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Speaker 1: All right, you found out your brand new Second Date

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Speaker 1: podcast starts right now.

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Speaker 2: It's Brooking Jeffrey in the Morning, the home of the

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: But before we get to it, lots of reactions Yesterday's

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Speaker 1: Awkward Tuesday, and uh, a lot of disappointment in our

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Speaker 1: own Alexis.

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Speaker 3: I know, you never know how many people listen till

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Speaker 3: you do something wrong. Yeah, and then they own comments. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you owe everyone in apology.

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Speaker 2: I do what happened.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys, honestly I don't know, but half the

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Speaker 3: awkward cut off at the end. Okay, I'm saying I

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Speaker 3: don't know, like I don't know how, but I fixed it.

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Speaker 3: But a lot of you guys did go crazy when

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Speaker 3: it did cut off mid call, which I understand, and

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Speaker 3: I do appreciate the one or two people who specifically

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Speaker 3: called me out in the comments. What happened?

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Speaker 1: Like, oh no, she may have gotten into one or

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Speaker 1: two of her white claws that are sitting at her desk.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, so I'm gonna triple quadruple check from now on.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe I should have done that in the first place,

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Speaker 3: but you know, you learn.

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Speaker 5: You should anytime people make mistakes. You get more traction,

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Speaker 5: more people.

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Speaker 6: No such thing as bad jo.

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Speaker 5: Listen to the podcast. Maybe it's not all uploaded.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, try to find the end.

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Speaker 3: You hear part two of the Second Date I don't know.

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Speaker 1: And if you didn't get the whole awkward go back

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Speaker 1: listen to it tomorrow's because it is fair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get today's breanding. Second Date updates started.

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Speaker 6: Second Date update. This is not a new thing. It's

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Speaker 6: a broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: We've been doing this segment for a long time.

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Speaker 6: Jeff Well, not a segment. I mean, it's not new

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Speaker 6: that we've talked about. When you're more than five to

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Speaker 6: ten minutes late to a first date, I think we

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Speaker 6: can all agree at least a text is needed to

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Speaker 6: give them an update.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what minutes?

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Speaker 2: I even think five?

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Speaker 5: Five?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Five?

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Speaker 3: Sitting there alone feels like a long.

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Speaker 6: But the thing is, what do you say to keep

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Speaker 6: it light and fun?

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Speaker 7: Still?

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Speaker 6: Do you go with like a sorry I'm late. I

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Speaker 6: just needed some extra time to emotionally prepare myself for

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Speaker 6: how hot you are?

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Speaker 2: Did that take you five minutes to come up with?

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Speaker 2: And I feel like you're standing on the door just walking.

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Speaker 6: I mean, use the wasted time the right way, or

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Speaker 6: do you go with my personal favorite, sorry I'm late.

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Speaker 6: My pants were fighting me and frankly they lost what

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Speaker 6: because you know what?

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Speaker 2: Pants?

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Speaker 6: Exactly? Keep it mysterious and flirting so that she's wondering

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Speaker 6: the whole time.

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Speaker 5: Regretfully have them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that. I'm glad we're not doing

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Speaker 2: textual healing right now.

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Speaker 5: Yea.

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Speaker 6: The reason that I bring it all up, all this

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Speaker 6: lateness is because our buddy Kyle says he was late

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Speaker 6: for his date the other day, and I want to

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Speaker 6: know what he texted to her. Kyle, what was your

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Speaker 6: line when you were late?

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Speaker 8: I didn't really have a line. I kind of was

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Speaker 8: just like, hey, sorry, I'm gonna late.

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Speaker 3: That's solid.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to use the fighting pants line the

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Speaker 6: next time, because I would like to use it.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't like a lot of community apparently.

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Speaker 4: But also, if you think about it, you don't want

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Speaker 4: to make a big deal.

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Speaker 5: You're already late. You want to make it quick.

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Speaker 2: I'll be right there, are breaking this up.

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Speaker 6: You're done with questions, question questions for you? Tell us

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Speaker 6: about your date? Oh, what was this lady's name that

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Speaker 6: you met?

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Speaker 7: The other day. So her name is Ashley.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I would ask where you met her, but

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Speaker 1: I apparently am just really upse good.

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Speaker 6: That's a terrible question. Go back to the date, Kyle.

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Speaker 7: So I kind of introduced her through some mutual friends.

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Speaker 8: I met her, Yet this is going to be our

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Speaker 2: Meeting, so it's like an old fashioned blind date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: So we were supposed to go to dinner and then

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Speaker 8: you know, maybe it's like a movie. We didn't really

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Speaker 8: have a clear plan. But it was Friday night and

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Speaker 8: traffic was extremely bad.

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Speaker 2: But wait, she devoted a Friday night date to you.

