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Speaker 1: it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay. I

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Speaker 1: want to talk to you today about success. But I

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Speaker 1: If you have any aspiration of being successful, I want

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Speaker 1: you to realize, starting right now, the effort that is

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Speaker 1: a lot of people. I think a lot of people

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Speaker 1: that it takes to become successful at anything, in any

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Speaker 1: what if you've done your best, though, and your best

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Speaker 1: That's it? But Steve, it was my best? No no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: It was the best you had at that time, in

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Speaker 1: you ever dipped into your reserve tank? That's what we're

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Speaker 1: you know, I you know, on my ranch. I like

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Speaker 1: Now you're riding into the lowest part of your tank.

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Speaker 1: God is pressed to plassing out blessings all day long.

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Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling

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Speaker 1: They feel like they had to have a say so

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Speaker 1: exactly agg example, oh so nasi, oh now you all that? Now, No,

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Speaker 1: Is in? What you got? Junior? Do anybody even know

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Speaker 1: I get his check for this? Oh? Oh no? He no? No,

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Speaker 1: oh no, you definitely just stepping in. Okay, okay, man down?

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Speaker 1: Step up? Yeah, step up, because called next man up? Junior.

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Speaker 1: I just want to just know one because he shall

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Speaker 1: Love came on, he didn't change, That's all I know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this morning is can your wife help me with my thesis?

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Speaker 1: Can your wife help me with my thesis? Come on? Captain. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Lowell in Saint Paul writes, my boyfriend loves sleeping naked

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Speaker 1: I don't see what going to talk to the woman does.

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Speaker 1: the key don't work anymore? What clears? Yeah? See what

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Speaker 1: because all this is wrong? Yeah, because he's married. That's

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Speaker 1: up or now y'all have to renegotiate the deal. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Last one, Steve, Last one Felana and Arkansas says, I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Wouldn't you feel about if his new best

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Speaker 1: that's deception. That's no, no, no, that's lie lying. Yeah. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you're not upset that she's lying her. That's not what

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Speaker 1: Why you lie? Why don't you just telling me they

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Speaker 1: and we talked twenty four entretail that truth. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 1: all right. See Ella, you nailed it today, Yes, you did.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: morning show. The jury and R Kelly's federal trial in

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Speaker 1: Chicago on Friday watched graphic videos that prosecutors say show

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Speaker 1: the singer sexually assaulting his god daughter when she was

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Speaker 1: as young as fourteen. The videos are key evidence in

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Speaker 1: the prosecution's case. Against our Kelly, who was accused of

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Speaker 1: producing child pornography and rigging his two thousand and eight

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Speaker 1: child pornography trial in Cook County. The witness, who is

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Speaker 1: now thirty seven year old, she's thirty seven year old

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Speaker 1: niece of R and B singer Sparkle, took the stand

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Speaker 1: and as Jane Doe, she told the jury how she

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Speaker 1: and R. Kelly started to have sex when she was

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Speaker 1: only fourteen. She had intercourse hundreds of times before her

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Speaker 1: eighteenth birthday. She was not the only young girl in R.

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Speaker 1: Kelly's bedroom. He secretly recorded some of their sex acts.

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Speaker 1: The smoke detectors on his bedroom ceiling were hidden cameras. Actually,

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Speaker 1: selling his home, and the next owner made the creepy discovery.

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Speaker 1: Until the trial, Jane Doe and her family have publicly

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Speaker 1: thousand and eight child pornography trial, where, if you recall,

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Speaker 1: Kelly was acquitted. Asked why after all these years she

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Speaker 1: continued the relationship or the friendship with R. Kelly into

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Speaker 1: her adulthood. She said, I no longer want to carry

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Speaker 1: his lies. So her aunt, Singer Sparkle, says that some

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Speaker 1: of her niece's testimony is not true. She didn't say

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Speaker 1: which ones. R Kelly is on trial and a thirteen

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Speaker 1: counter indictment including child pornography and obstruction of justice charges.

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Speaker 1: The trial is expected to last four weeks. That's a lot,

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Speaker 1: well she What Sparkle says is some of the girls

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Speaker 1: testimony is not true. See, so which part of it

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Speaker 1: is okay? Is? Yeah? See which part of this is okay?

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Speaker 1: Because see, I don't have nothing for you when it

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Speaker 1: comes to kids. Now you and grown women, man, grown women,

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Speaker 1: consensual consensual impeded visits. Yeah, I ain't got nothing to

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Speaker 1: say about that. Yeah, the fourteen when this involves a child,

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Speaker 1: I got nothing for you. No part of this is good?

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Speaker 1: Which part of it is good? We had sex, not

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Speaker 1: hundreds of time, just twenty Okay, that's better. Uh No,

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Speaker 1: he feeled. And but they got video footage? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because you don't took a smoke detective turned it into

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Speaker 1: a camera. Man. The sickness of it all. Now you

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Speaker 1: didn't get that took out? Now you n the new

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Speaker 1: homeowner discover that yeah, yeah, he got some more court cases.

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Speaker 1: He gonna be on the prison door, it would even

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Speaker 1: be on Yeah. And then by him being acquitted in

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Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, he continued that behavior and that

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Speaker 1: this is why he is where he is now. You know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's it. He got off because she lied. M Yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh this is this is heavy. This is it really

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Speaker 1: is this is this is really something. It's really it's

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Speaker 1: really sad, man. It's sad because he was such a talent,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, without a doubt and had moments of being

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Speaker 1: a cool guy when you just sit him chop it

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Speaker 1: up with him. There was moments of that really well,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't know nobody. Yeah yeah, you didn't know

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Speaker 1: behind closed doors what he was doing and what he

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Speaker 1: was capable of. Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, we're moving on.

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Speaker 1: In other news, um entertainment news, Dennis Rodman, NBA legend

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Speaker 1: Russia to seek the release of w NBA star Britney Griner,

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Speaker 1: who of course, has been sentenced to nine years in

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Speaker 1: prison on drug charges. Rodman told Rodman told NBC News

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Speaker 1: that he got permission to go to Russia to help

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Speaker 1: that girl. He went on to say he knows Russian

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Speaker 1: President Vladimir Putin too well, so I go ahead, yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ki John, Yeah yeah, Korea and pull it off there

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Speaker 1: on the gil rodman a big reward and straighten his

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Speaker 1: life out. Yeah, yeah, I hope he does. Hopefully, hopefully

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Speaker 1: he can. Yeah, I hope he can. I'm willing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad he's even willing to try and go over there,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I think it's noble as hell, right on, Dennis, exactly,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going over there. You don't know Vladimir like that. No,

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Speaker 1: it'll be looking in my shaving lotion and stuff. It's

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Speaker 1: too much. Yeah, I'll be over there traveling so light.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, what are your dru had some baby all on?

