1 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,279 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business, 7 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember 8 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering 9 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from 10 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and leave 11 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 2: Hey, Cheeky's. 13 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,319 Speaker 3: My name is Jacqueline and I'm a Oklahoma I want 14 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 3: to start off by saying that I'm so proud of 15 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: you at all that you do. You have been inspiring 16 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: me since I was a little girl. You have truly 17 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 3: helped me overcome so much and have helped me become 18 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 3: the woman I am today, and I'm so thankful to have. 19 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 4: You in my life. That yoo mucho. 20 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: My question is how do you let know of a 21 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 3: friend who you've had a strong connection with that they 22 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 3: have manipulated you and hurt you so much to the 23 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 3: point that you just want to have a breakdown and 24 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 3: you just don't know how to walk away from the situation. 25 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: They keep manipulating you into staying, into wanting to be 26 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: there for them, but it's taking a toll on your 27 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 3: mental health to the point where you don't know whether 28 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 3: to put yourself first or the situation first. Because for me, 29 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: that's what's going on, and I'm kind of in a 30 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 3: position where I'm stuck and I don't know what to 31 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,279 Speaker 3: do because it's training me and it's straining my mental health, 32 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 3: and I just need advice on kind of how to 33 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 3: get out of the situation. 34 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: Jacqueline, thank you so much. Thank you for following me, 35 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: for your support, for your love. I really really appreciate it. 36 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: And in regards to the situation, you're a smart woman, 37 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: You're a smart lady. You know that there's manipulation, so 38 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: you know the answer to this. I think you just 39 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: need me to tell you. So I'm gonna tell you 40 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: need to make a decision and walk away. If you 41 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: haven't yet told this person, hey, I don't like how 42 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: you're making me feel. I feel like you're being emotionally 43 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: manipulative and they're still not changing, then you definitely have 44 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 1: to walk away, you know. So if you've already talked 45 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: to them and they're not listening, do it. If you 46 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: haven't spoken to them, talk to them as soon as possible. 47 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: Because this is draining you. It's hurting you. It's keeping 48 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: you from becoming your best self. So you need to 49 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: be okay with walking away and asking yourself, will I 50 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: be okay without this person in my life? It'll hurt, 51 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: But does it hurt more staying in the situation or 52 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: walking away and hurting a tiny bit? Because you will hurt. 53 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you won't. You're gonna miss the person, 54 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: but you're at a crossroads right now, and this is 55 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: going to find your future. I mean, I know it 56 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: sounds crazy, but if there's someone that toxic in your life, 57 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: especially emotionally manipulating you, that's heavy. It's a heavy load 58 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: that you're carrying, and it's not going to allow you 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: to advance in life. So you are here choosing, Okay, 60 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: which direction do I take? What's going to be better 61 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: for me? You can pray for that person from Afar 62 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: and love that person from Afar, but if having that 63 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: person in your life is causing all of this turmoil 64 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: to the point where you're asking me for advice. It's 65 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: because you know that this isn't healthy for you. So 66 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: you just got to step it up and make that decision. 67 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: You got this. I know that you know, Jacqueline what 68 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: to do. I know it's not easy, but you're going 69 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 1: to feel lighter once you just let them go, let 70 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: them go, and let God. So that's my advice to you. 71 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: I want to hear from you again. Let me know 72 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: what you decided. 73 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 5: All right. 74 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: So our next question comes from Stephanie. 75 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: Hey, Chicky's So my question to you would be what 76 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 2: do you do in order to keep that self esteem high. 77 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: I've been suffering with low self esteem for a couple 78 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: of years now. I'm just turning thirty two. Five years ago, 79 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: six years ago, I donated a kidd to my brother. 