WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Better Late Than Never 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.080 All right, you found out your brand new Second Date 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:03.480 podcast starts right now. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:05.240 It's Brooking Jeffrey in the Morning, the home of the 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:06.080 Second Date Update. 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:09.760 But before we get to it, lots of reactions Yesterday's 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:14.319 Awkward Tuesday, and uh, a lot of disappointment in our 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:15.120 own Alexis. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.040 I know, you never know how many people listen till 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:22.840 you do something wrong. Yeah, and then they own comments. Yeah, 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:25.240 you owe everyone in apology. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:26.280 I do what happened. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.840 I'm sorry, guys, honestly I don't know, but half the 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:31.320 awkward cut off at the end. Okay, I'm saying I 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.080 don't know, like I don't know how, but I fixed it. 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:36.480 But a lot of you guys did go crazy when 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:39.320 it did cut off mid call, which I understand, and 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:42.440 I do appreciate the one or two people who specifically 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.440 called me out in the comments. What happened? 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.519 Like, oh no, she may have gotten into one or 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:50.560 two of her white claws that are sitting at her desk. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:55.360 Maybe, so I'm gonna triple quadruple check from now on. 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:55.720 Guys. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:57.440 Okay, maybe I should have done that in the first place, 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:58.760 but you know, you learn. 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:01.440 You should anytime people make mistakes. You get more traction, 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:02.360 more people. 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:04.280 No such thing as bad jo. 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:07.840 Listen to the podcast. Maybe it's not all uploaded. 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:10.560 Yeah, yeah, try to find the end. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.080 You hear part two of the Second Date I don't know. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.720 And if you didn't get the whole awkward go back 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:17.320 listen to it tomorrow's because it is fair. 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:20.480 Yeah, let's get today's breanding. Second Date updates started. 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:26.240 Second Date update. This is not a new thing. It's 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:27.559 a broken Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:29.240 We've been doing this segment for a long time. 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:33.919 Jeff Well, not a segment. I mean, it's not new 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.080 that we've talked about. When you're more than five to 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.800 ten minutes late to a first date, I think we 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:41.480 can all agree at least a text is needed to 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:42.440 give them an update. 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.399 Yeah, yeah, what minutes? 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:46.240 I even think five? 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:46.880 Five? 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:47.520 Yeah? 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:48.360 Five? 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:50.200 Sitting there alone feels like a long. 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.080 But the thing is, what do you say to keep 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:55.200 it light and fun? 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:55.680 Still? 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:58.640 Do you go with like a sorry I'm late. I 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.440 just needed some extra time to emotionally prepare myself for 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:02.400 how hot you are? 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:05.760 Did that take you five minutes to come up with? 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:07.880 And I feel like you're standing on the door just walking. 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:11.760 I mean, use the wasted time the right way, or 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:14.959 do you go with my personal favorite, sorry I'm late. 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:18.880 My pants were fighting me and frankly they lost what 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:20.200 because you know what? 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:20.640 Pants? 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:25.200 Exactly? Keep it mysterious and flirting so that she's wondering 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:25.880 the whole time. 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:27.639 Regretfully have them. 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:29.839 Yeah, I don't know that. I'm glad we're not doing 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:30.720 textual healing right now. 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:30.920 Yea. 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.680 The reason that I bring it all up, all this 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:37.000 lateness is because our buddy Kyle says he was late 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.440 for his date the other day, and I want to 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:42.079 know what he texted to her. Kyle, what was your 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:43.480 line when you were late? 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.000 I didn't really have a line. I kind of was 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:48.079 just like, hey, sorry, I'm gonna late. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:51.120 That's solid. 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:53.440 I don't want to use the fighting pants line the 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.440 next time, because I would like to use it. 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:56.320 I don't know. 0:02:58.200 --> 0:03:00.760 I don't like a lot of community apparently. 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.880 But also, if you think about it, you don't want 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:04.600 to make a big deal. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:06.320 You're already late. You want to make it quick. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.400 I'll be right there, are breaking this up. 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:14.080 You're done with questions, question questions for you? Tell us 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:18.000 about your date? Oh, what was this lady's name that 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:18.440 you met? 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.800 The other day. So her name is Ashley. 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:23.120 Okay, okay, I would ask where you met her, but 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.239 I apparently am just really upse good. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.600 That's a terrible question. Go back to the date, Kyle. 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:31.040 So I kind of introduced her through some mutual friends. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:33.880 I met her, Yet this is going to be our 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:35.160 first time. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.360 Meeting, so it's like an old fashioned blind date. 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:38.480 Yeah. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.360 So we were supposed to go to dinner and then 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:41.800 you know, maybe it's like a movie. We didn't really 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.640 have a clear plan. But it was Friday night and 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:46.440 traffic was extremely bad. 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.800 But wait, she devoted a Friday night date to you. 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:52.560 That is already a good side. 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:54.200 Wait, why is Friday a good sign. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.720 You don't give up weekend nights. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.960 For Friday is a weekend? 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.720 No, Well, if it's a Tuesday afternoon date, Jeff, it's. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:03.040 Not hot, gotcha. So Friday night you're saying traffic on 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.000 the way was terrible. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:05.800 You know how some people when they get nervous, they 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:07.440 like shake their knee like they're like bumping it. 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:07.920 Up and down. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.240 Yeah, I was doing that a lot, to the point 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:12.720 where my shoe came off while I was driving, Like 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.760 I was extremely nervous. 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:18.279 Panic attack while you were driving in a shoe came off. 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:19.720 I was freaking out. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.080 I didn't I didn't want to be late, so I 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.240 had to pull over to fix it. But when I 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:25.680 pulled over, I guess my car was sticking. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.440 Out in the road too much. 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:28.560 And this guy that was talking at me, and you know, 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:31.120 I'm not the most patient person, so we got into 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.080 a little bit of I would call it a little 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.280 bit of road range. 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:38.400 Yeah, this is all before you arrived to the date. 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:39.800 This is explaining, this. 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:42.760 Is all leading up to the date why we're not 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:43.680 in a good mindset. 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:45.279 My friend, you're a road rage guy. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.760 Yeah, I wouldn't say I'm I'm a road rage guys. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.599 The point where I galloped the car on, screaming, but 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:51.720 you know, like I'm yelling, I'm lifting up my shoe, 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:53.640 being like, hey, all I'm trying to do is pull this. 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.680 All I'm trying to pay that now looks like you're 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:57.599 threatening the other time. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:00.600 Now, I'm really glad all you said your date was 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:01.320 sorry I'm late. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:04.840 Yeah, any more explanation of what just went down could 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:06.440 have been a red fla. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:10.400 I'm trying, Okay, I'm trying. I'm really sort that's why. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.520 I tried to keep it simple, but I was getting 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:15.159 close to the restaurant and I realized that my breath 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:17.480 though I had a little bit of garlic for lunch. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.919 So wait, now you have stinky breath. You're late, and 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.680 you were just in a road range incident. 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:25.080 Yeah, it had been a very long, long day. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:26.880 His date doesn't know any of that. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:29.119 Well, I understand. I'm just thinking of his mental state. 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.960 Walking into the restaurant seems great. 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:34.320 I'm thinking dishoveled. 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:36.080 Did you stop to get gum? 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:36.360 Then? 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:37.320 Yeah? 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:39.680 So I told her that I stopped at the drug 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.680 store to get something. I didn't tell it was dumb. 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:42.480 I didn't want her to know. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.560 Oh, she probably thinks you're stopping to get prophylactics for 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:46.240 the end of the day. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:51.160 I'm thinking something worse, like an antibiotic for oh. 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:53.720 Oh. Yeah. No, I didn't tell her, but I let 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:54.000 her know. 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.560 So I got there around like twenty five to thirty 0:05:57.600 --> 0:05:58.120 minutes late. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:59.960 Oh too. 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:02.440 And it sounds like you're doing errands instead. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.680 You say, I'm stopping at the store. 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:06.600 Yeap, What was it like? 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.599 You could tell that she was a little annoyed, And 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:12.159 I understand that because I would be too, but you know, 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.120 I apologize. She eventually kind of. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.680 Just like rolled her eyes, made a joke about it, 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:17.480 and we moved on. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.760 Okay, Yeah, so it sounds like things are getting back 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:22.159 on track. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:23.119 Yeah. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.520 I mean I ordered those both doubles when we got 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.320 there because we both had a rough day. 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:29.680 Everything seemed like it was gonna be okay. 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.479 But as dinner started ending, like I started realizing, like 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.160 she definitely brought up going back to her place anymore, 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:35.480 and we. 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.280 Talked about that a lot in the text, so I 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.200 was like, oh, you tried to hint at it a 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:40.600 little bit. 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:41.919 I had a couple of drinks, so you know, I 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.440 wasn't like in my best date of mind, so I 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:46.080 tried to hint at it. I was like, wow, you know, 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:49.120 it's so early, we could go and do whatever. 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.120 Trying to get her to take the lead to be like, 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:53.520 oh let's do movies now. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.480 Yeah yeah exactly. I was like, I'll you we could 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.440 like go back to your place and watch a movie. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.480 This is why you plan Friday night meals. Last Friday 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.000 night date was like, we'll have the date and if 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:05.960 things go well, then maybe we can hang out after 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:06.680 two because. 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.880 It's Friday exactly. Man, we had that whole conversation. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.120 Everything seemed like it was leading to that point, and 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.840 then she hits me with, Oh, you know, I'm a 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.960 school teacher, so I have to grade capers. 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:23.320 Oh it's Friday night, late night paper graded after a 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:24.200 couple of drinks. 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:27.760 Did you believe that? 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:32.680 No, yeah, it is a Friday night. 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:35.040 You are here with me getting drinks on a Friday night. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.160 There's no way you're gonna go home and go Yeah, 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:38.400 you know, I'm just gonna grade some of you. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.680 I'm just pretty funking before the real party starts. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.000 Rainy night. You're not a dedicated school teacher, though, are you? 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:47.760 Like you're actually care I'm wondering if she decided before 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.320 she even saw you, just because you're half an hour late. 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:53.280 You come in, you do a bunch of apologies. 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.720 Like shoe, you order a double shot the second. I 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:58.160 don't know why she wouldn't want to go out. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.000 I just wondering if she didn't give you the chance 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.240 that maybe you were hoping for. 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:05.040 Yeah, yeah, and I mean again, like I understand, but 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:07.960 I feel like I tried my best to like bring 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.800 the conversation back on conversations there weren't weren't bad, Like 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:12.840 it seems like everything was going well. 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:15.080 But yeah, but when you're that late, you're starting in 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:15.600 the hole. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:16.080 Yeah. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:17.840 The good news is we live in that hole, so 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:19.720 we can help. We know all the ways to get 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.040 out of it. We're gonna try and help you. We're 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:24.120 gonna call, We're gonna try and get you your second 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:27.960 date update with Ashley right after this. Hold on second 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:31.920 date update if you're just joining us for the second 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.760 date update. We've been talking to Kyle, and here's the 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.080 unfortunate thing that happened to him, without any fault of 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:43.040 his own. He was late. Yeah, I mean I would 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.160 really like a bunch of Yeah. 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:48.040 Well, like the shoe came off because he was nervous 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:49.120 and he couldn't control, and that he. 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:50.679 Got in a fight with the guy. 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:54.079 A few people in our studio do assume that he 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.719 walked in looking disheveled and bloody and angry and immediately 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.240 ordered himself a double shot. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.600 I don't know where he got bloody either, Like 'm 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.920 bloody how. 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:09.120 So it's not a great look. But let's remember he 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.040 did order her a double shot too. Yeah, let's give 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:13.040 him a little bit of credit. 