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Speaker 1: What kind of all? Y'all gonna think you ain't got nothing, Harry,

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Speaker 1: We don't recognize you. You haven't shaved. No, I ain't

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Speaker 1: got nothing in my bad So we found it you back.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you did. I didn't bring it back.

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Speaker 1: You didn't away, saying if it takes me a month,

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Speaker 1: I'm aware the same thing this month. Yeah, that's man,

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Speaker 1: But come on, Dennis, feel great it really would, it

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Speaker 1: really would? Yeah, love that? All right, Um, last story,

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Speaker 1: Miss Jackson. If your nasty, remember that saying right, people

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Speaker 1: who use old school Microsoft system people who use old

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Speaker 1: school Microsoft systems, their computers will crash if users play

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Speaker 1: Janet Jackson's Rhythm Nation video. Microsoft principal software engineer said,

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Speaker 1: it's not Janet's dancing in the video, it was that

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Speaker 1: near the laptop playing the video. Janet Jackson, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's such an icon. She's such an icon that she's

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Speaker 1: she's over here shutting down computers if you play her videos.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, Miss Jackson. Yeah. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, go vote.

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Speaker 1: Every Tuesday until the midterms, we are going to update

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Speaker 1: you on important voting information. All Right, Today, there are

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Speaker 1: seven days now seventy seven days until the midterms, and

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Speaker 1: in Texas the gubernatorial race is heating up. Just recently,

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Speaker 1: over my absolute all time favorite cuss word of all times,

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Speaker 1: bet a rock, put the R on the end of it.

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Speaker 1: The R. Yeah, he R on the end of it.

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Speaker 1: But it officially it ends in an eight. Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: according to CBS News, they're about twenty one Republican gubernatorial

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Speaker 1: candidates who have expressed barrying views about the twenty twenty election.

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Speaker 1: Some have falsely proclaimed the election was stolen. Others have

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Speaker 1: been evasive when asked if Biden's victory was legitimate. If

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Speaker 1: they got right in there and vetoed role versus way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: gay rights and all that stuff. And when they get

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Speaker 1: twenty nine, Steve, let's go to this caller just left

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Speaker 1: a message for you, Steve. What's up, Steve Harvey? Food

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Speaker 1: man turning radio down? Y'all can't be playing that painted

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Speaker 1: slow dancing. And then and then well we'll leave it

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Speaker 1: at that. Well, yeah, y'all have me late for work?

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Speaker 1: Then morning? Did one time know that? Keep up a

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Speaker 1: good for it, y'all have a good day. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: absolutely welcome, sir, Absolutely welcome. We're gonna try to get

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, but we do. This one's from Jasmine from Detroit.

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Speaker 1: Jasmine needs some parenting advice. Steve. Hi, Uncle Steve. This

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Speaker 1: is Jasmine from Detroit. I was calling because I wanted

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Speaker 1: to get some advice from you. I'm very far. I'm

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Speaker 1: a single mom. I've been single for almost ten years now,

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Speaker 1: i am divorced, and I know you talk a lot

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Speaker 1: about how men should be fathers and how women shouldn't

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Speaker 1: hold their kids away from the fathers for you know,

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Speaker 1: trivial things. In my case, I'm not a mom that

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Speaker 1: keeps my son away from his father. His father just

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to do right. My son is fourteen years old.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what would you say for single

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Speaker 1: moms that don't have a support system and don't have

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Speaker 1: fathers and their lives are males in their lives that

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Speaker 1: can influence their sons. What advice would you give to us?

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Speaker 1: And also I would like to ask would you be

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Speaker 1: writing a book on single mom raising sons for theirselves? Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Listen. As far as this the boy goes,

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Speaker 1: you have to get him in some type of program

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Speaker 1: where there's sports, Scouts or one hundred Black Men Boys

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Speaker 1: and Girls Club are because you have to get him

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Speaker 1: in a position where mentoring is occurring. Also, I would

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Speaker 1: attempt to call the father and say, listen, he really

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Speaker 1: needs you. He's going through it. Your absenteeism in his

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Speaker 1: life is hurting him at this point. And I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna get in the way, but I just really need

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Speaker 1: you to spend some time with your son because I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to turn him into a man, and

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Speaker 1: you do, and he really needs that. I would really

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Speaker 1: appreciate the help from you. I won't bother you with

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Speaker 1: try that at least. I know that's maybe uncomfortable for

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Speaker 1: you because I don't know how you all got away

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Speaker 1: from each other, what's the cause a break up or

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Speaker 1: the separation. But when it comes to for the children,

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Speaker 1: you had to make some uncomfortable decisions sometimes and do

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Speaker 1: some things that's uncomfortable. Man, he ain't gonna tie to

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Speaker 1: sleeping with you again, not that uncomfortable, but I mean,

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00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: you know, having a conversation with your ax is worth

630
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: a try. But other than that. The programs that are

631
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: out there, sports Scouting, Boys and Girls Club one hundred

632
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: Black Men had a wonderful mentoring program. M Steve, K

633
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,959
Speaker 1: no about this, No, no, no, I won't be writing

634
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: a book about that. No. No, it's too much custom

635
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:01,959
Speaker 1: to be in that book. So you get cussing a book,

636
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: just not on the radio. Yeah, glad you're gonna be

637
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: using tell your children because it just ticks me off

638
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: a bit too, because I need for brothers. I need

639
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: men out there to just look. Man, I know, I

640
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 1: know how they can be sometime. I've had X with kids.

641
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: It can be a whole bunch of challenges, but you

642
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: gotta fight through them. Yeah, because your job as the dad.

643
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now when I learned it.

644
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: God does not release you from that responsibility, fellas. He

645
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: just don't. He don't ever let you off the hook

646
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: because whatever excuse you got, it ain't it ain't gonna

647
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: do it because you're the father. So it's your job

648
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 1: to be the dad. H Yeah, all right, great advice, Jasmine.

649
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve. Come up at coming up

650
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 1: next it is the nephew and the prank phone call.