80 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: I've had a couple surgeries done, you know, health surgeries, 81 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 2: and I've had three sea sections. I don't know what 82 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 2: you would recommend or be able to tell me in 83 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: a way to just bring that self esteem up. Any 84 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: suggestions on clothing would be amazing. Anything that can just 85 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 2: help me in general, I would appreciate it. I love 86 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: you so much. I have so much love for your 87 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: family and your mom as well. I hope God continued 88 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: to bless you in every way, shape and form. Thank 89 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: you so much. 90 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Stephanie. Likewise, I hope God keeps 91 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: blessing you because you have three children, right, you have 92 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: three sea sections and wow, giving your brother a kidney, 93 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: that's that's wow. Admirable. Sol You're you're a good person 94 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: and I feel it and I hear it. In regards 95 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: to your question, self esteem is something that is It's 96 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 1: a tough one in the sense of we're always going 97 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: to feel in some way insecure. We're going to like 98 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: not like certain things about ourselves. I think we all 99 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: feel that, and it's something that you have to take 100 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: day by day and also do things that are going 101 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: to help your self esteem, like working out, like pointing 102 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: out things that you are good at, things that you 103 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: do love about yourself. I think when it comes to confidence, 104 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: and especially in the world that we live in with 105 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: social media and you see all these things and the 106 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: filters and people's face tuning everything, like, it's hard not 107 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: to feel insecure. But I think you need to focus 108 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: and zone in and hone into the good things that 109 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: you have and that you are your good traits, you 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 1: know what I mean. That is like kind of like, hey, 111 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: I really like that I do this, or I really 112 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: you know, point out good things about yourself. That's definitely 113 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: gonna help you not focus so much on the things 114 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: that you don't like about yourself. As far as clothing, 115 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: I love shapewear. 116 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 5: I have shapewear. 117 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: You know, I feel like when I put on shapewear, 118 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: I just feel so like I feel better, you know 119 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: what I mean. Everything's in its place, everything looks smooth. 120 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: So that's one thing for sure. I would definitely say 121 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: shapewear because it's different from fajas. Fajas are a little 122 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: bit thicker, they're a little bit more uncomfortable. My shapewear 123 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: is breathable, it's chill, And I'm not trying to sell 124 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: you my shape where I'm just saying, like you asked 125 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: about clothing, so I'm like, hey, maybe that'll help a 126 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: little bit. And also just kind of stepping out of 127 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: your comfort zone, Like if you are one to always 128 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: wear black, then say, you know what, I'm gonna throw 129 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: a little bit of color in there. Even with your 130 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: nail color, you know what I mean, like taking risks. 131 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: If you usually do white nails, try a color, try red, 132 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: something that's gonna make you feel different. And work out. 133 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: That always helps me, honestly, I don't know why, but 134 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: of course yes, to lose weight, but it also just 135 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: helps like release stress and release toxins and it just 136 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: makes you happier because you know you're releasing endorphins. So 137 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: definitely working out, and of course prayer. You guys know, 138 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: I'm a huge advocate for prayer and meditation and that 139 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: always just helps just ah, put you and align you 140 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: and center you, you know. So I hope that helps 141 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: Stephanie and a girl, I get you. It's an everyday thing. 142 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: I think all women and men. Men just don't talk 143 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: about it like we do, but we all understand you. 144 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: So don't feel bad. Now we're going with Beth. What's 145 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: hear from Beth? 146 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 5: So I was dating this guy and we had a 147 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 5: good connection and have a good relationship, but what of 148 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 5: a sudden, like it's been three weeks that he has 149 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 5: stopped texting me answering my calls and everything. So it's 150 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 5: like I went through this really hard time where I 151 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 5: was like oh crying am I like, I literally fall 152 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 5: into depression and everything. I barely like today, I tried 153 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 5: to get up and you know, like move on and everything. 154 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 5: So what do I deal? Because his family always tells me, oh, 155 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 5: he'll come back, he's gonna come back to you, he's 156 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 5: going to come talk to you again and everything. But 157 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 5: I'm like, what should I do with this time? You know, 158 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 5: like when he needed the help, I'll be simplest to 159 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 5: be in the all of a sudden, it's like documents vlada, 160 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 5: Mike Okay for Loki who he said? So you know, 161 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 5: it's like, what do I do? 162 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: Mando F him? F him? Honestly, I know it's hard. 163 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: I know, I know it's hard. But if you cannot 164 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: see your value and you were there for him when 165 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: he needed the help, I'm sorry this is gonna sound harsh, 166 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: but he was probably using you and you don't need 167 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: a person like that in your life anyways. If he's 168 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: ghosting you like that and not answering you from one 169 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: day to another, acchal, that isulo. I'm sorry, it sounds horrible. 