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Speaker 2: That is already a good side.

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Speaker 6: Wait, why is Friday a good sign.

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Speaker 3: You don't give up weekend nights.

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Speaker 6: For Friday is a weekend?

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Speaker 5: No, Well, if it's a Tuesday afternoon date, Jeff, it's.

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Speaker 6: Not hot, gotcha. So Friday night you're saying traffic on

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Speaker 8: You know how some people when they get nervous, they

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Speaker 7: Up and down.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I was doing that a lot, to the point

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Speaker 8: where my shoe came off while I was driving, Like

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Speaker 8: I was extremely nervous.

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Speaker 2: Panic attack while you were driving in a shoe came off.

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Speaker 7: I was freaking out.

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Speaker 8: I didn't I didn't want to be late, so I

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Speaker 8: had to pull over to fix it. But when I

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Speaker 7: Out in the road too much.

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Speaker 8: And this guy that was talking at me, and you know,

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Speaker 8: I'm not the most patient person, so we got into

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Speaker 8: a little bit of I would call it a little

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Speaker 8: bit of road range.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is all before you arrived to the date.

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Speaker 6: This is explaining, this.

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Speaker 1: Is all leading up to the date why we're not

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Speaker 1: in a good mindset.

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Speaker 2: My friend, you're a road rage guy.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I wouldn't say I'm I'm a road rage guys.

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Speaker 8: The point where I galloped the car on, screaming, but

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Speaker 8: you know, like I'm yelling, I'm lifting up my shoe,

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Speaker 8: being like, hey, all I'm trying to do is pull this.

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Speaker 6: All I'm trying to pay that now looks like you're

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Speaker 6: threatening the other time.

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Speaker 2: Now, I'm really glad all you said your date was

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Speaker 2: sorry I'm late.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, any more explanation of what just went down could

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Speaker 7: I'm trying, Okay, I'm trying. I'm really sort that's why.

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Speaker 8: I tried to keep it simple, but I was getting

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Speaker 8: close to the restaurant and I realized that my breath

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Speaker 8: though I had a little bit of garlic for lunch.

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Speaker 1: So wait, now you have stinky breath. You're late, and

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Speaker 1: you were just in a road range incident.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it had been a very long, long day.

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Speaker 6: His date doesn't know any of that.

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Speaker 1: Well, I understand. I'm just thinking of his mental state.

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Speaker 1: Walking into the restaurant seems great.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking dishoveled.

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Speaker 2: Did you stop to get gum?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: So I told her that I stopped at the drug

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Speaker 7: I didn't want her to know.

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Speaker 6: Oh, she probably thinks you're stopping to get prophylactics for

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Speaker 6: the end of the day.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking something worse, like an antibiotic for oh.

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Speaker 7: Oh. Yeah. No, I didn't tell her, but I let

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Speaker 8: So I got there around like twenty five to thirty

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Speaker 5: Oh too.

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Speaker 2: And it sounds like you're doing errands instead.

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Speaker 5: You say, I'm stopping at the store.

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Speaker 2: Yeap, What was it like?

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Speaker 7: You could tell that she was a little annoyed, And

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Speaker 7: I understand that because I would be too, but you know,

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Speaker 7: I apologize. She eventually kind of.

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Speaker 8: Just like rolled her eyes, made a joke about it,

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so it sounds like things are getting back

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I mean I ordered those both doubles when we got

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Speaker 7: Everything seemed like it was gonna be okay.

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Speaker 8: But as dinner started ending, like I started realizing, like

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Speaker 7: Talked about that a lot in the text, so I

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Speaker 8: I had a couple of drinks, so you know, I

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Speaker 8: tried to hint at it. I was like, wow, you know,

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Speaker 8: it's so early, we could go and do whatever.

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Speaker 6: Trying to get her to take the lead to be like,

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Speaker 6: oh let's do movies now.

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Speaker 8: Yeah yeah exactly. I was like, I'll you we could

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Speaker 5: This is why you plan Friday night meals. Last Friday

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Speaker 5: night date was like, we'll have the date and if

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Speaker 5: things go well, then maybe we can hang out after

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Speaker 5: two because.

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Speaker 7: It's Friday exactly. Man, we had that whole conversation.

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Speaker 8: Everything seemed like it was leading to that point, and

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Speaker 8: then she hits me with, Oh, you know, I'm a

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Speaker 8: school teacher, so I have to grade capers.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's Friday night, late night paper graded after a

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Speaker 1: couple of drinks.

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Speaker 5: Did you believe that?

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Speaker 7: No, yeah, it is a Friday night.

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Speaker 8: You are here with me getting drinks on a Friday night.

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Speaker 8: There's no way you're gonna go home and go Yeah,

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Speaker 8: you know, I'm just gonna grade some of you.