651
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: But guess what he's not here, and Junior is and

652
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna deal with the prank phone call for today

653
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show coming up at

654
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, about four minutes after. It's

655
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,399
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is why

656
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 1: does he keep me around? Why does he keep me around?

657
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: We'll find out. We'll get into it in just a

658
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: few but right now today Junior is in for the

659
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank phone call. What you got for us, Junior?

660
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: You know last year you got the nephew Downay, we

661
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: started prank you know last year. So good, what nephew,

662
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: I'm stepping up once again in place of nephew he's

663
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: not here once again with no pay. I will do

664
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 1: this now. Not trying to make more money. I just

665
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: I mean, at least, I ain't trying to get a

666
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: whole lot. Just at least just a lunch from the

667
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: nephew or something, just anything. He just your uncle pays him.

668
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: So well, you know, well, I don't know not to

669
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: ask him. I've been not ask I know I've got

670
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: that lessons what yeah, okay, go ahead, let me just

671
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: see if how you the nephew ain't here. I'm doing

672
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 1: his prank and I just want to know is it

673
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: possible I can get a raised? Yeah? Yeah, right after covida.

674
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: How that word. As soon as COVID is though, it's

675
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: here to stand, it will be here never Well, you

676
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: need to start praying there. That's when I'm passing out raised.

677
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: It's when COVID is over. For covidin the flue like

678
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: the blue who's here? It's listen. This pandemic has caused

679
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: it upheaval in the economy. I'm still trying to recover from. Yeah,

680
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need everybody in recovery mode. Now we can

681
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: look at these raises again once COVID is over. Is

682
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: that for everybody else? Everybody that can hear this. Let's

683
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: just get to the prank here. It is wedding at

684
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: the funeral. Comeball can't hello? Ryan? Hi, I'm trying to Ryan, Ryan.

685
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: How you doing? Hey, I'm good, I'm second. This is

686
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: Josh Josh over at the I want to be officials

687
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: at the church where you guys are getting married tomorrow? Yeah? Yeah,

688
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: how you doing? Man? They want to thank y'all for

689
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: that too. Man, We'll appreciate it sure. Yeah, well, we

690
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: definitely hope to make you a member here soon or later.

691
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: And you guys are getting married. You know. Hey, man,

692
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: you know I'm trying to get this worst schedule change up.

693
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They got me working on

694
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: Sundays now, man, So sons, I tweaked at the mood

695
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: that around a little bit. I'll be there. Okay, listen,

696
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 1: we have a bit of a situation that's come up.

697
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: We had some problems and miscommunication and it's definitely been

698
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: on the outside. They had your name Ryan down here

699
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: with your phone number as well as you're soon to

700
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 1: be wife Sonya. They had her name here, but we

701
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 1: didn't want to call her with this. We wanted to

702
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: just reach out and talk to you and see if

703
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: it just make you ware of what was going on. Okay, well,

704
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: what's what's going on? Man, There's been a mix up

705
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: on scheduling. I don't know if you know Such the

706
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: Older make she passed away a week ago and you're

707
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: not you're not a member of the church, so you

708
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:45,840
Speaker 1: wouldn't know it. But she's one of the one of

709
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: the oldest members here at the church. Such the Older

710
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: may passed away and what's going on? Is you all's

711
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: wedding is tomorrow at twelve o'clock, right, but the actual

712
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: funeral is at three of clod here at the church. Okay, uh,

713
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: but shame again, brother would Josh Josh? Okay look here,

714
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: brother Josh, um hey man, we we we already got

715
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: this thing in motion. Man, we didn't stand now they

716
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 1: have been a two hundred differentations. Man, I mean blessed

717
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: old man and and and I understand that, but but

718
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: but I mean, you know, she's there's no way we

719
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: could have moved it around down. The biggest problem the

720
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: funeral home is bringing the casket first thing in the morning.

721
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: So what I want what I wanted to make you

722
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: aware of, and I didn't want you to tell your

723
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: wife this, but the actual casket will be in the

724
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: Saint ar but we will have it. Hold hold on, man,

725
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: are you serious? Now? Look at y'all need to move

726
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: this round. I don't know what y'all gonna do. Y'all

727
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,959
Speaker 1: have a fellowship all in the back something like that. Ryan.

728
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: The only place we can actually put the casket, and

729
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: if we didn't put it there, is in the actual

730
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: room that you'll you'll soon to be wife would be

731
00:48:55,560 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: changing in that's the only place could have changed, no

732
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 1: room when it was dead body. But you can't even

733
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 1: and you know what, I understood that, that's the first

734
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: thing I thought of, thought, I said. And they still

735
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: put the casket where it goes for the people of them,

736
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: and we're gonna cover it up and see basically you

737
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 1: actually didn't. But I can't even believe you call on

738
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: me with did man look at and excuse my french man? Yeah,

739
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: I know I need to get back in the church,

740
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: I really do. But right now, Doug, this ain't going

741
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 1: down like this man, we didn't already paid the money

742
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: when first First, first of all, first of all, you

743
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: know she I don't even feel like she may had

744
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: to pay, you know, to hold no wedding over at

745
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 1: hut church where she paid. Tis that that's that's the

746
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: first thing. You know. I ain't like that from the jumping.

747
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't hear when women because she won't her

748
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: pasta to marry us. And now you got the nerd

749
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: to tell me that y'all, well, arrange something that funeral

750
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: gonna happen the same day as my wedding, and my

751
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: wife's got to get dressed in the room with a

752
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 1: dead body. Well, no, we're not gonna put her in

753
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: that bro I was like, I said, I'm putting that

754
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: body first thing in the morning. I'm gonna put that

755
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: body in the right there in front of the fullfit,

756
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: and we're gonna cover it. Now, what you're getting out

757
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: of is you get more flowers, because there's gonna be

758
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: flowers from the funeral. So I'm thinking that's probably gonna

759
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: be a little bit of a person point. I just

760
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: wanted you to be as probably gonna be more people

761
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,479
Speaker 1: than you think because some of the people that's gonna

762
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: be at your wedding, it's really for the funeral. A

763
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: hold of man, are you serious? Righting owt? I mean,

764
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: look at doctor, i'dn't paid for the wedding happened at

765
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 1: this church, man, Okay, ain't. And no disrespect to the

766
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: lady that is passed called blessed so family, I ain't

767
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 1: planning to not putting no dead body having a funeral

768
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: at my wedding. Man, that's crazy down on that church too, sir.

769
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: She's a member of the church too. I don't give it.