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:15.840 It was a double shot. I thought it was just 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:16.600 a double dream. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.400 It is so impressive come with shot glasses compared to 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:24.000 coming with it. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:29.160 Yeah, fair point. You guys are right. But apparently there 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:33.000 was some texting before the date about possibly hanging out afterwards, 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.880 maybe even to watch a movie at her place, which 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:39.480 is something that she never brought up. So was she 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:42.400 turned off by his lateness or was it something else. 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:44.520 That's our job to figure out and do whatever we 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.920 can to help Kyle get another hangout. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.160 Yeah, we never even heard Kyle. Have you talked to 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:50.000 her since the date? 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:50.679 Yeah? 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:55.720 No, No I haven't. I've been trying to get it. Yeah, 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:58.000 so I had, I had reached out. I didn't hear anything. 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:01.720 So so my friends said, had asked, how did they go? 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:04.440 I kind of told them what happened, if they could, 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:06.240 like see if they could do any digging for me, 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:07.800 And I never really heard anything back. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.080 Man, you never talk to your friends about your dating life. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:13.640 You set them up. 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.559 No, always come to us first. We'll give you an 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.760 honest opinion whether or not you're gonna like it at all. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:27.720 Maybe she's still grading papers, it's just been a really busy. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:26.680 You don't want her because she's boring. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:31.160 I mean, she's a great teacher, boring exactly. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.080 So let's just call her. We'll see if she picks 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.280 up and hopefully has some answers for us. But I'm 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:40.439 going to dial her number right now. It's Ashley, right, yeah, okay, Okay, 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:41.120 here we go. 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:50.320 Hello. 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.280 Hi is this Ashley? 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:55.800 Yeah? 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:03.400 How you doing today? Who is this? Is a radio show. 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:05.000 We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:05.960 Your favorite students. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:07.920 What is it? 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:13.240 No, you're on the radio right now. We're Brook and 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.600 Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're doing a segment called 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:16.680 a second Date Update. 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:20.120 I wish it was that Teacher of the Year segment 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:20.560 that we. 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:26.200 Do, but okay, yeah, alright, so what is it? 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.120 See? This is a dating segment where we try to 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.280 help out our listeners who have gone out with somebody 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.480 and afterwards, if they're not getting a call back, we 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:38.160 try to help figure out the reason why. Okay, and you, 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.800 according to our sources, went out with one of our 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:42.480 listeners named Kyle recently. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.960 Our source is Kyle. Just so you know, well, don't 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:46.880 give away. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.040 Yeah, what about it? 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.440 Okay, Well, Kyle had some really nice things to say 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:53.720 about you and about your date. 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:55.800 That's surprising. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.920 Okay, Oh, it's surprising that he enjoyed it. 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:01.960 He was talking about me and not himself. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:10.600 Oh yeah, Because the thing is, Kyle isn't one hundred 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:14.080 percent sure why you aren't meeting up a second time. 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:17.240 He does acknowledge that he was late to the date, 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:19.000 and he okay. 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:20.640 So he did tell you that. Okay, So yeah, he's 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:22.599 still on that. Okay, Yes, he was late. He was 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:23.120 very late. 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.280 Wait he's still on that? What do you mean by that? 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.760 I mean, before I even see this guy, I get 0:12:27.800 --> 0:12:30.880 three separate texts within like the forty five minutes late. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:34.160 He was like, oh, I think I'm going to be late. Sorry, 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:36.160 I'm going to be late. It looks like I'm going 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:36.559 to be late. 0:12:36.600 --> 0:12:39.720 I was like, for the love of god, well. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.320 Hold on, don't you like the communication to let you know? 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:43.719 I mean, you can just say it once and give 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:45.400 me an eta and then like I can chill. It's 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:47.480 just like play by play was like not native and 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:48.840 I can see. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:51.000 It sounded like he was really nervous before the date 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.280 and that he was really looking forward to it. So 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:56.400 maybe he just overdid the communication because he felt bad. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:58.920 So was it already over even by the time that 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:00.959 he just arrived at the restaurant. 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:04.880 Uh, not necessarily, but I mean it's like all we 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:05.480 talked about. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.640 He's like, Okay, so. 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:11.600 This happened in my shoe and then like the drug store, 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:13.960 and I'm like, oh my god. I'm like, okay, okay, 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.080 are we gonna like, are we gonna go on a date? 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.080 Are we just going to like recap the reason you 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:19.800 relate to this date in the first place. 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.320 So you're already trying to move on though. 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.760 That's a good song, No, one hundred percent. I understand 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.840 things happen. You can be late. But then that's like 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:29.120 all he's I mean, guys, he was like stopping the waiter. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:31.880 I was like, finally, I'm freaking starving, like with or something. 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.040 He's like, no, no, I'll give us fifteen minutes. I got 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:35.520 to talk to her and then just like went on 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:38.040 and on about the lateness, and I'm like, can I 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:40.199 get a taco? Like please? 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:43.080 Okaya? 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:46.360 Like what if he was just nervous, you know, like 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.400 he messed up and he knows it. 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:50.560 It almost feels like he plans this to have like 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:52.480 subject matter to talk about on this date. 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:56.480 Well, you planned to be late and the shoe just 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.120 so he had conversation. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.000 He was like, this could be interesting. It made him 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.960 feel like I felt crazy. I was like, can we 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.600 do can you talk about anything else? 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.400 Oh my god, he's creating a date story. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:09.280 He did tell us the whole story, but only once. Yeah, 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:10.839 he told us once. 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.160 He loved the story. It's his favorite story. And I 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.040 can't believe he called the radio to tell it again. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.320 You maybe we can hear one more time when we 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.120 bring him on right now, because he is on the 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:23.840 other line. He really is. He's there listening and hoping 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:25.480 to talk to you. Kyle E. 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.200 Hi, Actually, what's up? 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:29.560 Kyle? 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:32.600 All right? You know you do. 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.880 I totally understand what you're saying, Like, I get it. 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.640 I didn't really mean to Blake. I just wanted you 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:40.080 to know, like it really was a crazy situation. 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:41.520 Like I was driving. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.200 I really didn't know like what else to do because 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:46.280 I was I was just nervous. 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:49.400 My shoe fell off, Like you guys, you. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:50.640 Get that party. 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:53.240 Wait wait wait wait wait which foot? Which foot was 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:53.680 the shoe on? 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.320 Don't encourage him. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:57.920 Kyle, don't tell the story again. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:01.840 Okay, okay, okay, yeah, yes, I get I repeated it 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:05.560 a lot of times, but you understand how crazy of 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:09.600 the story it is, Like. 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:12.760 You, it's anything. I don't want you to tell her. 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:21.160 The lady at the stores, she's okay, you guys, let's 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.640 call time out on the conversation. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:24.840 There's a lot going on here, and I want to 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.520 save some of Kyle's story for the side podcast that 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:29.240 we do with Brook, Alexis and Jose. 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:32.560 Yeah, that's just the shoe story. Yeah, we just do 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:33.280 a shoe story. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:38.040 Clearly, Clearly, Ashley, he was very, very flustered by the 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.160 journey over to meet up with you on the date, 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:42.080 and he felt like it was important to at least 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:43.800 get it out there to explain himself. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:46.560 He's literally still doing it, I know, but I think 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:47.720 it's because he's defensive. 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.400 More importantly, it's because he likes you. 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.880 Yeah, and you know, I was really looking forward to 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.000 going back to your house, you know, watching that movie, 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.720 and you know, maybe we could have ended up doing 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:01.840 something like later on that night, while like I was 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.080 really just look, how could we even do stuff? 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:06.920 All you're going to keep doing is talking about this. 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.400 I'm swear, I'm flustering, dude. I like it it's a wrap, like, 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.520