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Speaker 5: I'm just pretty funking before the real party starts.

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Speaker 6: Rainy night. You're not a dedicated school teacher, though, are you?

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Speaker 1: Like you're actually care I'm wondering if she decided before

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Speaker 1: she even saw you, just because you're half an hour late.

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Speaker 2: You come in, you do a bunch of apologies.

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Speaker 6: Like shoe, you order a double shot the second. I

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Speaker 6: don't know why she wouldn't want to go out.

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Speaker 2: I just wondering if she didn't give you the chance

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Speaker 2: that maybe you were hoping for.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, and I mean again, like I understand, but

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Speaker 8: I feel like I tried my best to like bring

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Speaker 8: the conversation back on conversations there weren't weren't bad, Like

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Speaker 8: it seems like everything was going well.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, but when you're that late, you're starting in

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Speaker 5: the hole.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: The good news is we live in that hole, so

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Speaker 6: we can help. We know all the ways to get

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Speaker 6: out of it. We're gonna try and help you. We're

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Speaker 6: gonna call, We're gonna try and get you your second

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Speaker 6: date update with Ashley right after this. Hold on second

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Speaker 6: date update if you're just joining us for the second

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Speaker 6: date update. We've been talking to Kyle, and here's the

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Speaker 2: It was a double shot. I thought it was just

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Speaker 6: Yeah, fair point. You guys are right. But apparently there

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Speaker 6: That's our job to figure out and do whatever we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we never even heard Kyle. Have you talked to

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Speaker 7: No, No I haven't. I've been trying to get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I kind of told them what happened, if they could,

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Speaker 6: Man, you never talk to your friends about your dating life.

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Speaker 2: You set them up.

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Speaker 6: No, always come to us first. We'll give you an

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's still grading papers, it's just been a really busy.

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Speaker 5: You don't want her because she's boring.

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Speaker 6: So let's just call her. We'll see if she picks

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Speaker 6: going to dial her number right now. It's Ashley, right, yeah, okay, Okay,

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hi is this Ashley?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: How you doing today? Who is this? Is a radio show.

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Speaker 6: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Your favorite students.

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Speaker 9: What is it?

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Speaker 6: No, you're on the radio right now. We're Brook and

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're doing a segment called

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Speaker 6: a second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: I wish it was that Teacher of the Year segment

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Speaker 9: Do, but okay, yeah, alright, so what is it?

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Speaker 6: See? This is a dating segment where we try to

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Speaker 6: according to our sources, went out with one of our

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Speaker 2: Our source is Kyle. Just so you know, well, don't

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Speaker 9: Yeah, what about it?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, Kyle had some really nice things to say

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Speaker 9: That's surprising.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, it's surprising that he enjoyed it.

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Speaker 9: He was talking about me and not himself.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Because the thing is, Kyle isn't one hundred

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Speaker 4: percent sure why you aren't meeting up a second time.

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Speaker 6: He does acknowledge that he was late to the date,

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Speaker 6: and he okay.

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Speaker 9: So he did tell you that. Okay, So yeah, he's

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Speaker 9: still on that. Okay, Yes, he was late. He was

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Speaker 9: very late.

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Speaker 9: I mean, before I even see this guy, I get

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Speaker 9: He was like, oh, I think I'm going to be late. Sorry,

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Speaker 9: I'm going to be late. It looks like I'm going

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Speaker 7: I was like, for the love of god, well.

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Speaker 6: Hold on, don't you like the communication to let you know?

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Speaker 9: I mean, you can just say it once and give

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Speaker 1: It sounded like he was really nervous before the date

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Speaker 6: So was it already over even by the time that

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Speaker 9: Uh, not necessarily, but I mean it's like all we

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Speaker 7: He's like, Okay, so.

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Speaker 9: This happened in my shoe and then like the drug store,

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Speaker 9: and I'm like, oh my god. I'm like, okay, okay,

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Speaker 9: Are we just going to like recap the reason you

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Speaker 5: So you're already trying to move on though.

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Speaker 9: That's a good song, No, one hundred percent. I understand

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Speaker 9: things happen. You can be late. But then that's like

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Speaker 9: all he's I mean, guys, he was like stopping the waiter.

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Speaker 9: I was like, finally, I'm freaking starving, like with or something.

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Speaker 9: He's like, no, no, I'll give us fifteen minutes. I got

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Speaker 9: get a taco? Like please?

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Speaker 6: Okaya?

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Speaker 1: Like what if he was just nervous, you know, like

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Speaker 9: It almost feels like he plans this to have like

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Speaker 1: Well, you planned to be late and the shoe just

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Speaker 9: He was like, this could be interesting. It made him

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, he's creating a date story.