770
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 1: I don't being no member of the church. Man, I've

771
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: been paid for this wed and it's gonna happen tomorrow. Man,

772
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: you go six and of putting the dead body. It's

773
00:50:52,200 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 1: my wedding. Ryan, Ryan, I mean no disrespect, but the

774
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: woman has passed. She is not gonna get up. I mean,

775
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: what is the problem. The problem is YA called me

776
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 1: with this man the day before my wind, and we

777
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: didn't schedule there six months ago. I spend twenty five

778
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars on this wind, okay, And you're gonna

779
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: tell me that we got to share our win with

780
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: a funeral, but the Hillers won't with you? Man, do

781
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: you want to have? You're winning at this church? I

782
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: pay for them, and which we want? I'm having the wind? Okay.

783
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what lit the about the BP in

784
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: the marn and I rolling right out to the street

785
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: playing y'all sting in the front and and and throw

786
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: flowers like throwing rice. But we're gonna have a wind

787
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: inside the same tier tomorrow. I promise you that I can't.

788
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: I care not assure you that it won't be. I

789
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: have no other place to put the body, Okay, Well,

790
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: I'll bet y'all find someone to put it if I

791
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: get that a march. It's a body in there. It's

792
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: gonna be a couple of about it in there name.

793
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: You got two choices to move that funeral or to

794
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: reimburse me back this thirty thousand dollars out of an

795
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 1: hour to spend those only two choices. I want to

796
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 1: hear about it. Meet me at the front door to

797
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: night with a thirty thous and dollar cashier check. Always

798
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: said to have his winning up in that tomorrow morning.

799
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: You heard me. I ain't playing. I ain't playing at all.

800
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,840
Speaker 1: No jokes. That's wrong with y'all. Man. You can do

801
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: something else, man, I understand that I don't want to

802
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: from you. Man. All I'm saying is it's gonna be

803
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 1: a winning at this church tomorrow without saying dead about it.

804
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Push it to the band. Man.

805
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: There's there's one more, a bit of an issue that

806
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 1: I need to tell you. Also, What can be worse

807
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 1: than a dead about it? What issue can be worse dead?

808
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: By that way? The man the issue, sir, that it

809
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: is worse than the dead body is. This is Nephew

810
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your best man,

811
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: Jeff got me the prank phone call you what what

812
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 1: you Mane the bitch man about to get the best

813
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 1: bloop but he can possibly get man I playing. Then

814
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: God leads the day beat down possible band. I'll tell

815
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: you hey, one more question. What's the baddest radio show

816
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: in the land? Ryan the Steve, Alright, Dandy Shirley. We're

817
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: in in the funeral? Thanks, all right? King of Bran

818
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: all the time? No, alright, us Nah, great job. Junior

819
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 1: is always all right. Coming up next, it is a

820
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,359
Speaker 1: strawberry letter and the subject is why does he keep

821
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: me around? We'll find out. We'll get into it right

822
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show

823
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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Nation. Today are primaries in New York, Oklahoma,

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Speaker 1: Let's get serious about this voting and do our job.

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829
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Speaker 1: come on Florida. Yeah, we show up for the generals.

830
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: We gotta show up for the mid terms as well.

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Speaker 1: All right, and we're gonna switch gears. It is time

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00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

837
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: never know it could be yours all right to have

838
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 1: for another free job here it is to have the

839
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. My good friend, Shirley Strawberry. Give Junior a raise.

840
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: Thank you Junior. Subject why does he keep me around?

841
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley, My husband and I have been married

842
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: for fourteen years and we're hanging on by a thread.

843
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: We have two children, and sometimes I wonder if that's

844
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: why he stays with me. We never talk about our problems.

845
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: Things have happened in our marriage that would make a

846
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: normal couple split up, but we're not normal. At our wedding,

847
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: one of his exes showed up and cried loudly while

848
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: we set our vows. She was escorted out and he

849
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: apologized to me on the altar. It was supposed to

850
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: be the happiest day of my life, but it was ruined.

851
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 1: That was the first red flag, and over the years

852
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: he kept me guessing about her. During our tenth year

853
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: of marriage, I had an accident one night and the

854
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 1: EMTs called my husband. I was in the car with

855
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and he was pinned in the car. So

856
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: that's the night my husband found out I was having

857
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: an affair. My husband never asked me one question about

858
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: my affair, but he did make a joke about being

859
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:54,280
Speaker 1: at the wrong place at the wrong time. After my accident,

860
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: there were nights that my husband did not come home

861
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 1: and didn't call me. I felt like I could not

862
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: say a word because I was because I was full

863
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: of so much guilt for getting caught cheating. We still

864
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: have sex and act like a loving couple and outside

865
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: of our house for the sake of our kids. But

866
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: he does sleep in a separate room and said it's

867
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 1: because he snores. I will take the snoring and the

868
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: talking in the sleep just to feel his body next

869
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 1: to mine in the bed. I have no idea what's

870
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,760
Speaker 1: going on in his head. It would have been easier

871
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 1: if he had yelled, scream or cursed at me four

872
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 1: years ago, curse me out four years ago. I wonder

873
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: if he still loves me or not, or if he's

874
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: got a woman on the side. Is he with his

875
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: ex that ruined our wedding? Why does he keep me around? All? Right?

876
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: This is crazy? This is crazy right here. Surely though,

877
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: you are not comparing what your husband's ex did, I mean,

878
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: coming to your wedding and crying during your vows. You're

879
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: not comparing that to your husband finding out you were

880
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: having an affair when your lover got pinned in the

881
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: car after that accident. Okay, these are two completely different

882
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: scenarios here, And I know you know that you were cheating.

883
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: You were cheating, okay, versus a woman who cried at

884
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: your wedding. I mean, it's just not the same. It's

885
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: not the same. Why is he still with you? You asked.

886
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: That's a really good question, because men are definitely more

887
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: likely to leave and not take their wives back after cheating. Okay,

888
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: that's a proven fact, while the opposite is true for women.

