find mortifying but men absolutely do not

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Speaker 1: care about. Okay, and I know for sure this one

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Speaker 1: bothers Brooke re wearing the same outfit or being at

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Speaker 1: a party and wearing the same outfit as someone else.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's someone else, Oh my god. And then there's

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Speaker 2: that moment like do you address it or do you

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Speaker 2: just let it act like it didn't. I care less

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Speaker 2: as I get older, like people play it off better.

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Speaker 2: I feel like cute.

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Speaker 1: Draft good style. I feel like with guys were like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, dude, same shirt block key.

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Speaker 2: One of my favorite tiktoks is when people give like

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Speaker 2: all of their friend circles, they get their husbands all

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Speaker 2: the same shirt and.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell them.

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Speaker 2: They don't tell them, and they all show up to

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Speaker 2: the restaurant in the same shirts.

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Speaker 1: Different reactions like no, you did, what about acne?

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Speaker 3: Flare ups or just like one raging pimple.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like everybody hates it on themselves. Is

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Speaker 2: anybody like, yeah, I'm so.

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Speaker 3: Glad it broke out today.

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Speaker 2: You're saying men don't care about acne.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't bother them when they break.

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Speaker 2: My husband still has like PTSD from having it in

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Speaker 2: high school.

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Speaker 3: Guys don't know the power of concealer.

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Speaker 2: I've always said, if they could market make up correctly.

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Speaker 1: Assume Jeff isn't wearing coers doesn't know what We're looking

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Speaker 1: at a list that found some of the things that

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Speaker 1: most women find mortifying men don't really care about. Another

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Speaker 1: one is eating a lot and finishing your entire plate women.

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Speaker 1: Apparently most women don't like the image of like them

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Speaker 1: having eaten a whole lot in front of people.

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Speaker 3: I just think, like you had to.

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Speaker 1: My parents always said finish your place they're starving children

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Speaker 1: in the So my whole.

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Speaker 3: Life I finished.

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely a man on the.

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Speaker 1: Brook eats other people's place too when she's done with

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Speaker 1: her own.

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? Of course I do.

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Speaker 2: It definitely saves other people's left over. I've never once

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Speaker 2: been self conscious about how much food I've eaten, if anything.

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Speaker 1: Proud? Yes, what about this going to a celebration without

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Speaker 1: bringing a gift for the hosts?

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Speaker 2: I mean I definitely didn't do that in college, but

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Speaker 2: as you did, people tell.

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Speaker 1: Me to do it.

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Speaker 2: Now it's definitely said, and you learn as you grow why.

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Speaker 1: The gift is me No, my presence is the gift

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Speaker 1: of the something.

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Speaker 2: I don't even go over to my best friend's house

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Speaker 2: without bringing something just to hang rail wine at least, yeah,

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Speaker 2: something for the wine, dessert.

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Speaker 3: Toilet paper.

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Speaker 1: As long as that's not unused to yeah what she needs.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, this is going to be easier for me.

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Speaker 3: Then next time I visit somebody.

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Speaker 1: Another one is audible toilet blasts women self conscious about it?

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Speaker 3: Men, don't you said that?

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Speaker 2: You're talking about not the toilet making noise.

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Speaker 1: You're talking about that person.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, that is mortifying.

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Speaker 1: That I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 2: I can't do anything in the bathroom unless no one

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Speaker 2: else is in there in our shared bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm over here making harmonies with the dude.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I was in one where somebody let one out and

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Speaker 1: then the whole bathroom started laughing.

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Speaker 3: It was a big bonding experience for everybody.

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Speaker 2: That happens in a girl's room.

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Speaker 3: It is dead silent, nobody says.

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Speaker 2: Aye contact afterwards.

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Speaker 3: And finally, the last one.

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Speaker 1: Things that women find mortifying men don't care about. They say,

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Speaker 1: small boobs or asymmetrical boobs. It's something women worry more

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Speaker 1: about than men actually care about.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is more true like fifteen years ago.

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Speaker 2: I just know more girls right now getting their boobs

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Speaker 2: out yet out than getting ones put in.

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Speaker 1: I've seen that too. Yeah, I thought you meant like

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Speaker 1: taking the mat I'm just showing them.

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Speaker 3: You gotta stop.

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Speaker 1: Is not doing good things for you.

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Speaker 2: Screwing.

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Speaker 3: Then men would start to care about it.

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Speaker 1: There, those are the things most women find mortifying that

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Speaker 1: dudes literally don't care about your phone taps coming up

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Speaker 1: right

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Speaker 2: After this freaking Jeffrey in the morning,