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Speaker 2: He did tell us the whole story, but only once. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: He loved the story. It's his favorite story. And I

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Speaker 6: You maybe we can hear one more time when we

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Speaker 6: bring him on right now, because he is on the

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Speaker 7: Hi, Actually, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Kyle?

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Speaker 7: All right? You know you do.

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Speaker 8: I totally understand what you're saying, Like, I get it.

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Speaker 8: I didn't really mean to Blake. I just wanted you

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Speaker 7: Like I was driving.

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Speaker 8: I really didn't know like what else to do because

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Speaker 8: I was I was just nervous.

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Speaker 7: My shoe fell off, Like you guys, you.

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Speaker 9: Get that party.

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Speaker 6: Wait wait wait wait wait which foot? Which foot was

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Speaker 9: Don't encourage him.

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Speaker 3: Kyle, don't tell the story again.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, okay, yeah, yes, I get I repeated it

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Speaker 9: You, it's anything. I don't want you to tell her.

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Speaker 8: The lady at the stores, she's okay, you guys, let's

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Speaker 6: There's a lot going on here, and I want to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just the shoe story. Yeah, we just do

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Speaker 6: Clearly, Clearly, Ashley, he was very, very flustered by the

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Speaker 1: He's literally still doing it, I know, but I think

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Speaker 6: More importantly, it's because he likes you.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and you know, I was really looking forward to

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Speaker 8: going back to your house, you know, watching that movie,

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Speaker 8: and you know, maybe we could have ended up doing

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Speaker 9: All you're going to keep doing is talking about this.

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Speaker 9: I'm swear, I'm flustering, dude. I like it it's a wrap, like,

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Speaker 9: what are we doing on the radio?

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Speaker 6: Okay, what we're doing is we're going to offer to

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Speaker 6: assuming you're probably too busy grading like school papers and

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Speaker 9: By the way, Oh no, no, no, I'm I'm good. I'm

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Speaker 3: That was such a cold excuse not to hang out

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yo, what else was I supposed to do? Who

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Speaker 9: was killing me? Like? At least that I was like,

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Speaker 9: I have, like I have an actual thing to do,

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Speaker 9: that's like a job. Maybe he would like release me

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to laugh.

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Speaker 2: It's just she has very clear boundaries. Yes she wants

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Speaker 6: But I don't.

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Speaker 9: I just want to have a meal. I don't like

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Speaker 9: that's not a huge boundary.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, ask I get it, I get it.

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Speaker 7: I get it.

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Speaker 8: You want me to reac out, But you're talking about

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Speaker 8: this meal, the meal, the meal, the meal, the meal time.

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Speaker 9: Are you out of your mind?

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Speaker 8: Does I'm just saying you were talking about recapping, and

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Speaker 8: then now we're recapping this whole thing about how I

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Speaker 9: Like reverb.

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Speaker 2: Let's end this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 6: The lines right now, so we send you out one

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Speaker 6: more time, last chance.

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Speaker 2: I think, end the story. Yeah, this story is over.

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Speaker 9: Okay, goodbye radio people.

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Speaker 6: Oh man, Kyle, I'm sorry, man.

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Speaker 8: Well to be honest, good because I need I need

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Speaker 7: Going on here.

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Speaker 8: You know, I'm saying like I'm being I'm being told

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Speaker 8: exact same thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think you picked up what.

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Speaker 7: She was what he was saying.

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Speaker 5: But okaytood so much.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but take us back to the traffic light. Okay,

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Speaker 6: go back to the chair, because I'm still curious.

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Speaker 8: I mean, you actually want to know.

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning. You know, I felt bad for

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Speaker 6: And in his defense, a lot of dating is talking

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Speaker 6: about things that happened to you in your.

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Speaker 3: Life's different things and then asking about their things.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, but I can also understand his date's perspective.

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Speaker 6: She doesn't want to rehash the details over and over

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Speaker 6: and hear how the sausage was made. She just literally

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Speaker 6: wants to eat sausage.

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Speaker 1: We were set up for like failure from the beginning,

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Speaker 1: rehash what happened.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the whole point of the segment is.

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Speaker 1: To rehash what happened on the date, which is exactly

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Speaker 1: the last thing.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to do.

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Speaker 6: Here against it Son, still don't.

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Speaker 2: Really understand the sausage thing.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, but she didn't want to hear why he

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Speaker 6: was late.

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Speaker 2: She wanted a tac jeff Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's just me. But whatever food you like to

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Speaker 6: eat or talk about, we can help you in your

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Speaker 6: dating life. You can always email the show and we

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Speaker 6: can help call that person who hasn't calling you back.

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Speaker 6: And go check out our second Dates wherever you get

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Speaker 6: your podcasts are available online at Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,