889
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: Women generally, you know, after some counseling and some beggings,

890
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: some cleaning, a lot of times they'll take their husband

891
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: back after cheating. But like you said, maybe he is

892
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: staying for the kids. Maybe it is because you're comfortable

893
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: and convenient, Maybe you're familiar to him and he just

894
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,919
Speaker 1: doesn't want to leave, or maybe he's having his cake

895
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: and eating it too with you. I mean, he can

896
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: still have sex with you, and he can stay out

897
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: all night and not call you and not come home,

898
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 1: and he knows you won't say a word because of

899
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: the guilt you feel for cheating on him. So it's

900
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 1: kind of like he's got you because of this guilt

901
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: situation that you put on yourself because of that, And

902
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: that's why I think he keeps you around. But the

903
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 1: question is why do you stay? Why do you stay

904
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: and take this? I mean, you guys got to work

905
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: the situation out if it's to be worked out. Steve,

906
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: why does my husband keep me around? After reading this letter?

907
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: I don't really know, but I have a real strong

908
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: opinion about it, and I'll share it with you. Y'all

909
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: been married fourteen years and hanging on by a thread.

910
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: It's not even a thread, lady. This letter is just

911
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: two people just in something. It's not being held together

912
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: by anything. We have two children, and sometimes I wonder

913
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: if that's why he stays with me. Well, that's the

914
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: only thing I can come up with, but I have

915
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: an even better reason later on. Though we never talked

916
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 1: about our problem them things happened in our manage that

917
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: we're making a normal couple split up. We're not normal.

918
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: At the wedding, one of his actually showed up cried out, Ah, Jerron,

919
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 1: that's his name, Jerome? Why not me? I should have

920
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: been me. I didn't have on my god, I got

921
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: I got a dressed. You I got a bought a

922
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: dressed like doing the most I got. Some friends wouldn't

923
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: look good. And bros, baby, I know your best man crying.

924
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 1: I ain't even wait on the part where the man says,

925
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: is there anyone here who would find just na see?

926
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: First of all, he ain't no real he ain't no

927
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: real boy hood boy. Because out of had my boys on, look,

928
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: got any exit come to the dope. They don't even

929
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: got me. Oh my, one of my homes would have said, hey,

930
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: doore you go out there here, and you would have

931
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: known exactly what they meant. Oh hey are you get out?

932
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: Get out? Yeah? Well hang on, Steve, okay, hang on.

933
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: We'll get to part two of your response coming up

934
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letters,

935
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: subject why does he keep me around? We'll get back

936
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: into it, try to find out why right after this

937
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, come on, Steve, let's

938
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject why does he keep

939
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: me around? Yeah, y'all got problems? Two kids at you wedding?

940
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: Oh started here. One of his ex was at crime Holland.

941
01:00:52,880 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: Like I said, I had, I got some cute friends.

942
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: Would have been brides. Man, I know you'll best man.

943
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: I met your mamma, your mamma, and back you see

944
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: me miss Anto. Oh yeah, she's back to tacking the food.

945
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: She was escorted out. He apologized to me at the

946
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: altars supposed me to happen to day in your life.

947
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: But you lord, you say that that should have been

948
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: the first red flame. But then y'all didn't talk about it.

949
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: So you kept on so over the years, uh damn

950
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: d before it didn't don't just go right there, roll

951
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: under your desk, right. I don't think that's ever happened

952
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: before on the air, Steve. So that was the first

953
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: red flag. Then over the years he kept me get

954
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: sing about her. Don't well, y'all, don't talk. So I

955
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: guess you ain't got nothing to do. But gast you

956
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: didn't bring up no more. He just left you guessing.

957
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: Y'all don't talk and uh But around about the tenth

958
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: year of the marriage, I had an accident one night

959
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: and the e MPs called my husband. I was in

960
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: the car with my boyfriend and he was peeling in

961
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 1: the car. You wrote that census like it belonged. Now, yeah,

962
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,439
Speaker 1: you just put that in the ldder like what nothing

963
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: doing out tienth year. I was in the cars and

964
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 1: then with my boyfriend and they're gonna call my husband

965
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 1: because he was peeling. Then, well I don't know how

966
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: so so so call my husband for what? You should

967
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: have walked off? Yeah, I can't be in that car.

968
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: You wasn't peeing, inn he was peeling. Then you couldn't

969
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 1: get him out walk off. You crossed the street at

970
01:02:56,760 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: the corner stone, looking at the whole thing. Well, how

971
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: would she explain that to her man? What? It's her car? Right? No,

972
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't her car. I think it was her car,

973
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: wasn't and he's him? Yeah, she just said penned in

974
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 1: the car. Yeah, Oh, what I have just said? My

975
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: car was stolen. I walked off. Somebody stole the car.

976
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:24,439
Speaker 1: I don't know how he got in the passenger seat,

977
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: but he got penned in. That's probably how the car

978
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 1: f lift though, and that's why they called her husband. Yeah, okay,

979
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: so that's the night my husband found out I was

980
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: having an affair. That's not true. My husband never asked

981
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: me one question about my family, because that's not the

982
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 1: night he found out. He already knew. That's why he

983
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: didn't say nothing. But then he asked him. But he

984
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: was joking about being me being in the wrong place

985
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 1: of wrong time after my accident. That was night that

986
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: my husband didn't come home and didn't call me. He

987
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: got a free pass. You know what your husband saying, Oh,

988
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: this is what we're doing. Yeah cool, Oh cool. I

989
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: ain't got to play this off no more. I felt

990
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 1: like I couldn't say a word because I was full

991
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: of so much guilt for being caught cheap. Yeah. Now

992
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: we still have sex and act like a loving couple

993
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: inn and outside of our house for the sake of

994
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 1: the kid. But he does sleep in a separate room.

995
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 1: And he said, because he's snow he said, and he tied.

996
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: It ain't Yoe Knight. It ain't Yoe knight. I got

997
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: the rest. I would take the snowing and talking in

998
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 1: his sleep, just to feel his body next to mine

999
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: in the bed. What you just want something? I have

1000
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: no idea what's going on in his head? Oh? I

1001
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 1: can tell you exactly what's going on in his head.

1002
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: It would have been easy if he had just yelled,

1003
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: scream and customed me out four years ago. I wonder

1004
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 1: if he still loves me, or night he ain't in

1005
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:58,439
Speaker 1: love with you, you're sleeping with another dude. He ain't

1006
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: in love with you. You ain't saying you stopped having

1007
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: another fan. You didn't say that. No, he don't love you.

1008
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 1: Or if he's got a woman on the side, Yes, yeah,

1009
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: he don't come over, He don't call you, He ain't

1010
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: playing cards, Yes he got another woman on the side.