170 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: Bye bye, And if he comes back, guess what, You're 171 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: not gonna be there. And I would not suggest that 172 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: you're there. Alsa, No, is he so familiar that he said, oh, 173 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: he's gonna come back, He's gonna come back. The family 174 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: doesn't really know that. I was gonna say, Okay, well, 175 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: maybe something's going through something. But if you have connection 176 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: with the family and they're telling you he's gonna come back, 177 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, but don't leave that door open, because 178 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 1: you do not deserve to be just waiting for this 179 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: person whenever he wants to come back, and you're just 180 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: gonna like let him in. No, because he's gonna keep 181 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: doing that. He'll do it over and over. You have 182 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: to teach people how to treat you. You have to 183 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: give yourself your place. So what I suggest is you 184 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: get your ass up, Okay, you go work out, change 185 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: your hair color, do something for yourself. I don't know. 186 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: I'll go as chee cheese, something like a push up, brawl, 187 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: a tanga, anything that's gonna make you feel sexy girl. 188 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: Get on a dating app, a good one, the ones 189 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: that you can pay for, because the free ones I 190 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: don't know anyways, So do something, go out with your friends, 191 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: like you cannot be moping around for this person. He's 192 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: not worth it. I'm telling you right now. I don't 193 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: care what he does, what he is, what he says. 194 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: He's not worth it because a good person that has 195 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: good intentions is not going to just stop talking to 196 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: you out of nowhere. They're gonna tell you, hey, I'm 197 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: going through something, or hey, I'm not feeling it right now. 198 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 1: They're gonna tell you, and they're gonna face it. He's 199 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: a coward. He's a coward. I'm sorry. So he knows 200 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: what I think of him. He's a coward, and he 201 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: should have faced you and said, hey, i'm not feeling this, 202 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: I don't know something. But he didn't. So he does 203 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: not deserve you. Period. He does not deserve you. And 204 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: I hope that you value yourself because he's not doing it. 205 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: So you need to give yourself your place and value yourself. Okay, Beth, 206 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: Sorry to be a little bit rough, but I had 207 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,479 Speaker 1: to because uh uh, we're not doing that f him 208 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: sending you a big hug. Sorry, got a little you know, 209 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: rattled up there. But I don't want to hear you sad. 210 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: I don't. It hurts my heart and I need you 211 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: to get up and I need you to do something 212 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: for yourself. Go take a walk something. I need you 213 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: to get out, love yourself. Okay, okay, I'm a breath 214 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: now for our next question that comes from Veronica. 215 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 4: She just kill tis to mio, starts to estas a 216 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 4: day but against to mio. 217 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, I love it. She's asking me what am 218 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: I scared of that? Everything I have I I deserve, 219 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: I worked hard for it, and she's just wondering, like, 220 00:11:47,800 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: what am I afraid of? Amass That's it? Yah yao 221 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: no no alfindliados maintenance manos Salvian familiar sloke, melia mucho 222 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: pero no. 223 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 5: Navi. 224 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: I'm just like just guard pork diocestaviendo Hu's guard jo 225 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 1: port and respects lescosas ensten jotas cosas. 226 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 4: Being you know. 227 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: So that's it. 228 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: There in the ocean, I'm very like respectful to the 229 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: ocean pur que el mar tro mundo pos and nadi. 230 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: So I just told her that I'm not really afraid 231 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: of anything or anyone, not even the devil. I'm just 232 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: afraid of God. I respect God, and I'm like, okay, 233 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: he's watching me, and I got to do things right 234 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: because even if no one is watching, God is watching 235 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: me all the time. So I do my best to 236 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: do things right, and when I don't, I ask forgiveness 237 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: right away. I'm like, okay, God help me. I want 238 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: to be different, you know what I mean. But in reality, 239 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: thank goodness, I'm not really scared of a lot of things. 240 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: I mean, the ocean is something I totally respect because 241 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a whole other world and we 242 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,199 Speaker 1: haven't yet discovered it entirely. So that's that to me 243 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: is like crazy. But other than that, honestly, I'm chilling, 244 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: like I'm not even scared of death, you guys. I 245 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:37,719 Speaker 1: feel like God has me in his hands and he 246 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 1: has my back. So yeah, that's about it, and that 247 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: is from Veronica. So Veronica, thank you for your question. 248 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: I loved it, so thank you guys so much for 249 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: your questions. That does it for this week's episode of 250 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 1: Dear Cheeky's. 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