1011
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: Is he with this ex that ruled? Now? Why is

1012
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: that a question? Why is that even important? What difference

1013
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: do it make? Who he with? He would more than

1014
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: one person. I tell you that right now. He lived

1015
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 1: his best life. Why does he keep me around? Are

1016
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 1: you kidding me? Why would he leave? Why not? Yeah,

1017
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: here's a man that's getting all the sex he won't

1018
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 1: you still have sex with him and he can come

1019
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: in when he wants to stay out when he wants

1020
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: to have sex with somebody else. You don't say nothing

1021
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: about that, and you don't say nothing when y'all have sex.

1022
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: It's a perfect scenario. Oh my god, who wouldn't take that?

1023
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if it isn't a little miss attatude,

1024
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 1: come on today night. That's my favorite thing. I saw

1025
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 1: tick talk. I don't know who the dude voice is,

1026
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: but they put it on a little cute girls, little

1027
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 1: babies when they do it. Oh my god, if it

1028
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: isn't me, little miss Antaitude. His name Martin Laurence. I

1029
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 1: don't know where they got that from, really, but I

1030
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: didn't know where it was anyway. Lady, Wait, you're not

1031
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 1: looking forward? Answer to get out? So whatever whatever? Both

1032
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: y'all in trouble. Y'all ain't got no man. Yeah, the

1033
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 1: marriage is doomed. You're right. Poster your comments on Today's

1034
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook,

1035
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now

1036
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. You

1037
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: know what time it is? Time for junior and sports

1038
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: talk right after this. You're listening Steve, all right at

1039
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: the time now for junior and sports talk. What you

1040
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: got junior? All right, Shirley, First of all, let everybody

1041
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:14,040
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1044
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: Piper Tom. He is like, here, what's up, Junior? What

1045
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 1: you got going on? Yeah, man, listen if I just

1046
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: want to get your take on the team we're gonna

1047
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: see this season in the NFL. Just wasn't how you

1048
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: feeling about what the pimps is talking about? All right?

1049
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 1: Chiefs Chief Well, you know the Chiefs, they're gonna be

1050
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 1: in it, but they ain't gonna win it. Mahone and

1051
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: just a bad boy, but they ain't gonna run him

1052
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: in the Buffalo this year in Buffalo, Gona handed to him. Yeah, bubbaloo.

1053
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: You know, Browns would have been in good shape. And

1054
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 1: Sean got eleven games suspension. We gonna say why, but

1055
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: some people, well just go ahead, move my once to

1056
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 1: the seawanee is what's that when you get your massages,

1057
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: you haven't got to stop turning over, though. You just

1058
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 1: got to stay on your stomach. You gotta stay a

1059
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: little stomach. Him your whole problem. Star. As soon as

1060
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: you turn over, you want to start talking to him

1061
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:22,639
Speaker 1: and the thing. Just stay on your stomach. As soon

1062
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 1: as you flip over, you want everybody see you, and

1063
01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: you wanta start talking. Who else you got? James, Cowboys,

1064
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:36,600
Speaker 1: pivot what you feel? Cowboys? Ain't this? Ain't you don't know?

1065
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 1: You know? I love Jay Jones, I love all the players.

1066
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: I love Dad Elliott, I love cec Lam, I love

1067
01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: it players. Man, I just don't like that star on

1068
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,799
Speaker 1: the side of that helm. Me and I can't stand

1069
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: when they say a man because team Yeah, I don't

1070
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 1: really get a damn what they do. Okay, that's honest.

1071
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 1: What about them? Pippy probably be back in Super Bowl,

1072
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 1: super Bowl Chimp Cincinnati in Cincinnati, No him, No, I'm

1073
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 1: from Cleveland. I can't do no day to wink. I

1074
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 1: don't get damn one hip Joe. I'm damn bout joe Vin,

1075
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: joe Vin, We're Cleveland. Don't jim him Damn I No,

1076
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 1: damn Joe Vinean Washson. We're gonna die as soon as

1077
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: he goes. As soon as he quit flipping over, We're

1078
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 1: gonna be thank you, pimp. I just had to find

1079
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,720
Speaker 1: out how you felt, pimp. All right, Junior, thank you,

1080
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: thanks pimp. Coming up at the top of the hour,

1081
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: a guy on social media needs our help. His mom

1082
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: invited his ex to dinner. Then there's another guy who

1083
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: needs help, Steve, because his son is into hot auntie porn.

1084
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: We'll talk about this. We'll talk about it when we

1085
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 1: come back. Right after this, you're listening to show, guys.

1086
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: This was on Facebook. T Mac wrote this, Thanksgiving might

1087
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 1: be awkward. I just walked in on my teenage son

1088
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: enjoying some quote adult content time. A quick search revealed

1089
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: that his choice to watch is hot auntie porn. It's

1090
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: not making me wonder, it's now making me wonder if

1091
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 1: I should tell my wife about it, and if it's

1092
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 1: a good idea to invite her sister over for the holidays.

1093
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: Am I reading too much into this? Yeah? Yeah, he

1094
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: just like older woman, dog. Yeah, he just that's what

1095
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah. I had to thank for older woman

1096
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: when I was you know too, I like mind starter

1097
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: when I was twelve. Yeah, I was a little with

1098
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 1: my Sunday school teacher. I knew everything about the lord

1099
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 1: back then asked me anything. Yeah, mine divided attention. I

1100
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:09,680
Speaker 1: kept no stockings. God. All right, Now here's another one.

1101
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: So so you're saying it's not a big deal, he's

1102
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: just ain't no big deal. P it's on TV, hot, Auntie, pawn.

1103
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 1: He just in that you know his when when when

1104
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: your wife's sister come over his aunt Yeah? Yeah, he

1105
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:31,639
Speaker 1: had from feelings aunty you know Auntie five? Oh happy

1106
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: thanksgiving up to his conversation towards her talking nobody else

1107
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: you like stuff? All right? Here's another one. Steve Dave

1108
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 1: on Twitter wrote, what do you do when you and

1109
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 1: your girlfriend break up on bad terms but your mom

1110
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 1: just adores her? Yesterday, my mama invited her out to eat,

1111
01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 1: invited me out to eat, but didn't tell me that

1112
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:03,639
Speaker 1: she had invited the X two. And maybe she's hoping

1113
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: to get us back together, who knows. But I can't

1114
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 1: seem to get it into her head that this relationship

1115
01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 1: is over and now she's crossing lines. How can I

1116
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 1: make the point even more clear than I already have?

1117
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:20,599
Speaker 1: When she show up, Just get up and walk off, Mama,

1118
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 1: This ain't happening. Y'all broke up on bad turns. Just

1119
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 1: ain't working. I'm not getting back with her, but this

1120
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: was bad. Rude Steve just walking off. Yeah, your mama

1121
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 1: with your mamma, take you sit back down, Mama. I

1122
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,640
Speaker 1: can't do it. I'm sorry. Not if she hire h No,

1123
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 1: but I know mama like her. But the mama don't know.

1124
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: She cheated on this boy. Oh is that what had happened? Yeah, yeah,

1125
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 1: this was a bad break up. Yeah, he said it

1126
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 1: was bad. He said it was bad. It was cheating.

1127
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 1: Was involved. Either she busted him with the chick that

1128
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 1: he really won't or he busted her. Either way it

1129
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 1: was bad bad. Yeah, yeah, maybe it was. And you know,

1130
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 1: mama don't know because she's such a sweet girl and

1131
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 1: I want you with her because y'all was gonna give

1132
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: me some grand babies and this was gonna be bail.

1133
01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: So you can shut up here. You just you your

1134
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 1: things happen, work through it. It's a bad break up.

1135
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 1: It's hard to eat hard. He should just leave, he

1136
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: should just walk away. He should just leave your thing, mama. Mama,

1137
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 1: this ain't gonna have him. Stop inviting her over here.

1138
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 1: All you just go ahead tell you, mama, what happened?

1139
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 1: He shapt with dog Davis, who just blurts it out

1140
01:13:50,200 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, appetizing Davis, dog Davis. You know, alwa day.

1141
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:06,559
Speaker 1: I always had him Spanish Roman nobody, you know, if

1142
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 1: it ain't that natural real name unless he used his

1143
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: rap name. What little baby dove ball, A little baby everybody,

1144
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 1: little baby, I don't know, a little little baby, little Duval,

1145
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 1: little smack, little baby tea get well, little Duvall. Yeah,

1146
01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: a lot of little We'll have more of the dar Davis,

1147
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:46,640
Speaker 1: Harvey Shaw like bay minutes after the hour, darn Davis.

1148
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah you're listening, all right. So Steve, we saw a

1149
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: video did you see this gun viral of George Clinton,

1150
01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 1: who is eighty one years old? George Clinton? It's a

1151
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:05,799
Speaker 1: parliament thing, partying with the Ques. No, he is a kid, okay,

1152
01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 1: and he was partying with the Ques. Yeah, yeah, he's

1153
01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 1: he's a memorable making out. He wrote a tonic dog.

1154
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 1: I know that he's eighty one. We love now. I

1155
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 1: saw the video when it happened. That was bros in

1156
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 1: that shooting that lie. They sent that to me. I've

1157
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 1: been I was, I was on that phold that when

1158
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 1: went viral. He was a part of it. Every cueing

1159
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 1: scene that this is a story about a famous dog. Yeah,

1160
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 1: that was talking about me. Yeah, you're a famous That's

1161
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: why I took I took it like that. It was

1162
01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: a great video, man, he eighty one. He loved Yeah.

1163
01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 1: He when the bros. When he around the Brothers, he

1164
01:15:53,160 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: loves it. One of the greatest moves we've made. Just

1165
01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:03,560
Speaker 1: a celebration. Man. I was at the Good Show, you know,

1166
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 1: before my TV show. When I'm coming out my dressing room,

1167
01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: they played Tommy Doll. If it's a queue in the

1168
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 1: audience anywhere, I can look on the monitor and he

1169
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 1: out there, he out there, step oh, here we go,

1170
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 1: like you're right now, I'm getting save. You'll still be

1171
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: doing that at eighty one? Yes, all right, coming up

1172
01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:33,640
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around it.

1173
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this you're listening to show,

1174
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: it is time now for would you rather? Would you

1175
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 1: rather see what was behind every closed door or be

1176
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,280
Speaker 1: able to guess the combination of every safe on the

1177
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:56,840
Speaker 1: first try. I try, I'll give a damn horse behind

1178
01:16:56,920 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 1: them door. Yeah, b B like that every safe on

1179
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 1: the first try. Okay, all right. Would you rather include

1180
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 1: mine because you don't know you're coming? You mess it

1181
01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 1: up on the first try every time? All right? Would

1182
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 1: you rather sleep with your boss for promotion but everyone

1183
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 1: knows about it? Or would you rather sleep with your

1184
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:32,800
Speaker 1: best friend's spouse for world peace? Which one? Uh? Huh?

1185
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 1: How don't you change your mind? Yeah, so you're gonna

1186
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: get that promotion but everyone knows about it. That's fine,

1187
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 1: that's fine. Yeah, I don't care about that. Yeah, I

1188
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:49,679
Speaker 1: got the promotion. Yeah, I'm your boss. Yes, yes, deal

1189
01:17:49,760 --> 01:17:56,799
Speaker 1: with it. Okay, yes, sleep with your best friend's spouse

1190
01:17:57,360 --> 01:18:01,960
Speaker 1: for world peace? The whole world? The first one's just

1191
01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 1: about you. So are you gonna save the world? Steve?

1192
01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:10,920
Speaker 1: Are you gonna get a would you now my bedfriend wife?

1193
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 1: Ain't that fine? Are they listening? Crazy? Pass? I'd rather

1194
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 1: get my stomach pumped. I got any number thing for

1195
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: I spleep with his wife. Would you rather eat only

1196
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:45,400
Speaker 1: raw food? Or would you rather eat only burnt food?

1197
01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:55,639
Speaker 1: Or only burnt? Burnt? Piss me off? Burn burnt steak?

1198
01:18:56,040 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 1: No at you like a little charm? No that that

1199
01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: little chaw and burnt different thing? I like it? Burnt

1200
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:13,639
Speaker 1: is how my sister Megan eats all foods burnt. Really.

1201
01:19:15,560 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hey, man, is ridiculous. It's dry. Oh my god,

1202
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 1: where to God? It's a land animal. You're crazy. All right,

1203
01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 1: that's it for would you rather for today? Coming up

1204
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after it is our last break

1205
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 1: of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks from

1206
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: the one innimly Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening,

1207
01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 1: all right, guys, here we are our last break of

1208
01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:53,679
Speaker 1: the day on this Tuesday. So far, so good, yes,

1209
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: good show ye m M have fun today. All right.

1210
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: See before we get to your clothing or before we

1211
01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:03,559
Speaker 1: get out of here, I should say we have one

1212
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: more voicemail from a pastor named Will. Take a listen,

1213
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: doctor Steve Harvey. One more again, Thank you, thank you.

1214
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 1: This is Reverend Will. That you should be in the

1215
01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:19,479
Speaker 1: screet life. That just I just want to say it again.

1216
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:23,840
Speaker 1: Please keep up that what you doing, keep up that

1217
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:28,439
Speaker 1: at that six o'clock wake up and at ten fifteen

1218
01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:32,200
Speaker 1: to ten closing remarks. That is so wonderful. I'm gonna

1219
01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 1: say it again. That's part the top of your blessing.

1220
01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: That God is blessing you because you're delivering something for

1221
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:45,679
Speaker 1: God to tell folks like myself, so I could imagine

1222
01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 1: the millions of folks that's listening, but I just had

1223
01:20:49,320 --> 01:20:53,560
Speaker 1: to testify on it. Thank you, Steve R. D. Not

1224
01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:55,760
Speaker 1: to tell you a black man what. Thank God at

1225
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 1: that too. But I mean, I'm not prejudiced or nothing

1226
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,160
Speaker 1: like that. But thank God that we got a person,

1227
01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 1: a brother that's doing what you're doing and waking up

1228
01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:08,840
Speaker 1: other souls. I don't know you. I knew you're waking

1229
01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:12,360
Speaker 1: up other racest too, but thank God for what you're doing.

1230
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 1: You are a blessing Steve Harvey. It's no one you you.

1231
01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:21,720
Speaker 1: You're a blessing brother. Please keep doing God's worth and

1232
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: God bless you on all the stuff that do. Your family, few,

1233
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 1: the judge, thang and your radio station. Let God touch

1234
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: keep touching that Father, Thank you, Thank you for Steve Harvey. God,

1235
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:38,600
Speaker 1: Thank you in the name of Jesus. Thank you for

1236
01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: him waking up dead souls. Thank you God, keep touching him,

1237
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: his wife, his family, his staff, Keep touching them God

1238
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: and Jesus's great name. Thank you Steve Harvey, and keep

1239
01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 1: on the journey with God. God bless you, my brother.

1240
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:01,680
Speaker 1: Let God be with you, Steve, thank you. And you

1241
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:03,920
Speaker 1: know I wasn't gonna do a closing remark. I was

1242
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 1: gonna do a question, but I got to do one.

1243
01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 1: Now you got to keep on, you know what he

1244
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:16,760
Speaker 1: was saying, though, I have to again, I have to

1245
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:22,360
Speaker 1: give God all the credit, to honor, the glory, the praise,

1246
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 1: because you know, man, I really, I really wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: nothing without God. And I really, I really imployed people

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Speaker 1: to form a relationship with God. I mean, look, man,

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Speaker 1: it's real easy, it really is, you know, y'all. Look

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Speaker 1: for those of you that's way out there like I was.

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Speaker 1: I was way out there, but I knew the way back.

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Speaker 1: I knew. I was raised by my mama in the church,

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Speaker 1: so I knew about it. I just went when I

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Speaker 1: went off to college, man, that who I threw my

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Speaker 1: life in a spot. Oh boy. I started participating and

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Speaker 1: I participated strongly, strongly till I was about really man,

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Speaker 1: I didn't pull it together till I was about forty eight.

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Speaker 1: I just got tired of myself. And I said this before,

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Speaker 1: maybe sometimes you ever get sick and tired of yourself,

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Speaker 1: you ever get sick and tired of the way your

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Speaker 1: life is gone. But you really have nobody else to

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Speaker 1: blame because you're the only one that's making them decisions.

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Speaker 1: That's bringing about half two circumstances in your life. I mean,

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Speaker 1: life already got a series of events and circumstances that's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen that you have no control over. But when

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Speaker 1: you're making decisions to be in a relationship that ain't

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Speaker 1: healthy for you, to go in the direction that ain't

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Speaker 1: healthy for you, to keep associating with people, that ain't

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Speaker 1: healthy for you to keep doing the same thing over

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Speaker 1: and over expecting a different result. If you don't do

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Speaker 1: something different, you will remain the same. And then you're

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Speaker 1: mad at God. I don't see why he see me

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Speaker 1: down here. Ha ha ha ha. God has gone through

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Speaker 1: extra measures to make sure that we are the one

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Speaker 1: creation that has the power of choice. Other animals don't

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Speaker 1: have that power. They can't decide when they have sex,

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Speaker 1: they mate doing a certain season, animals are born doing

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Speaker 1: a certain period of time. All the will to beast

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Speaker 1: calves on the plains of Africa, born together. All that

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Speaker 1: it just happens. Man. All the birds flock to certain

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Speaker 1: regions to nest and have babies at the same time.

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Speaker 1: All that deers have babies at the same time of

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Speaker 1: the year, but people can do it all year round.

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Speaker 1: So He's gone through extra measures to make sure we

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Speaker 1: have the power of choice. So y'all start record nizing

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Speaker 1: that you have a choice in this. You can have

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Speaker 1: a relationship with God. It's easy. All you have to

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Speaker 1: do is go somewhere by yourself and sit down and

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Speaker 1: just say it. Hey, Lord, man, I'm tripping. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know the way. I don't see the light. I

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Speaker 1: ain't got the light. I ain't got no, I ain't

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Speaker 1: got the button. I don't know where to switch at.

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Speaker 1: I need some help. Can you just help me? What

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Speaker 1: do I do? Tell me, show me where to go?

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Speaker 1: What do I need to read? Who? What church? What's

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Speaker 1: somebody man that could get me on track? Do it

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Speaker 1: for your instant think about God is here right now? God.

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Speaker 1: It don't take God a loan to do nothing. But

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Speaker 1: now understand something. It's just a process. You got to

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Speaker 1: get in the process. You understand and the process means

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01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,840
Speaker 1: it starts. But you got to be willing to go

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Speaker 1: through the process. Stop giving up so quickly. He heard you.

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Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen when you want it to happen.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, hardly anything I've ever asked

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Speaker 1: God for it happened exactly when I asked for it

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Speaker 1: to happen. But I'll tell you what it all happened,

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Speaker 1: and it happened way bigger and better than what I

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Speaker 1: asked for. So if I was, you out form relationship

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Speaker 1: with it. It's vital, it's necessary. It's really really cool too, man,

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Speaker 1: I thank you. That's my clothes with mars Hey, y'all

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Speaker 1: talk to God that David As to lose and love

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